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  • Опубліковано 25 жов 2020
  • Dr. Halstead, Dr. Manning And Dr. Charles work to diagnose a child who seems to have multiple medical issues causing them to suspect unintentional abuse from the child's father.
    Season 1 Episode 8 "Reunion" Dr. Halstead and Dr. Manning, who is back from maternity leave, treat a child with multiple medical issues whose father may have been unintentionally abusing her. Dr. Choi diagnoses an old friend with colon cancer. Reese and April treat a seemingly inebriated patient and Dr. Rhodes catches the attention of a high-profile surgeon preparing to operate on a Saudi Arabian prince.
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  • @adeshroberson
    @adeshroberson 3 роки тому +9814

    "Dr Halsted thinks he knows better than her dad"
    He does... thats why he has the word "Doctor" in front of his name

    • @sallysmith8767
      @sallysmith8767 3 роки тому +51

      @Oscar Ward tv show actually, Chicago med to be exact, search it up

    • @emily5098
      @emily5098 3 роки тому +17

      I see you don’t know many real life doctors honey

    • @adeshroberson
      @adeshroberson 3 роки тому +15

      @@emily5098 i dont know if your talking to me or.....

    • @sallysmith8767
      @sallysmith8767 3 роки тому +1

      @@adeshroberson haha me too...

    • @lololife8555
      @lololife8555 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

  • @irisastrom
    @irisastrom 3 роки тому +5173

    "MY DAUGHTER IS DYING"
    the daughter "👁️👄👁️"

    • @melody1535
      @melody1535 3 роки тому +8

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 роки тому +6

      😄😄IKR

    • @noelmaganhao6952
      @noelmaganhao6952 3 роки тому +7

      Omg i screamed of LAUGHING 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @loganlulu52
      @loganlulu52 3 роки тому +1

      nooooo😂😂

    • @rayantyeo
      @rayantyeo 3 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cowboi3853
    @cowboi3853 3 роки тому +6783

    I’m 3 minutes in and the dad is pissing me off

  • @mandyg8225
    @mandyg8225 3 роки тому +5826

    Take a shot every time the dad says “kiddo”

  • @TinyVA
    @TinyVA 3 роки тому +12491

    Girl: trouble breathing
    Dad: hey! Breathe.

    • @SaroDantra
      @SaroDantra 3 роки тому +474

      Homeless guy: Nowhere to live.
      Dad: Hey! Buy a house.

    • @nathantorresstanevil6958
      @nathantorresstanevil6958 3 роки тому +53

      Geox: "Allow me to introduce myself"

    • @3m1ly.63
      @3m1ly.63 3 роки тому +185

      Kid: drowning
      Dad: just swim

    • @abbiejohnson5220
      @abbiejohnson5220 3 роки тому +106

      Girl: im being bullied
      Dad: no

    • @Lola-ec8mx
      @Lola-ec8mx 3 роки тому +57

      @@abbiejohnson5220 he wiuld say : then dont be bullied

  • @Burncsb
    @Burncsb 3 роки тому +17649

    Doctor studies for 10 years, practices for 10 more only to hear "you think you know better than her father"... the hubris.

    • @flashstudiosguy
      @flashstudiosguy 3 роки тому +477

      I'm glad I'm not a Doctor because I'd be consistently up before a Tribunal because I responded with "I studied Medical for 10 years at {UNIVERSITY},where'd you earn your Medical Degree,on the back of a Cereal Box or did you buy it off eBay?" to every idiot who said "I'm his/her {RELATIVE},I think I know what's best/them better than you..."

    • @anjageudvzbb4tbjpdweichegb353
      @anjageudvzbb4tbjpdweichegb353 3 роки тому +3

      Die otngudi k

    • @leahwoolston3560
      @leahwoolston3560 3 роки тому +60

      @@flashstudiosguy honestly that’s something I’d say😂

    • @Cooletperson
      @Cooletperson 3 роки тому +101

      Wait- I have to study for 20 years to become a doctor?! Gurl bye I’m becoming a donut decorator

    • @miamccall241
      @miamccall241 3 роки тому +96

      I am disabled and therefore go to the hospital a lot. I can promise you that a lot of times the doctor think they know best. Every patient is different and in med school you just learn one or a few of the “possibilities”. The child is the one who knows the symptoms and feelings best, and a lot of times the parent can know better than the doctor. After having an undiagnosed sickness for 9 years, going to multiple different doctors (one of them was the best in our country) no one knew what was wrong with me. But one day my mom thought she found out what she was so she talked to the doctor, he tasted me and she was right.

  • @jaehong4316
    @jaehong4316 3 роки тому +4257

    The dad everytime he talks to his daughter: kiddo kiddo kiddo

    • @Selma.444
      @Selma.444 3 роки тому +69

      Nah to be honest it's so annoying and I find it weird

    • @Selma.444
      @Selma.444 3 роки тому +8

      Nah to be honest its annoying and weird

    • @kassyp432
      @kassyp432 3 роки тому +25

      Does this dad even know his own daughter's name?? Omg it's really... agh!

    • @haileyparsons3844
      @haileyparsons3844 3 роки тому +8

      Kassy P It’s a nickname, Most parents have a nickname for there kids.

