One thing that sometimes helps me is the idea of - “Can I just..?” Can I just tidy the counter for one minute? Can I just see what I can get accomplished in 5 minutes? Sometimes I do the 5 minutes, sometimes the momentum of starting and the results I see help me do a little more.
Thank you for being so vulnerable, my mental health is bad at the moment too and it means a lot to see UA-camrs being so open and honest! Take care of yourself Hailey!
This new era of videos you have been releasing is inspiring me!! I have also just come out of a major depressive episode and it feels so warm knowing people who also struggle exist. We need more of this content on social media! You are amazing :)
Thank you so much for sharing. My husband was diagnosed with a disability a little over a year ago, so he can no longer work. So much of my energy has gone into taking care of him that I haven’t taken care of myself. I am starting to do that again. Watching this video has been helpful.
I’ve started making mostly all my meals at home so I can focus on completing the task instead of just snacking. When I am busy I don’t focus on eating. I’m happy that you were able to baked instead of ordering the donuts.
One thing I do that helps my ADHD... and mental health is make my list.... but then at the end of the day mark off the things I did on that list, and then write other things that I got done that day as well. I think those of us with ADHD can get really mad at ourselves if we dont mark off things on our list and we feel like failures... but writing the things down that I DID get done (even if they are small) really helps put my day into perspective, and makes me feel a lot better about myself and my day.
I have to say this helped me and validated how I've been feeling/living as well! I just turned 30 and I'm ready to start my healing Era as well. ❤❤ thanks for sharing this with us. I know it had to be difficult.
I appreciated this video so much, Hailey! I am diagnosed with depression and anxiety and strongly suspect that I have ADHD as well, so I related to everything you were talking about. I know it took a lot of vulnerability to talk about, film, and post this video but it has made me feel less alone and less ashamed of my own struggles with procrastination and caring for myself and my spaces. So thank you so much! ❤
Your honesty is refreshing and you're not alone. I'm a procrastinator, too and I have D.A.S (Depression, anxiety and stress disorder), though sometimes I think I'm just plain lazy and get myself into such a mess. The problem I have is that the mess becomes a bigger issue because I don't know where to start and then I procrastinate some more!!!
Hailey! You do not need to be embarrassed! We have all been there and know how hard it can be. Thank you for sharing with us! Love watching your journey 💜
Just starting this video because I am currently in an extreme depressive episode. I'm sending good vibes to you and everyone reading this, we will get through this.
Genuinely, THANK YOU, Hailey. I have had the same struggle for as long as I could remember. The messiness, the paper piles, uncashed checks etc. It's overwhelming and when your mental health tanks cleaning and dealing with paperwork is the last thing you want to do. Spoons get low fast and somedays just feeding yourself is enough. Proud of you for being honest and for taking care of yourself and your space. I know from experience it is hard but it is so worth it once it is done. Hope you are doing well, sweetheart.
Great video. Thanks you for your honesty and sharing. As someone who has struggled with depression and just dealing with feelings of loneliness videos like yours are very uplifting ❤😊 I love your channel btw
As someone else with ADHD and who struggles with major depressive episodes, I appreciate your vulnerability and transparency in this video. My apartment looks exactly like that after my episodes, and I know how much shame and embaressment I always feel when looking at it. It's nice to know that it's a "normal" part of mental health issues, and it's not just a me thing.
You should totally read How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis. It’s all about how mental health/ADHD and cleaning go hand in hand and honestly it made me cry a couple times because it was stuff I really needed to hear!
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD as an adult and struggle with getting certain things done on time, like depositing checks too. I really appreciate your honesty!
Oh Hailey, I resonated so much with this video and I am proud of you for being so kind to yourself and vulnerable about your battles. Struggling with something similar, this really gave me the encouragement I needed in order to take a day to just heal a little. Work a little. Sleep a little. And overall be kinder to myself and be a little bit more open about my battles. Thank you so much for being vulnerable on here. I hope nothing but the best for you
I had watched your videos for years and last year I got into a big depression and stopped watching things like youtube. I'm now back on track with medicine and lots of therapy and finding your videos again with you trying to improve your life as well makes me so happy! We can do this!
