How To Know If He Really Loves You | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
  • Many times people ask this question and over time I have realized sadly, that a lot of people get moved by words and forget love is an action, so I thought to make this clear to everyone who needs to learn and know how love works.
    Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'How To Know If He Really Loves You'
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 156

  • @haniebrown8876
    @haniebrown8876 Рік тому +52

    Im glad I met this channel b4 I messed up things...... I've realised many red flags already. Thanks for the advice.

  • @oziiluv
    @oziiluv 11 місяців тому +12

    1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you.
    2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient.
    3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter.
    4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare.
    5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you.
    6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.

  • @PrettySarah31
    @PrettySarah31 2 роки тому +36

    These Honourable Pastors make serving God soooooo beautiful. Single women please let's be wise ooo

  • @damiflexsolutions
    @damiflexsolutions 2 роки тому +143

    Powerful message intro - 01:01
    How to know if he truly loves you
    1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39
    2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13
    3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12
    4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27
    5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04
    6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01

  • @ezinnepaul2999
    @ezinnepaul2999 2 роки тому +43

    So this guy really loves me this much. Father thank you for giving me the Best gift 🎁 in the world 🌎 ☺️

  • @ruthandrew3945
    @ruthandrew3945 2 роки тому +27

    Now I'm 100% sure my boyfriend truly loves me. Thank you sir 🙏

  • @abbagoziemsylvia6568
    @abbagoziemsylvia6568 2 роки тому +91

    I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour

  • @phoebeappiah1245
    @phoebeappiah1245 2 роки тому +16

    I hav ever ever see any pastor who coach like this before..... he is very intelligent

  • @vimilchar
    @vimilchar 2 роки тому +74

    Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah!
    Praise God!!!!

    • @speranzakiragu3491
      @speranzakiragu3491 2 роки тому +6

      Yes,,, but not all with big chains are false pastors,,,,,,

    • @Nurseafenomijessica
      @Nurseafenomijessica Рік тому +1

      There’s nothing wrong in a pastor wearing big ring or jewelries
      What!?? Hmm abeg abeg

    • @moureenmachanwe8986
      @moureenmachanwe8986 4 місяці тому

      Are you seriously focussing on what pastors put to listen to the message.. kindly check your intentions

  • @milikamalata7650
    @milikamalata7650 Рік тому +7

    You are the voice that we need in this generation Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for all this wisdom. Keep increasing 🙏🙏

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa854 2 роки тому +23

    Your messages have literally shaped my way of thinking sir and loving

  • @ernestmulenga3890
    @ernestmulenga3890 2 роки тому +36

    "I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva6345 2 роки тому +15

    Infatuation and obsessed can get mistaken for love!

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 2 роки тому +7

    What you are teaching us the generation our parents never teaches us this if they did .,…. God blessed your home sir

  • @daramolaayomide2859
    @daramolaayomide2859 Рік тому +6

    As soon as the red flag is seen runn
    True love reciprocates each other it’s not one sided

  • @zonywest4262
    @zonywest4262 2 роки тому +12

    Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!

  • @nyaramakurumidze9352
    @nyaramakurumidze9352 Рік тому +10

    l wish if all girls could listen to these wise words full of wisdom and build permanent homes for Christ.

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 2 роки тому +11

    Correct pst k. Sex confuses so many things.

  • @mirriamm.3277
    @mirriamm.3277 2 роки тому +15

    Amen... getting blessed by your insights on marriage and relationship....
    God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M....I love how you serve God together

  • @rianangaemaluta
    @rianangaemaluta 2 роки тому +10

    Eye opening message.. Thank you Pastor K 🙏❤️🖤💜
    The best relationship coach ever...

  • @bueze4016
    @bueze4016 2 роки тому +10

    Thank you sir. You re a good influence for our generation.

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper3610 2 роки тому +7

    You are a blessing to me daddy 💕, I'm really learning a lot

  • @wana4592
    @wana4592 2 роки тому +3

    Deep truth,,,, marriage is not a private issue,,,,, very important points raised!!!
    Thank you, Pastor K

  • @faithethomas2823
    @faithethomas2823 2 роки тому +26

    Very informative, I love it. This is coming from a man, listen very carefully.

  • @rhulanipoetryfactory7623
    @rhulanipoetryfactory7623 Рік тому +5

    This is wisdom- great wisdom. My eyes are opened, thank you Pastor.

  • @tinaluyo98
    @tinaluyo98 Рік тому +2

    Some truths are bitter to swallow but sweet when they get into the stomach. Thank you sir

  • @mscurvy6922
    @mscurvy6922 2 роки тому +15

    Love ..
    If a man loves you ..
    Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action!
    And same for a woman !
    If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!

