When you're locked up, you NEED someone on the outside to help you out. Putting money on your books, sending books, contacts, and someone to talk to daily to keep you sane. The loneliness of being physically separated from society is staggering, and without someone to come visit you it must be unbearable. Once he gets out, its gonna be an entirely different story. He can go anywhere, talk to anyone he wants. She's in control now, but when he gets out that whole dynamic is about to change for real.
My bestfriend was with a man in prison. She waited for him for years. He quit talking to her with no explanation 1 month before he got released. He got released & never contacted her.
When I was very very young, I met a guy through a friend in prison. I wrote him, bought him treats, and fell hard. Another man came along in the mean time, who I actually fell in love and started a family with. Years, and years later I reconnected to the guy I wrote in prison, only to find out everything he told me was a lie. His dad wasn't dead like he told me he was. It's scary wondering how, if he was planning on being with me, he was going to hide that. He's spent his life in and out of prison, even once being arrested for kicking a puppy. I'm so glad fate intervened and ended this stupid mistake I was making. It's easy to be prince charming in a letter, when you have no way to prove her wrong because you're locked up.
Nikki Revell im sure shes smart enough to know otherwise. Women ignore red flags all the time, in a prison relationship or not. This shouldnt be the case just because hes an inmate.
He missed his 20s. Girl he's going to want to live them when he gets out, not be tied to one woman playing family. She was his rock when he was in prison, but is she really the one he want's to spend the rest of his life with? Absolutely not.
dingo1666 periodddd. He’s gonna make all her hair fall out worrying over that man. 😫 lol (hopefully not) He hasn’t even seen a smartphone or social media. 🤯
pre119 Facebook was started in 2006. That’s 14 years. He know what social media is as well as MySpace was before that. He probably has a myspace🤣 from back in the day. I’ve had my Facebook since 2006 and had a MySpace before that
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Dear Carla, I worked in a mens prison (18 years, I finished last Oct 2019) I met a lot of men who do play several women for money, books, company etc. Thats the norm. Those men were mostly repeat offenders and came back inside. Also in those years were a handful of men who genuinely changed for the better, completed degrees/diplomas, learnt new skills left their old affiliations and made a go of their relationships and don’t return to prison. They did that with support from friends, family, loved ones. Mind you, a handful. In saying this, as a woman, I have personal pride within me for their success. Through support, love or whatever chance or glimmer of light they are given, I saw some men grab onto it like a lifeline. Only you will know the outcome on his release. I wish you the best and hope he is also amongst the few I have seen. Prison is a hard place to find and hold on to hope, yet it has been done.
Cassandra Castillo She has a UA-cam channel and it seems she’s planning to document their journey once he’s out. Forgot what it’s called, but she’s somewhere in the comments
@rrr ccc 😁😁🤣🤣 That's what I thought too. She's naive and kinda stupid. Of course he is lovey dovey to her because he's in jail and need someone to talk to. 🤣
Yanita it’s gonna be called “ghost” cause that’s what’s he’s gonna be when he gets out. 🤣 she ain’t gonna see him he will take what he can and disappear
That guy wants to do him, yeah he is going to do him because that's all he's known. He doesn't know how to pay bills and hasn't had any real life experience!
@@Carla_GUUURL if it does happen, or anything bad happens I hope you have the same attitude and just be safe my only concern here is your well being. My mother got her heart broken in the same situation but as long as you've already thought all these things out I think you'll be fine, just please be careful and remain safe. You're too beautiful to go out like that
I was in prison with Erick. Hes a man who wants to change. He did what he did because of his gang.but he no longer is part of that lifestyle. I did the same and I have been out 4 years. I have a beautiful wife and a 3 year old daughter. I gave up smoking drinking and now share the Lord's gospel in the streets. God changed my life and I know he will do the same for Erick. Don't judge someone because of his past.
The sad thing is you calling her dumb when you dont even know her. She is a lot more than a prison wife. Shes educated, an advocate and gives back to her community. Dont be mean
She is so nieve..wait till he gets out of prison, he will be sure to dump her...she is so desperate, it's sad...she's in la-la land...he's using her - he has nobody to talk to....
my nephew is in prison pelican nay state prison. hes in there for murder n attempted while i prison. hes with the big homies from all the prison gangs and he has a heart of gold respect class compassion..your comment and ones that liked it should not be speaking on something they no nothing about
Abie Maese sorry to hear that and im sure he does but i wasn’t referring to your nephew or just anyone. simply saying its foolish to assume a cute letter automatically means someone isnt crazy especially when she didnt know him beforehand.
Wilfredo A Nunez Pacheco i had a guy i met like 3 times from my neighborhood send me a whole bunch of those lil love letters and drawings and try to call me everyday when he got locked. just saying it doesnt mean much most of it is loneliness and boredom.
I'm not here to judge but I guess she just enjoys the "long distance" romance and all the letters, but when he'll get out I'm not sure it's gonna work. But it's just my opinion
I too married a man who I met the same way she did. The two years while he was inside was amazing. I got all the same kind of prison Love notes and cards that she did. Unfortunately I was sold the penatentry dream and I fell hard and fast. Once released it all changed. When he got out the reintegration into society was hard on him and trying to find a job as a felon was hard so I supported him financially. He lasted 3 months before he fell back into his old ways. Even though my experience was awful and he ruined my life not only emotionally but physically he did give me my beautiful daughter. He is currently back in jail doing a 7 to 15 year stint. I hope hers lasts forever and she did met her soulmate!!
@@chazzyloveee yes there is still lingering anger especially dealing with a 14 year old girl who loves her daddy even though he is an idiot and can't stay out of jail. She is my main concern. She is used to him going in and out but never this long.
@Phoenix Rich This is not okay. Even if you disagree with someone’s opinions, you should never discriminate or talk shamefully of them. You would be sad or angry if someone insulted you, so don’t do it to someone else. Thank you for your understanding and I hope you learn to respectfully disagree with someone in the future.
@@alli3713 I don't know what the attraction is with prison guys but I think most women that looking for a tough guy to protect them if that's what it's all about..
@@alexxie8243 it's funny you say that I see the old time as well you think they've been on documentaries where women do penpals with criminals and Crooks just to get disappointed the guy comes out that what he wants and he runs he just using them because he's lonely in prison if in doubt it looks like a tough guy is really a coward...
@@alexxie8243 it's kind of sad in a way because there's plenty of good men out here but women like that tend to go after guys in prison or thugs I think it's a power thing they want to think that these guys will protect them that's what it's all about I think....
she needs to get some standards and think of her future, he won't be able to have a normal life and hers will change drastically. I hope she don't mind taking care of the dude because that's exactly what's going to happen...
So true, because of his record he will have a hard time finding a job. She will be financially responsible for him. I did the same thing so I have no right to judge and my penatentry romance turned into a nightmare that lasted 8 years and ended with me now having PTSD from the abuse that I went thru BUT I did get the most beautiful gift also my daughter!!!
