Jennette McCurdy gets candid about life as a child star in new memoir

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  • @KamisKisses
    @KamisKisses 2 роки тому +14804

    People really don't understand how evil adults can be to their kids. Brilliant title. I wish Jennette all the best; this is a story that needs to be told.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 роки тому +142

      Yes her story needs to be told

    • @JustLoz
      @JustLoz 2 роки тому +76

      Respectfully💯

    • @brett8460
      @brett8460 2 роки тому +189

      Jennette said she was the family breadwinner. Her mom forced her into showbiz to support the family (like Bella Thorne) and it wasn't fun for her.

    • @aghost9614
      @aghost9614 2 роки тому

      Yup exactly like the MJ accusers who used their kids to take his money. Bunch of scums.

    • @littlelucky9879
      @littlelucky9879 2 роки тому +104

      My mom were so close growing up. I mean so close, I would sit on the toilet or floor of the bathroom while she showered, sometimes she’d take me to work worth her during her overnight shift and I’d sleep in the break room. It wasn’t until before her death I started to piece together, the abuse and terrible things she did my entire childhood. And it wasn’t until after she died, I learned about all of her lies and hated her. With time that’s passed, I’ve learned to forgive most of what she’s done. But if given the choice to bring her back to life, I wouldn’t.

  • @clemsonfox
    @clemsonfox 2 роки тому +12000

    She’s doing the right thing by telling the truth about what she went through while she was on Nickelodeon for the past six years. I’m glad that Miranda, Nathan, and Jerry are supporting her as she went through so much trauma. The title of the book is very shocking but tells the audience why she quit acting.

    • @HaLucha0
      @HaLucha0 2 роки тому +491

      The title ain't too shocking once you learn about how Jennette's mom was. A monster

    • @Zzz2x
      @Zzz2x 2 роки тому +35

      they never supported her

    • @brett8460
      @brett8460 2 роки тому +191

      IIRC, Jennette never wanted to be an actress. Her mom forced her into showbiz to support the family and it wasn't fun for her.

    • @cloudysupreme9859
      @cloudysupreme9859 2 роки тому +108

      @@Zzz2x They do support her wdym

    • @LM-qv7cy
      @LM-qv7cy 2 роки тому +82

      She definitely abuse by the people in the industry. There so many actor and actress that are abuse, but might not be able to speak up because they might get blacklisted or may have sign an NDA 😕

  • @HartfordHobo
    @HartfordHobo 2 роки тому +3766

    She is a PROFESSIONAL! The way she spun her way out of the messy Nickelodeon question? Exceptional.

    • @soccerchamp81
      @soccerchamp81 2 роки тому +68

      YASSS PROUD OF THAT

    • @qorin3854
      @qorin3854 2 роки тому +7

      ikr

    • @iwantyezijeiandjiutostepon4471
      @iwantyezijeiandjiutostepon4471 2 роки тому +100

      I'm surprised he worded the question so bluntly... Can't Nickelodeon sue for that question?? I don't even think he said "allegedly"

    • @kman1489
      @kman1489 2 роки тому +59

      The news network clearly pushed him to push that question. Her 180 back on it was perfect.

    • @gageadams8864
      @gageadams8864 2 роки тому +50

      I was just sitting here going "smart, very smart response". Great way to answer that question.

  • @ljawkward986
    @ljawkward986 2 роки тому +2991

    She’s very carefully crafting her replies and avoiding certain questions. she’s brilliant

    • @yotubek
      @yotubek 2 роки тому +143

      She is fantastic. Her sharp wit and irresistible charm elevated her Nickelodeon shows to such a high level. But yes, she has to be quite careful with these responses. She shouldn't have to be.....but that is the world we live in.

    • @duchuynhvuong1733
      @duchuynhvuong1733 2 роки тому

      ok

    • @thitam5003
      @thitam5003 2 роки тому

      ok

    • @GasStationSushiiii
      @GasStationSushiiii 2 роки тому +17

      She doesn’t want to get sued by Dan Schnieder, guaranteed

    • @joevarga5982
      @joevarga5982 2 роки тому +1

      Is that a sign of brilliance? Because Kamala Harris and Joe Biden and Karine Jean-Pierre all do the same thing.

  • @Himsofinee
    @Himsofinee 2 роки тому +3590

    I’m so glad she didn’t answer his questions in the way he wanted because all she wants us to do is literally read what’s in the book. I appreciate her for that. Much respect in how she handled this on live television.

    • @Jeremy-wp4yh
      @Jeremy-wp4yh 2 роки тому +25

      You mean she wants to make sales.

    • @dingdongpoopoo7605
      @dingdongpoopoo7605 2 роки тому +310

      That and it's probably very deliberately worded/edited in the book to avoid a lawsuit. Too risky to have an on air conversation about it

    • @Wxtst.3
      @Wxtst.3 2 роки тому +280

      @@Jeremy-wp4yh No shit, sherlock. All power to her for writing a book and wanting to sell it like every other author/ public figure writing about their life. Lmao.

    • @eveningwhisk7736
      @eveningwhisk7736 2 роки тому +16

      Why does this look like a therapy session. Instead of her giving an interview.

    • @Jeremy-wp4yh
      @Jeremy-wp4yh 2 роки тому +10

      @@Wxtst.3 I just find it strange when people trauma dump in a book and sell it. Just go to therapy. Everything isn't meant to be shared to such an extent

  • @rosieb9
    @rosieb9 2 роки тому +3866

    “Anybody that understands parental abuse understands this title” ABSOLUTELY! Good for her. She found her outlet to heal herself.

    • @julianacheriza9673
      @julianacheriza9673 2 роки тому +37

      Yup!!!! I understand!

    • @hillarysudeikis2264
      @hillarysudeikis2264 2 роки тому

      Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
      Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
      So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.

    • @hillarysudeikis2264
      @hillarysudeikis2264 2 роки тому

      @@julianacheriza9673 forgive so that God can forgive you,
      Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
      Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
      So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.

    • @teresamonica8387
      @teresamonica8387 2 роки тому +8

      I'm sure it helps other

    • @Deathdeathdeathmoney
      @Deathdeathdeathmoney 2 роки тому +51

      @@broombromden498 parental abuse is when the parent(s) inflict harm onto said child or children, project ur illiterate words onto someone else loll

  • @Instagraham_llc
    @Instagraham_llc 2 роки тому +3770

    I completely commend her. Parental abuse is a real thing. Child industry abuse is a real thing. Healing is a process and that fact she is healing is a huge accomplishment.

    • @AnaDiaz-wz4cf
      @AnaDiaz-wz4cf 2 роки тому +61

      Now days it's much worse with all the tik-tok moms, youtube family vloggers and "mom-fluencers"
      There aren't even laws to protect these children that are literally working since before they are born (pregnancy announcements, gender reveal and baby shower videos, baby mama dances🙄) then it's the labor vlog, day in the life of a newborn.. etc... Those kids are working many hours a week making videos and the worst thing is they're having their entire life posted online (some get many millions of views, lots from creeps🤢) zero privacy while the parents make a lot of money from views, ads, sponsored products...

    • @ogenglishchat9502
      @ogenglishchat9502 2 роки тому +10

      @@AnaDiaz-wz4cf Wow! Didn't look at it that way, but it's so true.

    • @LidyaRach
      @LidyaRach 2 роки тому +5

      That’s absolutely true

    • @AnaSuarez628
      @AnaSuarez628 2 роки тому +4

      @@AnaDiaz-wz4cf I can't agree more!

    • @Chatterbox-94
      @Chatterbox-94 2 роки тому +6

      I was once an extra for a TV series and saw a woman who was also an extra yelling and physically slapping her child on the set. The kid had to be at least 6. It really is grotesque what child actors go through.

  • @celrocc8766
    @celrocc8766 2 роки тому +719

    She had more finesse in handling the questions on her own terms than more seasoned vets. I never watched her show, nor did I have an abusive mother but I support the title of her book & I'm so glad that in writing it she has started her journey to healing. All the best to her.

    • @Blissfulbizz
      @Blissfulbizz 2 роки тому +14

      It’s because she’s forgiven herself and it shows. The more you heal, the less you become defensive because you’ve already had that conversation with yourself. It shows how big of a person she is. I am so proud of her and I don’t even know her.

  • @KassieFrass
    @KassieFrass 2 роки тому +1944

    The fact that she was able to say that she misses her mom shows that she has healed. People can be abusive and you can have good memories at the same time. It’s so hard but I support her talking about it and working towards her own happiness.

    • @Sarcasticron
      @Sarcasticron 2 роки тому +61

      I'm sure this is the case with her. But also, certain kinds of emotional abuse can leave a person longing for the abuser for an unusually long time. If they're very bad for you, and you keep thinking about how much you cared about them, you might need to remind yourself about the bad times, so you don't put yourself in danger again.

