[Introverts] Me: Hey dad, I'm just gonna get something real quick Dad: Alright Me: *walking towards an aisle and sees friend* Me: *starts to reverse back* Dad: Did you get the thing you wanted? Me: They're out of stock
Wow, there is so much we have no control over in life that makes life difficult. How many introverts actually commit a school shooting? Then they get arrested. I don't know why police has to exist and add to people's problems. My "Impact" a James Grider novel linked in my videos will make you hate police.
Really liked this video! I think that the narrator speaking about his personnal experience gives a new enlightment about such subject! Moreover it makes it easier to relate to this and/or apply it to an introverted friend you did not undestand when they had a pissed off reaction And it was good to remind us of the article since this video has a more intimate approach and then loses a bit of the factual aspect
I often find that if I get really pissed I actually stop responding in words, I take an aggressive stance (bodylanguage-wise), and I start responding only with gestures like nodding, raising my eyebrows and tilting my head, all the while STARING into the other persons eyes as a warning to shut up and leave me alone or get hurt. Luckily my friends know how to read me at this point, so they'll leave me alone to think, or they just get me a beer or do something nice, without talking to me or engaging in any way.
Smoke Weed Just to be clear, fuckface, it's not the beer that makes me happy, it's that they are nice enough to get it for me. I'd do the same for any of them in a heartbeat.
I wish my friends (and literally everyone else) would get that I'm bloody pissed and don't want to start a conversation about smelly cheese or who's going out with who.
People to me(an introvert): "You should be more social" **Tries to be social** **Interrupted, ignored, talked over** **Stops trying to be social** **Still keep bothering me about being social** Me(my head): *shut the hell up* Me: **Ignoring them**
Ben McClure imma just tell them to shut tf up then I had this before they think they’re your personal therapist but don’t even hear what you have to say
Nobody understands just how important this message is. Relatives couldn't understand this to save their lives, to the point where I wish to end my own.
Why don't you tell them then? Nothing is gonna changed if you don't take any action. I used to be frustrated by my passive aggressiveness but now I can explicitly express my anger. I feel that much better than holding grudge for a long time and explode to rage outburst.
Do TinThinh I relate to him, too. Relatives just never understand this. As for me, I would never tell my parents because they'd either just laugh or get angry. I literally grew up being afraid of what my parents would do to me, so instead of telling them I was angry, I would let my rage dissolve into a fit of tears, and if I hadn't fallen asleep after then, I would start thinking suicidal thoughts. It got to a point where I was almost depressed, and I'm literally at that point now. Where that's leading to, I don't know.
Telling an introvert to stand up to relatives... It's right up there with "You just need to get more confidence" and "Why not try to be more assertive"
Yeah. You share genetics, so clearly they are either entitled to make you communicate what you're thinking, or they believe that they already know it despite you not communicating. Naw.
I relate with every single thing said in this video. The worst part is that when people don't notice when we introverts are pissed, is they try to engage, which just makes us more pissed.
Craig Kogan i know how hard this may sound, god knows i still have trouble doing this, but you should try telling the person in front of you that you’re pissed off, even if you’re not necessarily pissed off at them. Keep in mind that a lot of people have a hard time understanding the actions of others, so this may be frustrating for the other person as well as you. Bottling your emotions can do some serious damage on the long run.
I'm an extrovert and I know I'd try to keep you talking to tell me what's wrong so I could help fix it.... clearly the wrong approach. I'm trying to learn more about introverts so I can be much more sensitive to their needs.
When I'm pissed I don't really show it at all. I might sound a little irritated. I stop being mad at people really easily too, because I feel bad for being mad.
This is video is completely a 100% accurate of my life. I have to let more people in, I need to let people see how I feel, cause it's very unhealthy. And I'm way to good at it now, I can literally feel INTENSE hate and rage, and everybody might... just might suspect that I'm a little bit tired or not really interested but I usually can convince them that I'm content. It's quite amazing and scary I know, but even though it can be an excellent defense mechanism. It's not very human, almost other worldly actually. I need people I can trust, and I want to open up too... 😐(Myyyyy Poker Face!!! 🎶)
I´m an introvert, too, and whenever I was mad, I´d give one word responces or talk about completely unimportant stuff. You know, smalltalk. So, this created the connection "smalltalk = he´s pissed" in my brain, and this still affects me today. Whenever someone tries to have a nice little chat, I´d sometimes think they´re at the brink of a violent outburst of rage.
I'm an introvert but I'm not that guy who just has a poker face when I'm pissed. If someone asks me how I feel my answer is always honest. Why? Because I hate lying even on the smallest things in life.
Same, idk why but for some reason being dishonest or having to lie usually kinda hurts me & i would rather try avoid doing that though not necessarily always but doesn't mean I never ever lie
Even though I'm an introvert and also have these problems, when I'm talking to another introvert and I notice they're pissed off (to me it's really easy) I often don't stand aside and am just being nice. Or eventually manipulate them either into explaining what's wrong or at least getting them to admit that something is wrong, even if they aren't comfortable sharing.
Every introvert secretly wants people to know what's troubling them but they don't want to interact at the same time. However, say that they don't have to tell you what's bothering them but you're there to listen and accept if they need you and they might actually tell you.
Nojatha This kind of behaviour has actually led to some rants. But bitching about things when in bad mood is normal and there never were consequences. I personally do stuff I enjoy when I'm in bad mood and this, surprisinglyb often includes interaction with some people.
This is exactly how my life works but when I get angry I just put on my fake happy face but when I'm about to lose it I just give my friends a friendly death stare that simply "says back off"
I had those two problems except the last one. It was pretty annoying to deal with. Sometimes I wouldn't catch myself giving off a negative attitude/tone towards that person.
HEY THERE!!! IM A BIG FAN, and I'm and introvert. Im 12 and I don't know what to do with my life, I don't understand how to be like everyone else. I have a boyfriend and I try so hard to keep him happy,but I don't if I'm doing to much or to little. Im depressed,and people don't know, I don't know if it would make a difference if I told them anyways. I have 5 friends including my boyfriend. I need help what should I do to understand others ._.
Just be yourself. Introverts are never going to be the same as extroverts, if that's what you mean. I too am an introvert, and I'll never be as intimate and cuddly with my friends as they are to eachother. However, if you find friends that respect that, it shouldn't be a problem. Also, don't worry what to do with your life lol! You're only 12, and you've got plenty of time to decide. No one really knows what to do with their life, just live it and see :p Speight .B That surely helped! Thanks for giving this useful advice.. smh
Don't be like everyone else, be yourself, it really won't matter when we are all dead. Don't be a slave to anyone, especially not your boyfriend, they will use you. Read a lot of books on the subject, about psychology, friendships and primate behavior. Continue watching Psych2Go and also: ua-cam.com/users/charismaoncommand
Thanks for this video, even my friends misinterpret my emotions. When I'm really sad they just think that I'm tired. When I scream inside my head and want to die my facial expression is just like the one when I'm tired.
the only emotion that people can actually see is when im sad but every other emotion they dont know. then they call me crazy when i release all my rage at them in ONE."RUDE".SENTENCE.
This was so emotionally beautiful. 🙏 My soul just had a deep inhale exhale experience. When you're an introvert it's equally important to activate a healthy combination of communication, remedies for dealing with intense emotions, allowing people to know the importance of respecting your time & space, as wel as an action plan to speak your truth authentically. Much love to all of those who aren't afraid to go within so they can reflect that inner light without in the most positive way. 💛
Uhhh, are you sure this is about introversion? Because I'm an introvert, yet I don't relate to this much. When I'm pissed of, I say "I'm pissed right now, I'll talk to you later, ok? Ok".