@@youdontknowme6827 she's in the comments defending herself and her hubby as if she has to prove it. My cousin would date girls while he was locked up and he would have them send him money and visit, when he would get out her go back to the same old and he'd try to get his new boo into drugs and to support him...it's disgusting.
@@lynne99 your cousin is obviously a career criminal. I just hope he has changed. He could very well be a great person. He went on young so he can mature and change BUT its gonna be hard on both of them. I know the battle that's ahead of them and it isn't easy.
As soon as he gets out I’m not sure he will be that faithful to her sorry to say ! The happy endings don’t always last when you have been locked up for so long it will be very overwhelming for him
To be honest I think she is so insecure that she is probably deep down glad she knows exactly where he is and that he can't cheat. It will be a disaster when he gets out and tries to catch up with his missing youth. Which he will and should do.
Silly woman. Imagine all the time this guy in prison has to write the letters. Of course he's going to tell you that you're the most beautiful woman in the world. He probably just wants someone to speak to so his time goes by "faster" and not as "lonely". This woman is delusional and she will find out sooner or later, :/
If that happens then I will did. A new man and move on like it ain’t that serious guys foreals!!! If he leaves then byeeeee so thanks for the concern I really appreciate it but I will update everyone on what happens
Beyond the Bars with The Aguirre's, you are so young & pretty why get close to someone in prison, it's not the same as holding the person and getting to know the real person that he is, you can find someone right quit!! be careful! love from chicago!
Some ppl learn after being locked up..& some ppl dont. I hope for your sake he's everything you are hoping he will be. Not gonna judge, but... if you should ever see a bit of violence in him, END IT & DONT LOOK BACK. You are a beautiful woman with a big ❤ so you wont have a problem. Work on "Self esteem ". You are deserving.
She says he missed his 20s and drinking and partying like it’s not his fault. Like he was in the hospital sick or something. No, he chose to almost murder someone. If he wanted to spend his 20s drinking and partying, maybe he shouldn’t have tried to murder someone 🤷🏼♀️
She literally does not know this guy at all. How scary :/ I'm glad she doesnt have any kids shes putting in danger with this relationship.she must not have good self esteem . I really hope he treats her good when he gets out . I wouldnt ever do that but for her sake I do hope it works and hes not crazy. Like that funky paperboy movie the dude is sending all these love letters and then gets out and becomes violent and kills her. 😱
I went through something similar. However, I was already dating my husband when he got arrested. He was living a secret life and we married when he was in county jail. He served 5 years of his 8 yr sentence in prison. I was faithful and traveled to every location he transferred. I supported him financially and always made sure he got his visits, money on his books and answered all his calls. He took college courses and became so attentive and the sweetest ever. I thought our relationship became stronger & he had changed for the best. All changed the very first day he got released. I took a long road trip & picked him up. First thing he did was take off with my car & didn’t come back until 2 days later. He became aggressive and abusive towards me. I kicked him out right away and now I’m waiting for my divorce to finalize. I wasted 5 good years of my life for him being loyal & sacrificing my time and never going out. I hope this doesn’t happen to her but mine was out only 4 mths and hoy rearrested for robbery again. He is a very manipulative, selfish, narcissistic evil person. These type of men can be conniving con artists. They’re masters at obtaining what they & lack empathy over others. Best of luck to her. I learned my lesson & I know now more than Ever that I deserve better. I’m an attractive, independent & successful woman. I’m happily single and living my life peacefully.
She seems so sweet and you can tell she is in love and he sounds like he is in love with her and he seems like he is gonna be the best for her.I hope I’m not wrong but I wish the best for the both of them.
When he told her about his three jobs he seemed excited, and she didn't ask what they were or anything. She asked will you get paid, then said don't eff up anyone hair. Two wholly negative responses. They won't last when he gets out.
It’s sweet that she’s been there for him for almost the entire time. He still has feelings, he’s still a human being. I hope he’s learned a lot and changed as a person so he can still have a good life
I get you girl. I’ve been the one on the inside many times, but I finally changed my life. It helps so much when they have someone stable to count on. I hope that he is making all the personal changes necessary for his sake and you because you seem so sweet. But I am not the judge of that so I wish you well!!!
People change people's heart, experience changes people's hearts. God would be a psychopath if he makes the guy a criminal, sends him to jail and then changes his heart. Why not just make the guy nice from the onset? God seems to enjoy a good drama at the expense of his [pets] human's well being...
@@brendaluna173 I think they mean because many Christians believe that their god created absolutely everything in existence and that will ever exist. Including a destiny for all people. Or that he could have not made him or other people capable of or want to murder in the first place.
My man is in prison too. I'm not married yet but I get where she's coming from. It's a different kind of love. A love no one but you can experience and can feel it. It's a huge commitment and I love it we learned so much about each other over the years.! You do you girl:)
I'm on the fence with this, but I won't cast judgement on someone's journey. As long as she is happy and he is happy, then let them be. Life is all about learning lessons and growth. I wish only the best for them. ❤️
My best was a correctional officer, she felt in love with an inmate. Exactly what he did, murdered. Once he got out, he moved in with her and 2 kids. He rapped, murdered one, the other made alive , he fired the house. While my friend was working. I would not trust him at all.
everyone here thinking he's gonna cheat on her or leave her when he's out, and I'm just wondering if he'll even be able to have someone hire him knowing his past record! People dont even wanna hire you for smaller petty crimes, let alone attempted murder! 🤷♀️ Welp, good luck to them and hope he changes for the better 😅
@carly lester 😔 I know it's trash but my cousin has been deemed a danger to the public, been in fed prison more than he had been out. But construction and roofing has always hired him. Even fresh out. I hope you will find something you enjoy doing for work some day♥️ or your state at least gets more job opportunities for people with records. Can never go wrong with art, doing hair & nails, custom clothing lines etc I have faith in you, Never limit yourself✨💪
While all are thinking this girl is crazy, I’m sitting here concerned for her sister-in-law’s teeth 😳 that poor girl dealing with them teeth and the process of fixing them with braces 🤦🏻♀️
NattieMaddie Luv Yes, it is fixable. The braces are adjusted specifically to move your teeth into place and make space for where the missing teeth should go. Then they are taken off and you are able to be fitted for implants or partial dentures.
This is clearly her first boyfriend.. “When someone says they’re going to call you at a certain time you need to call even if you’re in prison”, OMJESUS nuts.
I was on a message board for people with spouses and loved ones in prison, when my ex was in jail for 10 months. So many of the relationships that began after the person was incarcerated ended up falling apart once the person was released.
Butterfly Perez my fiancé is in prison, we knew each other before he was locked up. He was set up, and they attacked him, he defended himself. The person was is expired and my fiancé was sentenced. Yet he will be home soon. He is a father, barber, writer, entrepreneur and youth mentor. I work with helping lower recidivism and help change the justice system from overly harsh sentences that are unfair to black and brown communities. Life is crazy and things happen. Hell Trump has 166k plus deaths on his belt. But ppl make mistakes and grow and learn from them. So to answer your question yes. I know him and you don’t therefore you judge ppl for no reason. I’m pretty sure your a so called god fearing person. I work in my community, I help ppl get back on track, and create better life opportunities for ppl like him. What do you do to help ppl? Also research Dave’s Killer Bread ... and then tell me if ppl can change or you still judge. And his pockets and success may be greater than yours.