    • @patrickdornoff2735
      @patrickdornoff2735 2 роки тому +1

      Of course thats her mom so thats a given she'd miss her being here

    • @saranguyen2788
      @saranguyen2788 2 роки тому +12

      @@Sarcasticron This! It hits close to home. I contemplated suicide for years & eventually attempted suicide from the continued emotional abuse & manipulation of my parent. I established minimal contact with my parent but also there's this longing for connection. I always have to remind myself of the bad times in order to protect myself since this person still treats me the same way as an adult. Being an empathic person with a narcissistic parent is not fun :( I'm healing though :)

    • @sophiathekitteh
      @sophiathekitteh 2 роки тому +1

      good to hear that Sara! My Dad S.A. ed me when I was 12. He was a heavy drinker and smoker. He died from alcohol poisoning when I was ~16.

    • @-ninjanOodlez
      @-ninjanOodlez 2 роки тому

      I strive to get to that level of forgiveness. It's a tricky thing. One day I'd say I've forgiven my dad, but the next day I wanna fly back to where he's at and kill him for what he's done to me.

  • @ashsmee
    @ashsmee 2 роки тому +3148

    We can’t silence child abuse survivors. Their feelings and experiences are valid. What a strong strong woman!

    • @hillarysudeikis2264
      @hillarysudeikis2264 2 роки тому

      Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
      Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
      So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.

    • @sorimasn
      @sorimasn 2 роки тому +7

      Nobody is silencing them. Relax with the hashtag/bumper sticker sentences.

    • @kungfu_kenny4135
      @kungfu_kenny4135 2 роки тому +83

      @@sorimasn relax with the trolling. Countless abuse victims have been silenced, you’re only showing your ignorance.

    • @zev2x762
      @zev2x762 2 роки тому +30

      @@kungfu_kenny4135 yeah almost no-one takes this stuff seriously until it happens to them.

    • @marla591
      @marla591 2 роки тому +18

      @@sorimasn learn to omit the word "relax" in the future until you understand how to use it wisely.

  • @Alexandra_Wolf
    @Alexandra_Wolf 2 роки тому +1855

    She hit it on the head by saying “anyone who experienced abuse understands this title and anyone with a sense of humor”.

    • @javii9768
      @javii9768 2 роки тому +30

      Dark humor

    • @Big_Nutty
      @Big_Nutty 2 роки тому +2

      Yes 🙌🏾

    • @anabelleb9919
      @anabelleb9919 2 роки тому

      Yup

    • @XteenGorgeous
      @XteenGorgeous 2 роки тому +4

      I promise you, My mom is the villain in my story but I would never write a fucking book bashing her and title it that I'm glad she died. I'm sorry, but I disagree.

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      @LoveLove-ur8qx 2 роки тому

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  • @karlieschneider6575
    @karlieschneider6575 2 роки тому +250

    The fact that her brothers are supportive of the book speaks volumes. Proves how awful the emotional, verbal, & physical abuse was.

    • @lorenn107
      @lorenn107 5 місяців тому +4

      It adds credibility, but her experience doesn't require her brothers' corroboration as often kids will have very different experiences with parents and are not treated the same.

  • @crystalhowell3175
    @crystalhowell3175 2 роки тому +2307

    I think the people who are offended by the title have never been abused by their mother, plain and simple. But those are the same people who have NO right to tell survivors of child abuse how to feel. They have no idea what it’s like.

    • @lstarsabb
      @lstarsabb 2 роки тому +124

      Yes broken and toxic families are hard for a lot of people to understand it one thing to just not like you family but when they abuse you it another story.

    • @dgrace8058
      @dgrace8058 2 роки тому +95

      I've never been abused by my mother but I can understand enough and not be offended by it.

    • @Thesilentvoice...
      @Thesilentvoice... 2 роки тому +19

      I’m not offended by the title but I think about my mom and she was so giving and selfless. She’s passed like Jeannette’s mom, but I can see why she feels that way. Her mom wasn’t there for her, it’s a response to that. However it’s understandable why people are shocked by the title, I couldn’t say that about my mom as I was blessed with a terrific mother.

    • @lemotheemonemo
      @lemotheemonemo 2 роки тому +81

      That, or they're mothers abusing their kids and don't want to be held accountable.

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 2 роки тому +10

      @@lemotheemonemo Exactly!

  • @phoebebuffay1566
    @phoebebuffay1566 2 роки тому +1458

    "I'm glad my mother died" is the most honest, most resonating memoir title I have ever seen. Will be buying her book. I hope those of us who have suffered from parental abuse can start speaking up and heal.

    • @sivialove475
      @sivialove475 2 роки тому +7

      Im thinking about getting the book too honestly

    • @longlivebeans
      @longlivebeans 2 роки тому

      Shit I can think of a couple people I’d be glad to see die lol we gotta stop living in denial. We all got that one person we’re waiting on.

    • @sampaguita.
      @sampaguita. 2 роки тому +6

      Well said 💛💛

    • @sleepisthecousinofdeath7395
      @sleepisthecousinofdeath7395 2 роки тому +1

      She took the Christopher Hitchens route “God is not great” same concept

    • @earthlinghuman6633
      @earthlinghuman6633 2 роки тому +1

      Amen!

  • @GEMINICHAI
    @GEMINICHAI 2 роки тому +2113

    She is so articulate and thoughtful with every single thing she says. It's honestly so brave of her to speak out about something so personal yet so prevalent. Abuse is never okay and I'm glad she was able to work through her trauma by writing this book.

    • @YeeHaww
      @YeeHaww 2 роки тому +5

      Yes she’s very brave

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому

      Jesus died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him! True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better!
      Also, did you know God is three in one!? The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit! Bless him!
      Have a blessed day, everyone!! ❤

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому

      Your worries (yes, anxiety), depression, suicidal thoughts, EVERYTHING will melt away and be NO MORE when you lean on God and put your trust in him! When I have physical pain, I literally pray and the Lord quells it, that I am healed!!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals! People are bothered by his name. The world hates the truth and wants to continue living sinfully! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому

      Your lives are more relevant than keeping video/comment relevancy ❤️. The devil has fooled you all long enough.

    • @ricoparadiso
      @ricoparadiso 2 роки тому

      ✝️ LORD JESUS DIED & ROSE AGAIN TO PAY THE DEBT OF UR SIN!
      ✅By Faith in the sacrifice God has made are we saved from the penalty of sin!
      🔵Turn from your sin that leads to death & accept His Gift that leads to eternal Life!
      💜We are all sinners that need God. No one can say they are perfect to be able to pay their debt of sin. This is why only God could pay the penalty for us, that is merciful Love!

  • @darbydeford6270
    @darbydeford6270 2 роки тому +392

    Her memoir is truly the “Mommie Dearest” of our generation. Totally brilliant and so necessary.

    • @SweetAesthete
      @SweetAesthete 2 роки тому +10

      She talks a lot about her issues in it too. Now most of it stemmed from her mom but her mom didn't really physically abuse like Joan Crawford..

    • @Luvinmydejah97
      @Luvinmydejah97 2 роки тому +24

      @@SweetAesthete Emotional and mental is actually worse than physical. Bruises heal in about two weeks.. trauma takes years to unpack and heal

    • @SweetAesthete
      @SweetAesthete 2 роки тому +37

      @@Luvinmydejah97 have you experienced both? I hope not for your sake but they are both bad. physical causes mental and emotional trauma as well so your point is invalid.

    • @priscila...
      @priscila... 2 роки тому +20

      @@SweetAesthete why do you feel the need to create a competition on who suffered the most?

    • @SweetAesthete
      @SweetAesthete 2 роки тому +9

      @@priscila... apparently you didn’t read when I said “BOTH”

  • @smileyfan16
    @smileyfan16 2 роки тому +3795

    It takes so much courage for her to speak out about abuse. I hope she takes time to heal. She’s very strong and brave.

    • @javii9768
      @javii9768 2 роки тому +10

      I just bought her book 😱

    • @ryanshockley577
      @ryanshockley577 2 роки тому +2

      ❤️❤️

    • @RavenDots115
      @RavenDots115 2 роки тому

      @@javii9768 is “the creator” the creepy disgusting Dan Schneider?

    • @javii9768
      @javii9768 2 роки тому

      @@RavenDots115 that's obvious. 😉

    • @Texas113
      @Texas113 2 роки тому +4

      I agree I’m glad she’s outta the spotlight she deserves to heal

  • @cocot9414
    @cocot9414 2 роки тому +967

    Gosh she is refreshingly authentic. I really appreciate her owning the spectrum of her feelings. Sometimes victims are made to feel like they have to be forgiving or empathetic towards the abuser out of respect. Good for her finding her voice and able to speak the truth.

    • @juanfortis4397
      @juanfortis4397 2 роки тому +14

      and the way she can communicate it, in such an honest and inspiring way. Choosing integrity, boldly.

    • @designzbydezire1919
      @designzbydezire1919 2 роки тому +1

      Ohh yes !!!

  • @stephaniebittner9388
    @stephaniebittner9388 2 роки тому +980

    She speaks so well in interviews. I like her advice of facing the struggles. Everyone’s traumas are different, so it wouldn’t be fair to give advice to everyone the same, but saying that facing the struggles helps with healing is so true

  • @venchenzo4493
    @venchenzo4493 2 роки тому +385

    She really got vulnerable in this book, letting herself out there is extremely brave. This book was a whirlwind of emotions. Great job Jennette!

