Why Men Pull Away in the Early Stages of Dating | What To Do About It
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- Опубліковано 6 тра 2023
- 4 reasons why men pull away at the early stages of dating what you should do if that happens.
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When you are confused about where you stand, they are not the one. If it doesn’t flow-let it go.
Sometimes guys will test you to see how independent you are when he isn’t around. He is testing your level of confidence. Also he may be thinking of investing in you long term so he may need time to adjust think things over. I recall this situation occurred to me I cut the guy off because his intentions weren’t long term. Great video ❤❤❤
Listen up, ladies. This guy is giving legit advice. There are other "dating gurus" which are approaching this from a female pov and are giving incorrect advice. This dude is spot on.
Listen ... half of them already got somebody and pull away because they got caught
The true culprit
I visited my crush while he was in the ER. I was very concerned about him. He told me I was the only one who knew he was there. I was in the ER with him, maybe 5 mins, and the nurse said his fiance was there. I didn't know he was getting married! You should have seen the look on his face. His eyes 👀 popped out of his head like, "UH OHHH!"
Yeah, our communication stopped after he tried to apologize to me. He said 😂
She asked him a lot of questions. Lol Ya think? 😂
Moving on...... lol
It's really discouraging. Some men will go to substantial lengths to feign interest and emotional connection with you, and then completely change after they extract what they want. It's a game of deception for them, and then they vanish like cowards. Be wary, ladies.
You are SO on point. They love-bomb you, make you think you're the best thing since sliced bread, have you jumping through hoops to get on with their children/work colleagues/family - then think the grass is greener and/or are terrified you'll be asking for commitment, and dump you! Ladies - don't get played like I was: ALWAYS let the man think you have other options - then watch HIM dance!!!!
I held my position by unfollowing him and deleting him from my friends list. MAN UP AND BE THAT MAN!! Life is too short!! COWARD!!❤
Same. We met really frequently to start with and then he wouldn't even commit to a third date. Not just that it didn't take place, I didn't get a date. Just a weak "we'll meet again". I let him know I'm not the back burner type and then I got ghosted, so.... that means he just saw me as an opportunity. That's not me
As a man, there are some women that are just boring while they are addicted to their phones. I leave my cell phone at my place no matter what. When I go on a date and I see her with her cellie texting or whatever, I just get insulted but I don't say anything because it is not my obligation to do so. My hobbies are bowling, walking 40 mins 5X a week with 5lbs ankle weights on each leg, gym 25 mins at work, watch movies, video games and playing soccer. I keep my life very active as a 44 year old who is 5'9 145 pounds. I can do 1000 reps on jump rope without any single break. My coworkers think I'm 28-30 years old little do they know my real age. No gf since 2008 and I don't need one because I'm happy, grateful and independent person. I have never been married nor do I have any kids. Good luck women, I wish you the best in life.
If you don’t feel like someone is for you. Just say that. Don’t just hope they will get the hint. I don’t understand man’s logic.
I do give him all the space in the world. I love being alone in my own space.
Can you please do a video on relationships after 40 thank you
They move on to a new shiny toy. Rejection sucks but it happens. No matter what you did or did not do. They back off and fade away like a dream. 😢🤷♀️
I think its normally because they rush the first part and don't give her space to take a step back and think rationaly. Then afterwards they start thinking about the relationship long term. Because he rushed her and said all sorts of things and gittoo physical she now feels a bond and he pulls away. Its normally because men take the lead but lead the woman wrong. Men need to give women the space at the beginning iand let them make the decision to pull away or not
Only 2 reasons
1 not in you
2 found someone else
With this mindset you will be alone all the time
There are many reasons.
REAL TALK!! 🎯 By far the best video I have come across about this subject. My response/reaction to behavior like this…NONE! I lean back (give him space), while living my best life TO THE FULLEST ✈️🌴☀️
Match the energy 😉
I found this channel by coincidence! Very helpful information. Loved it
This is SO good and spot on. THANK YOU 🙏
Best content about men for long! Thank you a lot from Germany!
No matter how interesting/good you are, men always get bored in 3 weeks. It's not about losing interest, he doesn't find you entertaining anymore.
Hahahahahaha😂😂😂😂😂
3 week trial ends and they sign up for a new subscription someplace else
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Ummmm no
Yup
This was a wonderful video! Thank you for sharing these tips.
Great advice thank you ❤
That was excellent, Lion
Wonderful video!!
The BEST!! 😊
great advice ❤
Trying to get over an ex. When he thought he was ready for a relationship.
Stop dating and caring period… travel fill your life with good friends. I’ve been been single for 11 years couldn’t be happier.
Yet you watching these videos 🤔
When you say Single, you mean by yourself? Because most people say they’re single but are just because they don’t “label” their relationships
So I as a woman should not give more than a 20% ?!! That explains a lot
I wish i had seen this video a week ago 😅😅
How to know if a guy is “bored” and not a narcissist? From everything I read about narcissists, they are essentially irredeemable. How to tell the difference if you might consider getting back together after no contact.
I think at some point you should be able to ask the question as to what changed. I see no reason in getting clarity. If he can't answer the question then he's not ready to date. Esp if youre at the point of seeing each other exclusively. I do agree that you should give it some time, like a week at most. Esp if your communication style is to talk every day.
Curiosity killed the cat. You don't need a reason to not like someone if it just doesn't match over time. Just go ah yeh, and move on.
I think i know the reason why: they are dating with someone else😢
My question is ,why they go into dating with thet mindset in the first place .
It’s ok to not be into someone, but it’s Immature, just tell the person. 🙄 honestly this behaviour of just pulling away is basic at best. Communication is key here and it’s respectful. I’m starting g to think most men were dragged up instead of being raised properly. I know my worth and and man that exhibits this behaviour is not it, if he can’t communicate then hard pass since that’s a basic skill.
What's sad is when your crush makes little to no effort with you but you see your crush making a lot of effort with others. It's just the difference between no interest and lots of interest.
Well this totally sucks.. like why not be upfront and say what you mean? I've dealt with this a while and in my current relationship. idk why their reason is and idc.. it's either they want me or not. I'm over it.. I just move on cos my time is too short. Like everything would work out fine if people just friggin said what they wanted instead of playing these little mind games. like if you want someone else cool say that.. if you want me say that lol.. men are a weird concept that I will never understand ..
How about fear of getting hurt? What if he reduced effort so that he tries not to get attached too much bc he is too afraid to get hurt if things don’t work out? Could that be another reason?
Spot on. This is exactly why I'm pulling away from someone at the moment. I just dont want get my hopes up again and be dissapointed. She needs to make more effort now to get me back.
Most of the time that’s what it is but it’s deeply rooted so their not aware
It's still a problem he needs therapy before getting in a relationship
That means he’s tacky and you don’t deserve tacky
So why bother dating at all in that case . He's immature and not evolved if that's his MO
Just not caring . Thats all. Lol. Dont give energy to no sense. Doesnt matter explanation. Give no mind to that period keep with yournlife and have lots of options. Let the man do whatever he wants and need pay no energy to not wanted behaviours
My situation is my bf and I have been together 3 months and he recently traveled home for a few days, then got back and communicated that he needed a few days to reset and wouldn't be reachable. Can someone please explain?
It hurt a little but I know it's not about me
RUN
He is a pilot so I know he is very busy this hard
Immature person does that, cutting out another person without having a conversation
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yaeh sure resist the urge. of course just let him do whatever he wants. and pretend that we dont care.
No sir, you should not date multiple people at one time because you would also create false hope