My mother is in prison for murder. She had a repeated history of violence towards her children and attempted assault with a deadly weapon against my dad prior to her murdering her third husband. Now her third husband had the same way of thinking as you , he thought that he could change her and influence her to be better ,both volunteering in helping the homeless which was amazing but the thing about that is just because she was doing outside things in helping the world didnt mean that her heart was right. She still had a lot of rage and hatred inside of her . She chose to not heal any wounds inside of her heart, to not allow God to transform her from the inside out. We have been given discernment and wisdom for a reason , and if a person shows you who they are, believe them. And if you choose to ignore the red flags because you want to see the good in people. God can transform anyone but that person has to have that desire to change. And I work with children with learning disabilities. I work to lift up their broken spirits and show them how valuable and worthy they really are. So that's what I do to help others.
I’m married to a ex prisoner he was very violent in his past but he’s so amazing and great dad so don’t judge by a past people change and circumstances are big....
I got married to a man a prison!!!! He did 13 years as well his name is Eric and he did a violent crime.....When he got home which was May of 2021 we spent a year together and he left 2 months ago with no words...LADIES SAVE YOUR HEART AND DIGNITY DONT MARRY MEN IN PRISON....you don't know them if they really love you they will wait to marry you...stay safe out there life is to short
megan griffith He won’t. The plans he had during his 13 years in prison tells me he’s a changed man. All of you guys are judging, but the fact that he calls her almost every day, means something. Some of you don’t know true love when you see it. And how can you assume that he will fall back in the gang when YOU haven’t met him? That’s right, you can’t.
@@deannaswope7856 lmao don't be silly. None of us are judging. We're being realistic. Barely any prison relationships last. And cause he calls her everyday it's real? Lmaooo I know SO MANY people who talked to someone jailed. Got calls everyday just to get dropped when they were released. Pull the wool from your eyes, your blinded.
Cloud420 barely any prison relationship lasts 🤣 clearly you dont understand or realize it’s up to only two individuals for a relationship or relationships to work in general. Been in prison is a situation that comes up but most definitely is t the end of the world! me and my man we’re together prior and we still made it through this time with only some months left to go it’s made our bond and our connection even our love stronger then before. Seeing the other person whom you love so much & the loyalty how could a normal person & a guy with 0 bad behavior for his whole BID & with no bad intentions towards her yet - not see and realize Carla is like a trophy?! Get real!!!! 💁🏽♀️
"When people hear I'm married to someone in prison they think he is a criminal" Well, that's because he is?? Also does she really think just to fact that it was attempted murder and he didn't actually murder someone that it's all fine and dandy? As soon as he gets out, I have no doubt in my mind that he isn't gonna be interested in her whatsoever. Shes his tie to the outside world, that's all. As soon as he is out, he is free to do whatever he wants.
Don’t get it why some women are that desperate to find a man in prison. Most people who save long sentences don’t rehabilitate but become good at committing crimes. Watch your back once he is out.
It's not about being desperate it's about the heart. If he says and does the right things anyone can fall for them. I had an active dating life and was in no way desperate but when I met my ex he said things that no one else did. It was all emotional not physical. We talked for hours on end about everything and sex had nothing to do with it.
“I don’t want McDonald’s” Meanwhile last night I asked my husband to drive me to one at midnight. That’s the love of my life all cause he bought me nuggets a burger and fries 😂
Karla stay strong for Eric, prison was created to destroy relationships but those that thrive in the midst have a passion and strength like no other. I'm happy for your love! Embrace all of the new moments and let one another be each others anchor as he soon re-enters society.
Wait didn't she say she met him a year into his prison sentence? Then when her friend Alyssa and her we're talking she said "do you remember the time I first told you? I called and said Alyssa...he got locked up" And Alyssa goes "yeah I was like, omg he got locked up?" Im so confused! So did her friends not know she met him WHILE he was in prison through a pen pal situation?!? I must be missing something
I was thinking the same thing. Then she said he was in there for 13 years, met him a year in so that would have meant he had 12 years left at that point, but her sister-in-law said "he's been there for like 7 years", Alyssa said he's been gone 10. She also showed that drawing and said "he did it right after he got there in 2010/2011" so that's only 8/9 years ago.. But you're right. She said her cousin got her to write him in prison and she wasn't sure, but then yeah, was talking like "remember when I told you he got locked up?" So it's all kinda confusing tbh
When people ask what did he go to prison for for killing somebody or something close to that when you hear a sentence like that you know to run this girl is crazy😂
It helps the time when you have someone to talk to , and gives you something to day dream about when you get out . But when you get out you want to be free ,
Hope it works out for her but she has to know that people in jail for 13 years are so desperate for any kind of attention that they would talk to a volleyball for 13 years if need be.
Update: he got deported to Mexico. She gave him her phone. He still didn’t call her alot because he was “sleeping.” He is being the best man he can be in Mexico. He walked down the street and looked for an apartment. She’s so proud of him. She trust him because he drew her a picture. Soooooooo yeah...The end. 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ hope it works out buttttttt he wasn’t in jail for singing the loudest in church. She seems to be fighting everyone in the comments who has an opinion. You knew how mean the internet was before you signed up to the show acting like he was a catch.. p.s- stop asking if we wanna go to the club with you when he leaves you. No we do not. You already proved you don’t make the best decisions. But anyways, good luck girl... p.p.s-girl get your phone back.
I am married to a man in prison as well. I married him there as well. I wait for the phone to ring also. My husband comes home in 4 months. We been married 4 years.
*AAAaargh! All these negative comments about these 2 random strangers you've never met!* It's called *LOVE DON'T JUDGE* I just see 2 human beings who experience emotions like you and I. *I'M NOT JUDGING* and wish these 2 a happy life!
I dont think they are negative comments. They are comments of concern. There are alot of women that would be alive today if somebody told them not to do it. Positivity is not always supporting dumb decisions.
Why would he be completely different after just sitting in a cell for years. I'm not doubting him. Im doubting that someone will change from a intervention of doing nothing.
They don’t sound like a married couple to me. Their phone convo just felt.... off. They talk like me and my ex did. Superficially. And that relationship was a joke and horrible.
Katelynne Wenzoski ya but u know what if u love him for who he actually is if she’s happy and she loves him there’s not a lot of women that would wait years for there man to get out my fiancé was in for 2 years and now we’re getting married so unless u go through it u wouldn’t understand
Wow a lot of negative comments, people do change obviously and you can’t just assume that once he gets out he’ll go back to doing the same thing, he was in there for 13 years...
