shootingblueyes But seeing Trump supporters come out with new fantasies and proudly portraying their ignorance is the best form of entertainment there is.
"We understand this with food but not with women's bodies" True point, I find that when/if a child get sexually assaulted everyone agrees that it's wrong no matter what. But a grown woman is sexually assaulted, the public is iffy.
True, I saw Wendy Williams literally make fun of Terry Cruise for coming out and saying that he was sexually assaulted. It really raises a question on why people are so cruel to victims
I'm glad you find that where you live kids don't get blamed. Unfortunately in my country, we just found out that an 11 year-old girl has been sexually assaulted and raped by two men for two years straight, and there are still a lot of people who blame the child. An 11 year-old little girl. I think everybody can guess what women get here when they come forward with their stories.
"guys will be guys" The excuse every girl hears when complaining to almost anyone about something a guy did. I never the ball in basketball. "Guys will be guys" Some boy told me to go in the kitchen and make him a sandwich bc I'm a women. "Guys will be guys" He sexually assaulted me. "Guys will be guys" I'm sure every girl is tired of this. There shouldn't be an excuse for someone who purposely mistreats someone solely because of what's in between their legs. So, if you're a person that often says this, I think you should reavaluate some things.
Adolf Hitler please don’t try to put words in my mouth. And last time I checked you have to have both parties agree to a divorce. Pretty sure that’s all I need to say.
yeah, but if she gets away, She will loose all the money. ahhhhh, the horrible history of the Bird in a Golden Cage, who were afraid to be free, and poor. (but freee, but poor)
It's really hard to provide any proof of sexual assault even when it does happen especially if its years after. I still remember as a child a friend's father used to touch me in inappropriate ways whenever my friend would go to the bathroom or turn her head for a moment. At the time, because I was young, I didn't know it was child molestation. All I knew was that it made me uncomfortable, I didn't like it, and it made me embarrassed to talk about it. I never did talk about it until years later because I simply didn't know what it was and I was embarrassed. Looking back I realized how wrong all of those things were, and to be completely honest I still find talking about the details very uncomfortable. However, now, 6 years later, I couldn't find a piece of evidence even if I wanted to. I can't bring "justice" if I wanted to. I think part of the reason woman don't talk about sexual assault right away when evidence is still fresh (if any) is because for one thing it doesn't always register as "assault" it registers as "that made me uncomfortable" and you really have to have a good understand of assault to call any experience by that term. Contributing to this is the "it'll never happen to me" mentality, which confuses a person when it does happen. In addition to this the topic is very uncomfortable to talk about and many people don't like being seen as victims. I can say "I was molested" because the word "molest" is disconnected from the events that actually happened. However if someone were to ask me to describe in detail what had happened, I'm not sure I would be comfortable enough to talk about it. Also, this topic just doesn't come up very often. Most of my close friends still don't know about that experience of mine simply because its hard to bring up and no one likes to hear about it. 1/4 women get assaulted in their life time. In a class room of 30 kids, if 15 of them were girls, 3-4 of them will or have experienced sexual assault. Even with that statistic, you still don't hear about it very often.
Yup ... and what’s messed up is even if there is video proof of them doing it if it’s 7 years after your 18th birthday they can’t do boo about it ... at least that’s what they told me and my sister... also a girl at work stuck her hand down my shirt and hr couldn’t even get me out of the same room as her
Jacob Maron Every single job and company actually has rules in place to try to keep these things down. Its never correct to act in this way. The thing os that the victims here did not want sexual interactions. Yes, they may not have quit their job over it, but that changes little. these people coming felt at the time that saying no would ruin their life, and that saying yes had some rewards, if only job security. Your a starting out work, your lonely and keep making mistakes because you dont know that Jill is the only one who used that coffee pot and that the correct broom for that room is green, or where they keep anything. No one is giving you jobs you actually know how to do because you have not proven yourself yet. Someone in power comes up, it does not matter if male or female, makes it clear that if you have sex with them you will further your carrier. People jump on the train saying well they traded their honor for work benefits. But they forget to ask what happens if you turn these kind of people down. you will be punished. We see pretty publicly what trump does to people he sees as not doing what he wants them to do. What happens to people who try to hold them accountable for their own actions. And thats just reporters trying to get interviews. What happens if you have no power yourself, no money. Bills and debt from school. Rent, water, electric. And one ill word from that person will make sure you never get a job in the industry again. Be such a pity if you lost your job... such a pretty face.... hope no one thinks your stealing things from here.... These people dont come forward because they are bitter. They come forward to validate the charges of others and to stop it in the future.
Okay I really appreciate this video and it's so important but sexual assault is not just "on a woman's body". I'm a male and have had an incident of sexual assault, I appreciate the message you're giving and I would in no way support Trump, but just because he is speaking about the sexual assault of a woman, does not mean sexual assault is an exclusive thing.
***** there was several points in the video where she said things along the lines of, "without consent, touching a woman's private parts is sexual assault" etc
***** I understand but still the wording of what they were saying was almost like sexual assault being exclusive to women. Now I'm not arguing, goodbye.
You're right, and while I do agree with AttilaTheBuns that this particular video is about sexual assault against women, we also need to adjust our language regarding sexual assault in general... it's absolutely not okay to forget male victims of sexual violence. Thank you for reminding us and drawing more attention to this!
I get where Trump supporters are coming from on some matters, and I get that Hillary wasn't a great candidate either, but to deny this stuff is idiotic.
No what's scary is massive propaganda and Hillary Clinton threatening NUCLEAR WAR with RUSSIA. But instead the media just wants to talk about a man confessing his attraction to women 10 years ago. Actions, not words, friend. OK, here is what I'll do for you. Look up "Hillary Clinton steals billions from Haiti." She is a MURDERER. Did I mention NUCLEAR WAR...? Wake up.
I believe what you meant to say is confessing to sexual assault. If you're the type of person to unironically say "Wake up," you're the one who's fallen for "massive propaganda." But hey man, judging by your subscriptions, you got a really nice safe space going on for you and I wouldn't want to burst your echo chamber. I eagerly await your next triggered reply. 🍿
As a British guy living in America, I don't even know what to say anymore, Seriously this election is baffling to me..... These two candidates should never be running for president. Also, the election cycle is way too long... 2 years is ridiculous, in the UK and many other countries its just 5 weeks. Edit: Also, I do not plan on living in America for the foreseeable future, seriously that's the effect this election has had on me, America isn't looking appealing anymore.
I cannot stress enough how important it is that we teach the youth in America today about consent. Honestly, I did not learn what the fundamentals of consent were until I accepted a job as a Resident Assistant in college and was in training. I was 20 years old and this was stuff I had never learned about. We can't have our citizens only learn this at 20 years old, or have a situation where some never learn it.
Better to be taught consent than to rape someone. Consent is important, and more complicated than you think. And if someone has been taught about consent and still chooses to rape or assault someone, they can't say "well how should I have known they didnt consent?" because they knew goddamn well what they chose to do.
The505Guys , when you are born, you come into the world as a blank/innocent slate. Growing up, you learn values/rules/"the way of the land" from Whatever family/society you are born into. so yes, consent must be taught.. what?.. you thought you just automatically knew what it was?.. or what anything is for that matter?.. everything you know is from a lesson learnt, whether it was the harsh realities of life that taught you, the experiences of others, friends,family, etc.
The505Guys, children should be taught it at a young age. In Australia, from grade six we increasingly are taught about it. In grade ten, my school at least, we had to do a whole day course on it. It is so important for young children to be aware of. It needs to be spoken about more.
It was our electoral college that got him elected. He never won by popular vote. How it works is that people from smaller states (in terms of population) get more votes in the system than major states like NY or California or sumn, where the population is more dense. Racist uneducated people from the south are basically at an advantage and honestly I want to move to Canada.
@@xexpaguette who cares he's not a terrorist he hasn't Done much wrong in his time at office we don't know how Hilary would of done so if you wanna live in Canada go for it
I disagree with one thing. I think we should focus on the words "sexual assault." Because the words are accurate. We should be trying to make people understand that sexual assault is exactly what Trump was talking about. Thlse words are powerful, I agree. That's why we should be making it clear that sexual assault is exactly what we're talking about.
