It sounds like being faithful to a woman is a struggle for a man, even if he is in love. That's the difference between a man and woman. If a woman is happy in a relationship and in love she doesn't wants to or needs to go with another man. Correct me if im wrong.
I don't agree. My grand parents were married for over 60 years and we're always together. 150 percent didn't cheat. There are a lot of stories of faithful couples. Men need to stop watching pornography, and stay off the internet. No way would I ever listen to a cheating man talk to me about God. Or teach me.
@@BigDeejaypro also when a man commits adultery, he has to tell his wife about it because then she gets to make a decision whether she wants to continue to stay married or not. If he doesn't tell her, then he's withholding by lying Now he also has an evil demonic soul tie in his marriage as well. And being a continual liar as well The Bible says not to grieve the holy Spirit, So do you think it pastor who is doing these things is hearing from God? I assure you their not.
But safe isn't always rewarding. I'd rather find my soulmate and grow with him with God in our lives. I'm tired of being alone. There's no such thing as "safe" in this world anyway. I could say I don't ever want to travel in a car because I could get into a car accident, but I enjoy going places and my freedom to drive. Yes, maybe there's more of a chance of a husband cheating than us getting into a car accident, but with God all things are possible.
@@tlc6756 You know what is rewarding? Having the freedom and autonomy to choose your life path without limitations. Loving and relating with people without attaching and/or being codependent on them to keep you company. Waking up every morning realizing that you are love and that no one can love you more than you can love yourself. Good luck on your search for a soul mate…you’re going to need it!!
@@FreeBirdee haha...well I think if you truly loved yourself like you say, you wouldn't have a need to make demeaning insults. This may be why you are bitter towards relationships. Yes, I agree, it's great to be single because there's no one to answer to and there's alot of freedom. But there can be a price to pay if we truly want to be married. Being married doesn't make the relationship codependent. With a spouse, each one can end of having freedom in other ways if each one is giving in healthy ways in the relationship. Perhaps you haven't come to a place of depth or insight yet about relationships it sounds. I wish you the best.
Mr. Gaskin, I am a true believer. I believe God has a man especially for me. I don't want a man that has no discipline. I don't want all those women in me.
There is some truth in wat he is saying but it's because men tend to lack in discipline when it comes to cheating because of their respect level towards women. They don't have a problem withholding when something is a deal breaker for them.
While no one has done it to me. I know if someone did best thing to do is leave them. I’m not going to lose my mental sanity or be kicked out of social groups bc of being withal a cheater
Whew!!!!!…. Thank you! Commitment is a matter of Discipline not Love. Ladies please remember that. I tell this to ladies who ask me all the time. Preach sir!
Some Men will stop cheating once he hits a Wheel Chair, on a Cain, a Walker and wearing Dentures lost all his hair on his head, and his wee wee not working no more, then he ready to settle down talking about he loves you and he's waiting you to cook him dinner 😂
This why after many years my husband and I have separate rooms. I need at least 8 hours of solid sleep and the snoring and different sleep patterns were killing my vibe. Things are better than ever. I can see why they did that back in the day.
Hopefully you can still commit to intimacy though. If you are Christians, the Bible says that you shouldn't deny each other sexual Intimacy (it never said you have to sleep in the same bed though, lol).
I honestly wasn't going to listen to this video bc a relationship is not a top priority now, BUT I usually do click on all Tony's videos when they pop up in my feed just to hit the like button and then go bout my business 😂 BUT for whatever reason I stayed, set the speed on 2.0 (I've found that I prefer to listen to videos and podcasts at high speeds) and so he began. It was nothing but an answer to a prayer I've been longing for for quite some time. Thank you, Tony. God finally said, "You gonna stop and listen TODAY"😂
Yes Tony go off! 😂 As long as I’m good with God and doing what I’m supposed to do, he gonna make sure I have everything I need on this earth until I’m gone! Very wonderful testimony Tony! I will take this knowledge in now that I’m 26🙏🏽
Mr. Gaskins, According to you no man has any discipline! Secondly, I don't want al those soul ties in me. No, no no! I want someone to love me for me. Your wife, I wonder how sure she can be about you?
I love all of this message and I’m only 22 mins in…come on Pastor, Coach, Mentor Man Of God!!! Praying continued blessings for you and and your family!
This message is the confirmation I needed, Tony. Thank you! I'm being tested, tempted, and ostracized right now from several different angles--- including a married man having the audacity to proposition me. My gangsta is being tested at the HIGHEST level, but the spirit told me to keep being a good person. Then I heard this message TODAY. Thank you!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!!!! God bless you and your family, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!!!!