When you're locked up, you NEED someone on the outside to help you out. Putting money on your books, sending books, contacts, and someone to talk to daily to keep you sane. The loneliness of being physically separated from society is staggering, and without someone to come visit you it must be unbearable. Once he gets out, its gonna be an entirely different story. He can go anywhere, talk to anyone he wants. She's in control now, but when he gets out that whole dynamic is about to change for real.
I guess they are both stupid and horrible. He is in prison. Seriously, sub to mine you fox.
@@LilWhitePrivileged it's an old photo
@@LilWhitePrivileged Why would someone want to sub to a Incel. haha. Someone is desperate. Its not the woman on here.
Jennifer M YES!
It looks like you're getting hit on by a white nationalist. 🤢.
The way she chuckled about his crime was like a teenage girl chuckling about her crush walking by.
Just from the comments she is a attention seeker.
That would concern me, if I was her mother.
Yesssss imagine how the victim &thebfamily must feel
Lol
@@tiamarie6719 0
She needs to have a conversation with the person he attempted to murder. She might change her mind then. hmhmm
T Rob 🤭
actually not
Beyond the Bars with The Aguirre's did you actually have a convo with the victim?
Beyond the Bars with The Aguirre's
It’s you in the vid! How are you doing?? I hope everything is fine with you both 💕
M Raven yes it’s me.
What kind of friend hooks you up with a man in prison 🤦🏽♀️😭😭😭
That makes me laugh loud
A very good friend 😂😂😂😂
@@stormnews3379 😬 🙄
😂😂😂😂lol!!!!
I know right 💯
"If he was a hardcore crazy person he wouldn't be sending all this lovey, dovey stuff." 🙄🙄🤨🤔🤔 Has ANYONE ever told her about Ted Bundy?! 🤔🤔🤦🏾♀️🤣🤣🤣
StephSays 503 she would fell in love with him too
I was thinking the same damn thing
I know, right??
She is beyond dangerously naive.
I immediately thought the same 😆
StephSays 503 SHES CLEARLY BEEN LIVIN UNDER A FOOKEN ROCK
My bestfriend was with a man in prison. She waited for him for years. He quit talking to her with no explanation 1 month before he got released. He got released & never contacted her.
Daaaaaaaang. Im so sorry that happened to her.
Wow that's crazy but not surprised at all
When I was very very young, I met a guy through a friend in prison. I wrote him, bought him treats, and fell hard. Another man came along in the mean time, who I actually fell in love and started a family with. Years, and years later I reconnected to the guy I wrote in prison, only to find out everything he told me was a lie. His dad wasn't dead like he told me he was. It's scary wondering how, if he was planning on being with me, he was going to hide that. He's spent his life in and out of prison, even once being arrested for kicking a puppy. I'm so glad fate intervened and ended this stupid mistake I was making. It's easy to be prince charming in a letter, when you have no way to prove her wrong because you're locked up.
Jas Mariee how is your friend doing since that happened?
Best thing that happened to her, probably just a sociopath using her while in need
She refers to his crimes while chuckling. Really?!
;)
I agree with you I don't know what the attraction is with a lot of you women loving these bad boys Uggs..
someone can be like that when their nervous/awrkard
Desiree Salas she mentally unstable too...
Clearly it was awkward laughter.. she's known about his crimes for 9 years she's not going to start crying is she
Men in prison use women like her while they do their time...but i pray for her sake he's legit
And the way around is right cuz that girl used my male friend when he was 20
Same.
He’s not
Nikki Revell im sure shes smart enough to know otherwise. Women ignore red flags all the time, in a prison relationship or not. This shouldnt be the case just because hes an inmate.
Men outside of jail use women too aoooo
He missed his 20s. Girl he's going to want to live them when he gets out, not be tied to one woman playing family. She was his rock when he was in prison, but is she really the one he want's to spend the rest of his life with? Absolutely not.
dingo1666 Maybe he needed her to put money in his prison cash account? Hope he’s as loyal as she is‼️
Yesss !!! I couldn’t have said it better !
dingo1666 that’s sad but hopefully they’ll stay together
dingo1666 periodddd. He’s gonna make all her hair fall out worrying over that man. 😫 lol (hopefully not) He hasn’t even seen a smartphone or social media. 🤯
pre119 Facebook was started in 2006. That’s 14 years. He know what social media is as well as MySpace was before that. He probably has a myspace🤣 from back in the day. I’ve had my Facebook since 2006 and had a MySpace before that
She acts like a 7th grade girl with her first boyfriend.....
I wish that would be me ):
Babyana Vlogss you wish you had a husband in prison 🤣really??
El Guapo nooo she said that she acts like A 7th grader with her fist boyfriend meaning that I wish when I was at 7th grader I had boyfriend lol
Probably is her first.
Sad but true not all adults are emotionally mature
When he gets out we need an UPDATE!!!
I wonder if they are still together
Yes please!!!
Domiiniique Moore most likely not
Literally!!
She has a youtube channel and she’s going to document the whole thing
Ted Bundy had a gf with a young daughter who LOVED him, John Wayne Gacey had a wife and family.....killers can do "lovey dovey" stuff too 🙄
Actually Ted and Carol got married
@@bellaluvv6159 Yep. They sure were. 🙄
@@bellaluvv6159 Good old Death Row families.
Danielle Nichols YES! I thought the same thing!
💚.😂
You could tell her having a husband in prison for is her whole persona. She thrives on the attention. Weird.
100% there's an odd group of women who are super into convicts and inmates
Shes commented on other comments and she has a youtube dedicated to it. Just started it two months ago-probably to be in time for this airing. Yeah.
I notice that too
maplejake Emotionally or in this case physically unavailable men.
@@maplejakee my mom was one of them
She just likes the fact that he's a bad boi.
Lol 😂 right
Yup until he starts doing bad boi things to her then she won’t think it’s cute nor chuckle at his previous convictions. Such an idiot🤦🏻♀️
Hahahahaha
He ain’t bad. He’s stupid. Big difference.
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Dear Carla, I worked in a mens prison (18 years, I finished last Oct 2019) I met a lot of men who do play several women for money, books, company etc. Thats the norm. Those men were mostly repeat offenders and came back inside. Also in those years were a handful of men who genuinely changed for the better, completed degrees/diplomas, learnt new skills left their old affiliations and made a go of their relationships and don’t return to prison. They did that with support from friends, family, loved ones. Mind you, a handful. In saying this, as a woman, I have personal pride within me for their success. Through support, love or whatever chance or glimmer of light they are given, I saw some men grab onto it like a lifeline. Only you will know the outcome on his release. I wish you the best and hope he is also amongst the few I have seen. Prison is a hard place to find and hold on to hope, yet it has been done.
Well they are still together and he’s out and they now have a family so 🤷🏼♀️
@@savannahleblanc4929 where did u get that info?
Best comment I've read so far.
Barcroft TV you could have waited until he got out to film this we need closure!
