Become A Leader

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  • @JohnnyValmaggia
    @JohnnyValmaggia 4 роки тому +2064

    Another tip to add: When Ragnar speaks, he does so in concrete and precise language. He does not flaunt, he does not stammer, he does not hesitate. Ragnar expresses his ideas clearly and with conviction, which you can also achieve by creating strong mindsets and fully commiting to whatever you start to say.

    • @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945
      @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945 4 роки тому +21

      True and show that you mean it and will not let them move you

    • @BlackDeath1973
      @BlackDeath1973 4 роки тому +32

      Wasn't their some tip from Odin's wisdom which said speak no more than necessary and never speak when you would not gain from doing so?

    • @RatomirFilipovic
      @RatomirFilipovic 3 роки тому +9

      That is the only reason why one should speak, every story you tell needs to be lesson to someone.

    • @soloscriptura7451
      @soloscriptura7451 3 роки тому +10

      He is also patient. He doesn’t speak unless he has something to say, that is why he doesn’t stammer.

    • @JStrange13
      @JStrange13 3 роки тому +19

      It helps to have a script to follow. People don't really talk like that in real life.

  • @thomasvo5939
    @thomasvo5939 4 роки тому +3796

    1. Have ambitious goals that others want to follow
    2. Speak in “you and “we”
    3. Project calm in the face of conflict
    4. Lead from the front
    5. See through other people’s eyes
    You’re welcome

    • @lucasheijdeman2581
      @lucasheijdeman2581 4 роки тому +9

      Thanks

    • @xanty_3513
      @xanty_3513 4 роки тому +181

      Poor people: *lay in normal wooden coffin*
      Rich people: *lay in normal wooden coffin*
      People in the YT comments telling you everything summarized: *lay in golden Egyptian coffin*

    • @reformed_attempt_1
      @reformed_attempt_1 4 роки тому +28

      thanks for your work, but FYI it's always in the description

    • @ChrisCrossFilms.
      @ChrisCrossFilms. 4 роки тому +34

      It's literally in the description but okay

    • @dresnio1363
      @dresnio1363 4 роки тому +5

      No thank you

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 роки тому +428

    “If you truly want to be respected by people you love, you must prove to them that you can survive without them.”
    ― Michael Bassey Johnson

    • @reggiebrown7549
      @reggiebrown7549 3 роки тому +4

      This is very deep

    • @schwartzweisse1011
      @schwartzweisse1011 Рік тому

      Definitely. How my life would have been different if 15 years ago, I had decided to stay home to fight for my own professional project and eat "à la sueur de mon front". No way, no way ever our home could be occupied and taken over and shown as the " world known parasistic ones".

  • @virgilvalentine8548
    @virgilvalentine8548 4 роки тому +1213

    I like how you pointed out Ragnars faults too. Just goes to show that everyone doesn’t work in absolutes.

    • @grisly-bear585
      @grisly-bear585 4 роки тому +2

      When?

    • @Peaslepuff
      @Peaslepuff 4 роки тому +13

      I like that he straight up says "you don't have to do all these things."

    • @newheights4782
      @newheights4782 4 роки тому +2

      Do the people that make this videos watch Netflix all day long to get video ideas

    • @crowsnap1
      @crowsnap1 4 роки тому +67

      Only the sith

    • @petedawson5875
      @petedawson5875 4 роки тому +3

      Reina Suwa when trying to win his wife back. First few minutes I think

  • @Youbeentagged
    @Youbeentagged 4 роки тому +404

    Ragnar has the best poker face I've seen.
    He always smiles, even when he's angry.
    Which shows that you can never know what he's thinking by looking at his face.

    • @TheoSlaps
      @TheoSlaps 3 роки тому +13

      Even when he's angry he's smiling :D xd

    • @RVmaestro24
      @RVmaestro24 3 роки тому +15

      He would be a perfect character for the witcher world

    • @Youbeentagged
      @Youbeentagged 3 роки тому +3

      @@RVmaestro24 Gaunter O'Dimm whisle theme intensifies*

    • @MrEysox
      @MrEysox 3 роки тому +12

      Well, his smile is a nervous one when he's angry, and you can see it.

    • @deliastefanescu1908
      @deliastefanescu1908 3 роки тому +1

      Unforeseeable

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 4 роки тому +1364

    Albert Einstein said this: _“I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.”_
    I think that is the best way to earn respect 🙌

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 роки тому +14

      btw thank you for inspiring me for creating videos about self development and productivity too!!

