Iowa Teacher Locked Up for Sexually Abusing 3 Students After Getting Married

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  • Опубліковано 14 бер 2024
  • A former Iowa middle school teacher, Cassidy Kraus, has been locked up behind bars after pleading guilty to multiple crimes after getting married. Law&Crime’s Sierra Gillespie breaks down what the ex-reading teacher’s life will look like going forward.
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  • @mytruecrimelibrary
    @mytruecrimelibrary 2 місяці тому +1842

    How does a grown woman find 13 year old boys attractive? This is effed up.

    • @snoox27
      @snoox27 2 місяці тому +80

      Revolting isn't it

    • @mytruecrimelibrary
      @mytruecrimelibrary 2 місяці тому +69

      @@NDHS1990 gross

    • @stedydubdetroit
      @stedydubdetroit 2 місяці тому +110

      It’s not a physical attraction, it’s an attraction to a certain power dynamic. Based on the reality that she feels powerless in her own life.

    • @stedydubdetroit
      @stedydubdetroit 2 місяці тому +35

      @@NDHS1990normal was dysfunctional

    • @kevintrotter2025
      @kevintrotter2025 2 місяці тому +7

      Agree

  • @moda78z
    @moda78z 2 місяці тому +739

    I respect you for not showing her husband’s face. He’s been through enough.

    • @xtina6569
      @xtina6569 2 місяці тому +2

      It's in the thumbnail tho isn't it?

    • @RustyR3volva
      @RustyR3volva 2 місяці тому +20

      @@xtina6569It's still blurred in the thumbnail.

    • @gracie1598
      @gracie1598 2 місяці тому +5

      Some of the photos are the victims.

    • @liveyourbestlife143
      @liveyourbestlife143 2 місяці тому +21

      I can't begin to imagine this poor man. Being cheated on is horrific, go be cheated on with teens?? I can't imagine..... I hope he is doing ok

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy 2 місяці тому +11

      I can't even imagine what he's going through. What extreme betrayal in such a twisted way. What a mess to have to sort through.

  • @Diademic111
    @Diademic111 2 місяці тому +1126

    poor husband... just gets married and then finds out after his new bride is more attracted to 13-year-old boys? ouch

    • @juliehousley1972
      @juliehousley1972 2 місяці тому +97

      Seriously I could NOT IMAGINE being a spouse and this happens… the betrayal, the disgust , and the unknown would disgust me those poor kids

    • @Little_Aussie_20
      @Little_Aussie_20 2 місяці тому +12

      Wonder how old he is

    • @rumblefish9
      @rumblefish9 2 місяці тому

      *wife's a pedator. There. Fixed it. People need to say what she really is.

    • @MrTLinSTL
      @MrTLinSTL 2 місяці тому +29

      FR. it would be hard not to unalive myself if my wife was sleeping with 13yo instead of me.

    • @ChrisReaperMusic
      @ChrisReaperMusic 2 місяці тому +11

      Worst possible situation.

  • @christinegarcia3586
    @christinegarcia3586 2 місяці тому +401

    Its called grooming.. not a relationship.

    • @fitcher-armchair-sleuth
      @fitcher-armchair-sleuth 2 місяці тому +14

      They never seem to mention "Luring" of the students which is what a lot of them do with their smart phones.

    • @nevadatan7323
      @nevadatan7323 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@fitcher-armchair-sleuthI think some stories do.
      I've certainly heard cases where the teacher will begin texting them outside of school hours or contacting them via gaming.
      This is the thing - when you are online it's a very solo/isolating experience and it gives the illusion of familiarity and intimacy, so these kids never stood a chance.
      I really hope parents are able to better protect their kids when it comes to devices 😕

    • @ryshellso526
      @ryshellso526 2 місяці тому

      Jugendverführer

    • @IvoryTower777
      @IvoryTower777 Місяць тому +1

      I would add there is an ongoing stereotype that tries to paint a caricature of who a groomer is heavily on social media and I think this trend is overshadowing actual victims of grooming, when often in reality it is so far from that stereotype you get a case like this where the teacher seems to believe initially this was normal? its so strange.

    • @ReluctantPost
      @ReluctantPost Місяць тому

      It's really only with reference to men. Women never seem to do things like that, at least as identified socially. When was the last time you heard "creep" applied to one? They have emotionally-based relationships and men never do, I guess. The video is quite clear about that--listen to the gentle tone. They also never recidivate, he assures us--we'll just pretend that Mary LeTourneau didn't exist, then. Social media is the worst source of information and analysis that has ever been invented with faux experts everywhere.

  • @davidprice6027
    @davidprice6027 2 місяці тому +316

    WOW! 33 years in prison at 24. And she pled guilty. The COURT is sending a strong message of denunciation, punishment and deterrence.

    • @tomtom-or3wc
      @tomtom-or3wc 2 місяці тому +6

      She will get out soon women never pay for these crimes

    • @SheldonJohnsonSydney
      @SheldonJohnsonSydney 2 місяці тому +4

      Yet, there's still stories of teachers still going after the students

    • @rowan1275
      @rowan1275 2 місяці тому +9

      True! It only took HUNDREDS of cases of women SA'ing kids until FINALLY they get a proper sentence, justice SURE is working as intended huh? NO SEXISM HERE :D

    • @luisbarajas8588
      @luisbarajas8588 2 місяці тому

      Woman have been getting away with everything fir years.

    • @gordons-alive4940
      @gordons-alive4940 Місяць тому

      And then there's women like Debra Lafave who get house arrest and probation for similar crimes with similar ages. So much inconsistency in the judicial system.

  • @loriw2661
    @loriw2661 2 місяці тому +474

    I don’t buy the “she thought she was in relationship(s)” bs. She had to hide what she was doing. They didn’t go on “dates”. She KNEW it was wrong. Period.