  • @abigailojieh
    @abigailojieh 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you always Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings.They are always worth listening to.God bless you sir

  • @Marie_Doresse
    @Marie_Doresse 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Pastor K for this teaching

  • @Angiie._tm
    @Angiie._tm 2 місяці тому +1

    I love how we laugh while learning over here!😂😂👏🏽🔥

  • @anitaboima2582
    @anitaboima2582 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Lord am grateful to listen to this wonderful massage, well-done sir 👌

  • @sampsonhope8215
    @sampsonhope8215 2 роки тому +6

    You're very correct pastor K, obsession is oftenly mistaken for love and that's why whatever the lady will say doesn't count,God bless you pastor K

  • @gemanwaneri
    @gemanwaneri 2 роки тому +1

    Kia! Sir, You are so full of Wilson. More grace to you, pastor K.

  • @uchennakennedy65
    @uchennakennedy65 Рік тому +2

    Pastor k. Ur teachings are inspiring.. I got value from it.. thank you sir nd God bless you.

  • @user-od7ft8rt7t
    @user-od7ft8rt7t 6 місяців тому +2

    The 😂voices got to me😂... but great wisdom through God's vessel Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.

  • @victoriachidinma2019
    @victoriachidinma2019 Рік тому +3

    I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything...
    I'm grateful to God! He planned it!

    • @Agu-042
      @Agu-042 8 місяців тому

      I don't think sex after introduction is bad though....it's already official nau!

  • @comfortattah3623
    @comfortattah3623 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for your words of wisdom pastor

  • @happybutterfly7124
    @happybutterfly7124 Рік тому +3

    Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.

    • @jachinmajayc445
      @jachinmajayc445 Рік тому +2

      In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.

  • @zoefrancis4417
    @zoefrancis4417 2 роки тому +2

    May God strengthen you Pst K.

  • @Angiie._tm
    @Angiie._tm 2 місяці тому +1

    “They go dey call you our wife, they all know that you’re not the one”… “those boys are wicked” 😂😂🙌🏽

  • @maggiemkawuda5870
    @maggiemkawuda5870 2 роки тому +4

    Be blessed man of God

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu6954 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Pastor for putting us through. God bless you

  • @faithiris9614
    @faithiris9614 2 роки тому +1

    Finally am here ,I thank God

  • @TaiwoPeterOdeh
    @TaiwoPeterOdeh 2 роки тому +2

    I celebrate you Pst Kingsley

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much, Pastor K! This is the stuff to learn.

  • @ritakane2010
    @ritakane2010 Рік тому +1

    Well done PK, more grace 🙏

  • @MaryOsabutey-b9g
    @MaryOsabutey-b9g 2 місяці тому

    This is a powerful message of wisdom

  • @mihlalimirandambasane8340
    @mihlalimirandambasane8340 Рік тому +1

    Wow thank you Papa this is really helping alot.💯❤️🙏🙇🙇🙇🙇we really needed this🥺

  • @joycepatrick6862
    @joycepatrick6862 4 місяці тому

    All this is true.Thank you pastor

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful points
    Thank you Pst K

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 роки тому +2

    Real talk sir. You nailed it well.🎯

  • @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770
    @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770 Рік тому

    Thank you pastor 😌 By God's grace, I hope to bring my future husband to you as my distance mentor when I'm ready to marry 😊

  • @terryondecks350
    @terryondecks350 2 роки тому +1

    I've been waiting for this teaching for so long.I only had short clip❤

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 8 місяців тому +1

    Superb!!!!!!!!

  • @japhettonbrapade4112
    @japhettonbrapade4112 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you pastor sir this is an eye opener.

  • @nyagowalavender4455
    @nyagowalavender4455 Рік тому +2

    What a message. 🙏🏼

  • @citygirl237
    @citygirl237 2 роки тому +8

    "The food burn" 😂😂😂

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay7467 2 роки тому +1

    Great speech, thank you so much sir.

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 2 роки тому

    Always blessed by pastor K...God bless u Sir

  • @chidinmaokeke9909
    @chidinmaokeke9909 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u very much for the advice God bless you.

  • @ohonbazillah4547
    @ohonbazillah4547 2 роки тому

    Dear pastor, this is very interesting, thanks so much, God bless you

  • @serahmyls6208
    @serahmyls6208 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks Man of God ..be blessed 🙏🙏

  • @evahhonour5008
    @evahhonour5008 Рік тому

    Thank you Sir eye opening message.

