@@nihaalnadeem9427 never! This diagnosis will not change the pain in any way! Btw now I'm changing my job. Seems fine and there are more benefits than in the current one. But I keep being afraid if one thing - that it might be boring!
this makes me feel so much better about myself. i’ve grown up as a kid that was considered annoying and problematic because of my chaotic behaviour but in reality i just needed to learn, but teachers only chose to label me and use punishment as a way to “educate”. spoiler: it did not work! people need the right environment to learn and grow
@@PsychologyRefresh haha, most of the time the ”hard way”. I often get surprised by how easily offended some people are. I can adjust if I know that somebody is very easily hurt, but I tend to avoid working with or socialize with ”closed minds”. As I said, I tend to push ideas, not the person but I know that many people can not separate the two.😊
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As an entp I do t care what your opinion is, I only expect you to have one you can articulate is you’re going state yours. I love it when someone holds their ground, even and especially if I disagree. I just want people to be conscious
@@PsychologyRefresh I did for a long time, but I would frame it as an educational debate more than an argument most of the time. I will not spar on a topic I’ve not explored. As an ENTP we tend to quickly understand the core of any issue or topic quickly, but we also will then pick apart the entire thing and see how many ways it can be put back together. This is what makes us great debaters. We often genuinely can see where someone is coming from because we’ve fledged out that angle. The argumentative aspect comes into play when we are with a personality type that is more emotional vs. logic based. My personal growth with this comes from realizing that many personality types just don’t enjoy taking the time to think that much. The arrogance of ENTP’s is often what gets us in trouble. I’ve had so many situations where I imposed my dominance of knowledge by way of brute assertion. My need to “win”, and winning I did, often embarrassed people. Like a lawyer we seek that singular moment where we can see the logic of our perspective sink in, or illogic of their angle become exposed to their own psyche. I now no longer enjoy this unless ethics are involved. I now more gently approach people with alternative perspectives, and if they bite I then get a chance to display my understandings in a format that is non-combative. I have started to also reserve relinquishing my personal stance on most topics and just simply enjoy “giving people something to think about” rather than imposing. This has made me quite the counselor for many people, as well as the invited person of interest in many circles. Getting off on dominating an argument we create is far less constructive than we convince ourselves. An ENTP here in the Information Age should thrive if we but could learn to harness and capitalize on our genuine multitude of curiosities.
@@BBond88 Yeah idk about others, but most of the time people either really love me or despise me. As i am very "egoistic" by their standards and i like to be very sarcastic and make jokes about everything. A lot of the times people tend to think, that i am just jerk and want to roast me or make fun of me. Which they do often, but i do not take it seriously, so they then start to understand, that i am not in fact being mean. I am just getting bored so i am poking at people to get a reaction. I feel like ENTPs also tend to try to know everyone in their circle(whichever circle it is) sometimes i am labeled as very talkative and people think i am lazy, cuz of that, but that is not the case. I need to learn where other people comes from. I dont argue with people nowadays unless they are the type to argue and i know them well. As i do not want to hurt others with my cold rational thinking.
@@BBond88 Honestly, it sounds like you have grown up, my friend. Speaking as a fellow ENTP, there is a difference between arguing for the sake of arguing and arguing for a purpose. I also taught debate for yours, which is quite gratifying tbh. LOL✌️
I don’t know how it is with other ENTPs but I usually group my thoughts into arguments (pro/contra/neutral). If i feel bored and know a person is sensitive to a certain topic, i choose a side (mostly contrairy of theirs) and start an argument even if i don´t agree with the side i choose. Being able to look at a topic from all sorts of subjectif perspectifs make a lot of fun and using this knowledge for or against other people is even more fun. Though i sadly tend to think lower of people who don’t defend their side or don’t choose a side in a argument because to me it is a lack of intelligence eventhough it’s just a different personality type.
