How to Build Authentic Relationships | The 4 Pillars of Human Connection
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- Опубліковано 2 січ 2025
- As human beings, our brains are wired for connection, making human connection one of our most essential needs. But how do we build authentic and meaningful connections with those around us in an increasingly polarised and self-driven world? Human connection specialist Simone Heng shares the 4 fundamental pillars of Human Connection - accompanied with actionable tips and powerful storytelling - to help us forge the genuine connection we all crave.
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Simone Heng is a human connection specialist and former international broadcaster for Virgin Radio Dubai, HBO Asia, and CNBC, among others. She is one of the youngest accredited certified speaking professionals in the world. With over 20 years of experience around the globe as a communicator on-air, on stage, and one-on-one, connection has always been her life’s work.
As a speaker, Simone inspires people to connect in a world thirsty for connection. She has spoken to audiences of thousands and for clients that include Facebook/Meta, Google, Lucasfilm, Adobe, UBS, Salesforce, SAP, TEDx, SXSW and The United Nations. Simone and her work have been featured in Forbes, Vogue, Elle, South China Morning Post, CNN, and many more.
Simone’s debut book on human connection, “Secret Pandemic: The Search for Connection in a Lonely World” is a Singaporean bestseller as well as an Amazon US Number 1 best-seller in the Social Science Reference category.
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Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am fand at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not. I feel your pain sister, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thout it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
She is very articulated and to the point❤
Simone, you robbed us of hearing the applause at the end of this breathtaking speech!
1st Pillar : Adjust your voice according to confront person and should be open body language .
2nd Pillar : Find common thing between you and other.
3rd : Vulnerability after good
rapport is established
4th Pillar : Being of service
I love this video. I always hear people say, "Building rapport, building rapport," but I never understood how. I've seen people not really building connections when they thought they were. Humans are hard-wired to connect. I really hope someday I can master this skill.
Great talk by Simone! The topic she addressed was very interesting for me. Great quality in audio, besides she has a nice voice. Congratulations for Simone. 🎉
Masterful! Your parents succeeded! Congratulations on a life evident of True Love, and thank you for sharing. Gratitude from Zimbabwe, Africa!
this is eye opener as id didn't recognize the difficult to connect with others outside my family, the task given ill use.
Authentic, naturally developed connections with people are under rated. You would be surprised to discover how acceptable it is to create and force connections with others.
Thank you! I’m on a new journey of building genuine relationships.
congrats
This was beautiful and so insightful. Thank you for this.
Aw 😢 this was really sweet in the end
Beautiful and very articulate! It was everything and anything that sums up human connection. What you have presented should be known by all. I am very grateful for you appreciation of this world and others. Thank you!
Beautifully said, thank you for making humanity better!
" human connection is a lagacy " ❤
i want to know more about networking can u help me
She is brilliant
Amazing talk Simone! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
Thank you so much for taking the time to watch it
why are there subtitles? She speaks English very fluently, and articulates her words perfectly clearly.
For people who can’t hear
@@amandafox6220 you connected the dots ha ha ha
Great talk, it made me to remember all the 4 steps and I will implement it in my conversation..
Thank you ma'am for giving soo much knowledge for free
Wow! How inspiring! Thank you for sharing your gifts. I will try this out. 🙏🌞
Very insightful! Thanks for this wonderful talk!
Great one. Thank you
Thank u so much for this, Simone! I watched through the entire thing, and not many videos are able to hold my interest for this long! Thank you for all the value you have added :) To the world and through your work :)
So happy this spoke to you
Incredible speech 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Well structured and nice tips
This is impactful speech indeed! Thank You So Much Simone for the inspiration! Stay Safe & Healthy >>> You're always be Protected & Loved by Enlightened Beings Up There , so you'll never feel unloved again! 🙏 ÖM Å MÏ DÈ WÅ HŘÏH 🕯🌷🌿🌍💖🕊🇸🇬🇦🇺
This deserves more views
Thank you this was insightful!
That's actually a great speech.
We humans made these things very complicated. It used to happen naturally with no trouble at all. Still if you go to a small town. People don’t have to think about anything, don’t have to pretend anything. This is all natural
Wonderful speech
Thank you very much
This was good
Hello madam i want something connection of human body link
What part of human body connect to other human body
I honesty, absolutely hate this. I hate the idea of being less you to build a relationship. Its so weird and manipulative and invalidating to self. I guess if its temporary but this is precisely what I hate about human beeeeings. I want to believe you can have power and connections without the bs. Gonna try to manifest it. Fingers crossed 🤞
I do not think this is what she is saying.
Ironically, she is saying just this by reducing heavily laden words like ”authenticity” and ”vulnerability” to mere utilities. Tools to win favor for purely commercial reasons. Of course she’s free to do so and as a presentation of tactics her presentation is quite cogent. The next step for her is to be more conscious, explicit about her unambiguous use of these concepts. Say how she’s reduced key concepts/terms and leaving room for them to mean more in non-commercial contexts. That’s how she’ll stop confusing listeners/readers more sensitive to breathless monitization of words deeply laden with more sacred meanings about human love and bonding.
Dang. Hadn’t watched the video but your comment already has me cringing. I’m Audhd and I’ve been told I should change my personality for years as if I could suddenly turn off Audhd. 😂
Thanks
Why would i talk to someone about something i know nothing about? What would i say?
I feel for Monica somewhat but maybe next time get yourselves involved with married men - let alone high profile? What else would you expect?
She does not look like Singaporean descent
Okay?
Story sounds contrived. How many 9 years old's do you know that think like she is telling you. That notice a persons accent and know what it means. Same old BS. Make something up that helps you make a sale and is comfortable lying to your face.
waste of time of the day