1- Think I am awesome 2- knowledge is the key to be less boring 3- try something new daily 4 - talk to different people's 5 - Continously improve yourself Love from INDIA😘😘
I work in a grocery store, I talk to different people daily. Usually it's the normals though like sports with the dudes, weather, hug and flirt the females.
Angel of darkness if you feel the conversation fading just bring up the next thing that comes to mind as long as it's not offensive to the person you're talking to. Look around your environment and observe what's going on around you
Angel of darkness Trust me. if you look good. the girl keeps the conversation going. go to the gym. don't be fat and don't be dirty. girls will make you up to be the most exciting guy in the world of you have abs. that's it.
What happened to me was opposite, I was shy and always just didnt speak and girls liked me and wanted to talk to me because I was "mysterious" and they found my shyness cute.
+Badaboop Badabeep +LEIPZIG ARE FUCKING SHIT #MIASANMIA Same here except it started only after I started dating for the first time. Currently I'm not dating and neither I'm not interested in being in a relationship and I find it hard to politely try to reject every girl who tries to approach me dating in mind. For now I've been replying something like "I'd love to get to know them better but I'm not looking to date anyone right now" if they're not already close friends of mine, but those closer friends are harder to handle imo.. :y Any tips how to handle those situations?
i love this guy he makes me so confident of myself ive been watching your videos ever since i was 13 now 17 still watching ive improved a lot im a geek but with a good social life even a girl
This is the type of male guidance that I wish I had growing up. I'm 25 years old, and I feel like I should have been on this personal development journey years ago. I just can't shake the feeling that I've missed out. I often find myself wishing that I could be 18 again so I could correct the mistakes I've made back then.
Stop thinking about the past. It's a total loss of time. Focus on the future and even more on the present. And if you want to develop personally start already. 25 yo is fucking young, man!
hay bro. I'm 17 years old and a male. its been over a year since you wrote this. do you think that you can help me out a lil bit? i think im getting boring to my gf. we are from different countries and we talk online and play games together...
Most videos need to be watched whole, not just the tips, that's why theres so many dumb people, they think they know stuff but they just barely scratched the surface.
Dean Natuno When you think about it, jobs aren't so different, having to do the same thing every day. (some more interesting than others, definitely, but routine is still there 😟) I guess it really is our own effort to be interesting, whatever situation we're in (school, work, etc.).
Dean Natuno When you think about it, jobs aren't so different, having to do the same thing every day. (some more interesting than others, definitely, but routine is still there 😟) I guess it really is our own effort to be interesting, whatever situation we're in (school, work, etc.).
In a way yeah, but it also gives you knowledge and, like this video said, that's part of being interesting. The knowledge could be given in a more interesting way though.
I do not consider myself boring, but am just in a ruff place right now! Your confident and just your way of life truly inspires me to grow better as a person and that I can always be better! Thank you!
if you’re watching this video and thinking “wow im sad im watching a video of not being boring” this is alpha m. kiddos you’ll get a social advantage over everyone
Aaron , I would like to confess, when you posted this video back in 2016, I used to consider myself as a boring person however after 3 year I am not in the same mind frame anymore, I followed all the steps and kept working on self improvement and I can say it with confidence that it does work. Thank you! You are amazing!
Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong
Find friends that can hang with you in the silence. Or a friend who can bring the interest out of you because you possess it. What are your interests? It's not that your boring, your friend didnt have anything interesting to suggest. Sounds like they're "boring" too. Most ppl who say what your friend said aren't interesting which is why they wish for interesting ppl to show up. If your interested in stuff that you enjoy someone will appreciate it.
That can swing both ways. If it's something that other people don't find interesting, they may find you boring if your passion is the only thing you can have a good conversation around.
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Stupid Flanders True! Especially for business relations and meeting a broad range of people. Important to be well-rounded and able to consider and mesh with other perspectives.
+Stupid Flanders I'd say 90% of the time ANY passion is a positive thing, and people are almost always inclined to be interested in passionate people with specific hobbies. If you ask someone "What do you do for fun?" and they passionately say something odd like "Beekeeping!" I guarantee that would be a conversation starter, and you'd find that person much more interesting than someone who answers "you know..the usual, hanging out with friends, watching movies and stuff"
BenRangel Of course, being passionate about _anything_ is likely to make you more interesting than if you're passionate about nothing, but just having a passion is not sufficient to make you appear interesting to people. For your passion to be a good topic of conversation, it must be interesting in some way, so that people are compelled to ask you more about it. Beekeeping is rare/unusual enough that many people naturally want to learn more even if they wouldn't necessarily share your passion. As another example, many people seem to consider video games (sometimes specific ones) their passion/hobby, and I personally don't find that interesting at all and would probably be bored if someone talked about that for more than a minute or two. What others find interesting is subjective, so to maximize your chances of having good conversations, you should (in addition to pursuing your passions), know a little bit about a lot of things, so that you have _something_ of value to contribute to just about any conversation you may find yourself in. For example, I can get tremendously geeky/talkative about the things I'm passionate about, but I've noticed that many people have little interest in those subjects, so I won't spend much time talking about that if the people I'm talking to don't actually seem curious. In that case, it's useful if you have somewhere else where you can take the conversation and not be silent.
I think also, even if you have the knowledge, if you don't know how to talk and share that in an interesting way, people may never know that you have any knowledge that may interest them! Communication is the key...you have to figure out how to relate to people in an engaging way that allows you an inroad to sharing your knowledge and experiences.
How to break small talks? I like deep topics, but I can not directly jump into topics like creation of universe. I can take any conversation to new lengths but how to break out of cycle of small talks?
