How INFJs Show Love 7 Signs An INFJ Likes You (Psychology)

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  • @crystaljean522
    @crystaljean522 10 місяців тому +122

    I'm an INFP female, currently falling deeply in love with an INFJ male and I can honestly say, I've never felt so cherished or seen in my life.

    • @Boruto_God
      @Boruto_God 9 місяців тому +7

      Cool❤

    • @Flx-zh8ze
      @Flx-zh8ze 8 місяців тому +8

      Same. How are things going for you

    • @muhammadhifzhan545
      @muhammadhifzhan545 6 місяців тому +8

      I've heard the same comment from my INFP crush to me (INFJ). Isn't cerishing the one you love a normal thing?

    • @mjsmith8427
      @mjsmith8427 5 місяців тому +1

      As an INFP woman I am happy for you. I wish I could experience it

    • @jefftyl882
      @jefftyl882 5 місяців тому +1

      Mine is reversed. And as an infj male, i feel both of us (infp) are confused.

  • @bernadetak3991
    @bernadetak3991 5 місяців тому +42

    I'm an ENFP and I've just gotten into a relationship with an INFJ and he's literally like what this video described. I've never before felt so loved and wanted. INFJs you are amazing!

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  5 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

  • @howaperfectlybeautifulchil7340
    @howaperfectlybeautifulchil7340 8 місяців тому +61

    I am an INFJ who is loved by an INFJ, and it is a wonderful experience!

  • @infjpodcasts
    @infjpodcasts Рік тому +133

    My love language is quality time. Emotional and intellectual intimacy

  • @Mcky-lw1zb
    @Mcky-lw1zb 4 місяці тому +26

    INFJs show you trust and give you what is important to you, say money if we think that's what you like, but if you break that trust that we showed unconditionnally, then it's the door slam. We give you trust, respect, and money even if we know your past not even sure if we can accept it, so we show love unconditionally until we experience your negative actions against us.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  4 місяці тому

      Thanks for your comment micky , greetings!

    • @christinakormoci8442
      @christinakormoci8442 23 дні тому

      Very true

    • @RenIkeda
      @RenIkeda 21 день тому

      Trust is earned in drops and lost in buckets

  • @miskadraskoczyova8728
    @miskadraskoczyova8728 Рік тому +39

    I am an INFJ and I can tell it´s accurate. Great video 🤗

  • @SabinaRiggs
    @SabinaRiggs Рік тому +54

    The only thing that is inaccurate for me is the part about responding to text messages. I will typically respond to a significant other more promptly and I used to be as described in the video but as I got older, I realized that it's ok to respond when I have more time to properly read and communicate my response rather than trying to respond when I can barely pay attention to the message cuz I have so much on my plate. I try to forewarn people now to know that depending on the situation, it may take me a little more time to reply but that I will when I can give the message the time it deserves. For context, I have 3 very small children who constantly need my attention and the people in my life understand that. When they are older, I'm sure I might go back to responding more quickly but for now, my children take priority

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Рік тому

      Thanks for the Feedback

    • @Nsb2488
      @Nsb2488 Рік тому +3

      This is smart, I need to do this more. Trying to respond quickly always results in misunderstanding 😢

    • @dongordo63
      @dongordo63 4 місяці тому

      Not responding to texts, or delaying response is one of my personal pet peeves. Yes, I am an INFJ. First, there are 2 types of responses.....1. business and 2. personal. As a business person, if I don't respond to one of my texts within 5 or 10 minutes, I can almost certainly guarantee that I will lose that client. If I don't answer my client's text in hours or days, how are they supposed to know if I even got the text? You're actually frustrating them. Answering back immendiately takes care of this problem, and reassures the client that you are there for them, and are a responsive person. Saying you were 'too busy' conveys the wrong message to a client that you are cultivating for a business relationship. It doesn't need to be a long, well-thought out response.....merely acknowledging there message is usually good enough....until you can obtain more information to help the client. It's basically the same principle with personal texts (i'm not talking about all the frivolous junk that people shoot around). You can take a little longer to respond, especially during the work day. Rules: say you're in a meeting and can't respond.....make sure you tell them you were 'in a meeting' and that's why it took longer than usual. Lack of communication is the cause of much misunderstanding, which can lead to broken relationships and lost sales. Also, stop sending junk messages! It's a waste of everyone's time!