    • @kassyp432
      @kassyp432 3 роки тому +28

      @@haileyparsons3844 - I know it's a nickname but in this little clip, it's very overused and I found that (personally) very cringy and somewhat unsettling. To me again personally, the dad was acting very suspicious (more so than the daughter) and I was just getting that vibe, that bad sort of vibe, where there could be more going on in the shadows. I haven't seen this in an episode yet so I'm just going off what I am seeing here at the moment. Hope that makes sense and you can understand. :)

  • @ardalrex
    @ardalrex 3 роки тому +1025

    guy: she has mitochondria
    me: mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell

    • @aeryn770
      @aeryn770 3 роки тому +30

      Mitochondrial diseases are long-term, genetic, often inherited disorders that occur when mitochondria fail to produce enough energy for the body to function properly. 😐

    • @juliedeckers1068
      @juliedeckers1068 3 роки тому +3

      Isn't the mitocondria something in your cel. I just had this at school so i don't really get it

    • @postwhateverwhenever
      @postwhateverwhenever 3 роки тому +24

      @@aeryn770 we are aware, thank you. op's just making a joke

    • @Joe-qt7zu
      @Joe-qt7zu 3 роки тому +1

      I only know this fact from memes

    • @blond009
      @blond009 3 роки тому

      Same hahahaa

  • @flashstudiosguy
    @flashstudiosguy 3 роки тому +9292

    "My daughter is dying and you're not doing anything!"
    Says the berk who won't shut up and stop getting in the way. T_T

    • @Joelle0821
      @Joelle0821 3 роки тому +12

      *jerk

    • @ishanagoswami2750
      @ishanagoswami2750 3 роки тому +49

      @@Joelle0821 Berk means 'fool' sooo they said it right.

    • @slk7605
      @slk7605 3 роки тому +21

      He did nothing wrong... The father advised the doctors of the medicines she was taking... The doctors should know before doing any procedure. The father may have gone where he is not concerned, but it is what an average father would do... (My apologies, my English grammar is bad...)

    • @awesomeolih4984
      @awesomeolih4984 3 роки тому +13

      @@ishanagoswami2750 berk is actually short for Berkeley Hunt.
      I’ts cockney slang for a rude word

    • @unabehrle7206
      @unabehrle7206 3 роки тому +1

      Tue

  • @ella-nq5zt
    @ella-nq5zt 3 роки тому +4003

    THE AMOUNT OF TIMES THIS MAN SAID KIDDO

    • @coco44
      @coco44 3 роки тому +32

      Ikr it’s annoying

    • @Luna-hs4xs
      @Luna-hs4xs 3 роки тому

      Yh 😂

    • @haileyparsons3844
      @haileyparsons3844 3 роки тому +1

      You haven’t heard your parents call you kiddo growing up.

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 роки тому +5

      @@haileyparsons3844 not even my Dad would call me 'kiddo'

    • @Luna-hs4xs
      @Luna-hs4xs 3 роки тому +1

      @@charmaine7781 yh which is realy weird 😂😂

  • @EmmaBGames
    @EmmaBGames 3 роки тому +12788

    The reason this type of abuse occurs is due in large part to negligence followed by a period of overbearing/controlling period where the parent pays attention to the child only in a particular circumstance.
    In this case, the father was being negligent of his child's needs during a period of emotional instability for both of them and would only pay attention to her if she was sick. So her body started to convert her emotional needs into physical symptoms and made her sicker so she would have emotional gratification from being sick.
    The reason this is classified as abuse is that there is a significant psychological impact placed upon the child here that may or may not be improved with time. 1. A negligent parent not paying attention to their child's emotional needs during a period of uncertainty 2. A sudden increase in attention for a period of time 3. repeated behaviour creates a pavlovian effect.
    The same thing will happen if you only pay attention to your child when they do their homework, they will do more and more homework to get your validation until they are not sleeping or eating properly due to only wanting to do homework to get your validation.
    Essentially, if you spend time with your kids regardless of the circumstances there will be no negligence or abuse. Make time for your children in your life and you will be a good parent.
    The same goes for partnerships or, really, relationships of any kind.

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 3 роки тому +184

      This reminds me of Munchausen’s.

    • @alfie4504
      @alfie4504 3 роки тому +477

      Thanks for the explanation mate, seriously underrated comment, 👍👍

    • @siriuswhite5814
      @siriuswhite5814 3 роки тому +201

      I've been in this kind of abuse. It took me years to figure that out and to get better.

    • @pasqualinamichelaconsiglio9391
      @pasqualinamichelaconsiglio9391 3 роки тому +164

      Well said. Do note, it can also occur if there is a parent/sibling suffering from an illness in the home.

    • @simonedegroot905
      @simonedegroot905 3 роки тому +82

      ... This sounds weirdly accurate to my parents' behaviour-

  • @lydia1630
    @lydia1630 3 роки тому +1686

    when she said ‘never seen someone improve lime that so quick’ i thought she was about to say ‘i aint never seen two pretty best friends’

  • @thomasplouffe1363
    @thomasplouffe1363 3 роки тому +7014

    A dad can unintentionally abuse his child? Oh god that’s making me terrified of being a dad even more

    • @fernandaescobar3721
      @fernandaescobar3721 3 роки тому +875

      Someone can unintentionally abuse their kind if they become too overbaring and overprotective. Specially when the parents are constantly scared of what the world might do tho their babies. They are trying to be good parents but at the same time, the child might develop anxiety and fear of the outside because of that overprotectivenes. Being a parent is the hardest thing in the entire world.

    • @Ebunoluwa13
      @Ebunoluwa13 3 роки тому +80

      This situation is actually on the kid. Hiw are you going to play up your medical conditions to make him happy to take care of you without thinking how it hurts him to see you suffer in the first place before getting better

    • @ghita3afrita
      @ghita3afrita 3 роки тому +222

      Cycles of abuse can make someone unintentionally abusive. Being protective and over bearing can also become abusive. Not respecting a child's bounderies and all can also become abusive. A lot of people aren't aware of their toxic traits and qualities and it can lead to them being unitentionally abusive, let alone as parents.
      It's scary to think about, but even being aware of it shows that you're not gonna be like that. You're gonna be a good dad, Thomas

    • @pretato9989
      @pretato9989 3 роки тому +256

      @@Ebunoluwa13 you can’t really blame it on the kid. She was probably young when her mom died, leaving her with a grieving caregiver. She found a way to make her dad less sad and repeated that. She is too young to see the consequences and moral implications of her actions.

