After years and years and years of therapy I learned more about depression from this/you then I could ever imagine. I will listen to it again and again.... it is healing... you are a miracle worker ... Blessings
I am so glad this video is validating and helping you Cm Jones. It's such an important issue to address. I would love for you to connect to my free resources. There is a lot of helpful information on this and so many other topics related to recovery and narcissistic abuse. Love and blessings to you, Dear One. xoxox www.melanietoniaevans.com/freestarterpackage.htm
Thank you Melanie. Today is my 54th birthday and the depression is back. This was almost immediately helpful. Very insightful, practical, and experiential. Thanks!
I suffer from "Reactive Depression", that is a depression brought on, by sickness, and disability, so horrendous, and told "Leanne you will NEVER get better", those words, 25 years ago, brought me to the dirt, on the earth. "What, I said, "I have so much to do with my life", well I'm still here, and just came through a terrible exhasibation, caused by my Mother, I spent the last Thirty days in bed because of it. I am finally back in the real world, and I don't e-mail my Mom, and thanks to you, I am not going into a "Narcissistic Spin", and I refuse to ever again, I can't stand the sickness brought on by her, and I am willing to tell my doctor (no matter how important of a role she plays - the seed has been planted, by my NPD Gone Wild Mother) and I WILL NOt GO THROUGH ANY MORE FLAREUPS THAT MY MOTHER CAUSES IN MY LIFE, I AM DONE. Thank you Melanie - CHEERS.....xo
Thanks, I will keep using the program. What you described is exactly the beliefs that lead me to a suicidal depression last time. No more relapsing for me because each one is worse than the one before it.
Thank you, Melanie! I've been in horrific dive. I took a ton of notes & felt it resonate. I'm almost completely isolated, aside from mom and stepdad. I'm 41 & have a chronic pain illness that I deeply believe is related to ongoing lifelong trauma stored in my body at cellular level. I've tried different meditations for years, etc trying to find way to release trauma from my body. I was supposed to participate in webinar on Sunday & I froze up with social anxiety. I went into panic-which is insane! I just thank you for what you do. I'm going to look into NARP tonight & see what next steps are to take. Many blessings to you beautiful lady!
Awww Amberlyn, constant Chronic pain is so debilitating and you are so spot on, it will have roots in the way of trauma store in your body. NARP will help to shift those wounds up and out of your body, sweetheart. I would love you to have the free New Life starter pack too, the emails that come will be a daily source of information, love and advice you can digest at your own pace. It's your time to start feeling well. xoxox www.melanietoniaevans.com/freestarterpackage.htm
Thank you sooooo very much for your reply and for taking the time-I know you're super busy. It made my evening, truly! I'm thankful I found you...someone who has some action I can take and also believes trauma is stored in body. I've read so many books but that doesn't produce results. I'm gonna dive in...stay tuned! Lol. ✨❤️💫
This is such a groundbreaking video. One of the best I have heard and everything said is true. I was raise by a dysfunctional mother who emotionally neglected me. For years, I existed in a fog of emptiness and diconnection from myself. I suffered depression and anxiety. Always thinking and thinking why my mother didn't accept me even as an adult. The moment I can to the realization and acceptance that this will not happen my depression and anxiety went. No more depression for me. I l let go of the idea and longing and my depression went just like that.
Melanie, thank you! I just went through a major self-discovery. Being depressed for more than two years now, I found out (thanks to you) that my suffering was due to the impression that I HAD TO BE perfect, not making any mistakes. If I did a mistake, if I failed, I would not deserve to be loved. Not by me or anyone else. I believe that by changing this paradigm I can actually move forward and have the life I always dreamt of. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Melanie Tonia Evans Promise I won't. :) :) You are an angelic lady and delicate flower and that even after trauma and abuse you became a rolemodel for many. No bitterness or resentment. Truely admired and treasured!