+Nemo That person you say 'wassup' or 'how are you' say that then talk about whatever it was that got you two together aka find common stuf, e.g old school mates, gym, blah blah and then like just move on and start talking about other stuff while having that conversation. Don't talk about universe stuff or deep conversation stuff at that point cuz then it'll make you seem weird , you have to keep it light and cool at first. Keep having conversations like this and what you'll notice is you won't be the one making up topics to talk about, the other guy/girl will start to want to talk to you( if the light and cool conversations you did before were any good) and he she'll bring up topics like idk football, TV shows and the like but then once you can easily have a conversation with that other person about literally anything (you or the other person usually literally thinks to themselves or says it out loud 'I can really talk to you about anything') then you can have deep convos with...
+Nemo Everybody simply has different personalities, but our personalities can be altered by what we choose to do every life. Try to find a friend or someone who might think like you do, and help each other try new things :)
I can have initial conversation with people quite easily, but my insecurity of being perceived as a boring person starts to take over me, to the point that I stop making efforts and they become uninterested in me.
I just watched my first video from your channel today and literally spent the WHOLE night watching them. You’re actually AMAZING and have inspired me to go for my dream. I just feel like, like you, being a creative and being a jack of all trades is a bit frustrating because you want to do everything you’re good at and you enjoy, so you cant really focus all your energy on one thing. But until I do, I will keep doing more and more new things. Because WE are awesome and amazing and can do anything IF we believe in ourselves
People find me boring because I either don't talk much or I talk about something others are not interested in hearing about. I have more fun being daydreaming. I'm quiet and don't have much to say because I find others boring. Once I get to know someone, I get bored quickly and I lose interest in the person and then I end up having nothing to say to the person. I find a lot of people annoying or boring especially if they have a lot of knowledge and talk about something I have no interest in and I hate to be bothered. I am friendly but I guess I don't like people. Its very unusual and rare for me to like people but when I do, it takes something special to get me to like someone. Do I have issues?
You are not the only one who feels this way. Trust me, we're all different. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. I relate very much to everything you just said, so if there's something wrong with you then rest assured there's something wrong with me as well. Being selective with people ain't nothing bad. In fact is highly recommended. Quality over quantity any day.
I feel you man. Start and watch comedy videos and you will be a different person. It worked to myself. Stay cheerful and be yourself! No limits! Stand out!
No. This was my mentality when I was 19 lol. After experience after experience then I realise not all people are boring. Some will tell you a path. Some will tell you something new. Some will be nice or bad to you etc etc. People are boring cuz you are boring. You have no power to make other people un-boring. Other people may not be unboring, but for you they are boring. However you can improve by learning something new and ideas and show it to someone else or try to convince that these thing is fun. then There's other people will share a something for you. Im not saying not all people will do the same once you tried to socialize. But you never find these type of people if you a mentality of '' I find people boring ''. You have no issues. You are just in a lower of level of socializing. This can be improve depending of your mentality. Your value or mentality can improve by experience, socializing, and learning etc etc...
Honestly dude, i’m not trying to boast or anything. but i do fairly well with the ladies, but you’ve always got some new tips to use that really helps. Always giving life, style as well as many other tips things i thought would never help that actually do.
I am 16 years old. I moved school and my class is only cool kids, I am not awkward, I am actualy kinda cool and I know that but for some reason Im struggling to talk with some people in my class and making new friends (but i have already made some friends from that class).The problem is that I am not that interesting and I dont know what to do.....i just dont understand the ''try something new everiday'' when everyday i go to school. I want them to like me and to start to hang out with me , but i dont know what to do
i have literally this here and i got nothing to do.. i see my friends hangin and i wait until they call me and if they didn't i stay at home about my self! i realy want to know what should i do
If you're still in school then just hang out with or hang around popular people. It worked for me. There was this guy who would be talking with every single girl he sees, I became good friends with him and soon I was shaking hands with all the girls and guys as soon as I entered the class. After that you can just be on your own. You just have to get exposure. And from my experience, kids in school want to be friends with the friends of their friends, they like finding and making connections in a sorta strategic way, subconsiously. If your like the random guy or the loner who sits in a corner chances are no one will aproach you
Being a boring person sucks because nobody would like to be with your company. You can probably be, just a shy person and often get a notion of being too boring but I think being too shy can be reversible, all you have to do is challenge yourself to be a confident person, show your playful side and everything else will follow.
I totally agree! To many people are stuck in the auto correct world. Engaging with others through conversation helps you become a better communicator and learning more about yourself. It’s fun to do and by stepping out of your comfort zone broadens your ability to grow!
Thank's brother for your solid advice. The world is full of interesting people. We should always seek to strike a conversation and learn about other human beings.
XD Most of ppl likes making money. It's his way to make it, it's his channel, it's his company, his idea how it should looks like. It's not annoying except u have never tried to sell anything.
I broke out of my rut after I found Your channel just recently. I'm now packing on more knowledge straight from your AWESOME channel. I love your encouraging attitude man! Keep making these awesome informative videos!
When you stop learning when you stop experiencing you stop living !!! That line's i am just saying that you are awesome bro really!! really!! Awesome i love that last lines 😍😍😍
Alpha, I've just recently stumbled across your UA-cam channel and I must say, I'm pretty impressed. As a cocky ass, confident person, I still found these videos,not only entertaining, but motivational and inspiring. Keep that shit up!
why dont you try to convert it on real life? i mean like, I like to play Skyrim, etc etc etc, ooh i played it alot, and i love bow and archery on every RPG games, then something popped in my mind "why the heck not joining Real life archery club?", i know it might sound ridiculous about how will that affect you but having another activity which is productive will increase your attractiveness, if you think theres a hardcore gamer who got attractive girls, well... you don't know him well perhaps. moreover , dude if you life on more civilized and open minded country youll find a tons of good activities to look on, not like on my country.
Marcelo Velarde I know the feeling dude I pretty much wasted my entire teenage years on that shit. Then I became an adult and suddenly I had less time to play. Blessing in disguise despite bills and added responsibility
When it comes to texting its a little different. NEVER start with hey or wyd unless you already have a topic you are going to talk about. Even if you do have a topic you don't have to say hey, it will actually make you look more fun if you jump right into conversation. Use emojis but not too much and use them at the right times. (😂😭💀- are pretty much the most common to use and go with a lot of things. The Golden Tip - if you want to keep the conversation going, THEN DON'T CLOSE IT. it's so simple don't reply with a small sentence. Speak your mind out, give your honest opinion, etc.