    • @emilydebridge7145
      @emilydebridge7145 3 роки тому +56

      The way to stop that happening is to listen to others and admitting when youre wrong. I know you think you know how to parent but it is always a good idea to reach out to other parents and take advice from them. If youre really nervous, think about joining a support group. I know that sounds weird but it really does help!

  • @kabibabi
    @kabibabi 3 роки тому +5525

    So basically, she's faking to be sick, because in her mind she's thinking it's keeping her dad happy, because he is always so busy

    • @asmaaalmanea3515
      @asmaaalmanea3515 3 роки тому +51

      Kate Brown yes I think your right.

    • @magnum_cx8805
      @magnum_cx8805 3 роки тому +576

      Except she’s not faking intentionally

    • @antonellacallegaro5143
      @antonellacallegaro5143 3 роки тому +1127

      She's not faking it, she's getting legit sick because her brain thinks a sick body will get emotional attention.

    • @kabibabi
      @kabibabi 3 роки тому +104

      @@magnum_cx8805 ye, she's faking her illness physically, but mentally she is not

    • @eduardaarrais
      @eduardaarrais 3 роки тому +562

      @@kabibabi she's not faking it physically either. The mind associates being sick with emotional support from her dad, so her brain makes her body sick on purpose to get that attention

  • @ood9700
    @ood9700 3 роки тому +4241

    The guy playing the psychologist is an amazing actor. A lot of his dialogue doesn’t sound at all like a script!!

    • @mishkac9358
      @mishkac9358 3 роки тому +137

      He's actually a psychiatrist

    • @likony
      @likony 3 роки тому +108

      Right! Oliver Platt is an amazing actor, i really wanna see more of his work.

    • @rosieglows
      @rosieglows 3 роки тому +117

      Psychiatrist!. There's a HUGE difference!

    • @salvation551
      @salvation551 3 роки тому +13

      hes a psychiatrist

    • @acelovesdiyschristopher7023
      @acelovesdiyschristopher7023 3 роки тому +22

      Can u guys tell me the difference between psychologist and psychiatrist pls?

  • @jeneveeve.
    @jeneveeve. 3 роки тому +2282

    Why does the father kinda sound like a psychopath-

    • @Wavesinsomniac
      @Wavesinsomniac 3 роки тому +54

      Kitty PotatoPie the bad acting and terrible script « kiddo, just breath, blabla »

    • @saynotohookups
      @saynotohookups 3 роки тому +12

      @@Wavesinsomniac How should he be acting?

    • @The.English.Cup.Center
      @The.English.Cup.Center 3 роки тому +53

      @@Wavesinsomniac chill, he acts fine, you are over reacting

    • @Fuwaketsuu
      @Fuwaketsuu 3 роки тому +16

      +Hermonie Granger
      Psychopathy doesn't equal insanity.

    • @beekidsart1176
      @beekidsart1176 3 роки тому +4

      How the hell do you sound like a psychopath?

  • @Life.Be.001
    @Life.Be.001 3 роки тому +765

    Oml if he says "Daddy's here" one more time...

    • @katrinaloughran8939
      @katrinaloughran8939 3 роки тому +52

      Nah if he says "kiddo" 😭🤚

    • @ayaalkhafaji7201
      @ayaalkhafaji7201 3 роки тому +13

      @@katrinaloughran8939 nah if he blinks one more time....

    • @gone8113
      @gone8113 3 роки тому +14

      Nah if he breathes one more time 😭🖐

    • @Frostfern94
      @Frostfern94 3 роки тому +10

      @@gone8113 If he exists one more time.

    • @nickrecords22
      @nickrecords22 3 роки тому +2

      If he says open this door one more time

  • @chupaxf
    @chupaxf 3 роки тому +2678

    This is based on the Justina Petellier case, if anyone wants to look into the IRL story. It’s still not known if her case was conversion disorder or mito.

    • @plaguedoctor4030
      @plaguedoctor4030 3 роки тому +60

      @@lulebliri9776 Seems to me like it was a case of malpractice on the hospital's end. Supposedly the conditions they kept her in were horrible and the family were slowly refused visitation and a second opinion. Also, if it hadn't been mito she'd have gotten better after a year spent in the hospital, but she instead got worst, to the point where she ended up in a wheelchair. Sounds horrendous. I'm absolutely disgusted that the hospital essentially got away scot-free after what they put her through.

    • @blond009
      @blond009 3 роки тому +13

      Is there any documental or something?

    • @AlexanderMason1
      @AlexanderMason1 2 роки тому +22

      Just because a case is similar doesn’t meanp it is based on it. This show takes real life situations and makes up a story with it. It isn’t based of a specific case, certainly not the case you mentioned. This is a real psychological disorder that happens to people all over the world.

    • @noparanoiax
      @noparanoiax 2 роки тому +5

      Pelletier*

    • @andchaos1
      @andchaos1 Рік тому

      @@AlexanderMason1 yea, i think it was called hypochondria or something like that

  • @emily5098
    @emily5098 3 роки тому +807

    The camera thing is UNBELIEVABLY illegal

    • @corrina9830
      @corrina9830 3 роки тому +43

      Emily it’s a show not real life

    • @lyv3949
      @lyv3949 3 роки тому +47

      @@corrina9830 it’s a joke because I think that girl is in the Netflix original "unbelievable" lol

    • @emily5098
      @emily5098 3 роки тому +7

      @@corrina9830 did i das we need to arrest them? No. Did I say it’s more than a show to me? No. So why do you assume I see it as more than a show?