You be hitting where it hurts. I feel this in my heart, my stomach. My eyes are getting puffy. I’ve been affirming “I accept me as I am” every time the feelings of unworthiness come up. Oh here come the tears.
l can honestly sympathize with you sweetie...praying / pouring out to GOD and DAILY AFFIRMATIONS is how you will build your self LOVE...l am praying for you...🤗❤🙏
We are WORTHY, and sometimes the person that we are pouring our ALL into, and if it's not being reciprocated, then they are vibrating on a lower level than we are, and we deserve better Queens. I'd rather be alone, than to have someone that I have to share, just because he's a MAN. No excuses!!!
@@whiteswan8210 Yes! I agree yes it hurts like hell when the man we love cheats. If it is one time and you pray seek God's guidance....you may forgive it one time BUT for me if you continue to cheat & disrespect our vows (if married) I WILL not stay period...no matter how much I love him or how well he takes care of me! And the same thing goes if we are dating "exclusively". Now if we are not exclusive that's another thing. I am worthy of love & a commitment from a man...I am not tolerating that anymore! I've lived and value myself much now than I did in my younger years.
Before I even watch, I’ll answer. They stop cheating when they bellies pop out and their prostate becomes an issue. Then you can have them to yourself.
I love the way Tony does his videos. He puts in so much information, and I always get something I didn't expect. You have a lifelong supporter. Your messages have genuinely changed my life. I was a broken and insecure mother of 7 who didn't know her worth and value. You taught me how to value myself. I took what I learned from you and wrote a best-selling book called: Love Yourself First. Now I have a UA-cam channel & I am working on my academy. Thank you, Tony!❤❤❤
Yeah every time I watch a video of you Tony I always learn something different. Love isn’t enough for men . I’ve witness a lot of men say this even in todays music. Once I get to know the man I see the root of there decisions in life. God really holds me accountable and shifts my perspective . I love this message by the way. Keep sharing the truth. God bless you❤
I have so much respect for you & rare men like you. I hope there are more men in the world who grows up to live life the way you do with this solid character, values, morals, etc. That means a lot more than money/status. Thank you for all you do & I love watching/listening to these videos whenever I get a chance. Your delivery is always on point & I literally lol when you say certain things. Stay blessed & God bless to you and your family! 🙏🏽
Preach, Tony, preach! When one lives in Righteousness, God is going to Bless them in all areas of their life! Stay Blessed, Tony because you live in Righteousness. Thank you for guiding the Ones who are listening.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I was in a serious relationship with a guy and I know he never cheated. The others did though. Not every guy cheats. Not even in the most horrific situation s in the relationship. I think cheating is an individual thing. Low self esteem, insecure, wife won't give him sex of any kind, boredom etc .Men and women should never be alone with the opposite sex either. Pentecostals send witnesses when a brother or sister needs help. No meeting a husband without his wife present. Big No No. Stay off the streets too, and away from big booty clubs and flirtatious women. And the internet!!
Tony, I want to thank you for all of your life-changing content. Your Growth Club, Saturday sessions, and UA-cam videos have helped me grow so much over the past year.
Man this man asked for a child, I get prego, he lost his son, & while I’m baking our child, he goes on a vacation & cheats. I tried to make it work but I can’t get over the face that he cheated while I was creating our child. He said the other woman offered the vacation since he lost his child but what woman gets involved in such an act while she knows his expecting a child (after losing his only one!) I know it takes two to tangle. So they can keep poisoning each other & leave mines alone. I’m over it. He plays like his all godly but constantly cheats! I need my power back. & your video is so true. He says “his doing what is needed for us” whole time she’s helping him get recruited into her job company. I’m sooos drained. My daughter is only 2 months & he just got his own Apt & says it’s for “us” yeah right! I tell him all the time his better off single! & I’ll show him better then telling him
WHEN YOU WALKING IN YOUR PURPOSE GOD GOT YOU. IT'S NOT JUST THE MONEY. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!! WHEN GOD BLESS YOU HE ADDS NO SORROW. PRESS DOWN SHAKEN TOGETHER AND RUNNING OVER!!!🙏🙏❤
Thank you Lord for this video!!! Just a reminder of the blessing you have for me after the storm!! Sometimes you get weary because of the storm. But the storm should make you happy because there is a blessing at the end of it! Just hold on and keep the faith, it's something beautiful waiting for you when it's all over!! Thank you Jesus for the storm!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Very powerful Tony I wonder if people will ever come to realize that cheating creates nothing positive .. it's like smoking .. what are you left with ... Nothing you can take to a bank .. or like picking up someone else's scraps off the ground ....😫 continued blessings to you Mr G .... You deserve EVERY blessing coming your way 💕🙏🏾
So good. I was gonna say that men stop cheating when they physically can't anymore.😏 And thanks for that reminder nugget about "you can't keep a person unless they want to be kept" in so many words. Some of the things that you said are kind of terrifying & heartbreaking because women think so much differently than men do. But I appreciate all of the advice nonetheless.Thank you again.
