Surviving the Toxic Relationship with My Mother Part 1 | The Bailey Way Podcast

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  • Опубліковано 16 чер 2024
  • This week, Durelle and Samantha deliver on their promise to be authentic and honest about their challenges and struggles. Many of you know Durelle from social media as being motivational, inspirational and always leading with a positive attitude, but that comes from somewhere. Today, Durelle and Samantha discuss the traumatic and toxic relationship with his mother, beginning in his childhood and how he overcame it. This is a lesson about forgiveness, grace and self accountability. Join them for part one of this conversation.
    Skip to 10:41 if you want to get right to the story.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 16

  • @moyabarrett1900
    @moyabarrett1900 Місяць тому +3

    ..not rewrite what you already went through, because I'm so focused on what I went through!
    The willingness to grow past what I've been through!
    Profound!

  • @94Beachboy
    @94Beachboy 20 днів тому +2

    Samantha, I appreciate that you gave Durelle the space to share without giving up on him because of his past and any residue from his past that I’m sure arises in your relationship. You would be well within your right to say that he has been through too much for you, but you stuck around, and that’s admirable.
    Durelle, I appreciate that you do not allow your past with one woman to define your relationship with all women. You could be far more jaded than you are, but you choose to make lemonade out of lemons, which is also admirable.
    The two of you are inspiring people. Rest assured that the two of you are making a positive impact - I pray that you continue to do the highlight reels on socials and the long-form pod episodes for your fans like me!

    • @TheBaileyWay
      @TheBaileyWay  14 годин тому +1

      @@94Beachboy this is such a thoughtful comment - we appreciate your kind words! Thank you so much for being on this journey with us!
      - Samantha

  • @lauranelson8183
    @lauranelson8183 Місяць тому +1

    Your story broke my heart listening to it. But to see how inspiring and motivating, you are to not only young people, but also adults to show them that there are good people out there willing to listen and help. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @Tricyyyland
    @Tricyyyland 26 днів тому +1

    Wow thank you so much for sharing. I had a pit in my throat the whole pod listening to your story. I am so glad God saved your heart and you used you pain for purpose.
    If you haven’t already please consider writing a book.
    I pray you do not return to survivor mode and gain a level of peace, understanding, and forgiveness for your mother.
    You are a warrior wow!
    Edit: I know it’s going to be an pt 2. But how do you feel your mother’s upbringing affected her parenting?

  • @tamarabyard1832
    @tamarabyard1832 Місяць тому +2

    Your testimony is so moving it shows how God will never leave nor forsake us
    The vulnerability is gonna help so many people I’m so incredibly proud of you and the person you’ve become and I’m honoured to call you my brother in law and have someone so amazing to look up to 🥰

  • @chelseam.stevens
    @chelseam.stevens Місяць тому +3

    Your story makes me emotional. The impact of your testimony is encouraging, inspiring and motivating. God bless you and thank you for sharing.🤍

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess 13 днів тому

    I love how deeply she is affirming you Mr. Bailey.
    It permeates through the screen.
    Her loves shines deeply .
    Mrs. Bailey your femininity is so refreshing.

    • @TheBaileyWay
      @TheBaileyWay  14 годин тому

      @@3DSuccess I appreciate that so much, thank you!
      - Samantha

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess 13 днів тому

    As I’m listening to his event after returning for the summer, I imagine she had been living to the grandmother and other family members as well.
    She probably shared the few incidents where you finally had a voice with her as if that was your normal behavior.
    Sounds narcissistic as it relates to your mom.
    So sorry you had to experience this.
    Heart breaking.

  • @Ibrahimdliberator
    @Ibrahimdliberator Місяць тому +2

    Very profound, brother! Thanks for sharing. You're come a long way indeed. We are proud of you, brother

  • @Mobeezy4
    @Mobeezy4 Місяць тому +1

    I was in the same boat bro it was just me and my pops my mom wasn’t around at all they had me at 15 as well so I can relate to a lot of things you were saying cause i wasn’t able to make no mistakes and everything had to be perfectly on me end but thanks for sharing your story and god blessed bro 🙌🏽💪🏽

  • @Iam.ambernicole
    @Iam.ambernicole Місяць тому +1

    “Forgiving doesn't mean I have to let you back in!”👏🏾
    Thanks for sharing your story with the world!🤍

  • @salemsayso
    @salemsayso Місяць тому

    Thanks for sharing your testimony! God bless 🙏🏾

  • @3DSuccess
    @3DSuccess 13 днів тому

    Sounds like his mom may have been inadvertently speaking things she wanted to say to an old boyfriend, etc.😪

  • @FreedomSummers1541
    @FreedomSummers1541 Місяць тому +1

    This is a sad story. I feel bad for you and your mom. Honestly, at 15, you don't have the maturity to have a baby. So she started raising as a child herself. Sounds like she didn't have the tools to teach and love u properly smh. Sad story