    • @nezukokamado9099
      @nezukokamado9099 3 роки тому +11

      Ok Karen

    • @ZeVioloniste
      @ZeVioloniste 3 роки тому +13

      Depends actually, there’s often cameras in ICU rooms. Obviously here it was wrong but some rooms have video surveillance

  • @megsaga
    @megsaga 3 роки тому +1261

    Her dad was literally like
    “DO SOMETHING!”
    The doctors and nurses: oh why don’t you do everything mr smarty pants if you think your so smarrrrt oooh

    • @rowan7843
      @rowan7843 3 роки тому +10

      Ok, this is the first comment to make me laugh

    • @megsaga
      @megsaga 3 роки тому +3

      @Miu - Iruma what did u say danganropa wannabe

    • @megsaga
      @megsaga 3 роки тому +2

      @Miu - Iruma bruh that was so ✨irrelevant✨

    • @phoenixxam5812
      @phoenixxam5812 3 роки тому

      @@megsaga lol

    • @carefreemee
      @carefreemee 3 роки тому

      I’m the 700th like~

  • @katiesmuts8308
    @katiesmuts8308 3 роки тому +475

    Dad: my daughter is dying and you’re letting her
    Also dad: it’s ok kiddo

  • @elfybella2805
    @elfybella2805 3 роки тому +586

    Her: *bReAThEs* “I’m okay”
    Me: hun u sure? U literally got doctors around you

  • @tawanagoredema8558
    @tawanagoredema8558 3 роки тому +714

    Nobody:
    The moment dr Charles is on screen
    Me: I WoULd LISTEn TO hIM IF i WERE yOU

  • @AbbyTuffin
    @AbbyTuffin 3 роки тому +572

    Don’t know much about whatever this is, but it sounds like the Gypsy Rose Case

    • @charmaine7781
      @charmaine7781 3 роки тому +8

      Oh yeah, I remember that

    • @madeleinepereira6277
      @madeleinepereira6277 3 роки тому +18

      It does sound like a Gypsy Rose case

    • @ChewieDaniels
      @ChewieDaniels 3 роки тому +51

      It does! I think the gypsy case was more to do with her mother’s issues with munchausen by proxy but in this case it appears to be that the father would only pay attention/care for the daughter (in her eyes) when she was sick, so her body would give her physical symptoms because the psychological impact of neglect was so strong. Almost like, if you only pay attention to your kid when they’re doing homework, if you do that enough then they’re gonna start doing more and more homework, that it then will impact things like eating and sleeping, just to get the validation from the parent.

    • @bimpsonlovesturg1819
      @bimpsonlovesturg1819 3 роки тому +14

      Nah the mother in gypsy Rose was wayyy wayy worse she knew what she was doing

    • @japan.junkie1715
      @japan.junkie1715 3 роки тому +12

      It’s not as extreme as the father presenting munchausen by proxy ‘symptoms’. To be classified as such, the father would need to be inflicting injuries or illness or making up that his child is sick. The however is more psychological on the girls part because she’s presenting symptoms merely as a projection of her own emotional state.

  • @777.za1n4b
    @777.za1n4b 3 роки тому +586

    Only true fans would know that this is a repost

  • @riv247
    @riv247 3 роки тому +189

    dad: "dO sOmEtHiNgGg!!!"
    can't u see they're tryna help her lmaoooo

  • @pokefan213
    @pokefan213 3 роки тому +2218

    he wants to know why he's being charged with child abuse, yet doesn't let anyone EXPLAIN WHY
    yea. makes perfect sense.

    • @irrelevance3859
      @irrelevance3859 3 роки тому +34

      Right lol. But to be honest he was acting very unnecessarily outraged and incompliant. Hence the need for restraint. I think both him and the daughter need psychiatry care

    • @Fif0l
      @Fif0l 2 роки тому +31

      Because he knows what they're going to say and he already rejected it.
      Violently rejected actually.
      While such abrupt reaction is far from evidence of anything, it does seem to happen more often in people who are actually afraid that this might be true.

    • @brmbkl
      @brmbkl 2 роки тому +5

      emotions don't have to be practical to others

  • @riaxo1659
    @riaxo1659 3 роки тому +528

    Girl dying:
    Doctors: Puts sum on her neck
    Girl: gets up. Im ok
    Dad: You silly girl 😂

    • @nickrecords22
      @nickrecords22 3 роки тому +2

      If I was a doctor I'd be like ZOMBIE LOCK THE DOOR

    • @oliviahilton1582
      @oliviahilton1582 3 роки тому +3

      They were about to cut a hole in her throat, she didn’t want that

    • @ava1872
      @ava1872 2 роки тому

      @@oliviahilton1582 exactly

  • @stonks007
    @stonks007 3 роки тому +443

    4:38
    "I need to watch them, without them knowing I'm watching them"
    Bruh I know he meant good intentions but without context, that kinda sounds creepy

    • @flashstudiosguy
      @flashstudiosguy 3 роки тому +14

      Can't argue but then, if I was suffering psychologically, I'd have no objections to Doctor Charles monitoring me, the guy is a marvel!

    • @sluvvr
      @sluvvr 3 роки тому +4

      @@flashstudiosguy agree

    • @nellyketa1767
      @nellyketa1767 3 роки тому +3

      No it's not creepy... If they knew she'd continue pretending

  • @HolowatyVlogs
    @HolowatyVlogs 3 роки тому +224

    The casting choices for bad parents are always phenomenal!