Yeah. This is just his own experience as an introvert. It, of course, will vary by person. It's a good thing that you tell people when you're pissed off!
Are you sure about that? A lot of introverts in the comment section seem to fail to relate to his experience, which suggests that maybe this doesn't have as much to do with being an introvert, rather it's more about not being straightforward enough?
Because nobody is 100% introvert. Some people have signs that other don't. The person that did this video had this one, while you didn,t have it. A lot of people can relate to it in the comment, too.
Bastobasto Err, signs of introversiom are just that, signs. The trait discussed in this video is just a trait some introverts share, this doesn't have to do anything with how much introverted one is. Most introverts love books too, but an extremely introverted person could easily dislike or even despise books (for whatever reason :\ ).
When I'm pissed off and people just don't get it, I tell them to stop talking to me before I explode.. I'm kinda not able to tell them they piss me off.. I just say I'm pissed in general bc I don't want to hurt them even though they piss me off and I kinda know that's irrational as hell but I'm doing it anyway.
I take these video as pure entertainment - not an informative one. This is just his way of behaving when he’s pissed but not mine (and I consider myself mostly an introvert). And also these videos don’t really serve a purpose. The majority of the world are introverts and we all behave differently (not just when being angry). And if you do behave like this, do you expect people to accommodate you? Because I consider the behavior demonstrated in his video as just being passive aggressive.
One time I got REALLY pissed because I was doing an activity in pairs with my best friend and she wasn't doing anything but still tried to talk to me and distract me and I was like, I'm doing it all so just shut up, but she didn't seem to notice, then I tried to give her something to do, but she always would tell, I can't do that I'm not intelligent like you, and when I finally got her something to do she started asking me silly questions like, what would happen if I accidentally added an s to a word that wasn't supposed to have it? and I was like, just fucking erase it! and she was really slow so I decided to do it myself and told her to write the tittle of the mental map, but she wanted to do it exactly as the example and it was really hard to make her understand that she didn't have to make it that way, so when I finished I started doing the mental map but I think I was rude and I'm pretty sure she got mad and I apologized a few times but she told me it was was okay and that she wasn't mad but I knew she was. The next day she acted as if nothing had happened and I still don't understand it, I don't know whenever she was acting or she really wasn't mad
I know someone who's clueless about socialising, even more than me. He's no introvert but he's oblivious about everything, he also doesn't shut up about how hard his life is despite coming from a rich family and gets paid even though he has no job, a real spoilt brat. I can't even have a conversation with him, he'll call me and be rambling about nothing for 40 minutes while I'm just going "Yup. Mhmm. Yeah." every few seconds. I find there's more and more people like this in the world, and it'll only get worse. I wish people would just leave me alone.
I'm so happy to see this, as of late my mom hasn't been giving me any space she'll do little things to set me off and when I just need a little space from her she gets even more in your face which would get me more aggressive, I keep trying to get away but she would then start shouting and yelling at me till I would come out, she doesn't understand or refuses to listen when I try to tell her, I just need a little room please leave me alone for a while, she'll then become infuriated and insulted that I said it but... it's becoming suffocating.. it's hard when you don't get to have that room for yourself and there's always prying eyes watching EVERYTHING you do
Ahh, I understand that . It is really annoying that you are being judged over the simplest of things when you do something differently than the way they want . My inner self starts screaming " Let me do my stuff in peace , stop looking at me "
I get it is hard to let people know when your mad but your making it seem that it is their foult comunacation is the better option I know that that is hard I am a true introvert at hard
jip huiswerk I agree, but it can be absolutely frustrating when they want to know the reason why I feel pissed. I don't want to talk about it and that's exactly what I say to them. Yet some still insist that they want to know and help. It's aggravating! "I just want to be alone right now", "... is there something wrong?" "I'll talk about it later" "come on, let's have a ch- "I SAID!! ... Just let me cool off for today, 'Kay?" I understand their intentions, but that is just how I am.
I am an extrovert and do really care for my introvert lover. He is quite apprehensive and feels irritated when I care for him nowadays as he is not ready for a relationship and thinks he is giving me false hopes. What to do😥
I have this one guy that I dated once. Didn't work out so we broke up. The problem here is after we broke up HE STILL FOLLOWED Me for a while it was just here and then but now this dude follows me EVERYWHERE. HE. WONT. GO. AWAY. I did every tactic a introvert could possibly create. But this dude never takes the hint. He makes terrible jokes and rephrases year old memes. The thing is when the few moments he did actually realise I wanted him tone he'd leave. AND COME BACK IN LIKE 5 MINUTES. Hes always trying to hit on me even though i DONT LIKE THAT. I AM AN INTROVERT. I LIKE BEING TREATED AS A FRIEND NOT SOME SENPAI SHIT. This seriously won't leave me alone it's too the point where my mom is concerned about this stuff. The dude still follows and still is yet to take the hint I don't like him...
When as an introvert I pissed off I need someone close to open up Nd spit all the anger for whatever reason I was pissed off most of the tym just let it go Nd forgive Nd chill
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and emotions with us. While I was listening to it I was wondering why you don't try to express your emotions instead of swallowing them? Are you afraid of other people's reactions? Or are you afraid to get rejected? I mean after all nobody can read your mind and without proper communication nothing will change at all. Good luck for your further journey. 😊
Man, this is me at school. For example, I always have a straight up poker-face and it usually seems to people that I'm fine. But, I get annoyed at people easily, friends even, so I usually will blow up in the middle of class by just crying silently for no reason. Thankfully, for me, this only will happen usually 2-3 times per year. And it annoys me even more because then people realize I'm crying and start asking me why I'm crying or if I'm alright. I find it to be more comfortable when I'm doing work by myself and not talking to others. Reason being, I know that they'll annoy me to the point I'm just wanting to tell them to go away but I know it's rude to so I don't.
These is so relatable. what happens to me is I'm super pissed of is. Hi umm can you carry these for me. ok 😖 1 min later. ok I just need to get to my room and cool off. hey can you give me a hand. hey I want to show you something. 😡Ok then my sister pokes me me aaaaaaaaaaaaaa THATS IT. and then my mom comes in and goes don't me mean to your sister. Before you ask I have a big family anyway hope you have a good day XD
Tanzanight same , I have 6 siblings , 7 including me , and I'm an introvert , it's really hard and annoying . and I'm the middle child so my mom did the really pay attention to me that much , like she didn't care how I feel ,she's always too busy with the other kids
People are always saying, "Hey, what's wrong?" When I randomly, as though it seems, just explode with the emotion I'm having, usually frusturation, because I kinda get frusterated easily. I like to keep to myself because I feel like a blubbering idiot when I say what's wrong. Very few people know to leave me alone when I'm just sitting there laying my head on the desk or clenching my fist, and teachers are the WORST when it comes to this subject. I feel that I always have to answer an adult no matter what the subject is because that's how my dad taught me. So I'm trying to explain how I feel and they keep nagging me, then you get the snappy side of me. Its hard to do that because I'm usually a calm, relaxed, and carefree person who listens and understands your pain. But, we all have those days right? Anyways, if you get the snappy side of me, its not a good thing. Although I'm usually gentle, I can be very intimidating. Thing is I'm pretty strong, at least, according to the boys in my class. I can see that, I've proved myself in a game one year of how strong I can be, the downside though is that I have very low stamina and its hard for me to run around a track like a lot of my athletic friends, but that makes me me. I'm getting off of track, so I think I'll end it here 😛.
