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  • @talhahussain1875
    @talhahussain1875 2 роки тому +24

    Don't go with the intention of love at first and don't be afraid of losing her

  • @duggie88
    @duggie88 4 роки тому +100

    I’ve been listening to different relationship advice videos and this has been the only channel so far that gives advice that doesn’t seem to play mind games and tricks. I’m subscribing today!

    • @exceed6397
      @exceed6397 4 роки тому +6

      Agreed! After watching this video, you can apply these tips with your partner. Deep connection always makes you strong and build your trust.

    • @ucingacia0
      @ucingacia0 3 роки тому +2

      All bout internal real man

    • @ardiagus1196
      @ardiagus1196 3 роки тому +1

      I feel the same, thank you

    • @ericmusa4116
      @ericmusa4116 3 роки тому

      Lllll

    • @christopherevans6428
      @christopherevans6428 2 роки тому +1

      I agree it’s positive honest and down to earth

  • @naomi6212
    @naomi6212 4 роки тому +41

    I just had an intense first date. We talked about our childhoods, families, finance, health status, religion, sex and future plans. It was refreshing and showed deep respect as it was so honest. A 'fun' date would feel superficial to me.

    • @marcusmagellan
      @marcusmagellan 4 роки тому +6

      Naomi 62 your date was a lucky guy, you’re an adult.

    • @naomi6212
      @naomi6212 4 роки тому +7

      @@marcusmagellan As it happened we didn't have a second date because we both worked out quickly that we had different future aspirations. I want/need a country life and he was a city man through and through. But we parted with respect. No harm done.

    • @marcusmagellan
      @marcusmagellan 4 роки тому +2

      Naomi 62 that’s good that you both worked out early on with no harm done, keep in mind we are all different, and to make relationship more complicated we all change with time, take care.

    • @sameerrajput1776
      @sameerrajput1776 3 роки тому +1

      Are you on Instagram?

    • @naomi6212
      @naomi6212 3 роки тому +1

      @@sameerrajput1776 If you are asking me the answer is no I am not on instagram. I cannot speak for Marcus Magellan.

  • @Aris-Darling
    @Aris-Darling 3 роки тому +17

    I enjoy listening to dating coaches for men just to gain some insight into what men think of dating and relationships with women. There’s a lot of junk out there.. inaccurate, superficial, manipulative, or toxic. I really appreciate your channel because the content is good and your delivery is enjoyable to me.
    I definitely agree that the connection needs to stay light and playful.. that’s the mark of a “natural” connection. And just because it’s “light and playful” does not mean that it’s that way 100% of the time.. the key is being able to talk about deep, emotional stuff, be vulnerable, and come back to a steady state of light and playful.. that’s an attractive lifelong connection both parties will probably enjoy being in.

    • @jcman-lp6lg
      @jcman-lp6lg 2 роки тому

      cept the guy in this video is saying not to do those things no deep, emotional, vulnerable stuff.

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 5 років тому +47

    Solid advice bro! One rule I always emphasise to dues especially in this soyciety that's encouraging men to be as feminine as possible is be centered & masculine and don't get emotional or gushy with women it will dry their drawers up like the Sahara dessert.

    • @marcusmagellan
      @marcusmagellan 4 роки тому +2

      BadBoyD TV *No-BS Empowerment Channel* 😳🤣😂🤪

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 2 роки тому +1

    Exactly Jim! Relationships should be light and playful for the most part, right from the beginning. All you say is pure gold, hope many guys listen to this

  • @vidyanandsharma2655
    @vidyanandsharma2655 5 років тому +12

    Really I don't have words to express your gratitude,coz u have changed my life!!!! Thank you so muchhhhhhh

  • @amymanns8023
    @amymanns8023 4 роки тому +16

    Love IS serious. It is the most serious thing you'll do in life- loving another human being.

