15 Wrong Mindsets Singles Have | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @teniola7328
    @teniola7328 2 роки тому +84

    - "I want the love that I cant breathe when I see him"
    - Pastor K : That's not love, that's asthma
    😂😂😂

  • @titoabumere
    @titoabumere 2 роки тому +271

    Wow, what a teaching. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 The wrong mindsets:
    1. @00:15 - Marriage is hard
    2. @04:51 Marriage must have problems
    3. @06:36 - My spouse will meet my needs
    4. @8:33 - Abuse is normal. No one is perfect
    5. @11:16 - I won’t be happy and fulfilled until I’m married
    6. @12:38 - You must look out for yourself
    7. @14:41 - There’s only one magical true love God created for me
    8. @27:29 - There are no rules to love and marriage
    9. @36:54 - You can settle for less and change the person after
    10. @38:18 - You need a lot of money to get married
    11. @39:52 - You need to look like a beauty queen to attract a spouse
    12. @41:05 - The person I will marry will love me the way I am
    13. @41:33 - Good men and women are now scarce
    14. @42:05 - It’s impossible to have a sexually pure relationship

  • @douglastom8729
    @douglastom8729 2 роки тому +87

    Gospel laced with humor can never be boring. God bless you PK.

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay7467 2 роки тому +178

    I am a Muslim, thank you so much sir the knowledge is very important.

    • @Goddibaba
      @Goddibaba 2 роки тому +4

      I agree, Fatmata

    • @sarahabunike8107
      @sarahabunike8107 2 роки тому +31

      I am very happy this message ministered to you. As you are led, I will encourage ams love for you to accept Jesus. You can start by saying this prayer; Lord Jesus, I confess my sins and ask for your forgiveness. Please come into my heart as my Lord and Savior. Take complete control of my life and help me to walk in Your footsteps daily by the power of the Holy Spirit. Thank you Lord for saving me and for answering my prayer. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
      Going forward as the spirit of God leads you, join a bible believing church and I am sure you will be blessed.
      Welcome to the family

    • @michelleadebiyi2341
      @michelleadebiyi2341 2 роки тому +5

      Give ur life to christ 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @vesselsofhonor308
      @vesselsofhonor308 2 роки тому +9

      Please give your life to Christ… in order to achieve all He said you need the help of the Holy Spirit

    • @realtalkwithphil
      @realtalkwithphil 2 роки тому +2

      🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @eseemasodje1485
    @eseemasodje1485 2 роки тому +18

    "There's no where the bible says marry who you love, but love who you marry"🙌🙌

  • @uzoamakaejinkonye8708
    @uzoamakaejinkonye8708 2 роки тому +18

    I am married, but I wish I had opportunities like this. I had to learn all this in the marriage, but knowing before marriage make the journey smoother.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 місяців тому

      That's valid, but you hearing these messages in your marriage can also be a blessing to pass along to others.
      The enemy always finds a way to utilize guilt and condemnation in our lives. But your marriage for Jesus is going to keep flourishing.

  • @odunfavour
    @odunfavour 2 роки тому +11

    "God doesn't give perfect, He allows you to participate" ...........word

  • @umehtoch
    @umehtoch 2 роки тому +7

    Point No. 4 - Abuse is normal.
    This is very true. Especially the cheating part. I have met many ladies who believes that men cheat and for that, they have no problems dating married men. They know that their husbands would do the same when they marry. So sad but its a reality.

  • @salvame4657
    @salvame4657 2 роки тому +2

    I don't even know who is more funny between PST K and PST M.
    Funny husband and wife 🤣.
    My data na for both of you .

  • @daydoris8093
    @daydoris8093 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much sir! God bless you pastor amen

  • @hopeifeyinwa9629
    @hopeifeyinwa9629 2 роки тому +27

    I am on the queue for this msg. Simpley can't wait!
    Who is on this table with me😀

  • @ladyboss2944
    @ladyboss2944 2 роки тому +30

    The end of this video took me out 🤣😂😅 Pastor Kingsley is too funny. Great video sir 👏

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 2 роки тому

      Same to me 😂😂😂😂

  • @florencewilson4709
    @florencewilson4709 2 роки тому +1

    Pastor K sure is funny. I laughed so much. Serious and important information nonetheless!

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 2 роки тому +3

    I like staying slim for myself... Not for attracting men.

