THIS FEELS LIKE AN INVASION... | Reaction to The First Vlog Of The Rest Of Our Lives
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Only a few minutes in and Paul telling Morgan that the vlogs are up to her even though she’s already taking care of both babies while Paul is off playing pickleball is taking me OUT
Right?? And I bet she doesn’t get to leave the house to edit and get free sandwiches while she’s putting the finishing touches on the vlogs either.
She's taking care of three babies 🍼
It’s just shy of like watching a single mom & her 30 something brother who stops by to check in from time to time.
Spot on!
lol…yeah that’s a great way to describe it 😂
It's so sad how accurate a description that is 💀
Oh my gosh, pickleball 5 days a week?? 😂 when you have two young kids at home?? That’s an ick I will never recover from
Couldn’t have said it better myself
I feel like 90% of the vlog is Paul leaving to do something for himself.
Not me screaming “PAUL. YOU’RE OUT ALL DAY WHY DIDN’T YOU PICK UP EGGS” at my laptop on a Sunday morning.
Friendly reminder: driving is the most dangerous activity most people do in their entire lives, and on a regular basis. Don’t be a Paul.
I don't know if you saw it, but a few weeks back, Morgan had an IG story where she was essentially breaking down about how much she's struggling with the two kids. Paul's story was him coming home to ice his knee after a day of pickleball and filming her making HIM dinner. While he say his butt on the couch. Because pickleball.
If that doesn't just sum up their new dynamic, idk what does
She has 3 kids. No husband. Just 3 kids.
And she still told him to go pro.. lol I'd tell him to go get a full time job asap or he's sleeping on the couch. She complains and yet she created her own problems but will never admit Paul is inherently selfish as she his blinded by her love for him
A more than small part of me feels like her "encouragement" for him going pro is just to keep him out of the house and away from her since he's probably more work for her at home 🥴
This is the "traditional" dynamic they subscribe to. But yeah it looks awful for her.
@@emmaruffin-cromer8266💯
My takeaway from their vlog is that... Paul and Morgan are living separate lives. 🤷♀️
It really seems that way. He’s apparently got all day to do whatever he wants and is choosing not to eat dinner with his family? Interesting.
@@BHaney Yeah, the implication he's not home all that much was... something. It's not like he's working a 9-5.
It's really weird. He was barely home and they both admitted that he was home longer that day than he normally is. And didn't he say the pickleball courts are only 5 minutes from their house? No excuse not to come home and help out.
I recently learned about a woman who decided to try out the trad wife life as an experiment for the week. Her perspective was really interesting, but what struck me was her husband's experience of this experiment.
He said that suddenly, he became a spectator to his family's relationships with each other.
While Morgan isn't a trad wife, I think that they have a similar dynamic where Paul is merely a spectator in his family.
@@carlyo7538wow do you know the name of so I could look this up? (It’s okay if you don’t! Just sounds very interesting, thank you in advance if you do answer)
Despite Morgan having some awful beliefs, I still hold so much empathy for her. She seems to be holding intense emotional and mental labor while Paul is off just dicking around 🙄.
And people on Instagram reels are terrible. It feels like the new Facebook.
I honestly give her 2 years before she cracks and divorces him. And when she does shes gonna do a 180 on her beliefs and lifestyle
31:32 Jesus I didn’t know Paul was 35- not because of appearance, but because of his immaturity. I’m floored. He just…feels like such a frat bro.
More like a dork who coplays he's a frat bro...but yeah.
Same!! How old is Morgan!? She seems like a baby next to him!
He definitely has the emotional maturity of a teenager .... sometimes ppl struggle bc they have a ton of trauma at a young age .... their brain gets stuck. I could be projecting for sure though 😅
I can’t stand Paul to be honest. That smug face 🤢
@@justvibinginouterdarkness Wow that was… surprising yeah. I knew he was in his 30s but i thought he was like 30 or something. Not in the middle of 30 and 40 xD I thought I was older than him but that’s not really hard to think because I’m like and old woman compared to him even though I’m just 32 and actually younger… Lol. How old is Morgan? Does someone know? She looks quite young.
