Just put God first and he will bring the right man into your life that wants you regardless of what you can bring to the table. You shouldn't have to stroke a man ego to get love from him. You are just young and on that I want a man train so you will repeat whatever they say that they want to be notice by them, but in all honesty keep living and you will learn men don't know what they want until a woman comes into their lives and show them what's been missing.
I love being strong and independent. The opposite is weak and dependent. I love having my own finances and my own career and hobbies. I feel as an adult everyone should be self sufficient. I find it repulsive FOR ME to be relying on a man or any other adult for my life expenses (rent, food, travel, clothes etc). I love having money filled in my account from the work I put in from getting my degrees. In order to be dependent on a man, gives him control to starve you and mistreat you. Independence for the win. Plus my money is mine and I can splurge. You can’t splurge if your dude don’t have that type of money.
I can respect your perspective, honestly but....some of us genuinely just don't want to be in relationships. Maybe a select few like yourself can relate to what you're saying, and I'm glad ya'll are realised that maybe you do wanna be in your divine feminine era, more power to u 🤍
Men like to control. You can feed into their ego all you want but you better be able to take care of yourself if you have to at the end of the day. Independent women aren't that way for no reason. Of course we want someone we can rely on and lean on but no one should be dependent on someone else. Everyone needs to have some self suffiency or you will be in a co dependent relationship where that person could leave you with nothing in a blink of an eye. Learn to have balance. Stop looking for someone to serve you or to serve them look for a partnership where you and they can contribute and pour into one another.
Your mindset is messed up. Why are you assuming? You think women don’t have separate bank accounts? Friends and family? Online businesses and their education?
I absolutely understand the message here w the key phrase being to deal w a man who deserves that (ego stroking) and gives you something to work w and fine tune for a stronger relationship ! I agree No one wants a life w/o ease but I wish sometimes women (BW) weren’t made to feel like we are simultaneously the problem & the solution while men, at large, are not getting think pieces on how to better show up or respect their partner. Im all for you get more bees w honey but where are the msgs that don’t make us feel like the independence or resiliency that we’re forced into cannot be reversed by someone choosing ON THEIR OWN COGNIZANCE to be perceptive in love in the same way we ask women to be more aware ; more ego stroking, more this more that on a regular basis. I just wish black woman were afforded the same patience and grace in all things that we so easily bestow on everyone else. No shade to this video at all , at all! I’m subscribed and loving it but just my thoughts #DontComeForMeYall 😅❤
I get your perspective! But the point of the message is to get women to stop shrinking themselves & their needs to get a man. We aren’t 100% the problem.. both parties are at fault. But a lot of the time we don’t get what we want because we lower the bar to meet men where they are.
And this right here is the problem too many women in the business of stroking egos complex and when these men run into a woman doing for herself they try to tear her down because that ego not being stroked. Fxxx all that I’m gone need you to put that ego to the side and let’s be real for a minute. I personally don’t need my ego stroked to do shit I’m really about my actions most definitely will say it all to the right man.And I’m great where I’m at nothing can take the place of being spiritually and earthly at peace and wealthy. Therefore, I will be where I be waiting for that man to show up.
Some of y’all are hearing what y’all want to hear. We’re talking about women who don’t let their man do anything for them because they’ve been taught that they’ll only get chosen if they’re hyper-independent. But how you receive it is based on where you are I guess
Why is it that when people saying meaningful things like this? They have a little bit of likes and comments and when folks are saying extremely destructive things, they have 5 million likes and followers. Stueeeeps
This is so real. Thank you as always! ❤
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Just put God first and he will bring the right man into your life that wants you regardless of what you can bring to the table. You shouldn't have to stroke a man ego to get love from him. You are just young and on that I want a man train so you will repeat whatever they say that they want to be notice by them, but in all honesty keep living and you will learn men don't know what they want until a woman comes into their lives and show them what's been missing.
