the beauty of female friendships.

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  • @popstarbelle
    @popstarbelle 4 місяці тому +13

    I've had a really bad run with friendships in the past, and last year I met the most amazing human ever. She's my best friend and has taught me what good quality friendships look like. She's been so patient with me unlearning my former habits from toxic friendships and I'm so greatful for her. She's truly changed my life for the better, and I hate that she doesn't know it. She was in a really rough patch last year after going through a break up, and a lot of other things happened. According to her, I was the person she new would never judge her and could always go to. She's told me a number of times that she's sorry she was not there for me and was focused on herself. But the truth is, she was there for me even if she was having the worst day she was there and didn't tare me down to make herself feel better. She would also listen to my rants about stupid things that didn't even matter or stand up for me when people were being mean. She's truly amazing and I really hope she knows this.

  • @Mia_47
    @Mia_47 4 місяці тому +35

    You’ve been posting so much recently! Thank you for what you do Ruby!

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +11

      of course i hope you guys enjoy! ❤️

  • @Vai_Editzz
    @Vai_Editzz 4 місяці тому +47

    Dropped everything and ran to watch this ‼️‼️

  • @Maggie-t6z
    @Maggie-t6z 4 місяці тому +11

    Just lost my best friend can’t wait to find a fantastic friendship like this

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +4

      i’m so sorry :(

    • @lordfarquad2984
      @lordfarquad2984 4 місяці тому +3

      she will come- don’t worry. i went through something similar a year ago and now have a better friendship than before

    • @Maggie-t6z
      @Maggie-t6z 4 місяці тому +2

      @@lordfarquad2984 aw thank you so much that means a lot!!💗

    • @Chloe_lovergirl
      @Chloe_lovergirl 4 місяці тому +2

      I'm so sorry:(

    • @Maggie-t6z
      @Maggie-t6z 4 місяці тому +2

      @@Chloe_lovergirl honestly it was for the better in the end but it is hard

  • @Kaykayowkapow
    @Kaykayowkapow 4 місяці тому +5

    I’ve been watching you for 3 years now, since I was in 5th grade and you were in 8th. You’ve helped me so much is unreal, now I’m where you started. I’m getting ready for Highschool, have found a group a friends who I adore and try to make school as well as my friends a priority. I remember I watched all of your period videos (I know kind of concerning) and I was waiting for mine and when I finally got it I watched them again to help me through it. Anyway long story short, I’ve never been much of a commenter but I just wanna say you’ve helped me so much throughout middle school. I would just like to thank you for all of it!

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +2

      omg that’s crazy!! thank you for being around so long! i’m so happy for you and i’m wishing you so much luck on high school! so so glad my vids could help you out ❤️❤️

  • @Lana-qx9xz
    @Lana-qx9xz 4 місяці тому +2

    Omg Ruby this video made me realize how grateful I am for my friends they are all so sweet and amazing and I love them, also Ruby thank you for all the videos you’ve been posting ❤❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  3 місяці тому

      yesss omg glad you enjoyed ❤️

  • @tutorialswnat
    @tutorialswnat 4 місяці тому +5

    this is so adorable and is such an expression of gratitude for all our bffs out there!! get well soon rubyyy, love your videos!

  • @laurenslifee
    @laurenslifee 4 місяці тому +2

    YOU HAIR LOOKS SO GOOD OMGG!!!❤

  • @Vai_Editzz
    @Vai_Editzz 4 місяці тому +10

    Dropped everything and ran to watch this video ‼️‼️ love you Ruby, hope you have a speedy recovery!!

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +2

      thank you so so much! hope you enjoyed the video!! 🩷

    • @Vai_Editzz
      @Vai_Editzz 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 I really did!!

  • @nnn7886
    @nnn7886 4 місяці тому +2

    I love this. Ive been struggling a bit with my friends but at the same time ive grown and gone through so much with my really good friends. Being a teenager is hard but so awesome.

  • @morgancalloway-oe8vc
    @morgancalloway-oe8vc 4 місяці тому +2

    THE QUEEN HAS POSTED!! love your vids ruby!

