thesongisover, you are so right!! Ben called me just before The Lace was shipped to all radio. I had reviewed an early copy of the album for Gavin and some of the other trades and had said nice things about it. Ben called just to say hi, thanks, and to talk about the area our radio station was in. He asked more about me then he talked about his record. The guy that every woman (and 40% of men) was in love with was a regular, shy guy that cared about being kind. Kind is cool )
The way he is described makes his passing all the sadder. Why do good ppl seem to go so young? George Michael is another one..a misunderstood yet gentle soul. I think these people are too good for this cruel world.
WHAT AN AMAZING BEAUTIFUL SONG!!!!!!!!!!! I STILL TO THIS DAY CANNOT BELIEVE THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN WITH AN ANGEL'S VOICE IS GONE!!!! HE IS IN MY BONES AND IN MY BRAIN.. I HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIM EVERYDAY.... AND I STILL TEAR UP... THERE WILL ONLY BE ONE BENJAMIN ORR (BESIDES HIS SON) WITH THAT VOICE.. LOVE YOU BENJAMIN...
He looks like he knew all along, about life not always giving you what you need.. He has this sad yet knowing expression in a lot of his live performances (just look at some of the old concerts, when he sings Drive). Really an interesting soul, and that's about the understatement of the century :-) Wish I'd been born ten years earlier, I'd have been drooling all over the place!! See you soon
I'll never forget the day that Ben passed away. I had been listening to Skyline on my Elektra copy of The Lace...thinking about how much I liked Ben's singing. That night I did a search to find out what Ben was up to and of course it was all over the news. I still can't believe it. There are musicians, people who sing, people who write ect... But everytime I watch a Ben Orr video I see this guy that put his heart & soul into his music. He could've easily been a showman and probably more popular.
This video is amazing. His talent has not been even close to being matched by any of these bands of today. He seems like such a beautiful man and very level headed. It's nice to see him playing a song that he and John Kalishes wrote together. I wished they could have carried on longer. Brilliant post salee320.
From what I have read his parents were private and religious people so there could be a connection here. Nevertheless, he was an awfully talented multiskilled muscian and a voice like his is made to be heard, appreciated and remembered by all who followed The Cars and new wave music. RIP Ben
You can see that at 3:17 and 5:00. You can almost feel what he was feeling. By the way, this song was over 5 minutes and before I saw how long it was I was thinking that it was too short. I'm with Eamon, this stuff should be released. RIP Ben You are greatly missed.
Ben Orr was a humble man who was so incredibly talented. What a voice, what a look and I am thankful that he was able to be such a part of my life growing up from Junior High School to adulthood and beyond. Thank you Ben for what you have given me and many thousands of others...
Benjamin wasn't old here but he still looked great for the age he was I think he always looked younger than his age...up until that cruel illness took away his physical health. However even when he was in his final days his beautiful smile remained. RIP Benjamin you passed too early.
I really love this man.How someone can be so pretty and charming?His talent and voice... it must be an angel. I really feel so sad about his death you know what it feels like.Love you forever, Ben...
Ben's voice could melt a heart of stone. I never had the chance to see him in person, thanks you for much salee320 for sharing your experience with us. He was such an incredible man, the looks and voice of an angel, and yet I know he was a very kind and gentle soul. Forever missed, Ben.
Yes I do agree, love this song my second favorite of Ben's...yes he has the looks and the body...and Ben still looks amazing for his age..I don't think anyone can compares to Ben's voice..or ever will..So talented taken to soon.....
Thanks for your comment Eamon: You know, I think Ben just was one to "live" life, and as he said in an interview "I'm just slow"...busy horsin around. And he wanted to compile a great album and was taking his time in doing so, and you know the rest; but surely his family and estate must recognize the greatness of this work and would want the world to hear it.