    • @mcc1483
      @mcc1483 2 місяці тому +22

      Total agreement!

    • @DR-pf9wm
      @DR-pf9wm 2 місяці тому +26

      I agree too. They want to make it seem like women are always victims even in situations where women are the abusers

    • @alyse219
      @alyse219 2 місяці тому +10

      She definitely knew it was wrong. In her sick mind she probably justified it to herself as a relationship.

    • @chaoticsix
      @chaoticsix 2 місяці тому

      Yeah but she is a woman so we have to make things less insidious

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg 2 місяці тому +3

      I agree and she knew
      We all have counscience, sick ppl too have one

  • @eddypaul8959
    @eddypaul8959 2 місяці тому +840

    I cant think of anything less attractive than pubescent children. I just dont get it.

    • @davidwright873
      @davidwright873 2 місяці тому +58

      she got 33 years to figure it out now don't she....

    • @gagewesterhouse9558
      @gagewesterhouse9558 2 місяці тому +19

      13-14 year-olds aren't prepudescent.
      Edit: Sorry, I misread the comment.

    • @davidwright873
      @davidwright873 2 місяці тому

      I think the person is being facetious......@@gagewesterhouse9558

    • @JudgeDredd_
      @JudgeDredd_ 2 місяці тому

      @@gagewesterhouse9558is that something 🆕?

    • @NotLikeUs869
      @NotLikeUs869 2 місяці тому +17

      @@gagewesterhouse9558notice how it says “pubescent” - not “prepubescent”. Anyways, he’s right. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @hiddengem9742
    @hiddengem9742 2 місяці тому +426

    Throwing your life away at age of 24 is crazy. It’s crazy how they think they will get away with evil acts

    • @sulwhale3171
      @sulwhale3171 2 місяці тому +7

      Being married to like why

    • @nathanielbables8652
      @nathanielbables8652 2 місяці тому +9

      Makes you wonder how many do?

    • @robynxenis
      @robynxenis 2 місяці тому +24

      @@nathanielbables8652it seems like every day we hear about another young female teacher being charged with SA of young teen boys. It’s so f’d up.

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому +10

      @@robynxenis Thankfully, this is being ignored/tolerated/praised less than it was before.

    • @fitcher-armchair-sleuth
      @fitcher-armchair-sleuth 2 місяці тому

      She's one drop in a huge bucket!

  • @mimimcnair4492
    @mimimcnair4492 2 місяці тому +234

    She didn't have an affair.. she SA children while she was married to her husband..

    • @ksteak27
      @ksteak27 2 місяці тому +26

      Yes. Terms matter. And stop calling what she did to these children a "relationship". It was predatory SA and R, nothing more.

    • @johnnycage3881
      @johnnycage3881 2 місяці тому +8

      ​@@ksteak27Thank you. It's not their fault. It's typical American idiocy.

  • @vitaAutLetum
    @vitaAutLetum 2 місяці тому +284

    I don't understand how a grown adult finds a child or teen sexually attractive. Bizarre.

  • @ILostCountAgain
    @ILostCountAgain 2 місяці тому +281

    I was a young teacher once. Abusing my students NEVER crossed my mind. What in the world is wrong with people?

    • @katiebates6134
      @katiebates6134 2 місяці тому +7

      Evil runs the world.☹️

    • @ksteak27
      @ksteak27 2 місяці тому +6

      Same. I was only a few years older than them.... never crossed my mind once.

    • @terminat1
      @terminat1 2 місяці тому +3

      People are sinners. This isn't hard to understand.

    • @nagone11
      @nagone11 2 місяці тому +2

      You weren't a sick abuser, this person was.

    • @TheBrenanas
      @TheBrenanas 2 місяці тому +2

      I believe many of these abusers have a history of childhood abuse within their own lives, however, that isn't to say that makes it right for them to then take their own abuse and use that as an excuse/reason to abuse others. This is why an in-depth background check on teachers should be performed and their own traumas should 100% be taken into context. We cannot allow the traumatized to traumatize others and unfortunately we are seeing that it is all too common for those with trauma to then go forward and abuse others.
      Please note, I am not stating that all who have trauma are going to become abusers but this should be considered and looked into instead of merely disregarded as hearsay.

  • @EYE_GOTCHA
    @EYE_GOTCHA 2 місяці тому +359

    My sister did the same thing while a teacher in a small New England city in the early 1980s. Unlike this woman, though, my sister was quietly fired and stripped of her teaching certificate. She was neither held accountable nor punished properly and fled the state shortly thereafter. I didn’t find out the truth for many years. Her life is, to this day, an utter disaster and I do not speak to her.

    • @fododude
      @fododude 2 місяці тому +9

      jeez.

    • @godzillamanstreb524
      @godzillamanstreb524 2 місяці тому +45

      Wow…. I’m sorry …. I have an abusive sister….so I understand the loss

    • @misswildlife7905
      @misswildlife7905 2 місяці тому +10

      really..you shared personal disgusting info here

    • @DebsMcC69
      @DebsMcC69 2 місяці тому +9

    • @jessicaanderson3379
      @jessicaanderson3379 2 місяці тому

      ​@misswildlife7905 Wow... nasty judgy cow🙄

  • @sixgundave
    @sixgundave 2 місяці тому +150

    All the years I watched Chris Hansen I asked "are there really no female offenders?" and this channel tells me yes, yes indeed and plenty

    • @shethingsd
      @shethingsd 2 місяці тому +25

      I think the way they approach children is different. Most of them know the children in real life first and groom them in person. The women are in positions of power. The guys Chris Hansen went after, were online first and unknown by the "victims" to the perps, so they could use decoys and set up stings to catch them. I'm a therapist and unfortunately, I've heard of many cases of boys being abused by women. It's mostly teachers, friends of the mom, neighbors, mothers of their friends/girlfriends, aunts, etc.

