Hi Alexander, big fan of your content for years. Could you explain us why women sometimes wear suggestive clothing even though they have a partner? Women commonly say they do it for themselves, men say they do it to attract other men. Would love to know the psychology of it all.
You mentioned the ego boost, and yes... Validation is a woman's foot fetish. She pretends that it doesn't matter so much to her so she can profit and play victim in these situations.
@@skyluxtmthefixer9080 because Every woman wants attention, some extreme than others. They can't even say they're doing it for themselves Because I will argue society's norms is the reason to why you're doing it for yourself. And guess what society dictates as atttactive/sexy/desired.. it's wild, how powerful woman play the victim card at any chance they can get
No, Alexander! I won't accept a woman with a dirty past even she's sincerely regreted as well as she won't accept me if I don't provide her with a brilliant future full of money. If other guys used her body to have pleasure and threw it away, why would I treat it like it was special?
Years of sleeping around isn't a mistake. It's a lifestyle. It's a repeated, prolonged set of identical choices under similar circumstances. No woman spends years hooking up and can call it a "mistake". Sorry. People don't change. They just get desperate as walls close in and doors are slammed. Let someone else take that infidelity risk and help her try to whitewash her past.
Yup. We humans are creatures of habit. While some people can quit cold turkey a habit like smoking, the majority of people will find it difficult to quit if they have been smoking for years. If a fee male has been riding the CC for years it will be hard for her to quit because it's a habit she's been doing for almost a decade. Not to mention she settled for guys that just wanted to hang out because they probably were really attractive. She already has her type and only those type of guys can get her aroused. She's been used and abused by the Chad's and her ability to bond with any guy is destroyed.
@@subjer0 The minute you have an argument with her (or maybe not) and she coincidently (or maybe not) meets the handsome guy who used to really ring her bell, she'll offer to head back to his place. The only thing that changes a woman's behavior is the onset of middle age (fading looks), the pounding of her biological clock, or screaming kids. And sometimes not even those.
"Years of sleeping around isn't a mistake. It's a lifestyle" It is a bad choice. But since all of their girlfriends are doing it, it must be OK. Women have instincts to socialize and pressure men to conform to female optimizations, which in this case is, try to let the women do what they want while getting the men to fund it
Look up "privilege distress." This is real. I often see misogynistic men and fundies acting exactly this way. They view the loss of a tiny bit of unwarranted power as actual oppression and persecution. The entire MRA movement falls nearly into this category. It's almost funny... but I always remember there's a lot of pain there, even if the cause is largely caused by toxic masculine culture.
@@astarryeyedgirl It's so funny that you talk about male privilege but avoid female privilege. The entire feminist movement falls into this category too, you know.
@@astarryeyedgirl Your comment falls neatly into the "women's feelings matter but men's feelings don't" category. You even have to invent a new phrase - "privilege distress" - to make your indifference to men's experience seem legitimate.
"When You’re Accustomed to Privilege, Equality Feels Like Oppression" I first saw this phrase on a banner displayed at a feminist gathering and thought at first it was a counter-demonstration. Feminists are so delusional that they literally cannot see how perfectly this describes themselves.
More accurately, no man wants a woman who would have to say (honestly or dishonestly) "I don't do that anymore", every man wants a woman who can honestly say "I never did that."
Be sure my friend, all ho tell the providers "I never did that"... If she is more than 23 yo and tell you "I never did that" in bed, be sure she is promiscuous and sees you as a beta provider.
Not a woman who just says "I never did that", but from who's actions and speech also align. A recent personal experience: I'm an Atheist, and although I like knowing my partner understands science and critical thinking, I got involved in an LDR with a Muslim girl and every little step was clearly new to her in ways that just can't be faked. The distance, among a few factors, didn't work out (ah, plus as it turned out... her country suddenly became unstable some months after). But I truly got to see the difference in my own approach and commitment: I wouldn't foot a 75$ bill on a girl who had slept with 20+ guys, but I'd have gladly spent 15 000$ to marry that girl. Wish her the best, and her future husband.
This is the biggest issue that I have with these new modern day “empowered women,” they feel that they’re entitled to the benefits of having a traditional man without being a traditional woman themselves
@@patrickbateman3146 You’re 100% accurate. There has been women in my life that I thought were “good girls” that were ready to sleep with me almost immediately and they always say that they usually don’t do that sort of thing 🙄
Women are selective, but not that selective. There may have been at least 6-7 men. They get asked out by dozens of men, both in person and online. Very few will get there with her, but they will. And because of hypergamy they may feel like an even superior man will come. It it so easy for them, at least until they hit their 35s. It's known that most men of all ages "fight" for women between 18 and 35. It's not just about beauty, but also about fertility, even though of course there are also men who don't want to become a parent.
Sometimes it feels like I'm taking crazy pills to hear men in these communities talk like this. When I was single, men never talked like this at all. Of course, many held this opinion all the same. But if I suspected a man was like this, I didn't cry. Why? He wasn't for me. It was that simple. He wasn't an option in the first place, so I didn't feel like I'd lost anything. It's part of that power struggle mentality I talked about in another comment earlier, this fixation these men's communities have on policing women's sexuality. A virgin woman simply feels like less of an opponent. She's easier to control. To dominate. But virginity as a focus can be finessed, as you've learned. Women who want to win that struggle learn to lie about their sexual status. This puts them closer to even footing with you. They want your resources more than they want a genuine mature relationship. But I could say the same of you. In your paradigm, men and women battle for control of resources: time, money, sex, etc. The one who dies with the most toys (sex, leisure time, money) wins. God, it sounds just exhausting. No wonder men talk about going their own way. If I thought my relationship future looked like that, I'd do the same thing.
@@astarryeyedgirl > policing women's sexuality Refusing to date is policing your sexuality? You really think you are entitled to dating a man regardless of his preference? You can sleep around all you want, it is your choice. And it is my choice to not have a relationship with you.
Gut feelings are real when it comes to damaged women, I had this once over a year ago, I ignored it and I'm still trying to heal from it. She has BPD. Yep .
Basically what she's saying is "I could never control myself around all those other guys, but I CAN control myself around YOU." Just the kinda thing you want to hear as a guy, huh? Who wants to serve as proof that she is actually capable of living a moral life? Isn't that what priests are for?
Whatever Beta Bux she locks down better get used to starfish sex. She won't be doing all those wild things that she used to do with Chad and Tyrone because she ReSpEcTs HeRsElF now
about woman and serial k.... ua-cam.com/video/MSq54f2JT_U/v-deo.html They will say: we don't care for the man's past. When you see the video, you will see it is partially true and understand why.
@@sebswede9005 When those serial killers are caged and those women can safely be close without getting mauled. Yes, when they're in court or in prison serial killers, especially the most notorious ones almost always have a whole slew of serial killer groupies, but don't assume those women would be as eager if they were to meet the same man out in the wild and while on the prowl....
the irony is that when she finally gets a good guy who's unaware of her past or somehow just decides to ignore it, she will find him boring and cheat on him modern woman cannot receive real love and affection, only validation
I've seen this happen time and time again. Once people get past a certain threshold of sexual partners, they're completely unable to form long term bonds/relationships.
Obviously. She wants financial security without having to work. She wants a beta bux. The basically insured alimony is attractive to her. And she can swindle him into a sexless marriage where he has no recourse, so for her, it's a great deal.
@@kylewilliams6091 exactly. If I quit my job and stop supporting her financially, I'm suddenly a piece of crap, but if she stops support a man sexually/emotionally its simply her right and choice that should be celebrated. NOPE. society is screwed
There is always a beta who will do what she wants. Her self esteem is low. She wants Chad to do these things, which he won't, and will cheat on him with Chad. This exact same thing happened to me in college. I was dating this girl for three months no sex, yes I know. Found out from her roommates bf that he had a threesome with my gf and his gf. The humiliating effect crushed me. I found out that everything I had been taught how to treat women was wrong. I thanked the other guy, better to know.
Her self esteem is so low? She's not an angel Lol bro your self esteem is low. You have a long way to go, extremely good looking men usually explain to all women that they don't want anything serious, they " just want box". The victim here is you my guy.
damn.... this is so real. I can't understand why. some man are born to be treated like that ... I can't find an explanation.. or you're born in the 20% of man women want or you'll have hard time with odds of being crushed that way. sorry man. I suffered similar stuff. single now
I learned the brutal truth about the way women behave my first semester at Texas state university. I was always kind to the ladies but it was never enough to get a girlfriend or just getting laid. During that summer I trained hard, got muscular but I also worked on getting rid of my "nice guy" personality traits. By the second semester I'd become a fuckboi. The message is nice guys do finish last.
@@paulcoleman5512 "Nice guys finish last" is so 2010. In 2022, nice guys are not even allowed in the race. You won't even start, forget about finishing.
@@edheldude That is exactly what it is. She got her validation easily when she was young and promiscuous and now that she cant get that anymore she wants the next level guy down to pay big time for it to get those validation feels again. PASS.
There are four steps to redemption 1. You must understand that you have done something wrong 2. You must openly acknowledge your wrongdoing 3. You must atone for your wrongful behaviour through penance 4. You must never repeat the wrongful behaviour. It’s entirely up to you.
This is very true. I've seen people accept steps 1, and 2, but when it come to step 3, i've noted that many have no capacity to express remorse for their actions, and are too prideful to repent/apologize sincerely. Then they end up repeating past behavior.
Yeah, about step two. You know no woman is going to be accountable and/or take responsibility for her actions. If anything, she'll claim she's a victim of some kind.
She’ll hide her past from the boyfriend and pretend to be a 1 or 2 body count woman, then 5 or 10 years into the relationship the man will meet some of her college friends/acquaintances and he’ll learn the truth. That, or he’ll find a pron tape of her getting a train run on her. He’ll likely choose to divorce her, and she’ll say he’s horrible for not accepting her past, even though she lied about it and it’s HER fault for the divorce. Shift blame, never take responsibility
Can you blame him? He’ll probably only get the bare minimum of sex out of her. Never be told words of true affection. When he does find out all the things she did for other guys that she berated him for asking. A dude will feel cheated.
This is facts. Most women have been ran through by age 21 these days and expect to be treated like they're special. If you gave it up so much and so freely, you're not that special.
"I want to put myself out there." Oh, she's most def been "putting out". But at the ripe old age of 25, she's slowly starting to realize that her milk isn't as fresh anymore and isn't getting the shoppers she used to get. She's begun her "Epiphany Stage" sooner than most modern womyn- but it's still too little, too late.