I'll save alpha the work and tell you know: you got a crush? Grow some balls and ask her out, she says yes great! She says no? Ask yourself why, work on it and ask someone better out simples
Aaron I love you broski. exactly my problem and my point. You said it well. "the game" has changed and its changed for ... ummm ... LESS. I was told my problem is i am the "nice guy" and no one likes the nice. I refuse to believe that i should stop being a nice person. i cant not be a gentleman. I, like yourself, value being a gentleman above all and if she doesnt like it, its her loss eventually. im not gonna stop being who i am that that specific level so more girls would like me. I think there exists a dichotomy or dilemma of social behavior or social expectancy here. "just be yourself" vs. "get out of your comfort zone and be different". Im sure both of these so called advises have been given to people by you and everyone one else in the business. how can i practice being myself while the opposite? and vice-versa. the best i could come up with was to imagine a virtual chart, a table if you will with two columns. one that reads be yourself and one that reads step out of your comfort zone and be different and bug fix yourself. right? with me so far? ok good so grab stuff and throw them under the right column. to be nice and gentleman like certainly belongs to be yourself column. This means if you are a nice guy, dont change that trend, you are an asshole, usually maybe and just maybe a bad boy (not all bad boy image is ass hole, i would say badboy is malicious but not evil, badboy image is conny, scammy, fake, out-to-get-you image, its false advertisement for the lack of a better explanatory word, than genuinely badboy, which if you are genuinely a badboy, you have bigger issues than to worry about the columns) then try to be a gentleman. chances are you have built that confidence, you know youre ways with ladies, youve seen it all and you are proactively responsive to anything spontaneously thrown at you so try to be nice now and leave a good positive word out there for us less experienced nice people. shyness, that certainly belongs to second column. if you are shy, please DONT entertain the idea of "just be yourself". you definitely wanna change that. ill give you my personal experience. ive seen a guy at a party, trying to get girls. trying to flirt and hit on them and it was apparent to anyone who cared to observe. spoiler alert, no one but me did because i was studying the interactions for my own knowledge. I figured, no one gave a shit. us shy people never think "omg wtf am i gonna do if she says yes" lol we only worry about negatives and bad outcomes. so far it makes sense, i didnt break any new grounds with that piece. but wait here is the deal. no one gave a shit even if he got rejected or made fun of because no one was surveying his behavior. people at the party are not there to watch you play theater. people in that party are there to do their own thing. no one even knows what youre doing, let alone successfully or unsuccessfully. This is something i need to work on myself. im gonna think of this obstacle as a countdown timer. say 100 rejections to success. I would anticipate 100 rejections before i see success. not only this helps me get to that success, but also motivates me to fight through the rejections having the "eyes on the prize" mentality. you go to school and fight through 4 years of absolute misery and you come out with higher education degree in mathematics. it certainly cant be harder than that. just need to get through the difficult parts. btw once you get over it, youre in the clear. you grow so insensitive towards rejection. (at least thats what im hoping). for all my video game lovers, nerds, geeks, mom basement people, all i need to say is GG, Get Good, Souls games. you die to the boss in so many different ways that you will lose the first time fear and impression, and you learn what works and what doesnt. We know how to master these fights, so lets decide as a new year resolution or whatever to get it done. the sooner you start the sooner you will graduate.
I am not a guy, but I really needed tips on how not to be boring. Like, I am stuck in my home because of anxiety, I barely see anything new or interesting in my daily life. How can I be interesting to my friends or online? Now I have some ideas on what I want to do next to be interesting, so thank you!
I find the most attrative thing in a man is him being nice. So I totally agree with this video, the problem isnt that you are too nice, it is just that she isnt into you.
"oh wow. I'm so unique and interesting because I HATE technology and everyone who uses their phone is stupid. I'm SO much better and original because I live a REAL LIFE outside not like everyone else."
Wholeheartedly agree definitely try new things I recently starting playing chess found it truly stimulating but here's the best part I'm meeting new people constantly as we come together every Monday evening at the local Mc Donalds eatery for chess and exchange of conversation on current issues!
I've started to change myself since last year and i improved a lot. I got more confident. I'm more into talking to people and i started to work out (that was the best decision. I love doing that). But the problem is that i'm still questioning myself. I don't know myself very properly and i think that i just wear a mask that falls off sometimes because I'm not very stable in my mind. I don't know if I'm doing good at life. My parents (who i love) are saying that i really improved in my life but I'm not so sure about myself...and that's why i want to ask somebody new if I'm doing good at life (of course....i have to make sure if i can trust that person)
nah, the fact that you're watching a video about how to not be boring is actually showing that you are aware of yourself, your flaws and you seek self-improvement. Stay positive, think positive, open your ears to everything, take every circumstance from your daily-life with another perspective like "what is this trying to teach me?", or "what is this showing me?" , "what can i learn from this?". The way we see things and perceive life differs just because of our way of seeing those things. Stay at peace, we're all blessed y'all. (sorry for mistakes, i'm still learning english)
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."- Dale Carnegie
Can we all take a moment to appreciate how calm and mature Alpha is in this video as compared to the recent ones? And God! The intro back then...so much better than the latest one.
the fact that I'm watching a video on how not 2 be boring is just sad
im only popular cuz im good at sports but i just sit there and stay quiet in class
Bruh.
Same
or bc we're bored
Feels bad
1- Think I am awesome
2- knowledge is the key to be less boring
3- try something new daily
4 - talk to different people's
5 - Continously improve yourself
Love from INDIA😘😘
hey!
useless
such good damn advice.
I work in a grocery store, I talk to different people daily. Usually it's the normals though like sports with the dudes, weather, hug and flirt the females.