A rocker with a golden voice, humble, kind, and generous. So much talent and yet this man is not in love with himself. Not here, not in interviews I've seen, not in testimonials by those who knew him. Thanks Salee320 for sharing this priceless video of Benjamin Orr. Love the setting-a train station, complete with announcements. Versus someone else's 1000th concert stage video with lighting & effects. A view and insight into the man's work. Fantastic! Thank you.
thank you, salee320 for posting this beautiful performance It comes from the heart and yes, he looks wonderful at 47 or any age The band performed well, and this song is for all who have been through this experience (and those who have not) of heartache.
Great footage...wish you could post the whole concert. I'm sure he played more then 4 or 5 songs...just wish I could have been there to hear it all. If I had known he would be playing live, back in Boston in 1995, I would have drove out there from Michigan. Really wished this song was released somewhere, also, to preserve and listen to over and over. Thank you for posting what you could...of a very special day.
dropped in to listen again to one of the loveliest songs I've ever heard. And that voice! it resonates....connects to my innermost soul and gets to me like a scant few vocalists ever have. and a special thanks to salee320 for uploading this treasure. god, what heartfelt lyrics, sung so beautifully.
Spot on comment. I was always a little confused with MTV & other video shows (tho I had only broadcast tv) why they did not seem to focus on him too much. I always preferred his voice over RO's but you cannot deny Ric was a great writer. Ben had a very versatile voice... yrs of exp. Maybe just too modest to take the spotlight from his friend? You can see it the few interviews he did. After he went solo he did seem to loosen up a bit. At least we have many concert footage here .
Beautiful song, well done. Why was he not more famous? He liked working behind the scenes, producing other peoples' records. My theory: his physical beauty intimidated people and they treated him like a god, which made him feel lonely. Was he conflicted about being in the spotlight? After all, his talent needed to be expressed. Then there was his tragic death... Nobody gets to have it all, but he was still very blessed. We were lucky to have him around for awihle.
"why was he not more famous" 8 yrs after the question was asked and not expecting an answer. But there are a number of obvious, apparent reasons "he was not more famous". ~ think about possible, plausible reasons why and put 2 and 2 together. There's your answer.
@Salee320 thank you from my heart for uploading this beautiful song I am 72 so happy to have found this performance - Ben Orr with a soaring melancholic rendering RIP BEN ...
I have watched this video many, many times, and probably will watch it many more - the magnificent Ben Orr, is irresistible. From Patricia H. not William H.
Salee, sin tu ayuda yo nunca hubiera tenido la oportunidad de escuchar esta cancion, gracias por tu generosidad. Without your help I would have never had the opportunity to listen to this beautiful song, thank you for your generosity.
awesome song! Oh my god why wouldn't they release this on a cd?? The ten year anniversary of his death is coming up...I think the remaining members of The Cars should reunite for a tour in Ben's memory!
@t1121cs One option would be to get in touch with someone related to Ben and pose as a businessman interested in releasing a new compilation or box set called "The Ben Orr Experience." I know that he has a son named Benjamin Orr. His son might know who inherited the unreleased master recordings, or at least be able to steer us in the right direction. You have to be confident and creative, otherwise nobody will take you seriously and nothing will be done to release this fantastic music.
This is such a beautiful song. Ben may have teased calling it dickwhiffle, a new word for me lol, but he grabs your heart and holds it tight with the raw emotion and vulnerability he expresses with his extraordinary voice, making every word so achingly gorgeous. Just like him.
Absolutely & Benjamin put a lot of depth and feeling into his vocals while Ric did not. Ric always sounded like he had a sinus cold, full of nose congestion. RIP Beautiful Benjamin ♥️❤️♥️🍾🍾🍾🍾🌹🌹🌹🌹♥️❤️♥️
@@catmip Yeah I go back and listen to his younger days with the Grasshoppers & Mixed Emotions and I just can’t believe how Ric robbed Benjamin of his writing capabilities. No disrespect to Ric and I’m glad wounds were mended before either man passed away, but it was wrong of him to hurt Benjamin the way he did. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️RIP Beautiful Benjamin❤️❤️❤️
Yes I ADORE Benny, always have,.....But do we always have to mention his good looks etc...?? THis is a beautiful song...and I am Dying to find out who actually wrote it......But there are also some groups back in the 70's that blow me away equally.....!!!!!