I often find myself playing devils advocate for other ppl. I can’t see when someone likes it or doesn’t. Some ppl get put on their heels and look uncomfortable. My favourite ppl are ones that smile when I throw a point that makes them question their logic. We will go back and forth until we get to a conclusion that is usually hilariously callous… There’s a lot of, “if we do x it will hurt y” and Than we’ll look at each other and say, “Ah… F**k em’” Gotta break a few eggs to make an omelette Me realizing this thread won’t get read by anyone because it’s all ENTP’s …but how did I get here? That’s the question 😅
A few years ago I worked a job that actually wasn't that bad. But after a few months I felt my motivation lower. Felt tired, stressed, moody and sick of everything. I talked with friends and they all said those were symptoms of a burn-out. Which didn't make any sense because my job was really easy and I had a lof of freedom. I talked to my doctor and she diagnosed me with the opposite. A boreout. The lack of mental stimulation there actually made me sick. I've worked in really stressful and fast-paced jobs before but those 6 months of being bored at work was worse than all of it
I have been in the exact situation, I would beg my supervisor to give me more responsibility, because I would become bored of easy jobs. It frustrated me to no end when they didn't want to give me more responsibility, probably because I was and still am very young. When I didn't get more responsibility I got depressed and my effectiveness in the job decreased tremendously. So, now I am studying to become an optometrist, and I just pray that I won't be bored of it too quickly, but judging from talking to professors, being in lectures and other more experienced optometrist, I am certain that I have done the right choice, as every persons eyes are different and everyone has unique challenges and problems with vision.
This. I was at a call center job and that bored me out of my skull, and so I switched back to a more busy job in foods service while training to become a physical therapist. Part of why I want to do that is because every body is literally different and solving their issues and working with them hands-on is so exciting to me. Thanks for this insight.
I feel that a few years ago I did an internship in a bakingfactory the job itself wasn't that bad but to do the same movements all day long made me regret my choice within a day I somehow survived 2 weeks there and I'm not thinking of ever going back
Hahaha my Dr has "diagnosed" me with the same! & then WORSE- when I was a coffee barrista, I had to get my eyes checked because I thought I was going near blind at work.... The optometrist told me it just sounds like my eyes are bored at work and can't stay focused 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤣🤣
An argument does not have to be a personal thing, even when I'm personally attacked it's ultimately still someone's perspective, and they are entitled to it, it doesn't make it true or false.
took the personality test and got ENTP, thought it was wrong because i wasnt very extroverted...i hate small talks, or conversing for no reason(like say, greeting someone i know) and i mostly imagine different scenarios or talk to my self.
You may be an INTP then. Myself, I definitely became much more extroverted over time. Still dont enjoy meaningless small talk, but have become much better at socializing and far less shy.
@Tiwana Moulton I took the test and at first got INFJ and INTP. Both felt very relatable to me, that got me thinking. I'm not checking every personality type and have to say that I can see myself in every personality type. My conclusion, these mbti types are as legit as your horoscope.
This explained a lot of things to me. I worked in a call center once. The once charming me became so impatient that even my TL was shocked. One year was too much for me. Now as a teacher, even teaching the same subject for 4 consecutive semesters bored me out of my mind. Let me just say that my notebook turned into a notebook for songwriting, coffee-making, poetry writing, and investment all in one year. I am glad that I was given at least an insight as to why I behave the way I do but, it can get really frustrating.
ENTPs are the best! I am an INFJ male and my ex was an ENTP. However, she broke up and then ghosted me for her career. Initially I was angry and heartbroken, but I later realized that True love is not always being together, but rather doing anything for the happiness of the person you love, even if it means separating from them. I didn't want to get in the way of her dreams and so I let her go. I still love her very much and I pray to God that she has a great life ahead. After she left, I was just waiting to fall in love with another ENTP or maybe an ENFP. But I never met anyone. It's been 4 years now, but I am still waiting for my soulmate, I hope I meet her soon. God how I wish there were more ENTPs in the world. You guys are so damn amazing and yet less than 3%, women even fewer....tough luck finding a soulmate.
ENTP is the best gift or prize some one can have, we are the best optimizers and also paladins. if one of us ignored or ghosted you means they are disappointed or got hurt numerous times ( we will never notice you that we got hurt, we just trying to upgrade you so you can fix that ) and have nothing to do. i will more forward like always. but don`t worry INFJs and INFPs are the only people that can makes us interested in them. its just a matter of potential after that.
entp woman here, my ex was also an infj and I also broke up with him but Ive never been able to forgot our relationship. I admired his strong values and how he was so proactive about them.
@@eunitalunita I see, I saw your playlists and liked videos. And I was kind of shocked as my ex used to learn Spanish too! I don't know why you broke up or whether or not you are looking for love right now, but if you are okay with it then I would like to get to know you.☺ Do you happen to be from India by any chance?
as an ENTP i dont really see myself as super argumentative. But, i do tend to look at things from a different pov even if i dont agree with it, which means i can get along with alot of different people; and might seem a bit odd because of my strange pov. i do hate small talk and possibly might act awkward because my head is somewhere else and much rather would talk about deeper things.