Thank you so much for this video. It makes me feel like I am not alone. This year hasn't been the best mentally and physically. I live in the states, but I am from and have family in Ukraine. And the war has been putting a huge weight on me. I feel guilty every single day for not being able to stop it. I also lost my dog of 15 years this February and it's been hard. I try to smile and stay positive around family and friends and even on my own channel. Cause I'm afraid to fall apart infront of everyone. But I've been trying hard to clean, rest, and take a deep breath each week. Trying to accept the fact that a lot of things are out of my control. This video helped so much. I can't wait to watch more!! ❤
LOVE this video so much 🫶🏾 totally feel you on trying to work with the ADHD + depression + anxiety rather than against them 💓 sending you so much love and glad you're prioritizing yourself 🫶🏾
This was such a cool video to watch. Thank you so much for being honest and vulnerable with us all. It was especially nice to hear someone talk about binge eating. I use to go to all you can eat buffets by myself and then spend 4 hours at the gym because of the guilt i felt. It was so special for us for you to open a bit of yourself up for us. Thank you so much! You are a true inspiration! ❤
I remember watching your videos when I started loving books at 13yrs old, 5 yrs later you're helping me see that I'm not alone, and that I can get through it. Thank you, love your content! Keep it up! ❤
thanks for sharing. I've noticed for myself if i put systems in place it will help with the clitter, having a place for everything and forming a routine of putting it there as soon as i walk in or come to a room it makes it easier, some weeks it works and sometimes you spiral so far down it's hard to stick to the routines. it's good to see how others are tackling issues as well.
this new healing and wellness era is so different from your past videos and i'm loving it. i've been kinda obsessed with those videos on tiktok too, i have a whole collection 😂 seeing people prioritizing and taking care of themselves is so satisfying and inspiring.
Your words resonated so much for me. I used to weigh 107 and turned 18 and kept gaining weight. Now at 29, I weigh 190 and it is so hard. I struggle significantly with my. body and self image. I have anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, ptsd, and ocd. I also struggle with binge eating. Thank you for opening up❤❤❤
thank you for showing the reality of what happens when your mental health controls your life. I have been struggling a lot with a similar situation and my flat has really gotten out of control. so thank you for reminding me that it's not just me
THANK YOU for being so open. You are who I needed years ago when I didn’t know what was happening to me and who I was becoming because of undiagnosed depression. Just thank you.
My diet the past three years has been garbage. It’s been really really difficult since i started living away from the family, and there have been dark times i want to forget like my ex leaving me, and on a separate time, being in an accident by someone running a red light. and im desperate to get back to how i used to be. I used to be super clean creative bubbly and insight. Now im a gremlin, i mope and lose my cool. I cant keep drinking coffee and eating junkfood. I cant do this to myself anymore. I cant do a do over, but i will do what i can to fix myself for a better future, nomatter how small/babysteps it has to be.
I love watching videos like this. It also gets me motivated to clean organize do the house chores that I dread doing but honestly dont take that long to do like dishes folding laundry etc. I also have the same mindset of dont go down the stairs empty handed or up the stairs empty handed. Thanks for sharing your process and being so open. Hope all is still going well for you 😊
Thank you for sharing this it's so brave❤ and so relatable because my house has been a big mess (same as my mental health). And you really inspired me to do the same and just start with cleaning up bits step by step. We can do this.😁💪❤️
This was so comforting/helpful to watch, I struggle with many of the same issues and I feel motivated to tackle some of the things I really need to deal with!
I understand the struggle to clean. I hope you find calmness and comfort. I congratulate myself on doing 3 things in a day and sometimes if it is only one thing done in a day I remind myself that I still did good that day.
I loved this video so much! After losing my mom a year ago and suddenly living alone for the first time at 21, my house is a mess. I also have ADHD and so everything is always very overwhelming so thank you for the tips and tricks! Currently I'm cleaning out the closets and I ordered some nice clothes organisers to make it more exciting😊
Hailey, I’m so proud of you! I love your attitude and I can truly see how much you’ve grown though the years. Keep loving yourself and taking things slow! And thank you for being honest and open about your struggles. I know so many of us can relate and may feel motivated by your example
Thank you for sharing - it does help make you feel less alone, i sometimes honsetly feel like everyone elses life is going well and im just on my own not doing much 😢 (doesnt help when i go on social media either!) - last year i went through depression and it took a good few months to come out of it . If anyones going through depression i would 100 % recomend talking to a therapist or someone you trust or journalling Also fidget toys and meditation helped me in the past as i suffer from anxiety as well.