I've been in a lot of locker rooms as well and in those locker rooms, we did indeed talk about the women we were going to train with or saw while training. Especially after swimming, locker room talk can become explicit. However, at no point have I or any of my friends ever implied that we would sexually assault any of the women we were talking about. This is not normal locker room talk. Most men don't engage in this kind of locker roomt talk. Hashtag not all men. It is incredibly important for men to speak out against Trump. We can't let him speak for us. What he said is damaging to the image of men as a whole. Trump is a real danger for women but he's also a threat to the accountability of men.
Ashlantis the video, it exclusively talks about female victims and male abusers. re-watch it. if they used gender neutral pronouns or switched between male&female it wouldn't be an issue.
John Harrison because trump sexually assaulted women. if he'd sexually assaulted men it would'dve been mentioned. this is not about sexual assault as a whole it's about donald trump. did you happen to somehow skip through those parts????
@Polite Comments On Current Affairs Does so-called christians do that as well? I wouldn't expect someone who loves Jesus and reads the bible would be joking about sexually assaulting women.
@@Yoda-wf6bu I could misunderstand this😭, but no Christians don't do this this also applies to non religious people. The ones that make jokes about it are just horrible people, Christian or not. Religion doesn't justify what they say.
Even my 12 year old cousin knows what the definition of consent is. Now here I am, watching a video about a bunch of people explain what consent is to a *Full Grown Human*
Most people, even women, don’t really understand consent that well. One has to be sober to give consent. Mentally disabled people cant give consent. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Consent is verbal and can’t be pressured out of someone.
Haha this is so stupid the women in the pageant totally lied she said he just walked in but thy have asked many other people in the pageant if they saw him and they all said no and some even said there was no way he could have even gotten in
Exactly, and look at his wifes why would he need to rape someone from the office when knowing that it would affect him later on, when he has his beautiful wife's that are supermodels.
You disgust me honestly. You instead attack other people instead of defending Donald Trump. You then agree that sexual assault is okay by saying Trump can have ANY GIRL he wants. Then you judge women on their looks by calling them ugly heathens. Glad to know this is our society in the 21 first century.
As a man, can confirm the excuse "it was just locker room banter" is invalid. If anything that makes it worse because you show your true colors when nobody is around and you don't think anyone will ever hear what you are saying. The video didn't show how he "used to be" it is confirming what we previously thought about him. It would be different if he was a teen and said something stupid, we've all been there, but he was a 50-60 year old man saying this. It's only when he is on camera that he is on his best behavior acting like his past is forgotten
"Just kiss. I don't even wait." THERE. I don't even wait. I DONT EVEN WAIT. DO I NEED TO SAY MORE?! This guy doesn't CARE about consent to begin with, let alone caring about a "yes" or "no"
Brett Brenner There is a big different between "I can't wait to ask out Katie! I like her a lot!" And "I don't wait for her to say yes, I just go for it." my dude
That's usually when you infer based on the language. The logical conclusion, especially considering who trump is and what he has said in the very recent past, is that he isn't waiting for her to say yes or give a sign that she wants him to kiss her or whatever else. The phrase "I don't even wait..." in this context implies non consent unless the context itself explicitly states otherwise. But I can see where the confusion comes in bro
Well it's a legitimate fear. I think that people are taking this one, admittedly pretty stupid and in over his head man but not the end all be all of evil, and making him the figurehead of what American politics have become. And what it's become is terrifying for many, many people. The president doesn't have nearly as much power as most people think, so while I find Trump pretty disgusting as a person, I'm not here calling him Hilter as he has not even a quarter of the power over his country that Hitler did over Germany (thank everything he doesn't.) I see where you're coming from.
john smith that's the unfortunate thing about victims who want to testify--if you don't come forward within a certain amount of time there is zero physical evidence and you know you're going to lose. it's can take days to weeks to even months of years to be ready, but by then it's too late. even hours can be too long. did you take a shower? tough luck. did he use a condom? too bad before I was raped I had the mindset of "wow, those people are so stupid. how come they don't report it?" then it happened to me and I didn't tell anyone for a year. and even then I only told one person
Yes good argument. If talking about *exactly that point* was not the purpose of this Video. Try watching a video before you try to Shittalk it, once in while?
@Triple Digit: And if you hold a weapon in their face, they let you do it. How is that not consent? Anything that can be used force consent is by definition not consent. Stardom or having (economics) power over a person is inlcuded. The specific measure take to force consent is irrelevant - it invalidates consent.
I'm guessing the dislike ratio is from people who don't believe in consent or still don't understand it even after it's explained. Maybe a puppet show would help? Or for the people who wouldn't mind if someone attractive started kissing or touching them - how about if someone *unattractive* did it to you? Would you still be OK with it?
I think the dislikes are people who see the obvious bias in the video. This video is one of their last attempts to try to sway the election towards HRC. Obviously what Trump has done is wrong, damaged moral compass perhaps, but both the Clinton's are far from innocent. Maybe a puppet show should be used to demonstrate how large corporations and dangerous countries are the puppet masters of Hillary...
I think some people are just scared that might actually have to ask for consent. Maybe they think that not raping people will erode the family structure and turn you into a homosexual? Just going off the stuff I've heard around this crowd
Mythos it wasn't really a statement, I'm just trying to understand people. Anti-sjw's are often are quite offended by the idea of consent, as exemplified by responses to videos like this. But I hold the belief that such statements as "political correctness is creeping in to the bedroom" should not be taken at face value. But rather are rather linked to some inner fear. Fear of emasculation, fear of black people, fear of homosexuality, fear of autonomous woman, fear of Jews, fear of trans-woman etc. But these are just my my musings ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I find the reasons for different like to dislike ratios can be interesting but also confusing.
No means no. Maybe means no. unless you are given an enthusiastic "Yes!", it means no. You are allowed to revoke consent when you no longer want to engage in that activity. Consent is fries! Freely given. Reversible. Informed. Enthusiastic. Specific.
@@ahmedgamez3273 and then when the person says no, it's no! And being asleep means no. And being unconscious means no. And being drugged means no. And being afraid means no. Being embaressed means no. All those circumstances can change a yes to a no. Its not that complicated.
Jun 22 2020 9:59 AM CTL I just found out that a whole lot of teens bought multiple tickets to Trumps Tulsa rally to inflate his numbers so he would brag about it
This makes no sense, if you don't like something, you should say NO. If you don't say no, then the other party assumes you are OK with it. Some people send mixed signals when it comes to liking somebody (winks, flirty jokes, etc). Why would it matter whether someone is rich or powerful when it comes to sex? What you can't do is have fun and when you figure out the other party has no serous intentions, accuse them of molestation or rape. If you don't like it, you say NO, if he still continues, then it's his fault and he should go to prison for it. But regretting something you had fun with, is not molestation or rape, especially when it comes rich and famous people (most girls think they will be a couple just because they flirt or had sex). Saying NO doesn't require bravery. BTW, I'm not a Trump supporter, I just like common sense.
So you're saying it's only sexual assault if they continue touching after the other person has said "no"? If there was no "yes" to begin with, then it's sexual assault. Absence of a "no" does not mean consent, you can't sexually touch someone without asking. And sometimes saying "no" does require bravery, what if your attacker had a knife, or was much stronger than you? They could stab you or hurt you for resisting and saying "no". Sometimes people let it happen so they don't get physically hurt.
lamcho00 no, its still a crime. If someone feels threatened by the other then it can be hard to say no. And even if there isnt a no its still a crime unless there is consent, which means both people have to say yes.
lamcho00 i know its an old comment but, no, it's actually deeper than that. saying no it's important, but it does require a lot of bravery. - even if someone says no, and it still gets raped, people might not believe them, for several reasons (e.g. they were raped by their partner, spouse / they were on a date with the rapist / they didn't report it immediately out of fear) - when victims don't say no, they do it out of fear. women especially, are scared of casual dates with stragers, because it could be anyone, and that "anyone" could even kill them if they say no. and that seems impossible, but it's actually very common, and it's a totally understandable fear. sometimes, women don't say no because having sex without consent it """"better""" than being beaten up really badly or even killed. - some people are "forced" into sex by more powerful people, because those powerful people have control over them. they might not even realize it sometimes, but the rapists are in a position were the vicitms feels so inferior to them, that has to say yes. or a least, not say "no".