What I’m experiencing currently. My current BF was married for 13 years and openly admitted to constantly cheating on her. He is 38 and suffers from ED. I’ve never experienced this and it’s tough for me. I know it’s likely this condition that contributes to his monogamy.
@@Missybella92227 why are you putting up with that? If it was the other way around he would have left you. You deserve way better. His ED is his karma.
I agree! A god fearing man! There is nothing like it! You don’t need to worry about him listing after the next chick or watching porn or cheating! He is accountable to his maker who he knows sees EVERYTHING!! HUGE DIFFERENCE
If a husband is a Christian, he should already be in touch with his purpose...which is to love and cherish his wife (and to raise his children if they have them).
I think love can be enough for a man if he lost a woman he loved because he cheated in the past. Some men do learn that it wasn't worth it and become stronger/wiser the next time around.
Your wife is a very lucky and blessed young lady. I'm sure you are too, to have her in your life, as well. Keep up the good work. You sound like my step sister, she says her kids aren't getting any of her money either. I understand you both.
That part right there when tony said I’m not fixing to call my Wife, and his facial Expression, I laughed and rewind for about 3 Minutes, that was so damn funny..
This message is so vital! Thank you Tony. The next part I will share is for the CHRISTIAN. Being married doesn’t save your fleshly desire to cheat. Just like being saved and coming into salvation doesn’t save your flesh. We are spirit beings first! We need the HOLY SPIRIT everyday to help us to live a righteous upright life before our Heavenly Father. So as you say the fear of God keeps you, I completely understand! We all have our soulish struggles but we have to know there is a evil that fights us to. To the ones who are UNAWARE they will fall for the trap everytime. Example here cheating… as a Christian we have to keep our flesh under submission to the Holy Spirit. And for the unbeliever by default they are influenced and completely control (most of the time) by these desires to cheat. The rabbit hole goes deep, lust is a terrible demon and struggle. It’s never satisfied and once you stop letting it control your life it will still come, why because we’re in flesh!!! We have eyes and our other senses so temptation will always be. But like the scripture says no temptation is new to man God always provide a way of escape and another scripture that comes to mind resist the devil and he will flee from you. Resist means you have to fight it I tell people to run!!! Because once you come into agreement with the struggle/temptation it’s only a matter of time before you are found in it!!! Guard you eyes and ear gates all of your senses. Blessings to everyone who will see this comment. Jesus saves. And He loves us! The word of God is our boundary! Live by it!
I'm glad you exampled what resist mean. I kept reading the scripture resist the devil and he will flee and I kept thinking about that word resist even after looking up the definition. Idk reading this something just clicked 😂
Amen Great Topic in the buisness and or should I say The Oath Of God is very serious with which A lot of people should not sign up for marriage if they are not mentally physically and spiritually and emotionally ready it is levels to a prosperous and healthy marriage because at times when the body mind and or spirit gets weak you have to stay devoted to that husband and or wife in order to grow its like saying anybody can make a baby but it takes a real man or woman to raise one same as a MARRIAGE God Bless you and your Wife and Hope you keep spreading this information ! Fear no one but God ! ❤
So damn on point. The point of surrender to God and doing what's right by Him in obedience brings the blessing and overflow.....God and hustle and grind.....thank you for sharing those necessary wisdom pearls
😊wow this speaks: thank you for sharing. Helps me to understand more about my husband, ease things with my wondering chatting mind this silence all that mind chatter.
Tony is so funny and keeps me smiling along with the good information he provides. I know Tony talks about relationships but he seems to light up and have a passion when he talks about business things LOL.😊
Yessss men are very much so compartmentalized, and being disciplined within yourself is where it starts, its easy for men to live 2 and 3 different lifestyles, but god with make you pay that KARMIC DEBT back so the energy you dish out… is the energy you get right back ❤
Makes sense .. my ex was never a one women man . After we broke up he child with another women and has a son . Now he is finally “ tapped in” with her. That’s where the purpose came in . It’s sad though that a man needs a purpose to be 150% in . 🤷🏻♀️
Very true! Thank God for your relationship you have with God. Many one night stands received AIDS from cheating affairs. I pray God will continue to keep you. Amen!
I agree with your statement about men cheating and loving their wives. I had a conversation with a few women and told them...Jesus is the only way...LITERALLY! They seemed to feel bad about that, which I can understand as a woman, and because they know the men they're dating/married to/etc. haven't given their life to Christ. So, they continue to get cheated on. It's a whole mess.
