Great teaching! And so true. You have to Want to heal...you have to put in the work. It's not easy, however, it is doable. "You have to start where you ARE, not where you want to be. " I'm so thankful that I finally "got it!" Don't ever quit. The road is hard, but you'll finally get to that bend in the road that makes the rest of the journey so worth it.
Man this one hurts but it’s true. Hard to find compassion and also be firm with myself. I do feel overwhelmed and helpless with how much of a mess I seem to be in.
Thanks, Tim. I’m crying. It’s been two years of weeding through the shadows and pain and now realizing god has put me through this to show me how much power and agency I have. Trauma had me believe I was powerless and helpless and in need of rescue. But I’m not! It literally is HORRIFYING, and I relate it to Brooks getting out of prison in Shawshank Redemption. He eventually killed himself because of the overwhelm. My mind goes there every day but there is a deep knowing that suicide is not the answer. Hearing your story is inspiring. I wanna quit right now because nothing seems right and I don’t even know where to live or where to start. But I will commit to at least doing healthy things for myself.
My God this is so good! This video was posted 5 years ago and it came right on time for me today. Tim thank you for being a catalyst to others and not giving up and serving the people who truly need this information to heal their lives.
I love your videos. Theres a depth of explanation thats sadly lacking on a lot of complex trauma channels. Thank you so much for all that you do 🙏 One thing that resonated with me was the was the explanation of stuck people who don't take a therapist's advice. I was that person for a long time. I have to say that it wasn't quite as it might seem. I was stuck in a replay of trying to get help. I wasn't at the stage of awareness to notice it was a pattern or to be able to absorb the advice. The loop of 'help me!' was still replaying in the present day. A slighly different take on that scenario but i can imagine how frustrating it must be as a therapist. Warmest wishes to everyone on their paths ❤😊
3:32 Accepting responsibility in recovery 10:40 Characteristics of a victim mentality 17:45 Acting like a child but want to be treated like an adult. (This is related to the last video on commitment.) 20:57 How to get unstuck from victim mentality?
still though ... NOTHING justifies abusing my privacy like that. NOTHING: This is sth that -- even CIA employers -- should get a min. 5 year prison sentence for ! Not the fact that i followed ppl on ig, not me being depressed, not me drinking a bit, NOTHING - and yall were always acting in GROUPS. i was alone. the most stable and strong person would regress under such circumstances. i yall hate me, okay, fine. But my god, at least find enough inegrity to leave me alone.
Good Question. What I share with clients who are in that place is to keep an open heart, and to work on a spiritual fitness that includes healthy morals and beliefs
FindingFreedomMedia I totally understand and I respect everyone’s beliefs. Your videos are helping me tremendously. I detoxed from opiates in April 2017. Now I am going into intensive counseling. I’m really looking forward to it. I listen to your videos Every Single Day. Thank You So Much for putting them on Utube!!!😊💙✌️
His videos have been so helpful but it was disappointing to hear him complain about a client not leaving an abusive partner soon enough for his liking. I wonder if that person had difficulty making the decision to leave their partner because of a tough financial situation? And then saying that person was wasting his time.. Isn’t the purpose of a therapist to just simply be there for a client even if they haven’t changed yet? Personal responsibility is important but there really are outside factors that make change so so hard. Hearing therapists complain about clients makes me not even want to go to therapy.
Can anyone please help me out. I do have CT. I find learning easy things like driving or cooking very very difficult.I am not able to observe patterns and learn. Is it something to do with trauma or do I not have learning disabilities. People who knew me as a kid say I was very brilliant. But I learn everything very slowly as an adult. It is very demotivating
It is the trauma. I have experienced every mental illness in healing from CPTSD and PTSD. The body and mind has to heal also. I healed seeking the truth while dealing with removing the physical/emotional/mental/spiritual symptoms. I also am going thru spiritual ascension which is not being discussed in society. The majority of people who experience spiritual ascension have been thru alot of trauma in life before things get real strange and hitting rock bottom. I had no problem managing my life in the past. I have problems doing anything that involves the Babylon system govt paperwork or money they too cause trauma when one is awake and know our societies are not in accordance with God or the truth. I knew what I was experiencing no therapist or medical professional could help me with. I was not going to mask my symptoms and not fully heal. In the process of healing you are detoxing from negativity and rewiring you nervous system/brain. Be patient kind caring accepting loving and understanding to yourself. My connection to God grew so strong thru healing as I prayed to get thru it. I also did alot of research and learning. I would not know all I do if God did not have a plan for me to use it to help others. I probably sound crazy but follow your heart and ask God for help. I am gifted intellectual and you stated you are similar. Keep learning as much as you can to heal yourself. Those thoughts that come out of nowhere research them. We as humans have the ability to heal ourselves in amazing ways if we hold faith in ourselves to overcome what we lived thru and are going thru. I do not know if any of this makes sense but this is my true life lived experiences I am sharing. I have faith in God and nothing is by chance in my life as I see the patterns in every thing. Best to you healing. You can be more then you ever imagined have faith in yourself. I let go and let God and it worked. Have faith in you and cheering you on.
