I bought the Attract and Keep Her book/system, combined with these videos all day at work, and it's all already working BEAUTIFULLY for me and the girl I'm interested in, and it's only been a week. AND mind you when I started all of Jim's teachings I had actually thought I had already blown it, and I turned it completely around. Jim is a freaking legend lol
Im not even done listening, and i see my dude got bigg facts on deck. Im basically doing all the right things, but i learned on my own. You got some awesome advice bro
The summit/valley analogy is not only relatable to women but to ones purpose or career. I am starting a new direction and have been having these terrible feelings of unworthiness. It can be daunting and I find I want to return to my comfort zone. I have to remind myself constantly ‘i fear regret more than I fear failure’. Great video!!
These are some good points. You certainly hit some broad points. There are men however who are born with personality traits that are more agreeable for getting girlfriends. For example some boys are born outspoken, or smart at manipulation, or cleverness, or boisterous, or natural take charge attitudes. Go look at group of 4 yr old boys playing youll see 1 boy that is the alpha and tells the others what to do because their persona is so strong. They were born like that. They may have learned some things from an adult but the canvass was already there. There are kids out there who were born with zero canvass. They were born not talkative, not leaders, not take charge, not boisterous, not masculine dont give a shit attitude, and uncomfortable with confrontation. Trying to learn these things for some men are like trying to breathe water. Its literally impossible, because its so unlike them to hold and remain holding the persona that all girls love and want to stay with. Girls only like certain qualities in guys. Masculinity, alpha mentality, strong willed, always open yet subtle body languages and says things the right way in the right tone. Sort of a player vibe, yet can paint a manipulative picture etc... Its so obvious the 3-4 different personality types women want, that you could give me a lineup of 50 guys and I could literally pick out the ones that are gonna get girls and the ones that will struggle. Its so easy to identify yet very hard to tell or teach the 30 out of that 50 okay guys you dont have what it takes to get women. Here act like these guys instead. Cold hard truth not every guy was engineered to get women some of us have to die out. Thats just the way it is.
This is probably the most realistic and true advice that I’ve come across. You’ve got to have your own life to be truly happy. Additionally a woman needs to have the same situation- otherwise things will not work out.
Well.. guess what.. I live in Russia.. there's a girl i really like.. very much. She was being distant. So.. I did what you said. I just stopped texting..nothing for 4 days.. ..it killed me.. I love her.. well. While I'm sitting here listening to you Jim.. she texted me.. asked how I'm doing and where I've been. It worked. It did.
Become comfortable with yourself and you will be comfortable with others give respect and but don't let anyone woman or otherwise disrespect you. The only time I feel uncomfortable is if I'm trying to be someone I'm not, and I don't do that, I want someone to like me for who I am and I will not get that if I'm trying to be someone different. And the women I've meet are very conscious if you are not sincere be sincere its a lot easier.
Jim, thank you for this lecture. Maybe you can tell us in one of the next Videos how many friends a gorgeous woman expects from us since it could be that if someone just wants real friends and only has three friends he could almost completely turn off gorgeous women.
My life is great now, I’ve dropped a lot of so called mates as they aren’t the people I thought they were years on even from high school some 27 years on, my one and only mate is a door supervisor, I’m great when I’m in a relationship but when it breaks down I find it takes me along time to find someone, I’m not the type of bloke to go on dates, nearly all my relationships and 1 marriage have all come from people who know me over time, I’d love to have a wing man who has the confidence you speak of that comes naturally to them to just go over and take to beautiful woman, I am who I am and I’m working on myself by asking things of ladies and if I get rejected then so be it you have to take the rough with the smooth, one thing I just would like guidance by someone with the know how just to show me what I’m doing wrong, my last beautiful lady I was with for the last 6 years I’ve known her for 29 years and she is a lady I’d have and I’d keep for myself and I told this woman I don’t get jealous she said oh we’ll see about that as at the end of the night why I wasn’t jealous as I know she was the one I had and was going home with to this day 11 months on no woman has come close to how she is she added to my happiness
I've done this stuff so often that it has gotten boring. True. I do have like 150 numbers, but of those that never intended to meetup, the others (esp. the hot ones) to me , are like 'meh'...women, aside from hooking up, are just not that interesting. I don't fault this series of videos, though. If anything, all this approach stuff has helped me realize that I don't need a woman. That is really a great sense of freedom.
Yes she was flirting with you. You failed to have fun with her. You can remember not to do that again it is a turn off when she breaks your frame. Wish you future success
@@maegankafka4540 Things didn't work , I wasn't really strong emotionally at that time and she needs someone to understand her more cause it seems she can't follow her heart. It was really painful but it makes sense when you be able to see the whole picture .