Cassandra Castillo She has a UA-cam channel and it seems she’s planning to document their journey once he’s out. Forgot what it’s called, but she’s somewhere in the comments
rrr ccc Thank you! 🙏🏻
@rrr ccc 😁😁🤣🤣
That's what I thought too. She's naive and kinda stupid. Of course he is lovey dovey to her because he's in jail and need someone to talk to. 🤣
Cassandra Castillo lmao
Yanita it’s gonna be called “ghost” cause that’s what’s he’s gonna be when he gets out. 🤣 she ain’t gonna see him he will take what he can and disappear
I am judging . . .
Dude, you're a Bronie... the Criminal is the one judging you. :v
You literally have a my little pony profile pic I know damn well you ain’t judging 😂😂
Jackie Ctl 😂
Davi de Assis I’m actually a girl
Coming from a Bronie
Wasting her life
That guy wants to do him, yeah he is going to do him because that's all he's known. He doesn't know how to pay bills and hasn't had any real life experience!
Truth !!!!
Clearly she's not the sharpest tool in the box. This is gunna end in heartache on her part. Just a sad fact.
Alexxii yes but if we break up. Ima get me a new man so it’s okay. You wanna come clubbing with me when that happens?
@@Carla_GUUURL if it does happen, or anything bad happens I hope you have the same attitude and just be safe my only concern here is your well being.
My mother got her heart broken in the same situation but as long as you've already thought all these things out I think you'll be fine, just please be careful and remain safe. You're too beautiful to go out like that
That's what you women like
I was in prison with Erick. Hes a man who wants to change. He did what he did because of his gang.but he no longer is part of that lifestyle. I did the same and I have been out 4 years. I have a beautiful wife and a 3 year old daughter. I gave up smoking drinking and now share the Lord's gospel in the streets. God changed my life and I know he will do the same for Erick. Don't judge someone because of his past.
The sad thing is you calling her dumb when you dont even know her. She is a lot more than a prison wife. Shes educated, an advocate and gives back to her community. Dont be mean
2023 update: she’s divorced with child and apparently Erik does nothing for the child. Sad outcome.
She is so nieve..wait till he gets out of prison, he will be sure to dump her...she is so desperate, it's sad...she's in la-la land...he's using her - he has nobody to talk to....
Fr. Gonna dump her in the river 😱
C K ur so right
June 🤣😂
so true
Yup!
She acts like she’s a fan of him or something
HAHAHAHA!!!
I AM!!!! #groupie
@@Carla_GUUURL Is your husband out of prison? How are things going?
Belleza 214 he will be out in April
“if he was really a hardcore crazy person he wouldnt be sending all this lovey dovey stuff” yeah okay.. she must not have seen You
my nephew is in prison pelican nay state prison. hes in there for murder n attempted while i prison. hes with the big homies from all the prison gangs and he has a heart of gold respect class compassion..your comment and ones that liked it should not be speaking on something they no nothing about
That’s a Netflix show, not reality. If you’re going to hate on something she said use a real fact or case not a scripted fictional show. 🙄
Abie Maese sorry to hear that and im sure he does but i wasn’t referring to your nephew or just anyone. simply saying its foolish to assume a cute letter automatically means someone isnt crazy especially when she didnt know him beforehand.
Wilfredo A Nunez Pacheco i had a guy i met like 3 times from my neighborhood send me a whole bunch of those lil love letters and drawings and try to call me everyday when he got locked. just saying it doesnt mean much most of it is loneliness and boredom.
Crazy people fall in love too.
So she's desperate for him to call... he calls...
Her : heeeey.... long pause.
Her : nothing.. just sitting down...
Riveting!!! 🙄
Hahahha seriously!!
Lol 😂
Lol
🤣🤣🤣
Theres cameras on her face 😒
I'm not here to judge but I guess she just enjoys the "long distance" romance and all the letters, but when he'll get out I'm not sure it's gonna work. But it's just my opinion
They’re together still, he’s out and has Been for a year
@@user-dz7dm1tv1z Can you send me the link to show me?
I too married a man who I met the same way she did. The two years while he was inside was amazing. I got all the same kind of prison Love notes and cards that she did. Unfortunately I was sold the penatentry dream and I fell hard and fast. Once released it all changed. When he got out the reintegration into society was hard on him and trying to find a job as a felon was hard so I supported him financially. He lasted 3 months before he fell back into his old ways.
Even though my experience was awful and he ruined my life not only emotionally but physically he did give me my beautiful daughter. He is currently back in jail doing a 7 to 15 year stint.
I hope hers lasts forever and she did met her soulmate!!
Bored Pancreatitis Warrior well said
I hope you are doing okay now
@@chazzyloveee yes there is still lingering anger especially dealing with a 14 year old girl who loves her daddy even though he is an idiot and can't stay out of jail. She is my main concern. She is used to him going in and out but never this long.
Wish you the best for you and your daughter. Thank you for sharing your story, you are so brave
Wow hun that was really powerful! I hope that doesn't fall apon deaf ears. I wish u and ur daughter peace n happiness.
Plot twist: he tried killing his first wife.
LeahAtz lmao that’s a good one 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✌
@Phoenix Rich This is not okay. Even if you disagree with someone’s opinions, you should never discriminate or talk shamefully of them. You would be sad or angry if someone insulted you, so don’t do it to someone else. Thank you for your understanding and I hope you learn to respectfully disagree with someone in the future.
Phoenix Rich That's kind of rude.
@@phoenixrich149 what does her body have anything to do with it!! Skinny girls, fat girls, tall and short all fall for inmates!!!
She also got to be careful it could be just use now because he needs the company... then when he gets out having sex then move on..
ska punk OI! alternative living true
@@alli3713 I don't know what the attraction is with prison guys but I think most women that looking for a tough guy to protect them if that's what it's all about..
My thoughts exactly i see it all the time
@@alexxie8243 it's funny you say that I see the old time as well you think they've been on documentaries where women do penpals with criminals and Crooks just to get disappointed the guy comes out that what he wants and he runs he just using them because he's lonely in prison if in doubt it looks like a tough guy is really a coward...
@@alexxie8243 it's kind of sad in a way because there's plenty of good men out here but women like that tend to go after guys in prison or thugs I think it's a power thing they want to think that these guys will protect them that's what it's all about I think....
She comes off like she’s proud to have a prisoner. Like she can show him off for being ‘tough’
Yeah shes a Prisonrat. Shes one of those girls that loves telling people her mans locked up.
Kim Chi exactly how I felt
Man: attempts murder
Woman: "you are crazy"🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Maybe u will be his victim when he out
@@lizzann2535 i hope hun
Go on love after lock up when he gets close to his release y’all seem interesting
Right
Lol right!
Facts! I hope she sees your comment!!!! That is def my show
Yes!!! They need new people
Nakyla Samuel i was just gone say this lol
*I would like an update video on this*
Beyond the bars with the Aguirres is the UA-cam channel of Carla.
DisneyFam what’s her instagram
@@mirandabush9033 _Beyond_the_bars_
She's all over the comments. Just find one of her comments and click on it. 🙂
Update: she is pregnant
she needs to get some standards and think of her future, he won't be able to have a normal life and hers will change drastically. I hope she don't mind taking care of the dude because that's exactly what's going to happen...