I'm no doc. I would say it's from trauma. Maybe u have a deep fear of it. Have u been in a car with incidents as a child? Have u seen someone get burned or something to do with kitchen? Maybe that's where it comes from. Them r just ideas to maybe think about as to y u can't learn. I'm 54 just found out I have Cptsd. I feel learning is harder now at my age on a new job. It gives me more anxiety as well it's not good. There's a lot that could be going on to the y u can't. Hope that helps.
Great teaching! And so true. You have to Want to heal...you have to put in the work. It's not easy, however, it is doable. "You have to start where you ARE, not where you want to be. " I'm so thankful that I finally "got it!" Don't ever quit. The road is hard, but you'll finally get to that bend in the road that makes the rest of the journey so worth it.
The Mirror Smiles Back I Totally Agree.😊♥️✌️
I like what you said about starting where you are not where you want to be. So true!
How’s your recovery gone? Be honest.
Thank you ... Thank you ... Thank you ... Thank you ... Thank you ... Thank you ... Thank you
This man has walked 'The Path'....
I stumbled across Tim's channel and can't stop watching his videos. He's got so much wisdom
Man this one hurts but it’s true.
Hard to find compassion and also be firm with myself.
I do feel overwhelmed and helpless with how much of a mess I seem to be in.
Thanks, Tim.
I’m crying.
It’s been two years of weeding through the shadows and pain and now realizing god has put me through this to show me how much power and agency I have.
Trauma had me believe I was powerless and helpless and in need of rescue.
But I’m not!
It literally is HORRIFYING, and I relate it to Brooks getting out of prison in Shawshank Redemption.
He eventually killed himself because of the overwhelm.
My mind goes there every day but there is a deep knowing that suicide is not the answer.
Hearing your story is inspiring.
I wanna quit right now because nothing seems right and I don’t even know where to live or where to start.
But I will commit to at least doing healthy things for myself.
I don’t blame others. I shame myself into paralysis.
My God this is so good! This video was posted 5 years ago and it came right on time for me today. Tim thank you for being a catalyst to others and not giving up and serving the people who truly need this information to heal their lives.
Brilliant analysis as always. Thank you. You are SO clear!
Great topic. Great message! Iam blessed to have found this channel.
#finding freedom thank you for sharing your talks.
Thank you so much for this. It’s really really helpful!
This really hit home for me.
I love your videos. Theres a depth of explanation thats sadly lacking on a lot of complex trauma channels. Thank you so much for all that you do 🙏
One thing that resonated with me was the was the explanation of stuck people who don't take a therapist's advice. I was that person for a long time. I have to say that it wasn't quite as it might seem. I was stuck in a replay of trying to get help. I wasn't at the stage of awareness to notice it was a pattern or to be able to absorb the advice. The loop of 'help me!' was still replaying in the present day. A slighly different take on that scenario but i can imagine how frustrating it must be as a therapist. Warmest wishes to everyone on their paths ❤😊
Excellent Teaching Video!!!♥️
3:32 Accepting responsibility in recovery
10:40 Characteristics of a victim mentality
17:45 Acting like a child but want to be treated like an adult. (This is related to the last video on commitment.)
20:57 How to get unstuck from victim mentality?
This was me and still can be me more than i like
Thank you.
I know a few people who are currently not using but are still in the self-pity, selfish and excuses phase. They are miserable to be around.
BRILLIANT!! 🌟
TATTOOEDVEGAN This Channel has been very helpful to me too.😊💜✌️
@@CMoore8539 Me too!