Thank you for sharing your experience with eating, body image and mental health. I know it's hard but I relate to you a lot. As hard as it was for you to admit your struggles there are other people out there that are going through it, and it's nice to not feel alone.
This video really helped me! I’ve been going through a lot of depression and anxiety lately and my room has probably never looked worse, but I used this as a kind of “clean with me” and it made the process so much quicker
Thank you for this video. I am also in my healing era now, finding out what triggers my depression and this motivated me so much to also get my apartment clean and tidy again. Clean flat = Clear mind ❤
Thank you for this video! I have been going through some hard mental health times lately and this video made me feel less alone. I also like to do morning brain dumps in my journal. It helps to get it all out on the page.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS!! Your honesty and vulnerability was something that I, personally, really connected with, as well as a lot of the things you've been going through/dealing with. The major depressive episodes, the not being able or feeling motivated to even organize my own space and the binge eating as well. And I too have come to realize that, yes, I don't have the body I would like to have right now, but I need to take care of my mental health, my inner peace, before I can think of anything else. My mind needs to be my priority, above all else. You always look beautiful because you are a beautiful human, and it's really empowering to see how you're working towards a better self, a calmer self, more in tune with your needs and at your own pace. Keep sharing these videos Hailey!! And keep on smiling and goin at it one day at a time. Lots of love! 😘😘🥰
Hailey, the shift in content has been amazing!! Your vulnerability and strength has been so helpful for someone who also has ADHD. Just watching this made me take all the dishes that have been piling up in my room out. So happy to see you make content that you love! Much love to you!
First, thanks for opening up and sharing all of that with us. I know that must have been difficult. I am in the same position in my life and suffer from the same things. I understand. Don't be too hard on yourself. This vlog was a major win! You did so much! I know how satisfying it feels when you get out of that slump and make your space nice & tidy. I needed this today. You have motivated me to do some cleaning and organizing as well so thank you! ❤
This is my story.I had a major depressive episode when I was 18.I spent 2 years basically in bed. Then I recovered greatly and the depression I had was high functioning depression sometimes it would even go away and I WOULD BECOME HAPPY for months.Ive been told by a new therapist that Im likely bipolar 2 Im just now entering a major depressive state.its very traumatic for me to go through this again after so much progress:( thank you for this video
Thank you for being really raw and honest Hailey. These types of videos are really inspiring to see and I’m so glad that you’re feeling better. Continue making content that makes you happy and is easiest for you because I will always watch anything that you make x
I love this video please dont be embarrassed everyone has one of those days! Im going through somethings atm it making me not eat nervous depressed and anxious. I hope you get to feeling better ❤❤ i love these types of videos❤ adorable dogs❤❤
Thank you for sharing! Congratulations on all that you got accomplished. I also suffer from mental illness (bipolar,anxiety and depression) I am also a huge procrastinator. Thank you for the motivation and I look forward to more videos in this series ❤
I knew I was drawn to you, not just because you have awesome book videos, but because we are SO SIMILAR! Currently living in a pile of my own consequences and finding it very difficult to motivate myself even though I have friends coming over in 8 days and I know I don't want them to see random crap everywhere. Not only that, but I am writing, but haven't been able to sit down and write because there's stuff EVERYWHERE! Thank you, thank you, thank you for being open and vulnerable here and for showing that we can have control of our lives and we can get things done!🥰
I love that you are opening up and not hiding who you are. It makes you so relatable. I struggle with a lot of the same things you do and it’s nice that you are talking about it and what you are doing to help yourself. ❤️❤️❤️
I absolutely loved this video so much! Thank you for being so vulnerable and opening up to us; it really made me feel less alone with some of the things I'm going through myself. and I am so looking forward to more videos in this series!😊 Sending lots of love💗
I recommend reading how to keep a house from drowning from kc davis. I haven’t read it myself but i’ve heard a lot of good reviews of people who also struggle with depression and taking care of things in their house. I definitely know how you feel though, sometimes just living can be hard but i’m also still grateful that i’m alive tbh even when things get hard. I also have a binge eating disorder, I tend to especially set emotions with food. I’m a similar size to you and have always been on the bigger size. I have accepted a long time ago that i’ll never be skinny, for me the most important things is to be healthier and happier.