People who rape other people won't be stopped by saying no. Their allready an mentally unstable individual. No only works when your dealing with sane people. Consent is when all parties want/agree to something and are aware of what's happening. whether it's food or sex, it counts. Consent is also not constantly asked for or retracted. Unless a new element is interjected and refused by one party ofcourse, but that is a breach of what that party consented to. Goodness making sex sound like a legal process or surgical operation. If your not saying no and he isn't bribing you, like you will lose your job if you refuse me then it is consensual. If you say no and he continues or bribes you, then it's rape. If he stops, good you just avoided. A: A lawsuit that leaves both parties mad and upset. B: A sexual encounter that made one of the two parties feel terrible.
@@michaelpomales8021 i don't even live in America yet i agree. Americans need to step their game up about solving these issues otherwise they're just gonna dig their own graves like they're now. Jeez i used to admire that country so much, now look where it is now...
People who are disliking the video (including me) are not disliking because of the "anti trump" message, but rather the ignorance that women are the only one sexually assaulted. (2:18) Men get sexually assaulted the same way women do, I dont understand why you are making this a one sided message that only women get raped which overshadows men rape victims. That is sexism and hypocrisy, which is what we dont like
Eridani Reyes-Sepulveda I provided a exact time 2:18 where she states "society understands consent with food but doesn't understand consent with a woman's body" If you dont find that sexist then I dont have much to say. As for the rest of the video, everyone agrees trump sexually assaulted women, trump supporters who deny it are making excuses to see trump win. They dont care if he did or didn't assault women, they just want to do everything possible to make him win even if thats lying.
robert karas I disliked the video because it was another thinly veiled feminist rant about consent. I understand the concept of consent and I'm not trying to downplay its importance. However, I hate when people, typically feminists, tout that it must be a clear and concise yes every time, for everything, period. How awkward do they want dating and relationships to be? "Excuse me miss, I would like to put my hand on your thigh, followed by leaning in for kiss. Would that be acceptable to you?" There must be common sense applied and people need to understand that sometimes messages get mixed up. That doesn't mean that one unwanted kiss is sexual assault if you tell the person no afterwards and they say sorry, misunderstood the situation. Otherwise every awkward teenager trying to learn their way through relationships is guilty of sexual assault...
My mum has a colleague that used to work for Trump, and she said that to get him to focus and do work, they would say there's a famous person waiting for him if he finished his work. Bribing him like a child, he is a joke, he has always been a joke.
5K non-trump supporters and fake accounts* There are Jill and Gary supporters; and it's been proven that many anti-trump/pro-Clinton videos have been bombarded with vacant or "empty accounts" to make it viral and have a lot of likes.
It wouldn't be damning evidence because he says "women let him." Say what you want about consent but I don't let people do something I don't want them to.
Consent is also not constantly asked for or retracted. Unless a new element is interjected and refused by one party ofcourse, but that is a breach of what that party consented to. Making sex sound like a legal process or surgical operation. How to take all the fun out of it...
dnw009 well consent is more important than fun. Sexual activity without consent is a crime. Not obtaining the other person's consent in the first place (which is as simple as asking "are you ok if I do this?" "Do you mind if I do X?") still makes it sexual assault.
The phrase "Guys will be guys" is just as bad as saying "Muslims will be Muslims" in defence of terrorism. You are offending both the victims and the people other than the attackers who belong in the same group. Shameful.
Its controversial when theres no evidence. Evidence means everything. And accusation will stay an accusation until there is evidence, otherwise we have every right to not believe them.
This video is so informative!!! I admire those brave women for sharing their experiences with Trump on live television. I would encourage all those who are sexual assault survivors to do the same!!!
So she's saying that if a girl kissed me at random and I never said it was okey it's illegal. I can get her some jailtime if I got proof. Well this is a game changer.
Saying “boys will be boys” insults me and every man there is. I want this phrase to be reclaimed and used appropriately, because this is not how it was used with me growing up!
Trump's confrontation made me laugh. He was like, "I don't think you understood me" even though that's what he was doing to these women. He's dumbfound stupid and it's hilarious.
Even if Trump was joking around, its not something that the President of the USA should be joking about, he’s suppose to be an example to the children and people of America, he disgusts me.
"... you hear these things, they're said..." That is the most solid comeback I've heard from him this entire video (and presidency). We *love* an ignorant orange!
Here's the thing about "locker room talk": The main place you would find words like that would be in a high school or even college locker room where teens try to impress their friends. But that doesn't make what they're saying okay. It's juvenile and disrespectful and shows more about their character then they want to believe.
My father is a bit of sexist (in a very casual way, like jokes, etc.) but he has educated me on the fact that consent is important and you shouldn't force someone in any circumstance. This is a very common sense thing that you have to understand. Grabbing someone's privates without their consent is too far.
@Ares YAY, THERE ARE LITERALLY VIDEOS OF BIDEN TOUCHING KIDS AND MAKING THEM UNCOMFORTABLE BUT YOU DO NOT CARE SINCE YOU WATCH ONLY CNN AND PROGRAMMED TO HATE 1 MAN
@@el-ju4uv YAY, THERE ARE LITERALLY VIDEOS OF BIDEN TOUCHING KIDS AND MAKING THEM UNCOMFORTABLE BUT YOU DO NOT CARE SINCE YOU WATCH ONLY CNN AND PROGRAMMED TO HATE 1 MAN
Jill Stein and Garry Johnson :P One is still busy appealing to dipshit anti-science folks and one guys knows nothing about foriegn policy. Still better than either dipshits we got from the party of the ass and giant shitphants.
quayezell of life again there’s the word of the victim which is usually substantially proof. If you only don’t believe Timothy because you like Mel, you have some issues
This was consent explained to Trump, who has sexually assaulted *women* not men. Anyone, no matter race, gender, or sexual orientation can be sexually assaulted. The majority of sexual assaults are on women, usually younger women like teens, children, young adults, and middle aged women. Male teen and children are most often to get molested and/or raped by adults or other teens. Some people like younger male people, because male refers to the sex of a person.
NerdOracle Or its people that read some of the email leaks and Ezra Klien (editor in chief of vox) was named to spin a narrative. But it's no surprise that media that leans left will be putting out stuff against the right. :)
I don't like Vox too much, but I appreciate their ability to be so brazen. This video is one of the best examples of that- a frank analysis of Trump's misogyny needed to be made, regardless if it's 'political' or not.
Doesnt matter if someone gives and enthusiastic yes, they can just lie in court. Also if people are about to have intimate relations with each other it often ruins the moment by asking for consent. Most of the time non verbal cues are used, and sometimes, shocker men get it wrong.
321 GOBONKERS dude. “Ruining the moment” is NOT a good reason for assault. Also, who hurt you? People would not lie in court when they got sexually assaulted. They could, but they wouldn’t. It’s just too serious for people to lie about. Unlike you, we are not willing to say anything to get our way.
@@josef7461 Exactly. They get it wrong. They did a wrong thing, and should be held accountable for that. And anyone who would like to avoid doing a wrong thing, just... make sure the person always consents to what you're doing? How is that so hard?
"The left will tolerate everything as long as there's consent" Yeah, what's the problem if both people want to do what they are doing I don't see a problem
He assumes because he's rich and famous they let him do it so he doesn't even ask before hand, that's pretty sleazy. Maybe they don't stop him for fear that he might have the power to influence their careers, like the Miss Universe contestants, that doesn't make it any less of an assault.
how the united state of america divided in half trump and Clinton and all over the news is about election rigged and rape victims on both side like WTF ...... you guys are screwed I guess Putin will take the spot light
because this video is about trump sexually harassing people. trump is a man and straight, so why would the video talk about men being sexually harassed
something to make clear though, its not just women's bodies, its just anyones body, and it's wrong for anyone to do things to someone without said consent.
Consent is like boxing
If one party doesn’t agree, the other one is committing a crime
I love that one.