  • @elephant1871
    @elephant1871 4 місяці тому +2

    I wish I could say I relate to this video. I’m kinda in a couple different “friend groups,” but in both I feel like I’m that one person that they don’t actually like. I’m always the “Can you take a picture of is?” Friend and they always talk about plans they have that I’m not invited to. Yet sometimes they are great. But really most of the time I feel like they don’t care about me and are only friend with me because I am smart and they use me to help them get better grades. The other friend group I’m in is super toxic. In it there is a girl who got assaulted by a guy in the friend group but no one else believes her. And there’s this girl who always vents to me and never lets me say anything back to her I feel like she looks down on me like she’s way above. So basically that friend group is just messed up. And the other one I’m in is more of a trio, and I’m always the one left out of it. The only people I think really are my friends are these 3 girls I met at camp last summer. But they all live in different states. We talk every single day, and it feels like we never stopped seeing each other after camp, but it’s unfortunate that I feel like they are the only real friends I have. I don’t even feel like I have a best friend. Two of them say they are my best friend. And then they don’t act like it at all and I don’t know if I really consider them my best friend.
    Ok, sorry that was pretty long, but it felt good to get this off my chest. Thanks for posting, I love your channel!

  • @jmtz8561
    @jmtz8561 4 місяці тому +12

    Love this video! I’ve always struggled making friends and putting myself out there and I’ve never made any long term friendships. But I’ve recently made 2 new friends and hopefully these friends can become long term. Hope you’re doing better with your surgery! ❤❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +6

      yay i’m so happy for you! thank you so much!! ❤️

  • @jjk_death_note
    @jjk_death_note 4 місяці тому +2

    I love that you’ve been posting more!

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +2

      me too i missed you guys! ❤️

  • @ansley546
    @ansley546 4 місяці тому

    I have been watching you for so long and im so sorry what has happened in the past, but im so happy that you are surrounded by beautiful girls on the inside and out

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you so so much!! you are so kind

  • @Ellie_is_delulu12
    @Ellie_is_delulu12 4 місяці тому +1

    I really needed this ❤

  • @PSpen
    @PSpen 4 місяці тому +3

    Hi I love you so much. I found you randomly and have been obsessed! Love you ❤❤❤❤! Also first😊😊

  • @SoAmerican2024
    @SoAmerican2024 4 місяці тому +2

    I'm so glad your able to post more ily 💕ruby and also I hope you enjoyed Tortured poets as much as I did❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you so much! omg i love the album sm

  • @Naomi-ex5ny
    @Naomi-ex5ny 4 місяці тому

    Watched it as soon as I saw you posted! This video is so relatable and reassuring. Love your videos Ruby!

  • @mariellkjonnhaug
    @mariellkjonnhaug 4 місяці тому +3

    This is my biggest dream ever. I have two friends rhat i’m close with but i’m never tge first choice and i’m always just an option.. I’m so scared that they don’t actually like me..

    • @anjana.sa23
      @anjana.sa23 3 місяці тому

      yeah exactly! like those two friends hv a lot of ppl but theyre the only people i have lmaoo

  • @KayleeBass-yx2cw
    @KayleeBass-yx2cw 4 місяці тому +1

    I love ur period videos I have just recently got my period this year and I'm only 11 and none of my friends have so I feel to weird because I'm the only one but your vids let me know I'm not alone during this time of the month

  • @elise_bandkid
    @elise_bandkid 4 місяці тому +1

    this is such a beautiful video! i hope you recover quickly!

  • @kaiallopez
    @kaiallopez 4 місяці тому

    CRYING I LOVE YOU SO MUCH

  • @beyzabiyza
    @beyzabiyza 4 місяці тому

    Thank you rubyy your videos are veryy helpfull to me ı love youu so muchhh ❤❤❤

  • @Grace-dc7hd
    @Grace-dc7hd 4 місяці тому +2

    seconddd love youuu ❤🎉

  • @chrisbarutha4696
    @chrisbarutha4696 4 місяці тому

    This is so sweet and wholesome, and very ture. I love this video!

  • @myapincivero
    @myapincivero 4 місяці тому

    i also have a best friend too that i had for a long time too. we literally kinda grew up together and are still the bestest friends till this day, and that is really hard to find, especially now. finding girls just like that is so rare and i feel like that’s something too always remember and to be so grateful about that bc they have been through EVERYTHING w you and i just love that 💗💗

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      that is amazing! yesss i love this sm 💗💗💗

  • @TooMuchTaylor
    @TooMuchTaylor 4 місяці тому

    The title got me 💖

  • @paradiseprincess-cx9vh
    @paradiseprincess-cx9vh 4 місяці тому +1

    Can't wait for the video with your brother tomorrow ❤🎉

  • @GirlyGirl290
    @GirlyGirl290 4 місяці тому

    Hey Ruby! I just wanted to say Hi because I have been watching your period days and weeks in your life! And they are so fun to to watch because they are real they aren’t someone trying to always do makeup and act like they look like that all the time!

