Great teaching! And so true. You have to Want to heal...you have to put in the work. It's not easy, however, it is doable. "You have to start where you ARE, not where you want to be. " I'm so thankful that I finally "got it!" Don't ever quit. The road is hard, but you'll finally get to that bend in the road that makes the rest of the journey so worth it.
3:32 Accepting responsibility in recovery 10:40 Characteristics of a victim mentality 17:45 Acting like a child but want to be treated like an adult. (This is related to the last video on commitment.) 20:57 How to get unstuck from victim mentality?
Good Question. What I share with clients who are in that place is to keep an open heart, and to work on a spiritual fitness that includes healthy morals and beliefs
FindingFreedomMedia I totally understand and I respect everyone’s beliefs. Your videos are helping me tremendously. I detoxed from opiates in April 2017. Now I am going into intensive counseling. I’m really looking forward to it. I listen to your videos Every Single Day. Thank You So Much for putting them on Utube!!!😊💙✌️
Can anyone please help me out. I do have CT. I find learning easy things like driving or cooking very very difficult.I am not able to observe patterns and learn. Is it something to do with trauma or do I not have learning disabilities. People who knew me as a kid say I was very brilliant. But I learn everything very slowly as an adult. It is very demotivating
It is the trauma. I have experienced every mental illness in healing from CPTSD and PTSD. The body and mind has to heal also. I healed seeking the truth while dealing with removing the physical/emotional/mental/spiritual symptoms. I also am going thru spiritual ascension which is not being discussed in society. The majority of people who experience spiritual ascension have been thru alot of trauma in life before things get real strange and hitting rock bottom. I had no problem managing my life in the past. I have problems doing anything that involves the Babylon system govt paperwork or money they too cause trauma when one is awake and know our societies are not in accordance with God or the truth. I knew what I was experiencing no therapist or medical professional could help me with. I was not going to mask my symptoms and not fully heal. In the process of healing you are detoxing from negativity and rewiring you nervous system/brain. Be patient kind caring accepting loving and understanding to yourself. My connection to God grew so strong thru healing as I prayed to get thru it. I also did alot of research and learning. I would not know all I do if God did not have a plan for me to use it to help others. I probably sound crazy but follow your heart and ask God for help. I am gifted intellectual and you stated you are similar. Keep learning as much as you can to heal yourself. Those thoughts that come out of nowhere research them. We as humans have the ability to heal ourselves in amazing ways if we hold faith in ourselves to overcome what we lived thru and are going thru. I do not know if any of this makes sense but this is my true life lived experiences I am sharing. I have faith in God and nothing is by chance in my life as I see the patterns in every thing. Best to you healing. You can be more then you ever imagined have faith in yourself. I let go and let God and it worked. Have faith in you and cheering you on.
I'm no doc. I would say it's from trauma. Maybe u have a deep fear of it. Have u been in a car with incidents as a child? Have u seen someone get burned or something to do with kitchen? Maybe that's where it comes from. Them r just ideas to maybe think about as to y u can't learn. I'm 54 just found out I have Cptsd. I feel learning is harder now at my age on a new job. It gives me more anxiety as well it's not good. There's a lot that could be going on to the y u can't. Hope that helps.
His videos have been so helpful but it was disappointing to hear him complain about a client not leaving an abusive partner soon enough for his liking. I wonder if that person had difficulty making the decision to leave their partner because of a tough financial situation? And then saying that person was wasting his time.. Isn’t the purpose of a therapist to just simply be there for a client even if they haven’t changed yet? Personal responsibility is important but there really are outside factors that make change so so hard. Hearing therapists complain about clients makes me not even want to go to therapy.
Great teaching! And so true. You have to Want to heal...you have to put in the work. It's not easy, however, it is doable. "You have to start where you ARE, not where you want to be. " I'm so thankful that I finally "got it!" Don't ever quit. The road is hard, but you'll finally get to that bend in the road that makes the rest of the journey so worth it.
The Mirror Smiles Back I Totally Agree.😊♥️✌️
I like what you said about starting where you are not where you want to be. So true!
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3:32 Accepting responsibility in recovery
10:40 Characteristics of a victim mentality
17:45 Acting like a child but want to be treated like an adult. (This is related to the last video on commitment.)