Ashly Lynne 😂
So true, because of his record he will have a hard time finding a job. She will be financially responsible for him. I did the same thing so I have no right to judge and my penatentry romance turned into a nightmare that lasted 8 years and ended with me now having PTSD from the abuse that I went thru BUT I did get the most beautiful gift also my daughter!!!
@@youdontknowme6827 she's in the comments defending herself and her hubby as if she has to prove it. My cousin would date girls while he was locked up and he would have them send him money and visit, when he would get out her go back to the same old and he'd try to get his new boo into drugs and to support him...it's disgusting.
@@lynne99 your cousin is obviously a career criminal. I just hope he has changed. He could very well be a great person. He went on young so he can mature and change BUT its gonna be hard on both of them. I know the battle that's ahead of them and it isn't easy.
Standards! Find someone who is not in prison!!
She’s obviously never heard of prison talk 😂😂
Neither do I
Facts
Cleary you haven’t had a family member or Husband in jail so don’t air raid
she has major issues. Anyone who giggles while talking about him being a murderer has major issues.
Yeah no... hard pass
Hi is Bud
Her sister in law (the one with the spaced teeth) looks like she’s 13 and 30 at the same time!
Omg lol
"Spaced teeth" LMAOOO 😂
And the voice......
😂😂😂
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
As soon as he gets out I’m not sure he will be that faithful to her sorry to say ! The happy endings don’t always last when you have been locked up for so long it will be very overwhelming for him
Bry-Fi I’m not that’s what I’m saying 🤣
@@BriFiConnections he's going to hold her breath
SuzieVert exactly lol
The come out unstable...from experience I say and they want to live things up.
He got deported to mexico and she went w him. Last time ive seen she was pregnant
Person: Did he murder someone?
Her: Noooo!
Me: Oh good
Her: Not exactly
Me: WTH
Noooo, he just attempted?
Wow, her cousin was looking out for her when she suggested she get in contact with a criminal. 🙄
I don’t understand why women fall in love with the potential of these men.
To be honest I think she is so insecure that she is probably deep down glad she knows exactly where he is and that he can't cheat. It will be a disaster when he gets out and tries to catch up with his missing youth. Which he will and should do.
dingo1666 I see what you mean...that’s definitely gonna be an issue
What potential? He's locked up. Lol
Silly woman. Imagine all the time this guy in prison has to write the letters. Of course he's going to tell you that you're the most beautiful woman in the world. He probably just wants someone to speak to so his time goes by "faster" and not as "lonely". This woman is delusional and she will find out sooner or later, :/
zvxcnvzcnvzx, you are sooooo right on target with that comment! I hope she realizes it's all bull crap he's telling her everything she wants to hear!!
If that happens then I will did. A new man and move on like it ain’t that serious guys foreals!!! If he leaves then byeeeee so thanks for the concern I really appreciate it but I will update everyone on what happens
@@Carla_GUUURL hey i truely hope he doesnt..good luck to both of you ❤
Beyond the Bars with The Aguirre's, you are so young & pretty why get close to someone in prison, it's not the same as holding the person and getting to know the real person that he is, you can find someone right quit!! be careful! love from chicago!
zvxcnvzcnvzx for ten years?
Some ppl learn after being locked up..& some ppl dont. I hope for your sake he's everything you are hoping he will be. Not gonna judge, but... if you should ever see a bit of violence in him, END IT & DONT LOOK BACK. You are a beautiful woman with a big ❤ so you wont have a problem. Work on
"Self esteem ". You are deserving.
She’s gunna have a huge reality check when he gets out. She’s in fairytale land.
they are still married now and have children lmafo
She says he missed his 20s and drinking and partying like it’s not his fault. Like he was in the hospital sick or something. No, he chose to almost murder someone. If he wanted to spend his 20s drinking and partying, maybe he shouldn’t have tried to murder someone 🤷🏼♀️
" I dont live in dreamland"
At least you're aware that this may not be forever.
I wish nothing but the best for you, you're a clear sweetheart
This guy will cheat no doubt sorry
She literally does not know this guy at all. How scary :/ I'm glad she doesnt have any kids shes putting in danger with this relationship.she must not have good self esteem . I really hope he treats her good when he gets out . I wouldnt ever do that but for her sake I do hope it works and hes not crazy. Like that funky paperboy movie the dude is sending all these love letters and then gets out and becomes violent and kills her. 😱
Any kids yet...
Wow she’s So out of touch with Reality
It’s so concerning
The look in his eyes scares me.
I went through something similar. However, I was already dating my husband when he got arrested. He was living a secret life and we married when he was in county jail. He served 5 years of his 8 yr sentence in prison. I was faithful and traveled to every location he transferred. I supported him financially and always made sure he got his visits, money on his books and answered all his calls. He took college courses and became so attentive and the sweetest ever. I thought our relationship became stronger & he had changed for the best. All changed the very first day he got released. I took a long road trip & picked him up. First thing he did was take off with my car & didn’t come back until 2 days later. He became aggressive and abusive towards me. I kicked him out right away and now I’m waiting for my divorce to finalize. I wasted 5 good years of my life for him being loyal & sacrificing my time and never going out. I hope this doesn’t happen to her but mine was out only 4 mths and hoy rearrested for robbery again. He is a very manipulative, selfish, narcissistic evil person. These type of men can be conniving con artists. They’re masters at obtaining what they & lack empathy over others. Best of luck to her. I learned my lesson & I know now more than Ever that I deserve better. I’m an attractive, independent & successful woman. I’m happily single and living my life peacefully.
Thats awful. So sorry you had to go through that.
I'm sorry truly for your experience. But now you will be careful. Wish you the best in life!
So sorry that happened to you
What a delusional woman. 🤦🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
She seems so sweet and you can tell she is in love and he sounds like he is in love with her and he seems like he is gonna be the best for her.I hope I’m not wrong but I wish the best for the both of them.
Prayerfully he's no longer the same man that entered prison...I pray for their union because I truly believe in redemption 🙏🏾💖
Cmon🤦🏽♀️
When he told her about his three jobs he seemed excited, and she didn't ask what they were or anything. She asked will you get paid, then said don't eff up anyone hair. Two wholly negative responses. They won't last when he gets out.
When he gets out he’s gonna leave her or cheat on her.
How do you know?
It’s sweet that she’s been there for him for almost the entire time. He still has feelings, he’s still a human being. I hope he’s learned a lot and changed as a person so he can still have a good life
Ashley your so innocent.....
Juan Mendoza really?
@@uwpride I'm just saying you have a good heart you try to find the good in people even when the bad is in front of you,...
Juan Mendoza I work with inmates. We all mess up, we all deserve second chances as we are all humans
@@uwpride yes you are right and I was stating the obvious.....i can feel you have forgiving ❤️
I get you girl. I’ve been the one on the inside many times, but I finally changed my life. It helps so much when they have someone stable to count on. I hope that he is making all the personal changes necessary for his sake and you because you seem so sweet. But I am not the judge of that so I wish you well!!!