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 роки тому +19

      @A C isn't the quote good though?

    • @Kaidantonio333
      @Kaidantonio333 4 роки тому +4

      Sounds like something Henry Higgins would say, not that he really followed his own advice.

    • @reformed_attempt_1
      @reformed_attempt_1 4 роки тому +8

      @A C imagine being jealous over likes on a UA-cam comment LUL

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 роки тому +2

      @@RanchDressingPop-Tarts ❤️

  • @aboudhh
    @aboudhh 4 роки тому +536

    Ragnar has other qualities that command his respect.
    He thinks outside the box and does whatever it takes to win. People love to follow winners because they feel like theyre on the right path.
    He forgives those close to him but not after theyve felt his wrath. This works both ways though since it made an enemy out of Rollo but a close friend and extremely loyal follower in Floki.
    I think the show did a great job in portraying Ragnar. They showed him as a human who has feelings. He was devestated and still thought of his daughter seasons after his daughter died. He made mistakes. He is very relatable

    • @stefdiazdiaz7067
      @stefdiazdiaz7067 4 роки тому +5

      you mean: not until after..."they have felt his wrath..."

    • @Sal3600
      @Sal3600 4 роки тому +24

      The show ended after Ragnar.

    • @latelate1000
      @latelate1000 4 роки тому +16

      He is also a very good fighter, which was an important thing at the time.

    • @vinaypalwe
      @vinaypalwe 4 роки тому +1

      Hey does anyone have any updates on the show
      Will the new season happen??

    • @vinaypalwe
      @vinaypalwe 4 роки тому

      @@Sal3600 I think they confirmed a final season of the show?

  • @drthgeek884
    @drthgeek884 4 роки тому +728

    Never demand respect. That is also one of the quickest way to lose it.

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 4 роки тому +93

      "Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king."
      -Tywin Lannister
      Notice how in Vikings, Ragnar only reminded his people that he is king one time and it was in a moment of anger and frustration with them and their arguing and how all of their ideas had failed.
      Every other time, no one needed to be reminded of anything.

    • @LookHereMars
      @LookHereMars 4 роки тому +34

      An Emperor that must remind his soldiers and his people that he is Emperor is no Emperor at all - Napoleon Bonaparte.

    • @TheaDragonSpirit
      @TheaDragonSpirit 3 роки тому +3

      I demand respect.

    • @michaeldiekmann6494
      @michaeldiekmann6494 3 роки тому +9

      "Who wants respect, gives respect" -Tony Soprano

    • @trevormcmanus6670
      @trevormcmanus6670 3 роки тому +7

      He tells people when he comes back to kill him, WHO WANTS TO BE KING?! He doesn’t demand that he retake the thrown but he asks for someone to have the courage to take the thrown from him. Unbelievable.

  • @gaozhi2007
    @gaozhi2007 4 роки тому +4010

    How to command respect in medieval times:
    1) hit them with a giant axe
    2) laugh

  • @CinimodNorton
    @CinimodNorton 4 роки тому +46

    The eye contact and low clam voice does magic. I learned along time ago that I don't have to like you, but if we have to work together we work, have made some friends that way.

  • @YashBhatter
    @YashBhatter 4 роки тому +371

    Have genuine respect for yourself and people will respect you.
    How you get that genuine respect for yourself is by self-improvement.
    And whoever is reading this, I wish you the very best! :)

    • @valarykawega9651
      @valarykawega9651 4 роки тому +5

      Thanks so much

    • @chrisgould101
      @chrisgould101 3 роки тому +5

      Thanks bro. Still working on it

    • @deliastefanescu1908
      @deliastefanescu1908 3 роки тому +1

      And I too wish you the same ! All the best !

    • @mullaoslo
      @mullaoslo 2 роки тому

      36 years and I've never been able to respect myself.. Idk know how or where to start

  • @SniffnMeFingies
    @SniffnMeFingies 3 роки тому +307

    Mom: "Why is your room so dirty?"
    *Me, speaking calmly and concisely*
    "We are focused on larger goals."

  • @DragonballBlack
    @DragonballBlack 3 роки тому +1101

    This was fun to watch. Ragnar is by far one of my favorite historical tv characters of all time. You dissected him well. You should do Uhtred of Bebbanburg next.

    • @yassir6359
      @yassir6359 3 роки тому +8

      Brooo , happy to see u here

    • @Pelipear
      @Pelipear 3 роки тому +1

      You!