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr 2 місяці тому +10

      Most msm don’t want to show females doing this because it’s considered misogynistic to even hold women accountable often

    • @shethingsd
      @shethingsd 2 місяці тому +1

      @@BrianWaller-qe7gr what's msm?

    • @user-sf7ve9fm2t
      @user-sf7ve9fm2t 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@shethingsd I'm guessing mainstream media?

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr 2 місяці тому +5

      @@shethingsd mainstream media

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 2 місяці тому +283

    How embarrassing for her parents and family

  • @Quickbeam5
    @Quickbeam5 2 місяці тому +89

    She never grew out of that middle-high school mentality, she liked attention but was never the center of attention, probably average, had a nice glow out and now as a teacher got more attention and let herself fall for those students...

    • @KelleyTheAdvocate
      @KelleyTheAdvocate 2 місяці тому +11

      Exactly!! Her growth was stunted and she never matured.

    • @JC-mc9kv
      @JC-mc9kv 2 місяці тому +8

      Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @feltfriends
      @feltfriends 2 місяці тому +5

      literally exactly this

    • @Schadenfreudeeee
      @Schadenfreudeeee 2 місяці тому +1

      Spot on

  • @xjcrossx
    @xjcrossx 2 місяці тому +82

    Feel so bad for her husband and these kids. Can't imagine the psychological damage that will do to him/them.

    • @adamalexander4883
      @adamalexander4883 Місяць тому +1

      Hopefully he has the strength to file for divorce and never speak to this sick woman again.

    • @xjcrossx
      @xjcrossx Місяць тому

      @@adamalexander4883 I have a friend with your name.

  • @Kelly-mq9ds
    @Kelly-mq9ds 2 місяці тому +114

    When they say they're here for your children, you best believe them.

  • @williamholmes1818
    @williamholmes1818 2 місяці тому +77

    Why do the talking heads keep saying this is unusual?! Multiple female teachers a week are getting caught doing this going on a few years now?

    • @aprilleerose
      @aprilleerose 2 місяці тому +7

      Exactly. Every time I turn around this is happening

    • @mariemarie3614
      @mariemarie3614 2 місяці тому

      ...its still abnormal behavior, even if 10 teachers a week for 5 years straight were caught being sick pervs, that doesnt make the behavior normal, nor indicate that a vast majority of the population are doing the same thing 😒

    • @mrsmerily
      @mrsmerily 2 місяці тому +1

      yeah, i just watched one in this channel few days around and they said it is uncommon for female to have more than one victim....

  • @user-hm3hg3do7g
    @user-hm3hg3do7g 2 місяці тому +151

    what is wrong with some people… this is crazy. I feel so sorry for those kids.

    • @davidwright873
      @davidwright873 2 місяці тому +8

      kids nothing! imagine the embarrassment of the husband, her family, his family....ouch!! what an ink stain!!

    • @tes2bebe115
      @tes2bebe115 2 місяці тому +7

      Feel sorry??
      It's every boys dream..

    • @ronnierebel6388
      @ronnierebel6388 2 місяці тому +4

      @@dtquinn100why because there boys if they were girls and it was male teacher you wouldn’t say that

    • @dtquinn100
      @dtquinn100 2 місяці тому

      @@ronnierebel6388 youre exactly correct. I analyze all situations on a case by case basis. you dont have a brain and just blindly apply your blunt analysis

    • @robynxenis
      @robynxenis 2 місяці тому +3

      @@ronnierebel6388I agree, it’s messed up how many comments here are saying “I’m jealous! That’s so cool! Lucky guy!” 🤯

  • @trishatate327
    @trishatate327 2 місяці тому +148

    30 years should be the standard for these crimes

    • @eab1310
      @eab1310 2 місяці тому +17

      Minimum.

    • @DAmore143
      @DAmore143 2 місяці тому +2

      💯

    • @fitcher-armchair-sleuth
      @fitcher-armchair-sleuth 2 місяці тому +8

      No plea deals for any teacher "Luring" students. This is what many of them are guilty of and it often gets tossed away in a plea-deal. This shouldn't happen.

    • @phillysportsmedia2825
      @phillysportsmedia2825 2 місяці тому +2

      @@fitcher-armchair-sleuthlife in prison

    • @missmicheleeexo2269
      @missmicheleeexo2269 2 місяці тому +1

      She won't do 33 years. She'll do half and be out by the time she's 40.

  • @shahulhameed401
    @shahulhameed401 2 місяці тому +69

    Basically she locked up for life. She will loose all her better life in prison

    • @paullake1114
      @paullake1114 2 місяці тому +11

      NOT ! ! MAYBE, 3-4 years in Prison and the released with a Clean Record. A man would serve LIFE in Prison

    • @lisas8244
      @lisas8244 2 місяці тому

      @shahulhameed401 *lose

    • @moviewatcher4323
      @moviewatcher4323 2 місяці тому +10

      @@paullake1114
      ???
      She got 33 years!

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому +4

      *lose

    • @sharong8511
      @sharong8511 2 місяці тому +1

      @@scottcharney1091
      We could do this all day long and still not make a dent in the number of people who confuse loose and lose. Thanks for trying though!

  • @Number3boyz
    @Number3boyz 2 місяці тому +116

    I’m assuming she’s divorced also, her husband is a victim as well.

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 2 місяці тому +4

      You really shouldn’t make assumptions. Nothing surprises me these days.

    • @jimlewis2395
      @jimlewis2395 2 місяці тому +5

      Bet you the "husband" stands by her and fully supports her

    • @charliewilson3388
      @charliewilson3388 2 місяці тому

      🤣@@jimlewis2395

    • @jomc6734
      @jomc6734 2 місяці тому +25

      They are divorced. Once one of the parents brought the allegations against her, she was put on leave, then she resigned. He filed for divorce a few days later. I don't think their marriage lasted 2 months.