If Paul says "go pro in pickle ball " one more time in that damn video.....
To me, it is so clear that their family is designed around Paul's dreams and whims. Morgan is expected to sacrifice her hobbies and desires for the management of their family. With that in mind, I have a lot of empathy for the misery that comes through in her portions of the vlog. I would be completely miserable, too, if my life centered solely on keeping the family fed, rested, loved, and played with while my partner flits around, having all the energy in the world to goof off and decide to become a professional pickleball player in their late 20s.
Paul said he is 35 😬 not his late 20’s
I didn’t know his age before this either and also assumed he was in his 20’s
i mean that's conservative christian family values for you. i feel for her, it sucks she got tricked into thinking this is what god wants for her life. hopefully he starts treating her like a human, not a helpmeet
@@carlyo7538 I have to wonder if they realized this while editing how different their lives are
@@carlyo7538 I hate to say it but 35 is a bit old for pro sport of any type what the fudge
@heavenj7 That's the other thing! Most pro players are in their late teens and early twenties. Certain sports are more impacted by age than others, pickleball being less impacted by design, but it's still something to keep in mind. Especially because once you reach 40, the odds of being able to maintain an athletic career are much lower, i.e. Paul is looking at a very short career, if he even manages to break into the pro scene.
Doing a sport and being good at it is _vastly_ different to being a professional. You can be 35-40 and good at a sport, but can you beat a bunch of much younger people who train just as hard as you and are good enough to be competing professionally? Generally not. The oldest person to win a gold medal in the history of the Olympics was 36. Sport notoriously retires people young.
paul is deeply insufferable
I wish Morgan would divorce him and get her own life. She’s doing EVERYTHING a single parent would do… except she’s married. Might as well be free of this toxic, do-nothing man!
Thank you for calling out the “can you order me a tripod” statement. That was very telling lol
yup. shows up really quickly that she is carrying not only the emotional and physical load of running the home but the mental too.
This (their blog, not you B!) feels like satire. This man finds a way to spend no more than ten minutes actively caring for his awake children despite not having an actual job, while his tired, overwhelmed, postpartum wife does all of the actual work. He says he typically doesn’t come home for lunch, and then he goes out for dinner without his family?! I hopped over to the actual video for a second to see the comments and they are overwhelmingly positive. I feel insane. These clowns.
I still strongly suspect he does gig work like Doordash or Instacart and he NEEDS to admit it. At least that way, his constant absences and eating on the go make sense and help his family. But trying to show he just goes out to play all day while Morgan does everything else is....not a good look
Yeah I bet they're overwhelmingly positive. having been a very toe the line evangelical for a very long time myself I can tell you that you put blinders on and rose colored glasses and think everybody on "your team " is just by default a good person . I had to learn some very painful lessons that just because someone confesses some things with their mouth that agree with your beliefs does not a good person make.
Overwhelmingly evangelicals watch what a person says versus what they actually do.
I hopped over to read the comments and it made me feel insane as well. I don't understand.
They delete comments now. I never noticed it when they were doing their rage bait content bc I guess they expected it. But now they delete anything that isn’t positive.
@@ekxikas that makes sense and explains a lot
So Morgan is basically a single mom to three kids
LITERALLLLYYYY
Paul's "groundbreaking" wisdom about becoming a pro athlete (focusing on basics, having to work on your focus and mental strategy, building strength and stretching to avoid injury, etc.) are some of the most basic aspects about doing any physical activity well. I keep saying "oh, REALLY Paul?" out loud every time he showers us with his "insights." Good grief.
Also, when he explained what is in a Reuben sandwich to Morgan and the audience like he invented the damn thing😂
He also started that morning, sooo a little weird.