“The devils throwing snares & God’s throwing blessings, people don’t know the difference “ This blessed me as my husband left me, his beautiful, faithful, forgiving wife with all of our kids living in horrendous conditions, got a new car, house, job, promoted several times while children & I don’t see a dollar. Snare made it make sense, mercy for his soul. I want God’s blessings that add no sorrow! Glad I listened to the end 😊
This is truly amazing thank you Lord for changing this man’s heart and for blessing him and his family for his sacrifice of be obedient renewing his mind and his heart!!! This is so inspiring Ty for sharing!
Hi you're just a MAN not a boy you comprehend with integrity of life what God did on the Cross I pray with a man no life circumstances I am so glad you said this when people say God did this the devil was God best on his
Thank you Tony I needed to hear your inspiration today I really did thank you ,you are a blessing,I love to see black love and black couples in a happy marriage
A chronic cheater will only stop cheating when he gets sick, is too old, no longer can perform well or the money ran out.
💯💯💯 and still be out there tryna find something to lick
My father said, when a man no longer has options, he stops cheating.
It sounds like being faithful to a woman is a struggle for a man, even if he is in love. That's the difference between a man and woman. If a woman is happy in a relationship and in love she doesn't wants to or needs to go with another man. Correct me if im wrong.
I don't agree. My grand parents were married for over 60 years and we're always together. 150 percent didn't cheat. There are a lot of stories of faithful couples. Men need to stop watching pornography, and stay off the internet. No way would I ever listen to a cheating man talk to me about God. Or teach me.
Wrong…..once hypergamy hits you’ll sleep wit the gardener, paper boy and the milkman🤷♂️
@@angelaslaton3211 no way you could even possibly know that for a fact smh
@@BigDeejaypro "Thou shall not commit adultery" Not everyone breaks that commandment, they fear God too much.
@@BigDeejaypro also when a man commits adultery, he has to tell his wife about it because then she gets to make a decision whether she wants to continue to stay married or not. If he doesn't tell her, then he's withholding by lying Now he also has an evil demonic soul tie in his marriage as well. And being a continual liar as well The Bible says not to grieve the holy Spirit, So do you think it pastor who is doing these things is hearing from God? I assure you their not.
The safest relationship to be in is with yourself.
I agree and what I plan to do is take myself out on dates.
I totally agree with you. Who has time for hidden agendas & games. Continue loving yourself, dating yourself & putting yourself first!!!❤❤❤
But safe isn't always rewarding. I'd rather find my soulmate and grow with him with God in our lives. I'm tired of being alone. There's no such thing as "safe" in this world anyway.
I could say I don't ever want to travel in a car because I could get into a car accident, but I enjoy going places and my freedom to drive. Yes, maybe there's more of a chance of a husband cheating than us getting into a car accident, but with God all things are possible.
@@tlc6756 You know what is rewarding? Having the freedom and autonomy to choose your life path without limitations. Loving and relating with people without attaching and/or being codependent on them to keep you company. Waking up every morning realizing that you are love and that no one can love you more than you can love yourself. Good luck on your search for a soul mate…you’re going to need it!!
@@FreeBirdee haha...well I think if you truly loved yourself like you say, you wouldn't have a need to make demeaning insults. This may be why you are bitter towards relationships. Yes, I agree, it's great to be single because there's no one to answer to and there's alot of freedom. But there can be a price to pay if we truly want to be married. Being married doesn't make the relationship codependent. With a spouse, each one can end of having freedom in other ways if each one is giving in healthy ways in the relationship. Perhaps you haven't come to a place of depth or insight yet about relationships it sounds. I wish you the best.
I’m realizing Tony is too much truth for a lot of these people. But Lord give Him strength to stay in his purpose.
Right ‼️❤️🔥
Mr. Gaskin,
I am a true believer. I believe God has a man especially for me. I don't want a man that has no discipline. I don't want all those women in me.
I don't like or trust your advice. May God continue to bless you anyway. I think you need prayer.
@@ptalester i think we all need prayer, no matter how well we’re doing in life. Be fr
There is some truth in wat he is saying but it's because men tend to lack in discipline when it comes to cheating because of their respect level towards women. They don't have a problem withholding when something is a deal breaker for them.
When I don’t have time to watch your content I still put a like on it because you’re genuine and trustworthy
Same 🙏🏾
Me too!!
Exactly
Always!!!
I do the same because I already know TG's content is genuine and transparent .
I really wish more men thought like this. The family unit is suffering badly.
It definitely is in the black community…. I see too many broken homes in the black community
The down low manosphere is spiritual wa*fare and has destroyed and turned out those men who let their weak minds be infiltr.