    • @yoelicon7283
      @yoelicon7283 3 роки тому +2

      You're the guy who.....Well you don't see this everyday.....

    • @parol23
      @parol23 3 роки тому +2

      historical :D :D :D :D fiction fictiin fiction

    • @ilmerkil9038
      @ilmerkil9038 3 роки тому

      Loved both of the shows as well. Looking forward to the next season of the last kingdom.
      (Ragnars a great great......grandfather of mine)

  • @m.t.4712
    @m.t.4712 4 роки тому +68

    Ragnar is the best example on how to earn respect. I cried so much when he faked his death and the second time when he actually died. It is like I know him as a real person not just as character.

  • @Gunsong1
    @Gunsong1 4 роки тому +48

    I started watching your channel because I wanted to learn to negotiate better salaries, but I ended up using these skills to deal with emotional customers, conflict deescalation, and literary analasys.

  • @selfable-relyonyourself3504
    @selfable-relyonyourself3504 4 роки тому +41

    1. Do something out of your comfort zone
    2. show them interest and they will eventually show interest in you
    3. Being clam and control makes you look more confident
    4. "A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way." John C. Maxwell
    5. Trying to see through others' eyes,
    makes it easier to apologize.
    An apology goes a long way
    to maintaining peace every day.

    • @davidbaigorria5847
      @davidbaigorria5847 3 роки тому +2

      Clam voice made me laugh so hard LMAO regardless, good tips

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 4 роки тому +153

    Indeed, seek Respect, not Attention; Respect lasts longer 🖖

    • @elizabethayres1062
      @elizabethayres1062 4 роки тому +1

      Yes! Very true, love that 🧡

    • @X-Prime123
      @X-Prime123 4 роки тому +4

      Or you could just not give a crap about the opinions of others and stop seeking their approval.

    • @luddent7505
      @luddent7505 4 роки тому +1

      @@Kal-El_was_taken yes

  • @thymetodream6084
    @thymetodream6084 4 роки тому +19

    #1. Be what others want to be. #2 Play off others wants and desires. #3. Stay calm and grounded in stressful situations. #4 Don't ask others to do what you wouldn't do yourself. #5 Show compassion to those whom deserve it.

  • @IbrahiemLegoFilms
    @IbrahiemLegoFilms 4 роки тому +379

    Ragnar Lothbrok shall always remain one of the greatest characters in television, and with his death, the show just lost me.

    • @nobody-fp5is
      @nobody-fp5is 4 роки тому +17

      I guess i wont watch the show

    • @ragnarlodbrok1233
      @ragnarlodbrok1233 4 роки тому +45

      @@nobody-fp5is it's beyond worth it, he dies old...so it won't bother you much although the death is a tear jerker...in a way it's beautiful, watch it you've never seen a more charasmatic character on film I guarantee it!

    • @nobody-fp5is
      @nobody-fp5is 4 роки тому +4

      @@ragnarlodbrok1233 He dies old, is there a time skip? Perhaps i will give it a try.

    • @Mahmood.23
      @Mahmood.23 4 роки тому +21

      They killed him too soon. After his death the show was practically unwatchable

    • @Jelgurt
      @Jelgurt 4 роки тому +12

      I still watch the show.. But I agree Ragnar was one of the best characters. Not my only favorite characters.. There were many great actors actresses who made the show great..

  • @JuiceD2958
    @JuiceD2958 3 роки тому +10

    Watching ragnar succeed, and as an inspiration, the feeling is so overwhelming putting him as an example, One of my fav shows ❤

  • @jmterminator
    @jmterminator 4 роки тому +613

    And yet by the end, Ragnar seems like he wished he would've stayed a simple farmer.

    • @Nick-us6se
      @Nick-us6se 4 роки тому +108

      First three seasons of Vikings are the best example of a main character arc I’ve ever seen.