Thats the worst part its so hard for others to see your emotions and take the hint. My only tell is shuting down fully or my clenched fist with heavy breathing. We dont want an outburst but its nearly inevitable.
Me: ( trying to calm down because I really pissed off after getting a lot of assignments ) My friend: (suddenly I make a small mistake) It's all your fault!! (👈More like a jokes) Me: (screaming) *WHAT THE HELL?!?! I DID NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!! WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?!?! TRYNA PICK A FIGHT WITH ME?!?! YOU BETTER SHUT UP YOUR MOUTH OR ELSE!!* My friend: (silent and felt scared) wha- what's wrong with y-you? My teacher: WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING FOR NOTHING,HUH?!?! YOU REALLY A PROBLEM STUDENT!! Me: (whispering) Cruse you x100 it's all your fault x100 I literally gonna kill you x100 My friend: (terrifying) *_THIS IS TRUE STORY, I ACTUALLY SCREAMING AT MY FRIEND AND I DIDN'T MEAN IT_*
Did you pay attention to the video? The speaker mentioned multiple times that it was his own fault for assuming others would automatically know how he was really feeling. Also, introversion *is* a healthy lifestyle, it's just a little different.
Someone will literally just say to me “are you alright?” When I’m completely fine and I’m like “uh, yeah...” I guess the robot face makes them think somethings wrong
I don't think any of these points were about introversion. Being an introvert /outrovert simply describes how a person loses / gains energy. It doesn't always affect a person's behaviour in such a way this video described.
If you think about it, you created a really good opportunity to conect with her. I mean now you are pretty sure you pissed her off. Go to her, talk to her and let her know. Probably just a few people will know that she is pissed off. If she has the feeling that you understand her when almost no one else does, she will get interested in you cause of that. Try it bro, just be yourself and be honest.
That Guy Dude, I don't know how old you are. But I am 20years old, from Germany/Austria. I missed quite a few chances when it comes to girls, I kind of regret it. ;) It might look like a cruel step for you now, but if you look back on it later it's not really a big deal.
Introvert here. Instead of lying and saying you're fine you could just be an adult and say ' you upset me and we can talk about it after I've processed it." You not talking to people that have upset you isn't an introvert problem. That's a YOU problem. This video just fuels more misconceptions about introverts.
Yo I live with a Relative and can’t escape no matter what I do I have to eventually see and have draining meaningless convos every time I tried to leave my room jus to use bathroom or get water. Almost kills my motivation and I can’t truly be happy for the entire day knowing I’ll have to see them wen I get home.
Is this a retake on a previous video? I remember seeing the same topic but I highly disagreed with the points in the video. I'm still not sure if this is introverted behaviour per say but this is much better then the last one. I feel like an extroverted person might use the same method in order to not bothered.
I was thinking the same thing, there was a crappy one about the same thing a few months ago. The girl was listing them, and I agreed with like 2 of 11. I only remember it because of how wrong it was
I'm glad I wasn't the only one!!! I even related to it but not because of my introvertness but only because I don't like confrontation (and not in the socially draining way either). It was upsetting to me how so specific they made the introvert personality when it's really not like that for everyone!
People piss me off, most people are shallow insufferable turd sniffers. They talk about nothing as if it's the most important thing in the world. I also give one word responses to many questions because, I don't think that they would understand my way of thinking. A lot of people I know think I am weird because of how I talk (think), I am usually way ahead of them. Thinking too much all of the time. I would rather be alone.
When I ate on school someone pissed me off and it was my job to give everyone water *our water on school is dirty AF* and the person that pissed me off had a full glass of water but I was supposed to give a half glass *i did like it was an accident*
Tell me about it!!!! There are those that want me to help them with math or whatever and I’m glad to help, but they don’t even put in the effort and sometimes act like they don’t care!! Then why should I?? As an introvert, I value my personal space and time, but I make way to help tutor people because I love doing it. They expect me to help them whenever they want, but never realize that I have my own life and I’m not a robot! Edit: Anyone else?? 😝
I don't think this person speaking is an introvert. He's just an angry person and excuses himself to be an introvert. More like depressed. He even curses "why the hell"...
helenGD So you're saying I can't be an introvert if I have anger issues and depression? Which book of psychology did that come from? You are aware that people can have multiple issues, diagnosis and even personality traits, right? I'm an introvert who is asocial, but can get antisocial in minutes if not seconds. I've been diagnosed with clinical depression, social and general anxiety. Human beings have layers in case you didn't know.
I have a similar combination of traits and can fully relate to this video. Maybe not all introverts have these tendencies to struggle with, but I do, and so do a quite few other introverts I have got to know over the years. No extrovert I have talked with has admitted to having these feelings or shown this type of behaviour, so I think this person would be an introvert.
Introverts are saints or something like that? I don't think so, I'm introvert because I feel more relaxed when I'm alone, but that don't limit me to have feelings towards others: admiration, love, sadness, anger, etc. The difference is how we express that feelings, similar to the video.
The cliche of a young man angry at the world. In a nutshell. Sad. Instead of dealing with problems you opt out and withdraw. Takes a while to figure out you just need to talk to more people and sort out the rare gems from the landfill. No need to be angry so often, once in a while okay, but deal with the issue instead of brooding. Don't let the label of introversion excuse you of being petty, no one can read minds. You may need some space to recollect your thoughts and balance out your feelings, but don't make a habit of it. From this video I gather that the narrator has an unhealthy way of dealing with conflict is basically what I'm saying.
Being an introvert myself, I understand the feeling. Growing up, there were times I felt so pissed, I just kept it deep down, trying not to blow up. It's natural for me not to express how I feel most of the time. When some people in particular might ask how I feel, I'll try to convince them I'm really all right, even though sometimes I might not be. Now only very few people really piss me off and I can deal with it better.
Even as an introvert, I can't really relate to this. I don't think this is passive-aggressive technique benefits everyone and therefore don't do it. I dunno, it just seems extremely childish and doesn't solve any problems. I really don't like when my friends behave this way, it's not logical at all. I just tell them I'm pissed off. You don't have to be an extrovert to tell someone how you're feeling. It's pretty difficult to generalise almost half the worlds population and certainly isn't successful in this video. I'm not saying other introverts don't relate, but I'm saying just because someone is an introvert doesn't mean that they can't be direct, straight to the point, and logical. This video pretty much contradicts a lot of videos about introversion where you guys talk about the silly stereotypes. I love this channel, but let's not get carried away and force everyday things to be categorised. Everyone is different.
At least if your bottled up emotions blow up in someone's face, they eventually get out. I'm so introverted to the point where the mere thought of that happening with me scares me. My emotions just stay inside, and I only take them out on myself by hating myself and crying in the nearest bathroom.
Omg I’m an introvert, and this is so true!!! I was angry at one of my friends a few days ago for ignoring me in ssr when I tried to cheer her up, when she was upset for the stupidist reason, and at track after school she just acted like nothing happened, and started talking to me again. I was a little angry, so I just answered her with one word and stuff, and she still couldn’t see that I was upset!! I mean come on, take a hint!!
An an introvert if I don't want to be talked to and someone is talking to me I'm just polite, if someone comes up to you to talk to you you just talk to them because you have to. It doesn't make me pissed off especially not at them. I'm not trying to be rude but this doesn't sound like just 'being an introvert'.