Thank you for this video/series! As someone with anxiety depression and a learning disability with some executive dysfunction as well. This is so motivating
This is actually so helpful for me rn. This made me make a list and I hoovered downstairs while listening to this video. I saw someone on tiki took call these “let’s not rot” days which. Yes. Let’s get shit done and not rot 💛
*goes on a tangent rant* then “wait I don’t need to explain myself to you” LOL😅😅😅 as someone who’s been watching you since your fairy lights bookshelf era (which I don’t even remember how long ago that was), the growth is immaculate😍😭
Thank you for posting this. I've been struggling a lot with my own mental health lately, and it really helps that you are sharing your experience with us :)
Thank you for your vulnerability! Some of the things you're saying about your mental health journey has been how I've also had to reframe things in my head. I have depression and adhd and struggle with procrastination and doing tasks I've put off, and working with my brain is really helping me too. It's nice to not feel so alone in my struggles. 💜 take care of yourself friend
Loved this video - it was so relatable! I also struggle with Bingeing😔 thank you for sharing that❤ I loved seeing how you were clearing the clutter around you to help clear the clutter in your mind❤
Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us Hailey. I know how hard all of this can be. I'm going through a self-discovery, healing, lots of life changes journey too and it's definitely really difficult and I can relate to a lot of what you're talking about and doing. I know you probably know this, but it doesn't always hurt to hear it again, but you're not alone with all of this and I look forward to seeing more of your healing journey as you go!
I loved this video! I also feel like I am coming out of a fog of mental health issues and trying to get things back on track. So you definitely don't need to be embarrassed about anything in this video cuz I think most people have been there before and alot are still there. My bedroom is like the Mount Vesuvius of dirty laundry. 😅I recently read "how to keep house while drowning" its a really fast read and it isn't so much like a cleaning routine book as it is a mindset shift about your home and I found it so comforting and validating that it ended up motivating me and since then been trying to remind myself that housework is cyclical and when things have gotten a bit too messy for me instead of being hard on myself I have been replacing the thoughts with "this space has reached the end of its functionality cycle, it needs a reset" I find that if I dont berate myself about it I find the energy to reset it faster. ❤ still a work in progress though 🤪
One thing that sometimes helps me is the idea of - “Can I just..?” Can I just tidy the counter for one minute? Can I just see what I can get accomplished in 5 minutes? Sometimes I do the 5 minutes, sometimes the momentum of starting and the results I see help me do a little more.
Thank you for being so vulnerable, my mental health is bad at the moment too and it means a lot to see UA-camrs being so open and honest! Take care of yourself Hailey!
I hope things get better for you soon 💜
This new era of videos you have been releasing is inspiring me!! I have also just come out of a major depressive episode and it feels so warm knowing people who also struggle exist. We need more of this content on social media! You are amazing :)
So happy to hear that!!! 💕
Thank you so much for sharing. My husband was diagnosed with a disability a little over a year ago, so he can no longer work. So much of my energy has gone into taking care of him that I haven’t taken care of myself. I am starting to do that again. Watching this video has been helpful.
I’ve started making mostly all my meals at home so I can focus on completing the task instead of just snacking. When I am busy I don’t focus on eating. I’m happy that you were able to baked instead of ordering the donuts.
One thing I do that helps my ADHD... and mental health is make my list.... but then at the end of the day mark off the things I did on that list, and then write other things that I got done that day as well. I think those of us with ADHD can get really mad at ourselves if we dont mark off things on our list and we feel like failures... but writing the things down that I DID get done (even if they are small) really helps put my day into perspective, and makes me feel a lot better about myself and my day.
I do the same in my nighttime journaling! 🥰 it is very helpful!!
I have to say this helped me and validated how I've been feeling/living as well! I just turned 30 and I'm ready to start my healing Era as well. ❤❤ thanks for sharing this with us. I know it had to be difficult.