    • @OrlanLupogan
      @OrlanLupogan 4 роки тому +29

      the irony of life :)

    • @reycesarcarino4653
      @reycesarcarino4653 4 роки тому +34

      He ended where he started the Ground

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 4 роки тому +135

      "Power is always dangerous. It attracts the worst and corrupts the best. I never asked for power. Power is only given to those who are prepared to lower themselves to pick it up."
      -Ragnar Lothbrok, "Vikings" Season 3, Episode 1

    • @chaotics5395
      @chaotics5395 4 роки тому +36

      The price of ambition is high, the sacrifices are high, and ragnar lost a lot in the pursue of his ambition. And I think in the end it really paid off, since the living state of the vikings is better then ever before

  • @gavind2174
    @gavind2174 4 роки тому +13

    Bens getting a record for breaking down some badass shows and characters, LOVE IT

  • @pedertoftkristensen5484
    @pedertoftkristensen5484 4 роки тому +23

    i love that you do the best movie characters and analyze them. Ragnar is my favourite tv-show character ever because he represents what it means to be human with both his flaws and good traits. Love the work and keep it up.

  • @viganibrahimi8943
    @viganibrahimi8943 2 роки тому +1

    This is the best channel on youtube every second spent here is worth a lot

  • @OliverTheBard
    @OliverTheBard 4 роки тому +325

    I'm a simple man.
    I see" viking" in the title, I click on the video.

  • @pyschologygeek
    @pyschologygeek 4 роки тому +72

    Sitting silently with a friend who is hurting may be the best gift we can give.

    • @anmolpatel793
      @anmolpatel793 4 роки тому +7

      Sometimes it is better to leave people alone give them their space

    • @pyschologygeek
      @pyschologygeek 4 роки тому +8

      @@anmolpatel793 sometimes yeah . But sometimes people need to feel there are others who truly care about them

  • @alphawolf8059
    @alphawolf8059 3 роки тому +6

    I love hereing about other people's careers benefiting from these videos as I've used these skills to improve myself as a manager and a leader

  • @ethanlocke3604
    @ethanlocke3604 4 роки тому +4

    A note to that dude who sent that last email that he read at the end: be nervous or bad around people doesn’t make you and introvert, and being good with people doesn’t make you an extravert. It’s the fact that you get energize or tired from being with people. I’m an introvert but enjoy hanging out with people and tend to be good at social situations

  • @riffdane6459
    @riffdane6459 4 роки тому +23

    I’d love to see a similar analysis of Jax from Sons of Anarchy. Maybe even address the other brothers and their traits as well.

  • @officiallyDone2
    @officiallyDone2 4 роки тому +5

    I used to find myself (woman in hijab) in situations where i am not heard and need to repeat myself. especially in group discussions. i started developing self-taught technics, and most of them i found here in your videos which boosts my confidence a bit and also, now, helps me develop technics faster. I overcame my issue of not being heard by speaking in an engaging slow tone and eye contact throughout the discussion.
    Now 2 or 3 years into practice I started noticing that people ask me to speak and love listening to what ideas i have.
    Got to say thank you, a lot of developing was throughout your channel on youtube.

  • @Hamrik_Oswald
    @Hamrik_Oswald 3 роки тому +5

    I naturally avoid eye contact. There is odd discomfort when I attempt eye contact. Possibly either a fear of connecting with people or a reluctance. Most times I am in a social mood because I had a few drinks. I am constantly on the fence when it comes to what I want in my life when it comes to social interaction: do I want friends, do I want a romantic relationship, do I want to be alone? I have no idea.

  • @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945
    @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945 4 роки тому +2

    Love how you take peoples characters and are able to break it down making it easier for us to digest

  • @gawayne1374
    @gawayne1374 4 роки тому +128

    The fastest way to gain respect? Learn to wield sharp steel like a god

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 4 роки тому +1

      I could cry when looking at my like dislike ratio. I have so many jealous people that my videos always get way more dislikes than likes. Please don't be jealous, dear gaw

    • @CH1PP3NDAL3
      @CH1PP3NDAL3 4 роки тому +3

      @@AxxLAfriku Orrrrr....they are just that bad

  • @Minorityreport.
    @Minorityreport. 4 роки тому +3

    This is the channel I will recommend to my children and grand kids!! It turned me into a beast at work and in life!!!

  • @winterstar5750
    @winterstar5750 4 роки тому +62

    Would love to see an episode on Daryl Davis. The black musician who speaks to KKK members and got 200 of them to renounce their membership, some giving him their robes.

    • @AllForgottenMemories
      @AllForgottenMemories 4 роки тому +4

      This, dude is a badass and mean piano player

    • @benjamingeorge8241
      @benjamingeorge8241 4 роки тому

      What do you think the topic would be though? Empathy?

    • @AllForgottenMemories
      @AllForgottenMemories 4 роки тому +10

      @@benjamingeorge8241 probably empathy and self control in very hostile situations.

