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1. sweet smile 2. giving compliments (how good he smell or his shirt looks good in him) 3. light touch to his fore arm 4. calling his 1st name 5. fixing his hair
@@ندى-ل9ث I agree, some guys have a thing with their hair, they like fixing it, so instead of touhing it, I jist give compliments. Fixing his hair is kind a invading his personal space so this is not applicable for everyone, most specially if you are not yet close enough. ☺
@@roxied784 Mmmhm... Depends on the culture. Touching a mans hair is a very emotional thing, but women should know when it s ok and when it s not. You will feel when it s ok.
@@rabbit9979 true, touching hair is the last thing you'll do if you have already connected with him like you know that he wouldn't mind. You may ask permission aswell like "Is it ok if I fix your hair?"
I flirted outrageously with a man that I wasn’t really meaning too. I was in college in an acting class and we were divided up into groups of three and given a short excerpt from a play to practice and perform. We all studied our lines for a little while and then rehearsed. One of the guys in my group said his lines and then it was my turn. I just stared at him and didn’t say a word. I finally realized I was just staring at him and I said “your eyes are so incredible that I just stared into them and forgot my lines!” It was the truth! I literally got lost in his eyes! I was really embarrassed, but he was flattered!
Take away: 3 Flirting Strategies: 1) Kiss me now: for end of the date. You look down & you look up at him. 2) The Non Sequitur: complement & admire him about a quality you notice in him while he's telling you a story. 3) The fake palm read: caress the lines on his hand & tell him things about him. The more ridiculous, the better.
I am 67 and having the time of my life dating. I have 2 dates this weekend. I've been told my entire life I have a great smile. I just smile a lot, laugh at the jokes, and lean into them when they are talking.
Exactly Right! Sensuality is rarely seen these days having been replaced by the (false) notion that all one needs is to look pretty. Summing it up: Primping is a Finger Gun 👉pew-pew Sensuality is an Atom Bomb ⚛💣💥
My favorite flirting tactic is teasing and playfully messing with him. It works to both get his attention and make him smile, which in turn makes me smile because I love how his smile makes him light up.
I love it too!!! A man who always includes their wife wherever they are women around them will know there's boundaries and that they can't have a dot of chance to be flirting to you. As a wife I would feel so secure you doing your thang coz I know I'm there with you maybe not physically but they'll feel I am coz youd always talks about me about our love it's like declaring to them look I'm married and I love my husband or my wife i'm here to inspire you about our marriage and that it could be fun and wonderful between you all spouses too. 👍💪👩❤️👨🙏🏽❤️
Men love it when you pay attention to what they are talking about, so what I do to make it seem like I'm paying attention even if it's something I'm not interested in, is I repeat the appx last three words from their conversation while they're talking to me, for example...man- the nascar race was a good one the Chevy cars are fast, me- "Chevy cars are fast" When I repeat what they say it shows interest in a flirty way. I do this at random times during the conversation. It works! Try it sometime.
I do this, but in a way that makes it sound like theyre teaching me something so i would say "I didnt know Chevys were that much faster than the other cars." All of a sudden they light up and go "Oh yea, if you didnt know that then this would fascinate you too" and they start talking fast because they want to talk as much as possible about the thing they love with someone who is paying attention
My favorite flirting tactic is to say something, often off the wall, to make them laugh. This builds rapport and interest deep and fast and authentically shows them who I am.
I used the "fake palm read" technique twice on two different dates and it worked! Guys get really relaxed and laugh a lot when you touch them gently and be silly. Totally recommended 👍😄
There’s a guy I like and we talk off and on and we haven’t talked for a while so I sent him a text message “hey good Lookin, what you got Cookin?” He read the message and it took him like a day before he responded I thought it was funny but I don’t know how he felt about it LOL.
I kind of combine your first two. When we're both laughing at something and maybe I playfully pushed him like... "Stop it. You're too funny." I do the look and the grin, tilt my head to the side all innocent and ask... "Are you ever going to kiss me?" Timing is perfect. It's almost always stellar. I'm definitely incorporating the palm reading one next time though... I'll say... "This line says a girl you like wants you to kiss her." or... "This line says you're a great kisser but I'm not so sure." Also near the end of a date I don't want to end I ask... So what time do you turn into a pumpkin? Idk... The guys think that's cute. 💁
I always engage in a conversation he’s passionate about. I always keep eye contact throughout the conversation without interrupting and at the end I would formulate challenging questions about his topic. All of this with a subtle smile on my face.
I have used the “non sequitur” technique, I didn’t know it was a thing but it certainly works. I admire my now husband and it fills me with joy when I hear his stories. He has such pasión for what he likes it’s amazing.
I do all these things naturally, and never knew they were “moves”. I guess that explains my pattern of hitting off with men until they realize there’s a real person under all that feel-good flattery. Flirting will only get you so far.