TATTOOEDVEGAN Same question?😊
still though ... NOTHING justifies abusing my privacy like that. NOTHING: This is sth that -- even CIA employers -- should get a min. 5 year prison sentence for !
Not the fact that i followed ppl on ig, not me being depressed, not me drinking a bit, NOTHING - and yall were always acting in GROUPS. i was alone. the most stable and strong person would regress under such circumstances. i yall hate me, okay, fine. But my god, at least find enough inegrity to leave me alone.
I have a question. If a person doesn’t believe in God, How can they find a spiritual relationship?♥️
Good Question. What I share with clients who are in that place is to keep an open heart, and to work on a spiritual fitness that includes healthy morals and beliefs
FindingFreedomMedia I Totally Believe In having good morals.
Cindy Moore Excellent. I would never try to push you beyond that. I teach it because the majority of people in Recovery find it to be very important
FindingFreedomMedia I totally understand and I respect everyone’s beliefs. Your videos are helping me tremendously. I detoxed from opiates in April 2017. Now I am going into intensive counseling. I’m really looking forward to it. I listen to your videos Every Single Day. Thank You So Much for putting them on Utube!!!😊💙✌️
Cindy Moore Thank you and thanks for introducing yourself.
His videos have been so helpful but it was disappointing to hear him complain about a client not leaving an abusive partner soon enough for his liking. I wonder if that person had difficulty making the decision to leave their partner because of a tough financial situation?
And then saying that person was wasting his time..
Isn’t the purpose of a therapist to just simply be there for a client even if they haven’t changed yet? Personal responsibility is important but there really are outside factors that make change so so hard. Hearing therapists complain about clients makes me not even want to go to therapy.
No, that is not the purpose of a therapist
It is helpful to listen and absorb what he is saying slowly....he is not complaining❤
Can anyone please help me out.
I do have CT.
I find learning easy things like driving or cooking very very difficult.I am not able to observe patterns and learn.
Is it something to do with trauma or do I not have learning disabilities.
People who knew me as a kid say I was very brilliant.
But I learn everything very slowly as an adult.
It is very demotivating
It is the trauma. I have experienced every mental illness in healing from CPTSD and PTSD. The body and mind has to heal also. I healed seeking the truth while dealing with removing the physical/emotional/mental/spiritual symptoms. I also am going thru spiritual ascension which is not being discussed in society. The majority of people who experience spiritual ascension have been thru alot of trauma in life before things get real strange and hitting rock bottom. I had no problem managing my life in the past. I have problems doing anything that involves the Babylon system govt paperwork or money they too cause trauma when one is awake and know our societies are not in accordance with God or the truth. I knew what I was experiencing no therapist or medical professional could help me with. I was not going to mask my symptoms and not fully heal. In the process of healing you are detoxing from negativity and rewiring you nervous system/brain. Be patient kind caring accepting loving and understanding to yourself. My connection to God grew so strong thru healing as I prayed to get thru it. I also did alot of research and learning. I would not know all I do if God did not have a plan for me to use it to help others. I probably sound crazy but follow your heart and ask God for help. I am gifted intellectual and you stated you are similar. Keep learning as much as you can to heal yourself. Those thoughts that come out of nowhere research them. We as humans have the ability to heal ourselves in amazing ways if we hold faith in ourselves to overcome what we lived thru and are going thru. I do not know if any of this makes sense but this is my true life lived experiences I am sharing. I have faith in God and nothing is by chance in my life as I see the patterns in every thing. Best to you healing. You can be more then you ever imagined have faith in yourself. I let go and let God and it worked. Have faith in you and cheering you on.
I'm no doc. I would say it's from trauma. Maybe u have a deep fear of it. Have u been in a car with incidents as a child? Have u seen someone get burned or something to do with kitchen? Maybe that's where it comes from. Them r just ideas to maybe think about as to y u can't learn. I'm 54 just found out I have Cptsd. I feel learning is harder now at my age on a new job. It gives me more anxiety as well it's not good. There's a lot that could be going on to the y u can't. Hope that helps.
Limiting beliefs
@@AnnLi-lm2kd have you learned a way to learn new things yet?
@AnnLi-lm2kd it's your nerves and anxiety. Vagus nerve it causes issues all day long it's from our damage.
Idk what to feel about the rape thing tho, isn't that a different situation?
9:45 Kanye
Terrible example about the pregnancies in the beginning, takes away from the lesson!!!