  • @INFP_smoky
    @INFP_smoky Рік тому +21

    Tbh it’s up to each person but this is accurate for me

  • @FlameIsExisting
    @FlameIsExisting Рік тому +15

    She comes over to my place tomorrow, and we've been talking for a little while now. This describes her perfectly, i might not know some things, but happy to see where this goes.

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 5 днів тому

      Don't know how it turned out but there is surely a lot you don't know cause INFJs are very secretive, but they are for the sake of their loved ones too.
      If an an INFJ is trying hard to be funny, openly shows a more naughty side and gets more critical, that means they're fully open to you and you have their full trust. It might take years though. At least you can still be surprised by them after years. INFJs have so many layers in them.

  • @lh4615
    @lh4615 6 місяців тому +19

    INFJ female here. These points in this video resonated deeply with me. I’m naturally guarded but can put on the facade of extroversion in public to put others at ease. When I decide to enter into a relationship, I go all in, but it’s rare to want to open myself that way. Just had a relationship end with someone I really thought was my person. I’ve decided not to pursue romantic relationships anymore. It’s just too painful and this one really gutted me. Much respect for those who put themselves out there and take those risks❤

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  6 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

    • @amberho2541
      @amberho2541 5 місяців тому +1

      Same here, infj here

    • @avavienneceleste965
      @avavienneceleste965 3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for telling us who you are. INFJ here as well

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever 3 місяці тому +1

      It took me 2yrs Alone to recover but Im dating again. Take your time.

    • @alexpuchall1540
      @alexpuchall1540 2 місяці тому

      @@lh4615 Us INFJ’S! Blessed and cursed at the same time. Hoping the very best for you. I know it’s hard out there. Always remain your true authentic self no matter what.

  • @-Foxy-Fox-
    @-Foxy-Fox- 8 місяців тому +19

    Number one is definitely not right for me. Its after something is emotionally established that I get touchy feely. Friendship wise it also takes time.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for your contribution foxy. Greetings!

    • @BNJA5M1N3
      @BNJA5M1N3 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes number one made me cringe a bit

  • @matrixgaming8637
    @matrixgaming8637 10 місяців тому +6

    as an INFJ, i didnt know this would be this accurate. AMAZING VIDEO

  • @tarafox6618
    @tarafox6618 Рік тому +11

    Time spent is definitely my first love language. However for me, acts of service is secondary. I am a mother of 8 though...so understandable.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Рік тому +1

      Thank you very much for your valuable contribution. Greetings!

    • @msneal92
      @msneal92 11 місяців тому +2

      I can so relate as a mom of 7😊

  • @animekingdom7423
    @animekingdom7423 4 місяці тому +6

    I am an infj and i'm so proud of it now ❤

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  4 місяці тому

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

  • @betaren21
    @betaren21 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m INFJ; this video is pretty accurate!!

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  11 місяців тому

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

  • @billbollins
    @billbollins Рік тому +17

    I met an INFJ on a dating website and now we text back and forth but its so difficult to understand her thoughts, she is very guarded. And she lives 2,000 miles from me, I'm fairly sure we would be dating if I lived where she lives. 😥 Update: It ended

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for your comment

    • @debralyn10
      @debralyn10 2 місяці тому

      It's okay, maybe she was no prepared for a serious relationship,

    • @billbollins
      @billbollins 2 місяці тому

      @@debralyn10 She contacted me again about a month ago, she just wants to be friends but I have my fingers crossed :)

    • @debralyn10
      @debralyn10 2 місяці тому +1

      @@billbollins She just wants to feed her ego, don't let her, just be indifferent with her, like if you talk to me, ill talk to you, if you dont, i wont. and so on, nothing romantic

    • @billbollins
      @billbollins 2 місяці тому

      @@debralyn10 Interesting, thank you

  • @EzinneAmadiugo-ty3mv
    @EzinneAmadiugo-ty3mv Місяць тому +1

    I personally agree to all this statements made in this video. I really love cuddling with people i trust the most especially those that love me back. And i agree again to the one of doing everything in their way to make things happen for someone.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Місяць тому

      It’s a beautiful quality to give your best to those you love, knowing they appreciate and value it just as much. 🌟

  • @infj-tguy6275
    @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +19

    I show love via gifts, words of affirmation n physical touch, im emotionally supportive and always ready to listen to her
    I can get clingy but i try not to

    • @crookedzebrarecords
      @crookedzebrarecords Рік тому +5

      I'm an infj-t guy as well. Same thing with me, a bit clingy when getting attached, until I became cognitively aware of it. Only had a few small groups of friends so far in life. With the T attached to the infj, do you get really pissed off sometimes, like smoke coming out of your ears? because that seems to be the case with me, from time to time. But otherwise, I'm also very emotionally supportive (tuned in to people around me), and a bit of an advocate at times.