  • @titoabumere
    @titoabumere 2 роки тому +33

    10 of my favourite quotes from this:
    1. There are still people entering marriage in a defensive mode. When a marriage is built on deceit from the beginning IT CANNOT LAST. ☢︎
    2. If you don’t trust the person you want to marry THEN DON’T MARRY (that person). ❗️
    3. Many people today are more interested in getting married than getting along. 🚩
    4. Quality people have quality relationships. You cannot have a better relationship than the quality of person you are. 💯
    5. Instead of focusing on finding the right person focus on being the right person. 📌
    6. Where you invest is where you harvest. 🎯
    7. Don’t look for a wife and try and make her your friend. Look for a friend and make her your wife. 👑
    8. Don’t be available for dating. Be available for marriage. 🔑
    9. Anybody you’re in a relationship with you need to ask yourself, ‘will I be happy if this person never changes?’ ⚠️
    10. People love you the way you are now but they expect you to keep growing with them. So don’t stay the way you are. 🏆

    • @kamsyismoi_unusual
      @kamsyismoi_unusual 2 роки тому

      Thanks for your analysis
      My take: Marriage is not hard, it is only people that are hardened.
      You must not kiss many frogs before you meet your Prince Charming.

  • @officialmagreth479
    @officialmagreth479 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the knowledge .....

  • @michealmicheal2305
    @michealmicheal2305 2 роки тому +1

    God bless you 🙏

  • @asantewaabarbs3637
    @asantewaabarbs3637 2 роки тому +5

    I always enjoy listening to the KING's Assembly. Both the WORD and JOKES, massive ones. GOD keep establishing you guys. Bunch love from Ghana.

  • @della_ray1
    @della_ray1 2 роки тому +8

    Oh my God, the dorime part got me🤣🤣🤣 thank you so much sir! Can't get tired of listening to this over and over, was soooo blessed!

  • @tifuhcatherine7178
    @tifuhcatherine7178 2 роки тому +1

    I need these wards now in my life than ever before because I'm at the peak of getting in to a home
    Thanks so much sir

  • @estherodunlami8490
    @estherodunlami8490 2 роки тому +5

    I celebrate you!
    I am a Christian and a Marriage Counsellor.
    You are great Sir.

  • @ugonnaadanna8756
    @ugonnaadanna8756 2 роки тому +10

    Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo,you are a blessing to my life. God please help and bless you mightily in Jesus Name Amen.

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 роки тому +1

    Every good church attracts all kinds of people. A church is like a hospital, not everyone is normal. I hear you clear sir👍🏽

  • @MarychukwuTV
    @MarychukwuTV 6 місяців тому

    The way i binge on these messages you'll think i want to take an exam. But truth is PK and PM have really blessed me

  • @purityokalo2316
    @purityokalo2316 2 роки тому +3

    Everytime I listen to you I keep on learning new things and being blessed

  • @israelpromise9446
    @israelpromise9446 2 роки тому +12

    Saw the snippet on Instagram and i just knew i must listen to this message in full...Thank you for this message sir

  • @audienceofone9842
    @audienceofone9842 2 роки тому +9

    Do ri me……..🤣😂😅
    Thank you Pst K.
    You are indeed graced. I was so pleased how you maintained the tempo in the church through your message. I hope n pray they got it, than just laugh.

    • @estheromotuyi629
      @estheromotuyi629 2 роки тому

      This is so amazing.... thanks a lot for this message sir

  • @sentinelb8929
    @sentinelb8929 2 роки тому +16

    Seriously this message just made my mindset have a new twist in certain areas

  • @terryondecks350
    @terryondecks350 2 роки тому +6

    I can't wait😍
    We love you #SouthAfrica

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 2 роки тому +2

    Your single years are years of blessing . It us a time to find your purpose and dream . It is time to discover who you are and be of service . Enjoy your single life as is one in lifetime ti be enjoyed in your life .

  • @amonuchioma695
    @amonuchioma695 2 роки тому +7

    This message fed my spirit man Sir. I honor the anointing for a good marriage in your life. God bless you for this puritant capsule, Amen.

  • @alexandraafiaafricatour8834
    @alexandraafiaafricatour8834 2 місяці тому

    I like him so much because he's preaching with humour and saying the truth

  • @amarachingwu798
    @amarachingwu798 2 роки тому +2

    It's the Dorime part for me🤣🤣🤣
    God bless you sir for this beautiful word😇

  • @adaoraaneke1178
    @adaoraaneke1178 2 роки тому +2

    May God never stop existing if at all that would ever happen without blessing you. Thank you Sir.

  • @kathambijedidah4256
    @kathambijedidah4256 2 роки тому +3

    Thank God Frederick Leonard repost his videos🤗 I have known Kingsley through Frederick Leonard oo

  • @ellaisabella247
    @ellaisabella247 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you sir,never a dull moment with pastor Kingsley

  • @lydia6954
    @lydia6954 2 роки тому +8

    Everytime I watched your sermons.I always learn something,thank you sir 🙏

  • @Okoliesamuel101
    @Okoliesamuel101 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Pastor K for this amazing teaching. It's like a medicine to me every morning

  • @oluwasinmibooluyomi2250
    @oluwasinmibooluyomi2250 2 роки тому +4

    It's the last part for me 😂😂😂. Pastor K God bless you, you're amazing. Literally, laughing and learning throughout this video.