    • @peggyfossett161
      @peggyfossett161 2 роки тому

      I do not want this book nor any other material of Jennette McCurdy in my phone. Please delete this book and block Jennette McCurdy from my phone, NOW!
      Thank you!!!

    • @wineandcity
      @wineandcity 2 роки тому

      @@peggyfossett161 wow, u don't control humans snowflake

  • @cassiangelmeat
    @cassiangelmeat 2 роки тому +538

    Instead of hating her for disliking her mom, people need to think the opposite way. What did the mom do to make her daughter feel this way? Kids and young adults don't hate adults who they can tell truly cared for them as a person.

    • @MyDestinyDear
      @MyDestinyDear 2 роки тому +9

      Very true.

    • @marasdabomb2005
      @marasdabomb2005 2 роки тому +28

      People hating her for disliking a person they have never lived with or had to be around. The entitlement. We have never had to spend a day with her mom she endured from birth. Who are we to say how anyone should feel if we’ve never walked in their shoes. I didn’t know people were saying they hate her for that because If they do that’s ludicrous.

    • @carriesims9325
      @carriesims9325 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly!!

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 2 роки тому +13

      People always think parents can do no wrong.

    • @schris3
      @schris3 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly, kids weren't born predisposed to hate their parents, quite the opposite, as in the case of Jennette who tried to love and care for her mom, but the abuse from her mom was too much that Jennette ended up hating her.

  • @_CatBug_
    @_CatBug_ 2 роки тому +878

    Can't deny that she is eloquent, articulate and has reached a high level of critical self thought. I applaud her authenticity to write stuff like this and her well spoken thoughts are enamoring to me.

  • @Elynn0303
    @Elynn0303 2 роки тому +1272

    $300,000 for years worth of trauma that will never go away? How sick. I’m glad she’s actually coming out and talking about it and what goes on in networks like this because it’s not talked about enough. I’m glad I never had that drive as a child to be famous, everything I’ve ever heard about Hollywood makes me never want to even meet someone from there let alone work as someone so big for them.

    • @Lafemme17
      @Lafemme17 2 роки тому +24

      Freaking Dan Schneider

    • @twistedbliss58
      @twistedbliss58 2 роки тому +5

      A lot of poor people and less financially stable people would take that in a heartbeat

    • @JoseHernandez-gy7qu
      @JoseHernandez-gy7qu 2 роки тому +22

      @@twistedbliss58 okay? What’s ur point

    • @azadalamiq
      @azadalamiq 2 роки тому +32

      @@twistedbliss58 im poor and id never take hush money to hide abuse. fk that.

    • @twistedbliss58
      @twistedbliss58 2 роки тому +6

      @@azadalamiq good for you, lots of people would though lmao

  • @nadianikolich9385
    @nadianikolich9385 2 роки тому +903

    5:37 I’m so proud of how she handled his dumbass repeating of the question. She handled herself so eloquently, elegantly, and confident. I’m really inspired by how authentic she is allowing herself to shine through here and I definitely resonate with her book title. I grew up with an emotionally and physically abusive mother. I am so excited to read her book and let her perspectives shine through into my life. I hope to all of you out there who experienced the same childhood traumas or similar that you find peace, love, healing, and joy in your life. You deserve it. ❤️🌻

    • @jun5836
      @jun5836 2 роки тому +20

      It's an interview with people that she hasn't been interviewed by yet, which she agreed to beforehand, so what is wrong with this "dumbass repeating of the question"? Not every interview can break new ground and ask creative and interesting questions, especially on a show such as Good Morning America.

    • @nadianikolich9385
      @nadianikolich9385 2 роки тому +85

      @@jun5836 Just goes to show so many interviewers only care about gossiping, scandals, or rumors. It’s disrespectful actually to interrupt her again to ask a question that in the broader scheme of things doesn’t matter when the real subject is her conquering healing.

    • @nadianikolich9385
      @nadianikolich9385 2 роки тому +9

      @@jun5836 She actually hosts her own podcast, and I’m sure she was thinking about how many varieties of questions she could have come up with-if she was the interviewer.

    • @Chiwowza
      @Chiwowza 2 роки тому +27

      Came to the comment section hoping someone else caught this

    • @Fireinherveinzz
      @Fireinherveinzz 2 роки тому +2

      It’s a great one

  • @ryannixon7174
    @ryannixon7174 2 роки тому +2405

    Nothing but respect for her for talking about this and telling the truth

    • @Noct343
      @Noct343 2 роки тому +4

      She's dying for attention

    • @ryannixon7174
      @ryannixon7174 2 роки тому +49

      NoctOG333 its not attention its the truth. So you are saying she should keep quite about the abuse she suffered? I say good for her for speaking her truth

    • @hillarysudeikis2264
      @hillarysudeikis2264 2 роки тому

      Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
      Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
      So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.

    • @hillarysudeikis2264
      @hillarysudeikis2264 2 роки тому

      @@ryannixon7174 the ‘truth’ is leading her to hell and she’s teaching people to be unforgiving, God won’t forgive those who won’t forgive others.
      Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
      Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
      So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen.

    • @shatteredscry
      @shatteredscry 2 роки тому

      @@Noct343 just crawl back under your rock

  • @lasenoradelacruz
    @lasenoradelacruz 2 роки тому +1638

    She’s so mature, so well spoken, and so painfully real. I hope Dan Schneider pays for his awful crimes against children!!!

    • @robroy6374
      @robroy6374 2 роки тому +6

      um, its not only him, but mostly her mom.

    • @nanijuana
      @nanijuana 2 роки тому

      @@robroy6374 oh stop! he abused children as did her mom

    • @cakepudding3220
      @cakepudding3220 2 роки тому

      He will in the afterlife

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 2 роки тому

      @@robroy6374 also other people from Nickelodeon. Pickle boy from the Amanda show was a convicted p@do yet he was still working with Nickelodeon after his conviction

    • @CT-yz9nx
      @CT-yz9nx 2 роки тому +110

      Yeah but her allegations against him are consistent with what other child actors and their parents have alleged about him over the years. The fact that Nickelodeon kept having him create show after show when they knew about his issues for years is sickening. Took them years to finally get rid of him

  • @Alexandra_Wolf
    @Alexandra_Wolf 2 роки тому +2949

    She’s so right about the title. If you were abused you don’t think this is a shocking title. You get the dark humor and the reality of the relief. I just hope she’s truly at a point with her ED that’s as healthy as she wants to be. As someone who struggles with an ED they never go away, they just flare up or become quieter and I do see some warning signs and worry for her. I look forward to this book and I’m so happy she is able to put a book out. I wish she could speak to Dan schnieders sexual abuse of the girls like Amanda bynes and her and the foot fetish stuff. The creator is Dan Schneider.

    • @daniell5740
      @daniell5740 2 роки тому +2

      If you know business its for marketing

    • @rachelh2731
      @rachelh2731 2 роки тому +1

      What are the ED warning signs you are seeing? Genuinely curious!

    • @JoeIsARose
      @JoeIsARose 2 роки тому +83

      ​@@rachelh2731
      that she is a special type of skinny that is consistent with people who suffer from ED like anorexia f.e., wearing a big blouse that hides parts of her (which tbh are just quite fashionable atm) looks like she has low energy, can barely bring herself to smile...
      I hope she stays healthy (physical and mental) she gets better, regardless of what or even if she is struggeling and comes out stronger in the end.
      I will definetely try to get my hands on her book

    • @rachelh2731
      @rachelh2731 2 роки тому +30

      @@JoeIsARose Yes disguising with overly large clothing. I noticed her very thin arms.

    • @marzwolfe4037
      @marzwolfe4037 2 роки тому +98

      @@JoeIsARose It’s pretty common knowledge in the ED community that commenting on an ED’ed person’s appearance can cause relapse or further an ED. Perhaps it would be best not to speculate on her appearance.

  • @sampaguita.
    @sampaguita. 2 роки тому +235

    I feel like parental abuse is not talked about enough especially with childhood stars so for Jennette to come out with this book is so inspiring. I’m definitely buying this and supporting her through everything. Every child deserves love. 💛💛

  • @joshualowe959
    @joshualowe959 2 роки тому +909

    If she made a book about her being glad her mother died, that shows her mother must have been very cruel, abusive, manipulative & evil.

    • @AddieMoore-South
      @AddieMoore-South 2 роки тому +76

      I am so proud of her. Folks need to stop making it not ok to express how we feel when we have toxic parents.
      Doesn't me we don't love them but the toxic nature should not be hidden just to apez (probably spelled that wrong, lol) the masses.

    • @SpicyPlur
      @SpicyPlur 2 роки тому +15

      She states that if her mom was alive she would still have her ED

    • @joshualowe959
      @joshualowe959 2 роки тому

      @@SpicyPlur ED??

    • @brianpratts
      @brianpratts 2 роки тому

      @@SpicyPlur What’s ED

    • @gretaorolinova8774
      @gretaorolinova8774 2 роки тому

      @@brianpratts eating disorder

  • @LoTheGoat
    @LoTheGoat 2 роки тому +452

    How she was able to turn his question about the 300k around was very admirable. I was like, she clearly doesn’t want to answer. Don’t force her to

    • @JoeIsARose
      @JoeIsARose 2 роки тому +17

      also tought that.. just because she wrote a book about her trauma does not mean everybody has a right to talk with her about it. Glad he left this issue after second try at least. Good for her to stand firm!