Thank you so much dear Melanie! I am very grateful to recieve this information. You really make a difference in this world by sharing your experience and knowledge. This is true power❤️💃🏻✨ and unconditional love😃💕🐬
I am suffering depression and I love myself Anyway.❤️❤️❤️. I love myself enough to get to the bottom of why I am suffering from. That And Heal Myself 🙏🙏🙏 Thank You Melanie 🙏🙏🙏💞💕💞
Ms.Evans . . . . I wasn't going to watch this particular video as I do not feel depressed. . . however I am a subscriber with gratitude and love. . . . AND thought check it out because it's quantum love and resolution either way . . . precious info. 😆 Lo and behold I recently have truely done what you have described. . . accepted the wife I'm separated from and her repetitive shut down in communication as a means of control, and the current state of a marriage that doesn't seem to exist, despite the sad I feel and LOVING MYSELF AND ACCEPTING MYSELF❎ & MY PART THROUGH IT ALL (as you've described) FINALLY💖 !!!. NOW . . . I'm moving into a new apt in 2 weeks. new town . new goals and lifestyle plan /food as medicine/ $$$ as an abundance not a minus with proper respect for it's value and my personal value within related to it , and now I've got 2 jobs within a week when I had none. JUST SO EXCITED THAT YOU, MY DEAR, THROUGH YOUR SHARING HAVE CONFIRMED THE QUANTAM CHANGES TAKING PLACE IN ME THIS VERRY MOMENT. I feel like a new baby in this and thats ok ! in fact it's great. THANKYOU . ( hope this made sense. . . I'm pretty excited about this confirmation/ realization ❤😆 )
Yes I feel like I have lost everything my daughter granddaughter I feel mentally emotionally drained not unconditionally loving myself health issues and I am 57 feel there is no hope
My whole family are alcoholics feeling never going to have relationships with them. Mom and father everyone was your not loveable until I change I was told and criticized and told I had a personality disorder
How can you accept something when you have been a co dependent and so you feel like your life was not meant to be this way and you want to have control over it now but you have given control over to narcissists and it seems never ending
Aww sweetheart acceptance comes with healing. Through healing you will begin to embody that you were never meant to suffer and that this was only you responding to the trauma that you have been carrying within. Your joy-filled expansive is awaiting you. I would love for you to join my next free healing webinar where you can begin your journey back to you. melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar Love and blessings xoxox
@@MelanieToniaEvans Thank you Melanie. Can I please have some advice on how to use your book to start recovering? NARP isn't something I'm able to do currently, so is there anyway that I can stay on track with the book, despite not having the NARP Gold forum? Sending good wishes to you over in Australia!! :)
The psychopath took my only baby with $$$$ with the help of cps and expensive lawyers - this is not acceptable for me pls lost my divorce settlement done in my absence I had to leave the country to stay safe from my ex ... this is very tough
J F That is horrific. I understand exactly what you are be going through, because i've been in a similar sort of situation years ago. I don't want to go in to it here, because it is a very long story and there is no way for me to know if you even want to read it. I might not be able to help you out with the situation but you can share with me if you need to talk with someone who understands. You can message me privately via my channel. first click on my channel and click -About, and there should be a _send a message_ part. Click that. And if not, i wish you strength and hope that you will get help to sort the situation out.
You are genius - your program NARP is a must for all victim of abuse
Thank you J F, NARP is the answer and I am pleased you say this too. There is a way out of narcissistic abuse. Much love dear one xoxox
Its so cheap also
Would love to see it
Thank you. I almost cried. I cried inside. It changed my current state completely.
Awww timo, you are so welcome hun xoxox
After years and years and years of therapy I learned more about depression from this/you then I could ever imagine. I will listen to it again and again.... it is healing... you are a miracle worker ... Blessings
I am so glad this video is validating and helping you Cm Jones. It's such an important issue to address. I would love for you to connect to my free resources. There is a lot of helpful information on this and so many other topics related to recovery and narcissistic abuse. Love and blessings to you, Dear One. xoxox www.melanietoniaevans.com/freestarterpackage.htm
Thank you Melanie. Today is my 54th birthday and the depression is back. This was almost immediately helpful. Very insightful, practical, and experiential. Thanks!