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I'm not from India but Japan but I found your comment terribly boring 😬
This guy's voice kind of reminds me of the talk show host on Total drama island lmao!
He is him
OMG that's why he sounded familiar 🤣🤣🤣
Deeemn now I visualize chris giving tips
Something I agree with
YES!!
You're like the cool uncle that I never had. #Alpham
for real
Exactly! That's on point!!
+Alan u are 14 gtfo
+Chris Menaj then dont forget to tell him
+Levi Jesse then i'd say it's on you to be one yourself,one day
Does anybody else enjoy how real he is. It's nice to listen to someone that is direct and doesn't beat around the bush. No sugar-coating.
Yeah for real. I think AlphaM is better then Jose Zuniga from TeachingMen'sFashion.
Yes it is
The most boring person of all is someone who's *staring at their phone.* Put that stupid thing away and pay attention to the world.
pocket83
Staring at my computer, totally not boring now.
pocket8 Exactly. they don't realize the world around them is more beautiful than their phone
How are you watching this vid?
I can talk to someone on the internet without any problem but that same person in real life well im quite boring
Ravi Kumar i don't see how where i'm at
try to be the type of person you would want to meet
that would be so boring :-)
That would be to inappropriate
Dude that date would end up so fucked up
your comment is powerful
@Sebastian LOL
"knowledge is the key of being less boring" 👍
Jermaine almost makes me wanna puke 🤢 knowledge is sooooooo boring 😑
Really? lol, it´s the subject of life, not to know a lot and then you don´t even know what to talk to a girl
Hell yeah!
It's very true
Do you know what I like more than materialistic things? KNOWLEDGE!
Me: *looks at views*
Me: Im not alone :')
xX shadow Xx finally😢
xX shadow Xx the views made it feel less weird
When i looked at views, I wanted to communicate with 4.600.000 people.
Me : *types "how to be talkactive and social"*
Me : *finds "How to NOT be boring"*
Me : ...Close enough
Same
LOL
I wrote How to start conversasions with a Girl XD
Nico Neko lmfao
Mine was from the recomended list, guess youtube is telling me I am boring.
Thanks for trying to change our life bro.. has helped me a lot
+Erti 16 Influence*
+JustARandomGuy No, He's changing it...
lol
+r0bi100 Only you can prevent forest fires.
Alex Clark oh i get what u mean 😂😂
He kept saying gentlemen 😂 I'm a woman... I felt so macho
🤣
WoMAN
Wooman
Agreed 🤣
Hamari Chorii Choro se kam hein ke 😂😂🤩🥴
i don't know how to make a conversation or better yet, keep a conversation going.
Angel of darkness if you feel the conversation fading just bring up the next thing that comes to mind as long as it's not offensive to the person you're talking to. Look around your environment and observe what's going on around you
Angel of darkness Trust me. if you look good. the girl keeps the conversation going. go to the gym. don't be fat and don't be dirty. girls will make you up to be the most exciting guy in the world of you have abs. that's it.
Let the other person do most of the talking and don't bombard him/her with questions.
James Manley preach
Angel of darkness Just start talking about something you're passionate about, who gives a crap what the other person thinks.
This happened to me this girl that liked me stop liking me because I was shy and had no personality not exciting lmao
XxS1l3nTxa1Mx thats me bruh😂😂😂
What happened to me was opposite, I was shy and always just didnt speak and girls liked me and wanted to talk to me because I was "mysterious" and they found my shyness cute.
+Badaboop Badabeep +LEIPZIG ARE FUCKING SHIT #MIASANMIA Same here except it started only after I started dating for the first time. Currently I'm not dating and neither I'm not interested in being in a relationship and I find it hard to politely try to reject every girl who tries to approach me dating in mind. For now I've been replying something like "I'd love to get to know them better but I'm not looking to date anyone right now" if they're not already close friends of mine, but those closer friends are harder to handle imo.. :y Any tips how to handle those situations?
Did you think that she was boring? Perhaps she simply wasn't right for you either. If she bored that easily then she's not a good bet long-term.
story of my life
i love this guy he makes me so confident of myself ive been watching your videos ever since i was 13 now 17 still watching ive improved a lot im a geek but with a good social life even a girl
Munya chawawa
This is the type of male guidance that I wish I had growing up. I'm 25 years old, and I feel like I should have been on this personal development journey years ago. I just can't shake the feeling that I've missed out. I often find myself wishing that I could be 18 again so I could correct the mistakes I've made back then.
Steven Johnson you're only 25 that's not even middle aged..
Stop thinking about the past. It's a total loss of time. Focus on the future and even more on the present. And if you want to develop personally start already. 25 yo is fucking young, man!
talk like you're in your 60s, I'm almost 39 and consider that to be quite young still, 25 is still a baby
Better late than never
hay bro. I'm 17 years old and a male. its been over a year since you wrote this. do you think that you can help me out a lil bit? i think im getting boring to my gf. we are from different countries and we talk online and play games together...
Too nice doesn't exist. TOO BORING IS VERY REAL, GENTS
Mattydigs Too nice means nice is the only positive thing that stuck out because everything else is boring.
+Rup Tratin indeed
corazon de callejon
I can't discover whyyyy men don't listen if I ain't gonna listen to your spam advice.
too ugly exists too though.
Patrizio D'Uva for example- you ;)
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Your welcome :)
Your a life saviour. Thanks
ty.
SinisterXan haha thanks
Most videos need to be watched whole, not just the tips, that's why theres so many dumb people, they think they know stuff but they just barely scratched the surface.
Ty sooooooo much🙃🙃🙃🙃
1:48 - 1:54 That hit me hard, well now is the time to stop watching youtube videos.
Same
same
+Deneb Ryan Im going to manage my subscriptions right now and unsub all channels that do not teach me anything. Way to go.
+Deneb Ryan good thing that it hit you hard, now you have a lot of energy to do something about. by the way, I also found this part amazing
Stonish me too, road to productive life starts now :))
School makes us boring. With its boring routine and boring way of teaching.