Yes, and more specifically... looking down and to the right before glancing up is irresistable non verbal body language, even for someone who does not consider themselves attracted to you!!!
the first one works every time! i love light touch on his knee or arm when I'm laughing at his joke. also grabbling his wrist/hand to admire his watch/jewelry breaks the touch barrier (on a first date)
When you’re in a loud place sit next to him and talk as closely as you can into his ear close enough where you almost touch it.... but don’t touch it....Talk to him for at least 30 seconds. The words could be something as simple as passionately describing one of your favorite items on the menu when you were there last....the hair on the back of his neck will stand up...as well as other things🤭
Okay - 2 hours after seeing this - the silent one with slightly lowering one's head created a reaction that I've never seen by this person. He is usually very cool and collected - but this made him blush through his deep tan, for the first time, as his eyes twinkled, while slightly hesitating to gather a few words. There was a delighted - almost bewildered - look on his face. Thank you for making his day.
Years ago I had an ex boyfriend take my hand and instead of palm reading, he was ‘drawing directions on it’ while explaining something- totally worked on me, his eyes were locked on mine, the touch was sensual - I’ve never forgot about it.
The second one can be done if you’re in the position to do it. I was talking to a guy explaining something he and I are absolutely passionate about, and I remember being captivated by his beautiful blue eyes that just sort of lit up as he spoke. I could have easily used the second one there (but I was nervous and didn’t want to come on too strong, since I’m pretty sure he still technically has a girlfriend).
Yepp, not a fan either. For me this is way too obvious, too open and too attacking. I like being more subtile. I noticed that when you give him or her attention, but back off as well, this automatically confuses the person and makes her want you more
Yes, I needed that this past May 2021. I messed up and I didn't realize I did till later. 😔 we really had not even had a date yet but he asked me to come over and we'd go out and I said the wrong thing because I didn't live where he was flying in to where he was going to be. It wasn't enough communication on both of our parts.he thought I lived on the west coast of Florida but I lived on the east coast. I said the wrong thing after that and it killed everything. 😔💙
I like to ask men who their best friend was growing up followed by what silly or fun adventures they got up to when they were together. The stories are great, it brings back fun, happy memories and I learn a lot about the man. Plus, who does not like talking about themselves?.
Flirting move that I used is constantly teasing a man that he's now head over heels to me during the conversation and he's really gone head over heels!!
I might sound like a sissy, which I am NOT, but my guy tells me this ... "You have the best giggle ... If there was ever a giggle contest, you would win - hands down." OK, I'm 69 years old, and giggles don't come very easily at this age; but, for me, I'm just a natural born giggler (plus, he's do damn funny).
I did try the palm reading, omg!! I can stop laughing!! I cant even open my mouth!! I just kept laughing... so he left me... and i am still laughing!!!
I actually did the second tecnique without knowing. I told him my father likes fishing and hunting just like you (this are his favourite hobbies), suddendly he was just glowing his smile was in sparkle and his eyes too.
I had no idea palm reading was flirting ahahahah... Watching this, NOW I understand why my friend, unexpectedly asked to read this girls palm...I could not make sense cuz our friend is NOT the palm reading, tarot believing, astrology following type. LMAO now!!
Another way I flirt:. Text "oh my goodness! I really need to tell you something!" Wait for response, them send, "I miss you" accompanied by a flirty pic. Nothing the fam can't see, but a cute angle with a wink. Maybe can encouraging word if his work day is going to be particularly rough. (LDR)
Some advice I would give: Laugh or smile in a warm way a bit more. I'm a bit small as in I have extremely small hands and I'm a little short so I always use things about me to my advantage. Usually I try to measure my hands with theirs when we are really close since my hands are small. I always move in close when he's talking and focus completely on him. I think guys that like you want to be your center of attention. So I always listen to them talk first or ask them intriguing questions since I'm a bit of an introvert. Then I NEVER touch my phone and I just focus in on them completely and make sure to react well. Like saying wow and really and getting wide eyed or smiling. And if I like the guy it is usually a genuine thing. Another trick to make them feel special is to look at them thoughtfully while they look away then when they look back kind of act like you didn't want them to see you looking at them and look away shyly. Another thing is just complimenting the alot. That sounds like a given especially if I like someone like right now but what I mean is compliment them on something that is not really obvious or something they may be insecure about but you like. Like I am seeing a guy I really like right now so I always tell him how he has nice hands and a nice nose. Or I'll tell him I like his sense of style or his voice. His ears or his neck. Stuff like that. Doesn't have to be physical. I think it mostly depends on the guy you likes personality. If you have more of a dominant or sarcastic personality which I dont usually try to watch your words and actions. Try to soften them because he too may be nervous about you. Or he may be wondering about what you think of him. Edit: I'm not a cold deceiving person I'm just saying some stuff guys I've dated have said they like that I do. It's not really a strategy for me just something they tend to like about me. 😂
Yeah I do this thing - to look at a guy thoughtfully when he does smth and when he looks back at me turn my eyes away in a shy mode! It works, guys get hooked on it
OMG! Thanks, Matt! So funny, I’ve been using all of these strategies naturally since I was a very young girl! Flirting is just built in when we are born, part of women’s software 😂 When I was 18, I “read” a guy’s palm, he was also about 18 and believed everything I told him, sweet naive guy 😊
I love the hand reading technique!! Please more of this concrete actions, also for texting 🤗 I’m dating a marine and he’s away so I need texting techniques hahaha
I think the only time I'm consciously flirting is when I'm slightly drunk, you know, the cute drunk, where I'm giggly (fyi I'm a really serious person most of the time), a bit more social, asking him all kinds of goofy questions that have everything to do with nothing at all. I thought I was being obnoxious but people would come up to me and tell me to be like that more often. Like, what, more drunk? More not myself? LOL...I have no idea how the flirting thing happens..