Happy Birthday Kimberly lots of love to you sweetheart xoxox Here is a little 'pressie' for you
I suffer from "Reactive Depression", that is a depression brought on, by sickness, and disability, so horrendous, and told "Leanne you will NEVER get better", those words, 25 years ago, brought me to the dirt, on the earth. "What, I said, "I have so much to do with my life", well I'm still here, and just came through a terrible exhasibation, caused by my Mother, I spent the last Thirty days in bed because of it. I am finally back in the real world, and I don't e-mail my Mom, and thanks to you, I am not going into a "Narcissistic Spin", and I refuse to ever again, I can't stand the sickness brought on by her, and I am willing to tell my doctor (no matter how important of a role she plays - the seed has been planted, by my NPD Gone Wild Mother) and I WILL NOt GO THROUGH ANY MORE FLAREUPS THAT MY MOTHER
CAUSES IN MY LIFE, I AM DONE. Thank you Melanie - CHEERS.....xo
My pleasure Leanne, it's time to Thrive now dear one xoxox
Thanks, I will keep using the program. What you described is exactly the beliefs that lead me to a suicidal depression last time. No more relapsing for me because each one is worse than the one before it.
You are so welcome Theresa, keep working with NARP sweetheart then you will reach a tipping point and everything gets easier xoxox
Thank you, Melanie! I've been in horrific dive. I took a ton of notes & felt it resonate. I'm almost completely isolated, aside from mom and stepdad. I'm 41 & have a chronic pain illness that I deeply believe is related to ongoing lifelong trauma stored in my body at cellular level. I've tried different meditations for years, etc trying to find way to release trauma from my body.
I was supposed to participate in webinar on Sunday & I froze up with social anxiety. I went into panic-which is insane!
I just thank you for what you do. I'm going to look into NARP tonight & see what next steps are to take.
Many blessings to you beautiful lady!
Awww Amberlyn, constant Chronic pain is so debilitating and you are so spot on, it will have roots in the way of trauma store in your body. NARP will help to shift those wounds up and out of your body, sweetheart. I would love you to have the free New Life starter pack too, the emails that come will be a daily source of information, love and advice you can digest at your own pace. It's your time to start feeling well. xoxox
www.melanietoniaevans.com/freestarterpackage.htm
Thank you sooooo very much for your reply and for taking the time-I know you're super busy. It made my evening, truly! I'm thankful I found you...someone who has some action I can take and also believes trauma is stored in body. I've read so many books but that doesn't produce results. I'm gonna dive in...stay tuned! Lol. ✨❤️💫
I know this is 6 years ago, but I truly feel this is the most impactful, important video on depression ever made. Thank you Melanie 🙏❤️ xx
This is such a groundbreaking video. One of the best I have heard and everything said is true. I was raise by a dysfunctional mother who emotionally neglected me. For years, I existed in a fog of emptiness and diconnection from myself. I suffered depression and anxiety. Always thinking and thinking why my mother didn't accept me even as an adult. The moment I can to the realization and acceptance that this will not happen my depression and anxiety went. No more depression for me. I l let go of the idea and longing and my depression went just like that.
Is anyone else in the weird gray area between NOT believing they can heal yet ALSO NOT being able to handle the pain of their lives? Nightmare.
Dal Cloud yes
Melanie, thank you! I just went through a major self-discovery. Being depressed for more than two years now, I found out (thanks to you) that my suffering was due to the impression that I HAD TO BE perfect, not making any mistakes. If I did a mistake, if I failed, I would not deserve to be loved. Not by me or anyone else. I believe that by changing this paradigm I can actually move forward and have the life I always dreamt of. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Awww it's my absolute pleasure Zuzana xoxox
Thank you. Wow just wow.
You are so welcome Victoria xoxox
This is indeed life saving. Your content is amazing and healing. You are the best.
I can’t believe how incredible and profound this video is!!!😍 Thank you SO MUCH🙏🏻
*You are a sweetheart and I want to hug your breath out*
Love you Melly xxxx
Love you too GC xoxox please don't squeeze too hard!
Melanie Tonia Evans
Promise I won't. :) :)
You are an angelic lady and delicate flower and that even after trauma and abuse you became a rolemodel for many. No bitterness or resentment.
Truely admired and treasured!
The best I have to offer other women in my life "I'm worth it, and I'm BETTER" Leanne xoxox
Thank you so much dear Melanie! I am very grateful to recieve this information. You really make a difference in this world by sharing your experience and knowledge. This is true power❤️💃🏻✨ and unconditional love😃💕🐬
Awww thank you Yolalala, it's my absolute pleasure and I'm happy you liked it xoxox
That's was just what I needed to hear to complete my journey home. Thank you
My pleasure Nicole and welcome home sweetheart xoxox
I am suffering depression and I love myself Anyway.❤️❤️❤️.
