Men MUST KNOW The Controlling Nature Of Modern Women
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I have been a victim of this in the past. Glad I woke up.
Hi Alexander. Do you do "merch"?
This video put me in mind of hoodies, coats, and T-shirts with "This is a Risk Space" written on them.
A warning and also a indicator that those who always want to be "safe" will never, ever take the risk to speak to another person.
And yet we do, daily, and sometimes our friends reject us, while sometimes strangers are completely open with us.
Relationships DON'T START in a "Safe Space", you *have to be* in a "Risk Space" to make a connection.
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This was a good one Alexander. This issue really speaks to both men and women and it's the first video of yours that I actually put on repeat consecutively.
I think a perfect real life representation of this behavior hope you check it out!
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Congratulations to her for getting into another relationship that will inevitably fail in 3-6 months when she no longer has any respect or attraction for this guy who is subservient to her.
Exactly. While accepting 0% of fault in the failing of her relationships.
She wants someone she isn't attracted to. At home. She's training him like a dog.
I hate that men even talk as if they should have the respect of this woman under any sircumstances. This woman deserves to be alone until she does a 360° on her ego. Men need to learn to let go of these ho*s and just leave them be alone and hit 30, 40, 50. I have experience of toxic relationships and let me tell you its MUCH better to just stay single forever than to be with a woman like this. She makes me feel sick. Would never touch a woman like that with a stick 🤢🤮
In the end, it is the guys fault for putting up with that bullshit!
@@Cloneufc That is true. We truly have the power to change this. I guess we are just too addicted to pu**y.
The fact that she's a coach and will 'train' other women to behave that way is petrifying
Most already been trained by society shed just adding more toxic techniques. It'd sad because been don't fall for the bullshit anymore.
You would not believe how many of them are out there. “Life coaches” teaching women how to be more toxic under the guise of empowerment.
Actually if a girl cancelled on me twice, I'd be unlikely to give another chance.
It IS a bad sign. There are always excuses. They might even seem legit.
But the fact is... some people just don't have their s**t together, and you are best off not getting involved in their mess.
And if I DID for some reason give her another shot, making sure she was there before I left isn't bad advice.
There are male coaches giving worst advice.
@@EC-yl7xk
I’ve seen men who are stuck in careers that they hate because the income supports the life their wife expects. Working 70 hours a week plus commuting, paying off an enormous mortgage, leasing luxury cars etc is also a form of controlling behaviour. They are fully aware that she will leave and take the kids the moment the money dries up.
I've seen that as well.
Pretty much sums up my situation. Wife quit work at 30. Supported her for last 20+ years. Now being divorced by her.
Never, NEVER marry. It's way too risky for men.
I’ve noticed in the states that’s a huge problem for multiple reasons. I see couples that make very good money living paycheck to paycheck because they want to have the very nice ideal home in the perfect location. The cars that fit the whole family, less than 8 years old, and cost $50k+. With inflation now and things getting tighter you might start seeing more divorce.
Marriage is cancer as we all should be well aware of by now.
Her self esteem is so low that she needed to humiliate someone to feel satisfaction and feeling of having any value at all
the unnatural progressive ideology increases self doubt and causes and epidemic of anxiety and depression in young people today
Yep, just like a "bully" in Junior High or Middle School does; belittling others just to make themselves feel more "important". It's just plain sad to see this type of behavior from modern women, because they're just digging their (very near) future grave in the relationship department. I have ZERO sympathy for this type of totally appalling behavior though. I won't tolerate it from ANY person, guys OR girls, people who act like this aren't even worth your time to deal with.
@AZME Definitely some narcissistic behavior going on with that girl, I agree!
@@mikelisteral7863 with your profile pic that sounded perfect
@@JoeJ-8282 I'm gonna say that narcissism and low self esteem are old friends. Always building themselves up by devaluing others, I lived this for so long. Trying to be 'the hero' and all the while being devalued and emotionally abused by people with low self esteem. It took me five years to crack under that kind of pressure, and I don't recommend it.
Make women women again.
I hate these manipulative power games of women. They feel they are the prize.
Just walk away.
Walking away is a man's only power in 2022.
I sure as hell wouldn't want to come anywhere *near* touching that turd even with a 30-foot pole.
@@jkfd97 sad… but it’s true….
..yes ...walk away to the nearest pet shop and buy a Gerbil or two.
Run don't walk!
The moment she controlled him he's not a boyfriend. He's an accessory.
Bro! Run!
Men need to stop rewarding this sort of behaviour. If a woman ever did this to me, I'd laugh in her face and wish her a good one.