  • @edehchioma2561
    @edehchioma2561 2 роки тому

    God bless you sir🙏🙏
    I’m always blessed by your words ......

  • @oluwadarasimi852
    @oluwadarasimi852 Рік тому

    Thanks you so much sir
    This is really helpful

  • @ebunlomooreoluwa
    @ebunlomooreoluwa Рік тому

    Thanks so much daddy...

  • @chinenyehappinesschidi5167
    @chinenyehappinesschidi5167 2 роки тому

    Thank You So Much Sir..
    God Bless You Richly 🙏🙌

  • @chimchimo.5050
    @chimchimo.5050 Рік тому

    Wow, this was very insightful 🥹👏🏾

  • @helendelailomaloma6249
    @helendelailomaloma6249 Рік тому

    Priceless!

  • @gemanwaneri
    @gemanwaneri 2 роки тому +2

    If he is hiding you, he is scamming you📌

  • @Nikky707
    @Nikky707 2 роки тому

    Wonderful message

  • @anazodoifunanyac
    @anazodoifunanyac 2 роки тому

    Very educative. This video was reposted

  • @deborahakindeko2040
    @deborahakindeko2040 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Pastor

  • @mercyn5422
    @mercyn5422 2 роки тому

    Wow!!! Thank you sir

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom147 2 роки тому +31

    "She thinks because she's cooking for us, we will vote her. Don't marry her" 😂😂😂😂My goodness

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone1997 2 роки тому

    Can't wait for that of the famales

  • @ifeomadibiagwu9528
    @ifeomadibiagwu9528 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much sir. This is very helpful ❤️

  • @otobongedem9586
    @otobongedem9586 2 роки тому

    Very helpful thank you

  • @proxpee8984
    @proxpee8984 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much sir

  • @shedrachameachi8183
    @shedrachameachi8183 2 роки тому

    Thank uh sir for this 😊😌😌😌

  • @angelknight6626
    @angelknight6626 Рік тому

    Alwayz love your teachings but thought you said you was gonna teach 6 each n 7 combined...I was disappointed it finished so quickly 🙄😔😉

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph 2 роки тому +1

    Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.

  • @ufink
    @ufink 2 роки тому +5

    So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 Рік тому +3

      I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity
      A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration

  • @goodnessogbonna9851
    @goodnessogbonna9851 2 роки тому

    Thank you for all you do sir
    God continue to bless you

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_ 2 роки тому +22

    Every fornicator is an adulterer in training!!!

  • @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461
    @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461 2 роки тому +1

    My mum can’t wait to get to Canada oh🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand the joke wella🤣🤣🤣

  • @ElizabethBimela
    @ElizabethBimela 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌

  • @lExN34
    @lExN34 4 місяці тому

    But PK 😂😂😂, The first voice change I actually thought my speaker had malfunctioned 😂🤣

  • @moeshaj.6637
    @moeshaj.6637 Рік тому +1

    Loved this 😂😂

  • @favourewere
    @favourewere Рік тому

    This so true

  • @aregbesolazainab9267
    @aregbesolazainab9267 2 роки тому +1

    Ahhhhh chai…… too bitter truth 😭

  • @neroonose4585
    @neroonose4585 2 роки тому +2

    The voice change to 😂😂

  • @ambassadoremmanuel1553
    @ambassadoremmanuel1553 Рік тому

    Please how dp i get the concluding part of this message because im eager to hear what he says about guys

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 2 роки тому +1

    Lol separating anxiety 😅 🙃 😬

  • @successokoro5959
    @successokoro5959 Рік тому

    Is now I know am not in relationship at all 😩😩

  • @vickyneldo9994
    @vickyneldo9994 10 місяців тому

    Well sir am feeling worse now 😂😭💔

  • @sarahtamale8109
    @sarahtamale8109 2 роки тому +1

    Our wife😂😂😂😂

  • @christyamaso26
    @christyamaso26 2 роки тому +2

    We can't marry under the chair😂

  • @solomone94
    @solomone94 Рік тому

    I show my now girlfriend to everyone 🤗

  • @brendandong9344
    @brendandong9344 Рік тому

    Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?

    • @adedoyinbadejo679
      @adedoyinbadejo679 Рік тому +1

      He should have all, these are the bare minimum if a man loves you, he must have all these qualities

    • @laraiyammah9467
      @laraiyammah9467 Рік тому +1

      What is lacking now, are you ready to deal with it for the rest of your life?. Think about it