I love myself enough to get to the bottom of why I am suffering from. That And Heal Myself 🙏🙏🙏
Thank You Melanie 🙏🙏🙏💞💕💞
You helped me so much! Thank you!
Ms.Evans . . . . I wasn't going to watch this particular video as I do not feel depressed. . . however I am a subscriber with gratitude and love. . . . AND thought check it out because it's quantum love and resolution either way . . . precious info. 😆 Lo and behold I recently have truely done what you have described. . . accepted the wife I'm separated from and her repetitive shut down in communication as a means of control, and the current state of a marriage that doesn't seem to exist, despite the sad I feel and LOVING MYSELF AND ACCEPTING MYSELF❎ & MY PART THROUGH IT ALL (as you've described) FINALLY💖 !!!. NOW . . . I'm moving into a new apt in 2 weeks. new town . new goals and lifestyle plan /food as medicine/ $$$ as an abundance not a minus with proper respect for it's value and my personal value within related to it , and now I've got 2 jobs within a week when I had none. JUST SO EXCITED THAT YOU, MY DEAR, THROUGH YOUR SHARING HAVE CONFIRMED THE QUANTAM CHANGES TAKING PLACE IN ME THIS VERRY MOMENT. I feel like a new baby in this and thats ok ! in fact it's great. THANKYOU . ( hope this made sense. . . I'm pretty excited about this confirmation/ realization ❤😆 )
Awwww D.L.X I am excited FOR you too. Have a wonderful Thriver life in your new place hun xoxox
This helped me alot thank you
My pleasure GoodasGold, I'm happy it helped hun xoxox
Yes I feel like I have lost everything my daughter granddaughter I feel mentally emotionally drained not unconditionally loving myself health issues and I am 57 feel there is no hope
Thank you for this amazing video❤️
Your videos are a treasure to me.
One of the best videos ever.
Thank you!
Thank you. Love your channel.
Yes my mom had depression and so do I
u can do this and also EFT and FEFT in conjunction
I’m suffering depression and I love myself anyway
Oh my gosh this is me right now!
Most of us can't just put ice cream on top of poop 😂😂 thanks for the laugh and all the insight ❤❤❤
Melanie I love you
Thank you beautiful
Love you too Empath xoxox
I tell myself that I will get better
My whole family are alcoholics feeling never going to have relationships with them. Mom and father everyone was your not loveable until I change I was told and criticized and told I had a personality disorder
How can you accept something when you have been a co dependent and so you feel like your life was not meant to be this way and you want to have control over it now but you have given control over to narcissists and it seems never ending
Aww sweetheart acceptance comes with healing. Through healing you will begin to embody that you were never meant to suffer and that this was only you responding to the trauma that you have been carrying within. Your joy-filled expansive is awaiting you. I would love for you to join my next free healing webinar where you can begin your journey back to you. melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar Love and blessings xoxox
@@MelanieToniaEvans Thank you Melanie. Can I please have some advice on how to use your book to start recovering? NARP isn't something I'm able to do currently, so is there anyway that I can stay on track with the book, despite not having the NARP Gold forum? Sending good wishes to you over in Australia!! :)
Thankuuuuyuuuuuuu ;))
Amen
The psychopath took my only baby with $$$$ with the help of cps and expensive lawyers - this is not acceptable for me pls lost my divorce settlement done in my absence I had to leave the country to stay safe from my ex ... this is very tough
J F That is horrific. I understand exactly what you are be going through, because i've been in a similar sort of situation years ago. I don't want to go in to it here, because it is a very long story and there is no way for me to know if you even want to read it. I might not be able to help you out with the situation but you can share with me if you need to talk with someone who understands. You can message me privately via my channel. first click on my channel and click -About, and there should be a _send a message_ part. Click that. And if not, i wish you strength and hope that you will get help to sort the situation out.
🌈❤️Thank you🌈💜
My pleasure Lady Barber xoxox
Dear Melania ¿do you have a private address where I can writre you. I´m on the edge.
Zungzu you can write to support@melanietoniaevans.com xoxo
you cant .