  • @emberlightss
    @emberlightss 2 роки тому +47

    "Before I call this man an abuser I wanna rule everything out" Dr manning acting as if she hasnt called CPS in a majority of episodes🤣

  • @alisonl616
    @alisonl616 3 роки тому +200

    After watching these I can never watch a movie normally again. When I watched a movie a person started overdosing, I was yelling at the tv “hold her neck! She might break it! Call an ambulance and continue talking to her! Makes sure she can breathe!”

    • @bluexstar871
      @bluexstar871 3 роки тому +6

      Same it's like I'm turning the director of the movie!

    • @qwq1rq
      @qwq1rq 3 роки тому

      Same!i was like 👁👄👁 why? Just why?

    • @nondumisoxulu2397
      @nondumisoxulu2397 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @fabplays6559
      @fabplays6559 3 роки тому +8

      Be careful, these shows aren't always 100% medically accurate. x'D Don't apply this "knowledge" in real scenarios, get proper training.

  • @majastepnicka382
    @majastepnicka382 3 роки тому +420

    He loves his daughter but at the same time he’s an incredibly ignorant human

  • @liz_zie_2555
    @liz_zie_2555 3 роки тому +594

    The dad wants nothing more than his child - his precious innocent darling daughter - to be safe so he does everything possible to make sure she is. Even if it means unintentional abuse . He doesn’t realise he’s doing it because he thinks what he is doing is ok. It’s things like when they get a little pinch and asking if the child is ok that’s normal but then they keep on doing it over and over again even after the child has said it’s ok and that nothings wrong then the father gets angry and starts to shout at her because he wants to know she’s ok. That’s the sort of unintentional abuse that’s happens

    • @yourblueboy
      @yourblueboy 3 роки тому +4

      Gypsy Rose would agree...

    • @Friskycandy
      @Friskycandy 3 роки тому +4

      Pfft yeah you clearly sound like someone who supports toxic families

    • @liz_zie_2555
      @liz_zie_2555 3 роки тому +2

      @@Friskycandy no I literally based everything I said off one of my only memory with my dad I wouldn't support that

    • @liz_zie_2555
      @liz_zie_2555 3 роки тому +1

      @@Friskycandy all I was saying was an example of what could happen for people who didnt understand

    • @azzi2407
      @azzi2407 3 роки тому +2

      No. Its not that. Due to evolution, a child and caretaker will try to make eachother happy. The girl saw her dad sad, so her brain used a physical illness to make her dad look after her. Seeing that the illness was making him less sad and the let the child get the attention they needed the brain unconciously kept this up. It wasn't abuse it was a cycle of them trying to look after each other, the way that a child needs to make their care taker happy (subconciously) and the father's traumer of losing his wife motivating him to be overbearing on his daughter.
      (Also the things like her stomach hurting and feeling dizzy and stuff could be linked to high amounts of stress, I may be wrong but this is usually how I react to high amounts of stress)

  • @lexicorrie8840
    @lexicorrie8840 3 роки тому +68

    "that girls a walking pharmacy" HAH

  • @rhobbs9417
    @rhobbs9417 2 роки тому +277

    This kinda stuff really gets to me, how unfair it can be. You’ll have situations like this and families get ruined but when I was a kid I spent so much time in hospital, begged and cried not to be sent home, to go anywhere else. Heard a billion times “if I had a magic wand and could change anything, what would you want that to be?” And I’d always say I want to go live anywhere else, I didn’t care if it was an institution or the streets, just anywhere but home. They always sent me back though. Sometimes I wonder how different my life would have been if I’d just picked up a knife as a kid and defended myself, I still regret not doing that because nobody else tried to help me. Should have taken matters into my own hands

    • @autxmnsdaydreams.7112
      @autxmnsdaydreams.7112 2 роки тому +6

      Awh I'm so sorry to hear that.. but if you don't mind me asking.. what really happened?

    • @LordofFullmetal
      @LordofFullmetal 2 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry that no one helped you.

    • @shon_6762
      @shon_6762 2 роки тому +2

      WHT happened to you?

    • @user-pz3cx3zf5b
      @user-pz3cx3zf5b 2 роки тому +1

      What happened?

    • @lisacatley-furlan8279
      @lisacatley-furlan8279 2 роки тому +3

      R Hobbs
      I am sorry that you were not heard by the people who you thought were suppose to be there to help you every time that you went to the hospital.
      The results of your situation depended on why you were admitted to the hospital, the laws and support systems of that time in the country in which you live.
      Just because we want our circumstances to be different does not mean that it was possible.
      Whether you were neglected, abused, or used and manipulated...
      Other options could lead to worse circumstances.
      ......foster care is not always better than your home of origin.......
      .....institutions can treat you as if you were an adult even if you are a teen/preteen, where you would have been responsible for your behaviour.
      For example:
      If you got angry at home and threw a glass of orange juice at your father you could be grounded, verbally abused or beaten.
      If you threw that same glass of juice at a foster parent you could be removed from that home and become a ward of the state.
      If you threw it at a staff member in an institution you could have been charged with assault.
      Ideally, we all should have a primary care giver that bonds with us and loves us as we deserve.
      The reality is we are all animals with gifts and not everyone uses their gifts.....
      Either through ignorance or choice.
      Not every family of origin or country of origin has the infrastructure to support the being best of humanity.
      I hope that you find your peace.
      You may find peace in purpose.....
      For example:
      Like helping children that are in the same situation that you found yourself in.
      Look into supporting children directly or in lobbying the government to develop or change the support services so people like you do not feel unheard and unprotected.
      Best of luck on your life journey.

  • @SimplyBelle5
    @SimplyBelle5 3 роки тому +90

    I swear the dad would say: "You're not living? then live."