Also it’s fucking pickle ball you’re no star athlete
he really is parody of a mediocre man
@@binglemarie42 and he says it like he’s sharing something so enlightening
Sorry but if we have two kids and i'm at home raising them and you're dinkin around having a life, we're getting a divorce. i have one kid and my husband is gone at work and it's HARD. let alone if he wasnt working and was just having a life while i wasn't
NOT Paul telling the *internet* the daily routine for his wife and two kids---with identifying landmarks---while knowing that anyone can find his home address 😮😮
I’m glad I’m not the only one who was concerned about this! They shared so many locations just in this one video.
Ugh, He was raised to be ignorant and naive and he is....
I had the same reaction! Jeepers.
Yup. I live in Lexington and am pretty sure I know where they live. Or at least approximately.
@@kriggsart that's terrifying, especially with kiddos. They put out one video so far!!!
New viewer but wanted to share my win because I’m very proud: I got through my MRI without medication and without using the panic button 🎉
Yay! I celebrate with you!
Yay!!!! MRI'S are not for the weak. Proud of you!
Good job, I’m proud of you!!
Congrats! I'm not claustrophobic but I know that can be tough. I have a lot of pain in long mris for some reason so it's tough to get through them sometimes
Not Paul admitting he only came home for lunch because of the vlog 😶
I don't know if anyone annoys me the way that Paul does.. it's a talent he has. Lol
He’s up there with “most annoying dudes of all time” for me too
I can see deciding to go back to law school or med school in your 30s to make a better life for your family, but the idea of trying to go pro in *checks notes* pickleball seems like some unserious, dead end venture. But alas, too each their own. It is not like P&M can afford to be taken less serious.
The way Paul said “I’ve never had to be so locked in/mentally focused in my whole life” about PICKLEBALL??? Not when you became a husband or a father? 😐
not paul eating cereal and milk in the car like Dennis from It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia 😭
It’s so uncanny I will never unsee Dennis in him now😭
😂 so glad others caught this
😂💀 he has such Dennis energy too
Win for the week: made HUGE strides in being able to clearly, directly, but kindly uphold boundaries with people. this is a huge personal achievement for me.
👏👏👏
Why is he like this? How can he be such an oblivious spouse? How is he so douchey? How do you manage to be douchey about sandwiches??? The dude was douchey about eating sandwiches!
The way this was written made me laugh 😂
He has a special talent of being completely infuriating.
I don’t understand it!!!!
Paul is so insanely unaware, I can't believe this isn't satire. "The road to pro is before me if I'm willing to take it."
The road to pro...in pickleball...PICKLEBALL. Why is he talking himself up like he's getting ready for some crazy intense journey? How does Morgan take him seriously??
I just recently saw a tik tok about a neurologist i think who studied her brain through pregnancy! she took scans of her brain throughout her pregnancy and the amounts of grey and white matter changed! The woman who wrote it is Laura Pritschet!
That is super cool!
I saw that too!! It’s great that they are doing studies on this since so many people experience it
Paul's Day: Spend hours playing pickle ball, come home to eat food Morgan made. Working hard... making a thumbnail. Eat more food Morgan cooked, put a camera in Morgan's face to ask her questions about her actually taking care of the kids, whine about whatever, watch kids while Morgan is gone for 30 minutes... while they nap. lounge around once Morgan gets home, eat more food Morgan made, sleep.
Morgan's Day: get up, get the kids up, make breakfast take the kids to the store, keep the kids entertained with a walk/play place, make lunch, feed kids and Paul, clean, cook again, continue to look after kids. Hear Paul whine after he puts a camera in your face, go to the gym, make dinner, get kids ready for bed, sleep.
This driving while vlogging nonsense has to be stopped. Distracted driving is JUST AS DANGEROUS as drunk driving. This is an utter disregard for safety and life. Very pro-life.
I, like Morgan, have some pretty intense panic and anxiety disorders and postpartum was a special kind of hell. I could barely leave the house without breaking down. My husband stepped up and took over so many of the outside duties, like shopping with the kids and taking them out alone so I could have time to rest and heal. Imagining my life with the lack of support Morgan is dealing with...I don't think I would have survived. He is utterly selfish and useless.
why is paul trying to become a PICKLE BALL PROFESSIONAL at thirty five years old when his wife is at home with post partum depression trying to take care of two young, loud kids?!!! (i mean obviously i know the reason is become of Patriarchial Christian Fundamentalism... but, the only time Paul was the sole caregiver for the kids was when they were both napping)
Usually I advocate for trying new things at any age, but GOSH!!! Paul contributes ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to this family!