Just another Slogged out Carousel rider who has destroyed her ability to stay in a long term committed relationship would like a prince charming and settle down at least long enough to pick up his house and collect Alimony for the foreseeable future.
Likely she's hoping to find a guy who knows nothing about her past, and in attempts to appear as a diamond in the rough, she'll claim that the men in her past possessed some negative trait and that she was a victim of this. Moreover, It is also worth noting that this tactic, in stating that she is done with the bad boys/hooking up, is ultimately an admission of how her attraction to men functions, and to state otherwise is disingenuous. Essentially this is foreshadowing regarding what the man may expect in the future.
Something interesting about the "access to sex" versus "access to commitment" economics is that it can work out badly - for exactly the same reasons - for men who price commitment too low.
The men who don't appreciate themselves, and offer their transactional commodity (attention and resources) for nothing are called simps. It's like the male equivalent to a garden tool.
At the end of the day, even if she finds a guy that gives her what she wants in comparison to the men who came before him, she won't be satisfied. It always boils down to, he's boring or to nice.
That comes with emotional immaturity that most of women today are stuck with. They are not taught to be responsible and accountable. Even if they make mistakes (and they really do a lot of times) it's always someone else's fault
There are 2 types of nice: placating to a woman and agreeing with whatever she says in exchange for some action, and the nice 2 is when a guy is an upstanding individual, well-grounded and scrupulous. Women despise number 1 and find number 2 boring. Chad wins at every turn.
I worked with a woman a few years back who's actions confused the HELL out of me. She was chubby, didnt have the best grooming, tended to smell like sour milk... yet she was always getting in trouble for wearing inappropriate clothing and was consonantly complaining abut the tinder smashes that wouldnt call her back. Finally figured it out when she showed me a pic of her in college. At 20 she was super cute. Her current reality at 30 had NOT changed her expectations whatsoever. She blamed men for not still treating her like that 20 year old she used to be.
In my experience its even worse. When they're drop dead gorgeous at 18, they'll let drug addicts plow them. I know a girl who couldnt get enough of these guys. 15 years later she's a PhD in theoretical physics. Not so gorgeous anymore but demands through the roof. Its nuts. A womans demands are indirectly proportional to her value. The lower her value the higher her demands
Hey, it gets hard to keep clean when someone gains a ton of weight! Bending, twisting, and stretching all get harder. So bacteria grows in the damp folds between the fat rolls, which is where the sour smell comes from. Next time you see a really big gal, look at her arms and do some quick mental arithmetic about just how easy it is for her to clean herself after toileting. Once a normal height woman gets past about 320lbs, say goodbye to wiping. Their T-Rex arms can't reach down that far anymore. Guess what that starts to smell like? And yeah, even so their demands are just staggeringly high.
Its sad even teenagers will understand that it is a raw deal for men to pay for dates and spoil a promiscuous woman, but some educated woman with all her titles will argue that men should just forget a woman's past and accept her as she is what a joke.
crazy ain't it? Even little 3rd graders subconsciously and intuitively understand when a hoe is no good, they laugh at their teachers who are mentally unwell, "damaged" and lame all the time.
"some educated woman with all her titles will argue that men should just forget a woman's past and accept her as she is what a joke." Yeah. Then I realized they're just looking out for themselves and other women when they say that. For them to say that, they must have a ton of skeletons they don't want people to know about.
I'm glad that the collective understanding of women has improved so much over the last few years. I wish these resources were available to me 15 years ago when I was completely bluepilled about women and thought being endlessly nice and giving to them was the right way to go. My dad did not give me good advice regarding women when I was younger. He'd just say, "They just want someone to love them."
The problem is, that lifestyle is already engrained into her at this point. She can pretend to be a good woman now, but chances are, at some point in her future, she's going to long for that fast life again. She knows what she's truly attracted to. She'll never be content with a good guy in a healthy relationship. It's not how she's wired.
Men are mistrustful of the “formerly” promiscuous woman in the same way that women are mistrustful of the “nice guy” because it is almost always not genuine. All of the negative connotations that Alexander discussed in this video are correct and given how difficult it can be to make a relationship work and last a lifetime under normal circumstances, why the hell would we make that even more difficult by entering into one with someone with a dubious past? That is basically the equivalent to being at the casino making bets and one of the bets is far less likely to pay off for you whilst also offering the same reward as all the others if you were lucky enough to win. Who in their right mind would put their money on the table for that? No one.
@@ZiFrenZie Women can absolutely be mistrustful of ‘formerly promiscuous’ men, they just don’t tend to be as one of the significant factors that women base their attraction to a man on is whether or not he is desired by other women. But if you knowingly get into a relationship with a f**k boy and think he is going to remain loyal to you then you are just naive.
She can "hang out" with me and "whatever", but if she thinks she'll get more from me than a coffee for high quality throat she's more delusional than the looks.
I have seen several times when a woman was chasing a guy who is unfortunate for me to say, genetically blessed in a way that I am not. She offered sex and even allowed herself to get pregnant in hopes that he would settle down with her for a happy marriage. He did not. And she is still waiting for him!!! Now when you see that, you will have some questions such as: "Why am I supposed to chase girls, when I can see right here, a woman chasing a man?". That kind of experience, my fellow men, makes you question the system that forces men to chase women. Also it changed how you see how much society has evolved.
@@thenarrator1984 so...you're not gonna name a disadvantage? I've been in that situation and there's none, so the whole "it's not all roses" pity talk isn't very credible.
@@theaileenwilson that's what she did, not what she said. She said to me that she wants a polyamory relationship with 4-5 men but insteaf she pursued ('orchestrated' was the word she chose) him, an abusive actual mysoginist, while she was still taking care of a child from previous relationship. Then she got pregnant.
My biggest fear in entering this market is being lied to. So far my best defence was to not participate. I've watched so many male friends get burnt from my spectator seat.
That's going to happen. You can't fear that just ask the right questions, don't give off judgement vibes before they tell you judge only after they tell you and don't over invest. It'll hurt if you spent 1500 in 5 dates only to learn her body count is 50 plus and got 4 trains ran on her.
@@holyrandomness5654 A woman can lie about you and get you in jail, look at the #metoo circus. A man can lie about a woman and nothing will happen. There is a double standard in benefit of women that is why you need to speak out against all of this as much as you can.
Anytime a woman says "I haven't really dated and mostly just hungout with guys and whatever" means that she's been completely ran through. I'm willing to bet she's got a body count in the high double digits.
All the hook ups, one night stands, 3 ways, or whatever kind of perversions she’s engaged in are just like an elicit drug. The more you do, the more it takes to get the same high. Her dopamine receptors are burned out, she is unable to pair bond and will likely destroy any relationships in her future. The world is drowning in women like this.
The question arises... what to do about it? It doesn't seem like we can do much other than just giving it time. Time is just. It is also extremely cruel for people who forget it's always keeping count... As looks fade away the attention wanes at the same rate. Women are extremely short-sighted in this sense, that's why many post-wall women with dead end jobs end up homeless, in debt, and struggling to live. They had it all but a sustainable relationship, now they're economically threatened. They think there's always gonna be a line of men waiting for them. We'll start seeing more and more homeless shelters for women only and a lot more females out on the streets.
"Older women have been recognised as the fastest-growing group of homeless people in Australia in recent years. Yet until now we have not known exactly how many older women are at risk of homelessness. Our research, released today, finds about 240,000 women aged 55 or older and another 165,000 women aged 45-54 are at risk of homelessness."
How real is the ''alpha widowing'' affect on a woman's ability to be happy in her future relationships? Alpha widow is when she gets emotionally imprinted by a man to such an extent it ruins her ability to be happy in future relationships as those guys can't provide her the emotional intensity that previous man did. Two main points to determine if your relationship will last is if she has the ability to pair bond , and are you her best option (compared to her past). Its not just body count but alpha count. If she had few partners but one of them was her best (alpha) and you come along, she will resent you for settling with you and eventually leave or if she does stay its a conscious choice for security but she will not be as satisfied as she could have been if she didn't have a alpha ex to compare you too. If a woman has a high body count but your her best she's ever experienced she could be happy, but the high body count could set a precedence for seeking novelty or neutering her biochemical response to you as its desensitised by many bodies. How are we supposed to know if we are her best? As women can lie and be deceptive. If we haven't grown up with a girl we don't know her past and what really happened in her life / how she was in her relationships etc. Even if you are her best, if she doesn't have the ability to bond because her reward circuitry has been biochemically dampened by sleeping around a lot or through substance abuse / high dopamine lifestyle then she'll get bored quickly, she's conditioned her self to get addicted to infatuation or the honeymoon period and dopamine from novelty. Or, FOMO kicks in due to the internet/big cities and the illusion of access that theres something else better out there always tickling her hypergamy. Ironically, the more this knowledge is out there it is good for men to be aware of but the flip side is if women come to know of it, the more they can be deceptive and know what to hide from men and how to behave accordingly to secure us.
Not to mention, she could start out a virgin and still "feel" like she is or has or will miss out. FOMO... THen nukes the relationship or marriage and children's lives.
@@runreilly An alpha widow believes she has a higher value because high value men have slept with her a couple of times. Regular guys trying to date and commit to her is now below her "standards" and is promptly ignored. Then she hits the wall and she just can understand why noone want to commit to her. And anohter alpha widow cat lady is borne.
@@runreilly You're with a woman, but when you're on top of her, she is thinking of the 6'8 jacked badass with a shredded core that made her feel amazing. She felt the whole world was open to her in his arms, and you, you just aren't him. No matter what you do. You got a job, a gut, a grey hair, and you cannot afford to take her where he could have.
She went to college. Because of that her body count is likely 15+ (being generous). And now she expects to be taken seriously? Too late for that chick, more than minimal effort is reserved for good women. Not impulsive, non-virgin harlots.
Your overly nice to her....beinggenerous give her a body count lower than 100 ....she never had a "steady" BF.....that means she has causual lots of fun....
Exactly... people always think they have to interrogate woman about their past... it's not necessarily, she's already giving you all yhe information you need in the way that she's showing up.
Womanese translation: "I'm getting old and losing my looks so now I want someone to commit to me" Stay tuned for the upcoming "where are all the good men?"
@@kitesupreme8907 because if she is normal, the first love is the highest and go very deep... And if she love only the best body, she cant be happy with your body, if your body is not good... Then, she like maybe a lot inch and hardcore, and you havent or cant do this... To many risk!!