True though people can change
People deserve a second chance in life she has a big hart to give him that chance
One of the only positive comments I’ve seen 😤👌🏼
Right ❤️
100%
God changes people's hearts, I hope that when he goes out he treats his wife with the love she has for him
People change people's heart, experience changes people's hearts. God would be a psychopath if he makes the guy a criminal, sends him to jail and then changes his heart. Why not just make the guy nice from the onset? God seems to enjoy a good drama at the expense of his [pets] human's well being...
@@dingo1666 lol God made him a criminal how? We make our own choices
@@brendaluna173 I think they mean because many Christians believe that their god created absolutely everything in existence and that will ever exist. Including a destiny for all people. Or that he could have not made him or other people capable of or want to murder in the first place.
I believe when you get to know someone and appreciate them, real love is there
@@melanierose4140 because he did ! 😒
I feel like she’s never had a serious relationship and when someone finally gave her attention she became obsessed lmao
My man is in prison too. I'm not married yet but I get where she's coming from. It's a different kind of love. A love no one but you can experience and can feel it. It's a huge commitment and I love it we learned so much about each other over the years.! You do you girl:)
A normal woman who's healthy wouldn't do this. Question is, how did she even meet a guy who's in prison.
Diana Martiniuc-cameron her cousin set her up with him, she was apprehensive at first but then wrote to him. The rest is history. 😳
She mentions it at the beginning.
I'm thinking he just wanted a pen pal
Diana, YOU are beautiful!
Not true hun. I was a normal woman who had a very active social life when I fell for an inmate and married him.
I'm on the fence with this, but I won't cast judgement on someone's journey. As long as she is happy and he is happy, then let them be. Life is all about learning lessons and growth. I wish only the best for them. ❤️
I will lol, someone needs to tell her straight out, you ain’t my family if you see something that will hurt me
My best was a correctional officer, she felt in love with an inmate. Exactly what he did, murdered. Once he got out, he moved in with her and 2 kids. He rapped, murdered one, the other made alive , he fired the house. While my friend was working. I would not trust him at all.
Wow this is chilling and so awful. Hope your friend is okay? (well as okay as someone can be after that!)
😶😶😶😶
I’m seriously concerned for this woman
Lmao. She seems content. Let her do the worrying.
everyone here thinking he's gonna cheat on her or leave her when he's out, and I'm just wondering if he'll even be able to have someone hire him knowing his past record! People dont even wanna hire you for smaller petty crimes, let alone attempted murder! 🤷♀️
Welp, good luck to them and hope he changes for the better 😅
They definitely do. At least in texas.
Cash jobs not government sweetue. No tax and daily money.
@carly lester sadly you are correct
@carly lester are your charges felonies?
I think you can diminish misdemeanors from your record in my state, but you have to pay an arm and a leg
@carly lester 😔 I know it's trash but my cousin has been deemed a danger to the public, been in fed prison more than he had been out.
But construction and roofing has always hired him. Even fresh out.
I hope you will find something you enjoy doing for work some day♥️ or your state at least gets more job opportunities for people with records.
Can never go wrong with art, doing hair & nails, custom clothing lines etc
I have faith in you,
Never limit yourself✨💪
He send you and about 5 other women all that “lovey Dovey stuff”
Zoe Zzz lmao that’s a good one
Zoe Zzz why are people so bitter lol
💀💀💀💀
I kinda laughed when she’s just sitting there waiting on his call lol.
Rosendo Ernesto Rendon Jr me too 😂
Sad lol
To each their own... If she’s happy and he’s happy, and they make it work, then that’s their life.🙏🏽👍🏼💁🏼♀️💁🏽♀️
🌻☘️Green Eyes☘️🌻 🙏🏽 thank you
While all are thinking this girl is crazy, I’m sitting here concerned for her sister-in-law’s teeth 😳 that poor girl dealing with them teeth and the process of fixing them with braces 🤦🏻♀️
Bruh 🤦🏾♀️🤪 my teeth are bad but this is hilarious 😂😂😂
Nichole Jacobs 😂😂😈😂😂
Seriously? What a low blow
Im wondering how this will work? Are braces fixing that now?
NattieMaddie Luv Yes, it is fixable. The braces are adjusted specifically to move your teeth into place and make space for where the missing teeth should go. Then they are taken off and you are able to be fitted for implants or partial dentures.
This is clearly her first boyfriend..
“When someone says they’re going to call you at a certain time you need to call even if you’re in prison”, OMJESUS nuts.
I was on a message board for people with spouses and loved ones in prison, when my ex was in jail for 10 months. So many of the relationships that began after the person was incarcerated ended up falling apart once the person was released.
Him attempting to murder someone doesn't define him as a person?? What ,?? yes it actually does.
The situation, environment, resources, and if it’s self defense. But we both were not there so who are we to judge on a situation we didn’t witness?
@@amiriwoodruff5318 so you would date someone who was in prison for attempted murder?
Butterfly Perez my fiancé is in prison, we knew each other before he was locked up. He was set up, and they attacked him, he defended himself. The person was is expired and my fiancé was sentenced. Yet he will be home soon. He is a father, barber, writer, entrepreneur and youth mentor. I work with helping lower recidivism and help change the justice system from overly harsh sentences that are unfair to black and brown communities. Life is crazy and things happen. Hell Trump has 166k plus deaths on his belt. But ppl make mistakes and grow and learn from them. So to answer your question yes. I know him and you don’t therefore you judge ppl for no reason. I’m pretty sure your a so called god fearing person. I work in my community, I help ppl get back on track, and create better life opportunities for ppl like him. What do you do to help ppl? Also research Dave’s Killer Bread ... and then tell me if ppl can change or you still judge. And his pockets and success may be greater than yours.
My mother is in prison for murder. She had a repeated history of violence towards her children and attempted assault with a deadly weapon against my dad prior to her murdering her third husband. Now her third husband had the same way of thinking as you , he thought that he could change her and influence her to be better ,both volunteering in helping the homeless which was amazing but the thing about that is just because she was doing outside things in helping the world didnt mean that her heart was right. She still had a lot of rage and hatred inside of her . She chose to not heal any wounds inside of her heart, to not allow God to transform her from the inside out. We have been given discernment and wisdom for a reason , and if a person shows you who they are, believe them. And if you choose to ignore the red flags because you want to see the good in people. God can transform anyone but that person has to have that desire to change.
And I work with children with learning disabilities. I work to lift up their broken spirits and show them how valuable and worthy they really are. So that's what I do to help others.
I’m married to a ex prisoner he was very violent in his past but he’s so amazing and great dad so don’t judge by a past people change and circumstances are big....