    • @fwb777
      @fwb777 2 роки тому +3

      Loving God is the most important thing, we can do.
      We should put God 1st in all we do, and all earthly things will be given to us.
      Have a good day Amy.. sending you love, from Barbados 🇧🇧

    • @Feelliketalking1
      @Feelliketalking1 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂 love is a useless emotion, it only cause hurt , signed damaged by a woman.

  • @theTimmer
    @theTimmer Рік тому +4

    What's kinda funny here is, this video is a dividing line for men- If you listen to this and chuckle because you know it's right and why, you are someone that understands something about women and dating, either because you are a natural, or learned some game.
    If you are one of those guys who listen to this and you don't think its right, or aren't sure why it is... take heart in the fact that your situation can be improved, and with some work, you can move over to the other side of the line and stop suffering. Corey Wayne and Zan Perrion are good places to start.

  • @krook5158
    @krook5158 5 років тому +38

    This is actually some of your best advice : ) Thank you man! Its so strange to me that your likes are so low on this one!

    • @beverlyjoshua4987
      @beverlyjoshua4987 4 роки тому +1

      Because he is authentic telling the truth doesn't care about your money he is not making it a business where psychologically he wants to tell you what you want to here like most gurus and media

  • @maddmike5265
    @maddmike5265 5 років тому +26

    You got to be mysterious. Less is more. Woman love talking. Talk about them

  • @sirena9167
    @sirena9167 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve watched like a million dating videos for men and women and this is best one ☝️!!!!!

  • @satanicthumb83
    @satanicthumb83 4 роки тому +1

    Keep this in mind when he says don't get heavy with her and make your time with her light and playful that doesn't mean make your relationship a joke.

  • @braddouglas5596
    @braddouglas5596 10 місяців тому +1

    Once again crushing it with a ease. Well explained ✌️💖👊

  • @JamesRDavenport
    @JamesRDavenport 4 роки тому +7

    Thing is though, I need to know ASAP whether a woman is on the same page politically/philosophically. I don't want to waste any emotions or time on a woman opposed to everything I stand for. That's more important to me than having fun. Should I just get good at spotting subtle tells?

    • @naomi6212
      @naomi6212 4 роки тому +2

      I think you should be yourself and be honest about the type of partner you want (filtered abit and appropriate of course, the discussion can be built on later on). Also I suggest you seek higher IQ/professional/educated women. They are more likely to enjoy a good debate.

    • @hooperfam6135
      @hooperfam6135 4 роки тому

      All that is tied to your ego

    • @JamesRDavenport
      @JamesRDavenport 4 роки тому

      @@hooperfam6135 I don't see how not wanting to waste time on a woman opposed to everything I stand for is ego related. I have plenty of friends I'll debate with, but for a partner you can't be with some pulling in the opposite direction, can't work, been there done that!

  • @Fenerium-sl7qc
    @Fenerium-sl7qc 2 роки тому +2

    Those peope are just telling crap!
    Guys don't listen to this shit. (Generally spoken)
    If you know who you are and where you stand in life. If you have hobbys and do activites which you really like. Talk about those show her your passion and ask hers. Ask how her day was give feedback about your day and repeat. Talk about current things and be authentic. Always look gentle in her eyes and get close to her. This is the most real part be your fucking self. Dont be afraid if it doesnt pay off. Not anybody suits to anybody. Its a number game. You try till you succed. With any attent you will get better trust me. Dont be scriptdt. Dont think you have to go trough a list of stupid conversation methodils to succed. It will never work out between two people if the conversations and the attention are one sided. If you are trully happy with yourself only then you will be able to atract somebody. Never forget it is what it is...

  • @nathanpeters9348
    @nathanpeters9348 3 роки тому +3

    Wow it appears that most women I date don't know how to build a deep connection. I've experienced everything on this avoid list. They either talk negatively about their past relationships, talk about politics or talk about their insecurities. They treat dates like therapy sessions... I should start charging my dates money for my time lol. It's actually a huge turnoff. I could see why women would be turned off by men who do this. I think the problem with modern dating is everyone is looking for someone to make them happy and make their life complete. People bring their emotional baggage and insecurities into relationships and expect the other person to take on their burdens. The only person who can make us happy is ourselves. It's not easy trying to overcome our own fears and insecurities and improving our mindset but it is essential for being a good potential partner. Relationships should not be a crutch or burden but an opportunity to share experiences with someone who also shares are common interests, values and goals.