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +2

      @@crookedzebrarecords yes, i can get hypernova pissed and its a bit scary but im thankful that i understand how to forgive and let go, its really great to meet ya zebra 💙
      I also enjoy small groups of friends as well, my current circle is 4 but my family circle is bigger but i find it a bit defeating havin alot, its like goin new game+ 50 and it feels pointless
      I am also clingy and i only care to stop if its effecting her in a negative way
      Btw zeebra, did you know that the star stevenson 218 is classified as a red hyper giant and is massive that when compared to the sun its like an and standing next to mount everest?
      The channel kurzgesagt on youtube have a video about stars that you might find interesting
      And are you interested in learning more about food and its many health benefits?

    • @crookedzebrarecords
      @crookedzebrarecords Рік тому +2

      @@infj-tguy6275 Lol yea we are an odd bunch :D I worked at a nutrition store for a lonnnnng time! Otherwise I eat what other zebras eat?? Depends on how much time I have to actually eat, there is always the risk of lots of angry villagers/farmers with pitchforks.But I'm always open to hearing opinions! I did not know that particular star was that massive, BUT I do love space, the universe, the possibility of multiple universes. when you contemplate size, put it into perspective how tiny we are, or how quickly time really flies, it is mindblowing! Nice to meet you too, probably hardly ever actually meet the same personality type in person. (if I did, judgement probably kicked in, that dude was odd lol).

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому

      @@crookedzebrarecords a nutrition store eyy, nice, the reason i ask is because ive learned alot from a man called dr.berg and i love to recommend ppl to his channel as he taught me that garlic can prevent arthritis, acts as a natural antibiotic AND helps fight off colds n even cancer
      Ive learned alot from him, but why would villagers be so cross, unless you're putting tnt in their houses 😄😄
      Ohh if you think thats big then ive got more, apparently waaay back in the early universe stars were able to grow to hundreds of millions of sizes larger, so large in fact that they made even the godlike stevenson 218 look like the sun in comparison, they were known as yellow hyper giant stars and apparently there were things called Black Hole Stars and this is where things get really insane
      So when stars form they suck up alot of gas right? Well these early stars pulled in soooooo much gas that their cores collapsed into black holes while the star was STILL growing
      It was a live star with a black hole for a core but it couldn't eat fast enough and to say they were big is an insult to their true size, in fact there's actually a hyper massive black hole out there somewhere that further across than 7, count em, 7 solar systems in a row 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
      Like sweet mother of god man!
      Its.. its such an absolutely horrifying yet magnificent thought that i almost cried a few times just describing it... im not sure if its from pure fear or awwe but for just knowledge to cause such a reaction is.. im not sure how to properly describe it tbh
      I too enjoy thinking of the omniverse, parallel realities n alternate dimensions, are you a rick n morty fan by chance?
      Both the marvel n DC universes are truly fascinating to listen to as just recently i learned that the famous sorce wall surrounds the multivers like a multidimensional wall and on top of that there the gods of the whole of existence and thats just fekin nuts to learn about
      We are indeed insignificant, but its kinda nice to be so small but i understand that life can be quite colossal in its size, for example, earth is a class S world but on a class XL world there are beings capable of holding earth like a marble...
      I'd enjoy hangin with ya irl if we could meet up, are you into kush? We could chill all day n just talk but if not then perhaps some wine n cheese because hell yeah! I love cheese!! 🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀🧀
      Its GOUDA! 😆😆😆

  • @clairjunior5291
    @clairjunior5291 5 місяців тому +4

    As an INFJ, I confirm every statement made in this video.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  5 місяців тому

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

  • @solutions4tenants141
    @solutions4tenants141 7 місяців тому +3

    I am an INFJ and I approve of this message

  • @missjoasia123
    @missjoasia123 Рік тому +4

    So spot on for me INFJ here

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Рік тому +1

      😍😍💁‍♀️

  • @vvv-hm8fd
    @vvv-hm8fd 10 місяців тому +3

    This is so true

  • @Flawsomista
    @Flawsomista Місяць тому

    I’m an INFJ/INTJ it is true that when I like someone it seems I am more poetic and long winded in text or verbal expressions. However, perhaps due to the T-thinking vs F-feeling I am not as emotionally sensitive in outward expressions which makes me at times seem more cold or cool and unemotional while in reality I’m experiencing as much of intense emotion as the F but not displayed; analyzed more from a logic perspective. I lend more with justice, standards, analysis, critique whereby the F likes the sound of words such as harmony, devotion, etc. however my friends that know me say that I embrace and lean heavily toward INFJ. I’m sure you’ve done a comparison; I’ll be sure to look for it. Thank you this was quite interesting.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Місяць тому

      Thanks for sharing such an insightful take on the INFJ and INTJ blend! It sounds like you navigate that line between deep feeling and analytical thinking beautifully.

