Marriage scared the hell out of me even if i wanted a partner, home and family. I think it's because i have never seen a good example. Now, these teachings are changing my mind.
My dear marriage also scares the hell out of me because I am scared of getting married to the wrong person to avoid broken home or broken marriage. I was brought up in a broke home so I am scared of making the same mistakes my parents made.
1. Dating without God (21:10) 2. Marrying for the wrong reason ( 33:27) 3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage (42:39) 4. Some people still want to be themselves (47:33) 5. Not doing pre-marital counseling (53:09) 6. Make sure to follow the due processes (56:02) 7. Not building intimacy ( 1:03:17)
Costly mistakes 1. Dating without God 2. Marrying for the wrong reason 3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage 4. Some people still want to be themselves 5. Not doing pre-marital counseling 6. Make sure to follow the due processes 7. Not building intimacy
He needs to add listening to married pastors as a single woman. He will never be able to empathize. He has never walked in the shoes. Just talking crap.
How I wish I heard this massage 19yrs ago I would not be thinking of how to turn back the hands of time, thanks pastor, I hope your listener's would follow your wise words
My future husband may you please pass here ,so that our first meeting will be giving others a summary. Kingsley is exceptional concerning this matter,I am so blessed 🙌
I fell in love with this man after I listened to this message.. I wish for an opportunity to thank him..you just changed my life..I’m from christembassy Lagos
Just came across this video today. This message just made my day. Been praying about a particular person because I don’t want to make a mistake or doing it by my own will. I prayed about it for the very first time and and I got a confirmation. Still praying about it because I want it to be from God not by my making.
More Grace sir. I need to confess that since last year, we have played videos from Pastor Kingsley during our Sunday school sessions and we bless Pastor Kingsley regularly for all the wonderful piece
@@oluforijimibadejo5567 hello Badejo, this is great! send a message to +2348077714413 on whatsapp to make enquiries on books and other resources, or visit www.ldmwithpk.org
I can't explain how I feel right now this message is just for me am in a relationship that I had to make decisions as soon as possible after listening to this wonderful powerful message my case is settled because I was down in the spirit asking God to help me out God bless you sir.
After listening to this and your life isn't better that means village people dey at work o. Wow!!😍 This is BEAUTIFUL! Thank you so much for this God bless you. See me craving for marriage now😘
Wow Ps K, I don't know how to thank u n ur wife, u r an inspiration, I so much enjoy ur teachings, God bless u both n continue to give u de Grace to help people like us..
I listened to the end, so blessed. Thanks sir. i pray my man will locate me and our marriage will be filled with joy and fulfill God's plans for us.🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am really praying for a better spouse... I do not want to accept that they are no good man out there. I have been building myself with your messages for years and I expect something better from a man from God.. I am tired of heart break and wrongful expectations 😭😭
Omg!! The way the guy shook him, he knew the guy is not ‘born again’. I honestly cant stop laughing. God bless you Sir for passing this important message in a light hearted way! Its always a refreshing time listening to your messages
Pst I have listened to ur teachings for some time now but this particular message stroke me differently. Thank you sir. May God continue to water you as you hv watered us.
You can get him interested. Lemme share how i made my husband fell in love with this kind of messages. 1. I prayed about it 2. I arranged a weekend treat for just the two of us in celebrating our anniversary. I sent the children to a family friend and it was just the two of us. We both enjoyed it and its making us respond to eachother better.
Sometime ago, the Holy Spirit led me hear but I ignored then again out of the blue I'm here at the hub of marital wisdom. All i have to say is 'Thank You Lord'.
Pastor K and Pastor M I love u both. U’re awesome and a beautiful blessings to our generation. I pray to know u both one on one. I’m based in Owerri with my family. We’ve bin married 4 13years now. Pls man of God I really pray u can have a session with us. My hubby loves ur messages. Recently I don’t understand wats happening
Am impacted spiritually,mentally and emotionally. You are blessed. Pls I need more teaching concerning TITHE. Is it scripturally right to pay tithe or use the money to help the orphans, widows and the poor both in the church and outside. Thank you
Thank you, Pst. Kingsley. You made me laugh and brought me to tears all in the space of one message. The knowledge you’ve imparted to me is priceless, and may God continue to fill your cup, in Jesus' Name. Amen.