    • @dreamweaver444
      @dreamweaver444 2 місяці тому +5

      @@jimlewis2395doesn’t sound like it.

  • @nickyb7266
    @nickyb7266 2 місяці тому +37

    Does she not see news of all the other teachers that are in jail for the same thing? Does she think she would not be charged or caught? Unbelievable!

    • @tomtom-or3wc
      @tomtom-or3wc 2 місяці тому +3

      Are you kidding?? Women get away with this all the time after being caught red handed this is the first case I've seen where a female is held accountable and I'd be willing to bet there will be a retrial and she'll get out much sooner

    • @nickyb7266
      @nickyb7266 2 місяці тому +1

      @@tomtom-or3wc there are a few others that have been convicted.

    • @tomtom-or3wc
      @tomtom-or3wc 2 місяці тому +2

      @@nickyb7266 convicted and sentenced to community service 😂

  • @jared3622
    @jared3622 2 місяці тому +55

    33 years? Damn, that is surprising. Even if she gets out with 2/3 served she is going to be in her mid forties.

    • @valhipkiss4011
      @valhipkiss4011 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes & she will do it again , because she thinks she has done nothing wrong ,

    • @sburns015
      @sburns015 2 місяці тому +4

      The best years of her life gone and for what 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @johnnycage3881
      @johnnycage3881 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm surprised too. Because of the idiocy of lawmakers, law enforcement agencies, prosecutors, judges, and most Americans who have let women like her slide before.

    • @gracie1598
      @gracie1598 2 місяці тому +3

      Those young men, whether people realize it or not, will struggle with issues because of this abuse, and yes, it was abuse.

    • @ChardeeMacdennis339
      @ChardeeMacdennis339 2 місяці тому +2

      Not long enough imo. Abusing children is about the most heinous crime there is.

  • @Mkbryant123
    @Mkbryant123 2 місяці тому +17

    This headline is how it should always be worded! This is SA, you cannot consent as a child

  • @freewoman4404
    @freewoman4404 2 місяці тому +14

    “Relationship”…. Would we consider that excuse if it was a male teacher? No!

  • @godsfav
    @godsfav 2 місяці тому +62

    Disgusting

  • @sillyking59
    @sillyking59 2 місяці тому +34

    I live in iowa & one of my teachers got fired earlier this year for this too :/ + another in my district. It's really unfortunate.

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 2 місяці тому +6

      Unfortunate that one gets 30 years in prison, and others get fired from their jobs? Yeah, I here ya...

    • @missmicheleeexo2269
      @missmicheleeexo2269 2 місяці тому

      ​@@airadaimagery692Pretty sure they meant unfortunate that this is happening period.

  • @sgiles1
    @sgiles1 2 місяці тому +143

    This guy makes no sense and seems to think she didn't realize f'ing a thirteen yr old was wrong? Sounds like he's making excuses for her.

    • @ReflectRx4u9809
      @ReflectRx4u9809 2 місяці тому +5

      Who knows now (not disagreeing) but young adults now were not held accountable often, nor told NO often enough.

    • @godzillamanstreb524
      @godzillamanstreb524 2 місяці тому +13

      He’s just giving the facts

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 2 місяці тому +13

      You struggle with comprehension.

    • @notsorryyouretriggered
      @notsorryyouretriggered 2 місяці тому +7

      @@airadaimagery692I think you’re just desensitized to crimes against children like they want you to be. Easier to accept the mindsets of people like her, huh?

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 2 місяці тому +20

      @@notsorryyouretriggered the original commenter here said that the psychologist was making excuses for the woman, which is far from the truth. It is the job of a psychologist to study and understand the minds of people with abnormal thinking, and then be able to explain it to us as he did here. There’s a big difference in educating someone and making excuses for someone else. The problem here, is that people you you don’t have a clue as to what’s being done here. Lmao! You struggle with comprehension as well.

  • @othellorucker8107
    @othellorucker8107 2 місяці тому +43

    This is crazy. What’s going on with these woman ?!?! Someone make sense of this

    • @xHiiTMalRk3rzx
      @xHiiTMalRk3rzx 2 місяці тому +12

      They are hiring 20-24 year olds to work with kids or high schoolers. The age is way too close together. No wonder these cases happen she just graduated a couple years ago

    • @baileyjoy1088
      @baileyjoy1088 2 місяці тому +5

      @@xHiiTMalRk3rzxI’m guessing she graduated in either 2017 or 2018 cause I’m 25 n graduated in ‘17. It’s disgusting that she did that n she’s very lucky that child’s mother was not mine

    • @mcc1483
      @mcc1483 2 місяці тому

      Yes, I'd like to know too. She has no idea about the ripple affect these kids trauma will have in their lives. She did not care!!!

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому +3

      It's being ignored/tolerated/praised less than it was in the past.

    • @jomc6734
      @jomc6734 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@xHiiTMalRk3rzx These boys were 13 and 14 years old, not seniors in high school.

  • @violetsun2343
    @violetsun2343 2 місяці тому +94

    I am a 33 year old mom and I wouldn’t even date a man in his twenties, I find that to young ,so this is just mind blowing 🤯 what in the world they are children .

    • @evanbrad7327
      @evanbrad7327 2 місяці тому +9

      ur missing out lol

    • @user-rn5st5dk9e
      @user-rn5st5dk9e 2 місяці тому +1

      Iowa is a redstate...thus many generations of 1st cousin humpin = n-breeding = makes this 2nd nature to these trumpy backing droolers... thus why KY lawmakers tried to make kid humpin legal again just last yr...