20:57 How to get unstuck from victim mentality?
Great topic. Great message! Iam blessed to have found this channel.
#finding freedom thank you for sharing your talks.
Excellent Teaching Video!!!♥️
Thank you so much for this. It’s really really helpful!
Brilliant analysis as always. Thank you. You are SO clear!
This really hit home for me.
I know a few people who are currently not using but are still in the self-pity, selfish and excuses phase. They are miserable to be around.
BRILLIANT!! 🌟
TATTOOEDVEGAN This Channel has been very helpful to me too.😊💜✌️
@@CMoore8539 Me too!
TATTOOEDVEGAN Same question?😊
I have a question. If a person doesn’t believe in God, How can they find a spiritual relationship?♥️
Good Question. What I share with clients who are in that place is to keep an open heart, and to work on a spiritual fitness that includes healthy morals and beliefs
FindingFreedomMedia I Totally Believe In having good morals.
Cindy Moore Excellent. I would never try to push you beyond that. I teach it because the majority of people in Recovery find it to be very important
FindingFreedomMedia I totally understand and I respect everyone’s beliefs. Your videos are helping me tremendously. I detoxed from opiates in April 2017. Now I am going into intensive counseling. I’m really looking forward to it. I listen to your videos Every Single Day. Thank You So Much for putting them on Utube!!!😊💙✌️
Cindy Moore Thank you and thanks for introducing yourself.
Can anyone please help me out.
I do have CT.
I find learning easy things like driving or cooking very very difficult.I am not able to observe patterns and learn.
Is it something to do with trauma or do I not have learning disabilities.
People who knew me as a kid say I was very brilliant.
But I learn everything very slowly as an adult.
It is very demotivating
It is the trauma. I have experienced every mental illness in healing from CPTSD and PTSD. The body and mind has to heal also. I healed seeking the truth while dealing with removing the physical/emotional/mental/spiritual symptoms. I also am going thru spiritual ascension which is not being discussed in society. The majority of people who experience spiritual ascension have been thru alot of trauma in life before things get real strange and hitting rock bottom. I had no problem managing my life in the past. I have problems doing anything that involves the Babylon system govt paperwork or money they too cause trauma when one is awake and know our societies are not in accordance with God or the truth. I knew what I was experiencing no therapist or medical professional could help me with. I was not going to mask my symptoms and not fully heal. In the process of healing you are detoxing from negativity and rewiring you nervous system/brain. Be patient kind caring accepting loving and understanding to yourself. My connection to God grew so strong thru healing as I prayed to get thru it. I also did alot of research and learning. I would not know all I do if God did not have a plan for me to use it to help others. I probably sound crazy but follow your heart and ask God for help. I am gifted intellectual and you stated you are similar. Keep learning as much as you can to heal yourself. Those thoughts that come out of nowhere research them. We as humans have the ability to heal ourselves in amazing ways if we hold faith in ourselves to overcome what we lived thru and are going thru. I do not know if any of this makes sense but this is my true life lived experiences I am sharing. I have faith in God and nothing is by chance in my life as I see the patterns in every thing. Best to you healing. You can be more then you ever imagined have faith in yourself. I let go and let God and it worked. Have faith in you and cheering you on.
I'm no doc. I would say it's from trauma. Maybe u have a deep fear of it. Have u been in a car with incidents as a child? Have u seen someone get burned or something to do with kitchen? Maybe that's where it comes from. Them r just ideas to maybe think about as to y u can't learn. I'm 54 just found out I have Cptsd. I feel learning is harder now at my age on a new job. It gives me more anxiety as well it's not good. There's a lot that could be going on to the y u can't. Hope that helps.
His videos have been so helpful but it was disappointing to hear him complain about a client not leaving an abusive partner soon enough for his liking. I wonder if that person had difficulty making the decision to leave their partner because of a tough financial situation?
And then saying that person was wasting his time..
Isn’t the purpose of a therapist to just simply be there for a client even if they haven’t changed yet? Personal responsibility is important but there really are outside factors that make change so so hard. Hearing therapists complain about clients makes me not even want to go to therapy.
No, that is not the purpose of a therapist