    • @thefnaffan2
      @thefnaffan2 4 роки тому +3

      They need to make a movie about him. His story is awesome

    • @philcooper9225
      @philcooper9225 3 роки тому

      @@benjamingeorge8241 that's one thing us black people are lacking in greatly, empathy

  • @JoeySutch
    @JoeySutch 4 роки тому +2

    Being ambitious and Seeing through the eyes of other’s are A MUST! No judgement + developing new perspectives. Great video

  • @mad555555
    @mad555555 4 роки тому +4

    You guys are actually really good. Your psychology skills is the best. I want to tell you a little story how I took what I learned from you & ruined my life. This is no fault of you guys as I learned & implemented the skills you teach for my total selfish gain & I hurt everyone around me.
    I was & am a extreme introvert. I did not want to speak to anybody in public, I did not want anyone to speak to me whether I knew them and especially strangers. I had a girlfriend for 15 years who I turned into my wife & we were married for 5 yrs. I was very well-off working by myself, at home, my own business & my only friends were my wife's friends, their husband & their children. Maybe 14 people altogether.
    I knew I had this issue with being an extreme introvert which I did not like because you cannot avoid all social gatherings for your entire life. I started watching your videos about mid 2017. It was very basic how to talk to people in Social settings. I would view your videos 4 or 5 times & then I would implement 1 or 2 of the aspects of the video into my life.
    I would do this over the next couple months & everybody I interacted with was really liking me instantly for a lack of a better term. I realized this & I unknowingly started to manipulate people to do what I want. I'm told I'm a good-looking guy so it all spiraled out of control for the next 1- 1/2 years.
    Long story short, I had countless drop dead gorgeous models want to be with me & older women that wanted to give me stuff & do things for me to be around them. In the end my wife of 20 years divorced me. I started drinking heavily & I realize I didn't want anything else besides my wife.
    I deserve everything that has befallen me over the past year & I have reverted to being the introvert that I was before viewing your videos.
    Like Uncle Ben said, with great Power comes great responsibility...

  • @LordBLB
    @LordBLB 2 роки тому

    The part about eye contact and low voice is probably the most valuable bit of info in this vid. Works for me at work (construction field), all the time, and usually results with de-escalation of a potentially violent circumstance between men.

  • @vijiraju6238
    @vijiraju6238 4 роки тому +97

    Travis fimmel is the most underrated actor.
    IMO, HE ACTS BETTER THAN LEONARDO DICAPRIO.

    • @ajmalsafi13
      @ajmalsafi13 4 роки тому +1

      Seems like everyone agree....

    • @vijiraju6238
      @vijiraju6238 4 роки тому +1

      @Alex Leblanc Actually, no
      Hey, it is just my opinion.

    • @shompurnagunjan
      @shompurnagunjan 4 роки тому +2

      I am a huge fan of both. And I would say, he hasn’t played enough role to be equal or better than Leo.

  • @sssungbyu
    @sssungbyu 4 роки тому +6

    Ragnar has the same qualities as Askeladd: ambitious, won for the team, stayed calm in all conflict, led from the front, and he saw through his men's eyes with compassion.
    lol he was also a viking

  • @oooweebaby4483
    @oooweebaby4483 4 роки тому +6

    3:37 one of the most emotional conflicts in Vikings, wow

  • @ComicBookNostalgia
    @ComicBookNostalgia 4 роки тому +1

    @8:34 THATS how you lead, everyone wants respect. Ensuring respect in common goals while drudging through the muck is how the real leaders do it. Great clip

  • @DrJonTam
    @DrJonTam 4 роки тому +3

    Ragnar really is a great example to draw from for commanding respect. Awesome video!

  • @alexfpower
    @alexfpower Рік тому +1

    The performance of ragnar is so good it's inspired me to stop holding back, and really increase my confidence.

  • @Tangakkai
    @Tangakkai 4 роки тому +10

    I started watching this show last week and when i saw Ragnar was literally like: Charisma on Command need to do a video on him🤣 nice job guys!

    • @ChristosMourelas
      @ChristosMourelas 3 роки тому

      enjoy it till mid season 4, its all getting worse after that

    • @jasonvelasquez6438
      @jasonvelasquez6438 3 роки тому +1

      Ragnar carried hard

    • @ineednochannelyoutube2651
      @ineednochannelyoutube2651 2 роки тому

      I would watch until the end of season 4 and then just stop. The latter half has incredible writing when it comes to Ragnar and Eckbert among other weird and bizarre storylines. Lagertha has some good stuff too. But just stop there YOU ARE DONE! No need to watch anymore!