Agreed.
Blk men don't value marriage or blk women
Yep
Kinda reached a point in my life where I view people cheating on each other as something trashy like a jerry springer episode or judge Judy episode
While no one has done it to me. I know if someone did best thing to do is leave them. I’m not going to lose my mental sanity or be kicked out of social groups bc of being withal a cheater
Being with a cheater is social suicide. Please everyone living in America, don’t feel obligated to stay with a cheater
@@Negative_A It really is 😂
When he begins respecting himself.
No one has time for games. Women, please put yourselves first and don't surrender power to game players!!! You DERSERVE BETTER!!!❤
The more he talks the more.I don’t want a man there behavior is what I don’t want around me👁️
Whew!!!!!…. Thank you!
Commitment is a matter of Discipline not Love. Ladies please remember that. I tell this to ladies who ask me all the time.
Preach sir!
Some Men will stop cheating once he hits a Wheel Chair, on a Cain, a Walker and wearing Dentures lost all his hair on his head, and his wee wee not working no more, then he ready to settle down talking about he loves you and he's waiting you to cook him dinner 😂
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😅 That's so true!
I've said this a million times 😅
Yep! Pretty much 😂😂😂
Or his "member" stops working
This why after many years my husband and I have separate rooms. I need at least 8 hours of solid sleep and the snoring and different sleep patterns were killing my vibe. Things are better than ever. I can see why they did that back in the day.
How y’all get things back together
@@Queengemi5 Giving each other space.
Hopefully you can still commit to intimacy though. If you are Christians, the Bible says that you shouldn't deny each other sexual Intimacy (it never said you have to sleep in the same bed though, lol).
@@tlc6756 If anything it increased it. No one is in the mood if they don't sleep right .
@@diadash that's wonderful 😊
I honestly wasn't going to listen to this video bc a relationship is not a top priority now, BUT I usually do click on all Tony's videos when they pop up in my feed just to hit the like button and then go bout my business 😂 BUT for whatever reason I stayed, set the speed on 2.0 (I've found that I prefer to listen to videos and podcasts at high speeds) and so he began. It was nothing but an answer to a prayer I've been longing for for quite some time. Thank you, Tony. God finally said, "You gonna stop and listen TODAY"😂
Yes Tony go off! 😂 As long as I’m good with God and doing what I’m supposed to do, he gonna make sure I have everything I need on this earth until I’m gone! Very wonderful testimony Tony! I will take this knowledge in now that I’m 26🙏🏽
Mr. Gaskins,
According to you no man has any discipline! Secondly, I don't want al those soul ties in me. No, no no! I want someone to love me for me. Your wife, I wonder how sure she can be about you?
When Tony gives the disclaimer about being a man.. it always takes me out bc he bout to go in 😂😂 lol
I love all of this message and I’m only 22 mins in…come on Pastor, Coach, Mentor Man Of God!!! Praying continued blessings for you and and your family!
This message is the confirmation I needed, Tony. Thank you! I'm being tested, tempted, and ostracized right now from several different angles--- including a married man having the audacity to proposition me.
My gangsta is being tested at the HIGHEST level, but the spirit told me to keep being a good person.
Then I heard this message TODAY.
Thank you!!! Thank you!!! Thank you!!!!!
God bless you and your family, Mr. and Mrs. Gaskins!!!!
You be hitting where it hurts. I feel this in my heart, my stomach. My eyes are getting puffy. I’ve been affirming “I accept me as I am” every time the feelings of unworthiness come up. Oh here come the tears.
l can honestly sympathize with you sweetie...praying / pouring out to GOD and DAILY AFFIRMATIONS is how you will build your self LOVE...l am praying for you...🤗❤🙏
You are beautiful! I affirm this with you! 🙏🏾
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We are WORTHY, and sometimes the person that we are pouring our ALL into, and if it's not being reciprocated, then they are vibrating on a lower level than we are, and we deserve better Queens.
I'd rather be alone, than to have someone that I have to share, just because he's a MAN. No excuses!!!
@@whiteswan8210 Yes! I agree yes it hurts like hell when the man we love cheats. If it is one time and you pray seek God's guidance....you may forgive it one time BUT for me if you continue to cheat & disrespect our vows (if married) I WILL not stay period...no matter how much I love him or how well he takes care of me! And the same thing goes if we are dating "exclusively". Now if we are not exclusive that's another thing. I am worthy of love & a commitment from a man...I am not tolerating that anymore! I've lived and value myself much now than I did in my younger years.
Before I even watch, I’ll answer. They stop cheating when they bellies pop out and their prostate becomes an issue. Then you can have them to yourself.