    • @helene420
      @helene420 2 місяці тому +7

      ​@@evanbrad7327let me guess, you're 14 😂

    • @notsorryyouretriggered
      @notsorryyouretriggered 2 місяці тому

      @@helene420A stone cold virg, unable to compete against boys in his own age group, so he thinks older women will be more accepting of subpar masculinity.
      Unfortunately for him, they aren’t

    • @Blackowl44
      @Blackowl44 2 місяці тому +8

      You won’t date a grown man that’s 26??

  • @gagewesterhouse9558
    @gagewesterhouse9558 2 місяці тому +56

    I never hear anyone trying to figure out what motivates MEN to sexually abuse kids. Yet this dude keeps talking like there are legitimate reasons she did this.

    • @renny6151
      @renny6151 2 місяці тому

      People are so sexist and find justifications for boys being abused in all ways.

    • @viconichol
      @viconichol 2 місяці тому +2

      Because for a man it's obvious

    • @damedusa5107
      @damedusa5107 2 місяці тому +7

      @@viconicholno it’s not. I could be for a range of reasons. The same as it it for women.

    • @KelleyTheAdvocate
      @KelleyTheAdvocate 2 місяці тому

      In forensic psychology, men and women are wired differently. Boys show aggression, usually girls do not..(that sort of thing). For girls, when they’re attracted to younger people like this it’s because they have arrested development. They hadn’t matured in their brains. Which is why they feel like it’s a relationship. Men have the nature to want to spread their seed. They will look younger and younger to have the best experience. It is disgusting and should not be tolerated. The victims of these predators suffer the consequences from the abusers own messed up disorders. People need to heal themselves before getting into any relationships.

    • @uui219
      @uui219 2 місяці тому +1

      You must not be listening because people LOVE making up convoluted excuses for men's offenses.

  • @MadAudi
    @MadAudi 2 місяці тому +24

    No excuses for her.

  • @LaAmericanaMasMexicana
    @LaAmericanaMasMexicana 2 місяці тому +159

    She ruined her whole life, for lust. And she abused these boys and traumatized them needlessly. And her poor husband, blindsided and has to start over again and probably overcome the embarrassment of his wife's crimes.

    • @notsorryyouretriggered
      @notsorryyouretriggered 2 місяці тому +24

      “Lust” ? That’s what you’re calling this?
      I’ll help you out. Her life is ruined because she’s a 9 letter word that starts with P.

    • @dtquinn100
      @dtquinn100 2 місяці тому +7

      traumatized the boy?! oh please

    • @LaAmericanaMasMexicana
      @LaAmericanaMasMexicana 2 місяці тому +26

      ​@dtquinn100 yes, anyone who thinks just because they're boys means they're not traumatized, is wrong.

    • @dtquinn100
      @dtquinn100 2 місяці тому +9

      @@LaAmericanaMasMexicanathey arent traumatized. i think you just want to feel outraged and victimized so bad that youre superimposing your over reaction onto them

    • @LaAmericanaMasMexicana
      @LaAmericanaMasMexicana 2 місяці тому +4

      @dtquinn100 lol OK thanks 👏🏼👍🏼

  • @corymccollett1427
    @corymccollett1427 2 місяці тому +7

    33 years!!!!? The same punishment for killing someone?

    • @johnbarlow4572
      @johnbarlow4572 2 місяці тому +7

      Justice system a strange thing in America . A teacher in Florida got 22 years for having affairs with three 17 year old students but a female who KILLED three teens in a dui only got 15. Seems to me that the sentence is at the whim of the judge

  • @Lisa_5591
    @Lisa_5591 2 місяці тому +17

    WTH is wrong with everyone???

  • @twotragediesinlife667
    @twotragediesinlife667 2 місяці тому +7

    You shouldn’t have to be told not to touch your students.

  • @bobbyp7403
    @bobbyp7403 2 місяці тому +14

    If she was a male teacher she would have gotten at least double that or even maybe life in prison

    • @damedusa5107
      @damedusa5107 2 місяці тому +1

      And no conversation to try and understand it.

    • @gregorylyon1004
      @gregorylyon1004 2 місяці тому +1

      33 years in prison is a long time

  • @taliaasims
    @taliaasims 2 місяці тому +10

    Wow. She really threw her life away and ruined several other lives. How selfish

  • @gimygaming8655
    @gimygaming8655 2 місяці тому +19

    I used to think 14 year olds were attractive.... when i was also 14!!!
    Now I'm 18 and dont understand how ANYONE could find a 14 year old attractive, and that is only 4 year difference for me.
    This is horrible and will never understand the mindset

    • @user-er3ri6sc3j
      @user-er3ri6sc3j 2 місяці тому +1

      Elvis was 24 when he met Priscilla at 14.

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 2 місяці тому +1

      @@user-er3ri6sc3j who's is Elvis??

    • @damedusa5107
      @damedusa5107 2 місяці тому +7

      @@gimygaming8655wtf? Who’s Elvis? Seriously? Wow I must be getting old. To me I’m shocked you don’t know. Obviously not relevant anymore to your generation.

    • @gimygaming8655
      @gimygaming8655 2 місяці тому +1

      @damedusa5107 nah I just don't follow social media that often. I also suck at names and don't watch movies. All my friends gasp when I don't know a movie they have seen or know someone famous.

    • @damedusa5107
      @damedusa5107 2 місяці тому

      @@gimygaming8655 best way to be to be fair. Except you should learn abit of history. But I’m the same. Not on facebook twitter or anything. UA-cam is the only thing really that I have an account. Them sites drag you down.

  • @trailrunner925
    @trailrunner925 2 місяці тому +15

    I guess a teachers degree will now have to include a semester on the legal consequences of having "relationships" with your students..... and play all these convictions to them and test them that they sufficiently understand before degrees are granted.

  • @1606cartoon
    @1606cartoon 2 місяці тому +18

    This makes me sick !