My sweet Benjamin, I knew what it felt like the instant we kissed goodbye. You will forever be in my heart. I love you then, now and always. I WILL always remember you like I promised.
That's a VERY nice song. I think they are doing something interesting with a minor-ninth chord in there. One thing I don't understand ... The vocal melody comes across very clear, yet somehow I'm not catching many of the *lyrics* ... does that make sense? Really nice song all around.
who cares about others?! your on this page cause its all about Ben. He had an amazing voice, everyone here with ears knows that, and he was gorgeous, everyone with eyes knows that. you ever see the video where the cars introduce themselves? Ben himself says, greetings, i'm Benjamin Orr, i play bass and lead sing for the Cars, and this is my face. He knew he was gorgeous, he looked in the mirror everyday. he just wasn't an ego maniac! All us women are here for listening and looking pleasure. you want others, go elsewhere.
I'm enamoured with his looks because I am a huge fan of Rutger Hauer and Benjamin looks just like him yet Benjamin has the added bonus of having this stunning singing voice, and was so sweet too.
@@desertrose1226 I checked out Rutger Hauer, he exudes nothing compared to Benjamin Orr. Hauer plays in voilent movies. Benjamin is nothing like that. Benjamin is love. I do not have a tv, I don't watch movies, I don't like radio music. I'm actually a Christian and I study the Bible. Benjamin Orr exudes love and kindness + amazing voice and looks.
thesongisover, you are so right!! Ben called me just before The Lace was shipped to all radio. I had reviewed an early copy of the album for Gavin and some of the other trades and had said nice things about it. Ben called just to say hi, thanks, and to talk about the area our radio station was in. He asked more about me then he talked about his record. The guy that every woman (and 40% of men) was in love with was a regular, shy guy that cared about being kind. Kind is cool )
This is why we all loved him..RIP what a loss and still gorgeous
The way he is described makes his passing all the sadder. Why do good ppl seem to go so young? George Michael is another one..a misunderstood yet gentle soul. I think these people are too good for this cruel world.
What a voice! There will never be another Benjamin Orr.
I really don't know how Benjamin got through this song. You can just feel the sadness. Miss you beautiful man.
We love you & miss you terribly Ben, 24 years after you flew away... ❤
WHAT AN AMAZING BEAUTIFUL SONG!!!!!!!!!!! I STILL TO THIS DAY CANNOT BELIEVE THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN WITH AN ANGEL'S VOICE IS GONE!!!! HE IS IN MY BONES AND IN MY BRAIN.. I HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIM EVERYDAY.... AND I STILL TEAR UP... THERE WILL ONLY BE ONE BENJAMIN ORR (BESIDES HIS SON) WITH THAT VOICE.. LOVE YOU BENJAMIN...
I feel the exact same way. I'm obsessed still 20 years later.
One of a kind. Benjamin Orr, sadly we are without you.
He looks like he knew all along, about life not always giving you what you need.. He has this sad yet knowing expression in a lot of his live performances (just look at some of the old concerts, when he sings Drive).
Really an interesting soul, and that's about the understatement of the century :-) Wish I'd been born ten years earlier, I'd have been drooling all over the place!!
See you soon
I just cannot fathom why this song was not released on CD.
This is song is perfectly sung by Ben.
Thanks for posting this. RIP Ben
I want to listen to this song everywhere. So beautiful. Perfect Benjamin Orr. Miss him so much.
Benjamin foi e sempre será meu ídolo vc faz faz falta meu lindo ❤
I'll never forget the day that Ben passed away. I had been listening to Skyline on my Elektra copy of The Lace...thinking about how much I liked Ben's singing. That night I did a search to find out what Ben was up to and of course it was all over the news. I still can't believe it. There are musicians, people who sing, people who write ect... But everytime I watch a Ben Orr video I see this guy that put his heart & soul into his music. He could've easily been a showman and probably more popular.