😂😂😂😂 might just be true
Eww……no thanks. 😅
@@Liyahw2326 it’s true. That’s how the baby boomer women stayed married for 40 years. Grin and bear it until they age out of being desired 🤣
@@Emptytopfloor 🤣
I’ve been rewatching numerous videos of yours.. you’re pure gold
All men should watch this and TAP IN!
"My credit with God is good"... 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Exactly..my husband says he fears God..I tell folks all the time that my husband's faithfulness and commitment has little to do with me.
I love the way Tony does his videos. He puts in so much information, and I always get something I didn't expect. You have a lifelong supporter. Your messages have genuinely changed my life. I was a broken and insecure mother of 7 who didn't know her worth and value. You taught me how to value myself. I took what I learned from you and wrote a best-selling book called: Love Yourself First. Now I have a UA-cam channel & I am working on my academy. Thank you, Tony!❤❤❤
Yeah every time I watch a video of you Tony I always learn something different.
Love isn’t enough for men .
I’ve witness a lot of men say this even in todays music. Once I get to know the man I see the root of there decisions in life.
God really holds me accountable and shifts my perspective .
I love this message by the way. Keep sharing the truth.
God bless you❤
I have so much respect for you & rare men like you. I hope there are more men in the world who grows up to live life the way you do with this solid character, values, morals, etc. That means a lot more than money/status. Thank you for all you do & I love watching/listening to these videos whenever I get a chance. Your delivery is always on point & I literally lol when you say certain things. Stay blessed & God bless to you and your family! 🙏🏽
Preach, Tony, preach! When one lives in Righteousness, God is going to Bless them in all areas of their life! Stay Blessed, Tony because you live in Righteousness. Thank you for guiding the Ones who are listening.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I was in a serious relationship with a guy and I know he never cheated. The others did though. Not every guy cheats. Not even in the most horrific situation s in the relationship. I think cheating is an individual thing. Low self esteem, insecure, wife won't give him sex of any kind, boredom etc .Men and women should never be alone with the opposite sex either. Pentecostals send witnesses when a brother or sister needs help. No meeting a husband without his wife present. Big No No. Stay off the streets too, and away from big booty clubs and flirtatious women. And the internet!!
Tony, I want to thank you for all of your life-changing content. Your Growth Club, Saturday sessions, and UA-cam videos have helped me grow so much over the past year.
Man this man asked for a child, I get prego, he lost his son, & while I’m baking our child, he goes on a vacation & cheats. I tried to make it work but I can’t get over the face that he cheated while I was creating our child. He said the other woman offered the vacation since he lost his child but what woman gets involved in such an act while she knows his expecting a child (after losing his only one!) I know it takes two to tangle. So they can keep poisoning each other & leave mines alone. I’m over it. He plays like his all godly but constantly cheats! I need my power back. & your video is so true. He says “his doing what is needed for us” whole time she’s helping him get recruited into her job company. I’m sooos drained. My daughter is only 2 months & he just got his own Apt & says it’s for “us” yeah right! I tell him all the time his better off single! & I’ll show him better then telling him
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60yrs, trying to figure stuff out for years. God's spiritual wisdom is ageless, timeless. Thank you (UK).
You are a true man of Integrity...thank you man of God, for your honesty and openness. Thank you for using your gift of telling the truth❤
Tony’s so unintentionally funny 😂
I swear. Not hit her with the $5😂 That's some discount 😻 forreal.
WHEN YOU WALKING IN YOUR PURPOSE GOD GOT YOU. IT'S NOT JUST THE MONEY. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!! WHEN GOD BLESS YOU HE ADDS NO SORROW. PRESS DOWN SHAKEN TOGETHER AND RUNNING OVER!!!🙏🙏❤
Thank you Lord for this video!!! Just a reminder of the blessing you have for me after the storm!! Sometimes you get weary because of the storm. But the storm should make you happy because there is a blessing at the end of it! Just hold on and keep the faith, it's something beautiful waiting for you when it's all over!! Thank you Jesus for the storm!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
Very powerful Tony
I wonder if people will ever come to realize that cheating creates nothing positive .. it's like smoking .. what are you left with ... Nothing you can take to a bank .. or like picking up someone else's scraps off the ground ....😫
continued blessings to you Mr G ....
You deserve EVERY blessing coming your way 💕🙏🏾
Thank you, Uncle Tony. Today I've learned the difference between jail vs prison. I had no idea. This video is full of GEMS 💎
“ I’m spending my money”!! 😂 facts. No need to hold on to Money for dear life. This whole message was soooo good!