  • @ericbravo8339
    @ericbravo8339 3 роки тому +2

    Tbh connection is a natural thing

  • @eliecervalencia3591
    @eliecervalencia3591 4 роки тому +6

    I think Ill have a better chance of solving triginometry and calculous then understanding these vids

  • @OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOq
    @OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOq 9 місяців тому

    As a homebody, this just seems like a drag. I will be sacrificing of how I want to live my life for the sake of keeping a woman amused.
    Thanks for the info. Very insightful.

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack 5 років тому

    There is the Eddie Fews and Sasha Stark. The first says we should ask questions that matter for a red pill man, the second that we should have deep conversations.... But I still believe in you, i never got a girl as a philosopher....

  • @Eans_urban_jungle
    @Eans_urban_jungle 2 роки тому

    Don't share deep thoughts
    Don't have any negative emotions
    Entertain the woman
    Listen to her talk about whatever (sixty to eighty percent of the talking)
    Keep the focus mostly on her
    Wow...I'm sold on women for sure.

  • @anthonye.2553
    @anthonye.2553 4 роки тому +3

    Great advice!!! I'm currently talking with a woman that I definitely want to start dating and wanted to start connecting with her on a deeper level. And my first instinct was to talk about heavy stuff. But it makes total sense that connecting with lighter things is the way to go.

  • @mackenziepotts7001
    @mackenziepotts7001 2 роки тому

    This is such great advice! I would add for the man to show curiosity about her in getting to know her.

  • @rastaapasta2795
    @rastaapasta2795 5 років тому +8

    No waamen no cry

  • @Bill0102
    @Bill0102 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm invigorated by the transformative power of this material. A book with like content inspired meaningful changes in my life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @topsyturvy1873
    @topsyturvy1873 2 роки тому +1

    If a girl is already interested in me, if she looks at me with those puppy eyes how do approach that situation? Do I still put in action all these techniques you mention in other videos or go right for the prize? Sorry, my first time with a girl and I'm nervous as hell around her.

  • @adampatino5372
    @adampatino5372 4 роки тому +11

    This guy talks like a guru. Monotonous, boring and everything

  • @davidallen346
    @davidallen346 4 роки тому +5

    What if a woman don't realized you've already connected with her till after sex and demands emotional connection on the next meeting and says you never open up about your deep emotions and there's already heavy serious negative discussion in the beginning texts and phone conversations

    • @joshforeman1723
      @joshforeman1723 2 роки тому

      Mess, you should consider what she have for u after sex, and is quite likely you should move on

  • @theodoresweger4948
    @theodoresweger4948 4 роки тому

    Ask her if she wants to talk to someone dead or alive, did I miss something, talking to dead people may be a clue to something I'm not sure what. Seriously this is a good video and excellent advise on how to talk to anyone not just for dating.

  • @RachelGerrard
    @RachelGerrard 3 роки тому

    I wish more guys would hear this!

  • @CryptoGeek1981
    @CryptoGeek1981 4 роки тому +2

    Mind blowing... being stupid my 20 year relationship

  • @abcdefg208
    @abcdefg208 4 роки тому +1

    Omg you are so right

  • @lightedup4u543
    @lightedup4u543 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video

  • @obelleonard7096
    @obelleonard7096 4 роки тому +2

    I have really loved this presentation

  • @jmbo72
    @jmbo72 4 роки тому +5

    Definitely disagree on this one. Women are similar but also different, some women will just not take you seriously.