Sucks when you can’t drink and your being piss tested now so apparently all your past attempts at come ons wernt done right or were too strong??? Hello!? How the hell heck am I going to get some snu snu without any liquid luck? I’m literally dying over here:? But thanks for the tips I will definitely try as soon as he wakes up,notices about 10 texts of me sending random stuff and he goes to sleep to ends his day I’d say about another 36 to 48 hours and then I’m totally turning the tables 😅 I hope wish me luck Playful girl is coming back He’s been warned lol
Flirting tip: while staring into his eyes, a second to long( with a soft little smile) whisper wow to yourself as if in wonderment. When he asks what. Say something like: you are one hell of a man Add cheek /chest caress or thumb swipe over bottom lip or chin pinch. Be prepared he may ask what made you say that? Have answers ready.( this is not the time to stumble or stammer over your words) Make sure he knows you are complementing him. Done at the wrong time he may think you're upset with him or putting him down.
I don't have any strategy. Haha! Literally Man in love with me for who i am. Guys if a man really loves you. You don't need to do anything. He will definitely stick to you no matter what.
For me just be natural ,sweet ,kind, caring,daring to your partner just be yourself. By doing some techniques it makes u feel uncomfortable coz u r trying to portrait somebody's actions .
My strategy is a bit more subtle(sneaky even? - but I don't feel guilty at all). I'd normally pick a very serious, non sexy topic(kids in Africa, physics, tax, whatever) speak quieter and move in reaaaly close. So close that he can feel my body heat though there's no touch.(appart from a few "accidental" little touches that I always apologise for). So close that my static hair would stick to his cheek, as we sit side by side. Poor guy would feel bit ashamed for his thoughts while I'm on about serious stuff and have no ideea that's me flirting. If they like me they would be looking forward for a more light-hearted moment to make a move. They'll think it was all their idea. 😁😅
This juxtaposition of serious and bodily too close is excellent. I've done it and a guy who was very seductive did that to me .... he was so good at it I didn't know what hit me. Got all confused!
I LOVE this! Especially your wife (I presume) reading your palm! 🥰 Now I have a favor to ask. Are you willing to put the bullet points together somewhere? For example, I save certain videos, and if I could just at a glance, read those key points, I would really appreciate it, to remind me what's discussed, rather than having to watch the WHOLE video to be reminded. Thank you 🙂 PS: I love your channel! My husband and I have been married for 40 years and I look for ideas to spice up the romance part of our marriage. ❤
I'm just really positive. Worked out for me. When I'm comfortable with a guy, I paint my nails for the second Date (nothing to crazy but noticable) and 6 out of seven guys made a Comment on it. I then ask them if they know why i like them long. I always say "My cat absolutely loves when I scratch her like that" and then i carress either their neck or their arm (depending on how much i like him yet). Sounds straight forward but never failed me.
Nice advice. I find being myself works well. I am not girly, a tom-boy and tell it like it is. I am a natural flirt and it's served me well for near a half century. Lol 😉
OMG.. You are such a darling Matt. We love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕but can we please know how men react in obvious way to show us girls that they are so in love
I love your videos that include your wife! 🌟 Love seeing your awesome tips demonstrated by a woman so I can expertly try them on my man! Thank you Boggs Team for being so awesome! 🤩
I did that look down and up, since i was expecting a kiss but saw that they were hesitating and it worked.Never heard of the palm reading one, that's really funny. I love guys who go to the gym and like good arms, I usually go for the hands and arms for light body touch
Flirting can simply be saying good things about a person, I don't think we should give people fake compliments because in the long run they will know it was not true so fake compliments might just work for that night (one night stand) or few days but not forever
Hi Matt! And hi to everyone here! I know generally in a woman, confidence is considered most attractive. As for me, I have this tendency towards being of a rather coy, bashful giggly and fidgety (sometimes it wd appear rather juvenile I guess) demeanour rather than one marked outright with confidence when it comes to talking to the guy on a date; do you think it'll be considered weird ?
I guess my flirting technique is a little different , but I usually use it on date 3 or 4. At this point we should have a little more connection. I ask a guy if he has any tattoos and ask a guy to show me a tattoo. Usually a guy is very happy to do so. Then I simply say : "OMG , it looks so good on you, but I think I will look so much better on top of you" and then I change topic completely and start talking about something irrelevant to sex or me at all. Like nothing has happened .
Hahaha naughty Nataliya! 😂 I think if I were to do that, the guy wouldn’t let go of the topic unless I explained them in detail what I meant when I said that… 😂😂😂
@@Oneandonlyamirali A guy will do so because he is only attracted physically to you at this point . Men are hunters in every way and if not for physical attraction, they would not even think about dating us. His goal right now is to get some sex from you and nothing else. If your guy would not let go of the topic, you just grab a little chocolate or fruit or any food on the table and feed him.Make sure you look right in his eyes when you do it. Here is your chance to change a topic. He will refocus. Tested and worked. Play with him. Do not be scared. It is all in your hands, so use your sexuality and your brain at the same time.