If you ask women for their number everytime you talk to one... you will quickly be labeled “the weird guy” unless your game is tight and most of them are attracted to you... so I’m going to assume you mean ask every woman (YOU HIT ON) to give you their number... which makes a lot more sense... but still, seems pretty obvious, I always try for a number if there looks to be any chance of getting one. I even try when there doesn’t look like much of a chance.
Great drop man, your videos are Top Notch! I tell dudes too that they should ensure they are *manly and masculine* *(as long as it is and feels natural obviously)* because you stand out from all the cookie-cutter hipster soyboys.
Women can be quite cruel towards men because the men don’t take no for an answer!!Women are also looking for the right match. Just because you’re not the one for her, it doesn’t mean you are a bad person - so don’t act that way.
If I thought I was whole and complete on my own... I’d stay in the house playing COD. So should I just stay inside playing COD and wait for the dimes to beat down a door? Probably not. So I’m not really getting this point.
Hes talking mentality. You dont need a woman for validation, you dont need a girlfriend or pretty girl to tell you you're a man. You still need time for self development, working on your mental and physical health. But you are YOUR OWN man. Take accountability and do something to elevate yourself. The women will follow.
Happy successful respect to you women very enjoy how to interest your massage I love it awesome guy you are entalagens Berlin smart and amazing thank you so much girl lol.
Key 4: If you are no longer 20 years old and have been confident throughout your life, it should also appear in the outside world. Relationships, power, money. These automatically eliminate many problems and issues. Key 2: Yeah ... that's what 95% of people can't do. Otherwise, the kind of core self-confidence that you build before money, power, relationships, is helped by the "whispering" of your instinct. So it's not just a learned thing.
Women Reject me because I only make 30 K a year. Yes, not the most Fabulous Career!! But, I'm Working and paying my Bills!! Women think that i probably will Make them buy everything since I only make 30K a year. Thats Gross Not Take Home. And i Drive a 1996 Impala SS which is 23 years old. Women Love men who drive New Cars, Fancy cars, etc. Women are Not Impressed with the 1996 Car!!!
I live in Russia. I make 12k a year.. I have the most beautiful friends you would ever lay your eyes on. Sweet..kind..gorgeous. ..don't cut yourself short brother. I don't even own a car.
@@consciousgentile5141 true, men are the one who is pursued here, women too of course.. but there's so many more women here than men. some 15 million I'm told.
I love your presentations but I disagree with what you say about achieving happiness. For some, building a happy life without a woman is sufficient. Maybe some guys feel happy when they have nice cars, jobs or homes. For me, I'm fine with saying I am happier when I have someone special to share life with. Some of things that are important to other guys aren't that important to me.
I disagree about all skill pertaining to dealing with the ladies is learned.some guy are more intuitive about woman and how to handle them than ur average Joe.Yes tiger woods practiced like a demon,but if he didnt have the born in ability to perfect them,he would be good but not great.
I bought the Attract and Keep Her book/system, combined with these videos all day at work, and it's all already working BEAUTIFULLY for me and the girl I'm interested in, and it's only been a week. AND mind you when I started all of Jim's teachings I had actually thought I had already blown it, and I turned it completely around. Jim is a freaking legend lol
Love you man.. You're not like other dating gurus. You not only encourage us to make our dating better but also make ourselve better.
Im not even done listening, and i see my dude got bigg facts on deck. Im basically doing all the right things, but i learned on my own. You got some awesome advice bro
This chanel is slowly changing my life... and not just dating. Thank you!
The summit/valley analogy is not only relatable to women but to ones purpose or career. I am starting a new direction and have been having these terrible feelings of unworthiness. It can be daunting and I find I want to return to my comfort zone. I have to remind myself constantly ‘i fear regret more than I fear failure’. Great video!!
Always have one foot OUTSIDE your comfort zone.
These are some good points. You certainly hit some broad points.
There are men however who are born with personality traits that are more agreeable for getting girlfriends. For example some boys are born outspoken, or smart at manipulation, or cleverness, or boisterous, or natural take charge attitudes. Go look at group of 4 yr old boys playing youll see 1 boy that is the alpha and tells the others what to do because their persona is so strong. They were born like that. They may have learned some things from an adult but the canvass was already there. There are kids out there who were born with zero canvass. They were born not talkative, not leaders, not take charge, not boisterous, not masculine dont give a shit attitude, and uncomfortable with confrontation. Trying to learn these things for some men are like trying to breathe water. Its literally impossible, because its so unlike them to hold and remain holding the persona that all girls love and want to stay with. Girls only like certain qualities in guys. Masculinity, alpha mentality, strong willed, always open yet subtle body languages and says things the right way in the right tone. Sort of a player vibe, yet can paint a manipulative picture etc...