Being an introvert guy is a total f*cked up to live. So I often express senseless rage so that they will leave me alone. I guess I have no right to have an inner peace.😔
There is this one girl in my class that is really annoying and she is really touchy feeling and all up in your business and if i told her that she was annoying me to the point of mental breakdowns at home because that is basically like saying her personality annoys me so much that is scream and cry about it by myself sometimes. That just wouldn’t be all that nice.
There's this one person in my class and they just keep accidentally annoying me and my friends and he's making school a terrible. So I've have my small group of friends we're really good friends (I'm in advanced classes so I had the same class last year and this year so I know my whole class at least a little bit) and we don't really like having other people join in our groups and conversations unless we know them. Anyway out of nowhere a quarter way into the school year and BLAM a new kid shows up. So after a couple of days of him going to my school he starts attaching himself to me and my friends. Now this person I don't know how to describe them besides saying things they do. He would blame everything on "oh I wasn't here for that" even if he was and the teacher even says he was. He cries over everything. He spends a whole period playing games in his laptop so his partner split up to work by himself. He cried. He gets a bad grade on a test. He cried. On a project the teacher wouldn't let him transfer to my team. He cried. WE PUT UP 3 LUNCH BOXES IN A ROW SO MY FRIEND DIDNT LOSE THE DICE WE WERE USING FOR THE GAME WE WERE PLAYING AT LUNCH! He cried. After calling us a nerd for playing said game not jokingly then asking to join and us saying no and pointing out we are the only the fact we are his only "friends". He cried. It's been a few weeks now all that stuff has happened he apologized. TO ONLY ME! And now is basically trying to bribe me with snacks at lunch to be his friend. Can someone please tell me how to get him to go away? I've been hinting at him from the beggining that I didn't want to be his friend but he doesn't get it. PLEASE HELP
im sorry if you find this offencive but this dosent explain every introvert for example me i show my emotions clearly but i hate social inneractions and humanity itself in a way
This explains a lot of me and my past. So many people ask me if I'm okay or if everything is alright. But, most of the time I was either depressed or didn't know what I felt. I was just stuck in a way. But this video has helped me and I can share it with others who are concerned of me. Thank you for that 😊
This is exactly how I get when I feel offended or upset. I'm so glad I found This channel. Thank you sooooo much for posting...I thought something was wrong with me for being different. Now I know, I'm just an introvert.
I’m an introvert and one day I listed off another introvert for something I didn’t do. This girl started spreading a rumour that I And he were going out. Since we were both male and female and we were the only two introverts in the year, she said we were going out. This was before I came out as bi to my friends. She spread the rumour and when I tried to talk to him about it he just yelled at me ‘LEAVE ME ALONE!’ I think he thought I spread the rumour.
I’m an introvert and when no one knew I was mad I can show I’m sad and about to cry very easily but when I’mad........I’m like.....LEAVE ME ALONE IN MY HEAD AND I IGNORE SO I CAN’T CONTROL MY FEELINGS SO I TELL THEM TO STAY AWAY CAUSE I MIGHT ACCIDENTALLY PUNCH THEM BECAUSE OF MY FEELINGS.......
How to tell if you’ve pissed off an introvert?
If they send you this video
The way you phrased this kinda reminds me of Alien guy memes xD
Did you get sent the link as well?
That means they took the effort to do so which probably means they want to violently murder you
I Have To Send This To People....
That's not good news for me. Someone repeatedly sent it and the moment I talked to them a few days later they basically fainted.
Oh dear.
[Introverts]
Me: Hey dad, I'm just gonna get something real quick
Dad: Alright
Me: *walking towards an aisle and sees friend*
Me: *starts to reverse back*
Dad: Did you get the thing you wanted?
Me: They're out of stock
weeping ghosts That's me lmao
#relatable
Why am I like this? (Not sad or mad or anything)
weeping ghosts oml thats me in a nutshell
Relate.
I always write 'stay away' on a large wedge of cheese when I'm pissed off. Works every time.
Lol! It does look like cheese
I was thinking the same thing. Lol
JDNFKEODJFKSS
nothing to see here 😂😂😂
nothing to see here can I marry u?
My greedy self thought the "stay away" sign was a wedge of cheese.
yeah me too
Caution: Deadly cheese
Eccentricity lol
I thought that too. XD
Same
how to tell if you've pissed off an extrovert:
He will tell you.
may the force be with you fellow introverts
Personal Power may the force ever serve you:)
They delete you from Facebook. Lol.
He might even slap you in the face.
You will have a broken jawbone and a nose.
Wow, there is so much we have no control over in life that makes life difficult. How many introverts actually commit a school shooting? Then they get arrested. I don't know why police has to exist and add to people's problems. My "Impact" a James Grider novel linked in my videos will make you hate police.
"Cool down... Ponder how I'm gonna kill someone..."
ME
eeyup, same
Me too
same
PresidentKiyoko my mind in a netshell
Yep, did that about an hour ago. I'm good now tho
Really liked this video!
I think that the narrator speaking about his personnal experience gives a new enlightment about such subject!
Moreover it makes it easier to relate to this and/or apply it to an introverted friend you did not undestand when they had a pissed off reaction
And it was good to remind us of the article since this video has a more intimate approach and then loses a bit of the factual aspect
Yalendaël I
Why is this comment from 5 months ago I'm confused?
Evil Morty Smith it's private release
5 months ago?
Turn and run.
I always sit on the corner of a classroom (in a chair), how do I turn and run at that point?
nah I won't bother I'll just stand here and accept my fate XD jk I want to be your friend XDDD I'm well I'm fine rlly
What if you don't have a reason to be pissed off? And you're just angry? And get annoyed easily?
Joel Lloyd Me too.
me, and introvert who gets jealous and pissed off easily.
@Bobby Papoutsis so Im a heartless Jerk? I get annoyed with someone, even with my bestfriends with no reason 😂😂 idk why.
@Bobby Papoutsis I think I should get tested 😂 Sometimes Its comes out in the wrong time.
That could be a sign of depression. It’s like you have some unresolved conflict and it’s your body’s way of responding to it
I often find that if I get really pissed I actually stop responding in words, I take an aggressive stance (bodylanguage-wise), and I start responding only with gestures like nodding, raising my eyebrows and tilting my head, all the while STARING into the other persons eyes as a warning to shut up and leave me alone or get hurt.
Luckily my friends know how to read me at this point, so they'll leave me alone to think, or they just get me a beer or do something nice, without talking to me or engaging in any way.
Smoke Weed Just to be clear, fuckface, it's not the beer that makes me happy, it's that they are nice enough to get it for me. I'd do the same for any of them in a heartbeat.
I use telepathy to warn people to stay away too.
I wish my friends (and literally everyone else) would get that I'm bloody pissed and don't want to start a conversation about smelly cheese or who's going out with who.
I’m somewhat like that as well
juicy papito Your friends seem considerate, maybe you should stay away from them since they're too good for you.
So…me on a daily basis
Spyder Pig same :|
Your profile pic ;-;
Vy Phuong HIS PROFILE PIC IS PERFECT FOR THIS LOL!
Love your profile pic made my day XD
Saaaaaaame.
Yeet
People to me(an introvert):
"You should be more social"
**Tries to be social**
**Interrupted, ignored, talked over**
**Stops trying to be social**
**Still keep bothering me about being social**
Me(my head): *shut the hell up*
Me: **Ignoring them**
Ben McClure imma just tell them to shut tf up then I had this before they think they’re your personal therapist but don’t even hear what you have to say
Ok
Nobody understands just how important this message is.