  • @Leasahayrs
    @Leasahayrs 2 роки тому +1

    These videos are going to help me go past my goals in sales. I needed this! Thank you

  • @videoedits830
    @videoedits830 3 роки тому +9

    i loved floki, rollo, lagertha, ivar and many more characters from the show. but RAGNAR made it legendary

  • @SynphamyMusic
    @SynphamyMusic 3 роки тому +3

    That 'calm in the face of conflict' one seems to depend on who you're dealing with though. Sometimes remaining calm can just get the other person more riled up because they think you're ignoring them or not taking them seriously. It reminds me of the advice when you're confronted by a big cat, to make yourself look bigger and louder to dissuade them from attacking, sometimes acting more psycho than they do is better than lying down and offering them your jugular.

  • @patrickkubinec7026
    @patrickkubinec7026 3 роки тому +3

    What I also like about the scene with Tostig (the old warrior) is that Ragnar could have said "Yes" and be done with it...but he rather let all people around him to say that, showing the warrior that all around him want him there

  • @DougYYZ
    @DougYYZ 4 роки тому +11

    Thanks for making videos like this. I feel like I'm losing my communication skills from being in quarantine.

  • @marketslice5030
    @marketslice5030 4 роки тому +36

    I'll just roll quick....+7 respect points. Alright, let's get these TPS reports done!

  • @BushidoIslander8689
    @BushidoIslander8689 Рік тому +2

    Would love to hear a conversation between Ragnar & Miyamoto Musashi over a mead or tea. Would be full of life lessons

  • @lckypckt3856
    @lckypckt3856 4 роки тому +6

    You've helped me grow as a person and as a channel! Thank you so much for sharing your valuable insights! And to the person reading this, you have an amazing future ahead! Just believe. ❤️

  • @Sacredearthling
    @Sacredearthling 3 роки тому +1

    I love how he acts scared when conversing in the beginning of meeting a new important person then he changes and starts to control the conversation.

  • @wildanS
    @wildanS 3 роки тому +75

    This video: Go Viking mode - get respect.
    Me: Goes Viking mode - gets restraining order.

    • @adammcallister3293
      @adammcallister3293 3 роки тому +3

      only survivors get restraining orders

    • @irishboi2411
      @irishboi2411 3 роки тому +5

      Lol...did you at least yell while holding dual axes "Valhalla"!!!!!!!!

    • @shadmanhasan4205
      @shadmanhasan4205 3 роки тому

      Hah.... police? Sorry bro.... them "Anglo-Saxon Officers" (not race, culture) will never enter Valhalla 😊

    • @tomeofslyev
      @tomeofslyev 3 роки тому

      Well, going Viking isn't the same as going barbaric.

  • @theegreatestever2420
    @theegreatestever2420 4 роки тому +1

    This channel is a gold mine and has been for a very long time!

  • @nidhalahmed1682
    @nidhalahmed1682 4 роки тому +6

    I have said this before and am gonna say it again. Please do one on Frank Castle. I know he probably isn't that popular but he's character breakdown would be awesome, considering how complex it is.

    • @savagenature1
      @savagenature1 4 роки тому +1

      Hell Yes!!!
      Easily one of my Top 3 Favorite Comicbook Heroes
      I'm sure you're specifically talking about Jon Bernthal's Punisher, but there are important things that can be discussed with just about every version

  • @ouroboros6125
    @ouroboros6125 3 роки тому +1

    Calm in the face of things that would make other people... well... not calm. Is much of the reason psychopaths can be so charming I think. Psychopathic fearlessness in both physical and emotional confrontation and social settings. Has this "magnetic field" of attraction in terms of confidence.

  • @randomalien7746
    @randomalien7746 4 роки тому +17

    I thought you have to perform a blood eagle on your boss but I guess this works too.

  • @pwersurge_688
    @pwersurge_688 4 роки тому +2

    Easily one of the best videos you guys have made. Super informative.

  • @AliKhan-ck1gh
    @AliKhan-ck1gh 4 роки тому +6

    1. Pursue ambitious goals that others want to join. 2. Speak in you and we. 3. Project calm in the face of conflict. 4. Lead from the front. 5. See through other people’s eyes.

