How I Wasted My 20's (and why it all stops now) | Video 1 of 30

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  • Опубліковано 11 січ 2025

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  • @philipduttonlescorlett
    @philipduttonlescorlett 2 місяці тому +2

    You're a beautiful, intelligent young woman, and it's completely natural to worry about the future, but don’t let that hold you back. Life is meant to be experienced, so go after the things that excite and inspire you! If you want to travel, explore the world. If there are places you've always wanted to see, people you want to meet, or passions you want to pursue, now is the time to dive in.
    The key is to stay curious, open, and adventurous. Have fun, but also seek experiences that bring you growth and fulfillment. One thing you’ll want to avoid later in life is regret-regret that you didn't take chances or try new things when you had the opportunity. So, be brave in chasing your dreams, and remember that the journey itself is where the magic happens.
    You have so much ahead of you-a life full of discovery, joy, and growth. Embrace it fully! :)
    By the way, you have excellent taste in games! :)

  • @Luckygirlme111
    @Luckygirlme111 13 днів тому

    I turn 30 in the beginning of next year and I also feel like I've wasted my 20s... I have just studied, finished almost 3 degrees now without getting a solid job (just barista and short jobs) or being able to move out. I also feel like I haven't lived enough etc... But I finish my 3rd degree in 1 month and I'm set now that I will get a job in that field and then finally being able to move out. And I'm going to move to a bigger city so that I have access to pretty much everything. No more excuses like "it's too far away" etc.
    If I really think, of course I have done stuff and achieved stuff in my 20s! But it still didn't turn out the way I wanted and because I jumped from degree to degree not really knowing what to do I just feel like I haven't gotten anywhere. And I still wish my life would've been more social so I'm going to work on that.

  • @carolinlovelifecoach
    @carolinlovelifecoach 5 місяців тому +2

    I´m 50 and I´ve wasted a lot of years or minutes, but I start all over again all the time. Life is a roller coaster.

  • @Mobius_Rope
    @Mobius_Rope 5 місяців тому +1

    Everything really comes down to perspective. Life is always complicated and sometimes no matter what you do it will feel strange and scary, but you're already successful. There will always be people who do more and achieve less and people who do less and achieve more, so it can end up being more about seeing the path you've taken for the experience it has been and letting the path forward unfold as it comes. Wishing the best with the journey! I know how it feels to be a little lost with things.

  • @grace.1123
    @grace.1123 5 місяців тому +1

    Awww Jessie I'm so glad the algorithm recommended you to me! I'm definitely on the ride with you, I turn 30 in 3 months and I keep teetering between feeling like I also wasted my 20s vs. really trying to embrace getting older (ie wiser). I connect with you on so many things you said. I also want to swim more too! It's cheesy, but I watched Katie Ledecky win the 1500m live and it made me so emotional and feel like I could accomplish anything. I also recently got diagnosed with venous insufficiency and swimming is good for low-impact exercise on your legs so I've really been looking into it. Looking forward to your future uploads ♡ (PS I absolutely love your hair, I can't imagine anyone not liking it on you!!)

  • @rich23_aoe
    @rich23_aoe 5 місяців тому +3

    Don't push yourself in this 6 months, I am still building my career path, and I am 40, never is late for a new start or to accomplish your goals. Remember I will always support you.

  • @FAMOFSIX
    @FAMOFSIX 23 дні тому

    I love this Mindset ❤

  • @jesseshort7179
    @jesseshort7179 Місяць тому

    You have no idea how much I can relate to this entire story. This is Elof - next time you tune into one of my streams, PLEASE PLEASE bring this up and I can share some things, both to say them publicly and to help you look forward.

  • @randonkbay
    @randonkbay 5 місяців тому +1

    You haven't been wasting time, you've been learning the whole while. About people, and life, and yourself, and what you want. Often people that are super driven are insulated from their own sense of experience because they're focused on the goal line. Can't see the forest for the trees sort of thing. You're smart, you're capable, you're engaging, you're compassionate, and above all still have a sense of curiosity and wonder. You are all those things because you've nurtured those aspects of who you are.
    So now you'd like to nurture other or new aspects and you should get to, but that doesn't in any way mean time spent tending to your garden of personality is time poorly spent. It's been growing who you are. That doesn't mean you've loved everything about it, but you probably learned a lot from those times too. We rarely learn anything when we're comfortable, because why should we change if everything is cozy. I'm sure you didn't feel supremely confident when you appeared in that Pros & Joes team tourney but you toughed it out and were marvelous. I started following you that day. This is just another step, and it will have it's challenges but we know you got this.

  • @chrisnewtownnsw
    @chrisnewtownnsw 5 місяців тому

    You come across as extremely articulate. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself it's all good and time is still on your side.

  • @chienlongkelvinlee1080
    @chienlongkelvinlee1080 4 місяці тому

    All the best!

  • @thememoryguardians
    @thememoryguardians 5 місяців тому

    that saturn return kicked in strong! x

  • @arnoldhaube8654
    @arnoldhaube8654 3 місяці тому

    Love the video !

  • @Lucas-mb8ub
    @Lucas-mb8ub 5 місяців тому

    Jessie

  • @catherineeASMR
    @catherineeASMR 5 місяців тому

    Relate to you and all of your goals so much Jessie! Reach out if you wanna be friends and bolster each other through the UA-cam thing 😊

  • @MadRunCookie
    @MadRunCookie 5 місяців тому

    10:14 Swimming everyday, read, ride a horse, picking up pilates OR hard grinding aoe to become diamond 😂