💯
"Hey everybody... look at me and how I treated this guy. Look at what he was prepared to do for me. I must have high sexual value if I can treat a guy like this and they're willing to put up with it. I deserve lots of validation, hence why I'm posting this sh*t on social media"
Having learned more recently that guilt was a common tool for manipulation, which is used by both men and women, it has definitely opened my eyes to who really has my best interest in mind. Now I just walk away when people try to do that, and let them know they can do whatever they wanted my help with by themselves.
The former generations were brought up with violence.
We were brought up with shaming.
@@davewrightthethinker I recognize the necessity of virtue and empathy. The difference I was attempting to describe is in understanding when you’re being manipulated or whether you’re assisting someone that actually needs empathy.
I think your assessment of radical feminism is spot on. Preemptively crush the opposition.
There is no such thing as "radical" feminism. There is only feminism.
@@jkfd97 Disagree. There are a thousand varieties of feminism. They fall into groups of the good, the bad and the ugly.
@@robertfindley921 Haha, are you a comedian? Fill me in on the "good" kind of feminism, please. I could use the laugh and I'd like to see the punchline.
There are multiple kinds of feminists, however please point out where is the good side of the movement? Not individuals, but a good 'sect', you know, something with actual power in the movement?
I don't think you'll find it. Modern feminism isn't about equality because women are already superior to men culturally speaking, and they only focus on women's issues. So all modern feminism is doing is trying to widen the gap.
All while hurting both men and women in the process.
@@robertfindley921 They are all communist sedition and subversion of biology and reality, you can call them what you want but evil is evil.
It's the Man's fault for being soo desperate making her feel valuable than she really is.
@@cypher5910 Woman don't deserve explanations.
Afterall logic doesn't work with women.
Just be the first to show her the way out.
^
Yes she is not worth
I’m a man and I’m not letting women boss me around and mistreat me. I’m also not getting married. Nope.
I hope her boyfriend sees this video and breaks it off with her. One of the crucial rules a lot of people need to know is not to date a bully. And not to tolerate one as well.
Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent.
Friedrich Nietzsch
You can NEVER beg a woman for anything as man.
Bull's eye👌
You should* NEVER beg a woman for anything as a* man.
you should never beg for anything from anyone.
@@joshy2joshy
It will not have any deeper meaning to beg your fellow man for something, but for a woman
..a deep-dark-pit.
Oh, you can-and many men do-but it never ends well
This happened to me in college (not the exact wait and sit scene). The girl I like was not that much interested in me, but I'm almost always with a group of beautiful and smart girls (and some smart guys sometimes). But when we got into relationship she gradually began demanding to stop getting close or communicate with all of them. She have many demands until I can feel that I no longer decide for myself without her consent. She have to approve everything and that includes going out of my house to be with my male best friend. My social circle shrink gradually but drastically. After two years she left me for another guy; my self esteem was sooo low that I am no longer comfortable talking with girls even they were my friends. So sad.
Seems to be they need patriarchy.
Say to yourself, "what did I do right and what did I do wrong?" Then pick yourself up and move on knowing that if a woman tries to manipulate you again you know how it is going to turn out. So you leave and ghost/block her. And never, never, never let a woman come between you and your social circle, hobbies and job.
so first. repair all the lost relationships. second if a women ever does this to you again you can get out asap because you know the signs. follow your gut not your little head. raise your standards and quit dating trash women.
That's so sad.
This is a very sad story. But you need to take a break if you are truly busy or occupy yourself with mind numbing activities such as gaming or binge watching. Take a walk or sit in a calm place alone and think about yourself, what you hate about your current state, who you were, what you always wanted to be and where you would like to be in the near future.
Allow yourself to feel hurt for wasting your time with that monster. Think about what part of those were signs you missed, and then forgive yourself for whatever reason you think it's your fault you were victimized like this.
Finally, identify your lessons and tell yourself that it is time to no longer let that woman wast anymore time of your life. I mean think about it, being sad and becoming shadows of ourselves, on account of an unworthy person is such a waste of our true value and potential. You dare to do new things and live up to who you want to be because you owe it to yourself and that monster is irrelevant to your existence.
Do women know how many times men have been ghosted, left waiting and overall ditched by women?
She’s a 5 ffs 🤦🏻♂️
"Woman are in a identity crisis nowadays" sums it up for many. To identify the problem you have to reflect first, an reflecting is for many people a big challenge - to see, that they are not perfect. Sadly with that kind of unsecurity, not even a relationship needed, this warps other people straight into a different crisis.
Great point on the identity crisis
Women don't reflect. They rely on men to teach them. And they of course have no strong father figures to teach them properly. There is no coming back. If you want the kind of society and relationship opportunities Alexander describes in the video you will have to move abroad. The West is dead and has been for some time. Let these puss men and spoiled women burn to the ground with it. You aren't missing out on anything by leaving.