  • @pewsandbrews
    @pewsandbrews 2 місяці тому +19

    Just goes to show, people with this mental problem will never get better. Married with what I assume is a loving husband, but still can't get that thought out of her mind.

  • @YouWantIt1Way
    @YouWantIt1Way 2 місяці тому +45

    13 and 14 year old boys 😢

    • @corshawnhughes8325
      @corshawnhughes8325 2 місяці тому +1

      I’m confused

    • @nessmarroquin5717
      @nessmarroquin5717 2 місяці тому +3

      babies!!! So gross.

    • @elsedutch4972
      @elsedutch4972 2 місяці тому

      @@nessmarroquin5717babies???

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому +1

      @@nessmarroquin5717 No, not babies. That doesn't make it less awful.

    • @gregorylyon1004
      @gregorylyon1004 2 місяці тому

      She likes young boys because they worship her when the clothes come off. Her husband doesn't

  • @aaronp9928
    @aaronp9928 2 місяці тому +23

    Well she has major issues.

  • @Picklebitch25
    @Picklebitch25 2 місяці тому +7

    What a disappointment of a human being

    • @carlmorgan8452
      @carlmorgan8452 2 місяці тому +1

      Light shining in some dark places

  • @jedegruiter
    @jedegruiter 2 місяці тому +50

    The cross tattoo on her hand is the icing on the cake

    • @karenrollins9578
      @karenrollins9578 2 місяці тому +9

      Plenty of people claim to be Christian (ex. Joel Osteen) But few have actually truly realized that they’re sinners in need of a Savior.

  • @kristinaa4954
    @kristinaa4954 2 місяці тому +11

    Crazy, she got 30 years in prison. She is 24 years old!

    • @user-er3ri6sc3j
      @user-er3ri6sc3j 2 місяці тому +6

      33 years and this puritanical society. If I was the 13 or 14 young male I wouldn't complain.

    • @kristinaa4954
      @kristinaa4954 2 місяці тому +2

      Like she killed someone! Craziness

  • @Dollsanity
    @Dollsanity 2 місяці тому +89

    Why is he making so many excuses for her? She’s a sick child abuser and that’s the end of it.

    • @ohemmehey561
      @ohemmehey561 2 місяці тому +12

      I know the language they are using is icky. Would they make all these excuses if it was a man doing this to 13 year old girls?

    • @nathanielbables8652
      @nathanielbables8652 2 місяці тому +15

      It's important to understand the psychology behind this mentality.

    • @airadaimagery692
      @airadaimagery692 2 місяці тому +27

      He’s not making excuses, he’s explaining why and how some people are able to fool themselves into thinking their not committing a crime. It’s a Psychologist job to learn these things and be able to explain them. There’s a big difference in educating, and making excuses. Lmao!

    • @cynthiaguarino2016
      @cynthiaguarino2016 2 місяці тому +1

      I think the problem with what the psychologist is describing is that it's somewhat vague and not really addressing the pathology behind a person like that.

    • @Dollsanity
      @Dollsanity 2 місяці тому +6

      It’s not that I don’t understand what psychologists do. Female predators’ crimes seem to be framed very differently than males. That is what I find troublesome.

  • @carsonlovescarts
    @carsonlovescarts 2 місяці тому +63

    This is becoming a pandemic!!

    • @teresawatson6401
      @teresawatson6401 2 місяці тому +17

      We just hear about all now.

    • @derrickwashington1713
      @derrickwashington1713 2 місяці тому +13

      This is nothing new, Bro. It's just that technology and social media have allowed us to see more of it. AND--this particular female is being held accountable for her crimes!

    • @carsonlovescarts
      @carsonlovescarts 2 місяці тому +3

      @@tombarnes4163 That wasn't the testament or principle of my comment, it has *never* been in the media as frequently as it has in the past 5 years with female teachers...same with school shootings, look at the statistics, do some research and form some independent common sense.

    • @uscg1381
      @uscg1381 2 місяці тому +1

      @@tombarnes4163 Yeah, but we don't live in caves, bro.

    • @carsonlovescarts
      @carsonlovescarts 2 місяці тому +1

      @@derrickwashington1713 I disagree whole heartily.

  • @lovepet4565
    @lovepet4565 2 місяці тому +15

    Woah
    33 years should send a message to the rest of these crazy young teachers SA with kids!

    • @xtina6569
      @xtina6569 2 місяці тому +3

      Nah sickos still gonna do it

    • @antikommunistischaktion
      @antikommunistischaktion 2 місяці тому

      Females are still going to do it because this is insanely rare (the female getting punished is what's rare, not females SAing students) and she will be out in less than 1/4 of that sentence.

  • @alessiacollia4268
    @alessiacollia4268 2 місяці тому +4

    13 and 14?? Most seniors in high school wouldn’t even look twice at a freshman. Scary.

  • @joesignoretti9039
    @joesignoretti9039 2 місяці тому +12

    I am so sick of these stories!

    • @zimladyj84
      @zimladyj84 2 місяці тому +1

      They seem to be more prevalent lately.

  • @helenshg4580
    @helenshg4580 2 місяці тому +11

    Citizens of Iowa are also victims. They will probably pay hundreds of thousands of dollars for the incarceration of the sexteacher.

  • @jeffros6739
    @jeffros6739 2 місяці тому +24

    It seems like something was deficient in her teenage years, perhaps she was trying to relive it as an adult. Sad all the way around.

  • @jeanlouise2905
    @jeanlouise2905 2 місяці тому +3

    As a former middle school teacher, I can’t find anything appealing about them. So gross. Why would anyone want a relationship beyond authority with them?

  • @willelliott5052
    @willelliott5052 2 місяці тому +6

    Huh? I don't buy that she didn't think that her actions were wrong. 304's just can't seem to help it. Also, a ten year upward age difference is gigantic to a 13 year old, maybe not so much as he turns 50.