I appreciated this video so much, Hailey! I am diagnosed with depression and anxiety and strongly suspect that I have ADHD as well, so I related to everything you were talking about. I know it took a lot of vulnerability to talk about, film, and post this video but it has made me feel less alone and less ashamed of my own struggles with procrastination and caring for myself and my spaces. So thank you so much! ❤
Your honesty is refreshing and you're not alone. I'm a procrastinator, too and I have D.A.S (Depression, anxiety and stress disorder), though sometimes I think I'm just plain lazy and get myself into such a mess. The problem I have is that the mess becomes a bigger issue because I don't know where to start and then I procrastinate some more!!!
Hailey! You do not need to be embarrassed! We have all been there and know how hard it can be. Thank you for sharing with us! Love watching your journey 💜
Just starting this video because I am currently in an extreme depressive episode. I'm sending good vibes to you and everyone reading this, we will get through this.
Genuinely, THANK YOU, Hailey.
I have had the same struggle for as long as I could remember. The messiness, the paper piles, uncashed checks etc. It's overwhelming and when your mental health tanks cleaning and dealing with paperwork is the last thing you want to do. Spoons get low fast and somedays just feeding yourself is enough.
Proud of you for being honest and for taking care of yourself and your space. I know from experience it is hard but it is so worth it once it is done. Hope you are doing well, sweetheart.
Great video. Thanks you for your honesty and sharing. As someone who has struggled with depression and just dealing with feelings of loneliness videos like yours are very uplifting ❤😊 I love your channel btw
I’m so glad, thank you 💜💜
As someone else with ADHD and who struggles with major depressive episodes, I appreciate your vulnerability and transparency in this video. My apartment looks exactly like that after my episodes, and I know how much shame and embaressment I always feel when looking at it. It's nice to know that it's a "normal" part of mental health issues, and it's not just a me thing.
You should totally read How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis. It’s all about how mental health/ADHD and cleaning go hand in hand and honestly it made me cry a couple times because it was stuff I really needed to hear!
I was recently diagnosed with ADHD as an adult and struggle with getting certain things done on time, like depositing checks too. I really appreciate your honesty!
Oh Hailey, I resonated so much with this video and I am proud of you for being so kind to yourself and vulnerable about your battles. Struggling with something similar, this really gave me the encouragement I needed in order to take a day to just heal a little. Work a little. Sleep a little. And overall be kinder to myself and be a little bit more open about my battles. Thank you so much for being vulnerable on here. I hope nothing but the best for you
I had watched your videos for years and last year I got into a big depression and stopped watching things like youtube. I'm now back on track with medicine and lots of therapy and finding your videos again with you trying to improve your life as well makes me so happy! We can do this!
I love this video. It helped me so much with coming out of an episode my self. I hope all is well 😬...
Thank you so much for this video. It makes me feel like I am not alone. This year hasn't been the best mentally and physically. I live in the states, but I am from and have family in Ukraine. And the war has been putting a huge weight on me. I feel guilty every single day for not being able to stop it. I also lost my dog of 15 years this February and it's been hard. I try to smile and stay positive around family and friends and even on my own channel. Cause I'm afraid to fall apart infront of everyone. But I've been trying hard to clean, rest, and take a deep breath each week. Trying to accept the fact that a lot of things are out of my control. This video helped so much. I can't wait to watch more!! ❤
LOVE this video so much 🫶🏾 totally feel you on trying to work with the ADHD + depression + anxiety rather than against them 💓 sending you so much love and glad you're prioritizing yourself 🫶🏾
This was such a cool video to watch. Thank you so much for being honest and vulnerable with us all.
It was especially nice to hear someone talk about binge eating. I use to go to all you can eat buffets by myself and then spend 4 hours at the gym because of the guilt i felt. It was so special for us for you to open a bit of yourself up for us. Thank you so much!
You are a true inspiration! ❤
THIS! This is where I'm at too and I greatly appreciate seeing people on similar journeies.
I remember watching your videos when I started loving books at 13yrs old, 5 yrs later you're helping me see that I'm not alone, and that I can get through it. Thank you, love your content! Keep it up! ❤
thanks for sharing. I've noticed for myself if i put systems in place it will help with the clitter, having a place for everything and forming a routine of putting it there as soon as i walk in or come to a room it makes it easier, some weeks it works and sometimes you spiral so far down it's hard to stick to the routines. it's good to see how others are tackling issues as well.