  • @janabakka740
    @janabakka740 3 роки тому +75

    I’m sorry but started laughing when he said the girls a walking pharmacy

  • @jamienoah5159
    @jamienoah5159 2 роки тому +54

    Have you noticed she always immediately improved when about to have a needle? She's possibly afraid of them and that's what switches her brain to being ok again. Only a possibility though

  • @percyyt7201
    @percyyt7201 3 роки тому +72

    Love how the parent panics, you can already tell he’s not a good one

    • @brmbkl
      @brmbkl 2 роки тому +11

      I agree with your sentiment, not your wording;
      a parent panicking is normal.
      What he did was not panicking, he was actually calm, ready to get his fix.
      Also; Going on these simple signs is how cops who are amateur body language experts overreact. Just because you are nervous doesn't mean you're guilty. It can mean you have trust issues, ...

    • @vishkorg
      @vishkorg 2 роки тому

      U r crazy

  • @isaac592
    @isaac592 3 роки тому +341

    I’m surprised that girl doesn’t have saliva dripping down her head from all the forehead kissing

  • @geman741
    @geman741 3 роки тому +41

    "Don't tell me what to do, my daughter is dying and you're letting her"
    in another world manning steps back and goes "ok, you do something"

  • @darraghcallaghan775
    @darraghcallaghan775 3 роки тому +50

    When doctor is in the room 😂
    When dad is in room 🤮🤢

  • @angelxsx6737
    @angelxsx6737 3 роки тому +59

    My mans telling her to berate when she can’t breathe -

  • @GisamokanNa
    @GisamokanNa 2 роки тому +34

    Dr. Manning is so confusing. In another episode, she immediately asked Sharon to call Child Services on the mother of a baby she mistakenly diagnosed with SBS. I was even shocked that she went with it promptly while she was still waiting for an ultrasound result.
    And now, she saw videos that there's something wrong, insists on finding out more and not "labeling this guy an abuser."

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 Рік тому +8

      Yup, I think it's a bit of overflow among writers thus they lose consistency of character between each author.

    • @Midnight0Mistress
      @Midnight0Mistress 10 місяців тому +1

      She is not the best written character in the show

  • @freedom1stfighter
    @freedom1stfighter 3 роки тому +96

    Glad that a series picks up this topic. I have a conversion disorder with seizures myself and people, sometimes even medicals who aren't from the field mistake it for intentional simulation which it isn't

  • @katiewhite8729
    @katiewhite8729 3 роки тому +34

    I can confirm I’m also jealous of the hedgehog socks

  • @maisy_lol5332
    @maisy_lol5332 3 роки тому +609

    You can see the way her dad is tryna cover up obvious abuse.
    •he gives her pet names and uses them unnaturally.
    •Her father acts as kindly as somone can with a child.
    •And he acts like hes trying to focus on the child 100%
    I know this is fake but, its just clear ways to hide past abuse.

    • @haileyparsons3844
      @haileyparsons3844 3 роки тому +65

      Parents calling there kids kiddo and sweetie isn’t weird, it’s normal. Especially when you’re really young. Tons of good parents use them.

    • @maisy_lol5332
      @maisy_lol5332 3 роки тому +12

      @@haileyparsons3844 I bet that it is just how much he uses them.

    • @akeelahthompson5531
      @akeelahthompson5531 3 роки тому +10

      @@maisy_lol5332 Every dad calls their child kiddo

    • @salomelau
      @salomelau 3 роки тому +75

      However, you're missing a huge chunk of context as to why both father and daughter are behaving the way they do. Simply put, Michelle's body may have converted emotional symptoms into physical ones because she thought her dad would only take care of her if she was sick, hence the many physical symptoms and trips to the hospital.
      It might be solely her dad's fault for neglecting Michelle while he was grieving the loss of his wife, but that means he wasn't able to cope with the death in a healthy way and it's not entirely his fault as well. People need time to heal, but it's 1000% much more harder to grieve when you are also a caretaker.

    • @maisy_lol5332
      @maisy_lol5332 3 роки тому +3

      @@salomelau thats what i was getting at hes trying to act like he cares about her in public

  • @rowdyreidgirl
    @rowdyreidgirl 3 роки тому +270

    I've done some research. The name is Rivers Syndrome. Based on a nurse in 1952, Charlotte Rivers, who was in charge of a girl with Osteogenesis Imperfecta. Every time she got better, she would all of a sudden have a relapse. Rivers syndrome is when a caregiver provokes a condition in a dependent so they'll continue to be dependent upon them and won't leave ever.

    • @rochelloelofsen6471
      @rochelloelofsen6471 Рік тому +9

      Is it similar to munchausens by proxy?

    • @rb2k196
      @rb2k196 Рік тому

      @@rochelloelofsen6471 Nope. Munchausen's by proxy is completely intentional on the behalf of the caregiver and usually there's nothing wrong with the actual person.

    • @bfftriptv8062
      @bfftriptv8062 Рік тому

      @@rochelloelofsen6471 yes the only difference is Rivers syndrome the child is actually sick in the first place but when they get better they cause them to be ill again and munchausen by proxy is when the child is never sick in the first place. Munchausen by proxy is worse as they invent something that was never there.

    • @sonavarghese737
      @sonavarghese737 Рік тому +2

      Like in series sharp objects?

    • @soreenloaf7519
      @soreenloaf7519 Рік тому

      That's not rivers that much

  • @StealthMode3924
    @StealthMode3924 3 роки тому +148

    Thank god that MRI room door was locked. That man was completely mentally unstable and a danger to his daughter.