@@kitesupreme8907 it is a chemical reaction in the brain that is analogous to a drug addiction and the diminishing return over time from overstimulation and burnout of the receptors that produce the endorphin boost adrenalin rush and feeling of euphoria. In other words the more you take the more you will need for an ever diminishing feeling of euphoria.
"I would encourage women in this position to step outside of themselves, to stop being so self-absorbed and actually consider what this experience must be like for the man." Oh Alexander. You beautiful cinnamon bun; too good, too pure for this world.
@@nobillismccaw7450 I don't disagree, but the fact he can actually say something like the above in genuine sincerity... I don't know whether it's simple naivete or he's willfully embracing an optimism so outrageous it borders on delusion, but I love him for it either way.
They'll frequently count only real relationships, while ignoring the many hookups they have had through out the years. When women say they are single, lots of time what they mean, is that they are sleeping around without an actual relationship.
I had a 23 year old girl from Tinder with borderline. She was the only girl ever honest about her body count. She said she was 23 with 50 bodies. Now I am scared to think she might have lied and it was actually way higher than 50. But she came across honest unlike all the other girls claiming they only had 3 boyfriends. It´s funny because the girl with `3 boyfriends´ had the same disconnected behaviour as the Borderliner with 50 bodies. One of them was lying.
@@rogerlemans636 They were both lying. The thing with BPD women is that they legitimately don't know the truth is, and even if they do, they will tell you modified version of it based on how they feel at the time - their "reality" is dictated by emotion. They seen sincere because all the emotion that comes with what they say makes it look like they're showing vulnerability, which causes you to trust them and be more vulnerable yourself. It's a trap. Inevitably, this will become a tactic that they use to try and destroy you. The only thing anyone should do when they meet a borderline is run and never look back. I'm speaking from personal experience.
So she acted like a 304 till she’s 25 Now she’s going to turn on some magical switch and change there’s no logic there life does not work that way there’s always consequences to every action.
Truth to the social aspect. I was my wifes first and none of our friends ever voiced or gave off negative vibes when we finally got married. My boys never saw red flags and gave me props for finding a good one, while her friends basically saw it as some romantic disney soul mates thing. I had a friend that was getting serious with a girl that had a reputation and all of us tried to warn him. Too bad he didnt listen 😔
First! Women will never understand these things. But I think you're projecting some Alexander.. men will absolutely take her she won't hit the wall.for.a.while.and men will cater to her There's ten simps.for every self respecting man.
Agreed. I've spoken to girls that had a casual hook one week before and still claim they don't do that sort of thing. That's how easily they can distance themselves from that sort of thing. She'll just tell guys she hasn't done it since she was 25 (because that guy she was with a couple of months ago doesn't count) and they'll believe her too.
Before I would ever consider reentering the dating market, I would need these bare minimum requirements: 1. The entire legal structure needs to be changed. Equal prison times for the same crimes. The perp of domestic abuse is the one arrested, not the male. A father needs guaranteed rights to spend time with his children except if he is convinced of battery or abuse. 2. Women need to start speaking out on our behalf when it is appropriate. 3. No more censorship of antifeminist content. 4. Some men care, some men don’t: I have the right to know her history. Not in great detail. But I need the broad strokes. How many men has she dated? Was she a party animal? Did she “travel,” and where? What are her politics, and what has she said openly about men in the past? Did she date significantly older men? If you don’t care, fine. But a lot of us do care.
A.G. it does not matter one bit if she genuinely feels bad about her past or doesn't. It is still there. If i go buy a car and the person selling that car says, well i put a lot of miles on it, and its got a lot of damage, but i feel bad about that, why should i care ? It is still just as damaged whether she feels bad about it or not. Nice guys get leftovers and used cars.
"...hung out with guys, and, like...whatever..." Pay attention to the "whatever", because that's womanese for "every nasty act in the book, and also some stuff too nasty to include in the book"
@@antonsimmons8519 He'll even do chores for the privilege of bland s3x once a month. It's so sad how guys have been fooled into thinking this is normal.
Regarding the women change, I don't agree. Once they lived the hook up game, they will be bored by the regular relationship and will keep this desire hidden fron you, being false and unsincer, taking the chance anytime they have, becouse they know the only payment they have to offer to her boyfriend is to give him sex. Not authenticity. .
She has already been “spoiled” for a lifetime by many guys lol. Spoiled, used, contaminated? Men stop paying for Chad’s leftovers that he got for free.
All I hear is I WANT, I WANT, I WANT. Has anyone ever considered that someone might not WANT YOU. This goes for both men and women, but I hear it from women a lot.
Women just don’t get it. There is NO clean slate. If a women chooses to sleep around. Her choice. And when a man of value decides not to date or pursue a relationship with a her because of her past choices. His choice. Sorry ladies but you have to adapt to the needs of men in the dating market too. Men this is where you have a lot of power. Trust your gut. Hold the women you date to a high standard. It’s pretty black and white. Have strong boundaries. If they can’t meet them. Wipe them. Don’t invest. It works. Trust me. Men decide the relationship status.
Louis Vuitton advertises their bags for $5 each. You wait in line and watch 500 people pay $5 and get their bag, but when you get to the counter they try to charge you $5000. Would you buy that bag knowing you are paying 1000x the price and everyone and their brother now has a Louis Vuitton bag?
If it's a $10,000 bag, yes! But she's not a $10,000 bag. She's a $1.40 bag in Filene's Basement. Who thinks she's a $5000 bag. Who cares what someone else pays for your $10,000 bag if you get it for $5000? the problem is wahmen who think their $1.49 "pouch" is worth $500,000 of my pension!
@@notmyname3883 Please relax, this was an analogy. The initial cost was arbitrary, the point was that it was devalued by 1000x overnight. Pretty basic principles of Supply & Demand would show the value of the product would be nowhere near its original value. I chose an LV bag as it is a product sought-after by many women. Please do not pay full price for a product that has been devalued into the ground, you may be willing to pay $5000, but trust me that bag isn't worth $10k anymore. Take care 🙂
Just wanted to say thank you for your input! Even though you make content for men, I as a woman (don't get confused by the account name) get really inspired by it. You show me a completely different view and make me reflect my behavior and aspire something more valuable. Keep up the good work!
Even if these type of women find someone, they will still be thinking in the back of the minds that they can do better because nothing was ever good enough for them and it became a habit. Also, a choice isn’t really a mistake, especially with casual hookups and using others for attention and validation just to build their egos. I’m a Christian, I made a mistake of trusting a girl who once used me for attention and validation years ago because we got on in the moment and everything felt right. Little did I know that she was using me, but I’ve become wiser ever since and only date Christian women because I have no time for causal hookups.
Are you American? Is it hard to find that type of women? Here in France it's extremely rare, and if you happen to find one, she's already married way before the age of 30.
of course. She will go for Mr. Niceguy now. Heal her wounds, suck him dry like a Vampire and back to the streets she goes until some Bad Boy breaks her heart again and repeat this cicle till there is no Niceguy waiting for her anymore. People can change but she is clearly not one of them. I mean she said it herself. Her motives for a relationship are to get spoiled and take, not a single word about what she can give.
@@Damian_Black7 I find going to church helps having extra standards and boundaries. After all, we only want one person to share double happiness with. I am 36 on Friday and have always been a Christian all my life, but the last 6 years I’ve taken my faith really seriously and feel more stronger than ever. My focus is on my ambition, purpose and vision and a relationship, marriage and children is just a bonus. Most this generation seem to have lost the understanding about love and I find people who go sleeping around are the most dependant, they also lack discipline and self respect worth.
It is hilarious how they like tell on themselves for like the whole world to see. Her insta must be a hoot. Also wanted to comment on the last points Alexander made. I look at a woman with a promiscuous past the same way I look at an alcoholic. I always wonder when the alcoholic is going to fall off the wagon. With the promiscuous woman I always wonder when they are going to fall onto some strange D.
I started liking girls at 4 yo. I grinded to get in shape in high school (dropped to 170 from 250), 6’1” with broad shoulders and big quads/hams from squads/deadlifts, developed excellent fashion sense, networked my way to a corporate job by 20, and this was all before “motivational speakers”/“life coaches” were on every corner. I’m 27 now, and have only ever had 1 date and am still a virgin (never had someone reciprocate mutual feelings towards me, and yes, I have high social intelligence, so that’s not the issue). Note: had one cheerleader I crushed on hard from HS reach out once she saw I was established, and I found out she had blown up after graduating. Basically gave concise responses to make sure she understood the tone of the present. The crazy thing is how much you learn about the dynamics of relationships, when you can never enter one. Essentially, there’s literal to no chance I’m interested in cultivating damaged goods for sacrificing time and youth for something less than top shelf. Advice: Aesthetics typically peak at 24, which means intelligent females should ideally be looking to lock something down by 23, sooner rather than later if they understand this.
I'm sorry bud but there is something else. It's incredible the amount of lack of knowledge about communication you will have if you don't have relationships... Or move in... Or have sex. Go get laid.. find someone worth. it and get laid because not having women will make you totally dysfunctional sexually. Also. Women's peak is more like 16-18 not 24. 23-24 is when they start going down hard. But almost all 16 year olds are appealing.
@@thenarrator1984 I completely agree with that adjusted age, but for the sake of ‘aggravated persons’ put the 24 number, since it was likely to raise disagreement. I have no issues with communicating and/or emotional management (wasn’t motivated to correct my grammatical issues in the comment further down for once in my commenting life lol), my career is largely dependent on comprehending psychosocial behavior from a macro perspective. I don’t tolerate drama though, and am always accountable for personal error, since in my field it doesn’t matter if you were right if it means accepting monetary losses in the immediate term (essentially, I thrive in volatile environments professionally, but won’t permit its involvement in my personal life if it’s within my ability to manage it).
@@mesmith2526 but you don't understand my point. You.can think you understand all you want. You don't. Observing and being are two vastly different things and business isn't relationships women are vastly different in both. And sex.... I have a friend who didn't have sex.. he's 36 now and he has no concept of what sex is. It's disturbing. Trust me.. get laid. Find. A girl to have regularly. Get a connection with her.. don't fall for her just.... Get along
@@mesmith2526 I'm retired (43) and I worked in a field where I handled crisis. And if I handled well it made money if I failed it lost. I basically was a portable crisis handler who handled people. So I get what you mean. But this isn't relationship knowledge.