  • @MehediHasan-zo8ov
    @MehediHasan-zo8ov 4 роки тому +1

    I was searching for this video 2 months ago but didn’t find any. Finally Ragnar's charisma 😎

  • @Hawtload
    @Hawtload 4 роки тому +66

    That "I & MY" scene in the bed is exactly how you get women to instantly lose attraction to you even if you've been together for years.

    • @elarvo7363
      @elarvo7363 3 роки тому +37

      Impregnating another woman is one of the fastest ways to encourage your lady to leave you

    • @MrDeano-eu9rg
      @MrDeano-eu9rg 3 роки тому +8

      @@elarvo7363 yea that's the main reason here. I think his statement has been over analysed.

  • @HerrenGamingNews
    @HerrenGamingNews 4 роки тому

    I gained alot of respect from my foreman I've talked about my ambitious goal of losing weight through intermittent fasting, paying off my debt by work overtime constantly living paycheck to paycheck and working hard

  • @philocoladas
    @philocoladas 4 роки тому +4

    One more thing I've noticed, Mr lothbrok does and says what you least expect him to do or say. He literally does the exact opposite of what you expect

  • @TungstenCarbideTempe
    @TungstenCarbideTempe 3 роки тому +1

    Brother you got some really good advices here. I swear I’ve watched this video few times just to memorize as much as I can.

  • @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
    @jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 4 роки тому +9

    When you are calm in a space where people are worried they will automatically respect you and consider you the leader

  • @kenxnx5392
    @kenxnx5392 Рік тому +1

    1:00 I like how Ragnar ignores them instead of saying thank you. He is saying, without actually saying it, that it is normal for him and nothing special.

  • @JP-1990
    @JP-1990 4 роки тому +17

    This was a really good one. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Would love to see more videos involving period pieces. Perhaps a character from Downton Abbey or Boardwalk Empire!

  • @youngwolf5040
    @youngwolf5040 2 роки тому

    that " I WIN" in paris gives me goosebump everytime,, look how his voice changes there

  • @kingpotatochips9458
    @kingpotatochips9458 4 роки тому +41

    I'd like to point out how leaving a shield wall will break the entire wall and cause harm to everyone in it.. nvm keep talking charlie love you k bye xx

    • @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945
      @bkhunga-realestatemarketin1945 4 роки тому

      😶for real? Even if it's a large wall

    • @00g99
      @00g99 4 роки тому +1

      BKhunga It takes time and effort to repair the hole caused by someone leaving the shield wall, plenty of time for the opposing force to strike.

    • @chaotics5395
      @chaotics5395 4 роки тому +8

      In shield wall, ragnar tended to stay in the back of the shield wall anyway, so it's not really cause harm especially when he's needed more at the front of the shield wall. He usually did this when the wall start to break or a new formation is needed

    • @x099534
      @x099534 4 роки тому +3

      Part of what they trained for was replacing people who died. They were plenty adept at replacing people in the wall.

    • @OkurkaBinLadin
      @OkurkaBinLadin 4 роки тому +2

      @@x099534 Dying on the spot is not the same as simply leaving the formation ;)
      There is reason riot cops NEVER EVER do that and old Romans punished such behavior with capital punishment.

  • @bradhuygens
    @bradhuygens 4 роки тому +1

    These 2 guys are killing it with these videos. Both so good

  • @ayushtalreja
    @ayushtalreja 4 роки тому +30

    You can decode IVAR THE BONELESS . HE'S ALSO A MAN FROM WHICH WE CAN LEARN.

  • @amancharlamanas3812
    @amancharlamanas3812 4 роки тому +2

    Dude I love your timing,I just started watching Vikings!!

  • @alix6955
    @alix6955 4 роки тому +12

    i was waiting for when youd make a video about ragnar!!! TOP 2 after TOMMY SHELBY

  • @Future183
    @Future183 3 роки тому +2

    ragnar is literally immortal, even 1100 years after his death his stories are still told in the form of a series

  • @jeremiahsoh3534
    @jeremiahsoh3534 4 роки тому +9

    Helps that the actor was amazing

  • @tombalabombification
    @tombalabombification 3 роки тому +1

    I have always wanted to lead a Viking army and now i have the tools. thank you ✌🏼

  • @americantroy77
    @americantroy77 4 роки тому +3

    Great video ... I struggle with prolonged eye contact for whatever reason but I will work on that now knowing that’s viewed as weak

    • @clairewillow6475
      @clairewillow6475 4 роки тому +1

      Ya when I lived in a rough area and some stranger gives me a dirty look or starts something with me I make sure to look them in the eye until they look away first

  • @gudduhero6972
    @gudduhero6972 4 роки тому

    command respect read this
    1) be self dependent financially emotionally and every other aspect
    2) always try to be a provider in as many aspect as possible

  • @TheOneTrue_Sadman
    @TheOneTrue_Sadman 4 роки тому +3

    Hey man, love your channel are really like all your videos. If I may suggest, I would like you to examine Christain Bale's Batman and his personality as both Batman and Bruce Wayne.