  • @Lifewurfavlylaaa
    @Lifewurfavlylaaa 4 місяці тому

    This video is beautiful! You are such an amazing person and you will go so far in life❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you so much omg! this is so sweet 💕💕

    • @Lifewurfavlylaaa
      @Lifewurfavlylaaa 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 of course! Your advice has been so helpful to me over the years!💗

  • @Bracha_1
    @Bracha_1 4 місяці тому

    All of your videos have helped me so much! I hope you recover quickly💖!! Love you ruby!!!

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you so much! love you too

    • @Bracha_1
      @Bracha_1 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28

    • @Bracha_1
      @Bracha_1 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 omg thank you so much ruby😄

  • @HannahJohnson-ro5fr
    @HannahJohnson-ro5fr 4 місяці тому

    I dropped everything to watch this video. I love you so so so much Ruby your literally the best UA-camr in the world!❤❤❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you so so much awww! ❤️

  • @andeeharry
    @andeeharry 4 місяці тому

    Queenie has arrived, wishing you a speedy recovery. Hope the surgery went well and thanks for sharing. It is good to see Pitzah (high connection between two best friends) in action. You know, it is empowering

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you so much!

    • @andeeharry
      @andeeharry 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 your welcome, it is good to have a circle is within the same wavelength, it helps on a lot of things. It is great to see this. Hopefully your trinity will last for ages

  • @racquelhousen3587
    @racquelhousen3587 4 місяці тому

    at the start of the school one of my “friendships” ( one person ) has been making fun of me and spreading fake rumors about me in school and going around telling people that i like a certain guy but i don’t he likes her, and has made my friends who had to move school cry many times but she always forgave her tho and she kept saying and doing bad things again and again and when when my friend moved she still kept going but school has ended for summer and hopefully i can make new friends in middle school. ily sm hope u recover from ur surgery well 🩷❤️

  • @valsvlogsssss
    @valsvlogsssss 4 місяці тому +3

    Ive had a very hard time recently iwth friendships i have been replaced all the time and left out expecially at school but now im starting a new school amd i have a great feeling ❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      i’m so sorry but i’m wishing you so much luck at your new school!

  • @acrobaticfleaa
    @acrobaticfleaa 4 місяці тому

    i havent watched you in so long! i first started watching your videos about 3 years ago and still adore you. youre so talented in everything you do from acting to making videos to writing books. youve influenced my life so much and im so happy to watch you grow up :)

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +1

      thank you so much omg this comment made my day ❤️❤️

    • @acrobaticfleaa
      @acrobaticfleaa 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 aw omg of course!! i hope youre recovering well from your surgery :))

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +1

      @@acrobaticfleaa thank you i am!! ur so sweet

  • @BookwormEdits
    @BookwormEdits 4 місяці тому +2

    love your eras tour poster in your room ❤

  • @rehamaly3394
    @rehamaly3394 4 місяці тому

    Me and my friend group have been together since 4th grade and now we are going onto 6th grade together. We recently dropped one toxic friend bc she would always start fights with us over the littlest things in our gc and would never sit with us irl at school, ever since we kicked her we all felt happier even if it was just a little bit

  • @NikiDemar-ju8ri
    @NikiDemar-ju8ri 4 місяці тому +1

    I hope your doing well ruby after the surgery ur very brave ❤❤❤

  • @isajansen
    @isajansen 4 місяці тому +2

    OMG YESSS! A NEW VIDEO❤❤❤❤

  • @lifeofcallie7827
    @lifeofcallie7827 4 місяці тому +2

    This is amazing video!❤❤❤
    Thank you for spreading the word about this ❤❤❤
    Your amazing love you ❤❤❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +1

      thank you so much!! ly too ❤️❤️

  • @2269blondtiger
    @2269blondtiger 4 місяці тому

    I found that finding female friends after college is extremely difficult, I wish I could go back in time.

  • @mackenziegreenfield
    @mackenziegreenfield 4 місяці тому

    In January and February, i dropped two of my friends which was the best decision ever . i’m really glad i have my 2 best friends in my life

  • @paradiseprincess-cx9vh
    @paradiseprincess-cx9vh 4 місяці тому +4

    I love it ❤

  • @zara-cy1di
    @zara-cy1di 4 місяці тому

    This is so true .

  • @Imthatgirl122
    @Imthatgirl122 4 місяці тому

    Love thiss ❤

  • @Eli-lq7oz
    @Eli-lq7oz 4 місяці тому +1

    Love you ❤❤❤. You are amazing !!🤩

  • @amandataylorversion1989
    @amandataylorversion1989 4 місяці тому

    I meet my best friend in kindergarten she always there if I need someone to talk too. I pretty much lose most my other friends since elementary school, but Katie has been with me forever she might be my only friend but I don’t need any other ones

  • @Autumnc0r3
    @Autumnc0r3 4 місяці тому

    Yay u posted I’m so happy rn❤

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      hope you enjoyed!! ❤️

    • @Autumnc0r3
      @Autumnc0r3 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 I did it actually helped me a lot and I watched it with my friends

  • @zaynabmalik585
    @zaynabmalik585 4 місяці тому +2

    love you ruby!