@@thenarrator1984 trust me, it’s not a personal choice of celibacy, and I do understand what you’re saying dude. I don’t have issues communicating with women, and should have mentioned that I am quick witted with humor. The shutdowns during the past 2 years have also factored in to limiting the amount of available candidates that aren’t already preoccupied by other suitors (quite a few chicks have let themselves go during this period as well in my current geographic region, so enticing candidates are fewer from that likewise).
all what he says is SPOT ON! its 100% correct as a man i can confirm this. men are not stupid, we know how people are and how women are. we feel the cold hard truth early on
Exactly. Mr. Grace could have stated and proven his thesis statement in about two minutes. He should then have devoted the rest of his clip to showing us HOW to recognize female flakes. Because the few example scenarios he mentions - running into exes who then "give you the eye" so that you *know* what a flake your gf used to be - are simply too unrealistic to count on them.
Saying "like" every third word. Up-speak (seemingly turning every statement into a question, as if she's not certain in her conviction about what she just said). This 25yo woman has an unserious mind.
The look on Alex's face for the first bit, while he is watching, is what contempt looks like. Anyone ever looks at you like that, they really, really, super don't like you. Even so far as to say hate, or an enemy.
I don't think it's quite that serious. It requires a lot of time and resentment to reach contempt. He starts out just listening normally, and then transitions to mildly disgusted and cringe yet slightly entertained when she gets to telling the same ol' 304 story.
@@gabeo9474 From 0:25 to 0:30, he transforms from observation to contempt. Double lip curl coming from the unconscious on adjustment of his posture. Big sigh as he does it. That's contempt alright.
@@GDKLockout You think so? I personally interpret it as like an amused yet uneasy disgust, but I also think of contempt as the worst possible form of hating someone, so we might be using significantly different scales. There is also an element of looking down on the person like they are insignificant. My ex showed me the look of contempt far too often.
@@gabeo9474 ah, I think I see why are both saying the same thing but seem to disagree. Alex is possibly displaying disgust or contempt, but for the ideas, not necessarily the person. Because his reviewing a vid. I was.saying that if someone looks at YOU like that, to receive it as contempt. But yes you are right, precisely what we each mean by these words is probably not exactly the same.
Not only is it "not easy"; but you are talking about what Schopenhauer would call the "root of the will"--you are talking about the stuff that drives/motivates/organizes our society, but unconsciously--b/c we dare not speak of it. I mean, really, when you think about it, we are each one of us "eugenicists" when it comes to our romantic mates: we choose them b/c on some level we think them superior as mates...no way around this basic and unspeakable truth
Let's be real here, she'll find somebody within 2 weeks. She's a good looking woman - despite being shallow inside. Life is unfair folks, but as always, we must suck it up and not fall for these tricksters 🙃
@@Feber2001 she's above average and yeah I already said she's probably shallow lol but I don't think she'd have problems. Women get a ton of attention and opportunities even when they're average
Women used to put me in the FRIEND ZONE, but as I got older and my life has change for the better I started putting them into the PHANTOM ZONE...there's a difference.
AG "she needs to step out of the situation and be less self absorbed...." That's so funny and optimistic on AG's part Self accountability is cryptonite for most women like her (most in general actually)
here's my point: all she has to say is that she has not done it. how can anyone verify? It's not like she's going to present her relationship history as if in an interview. all she needs to do is deny it and act cute like she doesn't know what a hook up is.
I am a woman, and it is sad that women are just now realizing that the so called "oppression" was actually respect and being cherished for our part in the team of two. This is many years in the making, I hope we survive.
Thanks Jodi! I am still rooting for you guys, I know some women that have not behaved not that way. It's just most guys don't know where to find them...... Unfortunately, hollow shells like this girl are obviously non sincere and just making a response to a perceived change in environment.
This video is the best video/article in the internet explaining why once a woman decides to be promiscuous, there is no turning back from that decision and all the judgement and negative consequences that come with it.
they used to wake up at 30 but now they wake up at 25 because they've seen all the miserable 30 year old. don't fall for it people because 25 is still too late, it's the beginning of the end in terms of attractiveness and they know it! until they start acting right at 20, i wouldn't waste my time with any of them
This is painful to listen to. She's so inarticulate, she sounds like a 12-year-old. And once again we see a woman deciding to start charging a lot more for used and depreciated goods. What could possibly go wrong with her strategy?
Being promiscuous means that you have no problems with sleeping around with no bonds or responsibility which is in itself no problem but then turning around and saying "thats in the past and judging me is only showing that you are insecure" isn't changing the fact that you are at least "capable" of sleeping with a lot of men without hesitation or second thought. Which means for us Men that you are likely to do it again or to divorce me to do it again because you are capable of it and have done it before. It's like a thief is saying that he is trustworthy because he was a thief in the past and judging him because of his past shows how insecure you are about trusting people!. So instead of trying to shame us into "accepting" promiscuity just don't fool around and keep your body for that one special person you want as husband
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Hi Alexander, big fan of your content for years. Could you explain us why women sometimes wear suggestive clothing even though they have a partner? Women commonly say they do it for themselves, men say they do it to attract other men. Would love to know the psychology of it all.
You mentioned the ego boost, and yes... Validation is a woman's foot fetish. She pretends that it doesn't matter so much to her so she can profit and play victim in these situations.
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@@skyluxtmthefixer9080 because Every woman wants attention, some extreme than others.
They can't even say they're doing it for themselves
Because I will argue society's norms is the reason to why you're doing it for yourself. And guess what society dictates as atttactive/sexy/desired..
it's wild, how powerful woman play the victim card at any chance they can get
No, Alexander! I won't accept a woman with a dirty past even she's sincerely regreted as well as she won't accept me if I don't provide her with a brilliant future full of money. If other guys used her body to have pleasure and threw it away, why would I treat it like it was special?
Years of sleeping around isn't a mistake. It's a lifestyle. It's a repeated, prolonged set of identical choices under similar circumstances. No woman spends years hooking up and can call it a "mistake". Sorry. People don't change. They just get desperate as walls close in and doors are slammed. Let someone else take that infidelity risk and help her try to whitewash her past.
Yup. We humans are creatures of habit. While some people can quit cold turkey a habit like smoking, the majority of people will find it difficult to quit if they have been smoking for years.
If a fee male has been riding the CC for years it will be hard for her to quit because it's a habit she's been doing for almost a decade. Not to mention she settled for guys that just wanted to hang out because they probably were really attractive. She already has her type and only those type of guys can get her aroused. She's been used and abused by the Chad's and her ability to bond with any guy is destroyed.
@@subjer0 The minute you have an argument with her (or maybe not) and she coincidently (or maybe not) meets the handsome guy who used to really ring her bell, she'll offer to head back to his place. The only thing that changes a woman's behavior is the onset of middle age (fading looks), the pounding of her biological clock, or screaming kids. And sometimes not even those.
@@NerdlySquared Yep. It's about as hard to explain as a long criminal record.
Exactly. So don't follow Alex's advice at the end. It's bad advice. Be black and white. Breed those women and their tendencies out of the gene pool.
"Years of sleeping around isn't a mistake. It's a lifestyle"
It is a bad choice. But since all of their girlfriends are doing it, it must be OK. Women have instincts to socialize and pressure men to conform to female optimizations, which in this case is, try to let the women do what they want while getting the men to fund it
When You’re Accustomed to Privilege, Equality Feels Like Oppression
This is solid.
Look up "privilege distress." This is real. I often see misogynistic men and fundies acting exactly this way. They view the loss of a tiny bit of unwarranted power as actual oppression and persecution. The entire MRA movement falls nearly into this category. It's almost funny... but I always remember there's a lot of pain there, even if the cause is largely caused by toxic masculine culture.
@@astarryeyedgirl It's so funny that you talk about male privilege but avoid female privilege. The entire feminist movement falls into this category too, you know.
@@astarryeyedgirl Your comment falls neatly into the "women's feelings matter but men's feelings don't" category. You even have to invent a new phrase - "privilege distress" - to make your indifference to men's experience seem legitimate.
"When You’re Accustomed to Privilege, Equality Feels Like Oppression" I first saw this phrase on a banner displayed at a feminist gathering and thought at first it was a counter-demonstration. Feminists are so delusional that they literally cannot see how perfectly this describes themselves.
She's probably seen more action in a month than I have in decades.
could actually be true
More than many men in a life time
In a week. They're doing multiple "dates" in a day several times a week.
You’d give her a seeing to though wouldn’t you
@@evernew23 Maybe if I had very effective ear plugs or noise cancelling headphones with me.
No man wants a woman who says "I don't do that anymore", every man wants a woman who says "I never did that".
More accurately, no man wants a woman who would have to say (honestly or dishonestly) "I don't do that anymore", every man wants a woman who can honestly say "I never did that."
Be sure my friend, all ho tell the providers "I never did that"...
If she is more than 23 yo and tell you "I never did that" in bed, be sure she is promiscuous and sees you as a beta provider.
Not a woman who just says "I never did that", but from who's actions and speech also align.
A recent personal experience: I'm an Atheist, and although I like knowing my partner understands science and critical thinking, I got involved in an LDR with a Muslim girl and every little step was clearly new to her in ways that just can't be faked. The distance, among a few factors, didn't work out (ah, plus as it turned out... her country suddenly became unstable some months after). But I truly got to see the difference in my own approach and commitment: I wouldn't foot a 75$ bill on a girl who had slept with 20+ guys, but I'd have gladly spent 15 000$ to marry that girl.
Wish her the best, and her future husband.
Shes not even pretty. That nose could be used as spare landing strip at an airport.
And no woman, wants a man who does that either.
This is the biggest issue that I have with these new modern day “empowered women,” they feel that they’re entitled to the benefits of having a traditional man without being a traditional woman themselves
Yes, the Modern "Selectively Traditional" Woman. The delusion is strong in them.
Same, is so common these days, damn
@@patrickbateman3146 You’re 100% accurate. There has been women in my life that I thought were “good girls” that were ready to sleep with me almost immediately and they always say that they usually don’t do that sort of thing 🙄
@@facelessandnameless yep
And its a common theme that they blame it on men for not accepting their past, including offspring from prior relationships.
We are told to “man up”.
That's exactly how I feel as a man. If I find out a girl I'm dating was promiscous when she was younger, I lose interest immediately.
Women know this, that's why they cry about it so much
Women are selective, but not that selective. There may have been at least 6-7 men. They get asked out by dozens of men, both in person and online. Very few will get there with her, but they will. And because of hypergamy they may feel like an even superior man will come. It it so easy for them, at least until they hit their 35s. It's known that most men of all ages "fight" for women between 18 and 35. It's not just about beauty, but also about fertility, even though of course there are also men who don't want to become a parent.
