Matthew is a good guy! I appreciate that he’s out there teaching people to value and seek real love and connection. Love is a verb, it requires action, humility, truth, and consistent effort. Too many people out there believing all the wrong things about love. What’s worse than being alone is being with someone that makes you feel alone.. remember that!
Convincing anyone to your worth is such a humiliating experience that really better to stay alone than put urself into that waiting for miracle shelf. And after being there u will never feel loved. After something like this any relationship can work out.
11:36-12:20 🔥 Please go listen again! This came across my feed at 2AM and I watched every second. Take some time to truly hear, digest and understand what he is saying. “Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll realize how foolish it is to try and change someone else.” Love yourself MORE than anyone else ever could! 💜
Women who stay in these type of relationships do not really want serious relationship themselves - or more precisely - they are not ready either. They may or may not continue to date - but they need to figure out what they really want. Otherwise, where they need to heal, because when someone emerges who treats them like a queen they won’t have that connection. I am not saying that these men are right for them, I am saying that they will keep attracting relationships that won’t work - whether they love more or they are loved more. They need to get deeper and understand themselves. Only after that they can understand men.
We just need to stop being Bob The Builder crew members and leave people at where they are rather than where we want them to be. La la land that the longer you stay, the harder you love, he will finally realize you are the one. Nope, if he`s not treating you like the one, you are not the one for him at that stage he is at in his life. I wasted 5 years, 11 years, 3.5 years doing this and finally at almost 40 I am saying f this shit, enough is enough. This is what I want, this is where I am going, you can stay where you are, not dragging anyone anymore. We attach that specific person to our hopes and dreams and don`t give chance to the people who are on the same path and it is very sad.
Trying to convince someone to stay with you is like gambling your life. You are sentencing yourself because you'll be wasting your energy in avoiding the most probably unavoidable when you could use that energy to set yourself free and build your happiness somewhere with someone else that is more in tune with what you want out of life.
He told me he was ready he wanted a child and a house with me but yet he still hurt me and told me that actually he didn’t see me for who I was there isn’t any logical way unfortunately
I'll tell you why women 'bother' - it's because women DON'T HAVE THE CHOICE of lots of men. We have to wait in line and compete with other women younger than we are, thinner than we are, more beautiful than we are - THAT'S why when a man deigns to ask us out we grab the relationship with both hands and ignore the red flags for the most part. My ex told me 6 weeks in that he "couldn't offer me anything" but we fell for one another and after 4 years it ended. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
The men who have the most options are in the top 10 to 20 percent range, which the majority of women are going for. How many decent men do women 'friend zone'?
Women initiate 70 percent of divorces. Before you put the blame on men, lesbian couples have the highest divorce rate amongst all demographics at 75 percent.
Matthew is a good guy! I appreciate that he’s out there teaching people to value and seek real love and connection. Love is a verb, it requires action, humility, truth, and consistent effort. Too many people out there believing all the wrong things about love. What’s worse than being alone is being with someone that makes you feel alone.. remember that!
Convincing anyone to your worth is such a humiliating experience that really better to stay alone than put urself into that waiting for miracle shelf. And after being there u will never feel loved. After something like this any relationship can work out.
11:36-12:20 🔥 Please go listen again! This came across my feed at 2AM and I watched every second. Take some time to truly hear, digest and understand what he is saying. “Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll realize how foolish it is to try and change someone else.” Love yourself MORE than anyone else ever could! 💜
I am the woman that needed to hear this message today to change the course of my life. 🙌🏾
I got to that point.. "pain either way"
It was a heartbreaking discision
I decided to choose me
Self love is my biggest gift to myself
💗✨️🙏
💖 Ultimately it's all about today. You cannot force someone to love you. Be the inspiration and then move on !
It’s nice to see Matthew again.
Wow!!! PASSION 🔥🔥
¡Gracias! Just what I was telling myself this week. Your words are just the affirmation of my thoughts
Women who stay in these type of relationships do not really want serious relationship themselves - or more precisely - they are not ready either. They may or may not continue to date - but they need to figure out what they really want. Otherwise, where they need to heal, because when someone emerges who treats them like a queen they won’t have that connection. I am not saying that these men are right for them, I am saying that they will keep attracting relationships that won’t work - whether they love more or they are loved more. They need to get deeper and understand themselves. Only after that they can understand men.
We just need to stop being Bob The Builder crew members and leave people at where they are rather than where we want them to be. La la land that the longer you stay, the harder you love, he will finally realize you are the one. Nope, if he`s not treating you like the one, you are not the one for him at that stage he is at in his life. I wasted 5 years, 11 years, 3.5 years doing this and finally at almost 40 I am saying f this shit, enough is enough. This is what I want, this is where I am going, you can stay where you are, not dragging anyone anymore. We attach that specific person to our hopes and dreams and don`t give chance to the people who are on the same path and it is very sad.
Wrong, I understood myself.
Thank you 🙏 🙏🙏 I’m one of the people who clicked on the video and needed to hear that message. ❤
Queria colar esse vídeo na testa para que todo mundo pudesse assistir. Obrigada
6:50 Absolutely agree! Thank you so much guys for this useful information! Great podcast🙏
Glad it was helpful!
Trying to convince someone to stay with you is like gambling your life. You are sentencing yourself because you'll be wasting your energy in avoiding the most probably unavoidable when you could use that energy to set yourself free and build your happiness somewhere with someone else that is more in tune with what you want out of life.
Sooo glad I watch this😢
Why the MASSIVE TEXT on the screen??!!!
He told me he was ready he wanted a child and a house with me but yet he still hurt me and told me that actually he didn’t see me for who I was there isn’t any logical way unfortunately
Better this discovery take place now than later. The truth sets you free to find your future.. ❤
@ thanks you’re right
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Easer to me to follow, not being a young englishman !!😂😂
I'll tell you why women 'bother' - it's because women DON'T HAVE THE CHOICE of lots of men. We have to wait in line and compete with other women younger than we are, thinner than we are, more beautiful than we are - THAT'S why when a man deigns to ask us out we grab the relationship with both hands and ignore the red flags for the most part. My ex told me 6 weeks in that he "couldn't offer me anything" but we fell for one another and after 4 years it ended. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Nope, better to have never loved
The men who have the most options are in the top 10 to 20 percent range, which the majority of women are going for. How many decent men do women 'friend zone'?
EVEN “ married” men NEVER COMMIT . The more women know the better for us ….
Women initiate 70 percent of divorces. Before you put the blame on men, lesbian couples have the highest divorce rate amongst all demographics at 75 percent.