John Oliver reference, I love that!!!
I like this analogy
Then get out of the ring
Who decides what "the law" is? Who is the authority and why?
In New Zealand consent is taught as part of our health curriculum. It baffles me that an entire society could debate consent.
Welcome to America my friend. Jokes aside i want to move to new zealand
Yeah same in the United Kingdom we watched the Tea video in school
as an american it does to. like, just ask.
its america your expecting too much
@@isabellamayer6385 terrible that what you said sounds like the truth.
Stop. Dont keep scrolling down. Nothing good will come of it.
shootingblueyes But seeing Trump supporters come out with new fantasies and proudly portraying their ignorance is the best form of entertainment there is.
shootingblueyes You're not the boss of me!
shootingblueyes I... I'm back. You were right. I should have listened.
shootingblueyes thbks
Thanks good sir, I'll take your warning.
"boys will be boys" is such an awfull thing to say.
@A S It's not.
Actually is not it's like sayng that boys are boys becouse of biological reasons that i don't want to explain becouse you should already know it
@Delila Smith almost everyone respects women
@@chadhuman982 The phrase is excusing men/boys being disrespectful to women, and not caring about consent, which may i repeat, IS ILLEGAL
Donald trump isnt a boy he is a grown man it is inexcusable
"We understand this with food but not with women's bodies" True point, I find that when/if a child get sexually assaulted everyone agrees that it's wrong no matter what. But a grown woman is sexually assaulted, the public is iffy.
and when a grown man is sexually assaulted he is shamed and ignored
True, I saw Wendy Williams literally make fun of Terry Cruise for coming out and saying that he was sexually assaulted. It really raises a question on why people are so cruel to victims
Tell that to my mother/grandmother.
I'm glad you find that where you live kids don't get blamed. Unfortunately in my country, we just found out that an 11 year-old girl has been sexually assaulted and raped by two men for two years straight, and there are still a lot of people who blame the child. An 11 year-old little girl. I think everybody can guess what women get here when they come forward with their stories.
Do you eat children?
"guys will be guys"
The excuse every girl hears when complaining to almost anyone about something a guy did. I never the ball in basketball. "Guys will be guys" Some boy told me to go in the kitchen and make him a sandwich bc I'm a women. "Guys will be guys" He sexually assaulted me. "Guys will be guys"
I'm sure every girl is tired of this. There shouldn't be an excuse for someone who purposely mistreats someone solely because of what's in between their legs. So, if you're a person that often says this, I think you should reavaluate some things.
You said is sister
A nother answer would be: " You must have provocat him"
Badeu Miriam seriously! its the same thing with dress codes too!
I always that boys will be boys is an insult to men
Period!
"Gee, both the women were Hillary supporters" YEA PROBABLY!!!!! Who wouldn't after that!!!???
Brave Soul SAME I thought that immediately!!
Two years later:
Its more about 'before' the action.
Bruh Hilary lost lol
Exactly!
@@alexlester. your point is:...
I feel sorry for Melania, she must have to deal with him all day everyday.
I don't. She's got the money, she can divorce him whenever she wants to. But she did not
Adolf Hitler please don’t try to put words in my mouth. And last time I checked you have to have both parties agree to a divorce. Pretty sure that’s all I need to say.
yeah, but if she gets away, She will loose all the money.
ahhhhh, the horrible history of the Bird in a Golden Cage, who were afraid to be free, and poor. (but freee, but poor)
Yep. She her money and she doesn't, they live separately.
but behind closed doors donald trump is actually a very caring person with a great heart
It's really hard to provide any proof of sexual assault even when it does happen especially if its years after. I still remember as a child a friend's father used to touch me in inappropriate ways whenever my friend would go to the bathroom or turn her head for a moment. At the time, because I was young, I didn't know it was child molestation. All I knew was that it made me uncomfortable, I didn't like it, and it made me embarrassed to talk about it. I never did talk about it until years later because I simply didn't know what it was and I was embarrassed. Looking back I realized how wrong all of those things were, and to be completely honest I still find talking about the details very uncomfortable. However, now, 6 years later, I couldn't find a piece of evidence even if I wanted to. I can't bring "justice" if I wanted to. I think part of the reason woman don't talk about sexual assault right away when evidence is still fresh (if any) is because for one thing it doesn't always register as "assault" it registers as "that made me uncomfortable" and you really have to have a good understand of assault to call any experience by that term. Contributing to this is the "it'll never happen to me" mentality, which confuses a person when it does happen. In addition to this the topic is very uncomfortable to talk about and many people don't like being seen as victims. I can say "I was molested" because the word "molest" is disconnected from the events that actually happened. However if someone were to ask me to describe in detail what had happened, I'm not sure I would be comfortable enough to talk about it. Also, this topic just doesn't come up very often. Most of my close friends still don't know about that experience of mine simply because its hard to bring up and no one likes to hear about it. 1/4 women get assaulted in their life time. In a class room of 30 kids, if 15 of them were girls, 3-4 of them will or have experienced sexual assault. Even with that statistic, you still don't hear about it very often.
Umm... sorry but those results are from a survey of a faulty test and even the survey makers said that it was faulty
Even if that survey was faulty, like you said, that's not the point.
Tomato :3 yeah a pew research showed it's actually 33%
Yup ... and what’s messed up is even if there is video proof of them doing it if it’s 7 years after your 18th birthday they can’t do boo about it ... at least that’s what they told me and my sister... also a girl at work stuck her hand down my shirt and hr couldn’t even get me out of the same room as her
Jacob Maron
Every single job and company actually has rules in place to try to keep these things down. Its never correct to act in this way.
The thing os that the victims here did not want sexual interactions. Yes, they may not have quit their job over it, but that changes little.
these people coming felt at the time that saying no would ruin their life, and that saying yes had some rewards, if only job security.
Your a starting out work, your lonely and keep making mistakes because you dont know that Jill is the only one who used that coffee pot and that the correct broom for that room is green, or where they keep anything. No one is giving you jobs you actually know how to do because you have not proven yourself yet. Someone in power comes up, it does not matter if male or female, makes it clear that if you have sex with them you will further your carrier. People jump on the train saying well they traded their honor for work benefits.
But they forget to ask what happens if you turn these kind of people down. you will be punished. We see pretty publicly what trump does to people he sees as not doing what he wants them to do. What happens to people who try to hold them accountable for their own actions. And thats just reporters trying to get interviews.
What happens if you have no power yourself, no money. Bills and debt from school. Rent, water, electric. And one ill word from that person will make sure you never get a job in the industry again.
Be such a pity if you lost your job... such a pretty face.... hope no one thinks your stealing things from here....
These people dont come forward because they are bitter. They come forward to validate the charges of others and to stop it in the future.
Okay I really appreciate this video and it's so important but sexual assault is not just "on a woman's body". I'm a male and have had an incident of sexual assault, I appreciate the message you're giving and I would in no way support Trump, but just because he is speaking about the sexual assault of a woman, does not mean sexual assault is an exclusive thing.
***** there was several points in the video where she said things along the lines of, "without consent, touching a woman's private parts is sexual assault" etc
***** I understand but still the wording of what they were saying was almost like sexual assault being exclusive to women. Now I'm not arguing, goodbye.
It"s a good point Devlin. Thanks for the reminder.
Devlin Proctor well said!!!!
You're right, and while I do agree with AttilaTheBuns that this particular video is about sexual assault against women, we also need to adjust our language regarding sexual assault in general... it's absolutely not okay to forget male victims of sexual violence. Thank you for reminding us and drawing more attention to this!
I get where Trump supporters are coming from on some matters, and I get that Hillary wasn't a great candidate either, but to deny this stuff is idiotic.
NeedsMoreBoosters Hillary would have been the top 5 presidents of all time
Everyone is worried about Clinton and Trump but what about Bernie lol
It was consensual
TC B if we had bernie then the us would be a shithole
Dirt Moto it already is one
“Boys will be boys”
👏🏻Boys 👏🏻 will 👏🏻be 👏🏻held 👏🏻accountable 👏🏻for 👏🏻their 👏🏻actions👏🏻
Boys will still be boys.