This video is amazing. His talent has not been even close to being matched by any of these bands of today. He seems like such a beautiful man and very level headed. It's nice to see him playing a song that he and John Kalishes wrote together. I wished they could have carried on longer. Brilliant post salee320.
From what I have read his parents were private and religious people so there could be a connection here. Nevertheless, he was an awfully talented multiskilled muscian and a voice like his is made to be heard, appreciated and remembered by all who followed The Cars and new wave music. RIP Ben
He was one in one billion , awesome talent singer songwriter
You can see that at 3:17 and 5:00. You can almost feel what he was feeling. By the way, this song was over 5 minutes and before I saw how long it was I was thinking that it was too short. I'm with Eamon, this stuff should be released. RIP Ben You are greatly missed.
Ben Orr was a humble man who was so incredibly talented. What a voice, what a look and I am thankful that he was able to be such a part of my life growing up from Junior High School to adulthood and beyond. Thank you Ben for what you have given me and many thousands of others...
I'm about to cry,this is the second time I've listened to this song and it's just as beautiful as it was the first time.
Only the second time?
Benjamin wasn't old here but he still looked great for the age he was I think he always looked younger than his age...up until that cruel illness took away his physical health. However even when he was in his final days his beautiful smile remained. RIP Benjamin you passed too early.
I really love this man.How someone can be so pretty and charming?His talent and voice... it must be an angel. I really feel so sad about his death you know what it feels like.Love you forever, Ben...
Ben's voice could melt a heart of stone. I never had the chance to see him in person, thanks you for much salee320 for sharing your experience with us. He was such an incredible man, the looks and voice of an angel, and yet I know he was a very kind and gentle soul. Forever missed, Ben.
i am falling in love with ben love him so much
Benjamin Orr and John Kalishes.....match made in Heaven above
love this man i wish i could see him in heaven some day
Can't believe I feel the same! Have to hear Benjamin every day!
amazing singer! these songs need to be released on maybe a tribute album
Cleveland is so proud of native son Ben Orr. Miss you Ben.
He always looked so beautiful in the all black leather and no shirt look. =)
Yes I do agree, love this song my second favorite of Ben's...yes he has the looks and the body...and Ben still looks amazing for his age..I don't think anyone can compares to Ben's voice..or ever will..So talented taken to soon.....
Love Ben great voice ! xxx
Agree completely, he was a superb one of a kind, and is greatly missed.
Thanks for your comment Eamon: You know, I think Ben just was one to "live" life, and as he said in an interview "I'm just slow"...busy horsin around. And he wanted to compile a great album and was taking his time in doing so, and you know the rest; but surely his family and estate must recognize the greatness of this work and would want the world to hear it.
Amazing Benjamin Orr...and that voice..perfect , unique ❤..You Never Forgotten ❤..Kisses to heaven from Argentina 🇦🇷 ❤
Como tu ...ninguno Ben ❤❤
RIP Mr. Benjamin Orr.
This makes my heart simultaneously hurt and swell with pride for him. So moving and honest.
totally agree with you, and, you're so very welcome...it is my honor to share with you
A rocker with a golden voice, humble, kind, and generous. So much talent and yet this man is not in love with himself. Not here, not in interviews I've seen, not in testimonials by those who knew him.
Thanks Salee320 for sharing this priceless video of Benjamin Orr. Love the setting-a train station, complete with announcements. Versus someone else's 1000th concert stage video with lighting & effects. A view and insight into the man's work. Fantastic! Thank you.
Great Song we miss you Benjamin!
Ben putting into words his relationship with Ric. I cry every time.
Love and miss him so much.
Sweet beautiful Benjamin, he’s singing with the choirs of angels, befitting for him.