Relatives couldn't understand this to save their lives, to the point where I wish to end my own.
Why don't you tell them then? Nothing is gonna changed if you don't take any action. I used to be frustrated by my passive aggressiveness but now I can explicitly express my anger. I feel that much better than holding grudge for a long time and explode to rage outburst.
Do TinThinh I relate to him, too. Relatives just never understand this. As for me, I would never tell my parents because they'd either just laugh or get angry. I literally grew up being afraid of what my parents would do to me, so instead of telling them I was angry, I would let my rage dissolve into a fit of tears, and if I hadn't fallen asleep after then, I would start thinking suicidal thoughts. It got to a point where I was almost depressed, and I'm literally at that point now. Where that's leading to, I don't know.
Fuck you, I'll respond as late as I want
Telling an introvert to stand up to relatives...
It's right up there with "You just need to get more confidence" and "Why not try to be more assertive"
Yeah. You share genetics, so clearly they are either entitled to make you communicate what you're thinking, or they believe that they already know it despite you not communicating.
Naw.
I relate with every single thing said in this video. The worst part is that when people don't notice when we introverts are pissed, is they try to engage, which just makes us more pissed.
Craig Kogan Have you maybe considered the fact that not everyone is a psychic?
I'm not trying to blame others for not noticing. I'm venting a bit of annoyance and frustration.
Craig Kogan i know how hard this may sound, god knows i still have trouble doing this, but you should try telling the person in front of you that you’re pissed off, even if you’re not necessarily pissed off at them. Keep in mind that a lot of people have a hard time understanding the actions of others, so this may be frustrating for the other person as well as you. Bottling your emotions can do some serious damage on the long run.
It's good advice, and I've heard it before, but easier said then done.
I'm an extrovert and I know I'd try to keep you talking to tell me what's wrong so I could help fix it.... clearly the wrong approach. I'm trying to learn more about introverts so I can be much more sensitive to their needs.
I related to this so much. Too much.....
NANAFA 3 c
When I'm pissed I don't really show it at all. I might sound a little irritated. I stop being mad at people really easily too, because I feel bad for being mad.
I feel you completely.
Same
I hate the fact that you basically described me
This is video is completely a 100% accurate of my life. I have to let more people in, I need to let people see how I feel, cause it's very unhealthy.
And I'm way to good at it now, I can literally feel INTENSE hate and rage, and everybody might... just might suspect that I'm a little bit tired or not really interested but I usually can convince them that I'm content. It's quite amazing and scary I know, but even though it can be an excellent defense mechanism. It's not very human, almost other worldly actually. I need people I can trust, and I want to open up too... 😐(Myyyyy Poker Face!!! 🎶)
Jdabomb93 I’m like that. Unless I don’t want to be lol
Ugh exactly!!!
Hate is so strong i have one tatoo meaning rage and the other means wrath . ( my next one might be a musical note tho. toot toot )
Jdabomb93 i have 3 close friends but have never been to their houses
so i am very introverted
Max Tucker
Happy to make you feel validated. Lol 😊
I´m an introvert, too, and whenever I was mad, I´d give one word responces or talk about completely unimportant stuff. You know, smalltalk.
So, this created the connection "smalltalk = he´s pissed" in my brain, and this still affects me today. Whenever someone tries to have a nice little chat, I´d sometimes think they´re at the brink of a violent outburst of rage.
"- Hey, have you heard the latest hit? It's really amazing--
- CALM DOWN MAN, CHILL! HERE'S MY WALLET, PLEASE DON'T KILL ME!"
But seriously, it still affects you, even though you realize that that connection is pretty ridiculous?
Really liked the title of this video.
Nathanimations sarcasm? xd
I'm an introvert but I'm not that guy who just has a poker face when I'm pissed. If someone asks me how I feel my answer is always honest. Why? Because I hate lying even on the smallest things in life.
Same, idk why but for some reason being dishonest or having to lie usually kinda hurts me & i would rather try avoid doing that though not necessarily always but doesn't mean I never ever lie
Why I see message from 5 month ago.. the video came today..
I think YpuTube explosed.
Blood Light, yea I see wat u mean. UA-cam finally snapped. All the ads n stuff made it glitch. Lol 😂
Good, i'm not the only one
it was unlisted for 5 months
YpuTube explosed
Sometimes, an introvert just wants you to care.
1:10 well of course. They're looking in the wrong direction.
Fellow introverts, UNITE IN THE COMMENT SECTION!
Hey
Introooooooooooverts .................... assemble
Psych2Go ? Nah, more like *Introvert2Go*
Favorite quote "You want to perform CPR on me to stop me from dieing. No don't touch me."
Even though I'm an introvert and also have these problems, when I'm talking to another introvert and I notice they're pissed off (to me it's really easy) I often don't stand aside and am just being nice. Or eventually manipulate them either into explaining what's wrong or at least getting them to admit that something is wrong, even if they aren't comfortable sharing.
" *manipulate* them into explaining what's wrong"
oh boy
Kenny it's shitty innit? im quite manipulative at times and im trying to change myself but I dk how :/
I meant the word choice. "Manipulating" someone into explaining what's wrong, the word choice is a little... weird, to say the least.
Every introvert secretly wants people to know what's troubling them but they don't want to interact at the same time. However, say that they don't have to tell you what's bothering them but you're there to listen and accept if they need you and they might actually tell you.
Nojatha This kind of behaviour has actually led to some rants. But bitching about things when in bad mood is normal and there never were consequences. I personally do stuff I enjoy when I'm in bad mood and this, surprisinglyb often includes interaction with some people.
we should all learn some assertivness. life whould be much easier
This is exactly how my life works but when I get angry I just put on my fake happy face but when I'm about to lose it I just give my friends a friendly death stare that simply "says back off"
I have a triple problem with this because I'm introverted, I'm Aspergers, and I'm Aquarian, the most introverted sign. Lovely.
I had those two problems except the last one. It was pretty annoying to deal with. Sometimes I wouldn't catch myself giving off a negative attitude/tone towards that person.
The position of the stars day and month you were born have nothing to do with it. I know very extroverted aquarian.
my mom is an aquarian and is VERY extroverted... unlike me, an introverted capricorn
Same, except Taurus. The result is being way too deadpan all the time... and my voice is always near monotone
I’m a introvert but I’m a Capricorn..... so..
HEY THERE!!! IM A BIG FAN, and I'm and introvert. Im 12 and I don't know what to do with my life, I don't understand how to be like everyone else. I have a boyfriend and I try so hard to keep him happy,but I don't if I'm doing to much or to little. Im depressed,and people don't know, I don't know if it would make a difference if I told them anyways. I have 5 friends including my boyfriend. I need help what should I do to understand others ._.
Speight .B idk
Wow ...just wow
Kenna Hamilton yeah me eather
Just be yourself. Introverts are never going to be the same as extroverts, if that's what you mean. I too am an introvert, and I'll never be as intimate and cuddly with my friends as they are to eachother. However, if you find friends that respect that, it shouldn't be a problem.
Also, don't worry what to do with your life lol! You're only 12, and you've got plenty of time to decide. No one really knows what to do with their life, just live it and see :p
Speight .B That surely helped! Thanks for giving this useful advice.. smh
Don't be like everyone else, be yourself, it really won't matter when we are all dead.
Don't be a slave to anyone, especially not your boyfriend, they will use you.