So I'm a quite jaded and bitter person at this point in my life, and I do have some truly happy, fun good moments where my voice and inflection sounds happy and fun, but at my worst moments, on my worst days (which happens fairly often lately), my tone is EXACTLY the same as Morgan's throughout this entire video. The way Paul so enthusiastically asks such dumb meaningless questions (for example the pastrami) and her responses ("I love it" in the most dry, underwhelmed way possible) make it clear that they are on COMPLETELY different wavelengths. Paul is super into this. Morgan is absolutely fucking miserable and hates every minute of it. It's truly sad and I hope she takes control of her life one day. And I truly hope they don't have more kids because she's so obviously overwhelmed with the two that they have. And girl the newborn stage is the simplest one ... They are both gonna have big, loud, relentless personalities and opinions in a year or two and ... Well, good luck I guess 😬😅
Totally agree 😬 she's basically a married "single" mom at this point.
Unfortunately she is blinded by her love for Paul and will not come to terms that he is beyond selfish and will continue to be miserable on and off camera
@@camillekartchner Many fundamentalists are.
@@steph_lynn3625probably less blinded by her love for him but by the biblical obligations of a wife that she has been brainwashed to believe in.
Considering a lot of current Pro Pickleball players have had a lot of experience in other racquet sports for many, many years, Paul is laughably behind. Seeing him being so unsupportive of Morgan and just doing whatever whim comes to his mind. Spending more money on things that just aren't needed and avoiding spending time with his kids. So upsetting.
Paul mentions getting up early for practice is difficult for him and that he didn’t realize Pickleball was a mental sport. Like dude you want to become pro and this is what you are saying right away??💀 I used to train every day in Tennis for maybe 5 years and that still wasn’t enough to go pro. He doesn’t realize how long and difficult it’ll be I assume
I’m amazed at how little work ethic he has.
MWFTW: Splurging on my Birthday! I'm 45 now .
Why does this come off as Paul and Morgan live completely separate lives?!
Can you imagine being out just enjoying a big sammich while your postpartum wife of two tiny children is at home trying to muster the energy to make dinner? Umm… how easy it would have been to grab dinner and take it home to them! My husband would have never done that to me. Even if I’d said no, he would have brought my mom and me something & said y’all can eat it for lunch tomorrow if you don’t want it now. He’s a walking red flag
Girl. Good for you for posting 37 weeks pregnant. You're almost at the end of an ultramarathon. Go you!
Pickle ball for fun is fine. But at 35. With a wife and two kids. I think it is wise to spend your time bringing in a legit income and saving for retirement and/or investing. Maybe they are. But let’s get real. Training for a marathon is one thing.. Come on Paul. Come on.
I’m sorry, but Paul literally sounds to me like an alien trying to sound like a human explaining the importance of practicing a sport. I legit cannot take it seriously 🤣
He’s a parody of himself.
I just saw a video of a neuroscientist who was pregnant and was scanning her brain throughout pregnancy and it showed a lot of changes. Now they will use that as the base to do further studies
I can’t tell if he’s serious about “going pro” with pickle ball. I thought it was a joke at first, but now I’m afraid he might be serious…
Unless the reason that he doesn't come home for lunch consistently has to do with inconsistent times for his daily pickleball drills or occasionally getting lunch with a sparring partner, Paul not coming home for lunch really surprises me. And it makes me a little frustrated for Morgan, because it sounds like this causes her to go entire days without a break despite both of them working from home. If she's fine with this arrangement, good for her; personally, that would bug me, especially considering how light Paul's average day is compared to Morgan's...