I got married to a man a prison!!!! He did 13 years as well his name is Eric and he did a violent crime.....When he got home which was May of 2021 we spent a year together and he left 2 months ago with no words...LADIES SAVE YOUR HEART AND DIGNITY DONT MARRY MEN IN PRISON....you don't know them if they really love you they will wait to marry you...stay safe out there life is to short
And what happens if he gets released and his former gang contacts him? Will she be in danger? Will he fall back into the gang? Most likely
megan griffith He won’t. The plans he had during his 13 years in prison tells me he’s a changed man. All of you guys are judging, but the fact that he calls her almost every day, means something. Some of you don’t know true love when you see it. And how can you assume that he will fall back in the gang when YOU haven’t met him? That’s right, you can’t.
@@deannaswope7856 lmao don't be silly. None of us are judging. We're being realistic. Barely any prison relationships last. And cause he calls her everyday it's real? Lmaooo I know SO MANY people who talked to someone jailed. Got calls everyday just to get dropped when they were released.
Pull the wool from your eyes, your blinded.
Cloud420 barely any prison relationship lasts 🤣 clearly you dont understand or realize it’s up to only two individuals for a relationship or relationships to work in general. Been in prison is a situation that comes up but most definitely is t the end of the world! me and my man we’re together prior and we still made it through this time with only some months left to go it’s made our bond and our connection even our love stronger then before. Seeing the other person whom you love so much & the loyalty how could a normal person & a guy with 0 bad behavior for his whole BID & with no bad intentions towards her yet - not see and realize Carla is like a trophy?! Get real!!!! 💁🏽♀️
@@stinaaaabinaaaa4545 blinded lmaooo good luck to you both🤣🤣🤣
You can't speak for everyone either honey you could've got lucky
Cloud420 whose blinded?! me?!
"When people hear I'm married to someone in prison they think he is a criminal" Well, that's because he is?? Also does she really think just to fact that it was attempted murder and he didn't actually murder someone that it's all fine and dandy? As soon as he gets out, I have no doubt in my mind that he isn't gonna be interested in her whatsoever. Shes his tie to the outside world, that's all. As soon as he is out, he is free to do whatever he wants.
Don’t get it why some women are that desperate to find a man in prison. Most people who save long sentences don’t rehabilitate but become good at committing crimes. Watch your back once he is out.
It's not about being desperate it's about the heart. If he says and does the right things anyone can fall for them. I had an active dating life and was in no way desperate but when I met my ex he said things that no one else did. It was all emotional not physical. We talked for hours on end about everything and sex had nothing to do with it.
@@youdontknowme6827 Was he incarcerated, and how did it end?
My mom met my dad while he was incarcerated were married than had me.
“I don’t want McDonald’s”
Meanwhile last night I asked my husband to drive me to one at midnight. That’s the love of my life all cause he bought me nuggets a burger and fries 😂
Karla stay strong for Eric, prison was created to destroy relationships but those that thrive in the midst have a passion and strength like no other. I'm happy for your love! Embrace all of the new moments and let one another be each others anchor as he soon re-enters society.
Wait did she wait for him those 13 years????? Ah hell nah...that's real love right there lol
Right ... shiddd couldn’t be me lol
@@selenajackson1745 me either! Haha especially because she didn't meet him before he went to prison but after. This girl crazy lol
10 years!
She didn’t wait the whole 13
@@stinaaaabinaaaa4545 ok 10 years still alot hahaha
Wait didn't she say she met him a year into his prison sentence? Then when her friend Alyssa and her we're talking she said "do you remember the time I first told you? I called and said Alyssa...he got locked up" And Alyssa goes "yeah I was like, omg he got locked up?"
Im so confused! So did her friends not know she met him WHILE he was in prison through a pen pal situation?!? I must be missing something
I caught that too, I think she lied to her friend about how they met
I was thinking the same thing. Then she said he was in there for 13 years, met him a year in so that would have meant he had 12 years left at that point, but her sister-in-law said "he's been there for like 7 years", Alyssa said he's been gone 10. She also showed that drawing and said "he did it right after he got there in 2010/2011" so that's only 8/9 years ago..
But you're right. She said her cousin got her to write him in prison and she wasn't sure, but then yeah, was talking like "remember when I told you he got locked up?" So it's all kinda confusing tbh
@@newpocahontas1 Yeah i was mad confused too
When you get desperate....
Johanna Cabrera bahahahah 😂😂
No ones desperate in 2020
she wants to fix him
She looks so proud while talking about his crimes.
When people ask what did he go to prison for for killing somebody or something close to that when you hear a sentence like that you know to run this girl is crazy😂
It helps the time when you have someone to talk to , and gives you something to day dream about when you get out . But when you get out you want to be free ,
Hope it works out for her but she has to know that people in jail for 13 years are so desperate for any kind of attention that they would talk to a volleyball for 13 years if need be.
Update: he got deported to Mexico. She gave him her phone. He still didn’t call her alot because he was “sleeping.” He is being the best man he can be in Mexico. He walked down the street and looked for an apartment. She’s so proud of him. She trust him because he drew her a picture. Soooooooo yeah...The end. 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ hope it works out buttttttt he wasn’t in jail for singing the loudest in church. She seems to be fighting everyone in the comments who has an opinion. You knew how mean the internet was before you signed up to the show acting like he was a catch.. p.s- stop asking if we wanna go to the club with you when he leaves you. No we do not. You already proved you don’t make the best decisions. But anyways, good luck girl... p.p.s-girl get your phone back.
My dad's in prison and he said as soon as he comes home he's gonna come strait to home and tickle and cuddle us and tell us funny jokes.
this is normal where I'm from imagine that 😂🤦♀️
I am married to a man in prison as well. I married him there as well. I wait for the phone to ring also. My husband comes home in 4 months. We been married 4 years.
Damn people are brutal. They’re doing they’re best with the circumstances at hand, and everyone deserves a second chance.
Do you know his circumstances?
@@user-ik4zl1gn4u do you?
Best wishes to this couple and I hope everything works out!
*AAAaargh! All these negative comments about these 2 random strangers you've never met!* It's called *LOVE DON'T JUDGE* I just see 2 human beings who experience emotions like you and I. *I'M NOT JUDGING* and wish these 2 a happy life!
I dont think they are negative comments. They are comments of concern. There are alot of women that would be alive today if somebody told them not to do it. Positivity is not always supporting dumb decisions.
Yikes...alright imma head out
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Why would he be completely different after just sitting in a cell for years. I'm not doubting him. Im doubting that someone will change from a intervention of doing nothing.
There is an update video he got deported. Its another truly video
They don’t sound like a married couple to me. Their phone convo just felt.... off. They talk like me and my ex did. Superficially. And that relationship was a joke and horrible.
I think it was awkward as it was because she was on camera. it might totally different without love don't judge in her face.
Katelynne Wenzoski ya but u know what if u love him for who he actually is if she’s happy and she loves him there’s not a lot of women that would wait years for there man to get out my fiancé was in for 2 years and now we’re getting married so unless u go through it u wouldn’t understand
Wow a lot of negative comments, people do change obviously and you can’t just assume that once he gets out he’ll go back to doing the same thing, he was in there for 13 years...