Love the smile at the end of this. That beautiful Benjamin smile, so heart warming❤️❤️🍾🍾🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️
thank you, salee320 for posting this beautiful performance
It comes from the heart and yes, he looks wonderful at 47 or any age
The band performed well, and this song is for all who have been through
this experience (and those who have not) of heartache.
Beautiful man Beautiful song Beautiful voice
Great footage...wish you could post the whole concert. I'm sure he played more then 4 or 5 songs...just wish I could have been there to hear it all. If I had known he would be playing live, back in Boston in 1995, I would have drove out there from Michigan. Really wished this song was released somewhere, also, to preserve and listen to over and over. Thank you for posting what you could...of a very special day.
This blonde angel will sing for us in heaven forever!!! Thanx for sharing all your B.O. vidoes!!!!
Breath taking RIP Benjamin xx
dropped in to listen again to one of the loveliest songs I've ever heard.
And that voice!
it resonates....connects to my innermost soul and gets to me like a scant few vocalists ever have.
and a special thanks to salee320 for uploading this treasure.
god, what heartfelt lyrics, sung so beautifully.
I still miss Benjamin Orr.
R.I. P. Ben
Greatly missed r.i.p. Benjamin
I listen to Benjamin Orr frequently. His voice really hits deep in my soul. Glad we have these videos.
This is such a great song. And seeing and hearing live is a plus. thank you so much.
Jason
To bad that I was not from Boston,he was my all time favorite.
Magnifique chanson souvenir d une legende Benjamin Orr thank you
Spot on comment. I was always a little confused with MTV & other video shows (tho I had only broadcast tv) why they did not seem to focus on him too much. I always preferred his voice over RO's but you cannot deny Ric was a great writer. Ben had a very versatile voice... yrs of exp. Maybe just too modest to take the spotlight from his friend? You can see it the few interviews he did. After he went solo he did seem to loosen up a bit. At least we have many concert footage here .
jourene: thanks for your comment. I am so happy to be able to play the tiniest part in keeping his voice alive for us all.
Beautiful song, well done. Why was he not more famous? He liked working behind the scenes, producing other peoples' records. My theory: his physical beauty intimidated people and they treated him like a god, which made him feel lonely. Was he conflicted about being in the spotlight? After all, his talent needed to be expressed. Then there was his tragic death...
Nobody gets to have it all, but he was still very blessed. We were lucky to have him around for awihle.
"why was he not more famous"
8 yrs after the question was asked and not expecting an answer.
But there are a number of obvious, apparent reasons "he was not more famous".
~ think about possible, plausible reasons why and put 2 and 2 together.
There's your answer.
The Cars were very famous, and Benjamin was part of that. For that I'm glad.
@@moodylicious what exactly is obvious and apparent to you?
what a lovely song....lovely voice....
r.i.p ben x
Me encanta tanto esta cancion. RIP Benjamin y John. 🕊🕊
love this man
@Salee320 thank you from my heart for uploading this beautiful song
I am 72 so happy to have found this performance -
Ben Orr with a soaring melancholic rendering RIP BEN ...
I have watched this video many, many times, and probably will watch it many more - the magnificent Ben Orr, is irresistible. From Patricia H. not William H.
Salee, sin tu ayuda yo nunca hubiera tenido la oportunidad de escuchar esta cancion, gracias por tu generosidad.
Without your help I would have never had the opportunity to listen to this beautiful song, thank you for your generosity.
@UnkleJustin Beautiful Story-Beautiful Song-Beautiful Man
i wish i was there
👍🇺🇸❤BEAUTIFUL
awesome song! Oh my god why wouldn't they release this on a cd?? The ten year anniversary of his death is coming up...I think the remaining members of The Cars should reunite for a tour in Ben's memory!
gracias por la cancion
我愛這首歌 每天都聽一整天 我瘋了 喜歡看班 我才剛從youtube認識他一個月
卻深深愛上他
Amo esta canción, pero no la puedo conseguir en ninguna plataforma.. 😢😢Nunca llego a grabar un segundo disco 💔💔💔😇😭😭😭
He has such a beautiful smile
@t1121cs One option would be to get in touch with someone related to Ben and pose as a businessman interested in releasing a new compilation or box set called "The Ben Orr Experience." I know that he has a son named Benjamin Orr. His son might know who inherited the unreleased master recordings, or at least be able to steer us in the right direction. You have to be confident and creative, otherwise nobody will take you seriously and nothing will be done to release this fantastic music.