Prior to my first relationship I had little experience with dealing with this sort of manipulation you describe. Then I dated this narcissist girl for a year or so who started out nice but then saw me as weak and dragged me through the mud. What's worse is that she left me twice but as her side pieces didn't stay, she would beg for me to take her back. The last time we broke up I was, like you said "a husk of myself".
It took me months of pain and thinking back about what she had done and why my actions and lack of a frame of decency and respect for myself fostered her disrespect. After that I have dated many women, never tolerating their antics and guess what? They either dump you for somebody weaker or come back with a new attitude. For one, I wouldn't care either way.
Thanks for the video, and for confirming with your experience what I found out the hard way.
It's better to stay single than date such women
Ladies, here's the minimum you need to be a 6 out of 10 on the dating scale:
1. A university degree
2. A real career in a legitimate firm
3. Own your own house
4. Own your own car
5. Low to zero debt plus savings
6. Good credit
7. Low body count below 5
8. Be healthy and fit
9. Ablity to have a LTR longer than 5 years
10. No kids
11. Not on meds
12. Not a pot head
13. No blue hair
14. Not covered in tats
15. No pieces of metal stuck in your face
For a 7 out of 10 and above?
1. Pretty face, nice body
2. Volunteer
3. Good heart
4. Strength of character
5. Kindness
Otherwise, good luck with the losers who chase you.
5? 😂😂 good luck son
This video explains the story of my ex relation. I was foolish enough to fall for this. I'm still broken in pieces about it. Thank you for your explanation, it helps me understand better and, hopefully, Heal.
You are stronger for it. Accept that you were a little bish back then and that experience kickstarted your journey into becoming a man. We only grow when we lose.
This is a great video.
It takes many men many decades to learn how to deal with this.
So young men - take note.
Pandering to women is not treating them well......
It is in womens mind.
@@firelordsusan555 Yet it leads to chaos and (self)destruction.
I'm so glad i found your channel when i did. I was at a moment where i was finally ready to grow into my femininity but i was confused as to what that would look like. I saw all the feminine traits being portrayed as weak and passive, but i didn't resonnate with the radical feminist views either. You're absolutely right, it's like we rejected our identity and so it became near impossible for us to have a solid basis for self esteem.
I love how you reference your previous videos, continuing in the spirit of making your content increasingly accessible. Thank you!
There is nothing stronger than a woman who goes against modern feminism and embraces her femininity. Think about it. Look what you're up against. It's really a beautiful thing. Most women now a days dress like men act like men and even walk like men. We don't want this. Then women wonder why they can't find relationships. They wind up being bitter and hating all men. Don't go down this path. Think for yourself, or wind up like them. hint: they end up working the rest of their lives alone, bitter, and with a minimum of 4 cats, with grown kids who have zero respect for them. Also don't think for a second as men we're stupid creatures. We can see your herd mentality. Most of us wind up thinking you're all the same bitter feminists, because it's such a common thing in society right now. So even when you embrace your femininity don't be surprised if men treat you like a modern woman. just be patient and let them see you for you.
All power to you. However, it's not helpful for generalizing your own natural traits to everyone else. I agree that alot of women are passive and should remain as they are, if that's what they choose. But not all women are passive by nature, some us have quite active personalities and are simply more capable by nature.
Acting like we are all passive is like saying all women run at the same speed. I am no runner, but there are women that run like beasts and that doesn't make them less female nor does it make them masculine, infact they usually cant beat regular male runners. To me, they are the female expressions of a certian trait.
As someone that grew up being called a tomboy and bullied for my personality, I struggled alot with the concept that some how, I was born wrong. However, as I grew and and my logical capacity grew, I realized I wasn't the problem, the bullies were because my existence made them feel inadequate.
It was not because I was boyish or masculine in anyway, it was because I was stronger and they expected to be able to dominate me. It was not because I lacked feminity or was not a girl, it was because compared to me, they felt weak and threatened. At either case, their fickle feelings had nothing to do with me. I did not actively try to do things beyond my capacity, I did things that were within my ability to do, and if God gave me my abilities, and made me a female, then my abilities are female and that's how I see it.
Now with feminism, as long as we have equality of opportunity and equal protections, then that's all that's needed. I do not agree with artificially encouraging girls and women to do things they are not naturally suited for, and then when we see they can't do it, we work to create an enabling environment. The result of such thing is bringing otherwise passive personalities into spaces they don't belong creating the current environment of toxic femininity where every little thing leads to complaining and constant nagging, and calls for more top-down control.
Women should be free to land where thier true capabilities are, there is no need for them to be represented equally in everything.