  • @Kenulas
    @Kenulas 4 роки тому +4

    this is what should be taught in school

    • @adamromero
      @adamromero 4 роки тому +1

      I wish I got this advice when I was a teenager. 😐

  • @beverlyjoshua4987
    @beverlyjoshua4987 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks bro I now know why you have few viewers because YOU FUCK'N TELL THE TRUTH. YOUR ARE AWESOME AND AUTHENTIC. SO KEEP ON WE LOVE THE TRUTH. most gurus tell us what we want to here. Thank you God bless you for this wisdom . I have listened to your wisdom all videos. You ain't like the media who tell us what we want to here

  • @Johnnyboybravo
    @Johnnyboybravo 2 роки тому

    How do you have fun when dating "questions"... by third date, I asked about what kind of musuc she likes snd she said, anything... i said anything in particular and she said anything she can hum to... However, first date she was talking a good bit.

  • @Jesusislord930
    @Jesusislord930 4 роки тому +2

    But what if the date becomes an interview if I keep her talking?

  • @postcodeox278
    @postcodeox278 4 роки тому +2

    Recommended for all men who want to not only Love a women but to Keep them

  • @lana.9073
    @lana.9073 3 роки тому

    What a gentleman you are ☺🙏

  • @travels29
    @travels29 5 років тому +1

    Do you offer any free or paid 1-2-1 advice?

  • @TheBorkka
    @TheBorkka 3 роки тому

    I should have listened to this before dating 2 months with girl who now dumped me. 😩

  • @cinegoer9220
    @cinegoer9220 Рік тому

    Keep her hooked.

  • @jamesbattista1466
    @jamesbattista1466 Рік тому

    Dude, you really kicked my ass here…thank you😌

  • @snookieNaija
    @snookieNaija 2 роки тому

    I love this ✊❤️

  • @tesfom4464
    @tesfom4464 5 років тому +3

    Really great.

  • @Assaf_yosef
    @Assaf_yosef 4 роки тому

    Great Chanel 👍🏻

  • @jkyles1000
    @jkyles1000 3 роки тому +1

    I am very intimidated by women and it can affect me sexually. I don't like it if they are smarter than me. I am impotent with any woman who has finished college with higher than a B-minus average. I feel most at home with graduates of typing school, although if a woman does over sixty words a minute I usually panic and cannot perform. Help.

  • @LSR599
    @LSR599 3 роки тому

    Thats true what u have said.. absolutely am agree .. 👍👍❤️❤️❤️💪💪💪🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰

  • @pauldominguez7414
    @pauldominguez7414 3 роки тому +1

    Wish I watched this before the other day shiiiiiit lmao

  • @m83kid
    @m83kid 4 роки тому +3

    Love this channel! Great advice

  • @JohnnyJanPongTu
    @JohnnyJanPongTu 2 роки тому

    Why would I NEED try to do everything to keep things light and fun.. if I AM also vetting HER?!

  • @dronetheworld4k67
    @dronetheworld4k67 3 роки тому

    8:45 ur a Master !…

  • @forexmagician
    @forexmagician 4 роки тому

    This is so eye opening!

  • @MrTheomighty1
    @MrTheomighty1 5 років тому

    My SP is fantastic when she’s away from her mum but her mum really controls her life , her mum has no friends at 78 years old all she wants is my SP who is 50 years old who also now has no friends and my SP has told me she goes to work to get away from her mum

  • @cruelty-freediet1720
    @cruelty-freediet1720 4 роки тому +3

    This is really stupid. Have you tried asking a girl who she'd have dinner with dead or alive? The response is... I don't know, who would you have dinner with.. Same with pretty much any question.

  • @mohamadnijim4682
    @mohamadnijim4682 4 роки тому

    The think is that the girl i like dosn’t like talking that much so i’m the one who has to talk more !!

  • @larry6406
    @larry6406 4 роки тому

    Best video you’ve-ever made!