This is such a beautiful song. Ben may have teased calling it dickwhiffle, a new word for me lol, but he grabs your heart and holds it tight with the raw emotion and vulnerability he expresses with his extraordinary voice, making every word so achingly gorgeous. Just like him.
Ric had a few gd songs but ben had the great songs thats for certain
Absolutely & Benjamin put a lot of depth and feeling into his vocals while Ric did not. Ric always sounded like he had a sinus cold, full of nose congestion. RIP Beautiful Benjamin ♥️❤️♥️🍾🍾🍾🍾🌹🌹🌹🌹♥️❤️♥️
And Ben wrote this song. Imagine what great songs could have been if Ric had let him write “Cars” songs.
@@catmip Yeah I go back and listen to his younger days with the Grasshoppers & Mixed Emotions and I just can’t believe how Ric robbed Benjamin of his writing capabilities. No disrespect to Ric and I’m glad wounds were mended before either man passed away, but it was wrong of him to hurt Benjamin the way he did. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️RIP Beautiful Benjamin❤️❤️❤️
Yes I ADORE Benny, always have,.....But do we always have to mention his good looks etc...?? THis is a beautiful song...and I am Dying to find out who actually wrote it......But there are also some groups back in the 70's that blow me away equally.....!!!!!
Another video posted of this song stated that it was recorded as a follow up album to The Lace which to me indicates that Benjamin Orr wrote this.
Benjamin and John wrote this. (fellow on B's left)
My sweet Benjamin, I knew what it felt like the instant we kissed goodbye. You will forever be in my heart. I love you then, now and always. I WILL always remember you like I promised.
That's a VERY nice song. I think they are doing something interesting with a minor-ninth chord in there. One thing I don't understand ... The vocal melody comes across very clear, yet somehow I'm not catching many of the *lyrics* ... does that make sense?
Really nice song all around.
I love Benny, but there are oh so many songs that are similar to this, sung by great singers/songwriters....From the 70's that bring me to tears......
I think Benjamin sounds rather like Justin Hayward here...
@t1121cs ditto to everything you said...I lost a program on my computer, but as soon as I "find" it I'll upload the entire concert...
@BabsTen me too
this isn't on the lace..what album is this from
that album is that song???
Can someone send me this song on mail??? PLEASE!
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lol
synth. a bit much?
It's just sad that people are so enamored with his looks.....What about other singer songwriters.......Who have written some awesome music..????
who cares about others?! your on this page cause its all about Ben. He had an amazing voice, everyone here with ears knows that, and he was gorgeous, everyone with eyes knows that. you ever see the video where the cars introduce themselves? Ben himself says, greetings, i'm Benjamin Orr, i play bass and lead sing for the Cars, and this is my face. He knew he was gorgeous, he looked in the mirror everyday. he just wasn't an ego maniac! All us women are here for listening and looking pleasure. you want others, go elsewhere.
you are so beatiful
I'm enamoured with his looks because I am a huge fan of Rutger Hauer and Benjamin looks just like him yet Benjamin has the added bonus of having this stunning singing voice, and was so sweet too.
@@desertrose1226 I checked out Rutger Hauer, he exudes nothing compared to Benjamin Orr. Hauer plays in voilent movies. Benjamin is nothing like that. Benjamin is love. I do not have a tv, I don't watch movies, I don't like radio music. I'm actually a Christian and I study the Bible. Benjamin Orr exudes love and kindness + amazing voice and looks.