I'm watching this video to prevent myself from unintentionally making men think I want more. With my short sightedness these days, I have to look at men that way unless I remove my glasses. And I'm always being insightful when men tell me stories because I calculate their refined masculinity score and what they've had to go through or become in order to arrive at that scenario. I also calculate their stupidity which I don't tell them.
When he is telling a story keep ur hand on face prentend to be lost admiring him after he is done telling tell him a compliment u know tour eyes sparkle when you talk about things you love
Similar to the palm read, when my ex and I first started dated we held hands a lot. If sitting at the table holding hands, I would start to massage his hands and fingers. His hands were so masculine and I commented on how hard of a worker he was so it built him up and was lightly physical. I’m sure you know what I mean and can phrase it much nicer.
Not sure how many of these I could actually pull off or how many would actually work on the type of guys I like. I guess I am just an insanely awkward weirdo, looking for another weirdo to be odd with until we fall into mutual weirdness together 🤷♀️😆
I like only #2 because #1 is desperate and #3 is so obvious, desperate and pathetic. I use #2 with EVERYONE because it's who I genuinely am. This works especially well for my HS students and difficult/ negative adults.
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Great idea for me
1. sweet smile
2. giving compliments (how good he smell or his shirt looks good in him)
3. light touch to his fore arm
4. calling his 1st name
5. fixing his hair
U did great job bruh
I used to do the hair thing the he confront me 😂 pleas don’t touch my hair with a laugh I hate anyone doing that I was like 😅🤡 sorry !
@@ندى-ل9ث I agree, some guys have a thing with their hair, they like fixing it, so instead of touhing it, I jist give compliments.
Fixing his hair is kind a invading his personal space so this is not applicable for everyone, most specially if you are not yet close enough. ☺
@@roxied784 Mmmhm... Depends on the culture. Touching a mans hair is a very emotional thing, but women should know when it s ok and when it s not. You will feel when it s ok.
@@rabbit9979 true, touching hair is the last thing you'll do if you have already connected with him like you know that he wouldn't mind. You may ask permission aswell like "Is it ok if I fix your hair?"
I use my humor as a flirting skill but somehow I end up roasting him 😂
This made me laugh haha 😂
Girl, same.
F in the chat
This is brilliant hahahaha
Be hahahaha 🤣
I flirted outrageously with a man that I wasn’t really meaning too. I was in college in an acting class and we were divided up into groups of three and given a short excerpt from a play to practice and perform. We all studied our lines for a little while and then rehearsed. One of the guys in my group said his lines and then it was my turn. I just stared at him and didn’t say a word. I finally realized I was just staring at him and I said “your eyes are so incredible that I just stared into them and forgot my lines!” It was the truth! I literally got lost in his eyes! I was really embarrassed, but he was flattered!
Something I really like is when a guy takes my chin in his hand and makes me look up at him, thats hot.
Ooh yeah!
Mari ZenSoul do you think guys like that too dear??
Lol, I'll never know, I'm shorter than everyone else 🤭
Like in a romantic movie.
Cringe
Take away:
3 Flirting Strategies:
1) Kiss me now: for end of the date. You look down & you look up at him.
2) The Non Sequitur: complement & admire him about a quality you notice in him while he's telling you a story.
3) The fake palm read: caress the lines on his hand & tell him things about him. The more ridiculous, the better.
Hahahhaha
Thanks❤
Thank you!!!!!! SO MUCH!!!!!! That's just what I requested him to add! I love that you did this!🥰😁🙋♀️❤
I am 67 and having the time of my life dating. I have 2 dates this weekend. I've been told my entire life I have a great smile. I just smile a lot, laugh at the jokes, and lean into them when they are talking.
Great for you man!! Enjoy
I love this. I’m 36 and just want to go on dates forever. My son wants step-siblings and I feel bad not wanting to remarry
The “kiss me now” works 100%!! Tried it last night with my guy, worked like a charm ☺️
I'm dying bc I tried the fake palm read and his masculine energy afterwards was off the charts 🤣
It's so endearing to me(':
Being in touch with my sensuality and feminine energy where the flirting comes naturally works for me !
Exactly Right!
Sensuality is rarely seen these days having been replaced by the (false) notion that all one needs is to look pretty.
Summing it up:
Primping is a Finger Gun 👉pew-pew
Sensuality is an Atom Bomb ⚛💣💥
Yes this is true
If I had a flirting strategy that men couldn’t resist. I wouldn’t be here now, would I? 😂😂
lol
Right.. Katie
Me too. Lmao
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Girl! Me too! 🤣😂😂🤣
My favorite flirting tactic is teasing and playfully messing with him. It works to both get his attention and make him smile, which in turn makes me smile because I love how his smile makes him light up.
Going back and watching Disney movies for dating tips! 😂
I'm surprised he skipped the "do me eyes" in The Lion King.