  • @CoachConnorPT
    @CoachConnorPT 3 роки тому

    I would disagree with not talking about religion because that may be important for the both of you

  • @damonjoseph1825
    @damonjoseph1825 5 років тому +1

    Great video

  • @PuretravelAuBestTravelAgents
    @PuretravelAuBestTravelAgents 3 роки тому +2

    Ok this is so wrong
    I’m a woman and it’s so attractive to meet a man who has a great balance between serious and fun - I’ve met many fun men who are superficial but when you want a serious conversation they don’t know how to do this and build a deeper connection ..
    Guys don’t listen to this guy he’s wrong wrong wrong

  • @sambormann2369
    @sambormann2369 3 роки тому +2

    Yeah but woman want a man, not an empty marshmellow

  • @deanmignola5448
    @deanmignola5448 4 роки тому

    Excellent stuff!

  • @american236
    @american236 4 роки тому

    I agree with this.

  • @bombbuaya
    @bombbuaya 4 роки тому +1

    What if we both shared insecurities ... how do we recover from that.

  • @clementkivegalo2604
    @clementkivegalo2604 3 роки тому

    Very practical lessons 👌

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack 5 років тому +1

    How let her talk without being her psychologist?

    • @decoy2636
      @decoy2636 5 років тому

      Let her talk as it reveals so much. Studying body language is helpful. If you feel like a therapist listening to her, bail out immediately and pop the chute. Putting the breaks on for a broken woman. You can not save her. Ask more out of the type of your interest in the ladies. Rejection is not a problem but it's a teaching tool, ask enough women and there is one willing to go out. Learn what not to do first.

  • @Jesusislord930
    @Jesusislord930 4 роки тому

    But what if she puts you in the friend zone? Or if you go for a kiss and she pulls away? Because she thinks your boring

    • @amymanns8023
      @amymanns8023 4 роки тому

      The guy in her friend zone will end up getting her for life, because he IS serious and goes beyond the shallow. This guy gives terrible advice

  • @69Applekrate
    @69Applekrate 5 років тому +5

    poor advice. I guess if you are an athiest it is OK but, if you are of any faith, this is very bad advice to go through 2-3 dates with someone before you ask about her faith? I do not see how anyone of faith can avoid the subject within the first 15 mins or so. If you are Christian or other faith, this mans advice on this video is very poor. thumbs down.

    • @aceraphael
      @aceraphael 3 роки тому

      I am a Christian..his overall advice is good...just make improvisations to it...

  • @Jesusislord930
    @Jesusislord930 4 роки тому

    Politics But what if you run out of fun things to say?

  • @tomprice3258
    @tomprice3258 3 роки тому +4

    Sounds like really shallow people will have great relationships. Hollow, no brains, a grade 8 education, nothing deep and be playful and empty. Perfect!

    • @steepdeej
      @steepdeej 3 роки тому

      I definitely feel a little more shallow and good at talking to women after applying a few of these videos. The way I see it, dating is a part of life and I’ve gotta practice it. Eh, maybe it’s just because is work with the girl in my sights. Anyways have a great day, you!

  • @Roshan-pl8cj
    @Roshan-pl8cj 4 роки тому

    Your UA-cam channel is awesome

  • @mbbx5va2
    @mbbx5va2 Рік тому

    need to have serious conversation to see if compatible. if she is bankrupt i'd want to know, if she ill i want to know. but if woman doesn't let you have serious conversation conversation till date 4 then better to date 6 of them and then pump and dump most of them once you find out the details

  • @JaqoBlaque
    @JaqoBlaque 3 роки тому

    💯 x 💯

  • @hieverything123
    @hieverything123 3 роки тому +1

    Sometimes you try everything but nothing could make her stay...