That part took me out 😂💀💀😭 Tony is hilarious man
So good. I was gonna say that men stop cheating when they physically can't anymore.😏
And thanks for that reminder nugget about "you can't keep a person unless they want to be kept" in so many words.
Some of the things that you said are kind of terrifying & heartbreaking because women think so much differently than men do. But I appreciate all of the advice nonetheless.Thank you again.
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What I’m experiencing currently.
My current BF was married for 13 years and openly admitted to constantly cheating on her.
He is 38 and suffers from ED. I’ve never experienced this and it’s tough for me. I know it’s likely this condition that contributes to his monogamy.
@@Missybella92227 why are you putting up with that? If it was the other way around he would have left you. You deserve way better. His ED is his karma.
@@la6136 Yep, probably from porn use.
So is this why you’re with him? Do you feel you deserve better?
I agree! A god fearing man! There is nothing like it! You don’t need to worry about him listing after the next chick or watching porn or cheating! He is accountable to his maker who he knows sees EVERYTHING!! HUGE DIFFERENCE
If a husband is a Christian, he should already be in touch with his purpose...which is to love and cherish his wife (and to raise his children if they have them).
PUT ALL OF YOUR TRUST IN CREATOR AND HE WILL DIRECT YOUR PATH!
I think love can be enough for a man if he lost a woman he loved because he cheated in the past. Some men do learn that it wasn't worth it and become stronger/wiser the next time around.
I'm giving up on love, just sounds like there's no hope
I keep hearing men are lonely and yet they can’t stop cheating? No thanks. I’m happy with my own company.
Tony, you are awesome!!
“I’m spending my money” you funny to me!!!🤣🤣🤣😆
"You're not going to sacrifice for God, for long, without reaping the benefits"💯🎯
you helping a lot of women including myself. thank you so much tony!
Oh the tap-ins coming in I’m sure on this one. 😂 listen to the end…so many takeaways in this one here.
Amen tell ‘‘em Tony, it’s the Lord faithfulness. God will reward the faithful
YES LORD, THIS MAN IS TELLING THE TRUTH.
Im going through spiritual warfare and enemy wants to also bring down my children!
Same
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@The Lovely Life thank you very much! I pray that God uses you in a very special way in others’ lives.
Very powerful message brother!
I believe he is totally correct! I love his speaking. Ive always wanted to know a mans perspective
Your wife is a very lucky and blessed young lady. I'm sure you are too, to have her in your life, as well. Keep up the good work. You sound like my step sister, she says her kids aren't getting any of her money either. I understand you both.
Not the part about playing with the scammers 😂😂
Amen! Love that part that my credit with God is good 🙏🏾.
That part right there when tony said I’m not fixing to call my Wife, and his facial Expression, I laughed and rewind for about 3 Minutes, that was so damn funny..
15:59 I was listening but at this point 15:59 my spirit shook my body. I know for a fact that that is true! Abundant...!!!!!!
THIS! Very encouraging, spirit-filled message. Thanks, TG!
This message is so vital! Thank you Tony. The next part I will share is for the CHRISTIAN. Being married doesn’t save your fleshly desire to cheat. Just like being saved and coming into salvation doesn’t save your flesh. We are spirit beings first! We need the HOLY SPIRIT everyday to help us to live a righteous upright life before our Heavenly Father. So as you say the fear of God keeps you, I completely understand! We all have our soulish struggles but we have to know there is a evil that fights us to. To the ones who are UNAWARE they will fall for the trap everytime. Example here cheating… as a Christian we have to keep our flesh under submission to the Holy Spirit. And for the unbeliever by default they are influenced and completely control (most of the time) by these desires to cheat. The rabbit hole goes deep, lust is a terrible demon and struggle. It’s never satisfied and once you stop letting it control your life it will still come, why because we’re in flesh!!! We have eyes and our other senses so temptation will always be. But like the scripture says no temptation is new to man God always provide a way of escape and another scripture that comes to mind resist the devil and he will flee from you. Resist means you have to fight it I tell people to run!!! Because once you come into agreement with the struggle/temptation it’s only a matter of time before you are found in it!!! Guard you eyes and ear gates all of your senses. Blessings to everyone who will see this comment. Jesus saves. And He loves us! The word of God is our boundary! Live by it!
100% listen to your Holy Spirit. Stay strong in Jesus Christ. G✝️D first.
I'm glad you exampled what resist mean. I kept reading the scripture resist the devil and he will flee and I kept thinking about that word resist even after looking up the definition. Idk reading this something just clicked 😂
@@Faith459 yes!!! Amen!!! Hit me like that too, God says run lol pretty much!