  • @LanaMohamed-u7l
    @LanaMohamed-u7l 4 місяці тому

    Omg hiiii ilysm I literally ran to watch this, but I just wanted to ask if you could do an SAT vid on how you got an 1500+

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      hi! lysm hope you enjoyed! yes i’d love to do a vid like that

  • @RayrayslaysX
    @RayrayslaysX 4 місяці тому +2

    YAS QUEEN RUBAYY

  • @playlistonly6512
    @playlistonly6512 4 місяці тому +1

    I meet my best friend in pre school. She moved to Spokane but she came back to Colorado just to Visit for a month. She is going back home sometime in July . Her moving away was hard for me. She lived in Colorado ever since I could remember and I hate it. Knowing that she’s not living in Colorado I wish she could. She wants to but she can’t

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      i’m so sorry, it’s so hard to be away from your friends ❤️❤️

  • @IggeRanvinge
    @IggeRanvinge 4 місяці тому

    Hi Ruby!
    First of all, i really hope that you`r feeling well after you`r surgury and wish for you a speedy recovery. Second of all, you`r the BEST!
    Third and last of all, now that you can use tampon`s culd you please do a tampon-tutorail youtube-video once you get the hang of it you`r selves ofc. I don`t mean using tampon`s will be tricky for you in the beginning, or to scare you or anything, i`m just saying it culd be. And if you need time to learn how to use them, it`s TOTALY understandeble!!! But maybe you`r a tampon-pro from the start. What i mean, essensially is that i will have patiens with you to learn to youse tampon`s you`r selves but one`s you`ve figured it out, it would be nice of you to make a tompon-tutorial. I hope you will have a GREAT summer, Ruby!!
    Sorry if mi spelling is crappy b.t.w, i`m from Sweden.

    • @emmatripl
      @emmatripl 4 місяці тому

      Don’t worry the spelling is fine, not all of it is correct but I can still understand it all

  • @violetsten9190
    @violetsten9190 4 місяці тому

    Hey Ruby, since you have had surgeries, I was gonna ask for advice on having my first surgery, I’m quite nervous and I’m getting my first surgery in August ❤️

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +1

      just remember to be calm and trust that you are in good hands!! make sure you know all the details of your procedure beforehand so that it feels less scary and remember that you are in good hands... good luck!!

  • @Urfav_blondezzz
    @Urfav_blondezzz 4 місяці тому +1

    Earlyyy❤❤❤😊

  • @Audrey.Roberts
    @Audrey.Roberts 4 місяці тому

    I dropped on of my friends because she was toxic and not a true friend. My mom also thought the same thing

  • @liliankay09
    @liliankay09 4 місяці тому +1

    YOU CONSISTENT QUEEN🩷

  • @kendrabonilla-jy2jp
    @kendrabonilla-jy2jp 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @hannahmichelle6356
    @hannahmichelle6356 4 місяці тому

    Any advice for somebody who wants to have friends but hs anxiety?

  • @naomiisaiaholive4576
    @naomiisaiaholive4576 4 місяці тому

    Amazing ❤❤

  • @ellasversion13
    @ellasversion13 4 місяці тому +1

    Love your vides ruby❤

  • @alyssakellander3874
    @alyssakellander3874 4 місяці тому

    i love your videos ruby you always are insiring and you are always so relatable i am so happy that its summer and i can’t believe you are a senior ruby. i am having an amazing and fun and great summer i got to go to st cloud last weekend to celebrate my birthday and of course i got my girl thing for my birthday last saturday but i still had fun we went to a trampoline park with friends and it was so much fun i got to go shopping and i got an american girl book to the stars isabelle cupcake diaries emilys cupcake magic and natalies double trouble and cupcake diaries mias boiling point. i helped with vbs this week with the third grade group and it was so much fun they were an amazing group of kids. my 6th grade awanas girls sophie lilly natalie marely helped with vbs and they did an amazing job and i am so proud of my 6th grade awanas girls sophie lilly natalie and annabelle for doing amazing helping with vbs. i am having fun and loving doing the summer musical mary poppins i am a parkgoer in jolly hoilday kiteflyer in lets go fly a kite and chmney sweep in step in time and i get to tap dance which is exciting i love tap dancing i had fun at rehearsal for the summer musical mary poppins thursday tap dancing in step in time i get to have mrs bleess as vocal director and my choir teacher i love mrs bleess and mrs bleess told me shes so really super proud of me for doing the summer musical mary poppins and getting to be a parkgoer in jolly hoildays kiteflyer in lets go fly a kite and chimmney sweep and tap dancing in step in time. my 6th grade awanas girls are in the summer musical mary poppins too . i hope the the end of your junior year went great ruby and that you are having a great summer so far i am so proud of you ruby you are amazing and i can’t believe you are a senior already that went fast. and i am so proud of your brother for getting to do wizard of waverly place reboot thats amazing. you are always amazing and i always love your videos ruby they are always inspiring.