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Lol ikr
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Matt your wife is giving such a great example! I love that you include her in your videos.
You can tell they're very attracted to each other still. It's awesome!
I love it too!!! A man who always includes their wife wherever they are women around them will know there's boundaries and that they can't have a dot of chance to be flirting to you. As a wife I would feel so secure you doing your thang coz I know I'm there with you maybe not physically but they'll feel I am coz youd always talks about me about our love it's like declaring to them look I'm married and I love my husband or my wife i'm here to inspire you about our marriage and that it could be fun and wonderful between you all spouses too. 👍💪👩❤️👨🙏🏽❤️
Men love it when you pay attention to what they are talking about, so what I do to make it seem like I'm paying attention even if it's something I'm not interested in, is I repeat the appx last three words from their conversation while they're talking to me, for example...man- the nascar race was a good one the Chevy cars are fast, me- "Chevy cars are fast" When I repeat what they say it shows interest in a flirty way. I do this at random times during the conversation. It works! Try it sometime.
Great suggestions, both of you!
I do this, but in a way that makes it sound like theyre teaching me something so i would say "I didnt know Chevys were that much faster than the other cars." All of a sudden they light up and go "Oh yea, if you didnt know that then this would fascinate you too" and they start talking fast because they want to talk as much as possible about the thing they love with someone who is paying attention
39amelia39 lol and then they won’t shut up about something you don’t care about lol - but it’s ok if they’re cute 😆
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly u
@@susanb5058 That's so funny and true☺️
My favorite flirting tactic is to say something, often off the wall, to make them laugh. This builds rapport and interest deep and fast and authentically shows them who I am.
I used the "fake palm read" technique twice on two different dates and it worked! Guys get really relaxed and laugh a lot when you touch them gently and be silly. Totally recommended 👍😄
Omg I gotta try this!!! 😂
I don’t even think I could come up with something off the wall for the fake palm reading... 😂
There’s a guy I like and we talk off and on and we haven’t talked for a while so I sent him a text message “hey good Lookin, what you got Cookin?” He read the message and it took him like a day before he responded I thought it was funny but I don’t know how he felt about it LOL.
@@Sarah-bk4px just chill girl
You cool
It must have took him by surprise
@@thebondvillain4920 yeah it probably did. We did end up going for coffee a few weeks later
I kind of combine your first two. When we're both laughing at something and maybe I playfully pushed him like... "Stop it. You're too funny." I do the look and the grin, tilt my head to the side all innocent and ask... "Are you ever going to kiss me?" Timing is perfect. It's almost always stellar. I'm definitely incorporating the palm reading one next time though... I'll say... "This line says a girl you like wants you to kiss her." or... "This line says you're a great kisser but I'm not so sure."
Also near the end of a date I don't want to end I ask... So what time do you turn into a pumpkin? Idk... The guys think that's cute. 💁
Great suggestions Heidi!
you're a genius!! definitely trying this on my next date hehe
I will try this tomorrow. Thanks heidi.
I always engage in a conversation he’s passionate about. I always keep eye contact throughout the conversation without interrupting and at the end I would formulate challenging questions about his topic. All of this with a subtle smile on my face.
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holy shit this is a win.
I have used the “non sequitur” technique, I didn’t know it was a thing but it certainly works. I admire my now husband and it fills me with joy when I hear his stories. He has such pasión for what he likes it’s amazing.
I do all these things naturally, and never knew they were “moves”. I guess that explains my pattern of hitting off with men until they realize there’s a real person under all that feel-good flattery. Flirting will only get you so far.
Except the palm reading I do it naturally too... 🤭🤣
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Yes, and more specifically... looking down and to the right before glancing up is irresistable non verbal body language, even for someone who does not consider themselves attracted to you!!!
the first one works every time! i love light touch on his knee or arm when I'm laughing at his joke. also grabbling his wrist/hand to admire his watch/jewelry breaks the touch barrier (on a first date)
@Intuitivelogic you really should consider writing for literotica just sayin
Intuitivelogic What astrology sign are you?
When you’re in a loud place sit next to him and talk as closely as you can into his ear close enough where you almost touch it.... but don’t touch it....Talk to him for at least 30 seconds. The words could be something as simple as passionately describing one of your favorite items on the menu when you were there last....the hair on the back of his neck will stand up...as well as other things🤭
Ooh-la-la!🥰
ahhhhh with mask on? nahhhh
It is erotica 2 ever so softly whisper in2 his ear. It works like a charm & is very sensual.
I told him after he showed me his paintings that I admire a man who has an artistic side, as this brings out his creativity side.
Okay - 2 hours after seeing this - the silent one with slightly lowering one's head created a reaction that I've never seen by this person. He is usually very cool and collected - but this made him blush through his deep tan, for the first time, as his eyes twinkled, while slightly hesitating to gather a few words. There was a delighted - almost bewildered - look on his face. Thank you for making his day.
Palm reading is the absolute best. The feeling of having your palms touched softly is amazing.
Years ago I had an ex boyfriend take my hand and instead of palm reading, he was ‘drawing directions on it’ while explaining something- totally worked on me, his eyes were locked on mine, the touch was sensual - I’ve never forgot about it.