Thank you SO much for being open and posting this. I also struggle with anxiety, depression & ADHD so this made me feel less alone 🥹💜
My mental health been doing alot better since working out, reading more again, and having a fun busy summer 🌞🌻🍨🪁🍉💐
this new healing and wellness era is so different from your past videos and i'm loving it. i've been kinda obsessed with those videos on tiktok too, i have a whole collection 😂 seeing people prioritizing and taking care of themselves is so satisfying and inspiring.
Your words resonated so much for me. I used to weigh 107 and turned 18 and kept gaining weight. Now at 29, I weigh 190 and it is so hard. I struggle significantly with my. body and self image. I have anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, ptsd, and ocd. I also struggle with binge eating. Thank you for opening up❤❤❤
thank you for showing the reality of what happens when your mental health controls your life. I have been struggling a lot with a similar situation and my flat has really gotten out of control. so thank you for reminding me that it's not just me
This feels like one of the most vulnerable videos you've ever done, and I loved it!!
THANK YOU for being so open. You are who I needed years ago when I didn’t know what was happening to me and who I was becoming because of undiagnosed depression. Just thank you.
There are a ton of podcasts on living with adhd , I love them and have been so helpful.
My diet the past three years has been garbage. It’s been really really difficult since i started living away from the family, and there have been dark times i want to forget like my ex leaving me, and on a separate time, being in an accident by someone running a red light. and im desperate to get back to how i used to be. I used to be super clean creative bubbly and insight. Now im a gremlin, i mope and lose my cool. I cant keep drinking coffee and eating junkfood. I cant do this to myself anymore. I cant do a do over, but i will do what i can to fix myself for a better future, nomatter how small/babysteps it has to be.
I love watching videos like this. It also gets me motivated to clean organize do the house chores that I dread doing but honestly dont take that long to do like dishes folding laundry etc. I also have the same mindset of dont go down the stairs empty handed or up the stairs empty handed. Thanks for sharing your process and being so open. Hope all is still going well for you 😊
Thank you for sharing this it's so brave❤ and so relatable because my house has been a big mess (same as my mental health). And you really inspired me to do the same and just start with cleaning up bits step by step. We can do this.😁💪❤️
This was so comforting/helpful to watch, I struggle with many of the same issues and I feel motivated to tackle some of the things I really need to deal with!
I also feel like I need to make banana muffins 😛
I understand the struggle to clean. I hope you find calmness and comfort. I congratulate myself on doing 3 things in a day and sometimes if it is only one thing done in a day I remind myself that I still did good that day.
I loved this video so much! After losing my mom a year ago and suddenly living alone for the first time at 21, my house is a mess. I also have ADHD and so everything is always very overwhelming so thank you for the tips and tricks! Currently I'm cleaning out the closets and I ordered some nice clothes organisers to make it more exciting😊
Hailey, I’m so proud of you! I love your attitude and I can truly see how much you’ve grown though the years. Keep loving yourself and taking things slow! And thank you for being honest and open about your struggles. I know so many of us can relate and may feel motivated by your example
Thank you so much. Sometimes finding motivation is hard and the binge eating is something that I too can struggle with.
I have ADHD and depression too and this was exactly what I needed today. Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing - it does help make you feel less alone, i sometimes honsetly feel like everyone elses life is going well and im just on my own not doing much 😢 (doesnt help when i go on social media either!) - last year i went through depression and it took a good few months to come out of it .
If anyones going through depression i would 100 % recomend talking to a therapist or someone you trust or journalling
Also fidget toys and meditation helped me in the past as i suffer from anxiety as well.
You could seriously be talking about my life. Thanks for the insight and hope. Keep strong!
Thank you for sharing your experience with eating, body image and mental health. I know it's hard but I relate to you a lot. As hard as it was for you to admit your struggles there are other people out there that are going through it, and it's nice to not feel alone.
27:33 I struggle as well with this. Thank you so much for sharing❤!