    • @blockpart2184
      @blockpart2184 2 роки тому +3

      300k!!!!

    • @mannyalvarez4454
      @mannyalvarez4454 2 роки тому

      its stupid to say not to ask she wrote that in the book because she knew it would grab attention you idiot

    • @dancingdani25
      @dancingdani25 2 роки тому +10

      @@JoeIsARose I don't think it was because she doesn't want to talk about it, but because she wants to encourage people to buy her book. If she gives all the answers in an interview, we won't need to read it. So makes sense she wants to leave out some details.

    • @mr_mhg91
      @mr_mhg91 2 роки тому

      Lol george stephanopoulos is pretty garbage. kept pressing on the question needlessly

  • @ZoeyHope
    @ZoeyHope 2 роки тому +2260

    If Jeannette gets back into acting (whenever she feels like it), I hope she steps into shows she wants to be in whether if it's popular or not. I'm glad she's okay now. I was so worried about her for years.

    • @moblinmajorgeneral
      @moblinmajorgeneral 2 роки тому +56

      I'm hoping her first acting gig is coming back to iCarly. I'm sure Miranda and Jerry would love to have her back.

    • @alexrice1870
      @alexrice1870 2 роки тому +141

      She experiences too much trauma on set. She wants to produce and direct, though.

    • @ZoeyHope
      @ZoeyHope 2 роки тому +32

      @@alexrice1870 I'm gonna support her in doing so

    • @deannayork9128
      @deannayork9128 2 роки тому +4

      @@moblinmajorgeneral Same!!!!

    • @HurricanePatrick
      @HurricanePatrick 2 роки тому +3

      She'll have to do something for work, money runs out eventually

  • @faefiercevulpine6990
    @faefiercevulpine6990 2 роки тому +196

    The most beautiful thing she said was “make contact” with the parts of yourself you’re ashamed of. I’m healing from sexual trauma currently speaking, and since I’ve opened up to my closest loved ones and gotten so much support it’s changing my life. You grieve so much… appreciate her being so brave, waited a long time to know her truth ♥️

  • @katherineprice9293
    @katherineprice9293 2 роки тому +352

    Period! For her holding that boundary of, “I said what I said in my book, and that’s all I’m going to say about it.”

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy 2 роки тому +6

      Yes, "I said, what I said," in Nene's voice.

    • @Cardiisshook
      @Cardiisshook 2 роки тому +1

      @@NN-re7cy Nene has so many funny lines lol

  • @Kenzi24
    @Kenzi24 2 роки тому +764

    I totally relate to her. I wasn't a child actor, but my mom projected all of her own insecurities on me. She was a bully my entire life. But then she would love bomb me maybe twice a year telling me how amazing I am. I almost wish she never did that, because it was hard to actually feel my true feelings towards her without being swayed by those handful of times she was overly nice. It took me until I was 23 to realize I was not treated like a normal child should be treated. I would stand by her side for years after my brother emancipated himself at 16 and hasn't talked to her in over 10 years now. Therapy and being treated with kindness and respect from my friends and even just the general public made me realize she was not normal. Why are strangers at starbucks being nicer to me than my mom? Why are coworkers asking how I am but my mom hasnt called me in 8 months? She didn't have a husband to nag at or complain about, so she made her kids her enemy. She treated us like a woman treats her husband that she can't stand, she couldn't wait for us to leave. I think when my mom passes, there will be grief there for the mom I wish I had and saw glimpses of once in a blue moon, but there will be a huge sense of relief and I'll feel like I can breathe for once in my life.

    • @matchacoco
      @matchacoco 2 роки тому +39

      Kenzie, you sound like you’re free from your mother’s mental prison. I am so happy for you and glad you have friends and coworkers to show you real friendship and kindness and even just basic decency. Hope you and your brother are closer these days.

    • @jazzi1887
      @jazzi1887 2 роки тому +24

      I feel your heart in this and while I’m sorry you went through this, I’m so happy that you were able to experience the difference because so many just continue on the cycle. I’m praying for your mom and your daily period. Some people get broken when they are young and grow up not knowing no other way to live or be. And while you have those people, there are people like you who refuse to repeat the brokenness. You are strong and deserving of love and joy.

    • @tyara.collins
      @tyara.collins 2 роки тому +12

      I relate to you! My mom was very manipulative and mentally abusive. Told me before that she wished she had aborted me. I’m 28 and still don’t have a real relationship with her nor any of my siblings. I’m the youngest of 5. I think when it’s her time to pass on I won’t even be sad. She was never really there she made sure I was well taken care of. But I never got hugs from her as a kid I barely was told that I was loved. I think apart of her feels very guilty how she has treated me because we can go the whole year just about without talking. Mothers day I sent her a text instead of calling because she was always very mean to me and I never thought that she was that great of a mother.. Everyone always wanted my mom to be theirs she put on such a front on how our relationship was to our family and friends. I got the occasional affection from her but maybe a few times a year. Because of my relationship with her and the torment from my siblings and bullying I will be starting therapy very soon. You are not alone. Stay strong!

    • @UnfilteredAmerica
      @UnfilteredAmerica 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this with us

    • @rosieb9
      @rosieb9 2 роки тому +5

      I can relate 💯%! Thank you for sharpening this. For me the healing began after my mom passed. You’ll find your way.

  • @cheleh87
    @cheleh87 2 роки тому +847

    I went to Barnes & Noble today (day of the book release) to buy her book and the guy that worked there said they were already sold out. Good for her! I’m glad a book that sheds light on child abuse in Hollywood is doing well 👏

    • @HailFyra
      @HailFyra 2 роки тому +81

      She's definitely going to make more money selling this book then the money Nickelodeon had offered her to keep quiet about the abuse.

    • @nickit7655
      @nickit7655 2 роки тому +32

      I ordered it from the library and there were already eight people in line for it. Hopefully they’ll order more copies! Otherwise I might just buy it myself.

    • @scorpioninpink
      @scorpioninpink 2 роки тому +14

      I live in Providence, Rhode Island and drove all the way to NYC to buy that book but it was sold out. 😔

    • @amyspeers8012
      @amyspeers8012 2 роки тому +5

      I preordered it for my kindle as I live in France and wanted it in English.

    • @javii9768
      @javii9768 2 роки тому +6

      On Amazon it's out of stock, glad that I bought it on time.

  • @josephsoltero7326
    @josephsoltero7326 2 роки тому +76

    03:04 "I think that anybody who has experienced parental abuse understands this title."
    YES! Absolutely! 100%!! Thank you so much for sharing your story!

  • @AmyTaylorMusic
    @AmyTaylorMusic 2 роки тому +542

    As a grown victim of narcissistic abuse from a parent, I applaud her for speaking her truth. Society has such a big emphasis on loving your parents unconditionally but that’s pretty much impossible when one or both parents have abused you in any way. It changes the make-up of your brain, as when you’re a child you’re constantly absorbing information and learning how to survive in your environment. When the home is not a safe environment, that can have detrimental consequences later in teenhood and adulthood. Good for her.

    • @Austin-cx2xe
      @Austin-cx2xe 2 роки тому +9

      Verbal and mental abuse can often be just as damaging to your psyche as physical abuse. My father was a manipulative and controlling alcoholic. Not only was I abused behind the scenes but my father abused me in front of the state of California as a child. Never been more hopeless then at that time

    • @lotterylarry7777
      @lotterylarry7777 2 роки тому

      Awh long story but me too I was basically told to follow this family member! Believe in what he believes is right ! & was criticized if I was to hang with my cousins and certain family always saying you were talkin ish about me with them huh? And I would go so far as to back him up even when I knew he was in control of me in a way!
      I looked past his evil ways! & even forgave em when he planned to kill me!
      Legit contacted him a year after & thought oh he was just drunk! He would do the same!
      I was so paranoid even in hotels miles and miles away!
      Was so tough to kick the things he taught me
      Even now I find myself wanting to forgive but no!
      This was a in law!
      And “we were so close cause I lived with my sister for 15 years”
      Things fell for me and her, 3 kids when she left!
      Woke up got the car and kids ready while he was drunk & left! Was on the run for a year in hotels!
      I feel so bad I’m supposed to be the brother I’m the youngest but man I was so scared if you knew the threats! Ex military and way bigger than me!
      Well we are all living together at this time! Happy as hell love my nieces and he will never get close to none of us again!

    • @jamesjustin9181
      @jamesjustin9181 2 роки тому

      I am against abused children speaking out. Nobody wants to have their day ruined by hearing a kid being negative and overly dramatic
      We are in a new age where children don't rule over us anymore. And if you are against it. Be prepared to be called out for antisemitism

    • @thoughtsideas6929
      @thoughtsideas6929 2 роки тому

      💛.