That's why there's drugs to get fucked up! (joking)
Dean Natuno When you think about it, jobs aren't so different, having to do the same thing every day. (some more interesting than others, definitely, but routine is still there 😟)
I guess it really is our own effort to be interesting, whatever situation we're in (school, work, etc.).
Dean Natuno When you think about it, jobs aren't so different, having to do the same thing every day. (some more interesting than others, definitely, but routine is still there 😟)
I guess it really is our own effort to be interesting, whatever situation we're in (school, work, etc.).
In a way yeah, but it also gives you knowledge and, like this video said, that's part of being interesting. The knowledge could be given in a more interesting way though.
+Evija3000 yeah, like you said. "It could be given" but mostly it doesn't. Teachers that makes learning interesting are quite rare.
I do not consider myself boring, but am just in a ruff place right now! Your confident and just your way of life truly inspires me to grow better as a person and that I can always be better! Thank you!
On behalf of my people, THANK YOU for touching on the "She doesn't like me because I'm too nice." thing!
LMAO😂😂😂
Haha
You're to nice
I'm not even a guy but this is just good advice in general.
Shannon Ryan same
Same
JoJo red velvet fan???
Mon Bon Oh yeah. BIG fan.
JoJo YASS, ppalgan mat! Geumgeumhae honeyyyy
This is the calmest I've heard Alpha talk
if you’re watching this video and thinking “wow im sad im watching a video of not being boring” this is alpha m. kiddos you’ll get a social advantage over everyone
Aaron , I would like to confess, when you posted this video back in 2016, I used to consider myself as a boring person however after 3 year I am not in the same mind frame anymore, I followed all the steps and kept working on self improvement and I can say it with confidence that it does work.
Thank you!
You are amazing!
So do i and they work
Interested = Interesting
Fact
doesn't work with me😣
Like Elliott Hulse said.
Sounds like something from lab rats 🤔😂😂
I bookmarked this video 2 years ago. I was watching in awe and thought how could I ever be like that ?
Time goes by fast.
I can watch this guy all day
Gregster98 IKR
Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong
Find friends that can hang with you in the silence. Or a friend who can bring the interest out of you because you possess it. What are your interests? It's not that your boring, your friend didnt have anything interesting to suggest. Sounds like they're "boring" too. Most ppl who say what your friend said aren't interesting which is why they wish for interesting ppl to show up. If your interested in stuff that you enjoy someone will appreciate it.
U ain't boring it's just there's nothing to talk about. I get that all the fucking time lmao
Fack em
Oh girl that’s so rude… find better friends seriously. I would’ve cut them off!
Find a passion and you naturally become more interesting
That can swing both ways. If it's something that other people don't find interesting, they may find you boring if your passion is the only thing you can have a good conversation around.
Stupid Flanders True! Especially for business relations and meeting a broad range of people. Important to be well-rounded and able to consider and mesh with other perspectives.
+Stupid Flanders I'd say 90% of the time ANY passion is a positive thing, and people are almost always inclined to be interested in passionate people with specific hobbies. If you ask someone "What do you do for fun?" and they passionately say something odd like "Beekeeping!" I guarantee that would be a conversation starter, and you'd find that person much more interesting than someone who answers "you know..the usual, hanging out with friends, watching movies and stuff"
BenRangel Of course, being passionate about _anything_ is likely to make you more interesting than if you're passionate about nothing, but just having a passion is not sufficient to make you appear interesting to people. For your passion to be a good topic of conversation, it must be interesting in some way, so that people are compelled to ask you more about it. Beekeeping is rare/unusual enough that many people naturally want to learn more even if they wouldn't necessarily share your passion. As another example, many people seem to consider video games (sometimes specific ones) their passion/hobby, and I personally don't find that interesting at all and would probably be bored if someone talked about that for more than a minute or two.
What others find interesting is subjective, so to maximize your chances of having good conversations, you should (in addition to pursuing your passions), know a little bit about a lot of things, so that you have _something_ of value to contribute to just about any conversation you may find yourself in.
For example, I can get tremendously geeky/talkative about the things I'm passionate about, but I've noticed that many people have little interest in those subjects, so I won't spend much time talking about that if the people I'm talking to don't actually seem curious. In that case, it's useful if you have somewhere else where you can take the conversation and not be silent.
+Stupid Flanders I don't think you wrote enough :)
I see new alpha m video, I click on like and then start watching.
Goooood for yoouuuuuuu
+Aki thanks for sharing with us your actions, very entertaining
+Aki OK.
new conglomerate?
+Aki NEW CONGLOMERATE IS SUPREME
I am awesome!
I am interesting!
I am amazing!
*goes back to staring at a blank wall*
LMFAO
Partner 🤜🤛
See that's your problem lol I know it's a joke but you should put the work in to get results ...trying is key not succeeding but trying
here in my garage just bought this brand new KNOWLEDGE
Bit late....
+Adam Taylor 😥
Someone give this man a small loan of a million Lamborghinis
+Classymaru Nara I hope you have a plan to pay back the loan.
i hate the fact that i heard his voice in my head as i read this
I think also, even if you have the knowledge, if you don't know how to talk and share that in an interesting way, people may never know that you have any knowledge that may interest them! Communication is the key...you have to figure out how to relate to people in an engaging way that allows you an inroad to sharing your knowledge and experiences.
But how can you communicate with people who were nice to you ?
Tip number 4 is the best one. You'll eventually be boring to people you see all the time. So it's good to seek out new relationships.
No thanks, not seeking
My problem right now is opposite - I do my own things so much I find it boring going out. And I find most people boring.
immortaljanus same here
Sounds like depression... I feel that sometimes
Same
How to break small talks?
I like deep topics, but I can not directly jump into topics like creation of universe. I can take any conversation to new lengths but how to break out of cycle of small talks?
I'm having the same problem.
Find intelligent people like yourself or someone that you think would know how to discuss those topics with you.
