Asking your partner to change into another dress during the evening because you need her to gift you a broader range of feminine energies... feels kind of weird to me, a litte controlling. Like, you have this gorgeous, radiant young woman, Madelyn, and still her feminine energy isn't sufficient? Also this constant self-reflection and the use of relationship techniques and strategies seems quite exhausting. Like you're actually avoiding intimacy by turning it into some kind of endeavor or mastery instead of just being with each other.
I appreciate this example of authentic conscious loving commitment. It gave me permission to show up in my imperfect ways and keep showing up. Thank you both ❤️🔥
Me too! It helped to hear these two talk so openly about the vulnerable parts of their relationship in a way that relates to my own. "Transformation of Lineage" right on!
Wow wow wow. Thank you thank you thank you. So many aha moments, so many breakthroughs. Such a real conversation. So valuable! Thank you both so much !!! Also: "There is always something, like he is a democrat" xD talking about any two people and something to talk about rather than them having to be a dealbreaker.
Beautiful interview. Thank you Madelyn. And I so much look forward to your podcast @John and to be a part of one of your year programs, hopefully soon!
I could listen to you guys allllll day and night 🙏🏽 I am so Thankful you guys are doing the work and you are here to share it for us ❤️🔥 onto the journey
Thank you for the introduction to Madelyn. My partner and I have been in John's programs since first lock down and have gleaned so much. It is truly a gift to see, hear, and resonate with your story of origin and the up's and down's of relationship. Thank you to you both for showing up in this deeply vulnerable way and allowing us to watch.
Why would you make a list of resentments Madelyn? Why would you harbor resentment at all, for that matter? I am asking you now if in the meantime you became aware. Interesting convo!
I am someone in a 20 year age gap relationship, I appreciate hearing about others experience. Folks may have also been asking from the same place of curiosity and not actually being haters.
Love watching you and seeing you. Thank you so much for your share, would love to be able to integrate this emotional maturity myself in relationship. You guys are beautiful. Thank you ❤
I'm really confused...on your reels and in your programs, Madelyn, you are bold and confident. In this interview you seem tense like you're at the principal's office. I predict you will become an expert on gaslighting and narcissism and will help the world with the new age narcissism epidemic.
@@saffronmccaughna1592 I am not diagnosing him, just speculating about what could be going on. They are broken up again and Madelyn is now forbidden to talk about John in order to "protect his heart." The relationship is public property when John wants to promote his grift, but private property when there is risk of his faults being exposed.
I agree . I felt this woman very childlike and manipulative .and I would not do any women's work with her.. and the relationship.felt icky. ..I wish them both the best😮
I appreciate the fuck out of this. It speaks so highly of both of you to admit y’all’s wounds so publicly. This is helping me with a situation with a beloved where our dynamic feels so similar to what you are explaining here. Thank you for the vulnerability!
Arwen and Aragorn had a bigger age gap, she's thousands of years older than him...
Asking your partner to change into another dress during the evening because you need her to gift you a broader range of feminine energies... feels kind of weird to me, a litte controlling. Like, you have this gorgeous, radiant young woman, Madelyn, and still her feminine energy isn't sufficient? Also this constant self-reflection and the use of relationship techniques and strategies seems quite exhausting. Like you're actually avoiding intimacy by turning it into some kind of endeavor or mastery instead of just being with each other.
I appreciate this example of authentic conscious loving commitment. It gave me permission to show up in my imperfect ways and keep showing up. Thank you both ❤️🔥
The hands😍
Right? So stinking cute
Love this. So good to hear more in depth about what it takes. Resonate very deeply with the transformation of lineage patterns.
Me too! It helped to hear these two talk so openly about the vulnerable parts of their relationship in a way that relates to my own. "Transformation of Lineage" right on!
Wow wow wow. Thank you thank you thank you. So many aha moments, so many breakthroughs. Such a real conversation. So valuable! Thank you both so much !!!
Also: "There is always something, like he is a democrat" xD talking about any two people and something to talk about rather than them having to be a dealbreaker.
What a beautiful interview, thank you both so much. 🙏🏼
I never even noticed the age gap 😅❤
Same
I am so honored that you shared all this with us. Bless your union!
Beautiful interview. Thank you Madelyn. And I so much look forward to your podcast @John and to be a part of one of your year programs, hopefully soon!
I could listen to you guys allllll day and night 🙏🏽 I am so Thankful you guys are doing the work and you are here to share it for us ❤️🔥 onto the journey
Excited about your podcast, John! Thank you both for this honest conversation 🩷 What's your enneatype Madelyn, btw?
Thank you for the introduction to Madelyn. My partner and I have been in John's programs since first lock down and have gleaned so much. It is truly a gift to see, hear, and resonate with your story of origin and the up's and down's of relationship. Thank you to you both for showing up in this deeply vulnerable way and allowing us to watch.
Why would you make a list of resentments Madelyn? Why would you harbor resentment at all, for that matter? I am asking you now if in the meantime you became aware. Interesting convo!
It’s not about who is winning, it’s about if love is winning. That would be the end goal.
This was amazing! Thank you both so much for sharing! 🙏🤍🙏
The age gap is 27 years. He’s literally twice her age.
Sounds like JUDGEMENT.
I am someone in a 20 year age gap relationship, I appreciate hearing about others experience. Folks may have also been asking from the same place of curiosity and not actually being haters.
Loved it, learned a lot!
Love watching you and seeing you. Thank you so much for your share, would love to be able to integrate this emotional maturity myself in relationship. You guys are beautiful. Thank you ❤
One can only dream for this kind of consciousness in relationship 🙏🏼
I care! ❤
I'm really confused...on your reels and in your programs, Madelyn, you are bold and confident. In this interview you seem tense like you're at the principal's office. I predict you will become an expert on gaslighting and narcissism and will help the world with the new age narcissism epidemic.
That’s almost funny if it wasn’t so true.
Are you saying that you think John is narcissistic?
@@saffronmccaughna1592 I am not diagnosing him, just speculating about what could be going on. They are broken up again and Madelyn is now forbidden to talk about John in order to "protect his heart." The relationship is public property when John wants to promote his grift, but private property when there is risk of his faults being exposed.
I agree
. I felt this woman very childlike and manipulative
.and I would not do any women's work with her.. and the relationship.felt icky. ..I wish them both the best😮
I appreciate the fuck out of this. It speaks so highly of both of you to admit y’all’s wounds so publicly. This is helping me with a situation with a beloved where our dynamic feels so similar to what you are explaining here. Thank you for the vulnerability!