  • @johnmichael_
    @johnmichael_ 2 роки тому +570

    Honestly good for her for sticking to her guns and not answering the big headline questions, you can tell her book is obviously more than those headlines, and that tells alot about her character. I wish her nothing but the best!

  • @sandraguzmanmontes6290
    @sandraguzmanmontes6290 2 роки тому +432

    All I can say is if you haven’t walked a mile in her shoes then don’t judge. I really feel for her and I’m glad she’s finding a way to heal or at least try to heal.

    • @henrysmith8209
      @henrysmith8209 2 роки тому +1

      You are a really pretty girl☺

    • @sandraguzmanmontes6290
      @sandraguzmanmontes6290 2 роки тому

      @@henrysmith8209 oh wow thank you

    • @JanNan
      @JanNan 2 роки тому +1

      Sandra Guzman Montes▪︎ My Mother always said this to us, if we ever said anything negative about someones actions or the way they acted or basically anything negative. I have always through my life used this, before i judge. Thank you 😊

  • @Empress1014_
    @Empress1014_ 2 роки тому +50

    Just finished this book and all I can say is wow! I read it in a week and certainly would have finished sooner if it weren’t for the holiday season. Her book certainly resonated with me and I cried during the last 2 chapters! Certainly a page turner. You won’t be able to put it down. I wish her all the peace, happiness, love and healing. She is so deserving 🙏🏽

  • @HuzlBeauty
    @HuzlBeauty 2 роки тому +738

    I love how she handled this interview! My fave part is when he starts to try to press her about the $300,000 to get more info and two different times very calmly she made him back off and let him know she's not speaking about that. long story short if you want to know about it read the book.... and I will.

    • @schris3
      @schris3 2 роки тому +40

      That interviewer is quite insidious, he wants the juice of the book be spilled over national TV, especially if it's something damaging towards a rival media conglomerate: Viacom.

    • @nickit7655
      @nickit7655 2 роки тому +58

      The book has been through multiple reviews and her comments about Nickelodeon in it were probably very carefully chosen. Saying things on television, where she has no control over how it’s edited, could land her in a lot of trouble. It’s good that she didn’t let the interviewer get away with that.

    • @mr.goodboi2780
      @mr.goodboi2780 2 роки тому +6

      @@schris3 Let's be honest. EVERYONE wants to see the juice spilled. No matter who you are, this coming to light is important and Nick deserves to go bankrupt. I'm sure it would hurt some of her cohorts though which is why she won't.

    • @stephenisaaks1
      @stephenisaaks1 2 роки тому

      The ‘Creator’ was Dan Schneider. It’s becoming more widely known that he sexually abused her and Ariana Grande, as well as other child actors on other Nickelodeon shows he wrote and produced. It was later that Nickelodeon finally cut ties with him due to allegations. Ariana Grande will not speak out about the abuse but others have. The $300k was so that she wouldn’t out him openly and directly, but as she said she turned it down and has already implicated him and his abuse on her Twitter.

    • @sapphiresupernova
      @sapphiresupernova 2 роки тому +5

      She's already been traumatized enough; there's no need making her relive that again. good for her for sticking up for herself.

  • @vincent8286
    @vincent8286 2 роки тому +532

    Child abuse is absolutely awful and should never be silenced. She is doing the right thing by speaking out. I hope she can get through all of this.🙏

  • @Entername-md1ev
    @Entername-md1ev 2 роки тому +665

    I can’t believe she’s 30 now, felt like yesterday she was on iCarly but time waits for no one.
    I’m really sorry to hear what happened to her and that she had to put up with that for so many years whether it was her mom or “the creator” who I’m sure many of us know who she’s referring to. I really hope her adulthood treats her much better than her childhood/adolescence.

    • @jdon51
      @jdon51 2 роки тому

      She still talk to dustin?

    • @stingrey1571
      @stingrey1571 2 роки тому +5

      when i heard they were bringing back icarly. i was like," that show just went off the air yesterday." NOPE! it had been NINE YEARS!!!!! IT BLEW MY MIND.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 2 роки тому

      @@stingrey1571 same! And Sam and cat is almost 10 years old

    • @CoolPage994
      @CoolPage994 2 роки тому

      @@samg873 Sam and cat was an amazing show I still watch it with my gf all the time

    • @samg873
      @samg873 2 роки тому

      @@CoolPage994 I watched it on Paramount plus

  • @AbigailMilamProductions
    @AbigailMilamProductions 2 роки тому +74

    I love the title of the book. Nothing shocking about it. Her mother was abusive in so many different ways and was money hungry. She exploited her daughter for personal gain and benefit. No mother like that deserves respect. Jenette has gone through so much suffering at the hands of her mother, and that little bit of relief that came from her death was probably a breath of fresh air as it signaled the end of the abuse and manipulation.

    • @miraspaho5562
      @miraspaho5562 2 роки тому

      Bla bla bla ... you're rude she was her mother. She not left her in the street like some doing ok? What will all she did and she is better then her mother? Not I think so. You have not marcy for your parents and God not will for you. Well, animals are better then some of you. Maybe understand what mean parents and perfect stranger.

    • @alexiaj9597
      @alexiaj9597 2 роки тому

      @@miraspaho5562 please shut up.

    • @AbigailMilamProductions
      @AbigailMilamProductions 2 роки тому

      @@miraspaho5562 Just because you push out a baby from your vagina doesn't mean you instantly deserve respect. If you abuse your child sexually, physically, or emotionally... you do not have my respect. And her mother abused her. Keep supporting child abusers though!

    • @alicianelson1252
      @alicianelson1252 2 роки тому +2

      @Mira Spaho her mom gave her an eating disorder she where still alive Jeanette would be in the position Britney Spears is in not all parents love their children

  • @Christolphi
    @Christolphi 2 роки тому +324

    She is media trained in a way only child stars always seem to be. Knowing their reputation exists on a razors edge. I hope her story is heard and I hope she gets justice in whatever form she needs.

    • @amylee8969
      @amylee8969 2 роки тому

      Yes. The media treats young stars like wind ups dolls to play dress-up with rather than humans! That’s not the ideal lifestyle for any kid to grow up around!

  • @andrea-gs4dx
    @andrea-gs4dx 2 роки тому +290

    She’s so classy, poised, and outspoken. I’m so happy she is able to tell her truth, and advocate for herself. Even as the interviewer pushed her, she responded with grace and wisdom🤍

  • @Wxtst.3
    @Wxtst.3 2 роки тому +218

    She's so well spoken. Sending all the love and support her way. I'm glad she finally got to speak her truth after all these years.

  • @lishamaria
    @lishamaria 2 роки тому +7

    I have said it for so many years, and I never get tired of repeating it.. I am SO proud of her.

  • @alisonclarke1127
    @alisonclarke1127 2 роки тому +1728

    She’s been through a lot we all grew up watching her on Nickelodeon. And everyone has been through something especially abuse and it takes a lot of courage to talk about it everyone has a story to tell

    • @pwatson5766
      @pwatson5766 2 роки тому +22

      Not everyone grew up in abusive homes.

    • @gmunden1
      @gmunden1 2 роки тому +28

      This is her reality. People don't want to hear hard truths about a suffering child. I'm glad she spoke out. I wish her well.

    • @kristengaian1832
      @kristengaian1832 2 роки тому

      George ! Askin those tough journalist questions as per usual ! So brave so daring lolol like oh yeah why the HELL does ANYONE ever allow their children to work in such a hopelessly SICK DANGEROUS and inappropriate industry ??? #CancelGroomingKidsForFameandAttraction

    • @margarettiffin724
      @margarettiffin724 2 роки тому +1

      Would you say the same if a black girl talking about her white mom?

    • @mello4734
      @mello4734 2 роки тому +13

      @@margarettiffin724 what difference would the daughter's and mother's race make?

  • @JNWG79
    @JNWG79 2 роки тому +426

    She is such an articulate person. I’ve only seen a couple little bits of her work and there’s no doubt she is talented. I’m just so sorry that her experiences came at so much cost and suffering. The children of abusive parents have such a tangled web of emotional things to sort through in life. God bless her for her courage in sharing. If there’s any part of her that desires to re-enter the entertainment industry I hope she does so on her terms and with boundaries firmly in place. If her desire is at all to entertain (if that’s something that would give her joy) then the world would be blessed by it, but the blessing has to be mutual. Good for her for sharing her story.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому

      Jesus died for our sins, rose from the dead, and gives salvation to everyone who has faith in him! True faith in Jesus will have you bear good fruit and *drastically* change for the better!
      Also, did you know God is three in one!? The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit! Bless him!
      Have a blessed day, everyone!! ❤

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому +1

      Your worries (yes, anxiety), depression, suicidal thoughts, EVERYTHING will melt away and be NO MORE when you lean on God and put your trust in him! When I have physical pain, I literally pray and the Lord quells it, that I am healed!!
      Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals! People are bothered by his name. The world hates the truth and wants to continue living sinfully! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому

      Your lives are more relevant than keeping video/comment relevancy ❤️. The devil has fooled you all long enough.

    • @Call_Upon_YAH
      @Call_Upon_YAH 2 роки тому

      Yes, the world is very wicked, doing a lot of evil both behind closed doors and right in front of our eyes. Let this be insight that brings others home to Christ, acknowledging evil and choosing righteousness, amen.