  • @lazyjackass77
    @lazyjackass77 3 роки тому +1

    When fear is used as a tactic against you, it is usually the ones wielding this tactic against you who are afraid. To act as one in the face of fear in denying the enemy the reaction of base emotion is terrifying to the enemy and emboldens your allies.

  • @AlihanBeats
    @AlihanBeats 4 роки тому +19

    10:07 Engineer without a bachelor's degree seems interesting. I wonder which world he is living in.

    • @joecrypto2459
      @joecrypto2459 3 роки тому +1

      especially one living in the Netherlands.

  • @Koolaidheart11
    @Koolaidheart11 3 роки тому +1

    Living in America and not in rough circumstance, where most people try to be courteous. Makes practice of being like Ragnar pretty hard.

  • @microwave4928
    @microwave4928 3 роки тому +8

    “Ragnar has compassion”
    * shows a scene where Ragnar strangles an old man to death *

  • @sadikhasan7887
    @sadikhasan7887 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for covering Ragnar. Such a great character. Lot to learn.

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 роки тому +3

    “When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everyone will respect you.”
    ― Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching

  • @yogafathanjagadraya5243
    @yogafathanjagadraya5243 3 роки тому +1

    BIG respect for you about the spoiler alert through s04. I just begin watch it till s02. Keep up the good work.

  • @connarchy7929
    @connarchy7929 4 роки тому +4

    I’m just curious, Charisma university is $99.50 a month for 6 months, that adds up to approximately $600. I have seen many links and ads saying “pay here and change your life” How is one certain this is a real deal

  • @IRIS4962
    @IRIS4962 4 роки тому +2

    love how it goes from some friendly advice on how to be respected to a sales pitch not cool man not cool

  • @razormonkey5279
    @razormonkey5279 4 роки тому +25

    "Cut my bonds and give me the sword."
    "Would you deny me the right to enter Valhalla?"

  • @paulcrimson3824
    @paulcrimson3824 2 роки тому +1

    Travis Fimmel should get an Oscar for this amazing good acting as Ragnar.

  • @eattheroom8383
    @eattheroom8383 4 роки тому +5

    With a name like Ragnar, he's already got skills.

  • @stonebk7954
    @stonebk7954 3 роки тому +1

    Respect is earned and not demanded

  • @reddawn15
    @reddawn15 4 роки тому +3

    I would love to see you do a charisma breakdown on Marilyn Monroe.

  • @ClaireStClair-dq1po
    @ClaireStClair-dq1po 3 роки тому +2

    Ragnar also had something else going for him, he was played by an exceptional actor.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 4 роки тому +4

    The fact that you aren't where you want to be, should be enough motivation.

    • @FabricioSantos-zy6vt
      @FabricioSantos-zy6vt 4 роки тому

      It should but it's far from being enough to many of us

    • @hazzmati
      @hazzmati 4 роки тому +1

      What if I don't want to be anywhere?

  • @user-wn2sw5zm7m
    @user-wn2sw5zm7m 2 роки тому +1

    Ragnar is not fearless, but rather shows no fear in the face of danger. He controls his emotions and harnesses his fears which intimidates and defuses.

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome 4 роки тому +3

    “Most of what you think of as your need to express yourself is to merely offset your insecurity. Here you realize that everything you say has value or should have value. Even when you are being light hearted, you want it to be a meaningful experience without trying to create the meaning. Here you become more natural. You become more like the natural world, which is silent and still except when things are happening. The person who is still and silent has great depth and often evokes respect from others, particularly if his or her silence is born of Wisdom.”
    A quote from a book titled Wisdom from the Greater Community, Volume II. I strongly suggest both volumes of this book to all who wish to gain a greater perspective and wisdom in life. To read them online for free, visit *NewMessage org*

  • @CelticCatholic
    @CelticCatholic 2 роки тому

    I Implemented this during a business project where I had to organize my team and get things done.