  • @peliganferencz
    @peliganferencz Місяць тому

    100 % True !!!!!! INFJ Here !!!!

  • @Michel-ov1sv
    @Michel-ov1sv 11 місяців тому +1

    Great video. Applies to me 100%. However, I wish that the paradox of despite having all these qualities they remain single. I read that INFJ IS ONE OF THE MOST Likable but the most divorced type!!!

    • @jen-gv7tx
      @jen-gv7tx 4 місяці тому +1

      being single is better than being with someone who is fake. i am wanting to date an infj, i would love to be in love, something legit and loyal

  • @jyotivyas9286
    @jyotivyas9286 Місяць тому +1

    Exactly। but they can't see in pain to anybody. Not making happy. 😊caring

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Місяць тому +1

      INFJs may be strong and adaptable, but they feel deeply and hate seeing anyone in pain.

  • @desertforest2221
    @desertforest2221 Рік тому +16

    Hmm, I strongly disagree with the physical touch thing. I have tested very low for Physical Touch as a Love Language (something like 6 or 7% I think it was); I usually just want to stay away from people and I don't like it when they touch me. However, I haven't really tested this with people I truly *like* being around, so... there's a chance it could be true, I suppose.
    And for the rest, I can probably be agreeable to those ideas. I have memories of people online that I've enjoyed hanging out with (like in games, for example), so these can kind of apply there.

    • @crookedzebrarecords
      @crookedzebrarecords Рік тому +1

      I don't like strangers touching me, I don't even like sitting side by side, or anyone in my personal space, with the exception of child or spouse. So I hear ya, I think it's a different ball game in a romantic relationship though, at least for me.

    • @Ocafi
      @Ocafi Рік тому

      I would agree with you for the majority of folks, the exception being when I feel the Demisexual Echo from them, in which case touch becomes a very important factor

    • @lucy9698
      @lucy9698 Рік тому +3

      That's not an INFJ thing, that's a personal thing. Most people do like physical touch regardless of personality and you just happen to be in the small percentage of the human population that doesn't.

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 5 днів тому

      I think the right way to say it is that INFJs are timid when it comes to physical touch but they don't necessarely despise it. It's mostly that it makes them feel quite uncomfortable but not always in a bad way. Need to get used to it maybe.

  • @crystalmatthews5560
    @crystalmatthews5560 Рік тому +3

    On point

  • @uhm-chan1218
    @uhm-chan1218 4 місяці тому +1

    1:05
    As an infj, i've never even hug my sister, and my siblings are only getting one kiss on the cheek on my birthdays. I usually keep at least half a meter between me and someone who i talk to.....

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  4 місяці тому

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

  • @infj-tguy6275
    @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +12

    Im an alien so i prefer probing 😄😄😄👽👾
    Don't be nervous if you feel a tentacle sliding up your back if we're dating 😂😂

    • @crookedzebrarecords
      @crookedzebrarecords Рік тому +2

      Well many of us have feel like we are from a different universe, especially as I've watched history unfold, or rather, history unravel :D

    • @lucy9698
      @lucy9698 Рік тому +3

      Kinky 😂

    • @Peppita_
      @Peppita_ 7 місяців тому

      Yessssss 👽

  • @magatamass
    @magatamass 8 місяців тому +2

    It's true to all personaities.

  • @davidukadike1774
    @davidukadike1774 Рік тому +4

    Every single sign here applies to me😅

  • @rachelnelson5608
    @rachelnelson5608 Рік тому +9

    I feel exposed lol 😆 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @equisader
    @equisader Рік тому +4

    100pc accurate.