  • @rayantyeo
    @rayantyeo 3 роки тому +61

    The acting bro,
    “Daddy,my stomach.” *yeets the iv stand and proceeds to Le fake faint*
    “Needle now!” *puts hot sauce*

  • @kalopsiaxkalon5576
    @kalopsiaxkalon5576 3 роки тому +102

    My question is, how is he paying for all this

    • @simjaeyunss
      @simjaeyunss 3 роки тому +3

      Wait what? Are these scripted?

    • @dracosgirl3766
      @dracosgirl3766 3 роки тому +3

      @@simjaeyunss it is it’s a show

    • @simjaeyunss
      @simjaeyunss 3 роки тому +5

      @@dracosgirl3766 thanks for telling why wasn't I aware of this 😳

    • @kerimca98
      @kerimca98 3 роки тому +2

      @@simjaeyunss I mean... camera cuts, the professional video quality etc... didn't occur you? Lol

    • @simjaeyunss
      @simjaeyunss 3 роки тому +1

      @@kerimca98 actually this video was my first ever one watching of Chicago med so

  • @georgia-nz3ut
    @georgia-nz3ut 3 роки тому +70

    Ik they can’t bc of contacts but I wish they would upload longer clips 😂🤧

  • @femylafi
    @femylafi 3 роки тому +132

    It would be interesting if an episode could show how implicit bias can impact treatment and outcomes for patients and doctors. Sure it would create a sand storm.... However if they get it right... There could be a message... In there...

  • @haileyparsons3844
    @haileyparsons3844 3 роки тому +278

    Guys a parent calling there kids nicknames like “Kiddo and “Sweetie” is perfectly normal, don’t know why most people don’t.
    Tons of good parents do this to there kids more so when they are younger, as they get older, they don’t but if there are sick or worry sometimes they do it as a comfort thing because it’s feels familiar and safe, since it reminds you of childhood.

    • @coco-mw3mp
      @coco-mw3mp 3 роки тому +8

      IKR, everyone is like “ oMg I hAtE hOw He SaYs KiDdO , UrRrGgGgGgGgGgHhHhHh”

    • @shimmershine6902
      @shimmershine6902 3 роки тому +17

      Nobody says “kiddo” that much. That’s the point people are trying to make. If you can’t see that, you need to go back to school and learn how to read.

    • @shimmershine6902
      @shimmershine6902 3 роки тому

      @@coco-mw3mp You too. Jesus.

    • @haileyparsons3844
      @haileyparsons3844 3 роки тому

      Shimmer Shine Yeah that do, if the kid is sick or pain. They do it as a way of comfort.

    • @coco-mw3mp
      @coco-mw3mp 3 роки тому +1

      @@shimmershine6902 sis I know how to read,back off

  • @AAdityaBiswa
    @AAdityaBiswa 3 роки тому +18

    I've asthma I literally had difficulty in breathing while watching this video. I had to rush to my inhaler, felt like I was gonna have an asthma attack.

  • @oreowinx7812
    @oreowinx7812 3 роки тому +57

    Father:DO SOMETHING
    Doctor:BRUH we are litterly helping that child on the floor right now

  • @kikimino522
    @kikimino522 3 роки тому +13

    He says “kiddo” one more time i swear to god

  • @pearlp1197
    @pearlp1197 3 роки тому +17

    "Alright, this is how were gonna do it" and and ad for cheerios comes on

  • @Mousy677
    @Mousy677 2 роки тому +8

    cannot get over the very calm "are you okay?" in response to her falling over in a dead faint

  • @ggxmy
    @ggxmy 3 роки тому +16

    this always happens, once every few months i have a video from this show pop up and i watch one and it spirals me into an addiction for at least a few days 😳

  • @melakkazim
    @melakkazim 3 роки тому +20

    Girl: passes out
    Doctor: “aRe yOu oKaY?”

  • @Stormzy448
    @Stormzy448 3 роки тому +10

    I love how the nurse gives him directions like don’t invite me to your situation

  • @ciennalaurie4790
    @ciennalaurie4790 3 роки тому +22

    I still don't understand why people fight with doctors like they know more than they do. Just because one doctor said something does not mean it's right. That's why when I got my glasses we went to 2 different optometrists to make sure that it was the best option.

    • @mattlow2199
      @mattlow2199 2 роки тому

      Hi there? Hope you’re fine and staying safe?

  • @alexandraw4698
    @alexandraw4698 3 роки тому +26

    I hope you guys know that this is what grieving can do to people, that man doesn’t realize what he’s doing but him grieving over his wife has put him in an unhappy state. His daughter was literally making herself sick so he would spend time with her, I’m guessing maybe he’s worried about his daughter getting sick because the mom was sick

  • @kkav4586
    @kkav4586 3 роки тому +23

    He needs help. But he refuses to listen, because the thought of something being wrong is too scary. Too horrifying. So it must be impossible and these "horrible hospital people" are just trying to take away HIS daughter.
    Honestly sad and terrible, since this is actually very common. But with most people, there isn't anyone to intervene. Or it comes too late.

    • @jenzmalloway2447
      @jenzmalloway2447 Рік тому

      I would love to see him watch the nanny cam video they took.

  • @ellapakpoy1074
    @ellapakpoy1074 3 роки тому +25

    I love how he knows best until she really deteriorates then he’s like “jUsT BrEaTh KiDo

    • @mattlow2199
      @mattlow2199 2 роки тому

      Hi there? Hope you’re fine and staying safe?

  • @ayulleya.a6710
    @ayulleya.a6710 3 роки тому +20

    Dad: do something!
    Bro wat do u think they're doin

  • @h4f1znfs86
    @h4f1znfs86 3 роки тому +74

    Imagin if Drew lynch was the dad. It would have been perfect.