You are one of the only people I can watch because you're so respectful always, but I have to say, I truly appreciate that you've basically run out of f--ks with Paul, B.
Paul talking about getting sandwiches and how much he enjoyed his time right after Morgan looks absolutely exhausted and drained took me out!! 🥴
I just find Paul to be insufferable. Dude, maybe as a 35 year old husband, and father of two, it is time that you prioritize providing for your family not exploiting your family. Professional pickleball?!?!? Good grief.
I'm excited for you to meet your baby in a few weeks, B! I will be praying for your delivery and postpartum! To answer your question about funny things you forget/memory slips postpartum, mine was I couldn't remember the word "swaddle" for weeks, so I would ask my husband to grab the "snuggle". I literally could never remember and so now we just call swaddles "snuggles" 😂
Okay as someone currently seeing a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist, Morgan you can't go to the gym and work your pelvic floor. Those are internal muscles. Utlizing a dilator at the gym, NO WHY?! I'm guessing shes just doing abdominal and hip type stuff but that's not the same group of muscles your doctor is talking about.
Ok I had the same thought! Like… I didn’t know you could do “pelvic floor day” at the gym 😂
@@BlaireM I don't know what Morgan is expecting but I would definitely side eye someone coming to the gym to sit their vulva on a tennis ball and lean on the different muscles. And like everything else has to be done internally, as in putting things inside the vagina. And please just do that at home. I understand wanting to go to the gym to have a break from the children, but there's got to be something else you can do that Paul will agree to allow you to have that break. Nobody wants to walk into the locker room and see someone with a dilator or someone hogging one of the few stalls to do that. You gotta find a better way babe.
This breaks my heart to watch. Someone else said this feels like satire and I completely agree. This seems to prove exactly what we all thought - Paul is living his days like a single man, just in and out of the house on his whims, while Morgan provides free labor for him and his children. She does absolutely everything in this video - errands, watching the kids, making food for him… and she’s postpartum!!! How could they fathom that we’d perceive this for anything other than what it is: a vlog demonstrating how completely selfish he is in every aspect of their lives.
I know Morgan has technically chosen this life, but coming from the world they’re coming from and considering Paul’s age vs Morgan’s, I just feel like this is a completely exploitative relationship typical of the fundamentalist world (except Paul isn’t even demonstrating how he’s caring for his family as the quote “man of the house”).
So so sad.
I think Morgan is trying really hard to convince herself she isn’t depressed. It’s a shame they’re so anti mental health medication. I’m not a psychiatrist, but every time I see clips of their channel, Morgan seems like she has untreated chronic depression. I can only imagine how being postpartum is affecting that.
My win for the week is that my closest neighbour next door and I have become friends and are now helping each other out with different things and just hang out when we both are home and bored. For example yesterday we spend the evening on her terrace with some drinks and just talked about life. I have lived in 4 different places in my life and I never had this kind of relationship to a neighbour! She even helped me out with the cleaning and washing of my windows because I have Rheumatoid Arthritis and I am in a period where my legs hurt and are swollen all the time, so it was really nice to get some help from her :)
Regarding the vlog: as someone who does small vlogs myself, I always try to make things interesting and be as engaging as possible… Morgan seems just bored and Paul seems just awkward. Idk, this feels like we’re in someone’s private life where it doesn’t focus on anything. When I do vlogs I always make sure to have at least one special focus so the vlog gets interesting and I often film on days in my life where I have something interesting to share… Their vlog is… just boring. That’s my take on it…
having drinks on the terrace in the evening with close friends is all i've ever wanted in life
so ridiculous that a 35 year old man is trying go pro in ANY sport, especially one he just started playing. It’d be fine if he was 20 and childless, at this point it’s just cringe. And right after Morgan had their new baby! It’s giving midlife crisis.
As someone who is an athlete, I CAN‘T believe the delusion it takes to think that going pro and making money from a sport does not take years and years and years.