@@STak-ju7gx That sounds to me like a future leftover. Don't forget to set up a standing order for cat food and wine boxes.
@@ivbolt lol is that supposed to be threatening, be insulting, or mean anything? I have had a life that has required the best of my abilities for my survival and for me to be of service to my family. I already have a full life and all the love I need, even if so far I'm still young. If I died today. I'll have no regrets.
Btw, I hate cats. Chances are that, I'll end up being of service to many children in the community and will have my dream of adopting a bunch of kidsl.
I might not be valuable to men, as you seem to suggest and that's fine by me...not everyone is good for everything, but that doesn't make me any less female, as I am sure your leftover remak doesn't somehow increase your masculinity.
@@STak-ju7gx It's not a matter of my masculinity, it's a matter of women like you refusing to be real women, to be truly feminine, to be submissive. The ego of modern women is too big to have a healthy relationship with a man. Also since they're promiscuous in their youth they got a too high bodycount, there damaged beyond repair. Yeah, modern women simply refuse to do their job on this planet, namely making babies, and being with a one strong man for the rest of their life. The refuse to build families. And when they're 30 it's already over for them. Cats are incoming. It's sad, but it's the truth. What a tragedy.
A toxic woman used to extract resources from me - my time, my knowledge. I made myself care for her. After I told her I love her she called me an egoist and told me I'll get over the feeling. After a long letter I'd procured for her stating my feelings she told me I should forget about it and stay colleagues. Please, do not let yourself be exploited by toxic women, guys.
I am pressing x to doubt that she has a boyfriend
She's somewhat attractive physically. Lots of simps will date her.
@@chrisg5709 The nose ring takes what little attractiveness she has left and burns it in a bonfire. Number one red flag in a woman nowadays along with tattoos and coloured hair.
That was not about love. That was about ego validation. She didn’t feel unsafe or abandoned. She felt inconvenienced and angry.
Annnd she leaves him because she no longer respects him.
Love?
It was a first date?
Granted she was on an ego trip, but women do need to feel safe in order to trust a man.
It IS our job to earn trust from women.
@@mattanderson6672
She did not feel unsafe. She felt inconvenienced. Why are you trying to find an esoteric excuse for her behavior when there is such an obvious explanation? I promise you, if the guy was more wealthy or more attractive, then should would not need to feel safe. In fact, (back in my day) being LESS safe got you more $eggs. She is just bullying him because he inconvenienced her, she is vindictive, and he is spineless.
@@mouseutopiadystopia24601 Just because her behaviour is rotten, doesn't mean we as men should lover ourselves to the same standard.
We're losing track of what it means to be a "gentleman"
It's important we don't do that.
@@mattanderson6672
First, who said anything about lower ourselves? Second, I do not recommend men be chivalrous (aka gentlemanly, aka traditionally) towards non traditional vvomen.
Dr. David Buss has talked about partners belittling the other party in attempts to manipulate them into perceiving they have a lower marketplace value. Likely this is the case because they are aware of a value discrepancy. I interacted with a woman like this, and she definitely exhibited high trait narcissism (e.g., enjoyment in belittling, averse to criticism, jealousy). Dr. Ramani talks about this a lot, and narcissists do come from childhood trauma in many cases, and are afraid of abandonment. In the event they are a narcissist, however, it's likely better to gray rock them.
Dr. Ramani is FANTASTIC. She has a YT channel. Check her out folks.
@@adenbuford7396 HG Tudor is much better
Gray rock? I've never heard this term before. What does it mean, precisely?
@@jayviktor6130 you give them no emotional reaction whatsoever. Neither positive nor negative. Narcissists are like energy or emotional vampires, that feed off the positive or negative emotional output of others. By giving them no emotional output at all, neither positive nor negative, you give them no reason to be around you, and, as the theory goes, this will cause them to eventually leave, or leave you alone. As HG Tudor teaches, however, this strategy will only work in the short term, or in small doses. In reality, narcissists are often too effective at provoking emotional responses from you, so it will not work. Even if you're very good at suppressing your emotional reactions, you will likely still display some small sign of emotional reaction, and this will fuel the narcissist. As such, the only truly effective long term strategy is No Contact.
I had a aunt like that, as a child I didn't know the term narcissism, I called her a barracuda....
Sick of seeing these tik tok vids these women are so confident in there disgusting behaviors
Hands down one of your best videos, Alex! You're really getting to the bottom of it all in this.
Women like these are afraid of something. "Hurt him before he even takes a breath." I had a similar experience in past. She wanted me to worship her like a divine entity. So glad, it didn't work out!
PS, she's still looking...almost 3 years now😅
Yet another accurate well articulated video that nails it Alexander. It's sad, I've seen this behavior in evey woman I've had a relationship with. They refused to admit or correct their behavior, which doomed our connection.