  • @teddyjam8134
    @teddyjam8134 2 місяці тому +5

    Why does this keep happening?!

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому +1

      Thankfully, it's being ignored/tolerated less often.

  • @AltLineG
    @AltLineG Місяць тому +2

    imagine getting cheated on with middle schoolers. this poor husband.

  • @paullyrenee
    @paullyrenee 2 місяці тому +5

    Absolutely sick

  • @HolicChan
    @HolicChan 2 місяці тому +25

    I was r worded when I was 10 by my own grandfather and he only got 4 years, ugh. Whatever

    • @aliciavian198
      @aliciavian198 2 місяці тому +6

      I'm so sorry. You deserve real justice. I pray that you're doing well now🙂

    • @jennifera5205
      @jennifera5205 2 місяці тому +5

      I'm very sorry that happened to you.

  • @LL-rn2xp
    @LL-rn2xp 2 місяці тому +14

    Weird af

  • @MarcelleHechenberger-jg7pl
    @MarcelleHechenberger-jg7pl 2 місяці тому +9

    There is no excuse

  • @user-dw1ls3rp1l
    @user-dw1ls3rp1l 2 місяці тому +6

    That would be an annulment from me, dawg.

  • @user-vo8yh6md6f
    @user-vo8yh6md6f 2 місяці тому +68

    THE TEACHER SHOULD GET LOCK UP IN PRISON FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE

    • @nessmarroquin5717
      @nessmarroquin5717 2 місяці тому +12

      EXACTLY! She permanently traumatized these poor kids.

    • @dtquinn100
      @dtquinn100 2 місяці тому +2

      youre insane. 2 years max

    • @Little_Aussie_20
      @Little_Aussie_20 2 місяці тому

      @@dtquinn100 oh so you like to think play and a*use children... You are no better than her... I think maybe you are insane seek help

    • @BoomShakalaka777
      @BoomShakalaka777 2 місяці тому

      ​@@nessmarroquin5717There are people who permanently unalive people and children and get 25-L with the possibilty of parole.

    • @simon13031
      @simon13031 2 місяці тому +2

      npc

  • @HowardDaniels-uw8tj
    @HowardDaniels-uw8tj 2 місяці тому +4

    Years ago I did a psychological evaluation on a similar case. Strange lady :(

  • @lorddavidlawrence
    @lorddavidlawrence 2 місяці тому +3

    Husband should file for divorce immediately.
    There's no point having a wife when she locked up in prison for decades.
    He needs to move on and find a decent woman to start a family with.

  • @ifeelbetterabouthis.louis3
    @ifeelbetterabouthis.louis3 2 місяці тому +15

    Gross

  • @mcc1483
    @mcc1483 2 місяці тому +4

    Was it 11 years for each kid? And when is she eligible for parole; that hasn't been mentioned.

  • @Alaska_Gal
    @Alaska_Gal 2 місяці тому +4

    Daaang. Was the sentencing public? Would love to see her reaction. Time to search on UA-cam….

    • @franklinterrell9392
      @franklinterrell9392 2 місяці тому +1

      A case like this being adjudicated in such a short times means she accepted a plea deal, she knew the sentence before stepping into court.

  • @lisawagner6076
    @lisawagner6076 2 місяці тому +18

    This is insane!! So many beautiful women with husbands abusing young boys!! I am wondering if these women had such a great time in high school with their dating and all the fun and adventure of being a teen with everything new and exciting that, these women in some way are trying to re-live all that by "dating" these young boys? I can't for the life of me understand someone throwing their life away like these women are doing. And there are so many lately!!! It's just crazy!!

    • @katharina...
      @katharina... 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@QueenofKings-mh7znYes, I think this theory is more likely.

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому

      They're just perverts.

    • @zimladyj84
      @zimladyj84 2 місяці тому

      I think sadly this is just coming to light because of social media and smart phone. In the past it was easier for teachers especially female teachers to get away with it.

    • @gregorylyon1004
      @gregorylyon1004 2 місяці тому

      It's usually a Florida thing

  • @katb3233
    @katb3233 2 місяці тому +10

    Children should not have cell phones in general

  • @littlelettuce1215
    @littlelettuce1215 2 місяці тому +5

    That’s like really gross.🤢

  • @robertmalone4161
    @robertmalone4161 2 місяці тому +4

    Ten years would have been enough punishment.

    • @SpicyLady842
      @SpicyLady842 2 місяці тому

      That’s what my husband said.

  • @whatever1663
    @whatever1663 2 місяці тому +2

    WOW I can't believe they actually held a woman accountable for her actions.

    • @johnbarlow4572
      @johnbarlow4572 2 місяці тому

      Might have got away with a lighter sentence if it had been one put three is a bit ott

  • @dtzero0
    @dtzero0 2 місяці тому +2

    She was sentenced to 33 years in prison on March 13,2024

  • @Levoneee
    @Levoneee 2 місяці тому +3

    Usual suspect they can’t seem to leave the kids alone

  • @GmonkeyJ777
    @GmonkeyJ777 2 місяці тому +3

    0:09 well duh, most child predators don't see it as wrong. Are you trying to help us understand her sick mindset? No thank you.

  • @darlingdeb7010
    @darlingdeb7010 2 місяці тому +4

    More reasons to homeschool

  • @jacobstopper3804
    @jacobstopper3804 2 місяці тому +17

    WOW

  • @misswildlife7905
    @misswildlife7905 2 місяці тому +11

    Another Mary Kay Latearnou!!

  • @kathyhayden2499
    @kathyhayden2499 2 місяці тому +5

    Nah dont get it.