I am 6 years in, and I barely get paid for performances, not even for winning competitions, only for classes I teach. The people who are on that level are very few, and it takes so much. And I doubt that pickleball is a sport where you can easily make a living off that, beyond being an instructor.
i’m so sorry this is just mean,, but paul talking about how strenuous pickle ball is is hilarious to me. like yeah i totally understand things get harder as you get older … but it’s pickle ball
Paul is definitely the type of person that goes 100 on something at the start when it’s shiny, then gets bored before it even dulls for another shiny thing. I know because I also have this bad habit and it is difficult to break but my god at least I don’t have a family to manage and I have the freedom to waffle around all I want 😅 pickle ball is just the phase rn
I think it says a TON about them that they have 9500 views on their vlog in 10 days, while you have 7900 in 23 hours. People are much more interested in analysis and critique of them.
My theory about this is that Morgan agreed to do the vlogs and stay on UA-cam because she was trying to express to Paul how heavy her mental load is, he thought she was exaggerating, and she knew the vlogs would show just how drastically different their lives are.
When he said he was at pickleball for two and a half hours I screamed.
Imagine if it was Morgan out of the house all day during most of the week with a newborn baby at home... imagine how their audience would react.....just imagine...
I don’t mean to be hateful but omg I am already sick of hearing about pickleball
They keep saying we eat healthy, but just right now we aren’t. I think they don’t want to look “bad”😂
Didn't he say that the pickleball court is like 5 minutes away from the house?? And he still does not come home every day for lunch? Like seriously??
Initially I felt personally attacked in a way because my husband doesnt help much with the household and baby stuff, but then I remembered he works 70+ hours a week at a non-pickleball job AND STILL comes home to be cheerful and helpful when he's able.
"a non-pickleball job" I laughed so hard
Non pickleball job 🤣☠️
It’s mind-blowing that this is a real couple and not some genius parody of the world’s most insufferable man-child and his exhausted, resentful wife.
It would be funny if they didn’t have kids about to become Internet famous, once these two realize how much cute children will blow up engagement on UA-cam.
I can’t with Paul. He’s like & you’ve got 2 kids to watch. I can’t believe he chose directly after Morgan had her SECOND child to ‘go pro in pickleball’ something he just began doing when he’s heard her say she’s overwhelmed & dealing with postpartum. They’re living two different lives sometimes & it makes me sad. I hope she’s genuinely ok with it & he’s not gone that much but him having this great idea & then ALL of them have to live on the road where she is responsible for entertaining & keeping a consistent schedule for 2 kids sounds…. Tough!
I feel like we won’t see Paul with his son, alone. Maybe he is, offline, which is all that matters but hopefully Morgan isn’t the only one raising them.
Edit: potential hater, I’m an active dad and love it
The only time we see Paul with Luca alone is when he's filming his "Pickleball guys" videos. His son is a money making tool to him.
43:03 B, I did the ? Face and head tilt when Morgan says she doesn’t usually share her thoughts, then you did the EXACT SAME THING and it was a great moment for me on my couch haha
I have soooo many thoughts....
1. I deeply appreciate how respectful you are of them, and you're well wishes for their family even while you're giving a critical look. That's missing from a lot of voices and I appreciate it.
2. I think I saw this on Jordan and McKays but pickleball used to be Morgan's thing, then Paul started playing it together with her now he's pushed her out entirely and it's his whole Focus. That infuriates me.
3. As someone that still loves jesus, and who is not yet married, Morgan and Paul have always given me the ick in the way of if that's Jesus and that's marriage I don't want it. Thankfully, my parents modeled the opposite of this but I have many friends from growing up that aspired to this.
4. Finally, as a Collegiate athlete and now coach, as well as my dad was a professional athlete and a college tennis coach..... the absolute privilege, money, and Insanity Paul has to have to think that at the age of 35 he's just magically going to become a professional in a sport that has barely become of age in a circuit where you can even win championships is laughable, infuriating, and makes me so sad for morgan. The amount of Olympians from other countries and even in the United States that dedicate their entire lives to their craft, yet still must have regular day jobs in order to live..... and yet Paul just gets to wander around doing whatever he wants all day? And then oh by the way pop in on his wife and two kids for lunch? What are you doing with your time? How are you affording this? Absolutely bananas.