Sometimes it feels like I'm taking crazy pills to hear men in these communities talk like this. When I was single, men never talked like this at all. Of course, many held this opinion all the same. But if I suspected a man was like this, I didn't cry. Why? He wasn't for me. It was that simple. He wasn't an option in the first place, so I didn't feel like I'd lost anything.
It's part of that power struggle mentality I talked about in another comment earlier, this fixation these men's communities have on policing women's sexuality. A virgin woman simply feels like less of an opponent. She's easier to control. To dominate.
But virginity as a focus can be finessed, as you've learned. Women who want to win that struggle learn to lie about their sexual status. This puts them closer to even footing with you. They want your resources more than they want a genuine mature relationship.
But I could say the same of you.
In your paradigm, men and women battle for control of resources: time, money, sex, etc. The one who dies with the most toys (sex, leisure time, money) wins.
God, it sounds just exhausting. No wonder men talk about going their own way. If I thought my relationship future looked like that, I'd do the same thing.
@@astarryeyedgirl Are you a woman?.
@@astarryeyedgirl > policing women's sexuality
Refusing to date is policing your sexuality? You really think you are entitled to dating a man regardless of his preference?
You can sleep around all you want, it is your choice. And it is my choice to not have a relationship with you.
Guys, don’t ignore your gut feelings. Your intuition is always right.
Gut feelings are real when it comes to damaged women, I had this once over a year ago, I ignored it and I'm still trying to heal from it. She has BPD. Yep .
Absolutely. This is so true
@@mikea1534 l see you've met my ex.😒😒
I think men are not told this growing up. It's very powerful though.
This is the key. Trust yourself.
Basically what she's saying is "I could never control myself around all those other guys, but I CAN control myself around YOU." Just the kinda thing you want to hear as a guy, huh? Who wants to serve as proof that she is actually capable of living a moral life? Isn't that what priests are for?
Whatever Beta Bux she locks down better get used to starfish sex. She won't be doing all those wild things that she used to do with Chad and Tyrone because she ReSpEcTs HeRsElF now
Yes, no more fun sleeping around. Now I have to get serious, no fun for you.
Excellent comment.
@@dubbcee1000 She will shut down the sex entirely for Beta boy and go back to banging Chad. Why not, society incentivises women to treat men horribly.
I thought priests were for enjoyment of males only 😂 (Yes I'm being slightly sarcastic also dead pan real too)
"I want, I want, I want, I want, I want, I want"
If she talks like this: Run away fast!
I didn't see or meet any girl which is not like that. Not even 1.
She deliberately lowers her value, then raises the price: Classic female logic.
@@jameseverett4976 racks up tons of Milanese then wants someone to pay over price for her when others have had her for far less.
fr
you'll be running from all of them then
Her: I'm not a garden tool anymore.
Him: I'm not a serial killer anymore.
Yes, your past defines you.
about woman and serial k.... ua-cam.com/video/MSq54f2JT_U/v-deo.html
They will say: we don't care for the man's past. When you see the video, you will see it is partially true and understand why.
But women loves Serial Killers, though.
@@sebswede9005 When those serial killers are caged and those women can safely be close without getting mauled. Yes, when they're in court or in prison serial killers, especially the most notorious ones almost always have a whole slew of serial killer groupies, but don't assume those women would be as eager if they were to meet the same man out in the wild and while on the prowl....
Both were slaying bodies lol
@@sebswede9005 yeah lots of girls have the hots for Bundy nowadays.
the irony is that when she finally gets a good guy who's unaware of her past or somehow just decides to ignore it, she will find him boring and cheat on him
modern woman cannot receive real love and affection, only validation
Even if they do find " real Love " they won't know what to do with it. Their past has conditioned them into thinking a certain way.
I've seen this happen time and time again. Once people get past a certain threshold of sexual partners, they're completely unable to form long term bonds/relationships.
Obviously. She wants financial security without having to work.
She wants a beta bux. The basically insured alimony is attractive to her.
And she can swindle him into a sexless marriage where he has no recourse, so for her, it's a great deal.
@@paccawacca4069 in the uk a sexless marriage is grounds for divorce as she is neglecting her marital duties .
@@kylewilliams6091 exactly. If I quit my job and stop supporting her financially, I'm suddenly a piece of crap, but if she stops support a man sexually/emotionally its simply her right and choice that should be celebrated. NOPE. society is screwed
There is always a beta who will do what she wants. Her self esteem is low. She wants Chad to do these things, which he won't, and will cheat on him with Chad. This exact same thing happened to me in college. I was dating this girl for three months no sex, yes I know. Found out from her roommates bf that he had a threesome with my gf and his gf. The humiliating effect crushed me. I found out that everything I had been taught how to treat women was wrong. I thanked the other guy, better to know.
That’s a brutal man.
Her self esteem is so low?
She's not an angel
Lol bro your self esteem is low. You have a long way to go, extremely good looking men usually explain to all women that they don't want anything serious,
they " just want box". The victim here is you my guy.
damn.... this is so real. I can't understand why. some man are born to be treated like that ... I can't find an explanation.. or you're born in the 20% of man women want or you'll have hard time with odds of being crushed that way. sorry man. I suffered similar stuff. single now
I learned the brutal truth about the way women behave my first semester at Texas state university. I was always kind to the ladies but it was never enough to get a girlfriend or just getting laid. During that summer I trained hard, got muscular but I also worked on getting rid of my "nice guy" personality traits. By the second semester I'd become a fuckboi. The message is nice guys do finish last.
@@paulcoleman5512 "Nice guys finish last" is so 2010.
In 2022, nice guys are not even allowed in the race. You won't even start, forget about finishing.
She is missing the entire point of dating. It's finding someone to enter into a relationship, not to use them for attention, cash and prizes
You are correct. Women look at their dates as an ATM until someone they like better comes along.
On that note, f them, figuratively lol
You misunderstand. It's all about her and her needs. Imagine a proud pampered child with no humility.
She never learned what that mean, she never had a BF...She has no clue....She will learn it the hard way......
@@edheldude
That is exactly what it is. She got her validation easily when she was young and promiscuous and now that she cant get that anymore she wants the next level guy down to pay big time for it to get those validation feels again. PASS.
@@berardfedele3486 maybe not as an ATM exactly but as a Show sourrounding HER. It`s all about HER!
There are four steps to redemption
1. You must understand that you have done something wrong
2. You must openly acknowledge your wrongdoing
3. You must atone for your wrongful behaviour through penance
4. You must never repeat the wrongful behaviour.
It’s entirely up to you.
This is very true. I've seen people accept steps 1, and 2, but when it come to step 3, i've noted that many have no capacity to express remorse for their actions, and are too prideful to repent/apologize sincerely. Then they end up repeating past behavior.
Yeah, about step two. You know no woman is going to be accountable and/or take responsibility for her actions. If anything, she'll claim she's a victim of some kind.
She’ll hide her past from the boyfriend and pretend to be a 1 or 2 body count woman, then 5 or 10 years into the relationship the man will meet some of her college friends/acquaintances and he’ll learn the truth. That, or he’ll find a pron tape of her getting a train run on her. He’ll likely choose to divorce her, and she’ll say he’s horrible for not accepting her past, even though she lied about it and it’s HER fault for the divorce. Shift blame, never take responsibility
Can you blame him? He’ll probably only get the bare minimum of sex out of her. Never be told words of true affection. When he does find out all the things she did for other guys that she berated him for asking. A dude will feel cheated.
Most 25 year-old American women now have body counts of 50-100
Never get married. No woman today is worthy of it.
I’ve heard that exact story happening to guys at least 25 times already😹
The other thing is a woman can not really hide her 'past', it will slip out one way or another.
This is facts. Most women have been ran through by age 21 these days and expect to be treated like they're special. If you gave it up so much and so freely, you're not that special.
Right right
I like how she said she's only had casual hookups but got butt hurt about it and wanted more effort lmao
Casual hookup is still a hookup... I wonder what's the difference 🤣🤣🤣
@@kitesupreme8907 you're keenly paying attention.
Are you from DDP group in Facebook? I saw a person of same name there.
emphasis on "butt hurt"
@@lowabstractionlevel3910 💀💀
That butt should be hurting fr fr
From so many spanks, from so many different guys 😭🤣
"I want to put myself out there."
Oh, she's most def been "putting out".
But at the ripe old age of 25, she's slowly starting to realize that her milk isn't as fresh anymore and isn't getting the shoppers she used to get. She's begun her "Epiphany Stage" sooner than most modern womyn- but it's still too little, too late.
I can tell by the look in her eye that she has 20+ bodies at least
Just another Slogged out Carousel rider who has destroyed her ability to stay in a long term committed relationship would like a prince charming and settle down at least long enough to pick up his house and collect Alimony for the foreseeable future.
Likely she's hoping to find a guy who knows nothing about her past, and in attempts to appear as a diamond in the rough, she'll claim that the men in her past possessed some negative trait and that she was a victim of this. Moreover, It is also worth noting that this tactic, in stating that she is done with the bad boys/hooking up, is ultimately an admission of how her attraction to men functions, and to state otherwise is disingenuous. Essentially this is foreshadowing regarding what the man may expect in the future.
That's the advantage of having big cities. No accountability
Lmao i been through this, damage women are no joke
"SHALL" expect in the future***
fact
That will be hard now that her video is a meme… She belongs to the streets!
Something interesting about the "access to sex" versus "access to commitment" economics is that it can work out badly - for exactly the same reasons - for men who price commitment too low.
Women who price access to sex too low are called ..........
Guys who price access to commitment too low are called simps.
The men who don't appreciate themselves, and offer their transactional commodity (attention and resources) for nothing are called simps. It's like the male equivalent to a garden tool.
@@edheldude or as the late great Patrice O Neal calls em… a time heaux
At the end of the day, even if she finds a guy that gives her what she wants in comparison to the men who came before him, she won't be satisfied. It always boils down to, he's boring or to nice.
That comes with emotional immaturity that most of women today are stuck with. They are not taught to be responsible and accountable. Even if they make mistakes (and they really do a lot of times) it's always someone else's fault
There are 2 types of nice: placating to a woman and agreeing with whatever she says in exchange for some action, and the nice 2 is when a guy is an upstanding individual, well-grounded and scrupulous. Women despise number 1 and find number 2 boring. Chad wins at every turn.