This video really helped me! I’ve been going through a lot of depression and anxiety lately and my room has probably never looked worse, but I used this as a kind of “clean with me” and it made the process so much quicker
Thank you for this video. I am also in my healing era now, finding out what triggers my depression and this motivated me so much to also get my apartment clean and tidy again. Clean flat = Clear mind ❤
I’ve been finally able to address my depressive episode and I’m watching along to get myself out of my rut thank you for this video! 💕💕
i love how your talking to us with your hands its so fun
I’m so glad you are feeling better
watching this while cleaning up my space too💜
I love your honesty about how you feel and about the state of your home. I've been trying to get the motivation to clean my place.
Thank you for this video! I have been going through some hard mental health times lately and this video made me feel less alone. I also like to do morning brain dumps in my journal. It helps to get it all out on the page.
OMG, THIS IS COOOOOL!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS PHASE WITH US. GOD KNOWS I NEED IT TO PUSH MYSELF FORWARDS TOO❤
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS!!
Your honesty and vulnerability was something that I, personally, really connected with, as well as a lot of the things you've been going through/dealing with. The major depressive episodes, the not being able or feeling motivated to even organize my own space and the binge eating as well.
And I too have come to realize that, yes, I don't have the body I would like to have right now, but I need to take care of my mental health, my inner peace, before I can think of anything else. My mind needs to be my priority, above all else.
You always look beautiful because you are a beautiful human, and it's really empowering to see how you're working towards a better self, a calmer self, more in tune with your needs and at your own pace.
Keep sharing these videos Hailey!! And keep on smiling and goin at it one day at a time. Lots of love! 😘😘🥰
I feel you 🥰
I wish you joy ❤
This was soooooo good! I made notes. Thanks for sharing. You were real without being stressful to watch.
What a great video! I hope your balance comes for you soon. Thanks so much for sharing.
I can relate to this video, this year has been tough so far for various reasons and I am having to push myself to do stuff 😩
Hailey, the shift in content has been amazing!! Your vulnerability and strength has been so helpful for someone who also has ADHD. Just watching this made me take all the dishes that have been piling up in my room out. So happy to see you make content that you love! Much love to you!
First, thanks for opening up and sharing all of that with us. I know that must have been difficult. I am in the same position in my life and suffer from the same things. I understand. Don't be too hard on yourself. This vlog was a major win! You did so much! I know how satisfying it feels when you get out of that slump and make your space nice & tidy. I needed this today. You have motivated me to do some cleaning and organizing as well so thank you! ❤
Thanks for the video. It helps a lot seeing people that are struggling too working things out. ❤
Thank you for being vulnerable, I related to so much of this❤️
This is my story.I had a major depressive episode when I was 18.I spent 2 years basically in bed.
Then I recovered greatly and the depression I had was high functioning depression sometimes it would even go away and I WOULD BECOME HAPPY for months.Ive been told by a new therapist that Im likely bipolar 2 Im just now entering a major depressive state.its very traumatic for me to go through this again after so much progress:( thank you for this video
Thank you for being really raw and honest Hailey. These types of videos are really inspiring to see and I’m so glad that you’re feeling better. Continue making content that makes you happy and is easiest for you because I will always watch anything that you make x
I love this video please dont be embarrassed everyone has one of those days! Im going through somethings atm it making me not eat nervous depressed and anxious. I hope you get to feeling better ❤❤ i love these types of videos❤ adorable dogs❤❤
I am you and you are me! This was so relatable. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Loving the lifestyle type content. Healing era!!!
I’m starting a very similar era. Thank you for sharing ❤ this is exactly what I needed this morning 😊
Praying for you ❤....been there...
Thank you for sharing! Congratulations on all that you got accomplished. I also suffer from mental illness (bipolar,anxiety and depression) I am also a huge procrastinator. Thank you for the motivation and I look forward to more videos in this series ❤
I knew I was drawn to you, not just because you have awesome book videos, but because we are SO SIMILAR! Currently living in a pile of my own consequences and finding it very difficult to motivate myself even though I have friends coming over in 8 days and I know I don't want them to see random crap everywhere. Not only that, but I am writing, but haven't been able to sit down and write because there's stuff EVERYWHERE! Thank you, thank you, thank you for being open and vulnerable here and for showing that we can have control of our lives and we can get things done!🥰
Love the more vlog like content! And as someone who struggles often with mental health, it's so nice to see your openness
I love that you are opening up and not hiding who you are. It makes you so relatable. I struggle with a lot of the same things you do and it’s nice that you are talking about it and what you are doing to help yourself. ❤️❤️❤️
I absolutely loved this video so much! Thank you for being so vulnerable and opening up to us; it really made me feel less alone with some of the things I'm going through myself. and I am so looking forward to more videos in this series!😊 Sending lots of love💗
I recommend reading how to keep a house from drowning from kc davis. I haven’t read it myself but i’ve heard a lot of good reviews of people who also struggle with depression and taking care of things in their house. I definitely know how you feel though, sometimes just living can be hard but i’m also still grateful that i’m alive tbh even when things get hard. I also have a binge eating disorder, I tend to especially set emotions with food. I’m a similar size to you and have always been on the bigger size. I have accepted a long time ago that i’ll never be skinny, for me the most important things is to be healthier and happier.