    • @JNWG79
      @JNWG79 2 роки тому

      @@Call_Upon_YAH Your assumption that the devil has me fooled when you literally know nothing about me is . . . very odd. 😅 As a Christian woman who loves Jesus, I’m pretty confident in my salvation by God’s grace. But you’re right though: Jesus saves.

  • @LiveForFun420
    @LiveForFun420 2 роки тому +576

    She has a lot of courage writing this book & breaking her silence. I think its amazing she can open up about the hardest things you never want to talk about! As someone who had an abusive Step mom I completely agree with her speaking her truth.

  • @nikiw4510
    @nikiw4510 2 роки тому +9

    Coming from somebody who suffered from an eating disorder with a supportive mother, I couldn't imagine if I had an enabling mother. It makes recovery so difficult. Recovery is a lifelong journey with lots of ups and downs. Whether she's at her best or worst now, I wish her peace and revovery!

  • @ej13012010
    @ej13012010 2 роки тому +357

    She was forced as a child to be something her mom wanted to be and it's sad as a child she went through alot just to please a toxic parent that's damaging poor baby!!! I'm with her 100000% tell your story!!!!

  • @Fiveandime
    @Fiveandime 2 роки тому +107

    She's killing this interview STRONG BOUNDARIES - "I said everything in the book," SLAY!!

    • @giovanyg715
      @giovanyg715 2 роки тому +2

      they thought they were going to manipulate her into misleading her story by focusing on her title. but she did so good to shut it down. firt time i have seen someone do it so direct. with social media around she knows how they like to manipulate

  • @sherralbell5962
    @sherralbell5962 2 роки тому +272

    She is well spoken and you can tell she did a lot of work to be able to speak about this

    • @yngads6313
      @yngads6313 2 роки тому +19

      100%. To speak with the composure that she did undoubtedly took hundreds of hours of private healing behind closed doors. My heart goes out to her for sure.

  • @Qwinsede
    @Qwinsede 2 роки тому +67

    She did her “shadow work” on herself and I am so proud of her. Now she can evolve and become the person she was truly meant to be. Good job!

  • @RandomBlackGamer
    @RandomBlackGamer 2 роки тому +219

    My only question is when is Dan Schneider gonna get the punishment he deserves for the trauma he's put these child stars through?

    • @sarahtobore2832
      @sarahtobore2832 2 роки тому

      The most important thing is that that perverted psycho gets what's coming to him. In prison

    • @teganlyons8169
      @teganlyons8169 2 роки тому +33

      Him and every higher up at Nick who knew about Schneider and kept him on their payroll

    • @samg873
      @samg873 2 роки тому +15

      @@teganlyons8169 there is a reason Jennette was offered a hush surprise

    • @zaaveme
      @zaaveme 2 роки тому +10

      You know he won’t and it’s so sad and upsetting

    • @carriebizz
      @carriebizz 2 роки тому +7

      Yep I'm sure it's him she's talking about, he's so disgusting and has ruined so many young actors

  • @alexrice1870
    @alexrice1870 2 роки тому +287

    Jenette grew up near me. I would see her at the ice rink every once in a while. She always had this lonely air to her. It broke my heart. We were 2 years apart and I could see how much she was in her head even just skating along.

    • @jacquelineklinges
      @jacquelineklinges 2 роки тому +26

      Awww that’s so heartbreaking. I wish I could’ve given her hug if I were there 🥺

    • @alexrice1870
      @alexrice1870 2 роки тому +44

      @@jacquelineklinges there was a real degree of separation. We didn't want to be those kids bothering her about iCarly or something, she looked like she needed that time to unwind. As a teen it was hard to consider actually approaching her because she was so famous and we assumed it would bother her.

    • @kelcianderson6997
      @kelcianderson6997 2 роки тому +1

      So cool that u kind of knew her ya after watching this I do feel bad for Jeanette and what she went thru!

    • @alexrice1870
      @alexrice1870 2 роки тому +6

      @@kelcianderson6997 there's so much more we don't know and that's for her to heal. I hope the best for her, truly.

    • @chesca6469
      @chesca6469 2 роки тому +3

      Poor girl… my heart goes out to young Jeanette

  • @RaquelCamilo258
    @RaquelCamilo258 2 роки тому +287

    People with great relationships with their parents (good for them) tend to be defensive when other people share their struggles with toxic parents. We should all support her and be glad she was so brave to share her struggles. Wishing her the best of the best.

    • @skylarmichellex
      @skylarmichellex 2 роки тому +3

      False. I have horrible parents and yet I’m not as ungrateful and morbid as this woman is.

    • @evilpumpkin7532
      @evilpumpkin7532 2 роки тому +43

      @@skylarmichellex Horrible parents and parental abuse are not the same thing. Grow up.

    • @skylarmichellex
      @skylarmichellex 2 роки тому

      @@evilpumpkin7532 What is up with you. Horrible parents is a vague term. It can also include abuse. Do I have to say I have horrible parents that both abused me for you to understand. Clearly your the one that needs some growing up to do. So grow up and use your brain before you respond.

    • @iraford5788
      @iraford5788 2 роки тому +7

      @@skylarmichellex not the same thing.

    • @skylarmichellex
      @skylarmichellex 2 роки тому +1

      @@iraford5788 Horrible parents is a vague term. It can also include abuse. Do I have to say I have horrible parents that both abused me for you to understand.

  • @LyraDavis
    @LyraDavis 2 роки тому +14

    I’m 36 and have two boys. I was too old for I Carly and they were too young so we missed that boat. But I will be buying that book! They way she handled that interview is how it’s done. She set her boundaries and was firm and respectful but still warm and human. Hats off to her. You can see all the work she’s done.

  • @marcotisch2605
    @marcotisch2605 2 роки тому +193

    I’m so glad that she’s coming out with this. When I was a child living in an abusive home situation, I loved watching iCarly and Sam & Cat to distract myself. As a kid you do not get the inappropriate jokes, nor do you understand the severity of abuse in child acting. Now this leaves a particularly bitter taste, but I will buy her book as soon as possible to hear her side of the story.

  • @godisjihyo3615
    @godisjihyo3615 2 роки тому +72

    i love that she pauses and truly thinks about how she wants to express her answers. im listening to the audiobook today and she is just such a strong person to live through this and talk about it so openly.

  • @Flowersinurhair
    @Flowersinurhair 2 роки тому +74

    I listened to the entire book in one day. It was amazing. She’s been through so much and she’s beyond brave. I’m sure some people are offended by the title but you cannot judge it until you’ve read it. I have nothing but respect for her. She’s had her challenges but she’s finally healing and is doing what is best for her.

    • @bethscruggs825
      @bethscruggs825 2 роки тому +1

      Listening to this book gave you all the emotion. She used her acting skills was very punctual. I wanted to read a hard copy but felt you got so much more just by hearing her read her story and putting it out there the way she did made it feel like a movie or conversation you were having with her.

    • @ZFern9390
      @ZFern9390 Рік тому +1

      And people shouldn't judge it if they didn't live it and don't live it. My mother should be behind bars for her criminal behavior to her children! When there is no justice for that we , their children live behind invisible bars the rest of our lives.

  • @Therezumee92
    @Therezumee92 2 роки тому +417

    Her character's mother on ICarly also was abusive, she seemed to be naturally angry and resentful when said mom was brought up in script. Obviously because it was real life for her as well. Glad she's speaking out. Especially about Nickelodeon, there's been a lot of rumors over the years, but none of the child stars have bluntly said what really has happened. And you just know some dark shit is there.

    • @a_2502
      @a_2502 2 роки тому +7

      wow. I literally don't even remember the mom on the show at all.

    • @iamchristian1129
      @iamchristian1129 2 роки тому +8

      @@a_2502 it's was for one episode and she was played by Jane Lynch

    • @Therezumee92
      @Therezumee92 2 роки тому +19

      @@iamchristian1129 she appeared once, but there were many remarks of her during the show.

    • @gerardgarcia8501
      @gerardgarcia8501 2 роки тому +4

      and to think Sue Sylvester is a horrible character, love Jane Lynch though

    • @simondesbiens2463
      @simondesbiens2463 2 роки тому +1

      @Lilly B To be fair it happens a lot a Nickelodeon and Disney because they have a lot of chill actor the problem is really with the child actor thing because you cannot as an adult have a job and have a child actor your job is to go to the job of your child When everything is about your child and everything about your money is because of your child …

  • @amihallieishii
    @amihallieishii 2 роки тому +66

    Heartbreaking to realize she was going through so much as she was bringing us so much joy throughout our childhood. Can't wait to read this book, glad she is healing, wish her nothing but the best. Bless her

  • @NewYorkMovesMagazine
    @NewYorkMovesMagazine 2 роки тому +324

    Jennette is such a powerful woman for telling her story. Can only imagine how incredible her book must be.