I love being strong and independent. The opposite is weak and dependent. I love having my own finances and my own career and hobbies. I feel as an adult everyone should be self sufficient. I find it repulsive FOR ME to be relying on a man or any other adult for my life expenses (rent, food, travel, clothes etc). I love having money filled in my account from the work I put in from getting my degrees. In order to be dependent on a man, gives him control to starve you and mistreat you. Independence for the win. Plus my money is mine and I can splurge. You can’t splurge if your dude don’t have that type of money.
Thank you ...well said ❤
yeah honestly true..i’m just gonna stay single cause i can’t trust anyone to let me be in a soft way either
I can respect your perspective, honestly but....some of us genuinely just don't want to be in relationships.
Maybe a select few like yourself can relate to what you're saying, and I'm glad ya'll are realised that maybe you do wanna be in your divine feminine era, more power to u 🤍
The key is dealing with a man who deserves it. This is where the struggle lives.
Men like to control. You can feed into their ego all you want but you better be able to take care of yourself if you have to at the end of the day. Independent women aren't that way for no reason. Of course we want someone we can rely on and lean on but no one should be dependent on someone else. Everyone needs to have some self suffiency or you will be in a co dependent relationship where that person could leave you with nothing in a blink of an eye. Learn to have balance. Stop looking for someone to serve you or to serve them look for a partnership where you and they can contribute and pour into one another.
Your mindset is messed up. Why are you assuming? You think women don’t have separate bank accounts? Friends and family? Online businesses and their education?
@@Igbobabexoxo I see reading comprehension no longer exist. Did you read the full comment or just the first sentence?
You should probably watch the full video bc idk where I said any of that
@@trindingtopic I'm pretty sure I never said you did say that. 🤦🏾♀ It's called a comment for a reason.
I don’t bring nothing to the table but an IPhone. -JT
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I like your makeup and hair🤩 completely agree with you❣️👌🏽✨
Thank you ❤️
I absolutely understand the message here w the key phrase being to deal w a man who deserves that (ego stroking) and gives you something to work w and fine tune for a stronger relationship ! I agree No one wants a life w/o ease but I wish sometimes women (BW) weren’t made to feel like we are simultaneously the problem & the solution while men, at large, are not getting think pieces on how to better show up or respect their partner. Im all for you get more bees w honey but where are the msgs that don’t make us feel like the independence or resiliency that we’re forced into cannot be reversed by someone choosing ON THEIR OWN COGNIZANCE to be perceptive in love in the same way we ask women to be more aware ; more ego stroking, more this more that on a regular basis.
I just wish black woman were afforded the same patience and grace in all things that we so easily bestow on everyone else.
No shade to this video at all , at all! I’m subscribed and loving it but just my thoughts #DontComeForMeYall 😅❤
I get your perspective! But the point of the message is to get women to stop shrinking themselves & their needs to get a man. We aren’t 100% the problem.. both parties are at fault. But a lot of the time we don’t get what we want because we lower the bar to meet men where they are.
No lies told ❤
And this right here is the problem too many women in the business of stroking egos complex and when these men run into a woman doing for herself they try to tear her down because that ego not being stroked. Fxxx all that I’m gone need you to put that ego to the side and let’s be real for a minute. I personally don’t need my ego stroked to do shit I’m really about my actions most definitely will say it all to the right man.And I’m great where I’m at nothing can take the place of being spiritually and earthly at peace and wealthy. Therefore, I will be where I be waiting for that man to show up.
Some of y’all are hearing what y’all want to hear. We’re talking about women who don’t let their man do anything for them because they’ve been taught that they’ll only get chosen if they’re hyper-independent. But how you receive it is based on where you are I guess
It not about ego, it called nature. The Most High made things innately devine. The world prefers artificial over natural, and thats where the war is.
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Why is it that when people saying meaningful things like this? They have a little bit of likes and comments and when folks are saying extremely destructive things, they have 5 million likes and followers. Stueeeeps
Ok
Pick me 😂😂😂