@@prometheustv6558 You missed the point
@@Rugybrat boys say weird stuff all the fricken time.
You know boys can get sexualy assulted too
Girls too.... my personal experience was awful but because im a man people didnt take it seriously
The amount of dislikes is scary. Where have we come as a society when advocating consent is controversial?
No what's scary is massive propaganda and Hillary Clinton threatening NUCLEAR WAR with RUSSIA. But instead the media just wants to talk about a man confessing his attraction to women 10 years ago. Actions, not words, friend. OK, here is what I'll do for you. Look up "Hillary Clinton steals billions from Haiti." She is a MURDERER. Did I mention NUCLEAR WAR...? Wake up.
I believe what you meant to say is confessing to sexual assault. If you're the type of person to unironically say "Wake up," you're the one who's fallen for "massive propaganda." But hey man, judging by your subscriptions, you got a really nice safe space going on for you and I wouldn't want to burst your echo chamber.
I eagerly await your next triggered reply. 🍿
MythicalRedFox Ooh, 10 months. Sorry, man
>implying that's what the video's about
Trump said “they let you do it”
As a British guy living in America, I don't even know what to say anymore, Seriously this election is baffling to me..... These two candidates should never be running for president. Also, the election cycle is way too long... 2 years is ridiculous, in the UK and many other countries its just 5 weeks.
Edit: Also, I do not plan on living in America for the foreseeable future, seriously that's the effect this election has had on me, America isn't looking appealing anymore.
put less energy on America on more on your country, muslims are already on the rise there
Pat T. America is a nice place but I agree, the government needs some work.
No offence, but as a British guy, you're really going out on a limb criticising politics in the US ;)
USA is a huge country, 2 years is perfect to elect a president. Plus Americans are slow and too stupid to decide who they want as their leader.
That's okay, I've lived my entire life here and I've been wondering what the heck happened for months now.
The most disgusting part is when said assaulted women spoke up, other women did not fight to protect the assaulted, but chose to defend the assaulter.
Pog
That goes for anyone
@@winkylad498 Amen
I cannot stress enough how important it is that we teach the youth in America today about consent. Honestly, I did not learn what the fundamentals of consent were until I accepted a job as a Resident Assistant in college and was in training. I was 20 years old and this was stuff I had never learned about. We can't have our citizens only learn this at 20 years old, or have a situation where some never learn it.
Better to be taught consent than to rape someone. Consent is important, and more complicated than you think. And if someone has been taught about consent and still chooses to rape or assault someone, they can't say "well how should I have known they didnt consent?" because they knew goddamn well what they chose to do.
The505Guys , when you are born, you come into the world as a blank/innocent slate. Growing up, you learn values/rules/"the way of the land" from Whatever family/society you are born into. so yes, consent must be taught.. what?.. you thought you just automatically knew what it was?.. or what anything is for that matter?.. everything you know is from a lesson learnt, whether it was the harsh realities of life that taught you, the experiences of others, friends,family, etc.
The505Guys Congratulations, you missed the point.
The505Guys, children should be taught it at a young age. In Australia, from grade six we increasingly are taught about it. In grade ten, my school at least, we had to do a whole day course on it. It is so important for young children to be aware of. It needs to be spoken about more.
@@vanessafinnerty4890 No logic and common sense is important, consent is Feminist Propaganda BS.
Do you remember when the Donald trump thing started as a joke
trump is a joke
Southpark has summed up all these events.pretty much perfectly.
daniel bueno I miss those days when he was just a joke.
Meeeeemberrrrrr, meeember wheb donald trump was a joke. Oh i memberrrrrr.
that ended when he started kicking people out of rallys
this.
this reminds me that he is actually our president.
I want to throw up.
@@justrandomthings319 may be that's what you do
Oh how I wish I moved to Canada already
Laughs as non american
@@matsRLS *cries in whole world depending on the american economy*
@@xexpaguette let's take down the europeanized economy and then we can finally be INDEPENDANT!!!
Still people of the United States elected him 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
America needs to get their voting game right imo
It was our electoral college that got him elected. He never won by popular vote. How it works is that people from smaller states (in terms of population) get more votes in the system than major states like NY or California or sumn, where the population is more dense. Racist uneducated people from the south are basically at an advantage and honestly I want to move to Canada.
@@BusyAsBee1738 Please try to go. I heard you have to pay for the ambulance.
If you tried well done.
@@xexpaguette who cares he's not a terrorist he hasn't Done much wrong in his time at office we don't know how Hilary would of done so if you wanna live in Canada go for it
@@xexpaguette I'm trying dude but I'm broke lml
I disagree with one thing. I think we should focus on the words "sexual assault." Because the words are accurate. We should be trying to make people understand that sexual assault is exactly what Trump was talking about. Thlse words are powerful, I agree. That's why we should be making it clear that sexual assault is exactly what we're talking about.
@C caymer u sayin dat cus u a big virgin
Hezekiah Ramirez exactly sexual assault is not the same as rape
Perhaps you could explain War Crimes for Ms. Clinton next?
Will never happen since this channels prefer Clinton which is pretty bad.
this will never happen because Vox is not objective media. They show only one part of coin.
You mean the ones trump endorsed when suggesting that the US should go after the families of terrorists?
SimpleSock #BUTHILLARY
Tumleren Well, sounds better than bombing a hospital full of innocent people - like Hillary did.
I've been in a lot of locker rooms as well and in those locker rooms, we did indeed talk about the women we were going to train with or saw while training. Especially after swimming, locker room talk can become explicit.
However, at no point have I or any of my friends ever implied that we would sexually assault any of the women we were talking about. This is not normal locker room talk. Most men don't engage in this kind of locker roomt talk.
Hashtag not all men. It is incredibly important for men to speak out against Trump. We can't let him speak for us. What he said is damaging to the image of men as a whole. Trump is a real danger for women but he's also a threat to the accountability of men.
***** indeed.
ahouyearno Good and honest post
Finally a real manly and honest answer.
agree 100%
exactly. i played varsity basketball. we never talked about being entitled to have sex with any woman
As a male victim of sexual assault by my babysitter, women are not the only victims.
o_o' oh yea of course not.
who. said. they. were. ??????????????????????????
It is true.
Ashlantis the video, it exclusively talks about female victims and male abusers. re-watch it. if they used gender neutral pronouns or switched between male&female it wouldn't be an issue.
John Harrison because trump sexually assaulted women. if he'd sexually assaulted men it would'dve been mentioned.
this is not about sexual assault as a whole it's about donald trump. did you happen to somehow skip through those parts????
Why do we have a "president" who we need to explain this to?
It's America 🤷🏽♀️
@Polite Comments On Current Affairs Does so-called christians do that as well? I wouldn't expect someone who loves Jesus and reads the bible would be joking about sexually assaulting women.
@@Yoda-wf6bu I could misunderstand this😭, but no Christians don't do this this also applies to non religious people. The ones that make jokes about it are just horrible people, Christian or not. Religion doesn't justify what they say.
Even my 12 year old cousin knows what the definition of consent is.
Now here I am, watching a video about a bunch of people explain what consent is to a *Full Grown Human*
*Full Grown Infant* fixed your comment
i was taught consent at 6 in kindergarden.
I mean that isn’t very surprising
You give Trump too much credit, I'd be hard pressed to call him a human
Most people, even women, don’t really understand consent that well. One has to be sober to give consent. Mentally disabled people cant give consent. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. Consent is verbal and can’t be pressured out of someone.
They say that these women are politically motivated when really the party itself is politically motivated.
they should be politically motivated. he assaulted them
Yes exactly; their refusal to acknowledge victims is first and foremost politically motivated
@Halima Abdullahi really hater ? i think it was joe biden not trump
@Halima Abdullahi oh really
It's fun to see Trump supporters triggered by the truth
Haha this is so stupid the women in the pageant totally lied she said he just walked in but thy have asked many other people in the pageant if they saw him and they all said no and some even said there was no way he could have even gotten in
^triggered
Exactly, and look at his wifes why would he need to rape someone from the office when knowing that it would affect him later on, when he has his beautiful wife's that are supermodels.
You disgust me honestly.