+Nemo
That person you say 'wassup' or 'how are you' say that then talk about whatever it was that got you two together aka find common stuf, e.g old school mates, gym, blah blah and then like just move on and start talking about other stuff while having that conversation. Don't talk about universe stuff or deep conversation stuff at that point cuz then it'll make you seem weird , you have to keep it light and cool at first. Keep having conversations like this and what you'll notice is you won't be the one making up topics to talk about, the other guy/girl will start to want to talk to you( if the light and cool conversations you did before were any good) and he she'll bring up topics like idk football, TV shows and the like but then once you can easily have a conversation with that other person about literally anything (you or the other person usually literally thinks to themselves or says it out loud 'I can really talk to you about anything') then you can have deep convos with...
+Nemo Everybody simply has different personalities, but our personalities can be altered by what we choose to do every life. Try to find a friend or someone who might think like you do, and help each other try new things :)
+Nemo Here's How:
Her: Hey, What's up?
You: Stars and Planets, *random fact about the universe*
I can have initial conversation with people quite easily, but my insecurity of being perceived as a boring person starts to take over me, to the point that I stop making efforts and they become uninterested in me.
I have a question, do you use putty ? Or cream ?
+nasser jr peteandpedro.com/product/putty/
+nasser jr I like ice cream
+mcpooface I like turtles
+Jorge Mata I like trains
+Jorge Mata I got that joke. Now i feel pike I have no life.
I try new videos everyday
Does that count?
I try new porn tags everyday.
Do you
I shit in a new toilet everyday
i am dead lmao XD.
CidGuerreiro1234 hmu with that shit
I just watched my first video from your channel today and literally spent the WHOLE night watching them. You’re actually AMAZING and have inspired me to go for my dream. I just feel like, like you, being a creative and being a jack of all trades is a bit frustrating because you want to do everything you’re good at and you enjoy, so you cant really focus all your energy on one thing. But until I do, I will keep doing more and more new things. Because WE are awesome and amazing and can do anything IF we believe in ourselves
you is kind...
you is smart...
and you is important
You are one of the BEST UA-cam channels, for real
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This really hit me hard, man i have start looking for new people
You look like the guy who played Crossbones in Captain America.
AxelGriff72 thats so true😎😂😂
you are too fucking hip
This makes a lotta sense, gotta keep relationships interesting and not boring to keep em live and thriving otherwise doomed to fail
People find me boring because I either don't talk much or I talk about something others are not interested in hearing about. I have more fun being daydreaming. I'm quiet and don't have much to say because I find others boring. Once I get to know someone, I get bored quickly and I lose interest in the person and then I end up having nothing to say to the person. I find a lot of people annoying or boring especially if they have a lot of knowledge and talk about something I have no interest in and I hate to be bothered. I am friendly but I guess I don't like people. Its very unusual and rare for me to like people but when I do, it takes something special to get me to like someone. Do I have issues?
You are not the only one who feels this way. Trust me, we're all different. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. I relate very much to everything you just said, so if there's something wrong with you then rest assured there's something wrong with me as well. Being selective with people ain't nothing bad. In fact is highly recommended. Quality over quantity any day.
@Safwan 💯💯
I feel you man. Start and watch comedy videos and you will be a different person. It worked to myself.
Stay cheerful and be yourself! No limits! Stand out!
No. This was my mentality when I was 19 lol. After experience after experience then I realise not all people are boring. Some will tell you a path. Some will tell you something new. Some will be nice or bad to you etc etc.
People are boring cuz you are boring. You have no power to make other people un-boring. Other people may not be unboring, but for you they are boring.
However you can improve by learning something new and ideas and show it to someone else or try to convince that these thing is fun.
then There's other people will share a something for you.
Im not saying not all people will do the same once you tried to socialize. But you never find these type of people if you a mentality of '' I find people boring ''.
You have no issues. You are just in a lower of level of socializing. This can be improve depending of your mentality. Your value or mentality can improve by experience, socializing, and learning etc etc...
Damn we are same but recently I came to know that I have avoidant disorder so I avoid people but I am friendly too 😂
I love this guys videos... but it was a little depressing to see 'How to not be boring' recommended.....
Lmao 😂
Honestly dude, i’m not trying to boast or anything. but i do fairly well with the ladies, but you’ve always got some new tips to use that really helps. Always giving life, style as well as many other tips things i thought would never help that actually do.
I am 16 years old. I moved school and my class is only cool kids, I am not awkward, I am actualy kinda cool and I know that but for some reason Im struggling to talk with some people in my class and making new friends (but i have already made some friends from that class).The problem is that I am not that interesting and I dont know what to do.....i just dont understand the ''try something new everiday'' when everyday i go to school. I want them to like me and to start to hang out with me , but i dont know what to do
Read about things you like and about general knowledge. You're going to blow your teachers and those kids minds.
Same situation dude 16 as well change school haven't made friends yet
i have literally this here and i got nothing to do.. i see my friends hangin and i wait until they call me and if they didn't i stay at home about my self! i realy want to know what should i do
If you're still in school then just hang out with or hang around popular people. It worked for me. There was this guy who would be talking with every single girl he sees, I became good friends with him and soon I was shaking hands with all the girls and guys as soon as I entered the class. After that you can just be on your own. You just have to get exposure. And from my experience, kids in school want to be friends with the friends of their friends, they like finding and making connections in a sorta strategic way, subconsiously. If your like the random guy or the loner who sits in a corner chances are no one will aproach you
Permafrost - thank you, that is also my opinion and that is what ive been doing
Being a boring person sucks because nobody would like to be with your company. You can probably be, just a shy person and often get a notion of being too boring but I think being too shy can be reversible, all you have to do is challenge yourself to be a confident person, show your playful side and everything else will follow.
I totally agree! To many people are stuck in the auto correct world. Engaging with others through conversation helps you become a better communicator and learning more about yourself. It’s fun to do and by stepping out of your comfort zone broadens your ability to grow!