@@ryantucker2166 Small correction. #2 is often called a 'good' guy. 'Nice' implies he wants something from a woman.
@@ryantucker2166 sadly its facts and im type 2 and got slapped by my ex after almost 4 years so imagine
@@tigrex3622 aye, Monster Hunter fan.
I worked with a woman a few years back who's actions confused the HELL out of me. She was chubby, didnt have the best grooming, tended to smell like sour milk... yet she was always getting in trouble for wearing inappropriate clothing and was consonantly complaining abut the tinder smashes that wouldnt call her back.
Finally figured it out when she showed me a pic of her in college. At 20 she was super cute. Her current reality at 30 had NOT changed her expectations whatsoever. She blamed men for not still treating her like that 20 year old she used to be.
Did she ever blame "the patriarchy" when she would get in trouble for wearing inappropriate clothing?
Disgusting. Smelled sour and to think someone could get wood and actually--just ugh! 🤢
In my experience its even worse. When they're drop dead gorgeous at 18, they'll let drug addicts plow them. I know a girl who couldnt get enough of these guys. 15 years later she's a PhD in theoretical physics. Not so gorgeous anymore but demands through the roof. Its nuts. A womans demands are indirectly proportional to her value. The lower her value the higher her demands
Hey, it gets hard to keep clean when someone gains a ton of weight! Bending, twisting, and stretching all get harder. So bacteria grows in the damp folds between the fat rolls, which is where the sour smell comes from.
Next time you see a really big gal, look at her arms and do some quick mental arithmetic about just how easy it is for her to clean herself after toileting. Once a normal height woman gets past about 320lbs, say goodbye to wiping. Their T-Rex arms can't reach down that far anymore. Guess what that starts to smell like?
And yeah, even so their demands are just staggeringly high.
@@astarryeyedgirl Thanks for ruining lunch.
Its sad even teenagers will understand that it is a raw deal for men to pay for dates and spoil a promiscuous woman, but some educated woman with all her titles will argue that men should just forget a woman's past and accept her as she is what a joke.
crazy ain't it?
Even little 3rd graders subconsciously and intuitively understand when a hoe is no good, they laugh at their teachers who are mentally unwell, "damaged" and lame all the time.
"some educated woman with all her titles will argue that men should just forget a woman's past and accept her as she is what a joke."
Yeah. Then I realized they're just looking out for themselves and other women when they say that. For them to say that, they must have a ton of skeletons they don't want people to know about.
The "educated women" who say that crap are sophists.
I'm glad that the collective understanding of women has improved so much over the last few years. I wish these resources were available to me 15 years ago when I was completely bluepilled about women and thought being endlessly nice and giving to them was the right way to go. My dad did not give me good advice regarding women when I was younger. He'd just say, "They just want someone to love them."
if you want to go deeper check out Alpha Male Strategies on youtube. that dude can read women like a book
@@NiteRacer be wary of online "alpha male gurus" tho. 9 out of 10 times they're grifters and genuinely bad.
@@NiteRacer Dude, those advices from "alpha males" are garbage. In most cases they´re just betas with a lot of money.
Well, that’s not wrong advice. They want to feel special.
@@sigmaway5717 you haven't even seen the channel but you're going to state an opinion on it lol ok
The problem is, that lifestyle is already engrained into her at this point. She can pretend to be a good woman now, but chances are, at some point in her future, she's going to long for that fast life again. She knows what she's truly attracted to. She'll never be content with a good guy in a healthy relationship. It's not how she's wired.
Sadly she won't be aware of this for sure until she ruins some Beta Bux's life due to her bubbling resentment for him not being Chad
Men are mistrustful of the “formerly” promiscuous woman in the same way that women are mistrustful of the “nice guy” because it is almost always not genuine. All of the negative connotations that Alexander discussed in this video are correct and given how difficult it can be to make a relationship work and last a lifetime under normal circumstances, why the hell would we make that even more difficult by entering into one with someone with a dubious past? That is basically the equivalent to being at the casino making bets and one of the bets is far less likely to pay off for you whilst also offering the same reward as all the others if you were lucky enough to win. Who in their right mind would put their money on the table for that? No one.
well said
And women can't be mistrustful of "formerly" promiscuous men? And then men wonder why women cheat on them.
@@ZiFrenZie Women can absolutely be mistrustful of ‘formerly promiscuous’ men, they just don’t tend to be as one of the significant factors that women base their attraction to a man on is whether or not he is desired by other women. But if you knowingly get into a relationship with a f**k boy and think he is going to remain loyal to you then you are just naive.
In other words: "I am done with the male chicken carousel, so I DESERVE to be treated like it never happened."
cucumber carousel
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@@soydansogukcesme470 rooster Rollercoaster
She can "hang out" with me and "whatever", but if she thinks she'll get more from me than a coffee for high quality throat she's more delusional than the looks.
I concur
I have seen several times when a woman was chasing a guy who is unfortunate for me to say, genetically blessed in a way that I am not. She offered sex and even allowed herself to get pregnant in hopes that he would settle down with her for a happy marriage. He did not. And she is still waiting for him!!!
Now when you see that, you will have some questions such as: "Why am I supposed to chase girls, when I can see right here, a woman chasing a man?". That kind of experience, my fellow men, makes you question the system that forces men to chase women. Also it changed how you see how much society has evolved.
I've been chased by so many.
Life is funny.
The simps and betas think the chads have it perfect.
It has advantages but it's not all roses.
@@thenarrator1984 so...you're not gonna name a disadvantage? I've been in that situation and there's none, so the whole "it's not all roses" pity talk isn't very credible.
Society has devolved
@@theaileenwilson that's what she did, not what she said.
She said to me that she wants a polyamory relationship with 4-5 men but insteaf she pursued ('orchestrated' was the word she chose) him, an abusive actual mysoginist, while she was still taking care of a child from previous relationship. Then she got pregnant.
Facts.
I always get a chuckle when a woman says " I’ve decided ". It’s comical.
I love how it's usually during a mental breakdown, lmfaoooo
Good one!
My biggest fear in entering this market is being lied to. So far my best defence was to not participate. I've watched so many male friends get burnt from my spectator seat.
You have the best seat. Don't lose it...
They lie, as soon as you accept that, it's funny
That's going to happen. You can't fear that just ask the right questions, don't give off judgement vibes before they tell you judge only after they tell you and don't over invest. It'll hurt if you spent 1500 in 5 dates only to learn her body count is 50 plus and got 4 trains ran on her.
@@ulquiorra3104 thank you 4th espada
@@ramu992 I try.
Never believe what a woman says, trust her actions.
Never believe what anyone say, trust their actions.
@ How?
@@holyrandomness5654 A woman can lie about you and get you in jail, look at the #metoo circus.
A man can lie about a woman and nothing will happen.
There is a double standard in benefit of women that is why you need to speak out against all of this as much as you can.
@@holyrandomness5654 a man doesn't lie about his body count
@@coprilettodelnapoli5466 sure...
"I haven't put myself out there enough" Lol, I think you have.
So how much has she put out
😂😂😂
@@RacingS2000 Miles and miles of meat
Anytime a woman says "I haven't really dated and mostly just hungout with guys and whatever" means that she's been completely ran through. I'm willing to bet she's got a body count in the high double digits.
Wants cake. And wants to eat it.
You can't have it all ladies. There is always a price to pay somewhere
All the hook ups, one night stands, 3 ways, or whatever kind of perversions she’s engaged in are just like an elicit drug. The more you do, the more it takes to get the same high. Her dopamine receptors are burned out, she is unable to pair bond and will likely destroy any relationships in her future. The world is drowning in women like this.
The question arises... what to do about it? It doesn't seem like we can do much other than just giving it time. Time is just. It is also extremely cruel for people who forget it's always keeping count... As looks fade away the attention wanes at the same rate. Women are extremely short-sighted in this sense, that's why many post-wall women with dead end jobs end up homeless, in debt, and struggling to live. They had it all but a sustainable relationship, now they're economically threatened. They think there's always gonna be a line of men waiting for them. We'll start seeing more and more homeless shelters for women only and a lot more females out on the streets.
"Older women have been recognised as the fastest-growing group of homeless people in Australia in recent years. Yet until now we have not known exactly how many older women are at risk of homelessness. Our research, released today, finds about 240,000 women aged 55 or older and another 165,000 women aged 45-54 are at risk of homelessness."
Only the West
How real is the ''alpha widowing'' affect on a woman's ability to be happy in her future relationships? Alpha widow is when she gets emotionally imprinted by a man to such an extent it ruins her ability to be happy in future relationships as those guys can't provide her the emotional intensity that previous man did. Two main points to determine if your relationship will last is if she has the ability to pair bond , and are you her best option (compared to her past).
Its not just body count but alpha count. If she had few partners but one of them was her best (alpha) and you come along, she will resent you for settling with you and eventually leave or if she does stay its a conscious choice for security but she will not be as satisfied as she could have been if she didn't have a alpha ex to compare you too. If a woman has a high body count but your her best she's ever experienced she could be happy, but the high body count could set a precedence for seeking novelty or neutering her biochemical response to you as its desensitised by many bodies.
How are we supposed to know if we are her best? As women can lie and be deceptive. If we haven't grown up with a girl we don't know her past and what really happened in her life / how she was in her relationships etc.
Even if you are her best, if she doesn't have the ability to bond because her reward circuitry has been biochemically dampened by sleeping around a lot or through substance abuse / high dopamine lifestyle then she'll get bored quickly, she's conditioned her self to get addicted to infatuation or the honeymoon period and dopamine from novelty. Or, FOMO kicks in due to the internet/big cities and the illusion of access that theres something else better out there always tickling her hypergamy.
Ironically, the more this knowledge is out there it is good for men to be aware of but the flip side is if women come to know of it, the more they can be deceptive and know what to hide from men and how to behave accordingly to secure us.
The only solution is be the toxic alpha 😂
What is the ''alpha widowing'' affect?
Not to mention, she could start out a virgin and still "feel" like she is or has or will miss out. FOMO... THen nukes the relationship or marriage and children's lives.
@@runreilly An alpha widow believes she has a higher value because high value men have slept with her a couple of times.
Regular guys trying to date and commit to her is now below her "standards" and is promptly ignored.
Then she hits the wall and she just can understand why noone want to commit to her.
And anohter alpha widow cat lady is borne.
@@runreilly You're with a woman, but when you're on top of her, she is thinking of the 6'8 jacked badass with a shredded core that made her feel amazing. She felt the whole world was open to her in his arms, and you, you just aren't him. No matter what you do. You got a job, a gut, a grey hair, and you cannot afford to take her where he could have.