  • @avboom1_fortniteyeet853
    @avboom1_fortniteyeet853 3 роки тому +36

    If you have Amazon prime you can watch all of them

    • @swapniljaiswal9849
      @swapniljaiswal9849 3 роки тому

      But it's till season 4 only in India

    • @MsClumpid
      @MsClumpid 3 роки тому +1

      But it's not available in my country 😞

  • @hazel9451
    @hazel9451 3 роки тому +10

    Shes also the doctor on The Vampire Diaries!
    And Spencer's sister on Pretty Little Liars!

  • @dayna2435
    @dayna2435 3 роки тому +34

    girl: *has trouble breathing*
    the dad: bREatHe swEEtiE

  • @avboom1_fortniteyeet853
    @avboom1_fortniteyeet853 3 роки тому +45

    These videos are so addicting

  • @alokitachakraborty3981
    @alokitachakraborty3981 3 роки тому +42

    Me: Watching the video...
    My mind: only and only thinking bout Dr. Meridith Fell -_-

  • @pingquana5941
    @pingquana5941 3 роки тому +15

    this man says kiddo more that tony stark does

  • @nyahgriffiths56
    @nyahgriffiths56 3 роки тому +96

    I’ve just watched vampire diaries and dr Manning is in it and she is a doctor in it

  • @fireedits01
    @fireedits01 3 роки тому +38

    Yes!!! Finally a new clip from Chicago med!

  • @Salma-iy4hf
    @Salma-iy4hf 3 роки тому +30

    Dad: “still wanna convince yourself there is nothing wrong with her-“
    Add: “Im A vEnOUs”

  • @oreomilkrblx
    @oreomilkrblx 3 роки тому +6

    her: *choking*
    him: breathe

  • @byak6687
    @byak6687 3 роки тому +11

    Dr. Charles breaking rules again, but for the greater good

  • @zohrazeba3811
    @zohrazeba3811 3 роки тому +4

    Good choice on those words.... and the neglect is so nuanced and very beautifully etched out

  • @readeabook
    @readeabook 3 роки тому +9

    Oh my gosh I remember watching a clip of this ages ago. The bit about tickets to wicked, I was like ohhhh.

  • @mst4418
    @mst4418 3 роки тому +10

    yo- the acting is so spot on 😍🤩

  • @merykhan97
    @merykhan97 2 роки тому +4

    The dad is the kind of patient relative that i hate dealing with as a doctor. He literally asked a doctor if he knows better than him !!! Not To mention how disrespectful he is to everyone.

  • @jadebolt4416
    @jadebolt4416 3 роки тому +45

    could be wrong but at 1st glance thinking Munchhausen/ Munchausen by proxy

  • @ssee2326
    @ssee2326 3 роки тому +8

    Stay strong

  • @nyangweso
    @nyangweso 3 роки тому +10

    The dad is incredibly infuriating.

  • @itsbellaboogacha8055
    @itsbellaboogacha8055 3 роки тому +86

    The dad is really narcissistic just like mine used to be 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @1CYW1CYX0
      @1CYW1CYX0 3 роки тому +1

      Awe

    • @mayafromdb4543
      @mayafromdb4543 3 роки тому +1

      Awww 🥰

    • @curses0206
      @curses0206 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @fabplays6559
      @fabplays6559 3 роки тому +4

      I didn't get the impression he was narcissistic, he just fears for his daughter after losing his wife to breast cancer.

    • @waterflutehope
      @waterflutehope 2 роки тому +2

      @@fabplays6559 maybe you don't know narcissists very well

  • @brigittejoan7139
    @brigittejoan7139 3 роки тому +3

    I have watched this show through UA-cam clips alone...so addictive

  • @j.nekelo6745
    @j.nekelo6745 3 роки тому +62

    Did he really just say “ do something “ I- HES TRYING MAYBE IF U SHUT UP HE CAN DO HIS JOB

  • @CaitlinRoseNel
    @CaitlinRoseNel Місяць тому

    The way Doctor Charles speaks to hospital patients is amazing! He’s so kind & patient. 🤩

  • @SashoukaMMV
    @SashoukaMMV 3 роки тому +8

    Phew! Good thing I have prime. I’m not into hospital shows, but I needed to know the rest.

  • @space_girl931
    @space_girl931 3 роки тому +22

    When I saw her standing up in the background I started choking on laughter. She was just there like: 👁👄👁

  • @rachelbonnie7703
    @rachelbonnie7703 3 роки тому +10

    This channel deserves so much attention

  • @shannon4189
    @shannon4189 3 роки тому +1

    yall really need to watch the whole episode, i love one chicago sm

  • @gracie6974
    @gracie6974 3 роки тому +17

    season 1-4 of Chicago Med is free on Amazon Prime if anyone's wondering

    • @josephine.france5
      @josephine.france5 3 роки тому +1

      IS IT

    • @gracie6974
      @gracie6974 3 роки тому +1

      @@josephine.france5 yess, nd chicago fire, only season 1-4 thoo

  • @purplekittyofficial460
    @purplekittyofficial460 3 роки тому +5

    "Stop what the hell are you talking about" 😂😂😂

  • @lexxi2160
    @lexxi2160 3 роки тому +14

    I clicked on this and I was like MELISSA! (Pretty little liars)

  • @AllDaGoodUsernamesWereTaken
    @AllDaGoodUsernamesWereTaken 2 роки тому +2

    The way he immediately says "so your saying its My fault?" in an angry way instead of in a concerned way like cares more about being blamed hmmm 👁👄👁

  • @songloh3480
    @songloh3480 3 роки тому +71

    Dr Charles gut has a hire IQ than a Harvard student