  • @marwashahid-hb2uk
    @marwashahid-hb2uk 4 місяці тому

    Love you ruby ❤❤❤

  • @Miked12357
    @Miked12357 4 місяці тому

    Any tips for me going into my junior year

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +2

      vid on that coming soon!!

    • @Miked12357
      @Miked12357 4 місяці тому

      I was asking because my period super heavy and I always am unprepared

  • @nicoleroussel6293
    @nicoleroussel6293 4 місяці тому

    hope you feal better soon

  • @Just_emmah78
    @Just_emmah78 3 місяці тому +2

    0:34 are you gonna start using the tampons

  • @marsthemomscrewr.1111
    @marsthemomscrewr.1111 4 місяці тому

    I just realized…you’re going into the twelfth grade. Oh my gosh .

  • @ChloeZander
    @ChloeZander 4 місяці тому

    I love your channel so much and if you have any tips for my UA-cam channel can I have some tips please! 😊 your channel is SO helpful

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      thank you soooo much ❤️❤️ tips are to stay consistent and find your niche!!

    • @ChloeZander
      @ChloeZander 4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for replying! 😊

  • @EstelSturniolo4life
    @EstelSturniolo4life 4 місяці тому +1

    Hey ruby!

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +2

      hey!

    • @EstelSturniolo4life
      @EstelSturniolo4life 4 місяці тому

      @rubixcubix28 omg I never thought you would reply to me, thus is a dream come true!!!

  • @Thatgirl385
    @Thatgirl385 4 місяці тому

    I love you Ruby 🫶🫶❤️❤️❤️

  • @hqppier.thqn.ev3r
    @hqppier.thqn.ev3r 4 місяці тому +1

    Male friendships are fun tho, but I can never trust men.

  • @KreekCraft_Steak_Clips_Vods
    @KreekCraft_Steak_Clips_Vods 4 місяці тому

    You kinda look like piper rockelle I don’t know Why

  • @purpleray_101
    @purpleray_101 4 місяці тому

    Hi

  • @theBESTrubylu
    @theBESTrubylu 4 місяці тому

    I think i remeber you said you would film a video on your experience if you ever tried tampons, do you think you ever will?

  • @KreekCraft_Steak_Clips_Vods
    @KreekCraft_Steak_Clips_Vods 4 місяці тому

    I feel horrible. 💀

  • @alexandraobrien9441
    @alexandraobrien9441 4 місяці тому

    Was ur condition genetic?

  • @tutik5947
    @tutik5947 4 місяці тому

    I didn’t know that it requires surgery to use a tampon. I thought that you have to lose your virginity to start using tampons.

    • @Muslimah_4_Life
      @Muslimah_4_Life 4 місяці тому +2

      You don’t have to lose your virginity or have surgery. Some people do have to get surgery, though.

    • @tutik5947
      @tutik5947 4 місяці тому

      @@Muslimah_4_Life in order to use a tampon do some people have to get surgery even after losing virginity?

    • @Muslimah_4_Life
      @Muslimah_4_Life 4 місяці тому

      @@tutik5947 That’s a good question. I’m actually not completely sure, but probably not. You should probably double-check that, though.

  • @liliankay09
    @liliankay09 4 місяці тому

    Great video Ruby! I wish i had friends like this🩷

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому +1

      thank you! you will find them one day 🩷

  • @emmatripl
    @emmatripl 4 місяці тому

    I have had such a bad school year with my friend group, I’m not going to share the full story but this one girl got a boyfriend and was a complete b!tch and then after that was resolved another friend just decided to basically replace our friend group and ditched us all 😢

    • @rubixcubix28
      @rubixcubix28  4 місяці тому

      i am so sorry ugh that sucks so much :(

    • @emmatripl
      @emmatripl 4 місяці тому

      @@rubixcubix28 yeah but it’s fine I’ve become closer to some other kids

  • @beyzabiyza
    @beyzabiyza 4 місяці тому

    Thank you rubyy your videos are veryy helpfull to me ı love youu so muchhh ❤❤❤