It seems like women think men are so stupid that they won't notice such toxic behavior (and lack of value). My hypothesis is that this lack of awareness indicates a high body count with random men that don't call them out because they are just using them for sex, thus the women think the men don't notice but rather the men didn't call them out because they never intended to stick around.
Exactly, and they are destroyed because they can never respect an average unworthy guy when they slept with the handsome fuckboy
This was absolutely brilliant. Poison dripping is a primary technique. A good rubric is to see that persons interactions with other people - market feedback is always consistent. Avoid people who are constantly unlucky or unhappy.
*NOSE RING* 🛑 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Yup, I've noticed more of these thots are getting the cattle nose ring, it's such a dumb look.
I’ve found this to be true also! Nose ring =no ring 💍 🚩🚩🚩
I was the "Backdoor" man for several ball busters just like this girl. They end up despising the men and lose respect for them. Then tell me while.....well you know when.
*(not proud of any of that behavior anymore and I no longer live like that these days)*
13:28 An environment like that weeds out the bad guys as the standard is set high and noone tolerates "knuckleheads" and phonies or Con-men...
Accountability is high
So they cheat on them with you and they tell you that they have a boyfriend and you still stay with them? 🤔 were you apart of NTR where the girlfriend cheats and belittled the partner they cheated with to the willing new backup boyfriend who is willing to stay with the girl and gets turned on by the girlfriend belittling the other boyfriend?
@@celestialgatekeeper5136 No relationship other than sex. Hence the term "back doorman" ... I was nothing more than a booty call. Dude never knew.
The fact that she says “excuses” reminds me of my ex, who I’m well rid of.
Those were not excuses, they were legitimate “reasons”.
A woman who uses that kind of language is set on putting you down regardless of what is happening in your life.
This video is gospel. The parallel between your analysis on their girl's behavior in the video and hardcore feminists' behavior as a whole is impressive. I have never thought of that but it makes perfect sense
My ex wife never made me feel good about losing over 100 pounds in weight and I tried to encourage her to follow me in the weight loss, but even after I lost all that weight, I never felt good about myself. My self esteem was shot because she never complimented or made me feel like I was doing a good thing.
That validation needs to come from within. Congrats on losing that weight!
Did you tell her that it bothered you? Maybe she didn't know you had that expectation.
My most recent ex who practically begged me to marry her literally said to me “I’m gonna have to fatten you up so no other girl can have you.” Lmao what? Why don’t we both hit the gym everyday together and become that in-shape couple who motivates each other to be at our physical bests so we become even more physically attracted to each other?
She hated you for making her feel bad about herself
@@jyyyb that's another good possibility. Sad but true.
Those who let their partner to abuse them, get abused.. It is something similar as with bullying in schools. IMHO, everyone should have a period in their lives where they learn to live alone, get good at something, read books, including books about the opposite gender. Only after that get into relationship! If you think you have missed your ONLY chance, don't worry. It is same as with friends, you lose some, you get new ones. While you keep learning from your mistakes, you haven't missed anything!
Learn from the mistakes of other people, you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.
Your statement on radical feminism is so true 2 years ago I broke up with a verbally abusive feminist woman. I was ignorant and didn't see red flags from the beginning. My manliness was under attack every single day with her. She was using every single thing possible to belittle, de-masculate and humiliate me even in front of our friends. Leaving her was one of the most liberating thing I have never done as a man. I had compassion for her as she was afraid to lose me but that was the part of the manipulation. It is very sad the realities of this world. It is very sad! (so many women sabotaging their own happiness, shooting themselves to the foot).
Dating isn't even worth it anymore. The chick isn't even hot.
Alexander you hit the nail on the head but the problem is there’s no incentive for women to change on a large scale. This is why men are migrating to South America and South East Asia .
I was in a 7 year relationship. Got together at 16 and I broke it off at 23 because I finally realized that she didn't respect me. "Reducing a man" speaks to me. It was so discreet and sneaky that I went years not noticing that I was slowly being "reduced". When I left, everything changed. She made sure all the mutual friends we had thought I was the problem, and even turned my sister against me. Meanwhile I got promoted in my job, picked up a lot of hours, and started going on hikes during my free time. I thought it was behind me but it became clear that she was watching. It made her furious that I was improving myself and I know this through the grapevine due to her association with my sister. I feel like I've wasted years of my life along with thousands of dollars. Stay safe out there fellas, the threat is real.
My wife was controlling like her. I made sure I taught my two sons to dump controlling women quickly and unequivocally. They are worse than garbage.
Good work.
Me too.