  • @Tracydot3
    @Tracydot3 2 роки тому +26

    I'm reading this book right now and am really enjoying it but also shocked by how horrible her mother was. As someone who was abused as a child and also had a very narcissistic and emotionally abusive female warden, I relate to the title 100%! Jennette is a very strong and smart person. I am so glad she is sharing her story so that children of abuse don't feel alone and can see that we can heal and get past that pain.

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 2 роки тому +385

    Seems like writing this book has helped her grow

  • @mmmmmmmmmmmmmm859
    @mmmmmmmmmmmmmm859 2 роки тому +358

    I am soooooo proud of her and she has become such a beautiful articulate woman!

  • @Meebees15
    @Meebees15 2 роки тому +76

    Phenomenal job on deflecting that question, maintaining a boundary and advocating for her FULL story! 👏🏾 so happy to see her and will be getting this book as soon as I can!

    • @betsylaughlin8652
      @betsylaughlin8652 2 роки тому +7

      I noticed that! Like WTF with that question at the beginning?! What a graceful answer. She’s pure class. So happy she’s healthy and healing.

  • @joshuaogues9470
    @joshuaogues9470 2 роки тому +12

    She really is my idol at this very moment sometimes some people don’t understand or know the pain some of us go through especially if it involves family issues

  • @LesleySASMR
    @LesleySASMR 2 роки тому +242

    It's true. The people who are offended by the title of the book do not know what parental abuse is like. Good for her for speaking out.

    • @1saamor897
      @1saamor897 2 роки тому +19

      yep, like me. i’ve had the best mom ever. but i understand her pov and why she titled that

    • @schris3
      @schris3 2 роки тому +6

      @@1saamor897 We need more people like you.

    • @DawnKellyMedia
      @DawnKellyMedia 2 роки тому

      So very true. So true.

  • @NickleForYourThoughts
    @NickleForYourThoughts 2 роки тому +537

    She was always my favorite when I was a kid, I'm glad she is opening up about the issues with child stars, the parents abuse them a lot of the times. It's also a story about parental abuse in general. I hope she goes back to TV/movies as some point in her life on her own terms.

    • @jazzi1887
      @jazzi1887 2 роки тому +11

      I think she was the best in the show, honestly.

    • @samg873
      @samg873 2 роки тому +2

      @@jazzi1887 the reboot of icarly isn't the same. I'm realizing she made icarly popular.

  • @Deeps_
    @Deeps_ 2 роки тому +316

    I am so proud of Jennette and admire her a lot, I'm so happy how much she's opening up and that her book is receiving a lot of attention. "I'm glad my Mom Died" sounds like a serious title and it really catches the attention of all of us since that title makes us realize how horrible Jennette's mom was to her. The fact that Jennette grieved her mom's death at the time feels heartbreaking since Jennette was angry at herself for feeling that way. It's also sad that Jennette still misses her at times even though she was abusive. I mean, Jennette had an eating disorder because of her and her death was the only way Jennette could recover from the eating disorder.
    I am that sort of person who seems calm on the outside and struggling on the inside and Jennette's advice is making me think about my whole personality and it's convincing me to face that struggle like Jennette said.
    We can tell Jennette has put a lot of effort into her book and it's amazing how she's now comfortable to speak about her past even though it caused a lot of traumatic experiences for her. We shouldn't hate on her because of the name of the book, we should love how confident and honest she is now. It's good that she's not concerned about the opinions of others, because she lets herself know that it won't stop her from releasing her book. Also, I love that Jennette's siblings are supporting her in any way they can, they are amazing!

  • @madisonborgmann8175
    @madisonborgmann8175 2 роки тому +6

    Icarly was my favorite show as a kid and Jennette was my idol. I also suffered from abuse from my mother and watching this show brought me so much comfort. I am now also healing from my own trauma and seeing this now heals me even more. I feel like we grew up together. So proud of her for how far she has come. ❣️

  • @wendylederer367
    @wendylederer367 2 роки тому +401

    I actually saw the producer I believe she’s talking about at my job. I believe his name is Dan Schneider. I gave him a dirty look and he looked at me like I know you know who I am. He’s really creepy! What she said about having resentment towards abusive parents resonates with Me. I completely understand and applaud her for being so bold and raw with the title of that book. I had an abusive mentally ill mother who passed away. I could never say I’m glad she’s dead but I feel that anger toward her both my parents. It’s exhausting dealing someone who drains the life out of you and part of you is glad that it’s over it’s just that most people don’t say it out loud. You can love and hate your parents at the same time.

    • @michaelmartin1520
      @michaelmartin1520 2 роки тому +13

      This! This is what im dealing with.. even at 29 years old with a family, im still dealing with it. What kind of 50 year olds fist fight in front of their grandchildren....

    • @hi-ls6lt
      @hi-ls6lt 2 роки тому +4

      @@michaelmartin1520 wtf! I’m sorry dude, hope you’re doing the best you can

    • @ismaelcarrillo3956
      @ismaelcarrillo3956 2 роки тому

      Mr Foot fetish creep

    • @freefight7750
      @freefight7750 2 роки тому

      🐂💩

    • @deedzx3666
      @deedzx3666 2 роки тому +12

      Which is why Amanda Byne's Spiral wasn't all that shocking to me, neither is Drake Bell spending time with young kids, or Liz Gillies marrying a man who's 20 years older than her... that she met as a young teen- a music producer who worked with DS on a few shows.

  • @maurajonperovich3997
    @maurajonperovich3997 2 роки тому +158

    She's right. Anyone who's actually been through child abuse will get her title. I do. This is really important, and I'm proud of her for being candid.

  • @BLESSEDLYLEE
    @BLESSEDLYLEE 2 роки тому +72

    It’s always hard for people who have not been abused to understand those who have. I’m proud of her. She is courageous.

  • @katiez688
    @katiez688 2 роки тому +30

    I love what she is doing and going with that bold title! There is so much societal pressure on child abuse victims to accept the abuse and its sick. People need to know you never have to tolerate abuse just because the abuser is a family member.

  • @Lala-jl7mi
    @Lala-jl7mi 2 роки тому +112

    I love that she’s not letting anyone take control of her words. She’s amazing. As someone who has experienced and still experiences abusive behaviors from my parents and family members, I 1000% agree with ruining their reputation. If they get mad, not my problem!! They shouldn’t have abused me in the first place!!!

    • @animegothvampire1999
      @animegothvampire1999 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah they did that shit to themselves tbh

    • @Lala-jl7mi
      @Lala-jl7mi 2 роки тому

      After reading this, I absolutely recommend it. I think anyone could benefit from the way she explains abuse in relationships and patterns we can fall into as humans. She was so vulnerable with us, and even though I never knew much about her beforehand, I relate so so much to her now. It’s a heartbreaking but wonderful read!!!

  • @mmmmmmmmmmmmmm859
    @mmmmmmmmmmmmmm859 2 роки тому +247

    People really don't understand mom's aren't always the nurturer

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 2 роки тому +13

      Yep sadly true

    • @tiasky3438
      @tiasky3438 2 роки тому +2

      Yeah lucky them 😔

    • @isaachall8535
      @isaachall8535 2 роки тому

      @Carpe Diem hi

    • @candisham1978
      @candisham1978 2 роки тому

      Sometimes moms are backstabbing pieces of shyt, like mine.

    • @UnfilteredAmerica
      @UnfilteredAmerica 2 роки тому +11

      @Carpe Diem she saying it’s lucky them for those who is this don’t know that moms can be cruel. The people don’t know because they haven’t experienced it..

  • @alexneuhedel
    @alexneuhedel 2 роки тому +60

    what i love about this interview is the way jennette answers the questions in such a dignified and powerful way, especially when nickelodeon was mentioned. she didn’t immediately say oh yea they offered me the money, she avoided it but in a smart way. 👏🏻

  • @Jeanie1989
    @Jeanie1989 2 роки тому +4

    Only a few chapters to go and she is SO right, there is so much more to the headlines. I highly recommend it! All the best Jennette!

  • @kaleidoscopeeyes6681
    @kaleidoscopeeyes6681 2 роки тому +96

    She's got to be one of the most poised people I have ever seen in my life! Thank you for the inspiration Jennette

  • @skybee001
    @skybee001 2 роки тому +527

    I love her for being so honest, and It's so hard to be that vulnerable when you are a public figure., I'm so glad she's opening up about all her struggles and is actively working on her mental health. She is still suffering mentally, that is pretty obvious, but doing all this and writing about it, can be nothing but therapeutic for her. I think she is going to do great things in life, and is going to be a very successful person, in whatever field she chooses... her best days are not behind her, but are yet to come ✌️💕

    • @Yezzzirrr
      @Yezzzirrr 2 роки тому +1

      Becuz they sell their soul and can’t go public abt certain stuff

    • @modusvivendi2
      @modusvivendi2 2 роки тому

      I don''t know how you can say this when it's so clear from the interview that she's not free to talk about her experiences. It seems rather obvious to me that she and Nickelodeon have some kind of settlement agreement that limits what she can say in exchange, I presume, for them not suing her.