Read a lot of books on the subject, about psychology, friendships and primate behavior.
Continue watching Psych2Go and also: ua-cam.com/users/charismaoncommand
I’m an introvert and OH MY LORD THIS GIRL IS PISSING ME OFF
My expression of my inside rage when really pissed off, a volcano about to explode with a horrible amount of shaking involved.
People always think im angry 😂
@Nindya Rahmalia
me o_o
the school why you are always angry
Thanks for this video, even my friends misinterpret my emotions. When I'm really sad they just think that I'm tired. When I scream inside my head and want to die my facial expression is just like the one when I'm tired.
the only emotion that people can actually see is when im sad but every other emotion they dont know. then they call me crazy when i release all my rage at them in ONE."RUDE".SENTENCE.
This was so emotionally beautiful. 🙏 My soul just had a deep inhale exhale experience. When you're an introvert it's equally important to activate a healthy combination of communication, remedies for dealing with intense emotions, allowing people to know the importance of respecting your time & space, as wel as an action plan to speak your truth authentically. Much love to all of those who aren't afraid to go within so they can reflect that inner light without in the most positive way. 💛
Uhhh, are you sure this is about introversion? Because I'm an introvert, yet I don't relate to this much. When I'm pissed of, I say "I'm pissed right now, I'll talk to you later, ok? Ok".
Yeah. This is just his own experience as an introvert. It, of course, will vary by person. It's a good thing that you tell people when you're pissed off!
Are you sure about that? A lot of introverts in the comment section seem to fail to relate to his experience, which suggests that maybe this doesn't have as much to do with being an introvert, rather it's more about not being straightforward enough?
Kenny same
Because nobody is 100% introvert. Some people have signs that other don't. The person that did this video had this one, while you didn,t have it. A lot of people can relate to it in the comment, too.
Bastobasto Err, signs of introversiom are just that, signs. The trait discussed in this video is just a trait some introverts share, this doesn't have to do anything with how much introverted one is. Most introverts love books too, but an extremely introverted person could easily dislike or even despise books (for whatever reason :\ ).
When I'm pissed off and people just don't get it, I tell them to stop talking to me before I explode.. I'm kinda not able to tell them they piss me off.. I just say I'm pissed in general bc I don't want to hurt them even though they piss me off and I kinda know that's irrational as hell but I'm doing it anyway.
"Ponder how I'm going to kill someone"
Why can I relate to this so much
Everyone tells me I always look pissed off, even when i'm not.
i'm in love with an introvert •᷄⌓•᷅
"I always wear a smile, because anything but a smile would make me have to explain, and I can't explain anyway..."
-Can't Decide by Black Flag
There's a lot of introverted videos. Like I'm one myself but damn,
When I'm completely pissed off, I keep smiling, I'm just shaking and sometimes even smile and cry at the same time... 😅
I'm pretty sure that's a bit more than being pissed off. I'm pretty sure that's called having a mental breakdown
when my family tried to help me they didn't understand because I'm introvert and they're extrovert
I take these video as pure entertainment - not an informative one. This is just his way of behaving when he’s pissed but not mine (and I consider myself mostly an introvert). And also these videos don’t really serve a purpose. The majority of the world are introverts and we all behave differently (not just when being angry). And if you do behave like this, do you expect people to accommodate you? Because I consider the behavior demonstrated in his video as just being passive aggressive.
How to tell you've pissed off an introvert:
They send you this video with no context.
One time I got REALLY pissed because I was doing an activity in pairs with my best friend and she wasn't doing anything but still tried to talk to me and distract me and I was like, I'm doing it all so just shut up, but she didn't seem to notice, then I tried to give her something to do, but she always would tell, I can't do that I'm not intelligent like you, and when I finally got her something to do she started asking me silly questions like, what would happen if I accidentally added an s to a word that wasn't supposed to have it? and I was like, just fucking erase it! and she was really slow so I decided to do it myself and told her to write the tittle of the mental map, but she wanted to do it exactly as the example and it was really hard to make her understand that she didn't have to make it that way, so when I finished I started doing the mental map but I think I was rude and I'm pretty sure she got mad and I apologized a few times but she told me it was was okay and that she wasn't mad but I knew she was. The next day she acted as if nothing had happened and I still don't understand it, I don't know whenever she was acting or she really wasn't mad
I know someone who's clueless about socialising, even more than me. He's no introvert but he's oblivious about everything, he also doesn't shut up about how hard his life is despite coming from a rich family and gets paid even though he has no job, a real spoilt brat. I can't even have a conversation with him, he'll call me and be rambling about nothing for 40 minutes while I'm just going "Yup. Mhmm. Yeah." every few seconds.
I find there's more and more people like this in the world, and it'll only get worse. I wish people would just leave me alone.
I'm so happy to see this, as of late my mom hasn't been giving me any space she'll do little things to set me off and when I just need a little space from her she gets even more in your face which would get me more aggressive, I keep trying to get away but she would then start shouting and yelling at me till I would come out, she doesn't understand or refuses to listen when I try to tell her, I just need a little room please leave me alone for a while, she'll then become infuriated and insulted that I said it but... it's becoming suffocating.. it's hard when you don't get to have that room for yourself and there's always prying eyes watching EVERYTHING you do
Ahh, I understand that . It is really annoying that you are being judged over the simplest of things when you do something differently than the way they want . My inner self starts screaming " Let me do my stuff in peace , stop looking at me "
I get it is hard to let people know when your mad but your making it seem that it is their foult comunacation is the better option I know that that is hard I am a true introvert at hard
jip huiswerk I agree, but it can be absolutely frustrating when they want to know the reason why I feel pissed. I don't want to talk about it and that's exactly what I say to them. Yet some still insist that they want to know and help. It's aggravating! "I just want to be alone right now", "... is there something wrong?" "I'll talk about it later" "come on, let's have a ch- "I SAID!! ... Just let me cool off for today, 'Kay?"
I understand their intentions, but that is just how I am.
I am an extrovert and do really care for my introvert lover. He is quite apprehensive and feels irritated when I care for him nowadays as he is not ready for a relationship and thinks he is giving me false hopes. What to do😥
I have this one guy that I dated once. Didn't work out so we broke up.
The problem here is after we broke up HE STILL FOLLOWED Me for a while it was just here and then but now this dude follows me EVERYWHERE. HE. WONT. GO. AWAY. I did every tactic a introvert could possibly create. But this dude never takes the hint. He makes terrible jokes and rephrases year old memes. The thing is when the few moments he did actually realise I wanted him tone he'd leave. AND COME BACK IN LIKE 5 MINUTES. Hes always trying to hit on me even though i DONT LIKE THAT. I AM AN INTROVERT. I LIKE BEING TREATED AS A FRIEND NOT SOME SENPAI SHIT. This seriously won't leave me alone it's too the point where my mom is concerned about this stuff. The dude still follows and still is yet to take the hint I don't like him...
I LIKE BEING TREATED AS A FRIEND NOT SOME SENPAI SHIT.
man i laughed way too hard at this
When as an introvert I pissed off I need someone close to open up Nd spit all the anger for whatever reason I was pissed off most of the tym just let it go Nd forgive Nd chill
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and emotions with us. While I was listening to it I was wondering why you don't try to express your emotions instead of swallowing them? Are you afraid of other people's reactions? Or are you afraid to get rejected? I mean after all nobody can read your mind and without proper communication nothing will change at all. Good luck for your further journey. 😊
Man, this is me at school. For example, I always have a straight up poker-face and it usually seems to people that I'm fine. But, I get annoyed at people easily, friends even, so I usually will blow up in the middle of class by just crying silently for no reason. Thankfully, for me, this only will happen usually 2-3 times per year. And it annoys me even more because then people realize I'm crying and start asking me why I'm crying or if I'm alright. I find it to be more comfortable when I'm doing work by myself and not talking to others. Reason being, I know that they'll annoy me to the point I'm just wanting to tell them to go away but I know it's rude to so I don't.