And how can a woman respect a man she has manipulated into an insecure mess? The final product of her strategy will likely cause her to terminate the relationship. It's why any form of deception is not conducive to a healthy relationship
This is a trait that all sociopaths have. I need to shine a bright light on your flaws so you're too distracted where you can't see mine. If I see you getting better or more confident in life I need to bring you back down to zero where you are more manageable.
Before I even played the video I saw the first red flag: Nose ring
Moo! 🐂
Your assessment is spot on. Unfortunately, she's almost guaranteed to take this bahaviour of making demands of and humiliating her significant other in her relationship. Great video Alex.
PS: Maybe the title of the video can be renamed as it can come across as a little click-baity, as per your new approach of giving your videos informative titles.
Awesome stuff!
Have you seen any of his older videos where Alex poses a question in the "thumbnail" and then answers it straight-away in the video?
No preamble, No BS, just straight to the point/answer.
That is a focused younger man.
@@raularmas317 Your point is well taken, and I don't disagree. It's just that Alex did a video a few weeks back and explained that he didn't like the fact most of his video titles in the past seemed click-baity, and he went ahead to rename them all. I noticed this wasn't in the new format and just wanted to bring it to his attention is all. As you may have observed, the current title is more informative, which I believe is what he wanted to achieve.
@@nkonrhi I'm not sure he renamed his old videos, I haven't checked, but I think he didn't. What he said was that he made a text index for his videos with real titles, rather than the clickbaity ones, and that he dislikes having to give his videos these clickbait titles, but that it's necessary to get views due to how UA-cam's algorithms work. Were he to give accurate titles to his videos, both old and new, and new viewer numbers would drop significantly.
Trust Me I dont blame Mordern women.
Mordern Men dont respect themselves.we gave women To much power they dont deserved.We totally deseved at what we getting from women.
Men were made weak by their mothers and fathers. Modern men are raised like this and so are the women.
I used to raised my ex boyfriend self esteem. I noticed he didn't have the best self esteem so I decided to give him compliments all the time and tell him how much I appreciate him. I think it got to a point where he thought he was too much for me and said "I think Im a Chad now". He was like 5'7, bald, broke, live with his mom, had debt, a little bit chubby. He started saying mean things to me like i wasn't pretty enough or that i was fat (i did gain weight in quarantine cause i was severely depressed but never got to a point where i was fat) and said racist stuff against me. I leaved him. And now I'm scared to treat another man nice and kind.
Do compliment, but not constantly, and not if he doesn't deserve it. Compliments should always be honest.
the insecurity in that woman was gross
Hi Alexander, I am glad that you got passionate because I really enjoyed it. I am also glad that I accidentally found your channel and subscribed immediately, I don't usually do that. Your contents are fantastic and it's also nice to see that you are another fellow Australian 🙂. This shows that women in our country are behaving this way and they seriously need to change their mindset and attitude...
That same type of behavior will have her look for a "better man" and end up cheating
This video is so important for everybody to watch.
This is why I only date International Women, mostly Eastern European Women, Filipino, Asian... Plenty of good Cultures not ruined by toxic feminism.
You'll be surprised
Toxic feminism is almost everywhere unfortunately. But I agree that Western civilization is the worst
The reason asian women like white men is because they are taller on average compared to asian men. Thats why you always see asian women with white men
@@grizzlybear2702 Racepill of blackpill
International women are only as good as their circumstances. Meaning, anyone will be temporarily more humble/polite when in a vulnerable situation, mainly financial. They all want to be and would be Instagram influencers and deeply materialistic if given the chance. What separates them from behaving like the real housewives of Miami is finances not character. Don't think otherwise.
Only going off my own experiences, I agree with almost everything Alexander says except the part where he says we all want to be loved. I have been single for a very long time and the longer I stay single the more I want to stay single. The need for love has departed my vocabulary years ago. I stay socially connected but the need for love is far from my needs. This female will learn one day the person she is with will be pushed away in the same manner.
This kind of behavior unfortunately is "normal" here in the US.
Before this side of the internet existed a lot of guys would have thought of that as normal behaviour and not have question it much further. Now it's quite repulsive.
The same goes for sh*ttests, before it was mostly "it's just something they do, plus yay, I passed!", just because they all do it, it doesn't make it right.
Alexander an co. are doing a great job here in this small, mental renaissance.
Never beg for a date. Never. Not once.
4:46 "Compasson for them............from a distance!" haha you nailed it Alexander.
Actually I did the same thing. The girl I’m seeing once stood me up while I waited for at a club. She said, “she feel asleep.” BS- however she kept pushing to see again. I still make her come to my house before we go out instead of meeting her out.