Bonus thoughts: not the Joel Osteen book 🤢. I really really dislike the cutesy terms for things like nappy poo, which makes me even more lean into the fact that they both remind me of kids that haven't quite grown up but somehow have two children of Their Own. Finally, this was my numbingly boring without your analysis..... and yet still annoying as heck? He gives me the vibe that I would not be able to say no, and that makes me sad
Vlogging Paul is so incredibly insufferable. I thought he was insufferable before, but wow, he's so much worse than before.
Unironically, Paul’s time would be better spent enrolling in clown school. At least clowns make some money.
I already commented once but now I’m at the end of the video and I had to say… it rubs me the wrong way every time when Paul directs everything. It’s almost like when they are on screen together, Morgan doesn’t talk or comment unless he says something first or asks/requests her to speak.
I love seeing the criticism that this patriarchal structure serves to benefit men is indeed true.
Like, I get the division of labor if one person is working 40+ hours a week to pay the bills. But it’s interesting if you don’t need to work that much, the man is the only one who reaps all that free time.
My early prediction is that their chsnnel numbers will dwindle. The whole "right people, right place, right time" that blew them up won't be enough to make up for the fact that they probsbly can't consistently create compelling content. If they aren't preaching to their choir or giving advice they aren't qualified to give, what is left?
B, I love how your reaction and analysis is intelligent and honest without being overly mean or snarky. You aren't a bully, just well considered commentary.
A few weeks after my first was born, I was making a cup of coffee. I put 3 spoons of SALT in my coffee instead of sugar. I took a sip and thought my Keurig malfunctioned. Took a few minutes to realize what I had done!
47:00 I just lost my shiitake mushrooms!! So Paul has two flipping Reuben’s and can’t bring some home to his wife!?? Who just gave birth to his second child!? The sandwiches?? Made me really really loathe him!!! 😖 then only five mins later B he tells us he’s going on a men’s retreat!??! 49:11 I really don’t like this man!!
It makes me sad that Paul has all this time and money for pickleball…..but Morgan is avoiding going to a specialist to help her after birth with her pelvic health. Going in person gets you much better/personalized treatment (compared to a general UA-cam video) so the only reason to not go sounds like $$$ 😢.
Yupppp. Money for a pickleball coach but not medical care. Yikes
Paul if you’re reading this / if you have a job that makes money (outside of patreon), show us that. Cause right now you come across like a dad who doesn’t make money or change your baby’s diapers
I love your thumbnails. Every time I see a new video I giggle
I’m sorry but they are two of the most unlikable people I have ever seen in my life. Morgan is a vapid whiner (although I do feel bad for her having to be married to Paul) and Paul is a narcissistic “bro” who I think just likes to hear the sound of his own voice. They are absolutely terrible.
Paul’s going through a mid life crisis so they changed focus to make viewers watch
Since P&M made it their job to tell everyone how we should eat, they themselves make poor food choices. Morgan gave their kid a high sodium (340 mg) waffle for breakfast, a donut as a snack, and fried chicken for lunch. No pro athlete eats cheerios for breakfast (a medium sodium food), fried chicken for lunch, and two pastrami sandwiches (a medium Scholatzkeys pastrami sandwich has 940 calories with 20 grams saturated fat) for dinner. The hypocrisy of P&M kills me. It was like when Paul said he only drinks wine occassionally because it's "in the Bible" and then Bethany outed him for drinking whiskey with Dav. I don't care what you do with your body and P&M please think before you speak again on what others do with theirs. I was not blessed with model genes and I eat a 80% fruit and veg diet. Yet, I feel like P&M would judge me just by looking at me.
35!! Didn’t know THAT! Pretty geriatric for beginning a professional sports career!
WOW!!!
ALSO…. What about his bad back! Used to be a main theme in the ‘olden days’! We’d hear about it as often as we hear about pickleball now!