  • @_madebymilli_
    @_madebymilli_ 2 роки тому

    12:25 is mad facts but I am already a flirt god and rizz god I need me a wife man

  • @mohdpaijam4378
    @mohdpaijam4378 3 роки тому

    I meet a girl,that two day of talk,she want to me share my insecurities,trauma that i may have n my problem,after i done,she just share her too,that make me turn to gud listener no talking touching with only reaction i always d0 .suprise to that,two day knowing🤔🤔🤔?,it just make me easy way to create daily rutine that will make her waiting for it n feel weird if i dont do it,with that n all my plan to make her long sad n wonder later on success,but if u know girl like this with early meeting,just be carefull,she something else😣.*kiss n sex in my religion before married not allowed*same like buying new car that human have been used of it😂..piston loose n u thinking how owner before u did use it

  • @davidallen346
    @davidallen346 4 роки тому

    This is what I say to this woman of interest but she keeps wanting me to build more deeper emotional connections with her so I have to keep trying I guess

    • @gabemyrick3803
      @gabemyrick3803 4 роки тому

      You are right to go ahead if she is asking. Remember, he said we men should not raise heavy subjects. But if they do we should show them we are capable of holding that type of conversation. But in the beginning you wouldn't spend a lot of time on the subject. Notice he keeps using the phrase, "during a date". Later on when she is yours you will have heavy times together and that is when it will be appropriate to display matching emotion. But Even after decades of marriage, You still want the overall spirit of your love to be fun, fresh, adventurous until the end.

    • @jcman-lp6lg
      @jcman-lp6lg 2 роки тому +1

      you should probably take these videos with a grain of salt

  • @adamromero
    @adamromero 4 роки тому

    He says woman funny, "woe-man"

  • @toobalkain
    @toobalkain Рік тому

    I'm not sure that it's even possible for a man to build a deep emotional connection with a fertile woman without attraction, or that it's possible for a sexually active hetero male to be friends with his female counterpart.

  • @chillinginarea51
    @chillinginarea51 2 роки тому

    14:33

  • @kirilmihaylov1934
    @kirilmihaylov1934 5 років тому +4

    It ain't easy with women.... some are hopeless.....

  • @mbbx5va2
    @mbbx5va2 Рік тому

    too many rules to get with a woman. reason why women dates drug dealers and criminals is because those guys hit her emotions. But if the woman ends up childless, ill or broke dating such men then that is her fault.

  • @windward2818
    @windward2818 4 роки тому +1

    Connection, in the context of the video, means emotional connection. This is important.
    Let's try a thought experiment.
    Question: Fundamentally, do you agree that each of us is responsible for our own happiness?
    Question: Fundamentally, do you agree that each of us are responsible for our own basic needs?
    If you have answered yes to the above two questions, then why do men and women, beyond procreation, need relationships. The answer to this is implied in the Take care of yourself statement. Relationships create together something that is greater than each of us alone. Emotional connections are the basis of relationships. If you are not in control of your happiness, or your subsistence needs, than a relationship is not the answer.
    An emotional connection can be having fun, but it is much more than this. The emotional connection is created in the mind of the women, and it can take many forms. In order to make an emotional connection through conversation, men need to learn how to talk to a woman. Men need to learn emotional intelligence, and how to talk with empathy. But, more importantly, an emotional connection is reciprocal. It is what creates close bonds between couples. It is the basis of trust and love.

    • @gabemyrick3803
      @gabemyrick3803 4 роки тому

      How do YOU define emotional intelligence?

    • @windward2818
      @windward2818 4 роки тому

      @@gabemyrick3803 Emotional Intelligence: an individual’s abilities to recognise and manage their emotions, and
      the emotions of other people, both individually and in groups.

    • @gabemyrick3803
      @gabemyrick3803 4 роки тому

      @@windward2818 Is it possible to be better at recognizing and controlling others emotions, than doing so with ones own emotions?

    • @windward2818
      @windward2818 4 роки тому

      @@gabemyrick3803 From a self-discovery standpoint, one always attains Recognition of Self (being self-aware) before Recognition of others (empathy). You can't control other people's emotions, you can through empathy understand them, all while retaining you ability to reason. So you can feel their emotions, but you are not controlled by them.

  • @phurian_6560
    @phurian_6560 3 роки тому

    Thanks bro, appreciate it