I dont need any of this when ive already done it
6. Tiege Hanley
Lmao
IS THAT A MUDAFUCKIN JOJO REFERENCE!??!!?
Alpha M :Go out have fun, get out there
Coronavirus: uhha nIcE try
Covid: *spanish guy laugh*
Thank's brother for your solid advice. The world is full of interesting people. We should always seek to strike a conversation and learn about other human beings.
Great Tips Alpha M. I'm loving this channel!
Creation Tricks wut
Creation Tricks TF dude lmao you just made my day better
Tiff Benson you will become alpha male one day
Flight The Goat React's Lol dunno why this is funny :-D
Tiff Benson same he’s so positive and open minded ;D
2:15 "....WE are also interesting, and WE Are Venom!"
Lmao
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes
My dude, THANK YOUUUU! THANK YOU. BORING IS A STATE OF MIND!
thank you very much alpha for all yo video, you are very famous here in India also 😊
With culture like that I don't think it's much use
Aden Abdille what do you mean by that !??
+sharath kumar You are pretty much hopeless bruh
+Teo Dex why??
+Krish Connor racist idiot gtfo
Tip no 1 - 'Acknowledge that being boring is state of mind'..........this is so true and s applicable to any feeling, wow (y)
No product placement? Wow!
what's wrong with product placement?
Wildheroo it's annoying and inconceinvent and gets in the way of him trying to do the video
XD Most of ppl likes making money. It's his way to make it, it's his channel, it's his company, his idea how it should looks like. It's not annoying except u have never tried to sell anything.
I am focused on the content not on adverteisment, that's why it doesn't bother me
He made a change so the video become less boring.
Doing something new everyday seems like a tall order. I hear that one a lot. maybe once a week? and good call on the morning talk shows.
I broke out of my rut after I found Your channel just recently. I'm now packing on more knowledge straight from your AWESOME channel. I love your encouraging attitude man! Keep making these awesome informative videos!
When you stop learning when you stop experiencing you stop living !!! That line's i am just saying that you are awesome bro really!! really!! Awesome i love that last lines 😍😍😍
She didn't like you because she is not attracted to you.
That's a harsh truth. :)
I’m also ALWAYS asking questions and learning new things via work and home life 🥰
"hey girl, I use tiege hanley"
BOOM instantly more interesting
😂🤣😂🤣
fart in the elevation and blame it on your pet water buffalo. NEVER gets boring
My abs are hurting from this comment. Lmao
W
I don't get it.
Arkadeep Banerjee nope, it gets disturbing tho
Arkadeep Banerjee OMG U ARE THE BEST
Alpha, I've just recently stumbled across your UA-cam channel and I must say, I'm pretty impressed. As a cocky ass, confident person, I still found these videos,not only entertaining, but motivational and inspiring. Keep that shit up!
I think my problem are the fucking pc games, I love play games but I feel like they are draining my life. :c
Same!
why dont you try to convert it on real life? i mean like, I like to play Skyrim, etc etc etc, ooh i played it alot, and i love bow and archery on every RPG games, then something popped in my mind "why the heck not joining Real life archery club?", i know it might sound ridiculous about how will that affect you but having another activity which is productive will increase your attractiveness, if you think theres a hardcore gamer who got attractive girls, well... you don't know him well perhaps. moreover , dude if you life on more civilized and open minded country youll find a tons of good activities to look on, not like on my country.
Same x2
Gendeng Raven Yeah..... I dont think i should convert the things that i do in GTA into real life
Marcelo Velarde I know the feeling dude I pretty much wasted my entire teenage years on that shit. Then I became an adult and suddenly I had less time to play. Blessing in disguise despite bills and added responsibility
Hey I'm a lady and I'm feeling this advice 👍🏻👍🏻
I know this is mainly for men but I still watch his videos, it seems to be helpful for all genders.
Does anyone know how to tame a horse on minecraft?
haha wtf
Jev's Grandpa give it bread
You gotta have a saddle equipped and continuously try to mount it until it accepts (no dirty joke intended)
Sebastian Dunleavy yep that's how you do it and if it's done you get them red love hearts and you can give it weed as reward
Bruh
I love the way he turned something complicated in life into something really easy to understand and also funny.
Life is about experiences and learning and seeking self improvement! That the message I was waiting to hear from you Alpha!
Well put. From experience, staying in your comfort zone will bore you to death. Breaking out is both scary and exciting!
me: hey
him: hi
me: wyd
him: your dry your too boring when you text bye
me: *searches how not to be boring*
-HEYYYY😩
-what are you doing darling/or something you want to call him) and use emojis
When it comes to texting its a little different. NEVER start with hey or wyd unless you already have a topic you are going to talk about. Even if you do have a topic you don't have to say hey, it will actually make you look more fun if you jump right into conversation. Use emojis but not too much and use them at the right times. (😂😭💀- are pretty much the most common to use and go with a lot of things. The Golden Tip - if you want to keep the conversation going, THEN DON'T CLOSE IT. it's so simple don't reply with a small sentence. Speak your mind out, give your honest opinion, etc.
@@carlos-ej3sv tnxx!