You instead attack other people instead of defending Donald Trump.
You then agree that sexual assault is okay by saying Trump can have ANY GIRL he wants.
Then you judge women on their looks by calling them ugly heathens.
Glad to know this is our society in the 21 first century.
Heywood Jablome do you need your binkie?
Probably easier to explain quantum physics to a toddler than consent to a sentient orange.
Im more likely to find the missing plane of Amelia Earhart than agree with Trump
@@turky_maan8721 Im more likely to drink pure mercury before I respect trump
@@lori8095 im more likely to find out who let the dogs out than even consider liking a rotting orange
@@rsbval I'm more likely gonna find the Irish Crown Jewels before I even think of liking a spray tanned tangerine
As a man, can confirm the excuse "it was just locker room banter" is invalid. If anything that makes it worse because you show your true colors when nobody is around and you don't think anyone will ever hear what you are saying. The video didn't show how he "used to be" it is confirming what we previously thought about him. It would be different if he was a teen and said something stupid, we've all been there, but he was a 50-60 year old man saying this. It's only when he is on camera that he is on his best behavior acting like his past is forgotten
I'm honestly just as appalled by what Rush Limbaugh said as I am by what Trump said, if not more so.
I just want to see the part 2 of this video titled: "Consent, explained for Bill Clinton".
dmax is he running?
dmax Bill Clinton is not one of the 2016 presidential choices.
Aidan red so this video is because Trump is running?
dmax .... Yes.
He is not running for presidency....
Why are we even having this conversation? Why does he have such a hard time accepting responsibility..
Rick Sanchez he’s egotistical
Michael Pomales and narcissistic , Self - centred and arrogant
The fact that we need to explain consent to a presidential candidate is just sad.
Agreed
Go back in your house virgin
Alien Camel Sorry, I don't rape camels
UA-cam Thumb The fact that Hillary stood by Bill when he raped all those women might say more about her than the media will ever admit.
UA-cam Thumb just a quick question so every time I kiss a girl I have to ask her permission to kiss her according to this video? I'm confused ?
"Just kiss. I don't even wait." THERE. I don't even wait. I DONT EVEN WAIT.
DO I NEED TO SAY MORE?! This guy doesn't CARE about consent to begin with, let alone caring about a "yes" or "no"
Brett Brenner There is a big different between "I can't wait to ask out Katie! I like her a lot!" And "I don't wait for her to say yes, I just go for it." my dude
That's usually when you infer based on the language. The logical conclusion, especially considering who trump is and what he has said in the very recent past, is that he isn't waiting for her to say yes or give a sign that she wants him to kiss her or whatever else. The phrase "I don't even wait..." in this context implies non consent unless the context itself explicitly states otherwise. But I can see where the confusion comes in bro
Well it's a legitimate fear. I think that people are taking this one, admittedly pretty stupid and in over his head man but not the end all be all of evil, and making him the figurehead of what American politics have become. And what it's become is terrifying for many, many people. The president doesn't have nearly as much power as most people think, so while I find Trump pretty disgusting as a person, I'm not here calling him Hilter as he has not even a quarter of the power over his country that Hitler did over Germany (thank everything he doesn't.) I see where you're coming from.
K
john smith that's the unfortunate thing about victims who want to testify--if you don't come forward within a certain amount of time there is zero physical evidence and you know you're going to lose.
it's can take days to weeks to even months of years to be ready, but by then it's too late. even hours can be too long. did you take a shower? tough luck. did he use a condom? too bad
before I was raped I had the mindset of "wow, those people are so stupid. how come they don't report it?" then it happened to me and I didn't tell anyone for a year. and even then I only told one person
"When you're a star they let you do it"
How deaf are you
person above me 1:46. its not consent. y'all can't get girls the right way then hush.
Yes good argument. If talking about *exactly that point* was not the purpose of this Video.
Try watching a video before you try to Shittalk it, once in while?
When they let you do it, how is that not consent p, don't you think they would resist either physically or verbally
@Triple Digit: And if you hold a weapon in their face, they let you do it. How is that not consent?
Anything that can be used force consent is by definition not consent. Stardom or having (economics) power over a person is inlcuded. The specific measure take to force consent is irrelevant - it invalidates consent.
he still has a wife. disbelief
All for public image, i can almost guarantee there's some kind of payment/exchange done
I'm guessing the dislike ratio is from people who don't believe in consent or still don't understand it even after it's explained. Maybe a puppet show would help? Or for the people who wouldn't mind if someone attractive started kissing or touching them - how about if someone *unattractive* did it to you? Would you still be OK with it?
completely agree!
I think the dislikes are people who see the obvious bias in the video. This video is one of their last attempts to try to sway the election towards HRC. Obviously what Trump has done is wrong, damaged moral compass perhaps, but both the Clinton's are far from innocent. Maybe a puppet show should be used to demonstrate how large corporations and dangerous countries are the puppet masters of Hillary...
I think some people are just scared that might actually have to ask for consent.
Maybe they think that not raping people will erode the family structure and turn you into a homosexual? Just going off the stuff I've heard around this crowd
Arturia-Leaf Green Can you cite your sources? Sounds like straw men statements.
Mythos it wasn't really a statement, I'm just trying to understand people. Anti-sjw's are often are quite offended by the idea of consent, as exemplified by responses to videos like this. But I hold the belief that such statements as "political correctness is creeping in to the bedroom" should not be taken at face value. But rather are rather linked to some inner fear. Fear of emasculation, fear of black people, fear of homosexuality, fear of autonomous woman, fear of Jews, fear of trans-woman etc.
But these are just my my musings ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I find the reasons for different like to dislike ratios can be interesting but also confusing.
Who is also happy that trump isn’t re-elected
Yes!
Yes! It’s such a relief
I am not
nop
@@ianndior7938 haha
No means no. Maybe means no. unless you are given an enthusiastic "Yes!", it means no. You are allowed to revoke consent when you no longer want to engage in that activity. Consent is fries!
Freely given.
Reversible.
Informed.
Enthusiastic.
Specific.
If a person says yes its yes
@@ahmedgamez3273 and then when the person says no, it's no! And being asleep means no. And being unconscious means no. And being drugged means no. And being afraid means no. Being embaressed means no. All those circumstances can change a yes to a no. Its not that complicated.
2020. We still can’t believe he is our president
I don't understand why everyone picked him when this was happening. 🤦♂️
Jun 22 2020
9:59 AM CTL
I just found out that a whole lot of teens bought multiple tickets to Trumps Tulsa rally to inflate his numbers so he would brag about it
@@kidneytransplantwarrior21 Electoral College be like:
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👀
@@xexpaguette LOL!
@@kidneytransplantwarrior21 _you're welcome_
3K dislikes, 3K perverts
*3K people who don't follow VOX personal Agenda. Coincidence they were mentioned in Hillary's leaked emails?
Moms spaghetti okay, pervert
Clinton supporters, Rapist apologists.
Koala Bearz you didn't even spell Trump correctly
Carrot Enthusiast Are you disabled?
Its not really consent if one person is perceived to be a powerful figure and you're not brave enough to say NO.
This makes no sense, if you don't like something, you should say NO. If you don't say no, then the other party assumes you are OK with it. Some people send mixed signals when it comes to liking somebody (winks, flirty jokes, etc). Why would it matter whether someone is rich or powerful when it comes to sex? What you can't do is have fun and when you figure out the other party has no serous intentions, accuse them of molestation or rape. If you don't like it, you say NO, if he still continues, then it's his fault and he should go to prison for it. But regretting something you had fun with, is not molestation or rape, especially when it comes rich and famous people (most girls think they will be a couple just because they flirt or had sex). Saying NO doesn't require bravery.
BTW, I'm not a Trump supporter, I just like common sense.
So you're saying it's only sexual assault if they continue touching after the other person has said "no"? If there was no "yes" to begin with, then it's sexual assault. Absence of a "no" does not mean consent, you can't sexually touch someone without asking. And sometimes saying "no" does require bravery, what if your attacker had a knife, or was much stronger than you? They could stab you or hurt you for resisting and saying "no". Sometimes people let it happen so they don't get physically hurt.
lamcho00 no, its still a crime. If someone feels threatened by the other then it can be hard to say no. And even if there isnt a no its still a crime unless there is consent, which means both people have to say yes.
lamcho00 i know its an old comment but, no, it's actually deeper than that.
saying no it's important, but it does require a lot of bravery.