Someone sent me a link to me more than two weeks I didn't check until today! I didn't hesitate to subscribe to your channel after listening to your message, I honestly love your messages. I'm not married neither engaged and I'm glad I come across your channel today. I really have made up my mind that this year 2023 is minus relationship because it hasn't been working out.. anything aside God will for me is a no go area!. I want to marry for the right reason like you've said!
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God bless you Pastor. I am blessed by this message.
Were can I get this your books
Amen!!!
God bless you big sir🙏 Your marriage will never know sorrow in Jesus name🙏
Can I get ur books here in kenya???
Marriage scared the hell out of me even if i wanted a partner, home and family. I think it's because i have never seen a good example. Now, these teachings are changing my mind.
Same.
Same!!
I can imagine what you mean. Thank God for His grace that speaks understanding to to us through messages like this.
Good 👍
My dear marriage also scares the hell out of me because I am scared of getting married to the wrong person to avoid broken home or broken marriage. I was brought up in a broke home so I am scared of making the same mistakes my parents made.
1. Dating without God (21:10)
2. Marrying for the wrong reason ( 33:27)
3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage (42:39)
4. Some people still want to be themselves (47:33)
5. Not doing pre-marital counseling (53:09)
6. Make sure to follow the due processes (56:02)
7. Not building intimacy ( 1:03:17)
Costly mistakes
1. Dating without God
2. Marrying for the wrong reason
3. Not learning about the relationship of marriage
4. Some people still want to be themselves
5. Not doing pre-marital counseling
6. Make sure to follow the due processes
7. Not building intimacy
Thanks for the summary.
He needs to add listening to married pastors as a single woman. He will never be able to empathize. He has never walked in the shoes. Just talking crap.
@@misss7758 talking crap? Bye.
Thanks a lot for your summary
@@misss7758 that's quite an angry response though
Love for each other doesn't hold the marriage, but love for God does TIME STAMP: 33:23
This touched me so deeply....
I was here because I had made my mind up never to get married I hope Pastor K is aware of the many lives he's touching.. It's a big deal
How I wish I heard this massage 19yrs ago I would not be thinking of how to turn back the hands of time, thanks pastor, I hope your listener's would follow your wise words
Where you invest is where you harvest.
Omoooo my marriage will be blessed oo, my future husband is so lucky because I'm learning this at my age
Am with you on this here
Yes o
Lols
😆🤣
Nice 1
Takes a whole lot of intentionality and commitment for men to do romance.
Marry what drives him (ladies)not what he drives and marry what shapes her (men) not just her shape.👍👍💫💫💫🌠God is too organized. Thank you Lord.
That you're a good driver doesn't make you a good manager.
Thank you pastor K sir
My future husband may you please pass here ,so that our first meeting will be giving others a summary.
Kingsley is exceptional concerning this matter,I am so blessed 🙌
God has a voice in everything for every generation. He is God's voice in matters of dating, courtship and marriage.
This got me" when u honour ur wife God honours u" true talk
When you honour a God fearing wife,
@Dan_Michika as a God fearing man why will you even marry a woman that doesn't fear God?
"I know you will find it, the way I found you"...Omo, that line blew my mind🤩🤩🤩
No be lie!! 😂😂
As in. I literally awwwned
🤩🤩🤩
Same here
i even noted it down🥰🥰🥰🥰
"God is too organised to let come into world and be wondering"
I caught that!!!!!!!
Wandering
Me too
Marriage is deeper than what we see, and what we've learnt....I agree with your teachings pastor....I'm trusting God for the wife of my youth soon..
I fell in love with this man after I listened to this message.. I wish for an opportunity to thank him..you just changed my life..I’m from christembassy Lagos
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
He is a great powerful man who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago without delay 💯 💯 💯
W-h-a-t-s-a-p-p h-i-m
+234=704 =286 =4197.......
@@zoeamato7037 plz tell me me how
If the intimacy is strong, there is no obstacle that can't be surmounted
Just came across this video today. This message just made my day. Been praying about a particular person because I don’t want to make a mistake or doing it by my own will. I prayed about it for the very first time and and I got a confirmation. Still praying about it because I want it to be from God not by my making.
Holy spirit, let the man you ordinate for me, find me in the mighty name of Jesus amen.
I am from Kenya and a beneficiary of this teachings.
Pastor Kingsley is an ordained Comedian 😂😂😂😂. Such a powerful session
More Grace sir.