The first move was good. I thought the second move was a bit cringy. But the third one.... nah. Not my thing.
Mood 😂
Same here. Just watching it made me feel uncomfortable lol
The second one can be done if you’re in the position to do it. I was talking to a guy explaining something he and I are absolutely passionate about, and I remember being captivated by his beautiful blue eyes that just sort of lit up as he spoke. I could have easily used the second one there (but I was nervous and didn’t want to come on too strong, since I’m pretty sure he still technically has a girlfriend).
And me who already forgot wht was d first move.. haha.. lemme rewatch again. Its so pointless watching this haha
Yepp, not a fan either. For me this is way too obvious, too open and too attacking. I like being more subtile. I noticed that when you give him or her attention, but back off as well, this automatically confuses the person and makes her want you more
Successfully pulled off the palm read today! Feeling both proud and silly at the same time haha
Please make a video for those who are in long distance relationship..
Ya i need that too
Yeah plsssss
Yes, I needed that this past May 2021. I messed up and I didn't realize I did till later. 😔 we really had not even had a date yet but he asked me to come over and we'd go out and I said the wrong thing because I didn't live where he was flying in to where he was going to be. It wasn't enough communication on both of our parts.he thought I lived on the west coast of Florida but I lived on the east coast. I said the wrong thing after that and it killed everything. 😔💙
I like to ask men who their best friend was growing up followed by what silly or fun adventures they got up to when they were together. The stories are great, it brings back fun, happy memories and I learn a lot about the man. Plus, who does not like talking about themselves?.
I stroked his palm and told him I wanted to hold his hand and he told me to stop being gay 👀😂
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Omfg 😂
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Lol 😂😂😂
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Flirting move that I used is constantly teasing a man that he's now head over heels to me during the conversation and he's really gone head over heels!!
I might sound like a sissy, which I am NOT, but my guy tells me this ... "You have the best giggle ... If there was ever a giggle contest, you would win - hands down." OK, I'm 69 years old, and giggles don't come very easily at this age; but, for me, I'm just a natural born giggler (plus, he's do damn funny).
You're a lucky woman
I did try the palm reading, omg!! I can stop laughing!! I cant even open my mouth!! I just kept laughing... so he left me... and i am still laughing!!!
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Idiot 🤣🤣🤣
ahahaaa you crack me up. i think i couldn't do it better xD
Too funny! Thanks for making me laugh out loud!
I actually did the second tecnique without knowing. I told him my father likes fishing and hunting just like you (this are his favourite hobbies), suddendly he was just glowing his smile was in sparkle and his eyes too.
I had no idea palm reading was flirting ahahahah... Watching this, NOW I understand why my friend, unexpectedly asked to read this girls palm...I could not make sense cuz our friend is NOT the palm reading, tarot believing, astrology following type. LMAO now!!
Another way I flirt:. Text "oh my goodness! I really need to tell you something!" Wait for response, them send, "I miss you" accompanied by a flirty pic. Nothing the fam can't see, but a cute angle with a wink. Maybe can encouraging word if his work day is going to be particularly rough. (LDR)
Some advice I would give:
Laugh or smile in a warm way a bit more.
I'm a bit small as in I have extremely small hands and I'm a little short so I always use things about me to my advantage.
Usually I try to measure my hands with theirs when we are really close since my hands are small.
I always move in close when he's talking and focus completely on him.
I think guys that like you want to be your center of attention. So I always listen to them talk first or ask them intriguing questions since I'm a bit of an introvert.
Then I NEVER touch my phone and I just focus in on them completely and make sure to react well. Like saying wow and really and getting wide eyed or smiling. And if I like the guy it is usually a genuine thing.
Another trick to make them feel special is to look at them thoughtfully while they look away then when they look back kind of act like you didn't want them to see you looking at them and look away shyly.
Another thing is just complimenting the alot. That sounds like a given especially if I like someone like right now but what I mean is compliment them on something that is not really obvious or something they may be insecure about but you like. Like I am seeing a guy I really like right now so I always tell him how he has nice hands and a nice nose. Or I'll tell him I like his sense of style or his voice. His ears or his neck. Stuff like that. Doesn't have to be physical.
I think it mostly depends on the guy you likes personality. If you have more of a dominant or sarcastic personality which I dont usually try to watch your words and actions. Try to soften them because he too may be nervous about you. Or he may be wondering about what you think of him.
Edit:
I'm not a cold deceiving person I'm just saying some stuff guys I've dated have said they like that I do. It's not really a strategy for me just something they tend to like about me. 😂
Yeah I do this thing - to look at a guy thoughtfully when he does smth and when he looks back at me turn my eyes away in a shy mode! It works, guys get hooked on it
OMG! Thanks, Matt! So funny, I’ve been using all of these strategies naturally since I was a very young girl! Flirting is just built in when we are born, part of women’s software 😂 When I was 18, I “read” a guy’s palm, he was also about 18 and believed everything I told him, sweet naive guy 😊
Im single af i dont why i watch all your videos lol
anawonka same
For future reference 👀
See my man? Looking all invisible & shit. Lol. I'm single too yet here I am. Wth?😁
Lol me too 🤣
I never appreciate only on his looks i see his qualities and complement him it makes him feel special!