Its so obvious the 3-4 different personality types women want, that you could give me a lineup of 50 guys and I could literally pick out the ones that are gonna get girls and the ones that will struggle. Its so easy to identify yet very hard to tell or teach the 30 out of that 50 okay guys you dont have what it takes to get women. Here act like these guys instead. Cold hard truth not every guy was engineered to get women some of us have to die out. Thats just the way it is.
This is probably the most realistic and true advice that I’ve come across. You’ve got to have your own life to be truly happy. Additionally a woman needs to have the same situation- otherwise things will not work out.
That's right brother. The woman who wants to be with us must be equally yoked. We choose them after they are good enough for us.
Great to see you back Jim. Love your videos and intellect. Hope you're doing well.
Jim Wolfe is the best dating coach on YT.
Well.. guess what.. I live in Russia.. there's a girl i really like.. very much. She was being distant. So.. I did what you said. I just stopped texting..nothing for 4 days.. ..it killed me.. I love her.. well. While I'm sitting here listening to you Jim.. she texted me.. asked how I'm doing and where I've been. It worked. It did.
Still seeing the same girl, I'm 50,, she's 20.
Push and pull ...
Become comfortable with yourself and you will be comfortable with others give respect and but don't let anyone woman or otherwise disrespect you. The only time I feel uncomfortable is if I'm trying to be someone I'm not, and I don't do that, I want someone to like me for who I am and I will not get that if I'm trying to be someone different. And the women I've meet are very conscious if you are not sincere be sincere its a lot easier.
Living my awesome life does not involve asking hundreds of women on a coffee date just to practice. No time for that unfortunately.
Let us try.
and they have to agree to go out with you in the first place
A hundred.?😂😂 try asking a girl a month.... umm that's 12 a year by the way 😂
Awesome as always. Simple but not easy to do.
God bless you Jim! 16:53
Keep up the good work! :)
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Just Have Money, Money, and money!! Women Love men who have Money!! True facts
Women USE men who have money.
They ignore men they CANT USE.
@@consciousgentile5141 Your Absolutely Correct!! It's a Shame that Women are Money HUNGRY!!!!
@@consciousgentile5141 fact
This is like saying that men only care about boobies
Jim, thank you for this lecture. Maybe you can tell us in one of the next Videos how many friends a gorgeous woman expects from us since it could be that if someone just wants real friends and only has three friends he could almost completely turn off gorgeous women.
I read and listen and study...about women but I still fall back to doing same thing.
Practice some more!
Same here. I guess it has to do with psychology breakdown on this area. Not sure
This is some inspiring stuff
My life is great now, I’ve dropped a lot of so called mates as they aren’t the people I thought they were years on even from high school some 27 years on, my one and only mate is a door supervisor, I’m great when I’m in a relationship but when it breaks down I find it takes me along time to find someone, I’m not the type of bloke to go on dates, nearly all my relationships and 1 marriage have all come from people who know me over time, I’d love to have a wing man who has the confidence you speak of that comes naturally to them to just go over and take to beautiful woman, I am who I am and I’m working on myself by asking things of ladies and if I get rejected then so be it you have to take the rough with the smooth, one thing I just would like guidance by someone with the know how just to show me what I’m doing wrong, my last beautiful lady I was with for the last 6 years I’ve known her for 29 years and she is a lady I’d have and I’d keep for myself and I told this woman I don’t get jealous she said oh we’ll see about that as at the end of the night why I wasn’t jealous as I know she was the one I had and was going home with to this day 11 months on no woman has come close to how she is she added to my happiness
I've done this stuff so often that it has gotten boring. True. I do have like 150 numbers, but of those that never intended to meetup, the others (esp. the hot ones) to me , are like 'meh'...women, aside from hooking up, are just not that interesting.
I don't fault this series of videos, though. If anything, all this approach stuff has helped me realize that I don't need a woman. That is really a great sense of freedom.
You said it right god bless you
I go with number 2 followed by number 3. I'm not talking about going to the bathroom.
This is a cool video anyway. Key. 1 and 2 is very important...
There's a girl i like and she was teasing me , but i got so angry , what should i do ? Should i apologize to her ? I need help .
Yes she was flirting with you. You failed to have fun with her. You can remember not to do that again it is a turn off when she breaks your frame. Wish you future success
10 months ago... So what happened... Did you apologize? Did you go watch Jim's video on what to do if women teases you?