She went to college. Because of that her body count is likely 15+ (being generous). And now she expects to be taken seriously? Too late for that chick, more than minimal effort is reserved for good women. Not impulsive, non-virgin harlots.
Your overly nice to her....beinggenerous give her a body count lower than 100 ....she never had a "steady" BF.....that means she has causual lots of fun....
Agreed.
Try 150
15 is actually low nowadays for women sadly enough 🤣
The overuse of the word ‘like’ and the upward inflection on the end of her sentences tells me everything I need to know
Exactly... people always think they have to interrogate woman about their past... it's not necessarily, she's already giving you all yhe information you need in the way that she's showing up.
Womanese translation: "I'm getting old and losing my looks so now I want someone to commit to me"
Stay tuned for the upcoming "where are all the good men?"
I’m reasonably sure she wouldn’t respect a good man.
Pair bonding in women is everything. Once gone she can never ever be depended on or trusted.
Why does it go away in the first place
@@kitesupreme8907 because if she is normal, the first love is the highest and go very deep... And if she love only the best body, she cant be happy with your body, if your body is not good... Then, she like maybe a lot inch and hardcore, and you havent or cant do this...
To many risk!!
💯
True
@@kitesupreme8907 it is a chemical reaction in the brain that is analogous to a drug addiction and the diminishing return over time from overstimulation and burnout of the receptors that produce the endorphin boost adrenalin rush and feeling of euphoria.
In other words the more you take the more you will need for an ever diminishing feeling of euphoria.
"I would encourage women in this position to step outside of themselves, to stop being so self-absorbed and actually consider what this experience must be like for the man."
Oh Alexander. You beautiful cinnamon bun; too good, too pure for this world.
I think Alexander is a honourable individual. He’s actually from my city.
@@nobillismccaw7450 I don't disagree, but the fact he can actually say something like the above in genuine sincerity... I don't know whether it's simple naivete or he's willfully embracing an optimism so outrageous it borders on delusion, but I love him for it either way.
Here's a tip: If an attractive woman says she has been with three guys, the real number is probably closer to 3 digits (100+)
@@patrickbateman3146 the old multiplying by 3 times trick doesnt work anymore?
@@ray076NL It works fine if the number is zero.
They'll frequently count only real relationships, while ignoring the many hookups they have had through out the years.
When women say they are single, lots of time what they mean, is that they are sleeping around without an actual relationship.
I had a 23 year old girl from Tinder with borderline.
She was the only girl ever honest about her body count. She said she was 23 with 50 bodies.
Now I am scared to think she might have lied and it was actually way higher than 50.
But she came across honest unlike all the other girls claiming they only had 3 boyfriends.
It´s funny because the girl with `3 boyfriends´ had the same disconnected behaviour as the Borderliner with 50 bodies.
One of them was lying.
@@rogerlemans636 They were both lying. The thing with BPD women is that they legitimately don't know the truth is, and even if they do, they will tell you modified version of it based on how they feel at the time - their "reality" is dictated by emotion. They seen sincere because all the emotion that comes with what they say makes it look like they're showing vulnerability, which causes you to trust them and be more vulnerable yourself. It's a trap. Inevitably, this will become a tactic that they use to try and destroy you. The only thing anyone should do when they meet a borderline is run and never look back. I'm speaking from personal experience.
“If you weren’t interested in me when you where young, I don’t see why I should be interested in you now” is a understandable feeling.
So she acted like a 304 till she’s 25 Now she’s going to turn on some magical switch and change there’s no logic there life does not work that way there’s always consequences to every action.
Truth to the social aspect. I was my wifes first and none of our friends ever voiced or gave off negative vibes when we finally got married. My boys never saw red flags and gave me props for finding a good one, while her friends basically saw it as some romantic disney soul mates thing. I had a friend that was getting serious with a girl that had a reputation and all of us tried to warn him. Too bad he didnt listen 😔
Man you are so lucky to be the first of a woman, you'll live an awesome life
"Like, whatever, like, whatever, trauma, like". What a catch
The way you flipped the script with that vacation example was brilliant. Great way to make the point relatable to women.
First!
Women will never understand these things.
But I think you're projecting some Alexander.. men will absolutely take her she won't hit the wall.for.a.while.and men will cater to her
There's ten simps.for every self respecting man.
Agreed. I've spoken to girls that had a casual hook one week before and still claim they don't do that sort of thing. That's how easily they can distance themselves from that sort of thing. She'll just tell guys she hasn't done it since she was 25 (because that guy she was with a couple of months ago doesn't count) and they'll believe her too.
@Jo Jo >>Some men won't care, some men will care but believe she has changed, while for some men it will be an actual deal-breaker.
@Jo Jo yep
@@alexmuenster2102 yep
Before I would ever consider reentering the dating market, I would need these bare minimum requirements:
1. The entire legal structure needs to be changed. Equal prison times for the same crimes. The perp of domestic abuse is the one arrested, not the male. A father needs guaranteed rights to spend time with his children except if he is convinced of battery or abuse.
2. Women need to start speaking out on our behalf when it is appropriate.
3. No more censorship of antifeminist content.
4. Some men care, some men don’t: I have the right to know her history. Not in great detail. But I need the broad strokes. How many men has she dated? Was she a party animal? Did she “travel,” and where? What are her politics, and what has she said openly about men in the past? Did she date significantly older men? If you don’t care, fine. But a lot of us do care.
A.G. it does not matter one bit if she genuinely feels bad about her past or doesn't. It is still there.
If i go buy a car and the person selling that car says, well i put a lot of miles on it, and its got a lot of damage, but i feel bad about that, why should i care ?
It is still just as damaged whether she feels bad about it or not.
Nice guys get leftovers and used cars.
"...hung out with guys, and, like...whatever..." Pay attention to the "whatever", because that's womanese for "every nasty act in the book, and also some stuff too nasty to include in the book"
But Beta Billy will get starfish sex because she ReSpEcTs HeRsElF nOw
@@dubbcee1000 Yeah, and he'll be pathetically grateful for the at-best-mediocre experience XD
@@antonsimmons8519 He'll even do chores for the privilege of bland s3x once a month. It's so sad how guys have been fooled into thinking this is normal.
Right
@@cool08player it is normal for beta ray bills like him
Regarding the women change, I don't agree. Once they lived the hook up game, they will be bored by the regular relationship and will keep this desire hidden fron you, being false and unsincer, taking the chance anytime they have, becouse they know the only payment they have to offer to her boyfriend is to give him sex. Not authenticity. .
You're right. As the old saying goes, "You can't turn a 304 into a housewife".
She has already been “spoiled” for a lifetime by many guys lol. Spoiled, used, contaminated? Men stop paying for Chad’s leftovers that he got for free.
Translation: “I’m 25 and already blown out, and now I want some sucker to pamper me”, 😂🤷♂️
All I hear is I WANT, I WANT, I WANT. Has anyone ever considered that someone might not WANT YOU.
This goes for both men and women, but I hear it from women a lot.
If men got the milk for free in the past, why buy the whole cow
Women just don’t get it. There is NO clean slate. If a women chooses to sleep around. Her choice. And when a man of value decides not to date or pursue a relationship with a her because of her past choices. His choice. Sorry ladies but you have to adapt to the needs of men in the dating market too. Men this is where you have a lot of power. Trust your gut. Hold the women you date to a high standard. It’s pretty black and white. Have strong boundaries. If they can’t meet them. Wipe them. Don’t invest. It works. Trust me. Men decide the relationship status.
The only power we really have!
Louis Vuitton advertises their bags for $5 each. You wait in line and watch 500 people pay $5 and get their bag, but when you get to the counter they try to charge you $5000. Would you buy that bag knowing you are paying 1000x the price and everyone and their brother now has a Louis Vuitton bag?
great analogy
If it's a $10,000 bag, yes! But she's not a $10,000 bag. She's a $1.40 bag in Filene's Basement. Who thinks she's a $5000 bag.
Who cares what someone else pays for your $10,000 bag if you get it for $5000?
the problem is wahmen who think their $1.49 "pouch" is worth $500,000 of my pension!
@@notmyname3883 Please relax, this was an analogy. The initial cost was arbitrary, the point was that it was devalued by 1000x overnight. Pretty basic principles of Supply & Demand would show the value of the product would be nowhere near its original value. I chose an LV bag as it is a product sought-after by many women. Please do not pay full price for a product that has been devalued into the ground, you may be willing to pay $5000, but trust me that bag isn't worth $10k anymore. Take care 🙂
Just wanted to say thank you for your input! Even though you make content for men, I as a woman (don't get confused by the account name) get really inspired by it. You show me a completely different view and make me reflect my behavior and aspire something more valuable.
Keep up the good work!
Even if these type of women find someone, they will still be thinking in the back of the minds that they can do better because nothing was ever good enough for them and it became a habit.
Also, a choice isn’t really a mistake, especially with casual hookups and using others for attention and validation just to build their egos.
I’m a Christian, I made a mistake of trusting a girl who once used me for attention and validation years ago because we got on in the moment and everything felt right. Little did I know that she was using me, but I’ve become wiser ever since and only date Christian women because I have no time for causal hookups.
Are you American? Is it hard to find that type of women?
Here in France it's extremely rare, and if you happen to find one, she's already married way before the age of 30.
of course. She will go for Mr. Niceguy now. Heal her wounds, suck him dry like a Vampire and back to the streets she goes until some Bad Boy breaks her heart again and repeat this cicle till there is no Niceguy waiting for her anymore.
People can change but she is clearly not one of them. I mean she said it herself. Her motives for a relationship are to get spoiled and take, not a single word about what she can give.
@@Damian_Black7 I guess that's the only solution left..
@@Damian_Black7 I find going to church helps having extra standards and boundaries. After all, we only want one person to share double happiness with. I am 36 on Friday and have always been a Christian all my life, but the last 6 years I’ve taken my faith really seriously and feel more stronger than ever.
My focus is on my ambition, purpose and vision and a relationship, marriage and children is just a bonus. Most this generation seem to have lost the understanding about love and I find people who go sleeping around are the most dependant, they also lack discipline and self respect worth.
@@Damian_Black7 Most dishonest women are going to church. Vast majority of "christians" are Christians by habit, not values.
5:15
That's a good point;
it's like having put 200,000km
on your cheap car since you bought it,
now trying to sell it for more than you paid.