It’s on my list!!! 💜
THANK YOU for this video and sharing your life. Makes me feel so much better to know I'm not alone in this with mental health ❤
I’m loving your new videos! Everything you are going through and have, I have totally been there. You can do this!
I am livinggg for this content. Your honesty and realness is so refreshing, and i wish you nothing but good vibes on your journey. ❤
Thank you for this video/series! As someone with anxiety depression and a learning disability with some executive dysfunction as well. This is so motivating
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your journey is touching many lives and it makes people realize they are not alone.
Hooray for new outlooks, new attitudes, and new healing ❤
I absolutely loved this! Thank you so much for sharing. It really meant so much! ❤
Thank you for this. For opening up when you don't have to. You are genuine, caring and so inspiring.
Thank you for being so open about it. There are times when my mental health is low. I need to do some more reading.
Giving you loads of love Hailey ❤❤❤❤
This is actually so helpful for me rn. This made me make a list and I hoovered downstairs while listening to this video. I saw someone on tiki took call these “let’s not rot” days which. Yes. Let’s get shit done and not rot 💛
You’re amazing Hailey! Thank you so much for being candid.
*goes on a tangent rant* then “wait I don’t need to explain myself to you” LOL😅😅😅 as someone who’s been watching you since your fairy lights bookshelf era (which I don’t even remember how long ago that was), the growth is immaculate😍😭
Thank you for posting this. I've been struggling a lot with my own mental health lately, and it really helps that you are sharing your experience with us :)
Thank you for your vulnerability! Some of the things you're saying about your mental health journey has been how I've also had to reframe things in my head. I have depression and adhd and struggle with procrastination and doing tasks I've put off, and working with my brain is really helping me too.
It's nice to not feel so alone in my struggles. 💜 take care of yourself friend
Great video! Thanks for the inspiration!
I don't typically comment on videos, but I really just wanted to say how much I appreciated this video and look forward to your new series!!!
You got this! You have a lot of people cheering for you! ❤ Very excited for your series and your continued dedication to prioritizing self care! 🎉
Loved this video - it was so relatable! I also struggle with Bingeing😔 thank you for sharing that❤ I loved seeing how you were clearing the clutter around you to help clear the clutter in your mind❤
Thank you so much for sharing this journey with us Hailey. I know how hard all of this can be. I'm going through a self-discovery, healing, lots of life changes journey too and it's definitely really difficult and I can relate to a lot of what you're talking about and doing. I know you probably know this, but it doesn't always hurt to hear it again, but you're not alone with all of this and I look forward to seeing more of your healing journey as you go!
Thank you.
This makes my heart so happy. So happy for you. 💜 can’t wait to see more of you’re healing journey!!
I loved this video! I also feel like I am coming out of a fog of mental health issues and trying to get things back on track. So you definitely don't need to be embarrassed about anything in this video cuz I think most people have been there before and alot are still there. My bedroom is like the Mount Vesuvius of dirty laundry. 😅I recently read "how to keep house while drowning" its a really fast read and it isn't so much like a cleaning routine book as it is a mindset shift about your home and I found it so comforting and validating that it ended up motivating me and since then been trying to remind myself that housework is cyclical and when things have gotten a bit too messy for me instead of being hard on myself I have been replacing the thoughts with "this space has reached the end of its functionality cycle, it needs a reset" I find that if I dont berate myself about it I find the energy to reset it faster. ❤ still a work in progress though 🤪
it will get bette, everything is a process, you just have to belive in that and keep on going