These is so relatable. what happens to me is I'm super pissed of is. Hi umm can you carry these for me. ok 😖 1 min later. ok I just need to get to my room and cool off. hey can you give me a hand. hey I want to show you something. 😡Ok then my sister pokes me me aaaaaaaaaaaaaa THATS IT. and then my mom comes in and goes don't me mean to your sister. Before you ask I have a big family anyway hope you have a good day XD
Tanzanight same , I have 6 siblings , 7 including me , and I'm an introvert , it's really hard and annoying . and I'm the middle child so my mom did the really pay attention to me that much , like she didn't care how I feel ,she's always too busy with the other kids
rip
Kent Michael Galang rip in peace lol
Good luck.
People are always saying, "Hey, what's wrong?" When I randomly, as though it seems, just explode with the emotion I'm having, usually frusturation, because I kinda get frusterated easily. I like to keep to myself because I feel like a blubbering idiot when I say what's wrong. Very few people know to leave me alone when I'm just sitting there laying my head on the desk or clenching my fist, and teachers are the WORST when it comes to this subject. I feel that I always have to answer an adult no matter what the subject is because that's how my dad taught me. So I'm trying to explain how I feel and they keep nagging me, then you get the snappy side of me. Its hard to do that because I'm usually a calm, relaxed, and carefree person who listens and understands your pain. But, we all have those days right? Anyways, if you get the snappy side of me, its not a good thing. Although I'm usually gentle, I can be very intimidating. Thing is I'm pretty strong, at least, according to the boys in my class. I can see that, I've proved myself in a game one year of how strong I can be, the downside though is that I have very low stamina and its hard for me to run around a track like a lot of my athletic friends, but that makes me me. I'm getting off of track, so I think I'll end it here 😛.
Thats the worst part its so hard for others to see your emotions and take the hint. My only tell is shuting down fully or my clenched fist with heavy breathing.
We dont want an outburst but its nearly inevitable.
Me: ( trying to calm down because I really pissed off after getting a lot of assignments )
My friend: (suddenly I make a small mistake)
It's all your fault!! (👈More like a jokes)
Me: (screaming) *WHAT THE HELL?!?! I DID NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!! WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?!?! TRYNA PICK A FIGHT WITH ME?!?! YOU BETTER SHUT UP YOUR MOUTH OR ELSE!!*
My friend: (silent and felt scared) wha- what's wrong with y-you?
My teacher: WHY ARE YOU SCREAMING FOR NOTHING,HUH?!?! YOU REALLY A PROBLEM STUDENT!!
Me: (whispering) Cruse you x100 it's all your fault x100 I literally gonna kill you x100
My friend: (terrifying)
*_THIS IS TRUE STORY, I ACTUALLY SCREAMING AT MY FRIEND AND I DIDN'T MEAN IT_*
this didn't answer the question.. it just told us about how to know YOU're pissed off
Yep, sometimes some ppl just take their own cases/opinions and assume its a general fact, tho i'm not complaining bout that in this vid
If I had a dollar for every time he said ‘pissed off’ I would put Bill Gates to shame
remember folks “introversion is a healthy lifestyle. and it’s everyone else’s fault that im not honest with my emotions”
Did you pay attention to the video? The speaker mentioned multiple times that it was his own fault for assuming others would automatically know how he was really feeling. Also, introversion *is* a healthy lifestyle, it's just a little different.
Ang3linahJ
Umm I'm pretty sure that guy was joking based on the way he commented that...
Jdabomb93 Oh. If that's the case, I apologize.
i was. but do keep in mind that there are actually plenty of people who genuinely believe what i jokingly quoted.
Can't believe 18 other people interpreted the first comment wrong too.
Someone will literally just say to me “are you alright?” When I’m completely fine and I’m like “uh, yeah...”
I guess the robot face makes them think somethings wrong
I don't think any of these points were about introversion. Being an introvert /outrovert simply describes how a person loses / gains energy. It doesn't always affect a person's behaviour in such a way this video described.
Thank you! I was a little annoyed at this video for that reason. I can gladly tell someone I want to be left alone while being an introvert.
Forgive them? No fking way. You've pissed me off, you made me an enemy for life. And this is why I have no friends at 37.
Well shit, I think I pissed off the girl I like...
time to go cry I guess, and then overthink on how I can make things better.
If you think about it, you created a really good opportunity to conect with her.
I mean now you are pretty sure you pissed her off. Go to her, talk to her and let her know. Probably just a few people will know that she is pissed off. If she has the feeling that you understand her when almost no one else does, she will get interested in you cause of that. Try it bro, just be yourself and be honest.
Fluffy Marshmallow Thank you for the comment, I will try that. I will give it a go but I am so worried I might be digging myself a hole.
That Guy Dude, I don't know how old you are. But I am 20years old, from Germany/Austria. I missed quite a few chances when it comes to girls, I kind of regret it. ;)
It might look like a cruel step for you now, but if you look back on it later it's not really a big deal.
Introvert here.
Instead of lying and saying you're fine you could just be an adult and say ' you upset me and we can talk about it after I've processed it."
You not talking to people that have upset you isn't an introvert problem. That's a YOU problem.
This video just fuels more misconceptions about introverts.
I totally just, *sigh* there are so many people that piss me off, Idk why they bother me...
Yeah, people are just idiots sometimes
Hopeless Monk I’m your 100 like, don’t get pissed off at me! ☺️😂jk
Yo I live with a Relative and can’t escape no matter what I do I have to eventually see and have draining meaningless convos every time I tried to leave my room jus to use bathroom or get water. Almost kills my motivation and I can’t truly be happy for the entire day knowing I’ll have to see them wen I get home.
ShyKill Zlist sounds about right
Me 2, I’ve almost knocked 50 people unconscious from pure rage
Is this a retake on a previous video? I remember seeing the same topic but I highly disagreed with the points in the video. I'm still not sure if this is introverted behaviour per say but this is much better then the last one. I feel like an extroverted person might use the same method in order to not bothered.
I was thinking the same thing, there was a crappy one about the same thing a few months ago. The girl was listing them, and I agreed with like 2 of 11. I only remember it because of how wrong it was
I'm glad I wasn't the only one!!! I even related to it but not because of my introvertness but only because I don't like confrontation (and not in the socially draining way either). It was upsetting to me how so specific they made the introvert personality when it's really not like that for everyone!
People piss me off, most people are shallow insufferable turd sniffers. They talk about nothing as if it's the most important thing in the world.
I also give one word responses to many questions because, I don't think that they would understand my way of thinking. A lot of people I know think I am weird because of how I talk (think), I am usually way ahead of them. Thinking too much all of the time.
I would rather be alone.
oops
When I ate on school someone pissed me off and it was my job to give everyone water
*our water on school is dirty AF*
and the person that pissed me off had a full glass of water but I was supposed to give a half glass
*i did like it was an accident*
Notification squad! X3
Kitty_ 94971 👉😎👉
Kitty_ 94971 ok
Tell me about it!!!!