You make the choice, You have to live with the consequences.
Not if youre a woman
It is hilarious how they like tell on themselves for like the whole world to see. Her insta must be a hoot. Also wanted to comment on the last points Alexander made. I look at a woman with a promiscuous past the same way I look at an alcoholic. I always wonder when the alcoholic is going to fall off the wagon. With the promiscuous woman I always wonder when they are going to fall onto some strange D.
An excellent video. There are decisions in life that have irreversible consequences. 'Nuff said.
I find it hilarious when a run through 304 thinks she’s a prize and men have to jump through hoops to amuse her! Future cat lady right here!
😂😂😂
I started liking girls at 4 yo. I grinded to get in shape in high school (dropped to 170 from 250), 6’1” with broad shoulders and big quads/hams from squads/deadlifts, developed excellent fashion sense, networked my way to a corporate job by 20, and this was all before “motivational speakers”/“life coaches” were on every corner. I’m 27 now, and have only ever had 1 date and am still a virgin (never had someone reciprocate mutual feelings towards me, and yes, I have high social intelligence, so that’s not the issue).
Note: had one cheerleader I crushed on hard from HS reach out once she saw I was established, and I found out she had blown up after graduating. Basically gave concise responses to make sure she understood the tone of the present.
The crazy thing is how much you learn about the dynamics of relationships, when you can never enter one. Essentially, there’s literal to no chance I’m interested in cultivating damaged goods for sacrificing time and youth for something less than top shelf.
Advice:
Aesthetics typically peak at 24, which means intelligent females should ideally be looking to lock something down by 23, sooner rather than later if they understand this.
I'm sorry bud but there is something else.
It's incredible the amount of lack of knowledge about communication you will have if you don't have relationships... Or move in... Or have sex.
Go get laid.. find someone worth. it and get laid because not having women will make you totally dysfunctional sexually.
Also. Women's peak is more like 16-18 not 24.
23-24 is when they start going down hard. But almost all 16 year olds are appealing.
@@thenarrator1984 I completely agree with that adjusted age, but for the sake of ‘aggravated persons’ put the 24 number, since it was likely to raise disagreement.
I have no issues with communicating and/or emotional management (wasn’t motivated to correct my grammatical issues in the comment further down for once in my commenting life lol), my career is largely dependent on comprehending psychosocial behavior from a macro perspective. I don’t tolerate drama though, and am always accountable for personal error, since in my field it doesn’t matter if you were right if it means accepting monetary losses in the immediate term (essentially, I thrive in volatile environments professionally, but won’t permit its involvement in my personal life if it’s within my ability to manage it).
@@mesmith2526 but you don't understand my point.
You.can think you understand all you want.
You don't.
Observing and being are two vastly different things and business isn't relationships women are vastly different in both.
And sex.... I have a friend who didn't have sex.. he's 36 now and he has no concept of what sex is.
It's disturbing.
Trust me.. get laid. Find. A girl to have regularly. Get a connection with her.. don't fall for her just.... Get along
@@mesmith2526 I'm retired (43) and I worked in a field where I handled crisis. And if I handled well it made money if I failed it lost. I basically was a portable crisis handler who handled people.
So I get what you mean.
But this isn't relationship knowledge.
@@thenarrator1984 trust me, it’s not a personal choice of celibacy, and I do understand what you’re saying dude.
I don’t have issues communicating with women, and should have mentioned that I am quick witted with humor. The shutdowns during the past 2 years have also factored in to limiting the amount of available candidates that aren’t already preoccupied by other suitors (quite a few chicks have let themselves go during this period as well in my current geographic region, so enticing candidates are fewer from that likewise).
I already feel sorry for my baby boy! I will try to prepare him, but I also know that he has to go through these experiences himself. 🥺
all what he says is SPOT ON!
its 100% correct as a man i can confirm this.
men are not stupid, we know how people are and how women are. we feel the cold hard truth early on
Well it’s simple, she’s going to lie to him about her body count.
Exactly. Mr. Grace could have stated and proven his thesis statement in about two minutes. He should then have devoted the rest of his clip to showing us HOW to recognize female flakes. Because the few example scenarios he mentions - running into exes who then "give you the eye" so that you *know* what a flake your gf used to be - are simply too unrealistic to count on them.
Sadly a lot of girls act like that nowdays. So messed up :/ Great video ! ❤️❤️
Saying "like" every third word.
Up-speak (seemingly turning every statement into a question, as if she's not certain in her conviction about what she just said).
This 25yo woman has an unserious mind.
Recently, I met a 35 year old that still acted like she was in her late teens early 20s. Very similar to the "girl" in the video.
I was like speaking in like this valley girl voice because like, I'm so quirky and not like other girls. You know, like? 😆
you go about this content in a very respectful manner. Brutally honest yet no bad-mouthing. I appreciate that.
The look on Alex's face for the first bit, while he is watching, is what contempt looks like.
Anyone ever looks at you like that, they really, really, super don't like you. Even so far as to say hate, or an enemy.
I don't think it's quite that serious. It requires a lot of time and resentment to reach contempt. He starts out just listening normally, and then transitions to mildly disgusted and cringe yet slightly entertained when she gets to telling the same ol' 304 story.
@@gabeo9474
From 0:25 to 0:30, he transforms from observation to contempt.
Double lip curl coming from the unconscious on adjustment of his posture. Big sigh as he does it. That's contempt alright.
@@GDKLockout You think so? I personally interpret it as like an amused yet uneasy disgust, but I also think of contempt as the worst possible form of hating someone, so we might be using significantly different scales. There is also an element of looking down on the person like they are insignificant. My ex showed me the look of contempt far too often.
@@gabeo9474 ah, I think I see why are both saying the same thing but seem to disagree.
Alex is possibly displaying disgust or contempt, but for the ideas, not necessarily the person. Because his reviewing a vid.
I was.saying that if someone looks at YOU like that, to receive it as contempt.
But yes you are right, precisely what we each mean by these words is probably not exactly the same.
@@GDKLockout Good call. I totally agree
Alexander I just wanted to tell you it takes guts to inquire so honestly as you do, and I for one appreciate the heck out of this effort
Not only is it "not easy"; but you are talking about what Schopenhauer would call the "root of the will"--you are talking about the stuff that drives/motivates/organizes our society, but unconsciously--b/c we dare not speak of it. I mean, really, when you think about it, we are each one of us "eugenicists" when it comes to our romantic mates: we choose them b/c on some level we think them superior as mates...no way around this basic and unspeakable truth
She lost me 10 seconds in
Cant even breathe without having to say “like”
Ps, i was being generous with those 10 sec
Like
@@FilipMacioszek you’re fired ;)
Honestly, the most brilliant part about this channel is that you'll never run out of content.
Let's be real here, she'll find somebody within 2 weeks. She's a good looking woman - despite being shallow inside. Life is unfair folks, but as always, we must suck it up and not fall for these tricksters 🙃
Exactly, she is phoney as are her hangout friends.
She's not that pretty and she seems extremely arrogant.
@@Feber2001 she's above average and yeah I already said she's probably shallow lol but I don't think she'd have problems. Women get a ton of attention and opportunities even when they're average
@@redcobra1246 She'll traumatize someone if that's the case, the good guy that would be there for her....I hope she doesn't but it can happen.
@@Feber2001 I think we've all seen it happen lol
Phenomenal reciprocal of the man's experience..
This Is GOLD
They want the whole social menu AFTER giving it up to everyone AND continuing to offer no commitment OR anything of substance in return.
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Women used to put me in the FRIEND ZONE, but as I got older and my life has change for the better I started putting them into the PHANTOM ZONE...there's a difference.
AG "she needs to step out of the situation and be less self absorbed...."
That's so funny and optimistic on AG's part
Self accountability is cryptonite for most women like her (most in general actually)
All the others hide it better than others. Like thieves some get caught others don't
Finally: I'm allowed to have concerns and preferences without being sexist :))
Anyone that calls you sexist for that should be avoided. You have standards and boundaries; and if they don't respect that, show them the door
here's my point:
all she has to say is that she has not done it.
how can anyone verify? It's not like she's going to present her relationship history as if in an interview.
all she needs to do is deny it and act cute like she doesn't know what a hook up is.
I am a woman, and it is sad that women are just now realizing that the so called "oppression" was actually respect and being cherished for our part in the team of two. This is many years in the making, I hope we survive.
Thanks Jodi! I am still rooting for you guys, I know some women that have not behaved not that way. It's just most guys don't know where to find them...... Unfortunately, hollow shells like this girl are obviously non sincere and just making a response to a perceived change in environment.
Everything Alexander said is true
"The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water" - Sophocles
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I want a holiday with cake, presents and a pony. If some strange can just give it to me for no reason that would be great.
Any girl who's still using the words "like" and "I want" repetitively in one long sentence at 25 isn't worth anyone's time. NEXT!
Very traumatic trauma.
This video is the best video/article in the internet explaining why once a woman decides to be promiscuous, there is no turning back from that decision and all the judgement and negative consequences that come with it.
These 304s are only for recreational use, and have fried their relationshipcapacity due to high bodycounts!
they used to wake up at 30 but now they wake up at 25 because they've seen all the miserable 30 year old. don't fall for it people because 25 is still too late, it's the beginning of the end in terms of attractiveness and they know it! until they start acting right at 20, i wouldn't waste my time with any of them
This is painful to listen to. She's so inarticulate, she sounds like a 12-year-old.
And once again we see a woman deciding to start charging a lot more for used and depreciated goods. What could possibly go wrong with her strategy?
The frequency in which she uses the word 'like' after every other word is already a good indicator of her meager intellect.
Being promiscuous means that you have no problems with sleeping around with no bonds or responsibility which is in itself no problem but then turning around and saying "thats in the past and judging me is only showing that you are insecure" isn't changing the fact that you are at least "capable" of sleeping with a lot of men without hesitation or second thought. Which means for us Men that you are likely to do it again or to divorce me to do it again because you are capable of it and have done it before.
It's like a thief is saying that he is trustworthy because he was a thief in the past and judging him because of his past shows how insecure you are about trusting people!.
So instead of trying to shame us into "accepting" promiscuity just don't fool around and keep your body for that one special person you want as husband
When she says 'I Don't Do That (ANYMORE)'
just add 'with YOU' at the end of it.
So you have been riding D like a public toilet and NOW expect me too pay full Lamborghini prices for a used smart car?😒
Idgaf if they capable of sincere regret. “Pair bonding fried, marriage ring denied”