  • @jeffbeaudoin4544
    @jeffbeaudoin4544 2 місяці тому +1

    This attorney’s “explanation” of her behavior is disturbing and disgusting. If this were a male teacher with young girls there would be no such twisted rationale stated. The hypocrisy never ends.

  • @CarlyJOne
    @CarlyJOne 2 місяці тому +2

    I don’t understand the “compartmentalization” theory. How does someone go from “I’m not doing anything wrong. We’re in love” to “I have to act like I’m not doing anything wrong and act like I’m not in love with him”. If she’s thinking that way, she totally knows what’s right and what’s wrong. If she truly believed they were in love and it was all above board, she’d never have the thought that she had to hide it. Basically, it’s not an excuse, nor is it a valid reason. She’s sick, period!

  • @ghoststarstalk
    @ghoststarstalk 2 місяці тому +8

    GROSS OUT!

  • @mikeb5981
    @mikeb5981 2 місяці тому +8

    Remember that South Park episode?😅

  • @RullXov
    @RullXov 2 місяці тому +2

    The sentence in the media is never what the convicted person will actually serve in prison.
    She will probably serve 12 - 15 years total

  • @christianyoutubegaming
    @christianyoutubegaming 2 місяці тому +4

    When I was in school, I noticed someone close where I lived, he would keep trying to score with the teacher.
    It's not just the teachers fault but them kids are going out looking for trouble.

    • @gregorylyon1004
      @gregorylyon1004 2 місяці тому +1

      You are absolutely right. It's not entirely her fault.. Boys look for nice furry things

    • @alyssawashere3494
      @alyssawashere3494 2 місяці тому +1

      The adult will always be at fault. As an adult, you should know right from wrong. A child isn't able to consent. Usually in these situations, the child is experiencing issues at home, or school, which causes them to be rebellious. The child might think they "want" it, but as they grow older, and their frontal lobe develops, they will realize how wrong the situation truly was. It's disgusting to put blame on the child too, because they're just children. They were groomed, and made to believe that behavior was ok from the adult.

    • @January.
      @January. 3 дні тому

      Which kindergarten are you referring to.

  • @franklinterrell9392
    @franklinterrell9392 2 місяці тому +7

    Based on the Iowa Department of Corrections website, her tentative discharge date/supervised discharge date is 03/13/39, 15 years after she was committed. Iowa requires you serve 50% of sentences for forcible felonies, she'll serve less than that for her crimes. In the end, she still gets a break, no man would serve less than half his time for the crimes she committed.

    • @user-er3ri6sc3j
      @user-er3ri6sc3j 2 місяці тому

      She fresh meat for a woman who likes other young females.

  • @rightmeowgaming2456
    @rightmeowgaming2456 2 місяці тому +8

    Thanks snap chat. You once again helped a monster carry out their evil deeds. TikTok is also satans tool

    • @bobthedopeman7327
      @bobthedopeman7327 2 місяці тому

      Don't even get me started on Kik. Imo that's the worst one.

  • @debbieescobar6267
    @debbieescobar6267 2 місяці тому +2

    Of course she knew it was wrong and she knew these weren't moral or healthy relationships. Not falling for his word salad.

  • @gracie1598
    @gracie1598 2 місяці тому +2

    Self-esteem issue, and if you go back more than likely you will find she was traumatized in childhood or molested.
    Young men in adolescent were vulnerable. It was about her ascertaining attention not the relationship. She wanted to feel attractive, and she targeted young men.

  • @TMCremixes
    @TMCremixes 2 місяці тому +4

    Dear Law & Crime, please remove her husband's face from the video thumnail. You blurred it out in the video but you left it in the thumbnail. He is innocent and is also impacted by her bad decisions.

  • @calvinh.8882
    @calvinh.8882 2 місяці тому +3

    They made an example out of her to send a warning to all these teachers because of all the female teachers who have been caught doing this lately. All the backlash stating that men who do the same thing get sent away for decades whereas females are more or less given a slap on the wrist.

  • @MontyRoyal963
    @MontyRoyal963 2 місяці тому +4

    She was running amok😮😮😮

  • @robertocruztv6097
    @robertocruztv6097 2 місяці тому +3

    💯💯

  • @tynangreen
    @tynangreen 2 місяці тому +7

    33 years!!!! Murderers get away with less. This is absolutely bonkers!

    • @user-er3ri6sc3j
      @user-er3ri6sc3j 2 місяці тому +3

      True, men who push women into a train get less years.

    • @16watch
      @16watch 2 місяці тому

      Because she was in a position of power the sentence is greater.

    • @johnbarlow4572
      @johnbarlow4572 2 місяці тому

      @@16watch In the UK judges have guidelines on sentences but in the U.S it seems at the whim of the judge.
      You have this lady who got 33 years but Marca Bodine only got 60 DAYS and 10years probation for having an affair with a student that started when he was 13 and went on for three years

    • @gregorylyon1004
      @gregorylyon1004 2 місяці тому

      Yep. She definitely got railroaded

  • @Bubba276
    @Bubba276 2 місяці тому +1

    This was definitely going on in the 90’s.

  • @decafmocha211
    @decafmocha211 2 місяці тому +2

    Right and wrong need to be taught in our schools. This girl just threw her life away.

  • @Tw0tson
    @Tw0tson 2 місяці тому +10

    All my teachers looked like Chris Farley, shyt ain’t fair

    • @savageproductions8903
      @savageproductions8903 2 місяці тому +1

      @@realityreviews2314nah to her house😂 she was fine to

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому

      This is a terrible thing to do to a child. It causes lifelong damage, yes, including in situations like this.

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 2 місяці тому

      @@savageproductions8903 Not funny.

    • @savageproductions8903
      @savageproductions8903 2 місяці тому

      @@scottcharney1091 it happened she was a teacher there my friends mom he would go to his dad one weekend I’d be over there