There are those that want me to help them with math or whatever and I’m glad to help, but they don’t even put in the effort and sometimes act like they don’t care!! Then why should I?? As an introvert, I value my personal space and time, but I make way to help tutor people because I love doing it. They expect me to help them whenever they want, but never realize that I have my own life and I’m not a robot!
Edit: Anyone else?? 😝
I don't think this person speaking is an introvert. He's just an angry person and excuses himself to be an introvert. More like depressed. He even curses "why the hell"...
helenGD So you're saying I can't be an introvert if I have anger issues and depression? Which book of psychology did that come from? You are aware that people can have multiple issues, diagnosis and even personality traits, right? I'm an introvert who is asocial, but can get antisocial in minutes if not seconds. I've been diagnosed with clinical depression, social and general anxiety. Human beings have layers in case you didn't know.
I have a similar combination of traits and can fully relate to this video. Maybe not all introverts have these tendencies to struggle with, but I do, and so do a quite few other introverts I have got to know over the years. No extrovert I have talked with has admitted to having these feelings or shown this type of behaviour, so I think this person would be an introvert.
Okay. That's something introverts do easily!. :-)
Introverts are saints or something like that? I don't think so, I'm introvert because I feel more relaxed when I'm alone, but that don't limit me to have feelings towards others: admiration, love, sadness, anger, etc. The difference is how we express that feelings, similar to the video.
Oh wow he curses then he aint an introvert my ass, im pretty sure your the person who you acuse him as
The cliche of a young man angry at the world. In a nutshell. Sad. Instead of dealing with problems you opt out and withdraw. Takes a while to figure out you just need to talk to more people and sort out the rare gems from the landfill. No need to be angry so often, once in a while okay, but deal with the issue instead of brooding. Don't let the label of introversion excuse you of being petty, no one can read minds. You may need some space to recollect your thoughts and balance out your feelings, but don't make a habit of it. From this video I gather that the narrator has an unhealthy way of dealing with conflict is basically what I'm saying.
Being an introvert myself, I understand the feeling. Growing up, there were times I felt so pissed, I just kept it deep down, trying not to blow up. It's natural for me not to express how I feel most of the time. When some people in particular might ask how I feel, I'll try to convince them I'm really all right, even though sometimes I might not be. Now only very few people really piss me off and I can deal with it better.
Even as an introvert, I can't really relate to this. I don't think this is passive-aggressive technique benefits everyone and therefore don't do it. I dunno, it just seems extremely childish and doesn't solve any problems. I really don't like when my friends behave this way, it's not logical at all. I just tell them I'm pissed off. You don't have to be an extrovert to tell someone how you're feeling. It's pretty difficult to generalise almost half the worlds population and certainly isn't successful in this video. I'm not saying other introverts don't relate, but I'm saying just because someone is an introvert doesn't mean that they can't be direct, straight to the point, and logical. This video pretty much contradicts a lot of videos about introversion where you guys talk about the silly stereotypes. I love this channel, but let's not get carried away and force everyday things to be categorised. Everyone is different.
At least if your bottled up emotions blow up in someone's face, they eventually get out. I'm so introverted to the point where the mere thought of that happening with me scares me. My emotions just stay inside, and I only take them out on myself by hating myself and crying in the nearest bathroom.
Sounds like you were extremely childish. Glad to hear you've grown up.
Omg I’m an introvert, and this is so true!!! I was angry at one of my friends a few days ago for ignoring me in ssr when I tried to cheer her up, when she was upset for the stupidist reason, and at track after school she just acted like nothing happened, and started talking to me again. I was a little angry, so I just answered her with one word and stuff, and she still couldn’t see that I was upset!! I mean come on, take a hint!!
An an introvert if I don't want to be talked to and someone is talking to me I'm just polite, if someone comes up to you to talk to you you just talk to them because you have to. It doesn't make me pissed off especially not at them. I'm not trying to be rude but this doesn't sound like just 'being an introvert'.
When I’m mad at people and they keep pestering me, I get really passive aggressive, and almost always tell people that I’m “fine.”.
If I stop talking to you, and willingly avoid interactions with you, eventually you'll figure it out.
Being an introvert guy is a total f*cked up to live. So I often express senseless rage so that they will leave me alone. I guess I have no right to have an inner peace.😔
How can I get them alone at a fucking high school, there is no fucking space I can't get away from them :'(
There is this one girl in my class that is really annoying and she is really touchy feeling and all up in your business and if i told her that she was annoying me to the point of mental breakdowns at home because that is basically like saying her personality annoys me so much that is scream and cry about it by myself sometimes. That just wouldn’t be all that nice.
It's OK to lie to others, but never lie to yourself.
There's this one person in my class and they just keep accidentally annoying me and my friends and he's making school a terrible.
So I've have my small group of friends we're really good friends (I'm in advanced classes so I had the same class last year and this year so I know my whole class at least a little bit) and we don't really like having other people join in our groups and conversations unless we know them.
Anyway out of nowhere a quarter way into the school year and BLAM a new kid shows up.
So after a couple of days of him going to my school he starts attaching himself to me and my friends. Now this person I don't know how to describe them besides saying things they do.
He would blame everything on "oh I wasn't here for that" even if he was and the teacher even says he was.
He cries over everything. He spends a whole period playing games in his laptop so his partner split up to work by himself. He cried. He gets a bad grade on a test. He cried. On a project the teacher wouldn't let him transfer to my team. He cried. WE PUT UP 3 LUNCH BOXES IN A ROW SO MY FRIEND DIDNT LOSE THE DICE WE WERE USING FOR THE GAME WE WERE PLAYING AT LUNCH! He cried. After calling us a nerd for playing said game not jokingly then asking to join and us saying no and pointing out we are the only the fact we are his only "friends". He cried.
It's been a few weeks now all that stuff has happened he apologized. TO ONLY ME! And now is basically trying to bribe me with snacks at lunch to be his friend. Can someone please tell me how to get him to go away? I've been hinting at him from the beggining that I didn't want to be his friend but he doesn't get it.
PLEASE HELP
im sorry if you find this offencive but this dosent explain every introvert for example me i show my emotions clearly but i hate social inneractions and humanity itself in a way
This explains a lot of me and my past. So many people ask me if I'm okay or if everything is alright. But, most of the time I was either depressed or didn't know what I felt. I was just stuck in a way. But this video has helped me and I can share it with others who are concerned of me. Thank you for that 😊
This is exactly how I get when I feel offended or upset. I'm so glad I found
This channel.
Thank you sooooo much for posting...I
thought something was wrong with me for being different. Now I know, I'm just an introvert.
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Not only do I have a consent poker face, I have a resting bitch face.
Oh, uh, people don’t know I’m ticked off? All the time?
I’m an introvert and one day I listed off another introvert for something I didn’t do. This girl started spreading a rumour that I And he were going out. Since we were both male and female and we were the only two introverts in the year, she said we were going out. This was before I came out as bi to my friends. She spread the rumour and when I tried to talk to him about it he just yelled at me ‘LEAVE ME ALONE!’ I think he thought I spread the rumour.
I’m an introvert and when no one knew I was mad I can show I’m sad and about to cry very easily but when I’mad........I’m like.....LEAVE ME ALONE IN MY HEAD AND I IGNORE SO I CAN’T CONTROL MY FEELINGS SO I TELL THEM TO STAY AWAY CAUSE I MIGHT ACCIDENTALLY PUNCH THEM BECAUSE OF MY FEELINGS.......
my family and friends even thought that I am a ROBOT 🙂