I tried the palm reading...and he loved it..:) in fact keep asking for more..lol
I love the hand reading technique!! Please more of this concrete actions, also for texting 🤗 I’m dating a marine and he’s away so I need texting techniques hahaha
I think the only time I'm consciously flirting is when I'm slightly drunk, you know, the cute drunk, where I'm giggly (fyi I'm a really serious person most of the time), a bit more social, asking him all kinds of goofy questions that have everything to do with nothing at all. I thought I was being obnoxious but people would come up to me and tell me to be like that more often. Like, what, more drunk? More not myself? LOL...I have no idea how the flirting thing happens..
Sucks when you can’t drink and your being piss tested now so apparently all your past attempts at come ons wernt done right or were too strong???
Hello!? How the hell heck am I going to get some snu snu without any liquid luck? I’m literally dying over here:?
But thanks for the tips
I will definitely try as soon as he wakes up,notices about 10 texts of me sending random stuff and he goes to sleep to ends his day I’d say about another 36 to 48 hours and then I’m totally turning the tables 😅 I hope wish me luck
Playful girl is coming back
He’s been warned lol
Ive done the kiss me now look without knowing it. It definitely works lol😉
Omggg I do these things all the time never understanding why guys think I like them when I don’t 😩😩 except the palm read it all makes sense
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Im dying who would have told me I could learn flirting moves from disney
The cartoons snippets you used in this made my day Mat! 😂😂👏👏👏👏 love it!
Flirting tip: while staring into his eyes, a second to long( with a soft little smile) whisper wow to yourself as if in wonderment.
When he asks what.
Say something like: you are one hell of a man
Add cheek /chest caress or thumb swipe over bottom lip or chin pinch.
Be prepared he may ask what made you say that?
Have answers ready.( this is not the time to stumble or stammer over your words)
Make sure he knows you are complementing him.
Done at the wrong time he may think you're upset with him or putting him down.
You should do a texting episode since everyone is stuck at home and building relationships virtually!
I don't have any strategy. Haha! Literally Man in love with me for who i am. Guys if a man really loves you. You don't need to do anything. He will definitely stick to you no matter what.
For me just be natural ,sweet ,kind, caring,daring to your partner just be yourself. By doing some techniques it makes u feel uncomfortable coz u r trying to portrait somebody's actions .
Wow I have do this with my man thanks for sharing
My strategy is a bit more subtle(sneaky even? - but I don't feel guilty at all). I'd normally pick a very serious, non sexy topic(kids in Africa, physics, tax, whatever) speak quieter and move in reaaaly close. So close that he can feel my body heat though there's no touch.(appart from a few "accidental" little touches that I always apologise for). So close that my static hair would stick to his cheek, as we sit side by side. Poor guy would feel bit ashamed for his thoughts while I'm on about serious stuff and have no ideea that's me flirting. If they like me they would be looking forward for a more light-hearted moment to make a move. They'll think it was all their idea. 😁😅
if you’re that close they probably understand, not everyone is dumb
Love it! Thanks!
Brilliant!
This juxtaposition of serious and bodily too close is excellent. I've done it and a guy who was very seductive did that to me .... he was so good at it I didn't know what hit me. Got all confused!
Oh manipulative.... I don't like all crazy ideas. Why dont u just freaking tell u want. It works.
I knew all except the palm reading.. such a cute idea❤️
I LOVE this! Especially your wife (I presume) reading your palm! 🥰
Now I have a favor to ask. Are you willing to put the bullet points together somewhere? For example, I save certain videos, and if I could just at a glance, read those key points, I would really appreciate it, to remind me what's discussed, rather than having to watch the WHOLE video to be reminded. Thank you 🙂
PS: I love your channel! My husband and I have been married for 40 years and I look for ideas to spice up the romance part of our marriage. ❤
I'm just really positive. Worked out for me. When I'm comfortable with a guy, I paint my nails for the second Date (nothing to crazy but noticable) and 6 out of seven guys made a Comment on it.
I then ask them if they know why i like them long. I always say "My cat absolutely loves when I scratch her like that" and then i carress either their neck or their arm (depending on how much i like him yet).
Sounds straight forward but never failed me.
One and Two... that was me to him....and He always said you drive me crazy again🥰☺️
You and the Mrs have got fire! Get a room.. 😉
Reeeeaaalll fire!!! lol! ;)
I found them awkward to be honest. Cringy even 🤢
@@Amandagirl73 i agree
Ariel knew how to win that kiss 😉😄 I loved that movie
Nice advice. I find being myself works well. I am not girly, a tom-boy and tell it like it is. I am a natural flirt and it's served me well for near a half century. Lol 😉
Me too!
Yeah tomboy/girl here too. But the catch is that we're here
@@tinaleeth2707 It popped up amd curiosity got me. Nothing more. Lol
@@jeniwatkins3297 I've broke the algorithm.. my suggested goes from motivational, hip hop, country, how to fix, and a bonus palm reader tip lol.
I will do this to my man. Omg I can't wait to try it!!!!