Yeah I think when he eventually realizes this isn't going to work out he'll blame his bad back.
"Morgan what advice do you have for moms who might feel isolated?"
Have a spouse that is the opposite of my husband.
Congrats on the pregnancy! Also for my win TW: WEIGHT LOSS: I am disabled and have needed to lose 100+ lbs for YEARS and finally I've found a healthy way to lose weight that actually works for me it seems that i didn't think i would find since i cant exercise, and things i can eat is pretty restricted at least of healthy stuff i can eat is but i found it! I've lost 20lbs the last few months. Im sooo happy
Just a side note: 37 weeks pregnant and still working full time AND doing UA-cam? I am so glad that I don't live in the US on one hand, and so sympathetic with you on the other hand. Here in Germany, you get off when being 7 months pregnant and still continue to get paid. Being nine months in and working? Sheesh. Must be really tough, no wonder you are tired.
This is probably mean but their prior content struck me as insufferable. Now it is boring and Paul is still insufferable
"My stomach is killing me idk why" maybe it's all the stress and frustration you're pushing down...
I thought the EXACT same thing! When I had my 2 under 2, and my (ex) husband was basically like Paul, just had a job, my stomach hurt, and I threw up on and off on some days because my stress and frustration was soooo high.
@@lasagnewolf Yes, and most of the time women have to disregard any symptoms and just power through which just makes it worse. I'm sorry you went through that and I hope you are happier and healthier now
I got a little sunburned but I enjoyed Dallas Pride last Sunday. Everyone was really nice and welcoming and it just felt like this huge weight off my shoulders. We still have a ways to go towards LGBT acceptance in my small town, so Pride is still very much needed in my opinion.
Win for the week, we made it home after 3 weeks in Japan! We had an amazing time, but it's great to be home with our pets
That’s amazing! I’m so glad you had an awesome time and made it back safely 💛
Also really dont like how she's demeaning mothers who have bladder problems post partum. Why do you need to put others below you?
My win for the week is making it to 24 weeks of pregnancy. Each week feels like a milestone.
Also, pregnancy and postpartum brain is rough. I keep forgetting things. Like if I get up to get something in another room, it takes me 3-5 times of getting up until I actually remember what I needed.
I agree with Instagram comments being brutal. Same with Facebook. It's particularly brutal for parenting or pet related content.
Congratulations to 24 weeks!! 🎉
And oh my gosh, that’s so true 😭 the forgetfulness is rough. Sometimes I just forget what I’m saying halfway through talking lol. But it’ll be worth it to get our babies at the end!
@BHaney I forget what I'm saying halfway through all the time! The thought now usually never comes back. But yes, definitely worth it for my baby.
To be honest, I'm not a vlog person. I just don't have that much interest on ppl's day to day life. I enjoyed their 24h with stuff more and kinda hope they still do that? Your reactions to those were so fun! And tbh they were even interesting on their own, too.
i dont think they have money for that tbh. its a lot of traveling. they tried and it didnt work i guess, they didn't get a lot of views, no sponsors...
Yeah I never understood the hype of watching someone else's life through a screen that distracts me from my own life. If I want to watch someone cook, clean, and take care of everything I could just record my daily life
I feel you on the cushion covers!! I too have been looking for the perfect shade of green for our daybed cover and I not only found it, but got it half off!!!! It seems like a small thing but it feels hugely satisfying.
I bet when they had the conversation about quitting, they agreed, then they said, “wait… then we would have to get real jobs” then came up with the vlogging idea. I really think they want to be done
B i love your lunch situation outrage
Hahah that whole thing really got to me 😂
It’s insane to me that they barely post on UA-cam yet they both make enough money to live comfortably without regular jobs. Meanwhile my husband and I bust our asses to live extremely basic and modest lives.
My win for the week is that I'm on vacation! Finally! Spending some time with family makes things so much better ❤️
I hope your vacation is so much fun!! 💛
Pauls reading warrior cats at his mens retreats?
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Your baby might come any time now! Keeping your family in my thoughts as you get ready for your little one.