  • @Mary-zo4rx
    @Mary-zo4rx 3 місяці тому

    I respond promptly and it gets me stressed because i get overwhelmed with so many things to do omg is hard,

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for your comment Mary, greetings

  • @roziepeet9287
    @roziepeet9287 2 місяці тому

    I’m an infp and my ex is an infj. He was like that in the beginning but then he stopped months before I broke up with him. He claimed he still loved me but did absolutely nothing to let me know that. It’s very upsetting because I still loved him. Now he’s with a new girl and I’ll prob be single for a few years.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  2 місяці тому

      It sounds like you're going through a lot, and that's completely valid. INFJs can sometimes struggle to express love consistently, especially if they’re dealing with their own inner conflicts.

  • @0oo00oo0o
    @0oo00oo0o 2 місяці тому

    True for this infj

  • @beccaagain
    @beccaagain 7 місяців тому +2

    Until you continually devalue them

  • @ak_akemi
    @ak_akemi 3 місяці тому

    Ok literally everyone will tend to do it.

  • @guyonyoutube69
    @guyonyoutube69 4 місяці тому

    1:22 that death stare tho

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for your comment, greetings!

  • @shifra3203
    @shifra3203 Рік тому +155

    First one is wrong we never feel good with physical touch we always have our boundaries its bluntly wrong

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +121

      Lol "we"?
      Who are you speakin for homeslice?
      I love physical touch, just not from randoms unless its a hug or handshake or somethin
      But in a romantic relationship physical touch is extremely important, especially since $ex is one of my top requirements for a woman
      If i can't touch her n be sexual n lustful then i don't date em, why the fek would i give a fek about bein in a romantic relationship if there's no physical touch??

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому

      You say never, you say we, as if you speak for every infj on earth and thats not true, i absolutely lovs physical touch, i lust for my girl, i desire to please and pleasure her to extreme degrees
      Hugs, kisses, holding hand, butt slaps, tickling and especially cuddling, you're not me, you're we, so don't blindly assume you are when you're not
      You're not me, you're thee, you're thou, not i, not he, are my original self?
      Are you the head of a hive mind of infjs?
      No, you're singular, as in 1 or one, your mind is not connected to my mind, so you dont speak for me, you don't speak for we, but there are those of us who would agree with you to an extent but thats it
      You're not the queen bee of the hive of the infj existence, we are individuals, we didn't have the same life experiences so i disagree with you and im absolutely sure that most infjs on earth would
      I have an infj gf, she obviously likes bein touched as i do, i have a gay infj guy bff n he also loves being touched, check yaself before ya wreck yaself homeslice
      Your arrogance is ugly and you blindy assume too much
      Good day fool

    • @runninginsept
      @runninginsept Рік тому +71

      My partner is an INFJ and we touch each other A LOT. He loves reaching for me.

    • @paul2609
      @paul2609 Рік тому +59

      That sounds like an INFP thing. INFJ likes touch because of Inferior-Se.

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +35

      @@paul2609 i fekin LOVE cuddles!
      Hell yeah!

  • @misstiff29
    @misstiff29 Рік тому +5

    Some of these comments are so fussy lol relax😅

  • @bakalurx
    @bakalurx Рік тому

    Flowers

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Рік тому +1

      ⚘️⚘️⚘️

  • @VinceYT2408
    @VinceYT2408 2 місяці тому

    Basically you said how everyone show their true love ??? Not about infj.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  2 місяці тому

      INFJs often show their love through deep emotional connections, support, and understanding. Their love language may involve acts of service or meaningful conversations. If you’d like to delve deeper into how INFJs specifically express their love, I’d be happy to explore that with you!

  • @Gt11369
    @Gt11369 Місяць тому

    Bro Stop exposing Me like this...

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  Місяць тому

      Haha, got you feeling seen, huh? 😆 Don’t worry, your secret’s safe here!

  • @Magic-Enlightenment
    @Magic-Enlightenment 10 місяців тому +1

    😎

  • @sunrayrosin7181
    @sunrayrosin7181 2 місяці тому

    Sounds more like people pleasing and clingy and fake to please the object of effect ion instead of being an IMFJ. Where did you get your psyc degree? If someone treated me like this I would run. Crazy clingy co dependent.

    • @PsychIQ
      @PsychIQ  2 місяці тому +1

      It sounds like you've encountered some unhealthy behavior patterns that can happen to anyone, not just INFJs. True INFJs focus on authenticity and deep connections, not people-pleasing or co-dependency. It's important to distinguish between the real traits of a personality type and someone’s personal struggles.

    • @sunrayrosin7181
      @sunrayrosin7181 2 місяці тому

      @@PsychIQ yes, authentic and solid enough to not be all gushy or overly caught up in others or what they think too much.