  • @angiegrace1028
    @angiegrace1028 2 роки тому +2

    I can’t count how many times I watch this video. Always blessed in my understanding and learning something new every single time.

  • @divineemesi2297
    @divineemesi2297 8 місяців тому

    I love Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
    Your teachings have been blessing me since 2013

  • @ekelindaadaku
    @ekelindaadaku 2 роки тому +4

    I love you Pastor Kingsley❤❤... God bless you and continue to empower you in the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ

  • @Mikeypen
    @Mikeypen 2 роки тому +3

    You are the best sir at what you do I love u sir

  • @paulinaaghayedo6109
    @paulinaaghayedo6109 2 роки тому +1

    Yes o, real also know real. Where you invest is where you harvest

  • @olleyannie371
    @olleyannie371 2 роки тому +4

    I love this man...these are the best Ways to know a time waster

  • @francisukuevo3347
    @francisukuevo3347 2 роки тому +1

    Wow , Never a dull Moment when Pastor K holds the mic... Very insightful

  • @franklin_chukwunenye7201
    @franklin_chukwunenye7201 2 роки тому +1

    Ride on sir

  • @jekayinoluwajoyce7953
    @jekayinoluwajoyce7953 2 роки тому +1

    This table PK is shaking ehnnnnnnnn. I will do exercise o😂😂😂

  • @urantatamunoibim9048
    @urantatamunoibim9048 2 роки тому +5

    I'm so blessed by your teachings , God bless you.

  • @lawaldamilola5257
    @lawaldamilola5257 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you for always blessing us and the humor too... God keep you Pastor K

  • @anitanenye6849
    @anitanenye6849 2 роки тому +1

    Your emotions are real but not always right. Taking this away💯

  • @she3522
    @she3522 2 роки тому +5

    wooooooow........THIS MESSAGE IS CALLING ME OUT....THANKS SIR ,GOD BLESSS U IN ALL AREARS AND ENDEAVORS

  • @angiegrace1028
    @angiegrace1028 2 роки тому +2

    Awesome teachings about marriage Pastor K. It's the truth but communicated in a way we can understand God's purpose in marriage. I love your sense of humour. Preparation and discernment are the keys.

  • @dumi_liferecipes
    @dumi_liferecipes 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastor K for another eye opening message, God has been directing me to watch your videos and I'm learning and unlearning so much. I laughed a lot too😂 May God bless you sir👏🏽

  • @skyprincelfc
    @skyprincelfc 2 роки тому

    As a latter day saint....I testify that all he is said is true..

  • @themealpalace
    @themealpalace 2 роки тому

    Mhenn thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with Pk for life

  • @priscilamahina4176
    @priscilamahina4176 2 роки тому +4

    These are great teachings!! It has changed my perspective of marriage. May the Lord bless you..

  • @idehonyi6192
    @idehonyi6192 2 роки тому +1

    Deep calleth unto deep! Yes Sir

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 2 роки тому +3

    GOD BLESS YOU SIR 🙏🏼😂😂😂

  • @peggyakuasampomahabban9550
    @peggyakuasampomahabban9550 2 роки тому +2

    wow powerful message

  • @pamelamakunzva6038
    @pamelamakunzva6038 Рік тому +1

    This is very important and good advice thank you Pastor

  • @mmachi477
    @mmachi477 2 роки тому +3

    Blessed by this message. Thanks Pastor K
    Fun and educative 😁

  • @kegomoditsweredifentse4321
    @kegomoditsweredifentse4321 2 роки тому +1

    Dear God
    Open my eyes!? 🙏🏾

  • @ttfamikel791
    @ttfamikel791 Рік тому +1

    Awesomeness

  • @Glams2792
    @Glams2792 2 роки тому +1

    You're really a smart man. Thanks so much for the knowledge from you and your wife. God blessings upon your home always. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @thechristianclinicTCC
    @thechristianclinicTCC 2 роки тому +2

    This message is just so strong and clear

  • @michelleadebiyi2341
    @michelleadebiyi2341 2 роки тому

    When pastor mentioned the tall men, that hit me🤣🤣🤣🥲

  • @obinnaegbuchiri
    @obinnaegbuchiri 2 роки тому +2

    Pastor Kingzo 👑

  • @TracyMee
    @TracyMee 2 роки тому +1

    Your analogies are FANTASTIC! Such an awesome message. Thanks for sharing your knowledge freely.