OMG.. You are such a darling Matt. We love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕but can we please know how men react in obvious way to show us girls that they are so in love
I like #2. Would love to hear more tips what else I could say to compliment a guy. Not so much his looks, but unique qualities of him.
I love these tools! Keep them coming! Thank you!
..the bend, and snap! works every time!
I’m down with the first two but the last one was silly, and I would feel silly doing it
It's actually very fun and you get to use your visualization and creativity when doing this. He will laugh with you, not at you.
Interesting. I thought only the last one was funny and creative.
Me too tbh
I haven't done any of them. Last guy I thought was cute enough to flirt with was married. Sigh
Massaging he’s back and telling him I love he’s eyes
I love your videos that include your wife! 🌟 Love seeing your awesome tips demonstrated by a woman so I can expertly try them on my man! Thank you Boggs Team for being so awesome! 🤩
Ready to give this a trial run.... If only I got dates more often!
Heh… I’m really really grateful for this! I hope we get together soon 😭 I’ve tried getting close for almost 2 years nowwww
I flirt by being playful and girly, always brings smiles to their faces 😜
I did that look down and up, since i was expecting a kiss but saw that they were hesitating and it worked.Never heard of the palm reading one, that's really funny. I love guys who go to the gym and like good arms, I usually go for the hands and arms for light body touch
Can we get some tips to spice up an old settled relationship?
Seriously men are so delicate they're a lot of work if you want to win thier heart 💖
Yes but later cause I think it would b rude to interrupt him. Very nice. Very helpful.
Flirting can simply be saying good things about a person, I don't think we should give people fake compliments because in the long run they will know it was not true so fake compliments might just work for that night (one night stand) or few days but not forever
I recently found this channel. I’m so excited. I love all the ideas. I have been single for a very long time
Hi Matt!
And hi to everyone here!
I know generally in a woman, confidence is considered most attractive. As for me, I have this tendency towards being of a rather coy, bashful giggly and fidgety (sometimes it wd appear rather juvenile I guess) demeanour rather than one marked outright with confidence when it comes to talking to the guy on a date; do you think it'll be considered weird ?
Well for me being a shortie does that mean I'm accidentally flirting with a guy from #1...?
I guess my flirting technique is a little different , but I usually use it on date 3 or 4. At this point we should have a little more connection. I ask a guy if he has any tattoos and ask a guy to show me a tattoo. Usually a guy is very happy to do so. Then I simply say : "OMG , it looks so good on you, but I think I will look so much better on top of you" and then I change topic completely and start talking about something irrelevant to sex or me at all. Like nothing has happened .
this is brilliant I wish I had the confidence to do this
Hahaha naughty Nataliya! 😂
I think if I were to do that, the guy wouldn’t let go of the topic unless I explained them in detail what I meant when I said that… 😂😂😂
@@Oneandonlyamirali A guy will do so because he is only attracted physically to you at this point . Men are hunters in every way and if not for physical attraction, they would not even think about dating us. His goal right now is to get some sex from you and nothing else. If your guy would not let go of the topic, you just grab a little chocolate or fruit or any food on the table and feed him.Make sure you look right in his eyes when you do it. Here is your chance to change a topic. He will refocus. Tested and worked. Play with him. Do not be scared. It is all in your hands, so use your sexuality and your brain at the same time.
The second gesture is good to try out...
I'm watching this video to prevent myself from unintentionally making men think I want more. With my short sightedness these days, I have to look at men that way unless I remove my glasses. And I'm always being insightful when men tell me stories because I calculate their refined masculinity score and what they've had to go through or become in order to arrive at that scenario. I also calculate their stupidity which I don't tell them.
So will this techniques work with married men?
I find I draw people close to me when I laugh wholeheartedly at what they say. Men, women, children....
Family is the most important thing.
Point number 2.... does it really work?
I used the fake palm read as both flirting and as a spicey turn-down to guys as well!
I've use #3...and it thrilled him...
When he is telling a story keep ur hand on face prentend to be lost admiring him after he is done telling tell him a compliment u know tour eyes sparkle when you talk about things you love
Similar to the palm read, when my ex and I first started dated we held hands a lot. If sitting at the table holding hands, I would start to massage his hands and fingers. His hands were so masculine and I commented on how hard of a worker he was so it built him up and was lightly physical. I’m sure you know what I mean and can phrase it much nicer.
Love the video!!! 🥰😍 - for number one I don’t know if I can do it without looking weird and scary; I wear glasses 🤓😭
holdng the gaze and the small smile and blink and eye contact
Not sure how many of these I could actually pull off or how many would actually work on the type of guys I like. I guess I am just an insanely awkward weirdo, looking for another weirdo to be odd with until we fall into mutual weirdness together 🤷♀️😆
The palm thing is excellent. I'll do: "Here, this line means you are gonna meet a wonderful girl on February the 7th, which is today."
Boum!
I like only #2 because #1 is desperate and #3 is so obvious, desperate and pathetic. I use #2 with EVERYONE because it's who I genuinely am. This works especially well for my HS students and difficult/ negative adults.
@@kerriwilson7732 Amen, wise lady.🎖💐
The second one works the best