@@maegankafka4540 Things didn't work , I wasn't really strong emotionally at that time and she needs someone to understand her more cause it seems she can't follow her heart.
It was really painful but it makes sense when you be able to see the whole picture .
If you ask women for their number everytime you talk to one... you will quickly be labeled “the weird guy” unless your game is tight and most of them are attracted to you... so I’m going to assume you mean ask every woman (YOU HIT ON) to give you their number... which makes a lot more sense... but still, seems pretty obvious, I always try for a number if there looks to be any chance of getting one. I even try when there doesn’t look like much of a chance.
Great drop man, your videos are Top Notch! I tell dudes too that they should ensure they are *manly and masculine*
*(as long as it is and feels natural obviously)* because you stand out from all the cookie-cutter hipster soyboys.
The Bible of Genesis says that woman was created as a Helper and Compliment of the man not his equal or boss.
Am whole and complete thanks!!!
Is there a e book for attract and keep her book?
Women can be quite cruel towards men because the men don’t take no for an answer!!Women are also looking for the right match. Just because you’re not the one for her, it doesn’t mean you are a bad person - so don’t act that way.
If I thought I was whole and complete on my own... I’d stay in the house playing COD.
So should I just stay inside playing COD and wait for the dimes to beat down a door?
Probably not. So I’m not really getting this point.
Hes talking mentality. You dont need a woman for validation, you dont need a girlfriend or pretty girl to tell you you're a man. You still need time for self development, working on your mental and physical health.
But you are YOUR OWN man. Take accountability and do something to elevate yourself. The women will follow.
I agree "it gets worse before it gets better " is oxymoronic
Happy successful respect to you women very enjoy how to interest your massage I love it awesome guy you are entalagens Berlin smart and amazing thank you so much girl lol.
Good info Jim. You mentioned waiting four to eight days after the date. What if she is texting you first?
Text back. But make sure she has the last text.
Hey coach i read your books it's amazing
@Nik Shehov the good guy guide by jim wolfe, the first book which lead me to reading
THANK YOU
Be the prize gents focus on success and women will chase you.
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I disagree. A person needs another person in his/her life. It can/should make them complete, happy and that is completely normal.
agreed.
I think what he's pointing out is avoiding needy behaviors.
Key 4: If you are no longer 20 years old and have been confident throughout your life, it should also appear in the outside world. Relationships, power, money. These automatically eliminate many problems and issues.
Key 2: Yeah ... that's what 95% of people can't do.
Otherwise, the kind of core self-confidence that you build before money, power, relationships, is helped by the "whispering" of your instinct. So it's not just a learned thing.
i love this
Amazing
How are you so wise?
Guys have sisters at home will naturally have those skills, they know girls too much.
Not really, I have and older and younger sister and I had absolutely no clue how to deal with women whatsoever lol.
@@Itz_KLONOPIN Same
Please email me the book Atract and keep her. I played for it two times and I want to read it
I paid for the book Atract and keep her. Where did you send it to
Thanks coach
Women Reject me because I only make 30 K a year. Yes, not the most Fabulous Career!! But, I'm Working and paying my Bills!! Women think that i probably will Make them buy everything since I only make 30K a year. Thats Gross Not Take Home. And i Drive a 1996 Impala SS which is 23 years old. Women Love men who drive New Cars, Fancy cars, etc. Women are Not Impressed with the 1996 Car!!!
I live in Russia. I make 12k a year.. I have the most beautiful friends you would ever lay your eyes on. Sweet..kind..gorgeous. ..don't cut yourself short brother. I don't even own a car.
@@jpc51768 Russia is different
@@consciousgentile5141 true, men are the one who is pursued here, women too of course.. but there's so many more women here than men. some 15 million I'm told.
@@jpc51768 russia is great for men.
The west is much worse.
Too many men in the west pursuing too few women.
It is the opposite of Russia
@@consciousgentile5141 Russian alpha males must have hit the jackpot!
I love your presentations but I disagree with what you say about achieving happiness. For some, building a happy life without a woman is sufficient. Maybe some guys feel happy when they have nice cars, jobs or homes. For me, I'm fine with saying I am happier when I have someone special to share life with. Some of things that are important to other guys aren't that important to me.
I disagree about all skill pertaining to dealing with the ladies is learned.some guy are more intuitive about woman and how to handle them than ur average Joe.Yes tiger woods practiced like a demon,but if he didnt have the born in ability to perfect them,he would be good but not great.
Where are these women???
At work, at the grocery store, at McDonald's, at Wal-Mart, in traffic, at volunteer events like soup kitchens. Political rallies.
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