Should Newly Wed Couples Live Away From Parents? TOP Divorce Lawyer Vandana Shah Explains

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  • Опубліковано 3 гру 2024

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  • @sara1012s
    @sara1012s 8 днів тому +40

    We only talk abt boys parents, why we never talk about girls parents, they are also old they too need care. What will parents of single girl will do?? Why men feel shame to live in wifes house but they expect girl to leave her parents and take care of his parents.

    • @greenair57leaves
      @greenair57leaves 8 днів тому +2

      Correct

    • @neetatoor5191
      @neetatoor5191 5 днів тому

      True

    • @Optimistic_aspirant
      @Optimistic_aspirant 4 дні тому +1

      I have heard boys saying it's our tradition and shove the responsibilities off from their shoulders. Trust me. They never question such tradition or try to convince their family. Also some say stay single.

  • @kksivakumar6878
    @kksivakumar6878 4 дні тому +6

    Not a single married woman wants to live with in-laws with love and affection because they use to treat that newly married woman as a servant in initial stage of her life which she doesn't accept.

  • @AC-jg2dg
    @AC-jg2dg 5 днів тому +11

    Yes all couples should live away from both sides of families if they want to stay married.

  • @reetarawat4968
    @reetarawat4968 9 днів тому +23

    Its not lesser of two evils !! -
    Its about freedom to live and breathe .
    Girls these days are not ready to sacrifice their lives and career to dance at the tunes of in laws
    Life can be easy and fun if indians learn to respect space and privacy

    • @gurupratapsingh1809
      @gurupratapsingh1809 7 днів тому

      Freedom to boredom, privacy, space, breathing Zone, my time 😂😂😂😂😂 creatures like u aren't meant for marriage. Your type of "My Life" Breed can find and also having fun easily @ "OYO" 😂😂 husband, Saad-Sasur sab gaye Bhaad m, teri azaadi sabse pahle, sabse upar.😂😂

    • @komalshah417
      @komalshah417 7 днів тому

      Very true

    • @PT_thehappycat
      @PT_thehappycat 5 днів тому

      Exactly 💯.

  • @manjulainjeti6175
    @manjulainjeti6175 6 днів тому +8

    Who will take care of the girl's parents?
    The couple should take care of both sets of parents. All parents go through the same hard way of bringing up the children, educating them etc.
    So, why only boy's parents to be specially looked after?

  • @saavi9122
    @saavi9122 23 години тому +1

    I am not against the arranged marriage but as a girl its so scary to even think to live with the people I don't know there's no guarantee that i will be happy or not. And its the biggest decision of your life. I feel like its just luck if you got a nice husband and family otherwise god knows what will happen.

  • @jessaabraham
    @jessaabraham 4 дні тому +3

    First off 50 or 60 year olds are not old and helpless. 75 plus could be. Kids are not obligated to take care of the parents but they do when the parents are not toxic.

  • @madhugupta6016
    @madhugupta6016 7 днів тому +3

    All boils down to financiaĺ situations
    It is not possible to find a house nearby bcoz delhi is over crowded
    Sometimes when both r working their daily needs r taken care of
    Nowa days children r getting married in thirties so parents r usually approaching 60
    The more u stay with them the more difficult it bcomes to move out bcoz they r aging on the hand it is not fair to put so much responsibility on the girl
    It is a very tricky situation
    Thats why it is said health is wealth
    Discussion is endless responsibility is the word ppl r afraid thats why so many r not getting married

    • @cinnow
      @cinnow 6 днів тому

      Why can't the elderly live by themselves assuming they have the means?

  • @anitahcu
    @anitahcu 4 дні тому +1

    after two three years couple need nany for their child so go parents house.This is the reality what people do not want to say that couple need some one to help them so they remember parents.

  • @gunjan3575
    @gunjan3575 9 днів тому +15

    Ladki ke mummy papa ka kon dhyan rakhega? Ladki ko bhi to sanskar mile h apne mummy papa ka dhyan rakhne ke