  • @loischoji2031
    @loischoji2031 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you Sir. Your God inspired messages have really helped so many of us oh 🙏🏿God bless you

    • @florenceinnis8274
      @florenceinnis8274 2 роки тому

      I have been truly blessed 🙌thanks pastor k all the way from Monrovia

  • @oluchianyi3882
    @oluchianyi3882 2 роки тому

    Pastor k you are a blessing to my world and the world at large.
    Thanks you for always dishing out massive value.

  • @rosemaryafamah9602
    @rosemaryafamah9602 2 роки тому +1

    Blessed that I came across this video. Learnt a lot. More grace sir🙏

  • @ForEverLady
    @ForEverLady 2 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed watching. Thanks for this

  • @SusanNgozi1704
    @SusanNgozi1704 2 роки тому

    Wow wow pastor K teaching is always wonderful 🙌🙌🙌🙌 Glory be to God

  • @David_na95
    @David_na95 2 роки тому +2

    I too love you pastor k❤,more blessings and thank you for your teachings.

  • @johnetntemgwa3189
    @johnetntemgwa3189 2 роки тому

    Pastor K. Thanks for the teaching, this man you're a comedian . I laughed out ma lungs

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 2 роки тому +1

    God has one kind of person for you . Do not be in perpetual dating mode where you say yes to everybody . You need to know who is who . No perfect person for anyone only Godly options . God gives you raw material . Love who you marry ! That is not love , that is Asthma ! You funny ! Live the emotion ! Love the emotion !

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 2 роки тому

    Before watching this i know i match 70% of the topic. Single life...!😱

  • @emmanuelthelight
    @emmanuelthelight 10 місяців тому

    Profound truth.

  • @olubunmiabiona2172
    @olubunmiabiona2172 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Sir. This message is overly loaded. I truly enjoyed listening to you. God bless

  • @joyemmanuel3056
    @joyemmanuel3056 2 роки тому

    Thanks sir may God continue use u to bless many soul

  • @kayitesikabukire2804
    @kayitesikabukire2804 2 роки тому

    God bless you Sir....I'm enjoying your teachings.

  • @esespeaks
    @esespeaks 2 роки тому +1

    God bless you sir. Very insightful

  • @ruth_adewole_o
    @ruth_adewole_o 2 роки тому +1

    You are always a blessing Sir! Thank God for you in our generation

  • @brajusticetech
    @brajusticetech 2 роки тому +1

    God richly bless you pastor.

  • @oviemenablessing2197
    @oviemenablessing2197 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much sir, I really learnt alot from this teaching

  • @stylebytma8095
    @stylebytma8095 2 роки тому

    Very wise man of God. I laughed and learned. God bless you sir 🙏

  • @chikauche8900
    @chikauche8900 2 роки тому

    Pst Kay u're just a blessing to me..God bless u loads .

  • @ibfrancistoomuch7408
    @ibfrancistoomuch7408 2 роки тому +2

    What a beautiful message 👏👏👏👏

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 роки тому

    God bless you Pst K

  • @KelechiIbeleche
    @KelechiIbeleche 2 роки тому

    That dorime part took me out😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pastor K!!!! I di okay!!!!! God bless you for the word!

  • @bamideleoluwatoyin7437
    @bamideleoluwatoyin7437 Рік тому

    This is beautiful.....thank you pastor!!!

  • @creativemecksdave1319
    @creativemecksdave1319 2 роки тому +21

    If you aren't HAPPY before marriage, YOU WILL NEVER BE HAPPY IN MARRIAGE.
    No human being CAN EVER MEET ALL YOUR NEEDS EXCEPT GOD.
    This lines for me are the PUNCHLINES!

  • @MmasichukwuMary
    @MmasichukwuMary 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks so much for the wisdom 🙏
    I had so much change of some of my mindset through this message ☺️

  • @tobestientertainment9620
    @tobestientertainment9620 2 роки тому

    Wow! God bless you and continue to increase your wisdom Pastor. You are a blessing to our generation. May you never lose your relevance in Jesus name.

  • @jennie5860
    @jennie5860 2 роки тому

    God bless you sir

  • @ayorindekoleosho3471
    @ayorindekoleosho3471 2 роки тому

    I hear you loud and clear Sir. God bless you for this message, Sire.

  • @annaogbeche2805
    @annaogbeche2805 2 роки тому

    God bless you PST.K

  • @danbliss1950
    @danbliss1950 2 роки тому +2

    THANKS PASTOR K, FOR THIS, SO INSPIRATIONAL

  • @EllatheFlutterfairy
    @EllatheFlutterfairy 2 роки тому

    No human being can meet all your needs