I need to confess that since last year, we have played videos from Pastor Kingsley during our Sunday school sessions and we bless Pastor Kingsley regularly for all the wonderful piece
We would need supplies of your book as there are many who would live to buy them
@@oluforijimibadejo5567 hello Badejo, this is great! send a message to +2348077714413 on whatsapp to make enquiries on books and other resources, or visit www.ldmwithpk.org
I can't explain how I feel right now this message is just for me am in a relationship that I had to make decisions as soon as possible after listening to this wonderful powerful message my case is settled because I was down in the spirit asking God to help me out God bless you sir.
I found this page recently..but I enjoy it as I am planning to get married ..God bless you from kenya
Trust me, you are in the right place 😊
great!
Mkenya mwenzangu, nice, nice, nice
Please DO NOT negiotiate Red flag!
He is very educative
This man of God is blessed
Blessings are not only seen in physical blessings or money but knowledge 🙏🏽
Yah i see why Mama is always glowing.
Pst k is so simple and funny yet his messages cut through every layer. Thank you for yielding PK. I LOVE YOUUUU
After listening to this and your life isn't better that means village people dey at work o. Wow!!😍 This is BEAUTIFUL! Thank you so much for this God bless you. See me craving for marriage now😘
😂😂😂😂village people Dey at work lol
Am from Cameroon and your teachings are so helpful to me. It has me made me réalise myself and know God more
wow thats great!
hi happy New Year
Very explicit,I don't get tired of listening to your message,God bless you with more wisdom
"Doing normal things in a special way" Kai! You're too much Pastor K💪. I've heard this saying severally but I got a new insight into it today.
Waauuuw wauw Mrs & Mr Okonkwo, please consider coming to Europe fast land and give a seminar!
Powerful!!!
You are a blessing to successful marriages!
the best financial decision you can make is to honor your wife....-Thats deep sir...waiting for that message
"Don't marry him (a man) because of what he drives, marry him because of what drives him." --Pastor K. Okonkwo (22:56)
47 seconds in and I can honestly say I love his Spirit.
Pastor kings, you are really a blessing to this generation.. may God continue to bless you with more knowledge
I didn’t want it to end..bravo pastor Kingsley 👏🏼👏🏼
awwww
Me too!
Me too
It's the simplicity of how he shares this wisdom and Nuggets.. I just listen to you when I do my walks. Thanks pastor K.
Ohhh God, am from Uganda but this man of God has saved my relationship which has been ruining
Wow Ps K, I don't know how to thank u n ur wife, u r an inspiration, I so much enjoy ur teachings, God bless u both n continue to give u de Grace to help people like us..
I listened to the end, so blessed. Thanks sir. i pray my man will locate me and our marriage will be filled with joy and fulfill God's plans for us.🙏🏾🙏🏾
Waiting from London
😂😂😂😂oh Lord I like this man. God bless you and your family Pastor.
Thank you Pst King. For allowing Christ and Holy spirit to use you as a vessel to bless us with these teachings.
Listening to you makes me feel like we are having a conversation.
Am always blessed by your wisdom from God
His teachings on relationship reminds me of the late Myles Munroe . Funny delivery but very apt !
I'm watching from London and I'm really bless with your sermon. God bless you Pastor 🙏
May your oil keep running Pastor K. God bless you.
I am really praying for a better spouse... I do not want to accept that they are no good man out there. I have been building myself with your messages for years and I expect something better from a man from God.. I am tired of heart break and wrongful expectations 😭😭
@@olusholasoyoye2089 Hi Olu, I live in Lagos...
@@sandramumen4635 Oh, I see.
@@olusholasoyoye2089 see what ?
@@sandramumen4635 Nothing, I was only checking proximity.
@@olusholasoyoye2089 No problem..
Obey the Holy spirit always.
Lord help me walk under your Will not mine. Amen 🙏
Glory be to God and may God bless you pastor k in Jesus might name Amen
OMG! God has finally gave me rest through this message ... Thank you God🙏
So powerful. God bless you PK, you are a blessing to my generation.
Omg!! The way the guy shook him, he knew the guy is not ‘born again’. I honestly cant stop laughing. God bless you Sir for passing this important message in a light hearted way! Its always a refreshing time listening to your messages
My favorite part of the whole message...it was too funny lol!
Flying to ANYWHERE & not packing a thing....we'll shop when we arrive where we are going🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💕💕💕💕💕 extra special 👑
😂😂😂 very funny and knowledgeable.
Pst I have listened to ur teachings for some time now but this particular message stroke me differently. Thank you sir. May God continue to water you as you hv watered us.