you look really calm and understandable in the old videos unlike the new ones
Could you do a video on tips for teenagers about crushes and dating
I'll save alpha the work and tell you know: you got a crush? Grow some balls and ask her out, she says yes great! She says no? Ask yourself why, work on it and ask someone better out simples
aye bro i could help you to get almost any girl😉
Tamer Gazawe really
David Dragan omg ur a god
Tamer Gazawe bro help please
Aaron I love you broski. exactly my problem and my point. You said it well. "the game" has changed and its changed for ... ummm ... LESS. I was told my problem is i am the "nice guy" and no one likes the nice. I refuse to believe that i should stop being a nice person. i cant not be a gentleman. I, like yourself, value being a gentleman above all and if she doesnt like it, its her loss eventually. im not gonna stop being who i am that that specific level so more girls would like me. I think there exists a dichotomy or dilemma of social behavior or social expectancy here. "just be yourself" vs. "get out of your comfort zone and be different". Im sure both of these so called advises have been given to people by you and everyone one else in the business. how can i practice being myself while the opposite? and vice-versa. the best i could come up with was to imagine a virtual chart, a table if you will with two columns. one that reads be yourself and one that reads step out of your comfort zone and be different and bug fix yourself. right? with me so far? ok good so grab stuff and throw them under the right column. to be nice and gentleman like certainly belongs to be yourself column. This means if you are a nice guy, dont change that trend, you are an asshole, usually maybe and just maybe a bad boy (not all bad boy image is ass hole, i would say badboy is malicious but not evil, badboy image is conny, scammy, fake, out-to-get-you image, its false advertisement for the lack of a better explanatory word, than genuinely badboy, which if you are genuinely a badboy, you have bigger issues than to worry about the columns) then try to be a gentleman. chances are you have built that confidence, you know youre ways with ladies, youve seen it all and you are proactively responsive to anything spontaneously thrown at you so try to be nice now and leave a good positive word out there for us less experienced nice people.
shyness, that certainly belongs to second column. if you are shy, please DONT entertain the idea of "just be yourself". you definitely wanna change that. ill give you my personal experience. ive seen a guy at a party, trying to get girls. trying to flirt and hit on them and it was apparent to anyone who cared to observe. spoiler alert, no one but me did because i was studying the interactions for my own knowledge. I figured, no one gave a shit. us shy people never think "omg wtf am i gonna do if she says yes" lol we only worry about negatives and bad outcomes. so far it makes sense, i didnt break any new grounds with that piece. but wait here is the deal. no one gave a shit even if he got rejected or made fun of because no one was surveying his behavior. people at the party are not there to watch you play theater. people in that party are there to do their own thing. no one even knows what youre doing, let alone successfully or unsuccessfully. This is something i need to work on myself. im gonna think of this obstacle as a countdown timer. say 100 rejections to success. I would anticipate 100 rejections before i see success. not only this helps me get to that success, but also motivates me to fight through the rejections having the "eyes on the prize" mentality. you go to school and fight through 4 years of absolute misery and you come out with higher education degree in mathematics. it certainly cant be harder than that. just need to get through the difficult parts. btw once you get over it, youre in the clear. you grow so insensitive towards rejection. (at least thats what im hoping). for all my video game lovers, nerds, geeks, mom basement people, all i need to say is GG, Get Good, Souls games. you die to the boss in so many different ways that you will lose the first time fear and impression, and you learn what works and what doesnt. We know how to master these fights, so lets decide as a new year resolution or whatever to get it done. the sooner you start the sooner you will graduate.
I am not a guy, but I really needed tips on how not to be boring. Like, I am stuck in my home because of anxiety, I barely see anything new or interesting in my daily life. How can I be interesting to my friends or online? Now I have some ideas on what I want to do next to be interesting, so thank you!
I find the most attrative thing in a man is him being nice. So I totally agree with this video, the problem isnt that you are too nice, it is just that she isnt into you.
i was boring until i met alcohol
ya but you can't always booze
simer 007 I
I hear that
Good bye soon
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Do what u desire
XD
"Try somethings new every day"
I guess I will watch another new movie and play a different game
Or ya know go for a walk
My friends be like " Dang bro, where'd you learn these things?"
Me: Alpha M
1. PUT AWAY YOUR DEVICES AND GO OUT
jsg040 I've done it but I dunno what to do outside
@@mushykush4673 hay. can we help each other?
@@T.G_wiz im down
"oh wow. I'm so unique and interesting because I HATE technology and everyone who uses their phone is stupid. I'm SO much better and original because I live a REAL LIFE outside not like everyone else."
"I HATE FURRIES HAHA XD IM SO FUNNY!!!!!! XD FURRY HATE FUNNY FUN YUMMY FURRIES HATE XDXDXD!!1!"
Give this Guy a trophy He is amazing
Wholeheartedly agree definitely try new things I recently starting playing chess found it truly stimulating but here's the best part I'm meeting new people constantly as we come together every Monday evening at the local Mc Donalds eatery for chess and exchange of conversation on current issues!
You are great
+Frank Gadson I love this!
firstly we should stop thinking that ""I am boring""
I've started to change myself since last year and i improved a lot. I got more confident. I'm more into talking to people and i started to work out (that was the best decision. I love doing that). But the problem is that i'm still questioning myself. I don't know myself very properly and i think that i just wear a mask that falls off sometimes because I'm not very stable in my mind. I don't know if I'm doing good at life. My parents (who i love) are saying that i really improved in my life but I'm not so sure about myself...and that's why i want to ask somebody new if I'm doing good at life (of course....i have to make sure if i can trust that person)
All I do is watching Alpha m.
I should quit and become interesting
HowToLive
You should learn some grammar to while you’re at it.
@@rafiashraf2769 when you comment on someone's grammar and you can't use the correct 'too'
Big Daddy Tomuuu Lmao he played himself
thankx for the wake up call
freaking love u man
nah, the fact that you're watching a video about how to not be boring is actually showing that you are aware of yourself, your flaws and you seek self-improvement. Stay positive, think positive, open your ears to everything, take every circumstance from your daily-life with another perspective like "what is this trying to teach me?", or "what is this showing me?" , "what can i learn from this?". The way we see things and perceive life differs just because of our way of seeing those things. Stay at peace, we're all blessed y'all. (sorry for mistakes, i'm still learning english)
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."- Dale Carnegie
WE ARE LEGEN wait for it DARY!
LEGENDARY!
Aljon Camposano 🖒
Can we all take a moment to appreciate how calm and mature Alpha is in this video as compared to the recent ones? And God! The intro back then...so much better than the latest one.
i love his hair
cesar L I find it boring.
Pete and pedro
Ikr, it's fucking majestic. I'm like half his age and starting to look like freaking vegeta
armando cesar only 399
This video was as always, amazingly entertaining and educative. Keep up the great work Alpha!