Amen! Very true thank you for this 😊
Amen
Amen Great Topic in the buisness and or should I say The Oath Of God is very serious with which A lot of people should not sign up for marriage if they are not mentally physically and spiritually and emotionally ready it is levels to a prosperous and healthy marriage because at times when the body mind and or spirit gets weak you have to stay devoted to that husband and or wife in order to grow its like saying anybody can make a baby but it takes a real man or woman to raise one same as a MARRIAGE God Bless you and your Wife and Hope you keep spreading this information ! Fear no one but God ! ❤
I needed this topic today! Thank you Tony!
So damn on point. The point of surrender to God and doing what's right by Him in obedience brings the blessing and overflow.....God and hustle and grind.....thank you for sharing those necessary wisdom pearls
😊wow this speaks: thank you for sharing. Helps me to understand more about my husband, ease things with my wondering chatting mind this silence all that mind chatter.
Most men who approach me are married🤦🏾♀️
They're sick of their wives
Brother Tony the last 5 mins! 😂😂😂😂😂God bless you! I love your teaching style 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Your son is 16?! Wow! Time has flown! I remember when he was a lil kid playing soccer.
HEAVY ON THE “IM SPENDING MY MONEY” 😂😂😂😂
Thanks for this TG! Praying for all of us 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾
THEY NEVER STOP CHEATING SMH
Yes sir Tony! This is a powerful message and helpful when picking a future husband
Please Tony next video “Rooted & Grounded” how to recognize it in yourself first!
I like how Mr Tony breaks things down an bring forth understanding. Thank you so much
Thank you for the gems as always! Main thing you gotta fear God
Tony is so funny and keeps me smiling along with the good information he provides. I know Tony talks about relationships but he seems to light up and have a passion when he talks about business things LOL.😊
Yessss men are very much so compartmentalized, and being disciplined within yourself is where it starts, its easy for men to live 2 and 3 different lifestyles, but god with make you pay that KARMIC DEBT back so the energy you dish out… is the energy you get right back ❤
Makes sense .. my ex was never a one women man . After we broke up he child with another women and has a son . Now he is finally “ tapped in” with her. That’s where the purpose came in . It’s sad though that a man needs a purpose to be 150% in . 🤷🏻♀️
I promise you he will cheat on her! Be happy you dodged that bullet.
Good will win in the end!! Makes me so happy because I do go through some attacks and I know it’s short term.
Thank you for being honest. We all need to hear and know the truth.
Amen.. It takes more than Love to have a Successful relationship.
I love listening to his content. Thank you Tony!!!!!!!
Thank you for this, your words are always truth. Continue what you do, servicing God through your channel. Giving knowledge to many many people. 🙏🏽
I'm so glad I listened to this one. Faith without works is dead.
This is why I'll never respect a man.... I'll never trust him therefore I'll never feel safe so he's no good to me.
Same I will be never
Very true! Thank God for your relationship you have with God. Many one night stands received AIDS from cheating affairs. I pray God will continue to keep you. Amen!
Enjoy the fruits of your labor, TG 🙏🏽
😂 when he started talking about spending all his money 😂
I agree with your statement about men cheating and loving their wives. I had a conversation with a few women and told them...Jesus is the only way...LITERALLY! They seemed to feel bad about that, which I can understand as a woman, and because they know the men they're dating/married to/etc. haven't given their life to Christ. So, they continue to get cheated on. It's a whole mess.
“The devils throwing snares & God’s throwing blessings, people don’t know the difference “ This blessed me as my husband left me, his beautiful, faithful, forgiving wife with all of our kids living in horrendous conditions, got a new car, house, job, promoted several times while children & I don’t see a dollar.
Snare made it make sense, mercy for his soul. I want God’s blessings that add no sorrow! Glad I listened to the end 😊
You just lit a fire underneath me Tony. I’m signing up for some courses classes etc. I’m manifesting a 100k business
This is truly amazing thank you Lord for changing this man’s heart and for blessing him and his family for his sacrifice of be obedient renewing his mind and his heart!!! This is so inspiring Ty for sharing!
36:45 is gospel!!! This is how I made the choice to align with the husband. Lack of character & discipline scares me.
Sir we need generational wealth in our community!
BLESSINGS VS. SNARES !!!! TONY U BETTER PREACH THAT THANG !!!!
🔥🔥🔥 powerful. Thank you! Yes, fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom 🙏🧡
Hi you're just a MAN not a boy you comprehend with integrity of life what God did on the Cross I pray with a man no life circumstances I am so glad you said this when people say God did this the devil was God best on his
You better preach and testify for Christ Sir! Good teaching. 🙏🏾👍🏽
Thank you Tony I needed to hear your inspiration today I really did thank you ,you are a blessing,I love to see black love and black couples in a happy marriage