Low self-esteem is no excuse for evil behaviour. They are old enough to know what they are doing. They need to examine their own conscience as much as finding love.
as a divorvced man I learned women think they are never wrong, my ex almost never apologized
You are so on point I had to stop 3 times already to process what u said man.
And I'm just 6 minutes in
+ thank you
If he was a top 0,1% tier men aka Chad, she'd be running high heels on multiple ghosted dates.
Don't believe me?? Watch two UA-cam videos titled:
[Response] "He BROKE Me" Woman Is HEARTBROKEN Because She Couldn't Lock Down Chad
[Response] "He BROKE Me" Woman Becomes An Alpha Widow After Chad Leaves Her Behind
Look at the tinder swindler, thats how far a woman can be pushed for a man she perceived to be high value.
I never got along with women like this! If they were rude and ill-mannered, I would simply move on. I'd rather chose to be alone than be with someone like that.
It's annoying how many videos on UA-cam have "advice" how to overcome the bad manners of such women. They call it "passing their tests" and so on. Ridiculous. Don't "overcome" their bad manners! Don't deal with such women, period.
Those hand gestures alone tell me ALL THAT I NEED TO KNOW. It took her tone of voice and things she said to seal the disgust. Men learn to read body language alone and save yourself time.
This is a perfect description of my mother who’s destroyed my family with her malignant narcissism. It’s taken me years to unravel the damage and see it for what it is, her deep insecurity and total lack of self worth. She belittled and degraded my father who’s a good man, charming, funny and hard working, a great provider. I’ve watched her use guilt as a weapon and manipulate every conversation and situation to her selfish benifit. She’s a curse on our family.
All of this leads to a life of misery and the perpetrator will never admit to needing help or therapy. It’s a life sentence unless you get away.
He should've just not came to the restaurant at all and still text her "my butt is in the chair".
It's always 3/10s that are the loudest
Just compensating is all they're doing. It makes me think about when fat girls will offer to have a threesome with their attractive girlfriend's attractive man and the man acts like he never even heard the offer. They will do whatever it takes to compete. 😄
I have ran across women like that during my days... I dropped them like a hot potato. I have no time for a girl with low self-esteem. Dealing with them is downright exhausting.
It feels like community service
@@rally_chronicles 😄
You articulated this concept masterfully. As a father of two sons I steadfastly model and preach about healthy relationships, but I know better than most that unfortunately the majority must live and learn.
Alexander’s explanation of the psychology behind reduction is something every man should know. I have watched over 100 of Alexander’s videos and this really is my favourite. Tragic because fear of abandonment or loss of control is driving this behaviour but it typically results in the very outcome it is intended to prevent. I divorced my ex wife after finally understanding how deep rooted and incurable this kind of reducing can be.
This is the most *spot on* video you have ever made Alexander. Well done.
All women should watch this video.
Her boyfriend is weak and loving it. Never feel sorry for "whipped" guys! They are exactly were they want be, no matter how much they may complain. For some guys, it's their thing to be controlled by a woman, maybe it something to do with their childhoods and their mothers, who knows? The problem for those guys is domineering women lose attraction to the men they dominate. That doesn't necessarily mean they leave the men, although many do, they could end up with a relationship/marriage with a weird dynamic: Her: having lack of respect and contempt for him. Him: subordinate and wallowing in it. SMH
“Man sees in the world what he holds in his heart”.
I believe the reason many of these women are afraid the man will leave her if he improves/is confident, is because she is the one that would actually do that and is projecting.
It’s the thief that’s always most concerned they will be robbed.
Again a great analyse, i can totaly agree.....
Please think about the concept af an inner/autonome selfesteem and on the otherside an external selfesteem that is heavily influenced by external sorces like getting attention and external validation or feeling controll over some one..etc...The inner selfesteem is a stable one, that is way more reliable...and the external one that is often very volatile and needs permanent rebuild....
Your explanation here explains so much truth it really open up my eyes very clearly of what really has happened to me in the past... I was unaware that I was under her manipulative control.
It's crazy.
When she tried to belittle me, she cheated on me because suddenly after all her success in controlling me I'm not seen attractive anymore I'm losing all my masculinity... And so she goes on to another guy for a prey... It's just endless cycle. Scary.
The Glove and the Lions
BY LEIGH HUNT
King Francis was a hearty king, and loved a royal sport,
And one day as his lions fought, sat looking on the court;
The nobles filled the benches, and the ladies in their pride,
And 'mongst them sat the Count de Lorge, with one for whom he sighed:
And truly 'twas a gallant thing to see that crowning show,
Valour and love, and a king above, and the royal beasts below.