Always educating... Thank you pastor K, I wish my husband will be so interested to watch this & learn... So our marriage can be sweet & better
You can get him interested. Lemme share how i made my husband fell in love with this kind of messages.
1. I prayed about it
2. I arranged a weekend treat for just the two of us in celebrating our anniversary. I sent the children to a family friend and it was just the two of us.
We both enjoyed it and its making us respond to eachother better.
@@deborahademidunalagbe1319 thanks dear, I wish that worked for me... My dear, i have tried my best but no, I will just keep praying on that
I wish I would have seen and practice this before. Would have save me serious heartbreak! 😞
Sometime ago, the Holy Spirit led me hear but I ignored then again out of the blue I'm here at the hub of marital wisdom. All i have to say is 'Thank You Lord'.
Grace has found me just because i found this Pastor and his wife. Thank you Jesus for this encounter, God bless you Pastor
Awesome, am learning lot lately from these teachings. Much love from Uganda🎉🎉🎉
PK's lines😂😂😂 i know u'll find it as i found you
Thank you sir more grace sir
Thank you Pastor for your wise teachings the more I listen the more I see that Marriage is not for everybody I for one cannot survive it
😊😂😂🙏🙏 It is well dear
it's well
I am blessed crossing paths with you Pastor K. My generation is blessed having you in it. May God bless and keep you safe always @pastor Kingsley
The hand shake part 🤣🤣🤣 I so much enjoy your teachings
Pastor K and Pastor M I love u both. U’re awesome and a beautiful blessings to our generation. I pray to know u both one on one. I’m based in Owerri with my family. We’ve bin married 4 13years now. Pls man of God I really pray u can have a session with us. My hubby loves ur messages. Recently I don’t understand wats happening
More anointing pastor K....ur word is like a light unto my soul.ur marriage will never fail ijn.🤗🤗🤗
Thank you Sir for this.🙏🏾
You still have Big Bits of KING ZO in you SIR. Pastor Mildred is SUPER BLESSED!!!
I got to learn of your messages two days back thank you so much for impacting people's lives so mightily am blessed from Zimbabwe
May God bless me with a husband like ur kind sir
Mine too will be a testimony in Jesus name Ameeeen
Subscriber from Philippines here.. Great teachings. Learning a lot!
Absolutely brilliant Christian teaching for marriage... its nice to know u are learning as well as myself.
You are too good Pastor. God bless you so much as you continuo to bless us
Powerful and eye opening.
Thanks for sharing Pastor K.
Pastor Kingsely this was so enlightening.
May fight for u papa
Am impacted spiritually,mentally and emotionally. You are blessed.
Pls I need more teaching concerning TITHE. Is it scripturally right to pay tithe or use the money to help the orphans, widows and the poor both in the church and outside. Thank you
This Message is full of wisdom , God bless you pastor K
You and your wife are a blessing to me and this generation, thank you for all you do 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
So beautiful, man of God I have learnt alot
God bless you Pastor Kingsley. I always enjoy your teaching on this subject. Keep being a blessing to us🙏
Thank you, Pst. Kingsley. You made me laugh and brought me to tears all in the space of one message. The knowledge you’ve imparted to me is priceless, and may God continue to fill your cup, in Jesus' Name. Amen.
Amen
I RECEIVE MY OWN VIRTUOUS AND PRUDENT WIFE FROM THE LORD IN JESUS NAME. AMEN. THANK YOU JESUS 🤲❤💖
Prov 19:14, Prov 31:10
Eye opening message,as usual!Thank you so much for this!I'm happy that I heard this as an unmarried lady!Wooh,wooh!!
Hmm l like the perfume delivery romance illustration. Doing the normal things in a special way
Someone sent me a link to me more than two weeks I didn't check until today! I didn't hesitate to subscribe to your channel after listening to your message, I honestly love your messages. I'm not married neither engaged and I'm glad I come across your channel today. I really have made up my mind that this year 2023 is minus relationship because it hasn't been working out.. anything aside God will for me is a no go area!. I want to marry for the right reason like you've said!
Amen and More Anointing in Jesus name, thx so much Pastor
Your teachings are top notch
Jst hope God helps in this relationship of mine cux is complicated,am tired of being in a relationship
God bless you sir, more anointing MOG
Pst k God bless you
Fire🔥🔥🔥God bless you sir
Amen I prayed I key into your prayers in Jesus name Amen and Amen .