- even if someone says no, and it still gets raped, people might not believe them, for several reasons (e.g. they were raped by their partner, spouse / they were on a date with the rapist / they didn't report it immediately out of fear)
- when victims don't say no, they do it out of fear. women especially, are scared of casual dates with stragers, because it could be anyone, and that "anyone" could even kill them if they say no. and that seems impossible, but it's actually very common, and it's a totally understandable fear. sometimes, women don't say no because having sex without consent it """"better""" than being beaten up really badly or even killed.
- some people are "forced" into sex by more powerful people, because those powerful people have control over them. they might not even realize it sometimes, but the rapists are in a position were the vicitms feels so inferior to them, that has to say yes. or a least, not say "no".
People who rape other people won't be stopped by saying no. Their allready an mentally unstable individual. No only works when your dealing with sane people.
Consent is when all parties want/agree to something and are aware of what's happening. whether it's food or sex, it counts.
Consent is also not constantly asked for or retracted. Unless a new element is interjected and refused by one party ofcourse, but that is a breach of what that party consented to. Goodness making sex sound like a legal process or surgical operation.
If your not saying no and he isn't bribing you, like you will lose your job if you refuse me then it is consensual. If you say no and he continues or bribes you, then it's rape. If he stops, good you just avoided. A: A lawsuit that leaves both parties mad and upset. B: A sexual encounter that made one of the two parties feel terrible.
*sees literal rapists publicly defending being literal rapists in the comments*
Hello yes police this comment section right here
Is concerning how blind Americans are and some news outlets are hard face protecting the accused
REAL RANDOM we either don’t acknowledge it, or we take it to the extreme, that’s America for you
@@michaelpomales8021 i don't even live in America yet i agree. Americans need to step their game up about solving these issues otherwise they're just gonna dig their own graves like they're now. Jeez i used to admire that country so much, now look where it is now...
Only Fox news and tiny other news channel are the only one supporting Trump
It mostly the Boomers who are blind and outdated
People who are disliking the video (including me) are not disliking because of the "anti trump" message, but rather the ignorance that women are the only one sexually assaulted. (2:18)
Men get sexually assaulted the same way women do, I dont understand why you are making this a one sided message that only women get raped which overshadows men rape victims. That is sexism and hypocrisy, which is what we dont like
Eridani Reyes-Sepulveda I provided a exact time 2:18 where she states "society understands consent with food but doesn't understand consent with a woman's body"
If you dont find that sexist then I dont have much to say.
As for the rest of the video, everyone agrees trump sexually assaulted women, trump supporters who deny it are making excuses to see trump win. They dont care if he did or didn't assault women, they just want to do everything possible to make him win even if thats lying.
robert karas isn't that a good thing if guys are left out? Doesn't that means that there is just one less problem that people have to worry about?
We can speak about dat when Hillary Clinton brags about fondling some guys balls. Till then plz dont spread ur subtle sexist views around. Thnx :)
Norbert Korzus There are plenty of celebrity female on male sexual harassment which no one talks about...
robert karas I disliked the video because it was another thinly veiled feminist rant about consent. I understand the concept of consent and I'm not trying to downplay its importance. However, I hate when people, typically feminists, tout that it must be a clear and concise yes every time, for everything, period. How awkward do they want dating and relationships to be? "Excuse me miss, I would like to put my hand on your thigh, followed by leaning in for kiss. Would that be acceptable to you?" There must be common sense applied and people need to understand that sometimes messages get mixed up. That doesn't mean that one unwanted kiss is sexual assault if you tell the person no afterwards and they say sorry, misunderstood the situation. Otherwise every awkward teenager trying to learn their way through relationships is guilty of sexual assault...
My mum has a colleague that used to work for Trump, and she said that to get him to focus and do work, they would say there's a famous person waiting for him if he finished his work. Bribing him like a child, he is a joke, he has always been a joke.
who came for the comments
The fact that American's need to argue about consent speaks for itself
5k Hillary voters
2k Trump voters
Just like the election...
ragnarox16 because naturally all donald Trump supporters sub to Vox
You know a downvoter isn't only a Trump supporter right
or like 2k trump voters and persons that have no idea about consent, 1k hillary votes and the rest is people outside America with theyr mind in order
lol found the butthurt mexican
5K non-trump supporters and fake accounts*
There are Jill and Gary supporters; and it's been proven that many anti-trump/pro-Clinton videos have been bombarded with vacant or "empty accounts" to make it viral and have a lot of likes.
guess I've had it all wrong....guilty before proven innocent, I know now. thanks.
I keep forgetting that words spoken on a bus and a radio show is the same as being convicted in a court of law. Whoopsie.
It would certainly be damning evidence that would get him convicted - whether by judge or jury.
It wouldn't be damning evidence because he says "women let him." Say what you want about consent but I don't let people do something I don't want them to.
***** A kiss is not sexual assault.
***** I'd be perturbed. But it's not sexual assault.
Trust me. They understand what sexual assault means. They are lying.
Consent is also not constantly asked for or retracted. Unless a new element is interjected and refused by one party ofcourse, but that is a breach of what that party consented to. Making sex sound like a legal process or surgical operation. How to take all the fun out of it...
dnw009 well consent is more important than fun. Sexual activity without consent is a crime. Not obtaining the other person's consent in the first place (which is as simple as asking "are you ok if I do this?" "Do you mind if I do X?") still makes it sexual assault.
Who is they??
dnw009
I don’t understand how you could ever “have fun” knowing you maybe hurting someone. It’s not rocket science.
Even after a video about trump bragging about this, you still say they are lying. Disgusting
The phrase "Guys will be guys"
is just as bad as saying
"Muslims will be Muslims" in defence of terrorism.
You are offending both the victims and the people other than the attackers who belong in the same group.
Shameful.
I watched the tea vid it was worth it
He's gone. He's finally gone. I'm not American but I pray for the Americans that he never ever wins again.
강하늘?
@@bean7496 네? 제 이름요? 아 한국인 아니예요 ㅎㅎ 어느날 한국가면 이 이름을 쓸려고 지금 부터 연습 하고있어요 ㅎㅎ
He can't win again, it's literally not possible.
@@joewilliams1161 I mean, maybe Biden will be so bad they will miss Trump
@@Testimony_Of_JTF I seriously doubt that
A very, very important message what assault is and how damaging it is.
how is consent controversial now
Its controversial when theres no evidence. Evidence means everything. And accusation will stay an accusation until there is evidence, otherwise we have every right to not believe them.
This video is so informative!!! I admire those brave women for sharing their experiences with Trump on live television. I would encourage all those who are sexual assault survivors to do the same!!!
Giancarlo Gregoretti. Aye greased palms and i will play the victim-
Just. Stop.
So she's saying that if a girl kissed me at random and I never said it was okey it's illegal. I can get her some jailtime if I got proof. Well this is a game changer.
Jonathan Jeding essentially you should
but i doubt you would
Jonathan Jeding actually you can and that's what the law states . but the question of the hour is will you?
That's how it works
Jonathan Jeding well, as a guy, I rate women..
i mean, yeah. thats exactly what is being said.
So far at least 18 000 Republicans have seen this video.
I still can't believe people marched on Washington for this guy.
Saying “boys will be boys” insults me and every man there is. I want this phrase to be reclaimed and used appropriately, because this is not how it was used with me growing up!
This is literally like explaining to a four year old what consent is, its incredibly simple.
imagine having to teach the president what consent is
😂
Imagine making such a pointless video that literally has no stance to it
As someone who had been sexually abused as a child I am so angry 😡
all support for you
I'm sorry for that, hope you're doing well
The fact that he's not in jail or at least kicked out of being a president really goes to show what America prioritizes.
It's because he was never found guilty and most of the accusations were false so that's why he's not I jail.
It's because the republicans always help in getting out of it and his supporters, I don't are they even human beings
@@erickr.8977 nope they werent. He's not in jail cause he's rich
@@Galanonim022 if it was because he was rich alot of people wouldn't have gone too jail because they had money.