    • @holeindanssock156
      @holeindanssock156 2 роки тому

      This bitch is nuts, she said her mom restricted calories and "touched her" sexually for medical examaniations, then she says in her book title "glad shes dead"
      Thats your fuccing mother, look you can disagree with what she did, but she fuccing raised YOU all by herself.... She got up at night to change your diaper to feed you, she sang you songs and cuddled you.....
      And you turn around and say your glad shes dead? You stupid evil bitch...... Your heartless....
      Look i have a strange relationship with my mom but i would NEVER be happy shes dead.....
      This bitch needs help

    • @skybee001
      @skybee001 2 роки тому

      @@modusvivendi2 I actually agree with you, she must have taken some money in exchange for an NDA. They usually last for about 7 years. I've listened to her entire book and not once did she call him by name, in the book she continually refers to him as "the creator" and the other person she didn't name was called "the network head" I don't blame her for taking the money, she should get something for all the crap she went through. Everyone pretty much knows that she is talking about Dan Schneider as "the creator" anyways 🙄 🤣

  • @Andy_Tx
    @Andy_Tx 2 роки тому +117

    My jaw literally dropped when they said Jannette was 30 years old! I feel like I’ve flashed into the future

    • @anabelleb9919
      @anabelleb9919 2 роки тому +1

      Ikr

    • @seygra20
      @seygra20 2 роки тому +6

      Arianna Grande is 29 yrs. Not hard to believe.

    • @mysteriouscee1086
      @mysteriouscee1086 2 роки тому +2

      @@seygra20 and they were born on the same day just a year apart

    • @ericbrown1101
      @ericbrown1101 2 роки тому +2

      We're all getting old man lol. Hell I was already a little past the target audience when these shows were on lol. But my little sister loved them and I couldn't help but be charmed by them. They were fun, cute characters. I related to Spencer in iCarly a lot. Always loved Miranda Cosgrove ever since School of Rock. Victorious was just full of hot girls and borderline raunchy for a Nickelodeon show. Ariana Grande's Cat was adorable. Really sad that this stuff was going on behind the scenes.

    • @texastwister6988
      @texastwister6988 2 роки тому

      Never heard of her or the show but from her picture I guessed she was at least 50 years of age...I really need to hear a person speak and watch them in action. With a single photo it's hard to determine age.

  • @yotubek
    @yotubek 2 роки тому +4

    Jennette is one of the most gifted, charming young actresses to ever make it in television. Very, very unusual brilliance and wit, when you come right down to it. And a beautiful, youthful energy. She elevated her Nickelodeon shows to such a high level of wit and artistry. And her co stars were completely exceptional too.
    It breaks my heart that she was suffering the way that she was. Thank you to those of you reading this who love her; thank you for supporting her right now. I cannot even imagine how tough these interviews must be for her. I can sense that there's a part of her heart that is really hurting right now. She's so brave.
    We love you, Jennette.

  • @rachu816
    @rachu816 2 роки тому +161

    Just placed a hold on it from my public library and I'm 16 in line! I'm so glad that people in my community have also sought to read it and I hope it's like this for all libraries across the country.

    • @blp5840
      @blp5840 2 роки тому +2

      why not buy it? 🤷

    • @drumsalive
      @drumsalive 2 роки тому +13

      @@blp5840 not everyone can afford things

    • @rosiebrooks7685
      @rosiebrooks7685 2 роки тому

      Why can't people try to help the next child. Nobody wants to read the Bible though.

    • @Amandamarie0701
      @Amandamarie0701 2 роки тому +1

      At my library there is like a 150 wait it I’m like yeah not worth it lol

    • @rachu816
      @rachu816 2 роки тому

      @@Amandamarie0701 do you have digital resources at your library? Mine does and I can read them from the kindle app on my phone. Sometimes there is a wait for those too though.

  • @arkiagordon6430
    @arkiagordon6430 2 роки тому +150

    I really felt what she was saying. To really be at peace with who you are, you have to face the things you feel really ashamed about or struggle with. She really inspired me with this interview. I’m so happy for her. I’m sending peace, love and understanding to everybody out there who has uncomfortable truths. It takes one step at a time but YOU are your most biggest investment. Right it down on paper, say it out loud to yourself.. but being honest is going to get you through. Love y’all 🫶🏽💕

  • @ttinney55431
    @ttinney55431 2 роки тому +49

    She is the definition of strength and nuance...which looks to have brought her peace. I'm happy for her. I hope that she is a voice for others. Best wishes to you Jennette.

  • @brickwalla
    @brickwalla 2 роки тому +20

    I’m so glad she has come out with this while SHE is comfortable with it. All forms of parental abuse are not alright and this book can help people get passed that. Even with abuse we can still miss our parents but that doesn’t mean that sometimes we still can’t be happy that they are gone because truly it can be a happy thing at times. Much love for Jennette💛

  • @tommyrsrracer
    @tommyrsrracer 2 роки тому +266

    I’m glad she has spoken, good for her, being famous and rich isn’t everything it looks like it’s made in magazines and tv. There’s a lot of abuse in Hollywood, many, many young boys and girls are abused in show biz. I hope this helps her heal.

  • @chelseygramlin2955
    @chelseygramlin2955 2 роки тому +65

    She handled this interview so well. I am happy she is at this point in her life and I’m curious to read about what she’s gone through.

  • @Glub2
    @Glub2 2 роки тому +103

    I always thought it was never anyone else’s place to judge someone’s experience of their own childhood. Just because I love my mom doesn’t mean my friend has to love theirs. Sit down and listen to someone and you’ll quickly learn you’d probably feel very similarly if you had their upbringing. A very common thing I’ve heard lately is also an objective truth: All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children.

    • @SNOWQueen87-v1g
      @SNOWQueen87-v1g 2 роки тому +4

      People are going to judge you no matter what

    • @iraford5788
      @iraford5788 2 роки тому +3

      @@SNOWQueen87-v1g yep that is objectively true unfortunately.

  • @karinak09
    @karinak09 2 роки тому +58

    I recommend listening to the audiobook. McCurdy reads it herself and it’s fantastic. Such a well-written, authentic, gut wrenching, beautiful story. I don’t know her personally but I’m so proud of her.
    (Also….her arms and legs look quite thin. I hope she’s doing well)

    • @milky9832
      @milky9832 2 роки тому +14

      She said she has a normal relationship with food nowadays. I think commenting on her body is fucked up… focus on your own body.

    • @karinak09
      @karinak09 2 роки тому +27

      @@milky9832 it’s “fucked up”? Thats a pretty liberal usage of that phrase. She’s been very public about her EDs and I was simply wishing her the best and expressing some concern. Calm down

    • @milky9832
      @milky9832 2 роки тому +6

      @@karinak09 i understand what you’re saying. I just think shes heard enough and gone through enough when it comes to opinions of her body. Jennette says shes going better now. Also, I could’ve worded my first comment better.

    • @hyukaco
      @hyukaco 2 роки тому +2

      @@karinak09 the person was right tho.

    • @hyukaco
      @hyukaco 2 роки тому +4

      @@milky9832 no but you're right. you can say u hope shes eating well without making comments on her body.

  • @akdlg9sjjslk8
    @akdlg9sjjslk8 2 роки тому +67

    She is so articulate. I commend her for her bravery and strength in being able to overcome the ordeals she went through. Wishing her all the best!!

    • @mikelowery6227
      @mikelowery6227 2 роки тому

      No she sounds more like someone who's trying to sound articulate

  • @JasonB95
    @JasonB95 2 роки тому +35

    "I think that anybody who has experienced parental abuse understands this title."
    "I'm not so concerned with the opinions of anybody else because this book is not for them."
    Those two lines right there. If you don't get it, it was never meant for your eyes. Brilliant title that communicates the point of the story.

  • @jenq436
    @jenq436 2 роки тому +198

    When my father died, I was finally free!! I understand her 100%

    • @samuelgalea7679
      @samuelgalea7679 2 роки тому +31

      Yeah and unfortunately people don’t understand that abuse can be very much mental and psychological. And you’re then told to feel guilty because it’s family

    • @itsbritt9155
      @itsbritt9155 2 роки тому +3

      Exactly , I can relate . It was my father tho

    • @mikethemechanic7395
      @mikethemechanic7395 2 роки тому +7

      Waiting for my Dad to pass away. Never spent time with me as a child. All he cared about was work and football.

    • @meriambenabdallah9495
      @meriambenabdallah9495 2 роки тому

      Same here , only thing is he didn't doe but he moved away from me.

    • @moon6044
      @moon6044 2 роки тому +1

      @@mikethemechanic7395 nice to see someone in the same boat as me.

  • @jazminratzlaff5357
    @jazminratzlaff5357 2 роки тому +8

    She looks so chic and cute, as always. I so totally get why her book is titled so sincerely “I’m Glad My Mother Is Dead”. I never had a dysfunctional abusive family background, I so admire her self awareness, inner confidence and candid humor/ strength. She turned her life tragedy/ trauma into healing and helping many others. What a bright talented light she is. 😍🥰😘👏🏻👑💎🏆🎭⚜️📺🥹💪🏻📚✍🏻 🙏🏻 🤍

  • @nomvuyomashile3373
    @nomvuyomashile3373 2 роки тому +79

    “That kind of honesty has been truly liberating for me”. You are loved Jennette McCurdy.