Ramped and roared the lions, with horrid laughing jaws;
They bit, they glared, gave blows like beams, a wind went with their paws;
With wallowing might and stifled roar they rolled on one another;
Till all the pit with sand and mane was in a thunderous smother;
The bloody foam above the bars came whisking through the air;
Said Francis then, "Faith, gentlemen, we're better here than there."
De Lorge's love o'erheard the King, a beauteous lively dame
With smiling lips and sharp bright eyes, which always seemed the same;
She thought, the Count my lover is brave as brave can be;
He surely would do wondrous things to show his love of me;
King, ladies, lovers, all look on; the occasion is divine;
I'll drop my glove, to prove his love; great glory will be mine.
She dropped her glove, to prove his love, then looked at him and smiled;
He bowed, and in a moment leaped among the lions wild:
The leap was quick, return was quick, he has regained his place,
Then threw the glove, but not with love, right in the lady's face.
"By God!" said Francis, "rightly done!" and he rose from where he sat:
"No love," quoth he, "but vanity, sets love a task like that."
Beautiful poem.
I dated a woman who was hurt and insecure! And she made my life miserable! I was ruining myself, wanting to help her!
Absolutely amazing and spot on explanation. Respect.
I would've done the same thing the guy did. But I would've left her to pay for everything lmao.
Alexander, I've seen this behaviour in women many times. Ultimately this is going to get back to them, no jokes, guarantee.
To be fair, if someone stood me up twice, I would want some confirmation before a third date.
Lol. If someone cancelled on a first date a couple of times, I wouldn't even give them a third shot.
Three times is where a pattern has emerged. So I think "three strikes and you're out" is a saying for a reason.
And the finger pointing - She's still angry now even though she's dating him!
I mean, this specific aspect about women is just something that is.
Nothing more, nothing less. If I cancel a first date with a woman more than once....
Yeah, I expect her to not give me a 3rd chance. Doesn't matter if I have a legit reason.
Women have a ton of options out there when they're young. It's simply unrealistic to expect a woman to give a guy several chances to take her out. She'll likely just move on.
Right. In most cases, it is easy to understand if something comes up once and it is an unexpected emergency or whatever, but it is a huge red flag if it keeps happening because it says that someone either can't keep their commitments or going on a date with you is low on their priority list. I wouldn't expect a guy to keep asking either if I cancelled on him twice either. I get why her feelings might have been hurt, but her reaction to that should have been a huge red flag to him. Yikes! I am just surprised he showed up.
Controlling men give them an estimation and validation of their sexual market value. When they control a man, they move on to another man to control him. This continues until she encounters an asshole who treats her like an inferior. And then she falls in love with him and tries to get his validation. The guys dumps her. She then goes back to nice guys to settle down with no passion. That’s the summary of modern day dating.
Many times in their lives men have to deal with low quality women because otherwise they won't get any sex at all. High quality women are too rare birds to satisfy the dating market. There's no exit from this situuation.
It's because she is a revenger. No compassion, just ego
Thank you for what you do
Dude .... there are NO "High Quality Women"! Anyway, the more power you give to a woman to make you happy, the more power you give her to make you miserable.
Your Patreon topics are always so captivating and exciting.
Manipulation, machiavellianism and low impulse control- the dark triad personality is the default for them and it takes a very high quality one to overcome her nature.
No, it takes a society that keeps women in check. You know, the thing we had for thousands of years until 50 years ago.
@@jkfd97 ; I agree but do you honestly think we're ever going back to that now, thanks to birth control or work-place and financial redistribution changes? It used to be Biology itself that kept them in check but now they can ride the carousel whenever they want for however long they want with the consequences only coming to them in their mid-thirties.
@@deathwish_bigboss Nope, it's never coming back. 0% chance of that happening. And if you ever want to see some kind of semblance of such a culture in your lifetime, you're going to have to move abroad. The West is just a floating carcass of a civilization at this point.
Bro I would never BEG SOME BIMBO FOR A DATE!!! FIRST MISTAKE
Exactly. True love should come from both ways. Not just some chick who sucks in. That's a low quality woman.
Your channel should have millions of subs. Thanks Alexander 👍
Making rules for "Betas", breaking rules for "Alphas".
I've been rewatching some of your videos on female behavior and I have a question (and probably a video idea): How to be in touch with your feelings and still be masculine?
Thought of this because I remembered that a while ago you mentioned that we should not ignore our natural basic feelings (anger being one of them, that we should learn to healthily let go instead of bottle up in the inside, same could be said about mourning a loss or even letting yourself cry when you need too), so the topic would be how to let yourself live your emotions while still being masculine (both for yourself on the inside, and appearance wise on the outside)
Alexander says stuff that I haven't heard before awesome video !! I can tell he is speaking the truth and adds value to everyone who listens. Thank you !