@@erickr.8977 yeah and that happens a lot
Trump's confrontation made me laugh. He was like, "I don't think you understood me" even though that's what he was doing to these women. He's dumbfound stupid and it's hilarious.
Ur dumbfound
@@birdy4112 Ty
Lol I was just messing, thanks for being chill about it
@@birdy4112 Np, my opinions were definitely stronger a year ago.
Even if Trump was joking around, its not something that the President of the USA should be joking about, he’s suppose to be an example to the children and people of America, he disgusts me.
"... you hear these things, they're said..."
That is the most solid comeback I've heard from him this entire video (and presidency).
We *love* an ignorant orange!
His own wife said that his language is unacceptable.
all these disklike are trump support
Here's the thing about "locker room talk":
The main place you would find words like that would be in a high school or even college locker room where teens try to impress their friends. But that doesn't make what they're saying okay. It's juvenile and disrespectful and shows more about their character then they want to believe.
Let's face it. trump puts in the milk before the cereal.
Nah he pays someone to make his cereal everyday
My father is a bit of sexist (in a very casual way, like jokes, etc.) but he has educated me on the fact that consent is important and you shouldn't force someone in any circumstance. This is a very common sense thing that you have to understand. Grabbing someone's privates without their consent is too far.
Please don't elect him again america.
Biden Won yezsssz
@Ares YAY, THERE ARE LITERALLY VIDEOS OF BIDEN TOUCHING KIDS AND MAKING THEM UNCOMFORTABLE BUT YOU DO NOT CARE SINCE YOU WATCH ONLY CNN AND PROGRAMMED TO HATE 1 MAN
@@el-ju4uv YAY, THERE ARE LITERALLY VIDEOS OF BIDEN TOUCHING KIDS AND MAKING THEM UNCOMFORTABLE BUT YOU DO NOT CARE SINCE YOU WATCH ONLY CNN AND PROGRAMMED TO HATE 1 MAN
@@agarykane2127 *but trump is doing the same thing, but worse-*
@@dungbeetle3267 provide evidence
a Compulsive lair vs a Lunatic, LMAO, how can people seriously go to the polls with these options
Tuko Pomwene because some prefer liars to lunatics
it's sad that I can't really understand which one is what
Jill Stein and Garry Johnson :P
One is still busy appealing to dipshit anti-science folks and one guys knows nothing about foriegn policy. Still better than either dipshits we got from the party of the ass and giant shitphants.
I'm sorry, are you talking about Trump's split personality duking it out for control during the debates? Or is Hillary supposed to be one of those?
She's a liar and a criminal, sadly, we can survive 4 years with Clinton. Trump, I don't think so. Anyone else voting for her out of necessity?
Consent, explained for Donald Trump and Melanie Martinez
I've been looking for this comment 😂
There's no proof Melanie raped her
quayezell of life again here we go...
quayezell of life again therea no proof trump raped anyone
quayezell of life again there’s the word of the victim which is usually substantially proof. If you only don’t believe Timothy because you like Mel, you have some issues
I am only here to watch the fights...and to cheer silently when somebody makes a good point
I agree with the video, but why was she acting like woman are the only one that can ever get assaulted?
Yeah, guilty until proven innocent
*****
Who hasn't touched women? Are you a virgin?
*****
Yeah, guilty until proven innocent. I hope Trump fixes this society.
because so far only women have alleged that donald trump assaulted them
This was consent explained to Trump, who has sexually assaulted *women* not men. Anyone, no matter race, gender, or sexual orientation can be sexually assaulted. The majority of sexual assaults are on women, usually younger women like teens, children, young adults, and middle aged women. Male teen and children are most often to get molested and/or raped by adults or other teens. Some people like younger male people, because male refers to the sex of a person.
"He tried to get up my dress again" AGAIN IT HAPPEND MORE THAN ONCE
1,731,475 people have seen this but the target audience probably hasn't seen this lol
Nice work, Emily. You and the whole Vox team have done a fantastic job this election cycle and beyond the cycle as well. Keep it up guys
One minute out, 13 dislikes already! O.o
58 likes 55 dislikes now
they criticized trump, the bigots consider that grounds for instant dislike.
NerdOracle Or its people that read some of the email leaks and Ezra Klien (editor in chief of vox) was named to spin a narrative. But it's no surprise that media that leans left will be putting out stuff against the right. :)
It's just the butthurt sexual assaulters that are trying to justify their actions or crybaby Trump supporters
yup... many would like to be stars
I don't like Vox too much, but I appreciate their ability to be so brazen. This video is one of the best examples of that- a frank analysis of Trump's misogyny needed to be made, regardless if it's 'political' or not.
Easy: if it's not an enthusiastic "yes!", it's a "no".
And no means no.
Doesnt matter if someone gives and enthusiastic yes, they can just lie in court. Also if people are about to have intimate relations with each other it often ruins the moment by asking for consent. Most of the time non verbal cues are used, and sometimes, shocker men get it wrong.
321 GOBONKERS dude. “Ruining the moment” is NOT a good reason for assault. Also, who hurt you? People would not lie in court when they got sexually assaulted. They could, but they wouldn’t. It’s just too serious for people to lie about. Unlike you, we are not willing to say anything to get our way.
@@josef7461 Exactly. They get it wrong. They did a wrong thing, and should be held accountable for that. And anyone who would like to avoid doing a wrong thing, just... make sure the person always consents to what you're doing? How is that so hard?
@@josef7461 Okay and if they realize they got it wrong, then...apologize??? Don't be so defensive?
Oh my hahaha, the title itself is already so amazing
"The left will tolerate everything as long as there's consent"
Yeah, what's the problem if both people want to do what they are doing I don't see a problem
I LOVE THE TITLE OF THIS VIDEO!!!!!
Time to vote folks. Let's fix this mistake.
"All the l left wing care about is consent" said as if it isn't part of the law
"i was shocked but not surprised"
my last two brain cells- wait isn't that illegal
Man, I am here for the comments...!
*Getting some popcorn*
there is only war in the comments so on a happier note, you look good!
Thanks, you too!
@@theboringprogrammer4444 don't you lie i don't look good. but i appreciate it anyway.
he literally says
"they let you do it"
but whatever
saintmaster22
She literally says "I had to physically tell him to stop"
Her statement is hearsay, whereas Trump's comments are not.
I'd say Trump is the new bill cosby but trump hates being compared to blacks.
He literally says that he "doesn't wait" to kiss a beautiful woman. How can a woman let you do it when you don't wait for her consent?
He assumes because he's rich and famous they let him do it so he doesn't even ask before hand, that's pretty sleazy. Maybe they don't stop him for fear that he might have the power to influence their careers, like the Miss Universe contestants, that doesn't make it any less of an assault.
And 47.5 % of you guys voted for him, twice ??????
Yes, because there is no evidence of him assaulting anyone
@@agarykane2127 The recordings and the women's stories.
Those are evidence.
@@maybe.yellow what recording?
@@agarykane2127 It's in the video.
@@maybe.yellow which one, timestamp pls
VICTIM BLAMING! disgusting what people have said
how the united state of america divided in half trump and Clinton and all over the news is about election rigged and rape victims on both side like WTF ...... you guys are screwed I guess Putin will take the spot light
victim blaming? I haven't seen one comment that even implies those women were to blame
Men can be sexually assaulted too but she only refers to women.
ok
because this video is about trump sexually harassing people. trump is a man and straight, so why would the video talk about men being sexually harassed
This video is about women since as far as I know there haven’t been any men who have come out saying trump sexually assaulted them
2:25 I want that futuristic looking shirt
this is a faxaul statement yes i agree very political
lol we were shown the tea consent video in school!
Lwal 11 they show the tea video in the army too...
Our sex education in our school just teaches not to have sex, not consent
The fact that people even need a video explaining this means we've already failed as a species...
@Polite Comments On Current Affairs we are suposed to be better than other animals. Unfortunately we arent
something to make clear though, its not just women's bodies, its just anyones body, and it's wrong for anyone to do things to someone without said consent.