It often takes hours for me to discuss some interesting topics with my intp husband. The longest we discussed for 12 hours skipping meals around how to set up a system to distribute chores. 🤪and we abandon that system the third day
I use to think I was dysfunctional because I couldn’t really be friends with a person until we had argued at least once. Is arguing a love language? 😂 Mental-sparing is probably a better description for it. 😅 I fell in love with my husband because the first conversation we had was an argument. He stood his ground and when I proved him wrong he still liked me after. 😂 I know. I have high standards. 🤣
@@Strange9952 YOOOOOO damn finally someone that voices the same doubts ive had regarding the whole mbti compatibility thing (well maybe not the whole thing but at least in the entp context i find the information divergent from personal experience; the people i find myself being most attracted to/find intriguing or really resonate with are rarely infjs but rather intps/entps most prominently. to the point where i have developed this xNTP radar sorta thing that actually turns out to be accurate most of the time. you can just tell they percieve things in a similar way you do and thinks differently from what we consider normal people...they are so distinguishable (and so charismatic to me) fr. can someone else relate
I grew up being the only child among my siblings who talked back to my parents and openly questioned their views. I was the most talkatike and most open about what I wanted. My siblings thought I was cocky and arrogant even selfish. They may still see me like this.
Im an entp ( apparently). Whenever I listen to a topic with two sides I only ever what to know which is right. not to me. And not to them. but what just IS right- Idk does anyone else feel like this?
I do the exact same thing when debating, because you know, I defend whats right. So when I'm debating against a closed minded person, it just gets so damn frustrating. Because you can't win, it's like debating with an idiot, they won't change their mind nor accept whats right rather than what benefits them or their beliefs, as well as so their ego doesn't get shattered.
As an ENTP, I hate it when people agrees with me. Unless it's in an argument with another person. So if I am arguing with another person and someone from the audience agrees with me, only then will I accept someone agreeing with me.
Hello, ENTP here Does anyone else that shares my personality type find themselves doing things differently just to experiment? I know the video talks a lot about being in our heads and experimenting theoretically, but like actually doing a thing. Such as using a fork with the less dominant hand just to see if you can, or something. I know the example is a bit goofy but there are lots of other things that I do just to kind of experiment with. Flirting is something really fun to test out. See what does and doesn't work for example lol.
I love to use my non-dominant hand to do tasks, it’s so interesting to see how the brain and body tries to compensate while making new synapses. Or if there is a recipe I’ve made following the directions to the T the first time then seeing how close I can get without measuring or looking it up again and do it just from memory. I also tend to play devils advocate to observe how tightly someone holds on to an idea of something or how they view themselves. Like if someone seems to take themselves too seriously I’ll bring my inner child out to the max to poke the bear or if there doesn’t seem to be enough respect or serious tone I’ll bring out the stone face critic. It’s all a big experiment 🤗
Yes, but it's not necessarily just to experiment but because I generally believe there's ALWAYS room for improvement. Additionally, doing what everyone else does just doesn't sit well with me. Logically speaking, we're never going to improve as a species if everyone does what everyone does. One way or another, someone has to shake things up and I have no problem taking that role, even at the risk of making them worse (mistakes are the best teacher)
WHY THE HELL does the guy at 3:05 scene have his leg propped up on the desk, like a dog taking a pee? And WTF is he wearing? But it doesn't end there. This video is overflowing with weird video clips. 0:20 Weird mushy face illustration 0:40 WTF is up with the horse mask? 0:46 AN ALIEN WITH PIZZA???? 1:50 WHY is that chic yelling? 2:22 that guy looks like a serial killer. 2:57 what body-type is that? 3:59 why is that couple mad at ME? 4:16 A HEAD FULL OF BOBBINS AND BUTTONS? WHY???? 4:27 What's up with the eyebrows on that... girl? Boy? Trans? 4:55 What the fuck is that dude smiling at? Creepy!!!! 6:12 I assume that girl is on LSD 7:50 WHY ARE THOSE PEOPLE STARING AT ME???? 9:27 That chic with the pink hair is weird I summary: I can only assume these video clips were edited together by aliens, who have never interacted with actual humans.
The emtp's are awkward one really got me, I hate small talk since I don't know what to say and am always thinking about something bigger that the person wouldn't understand
I have known for a long time I’m ENTP… over the years diplomacy has gotten better. I have also realized with a manager that understands my way… we cannot be beat. Period.
This video is so good it revealed the truth about the habits we do and beacause of this habits i really suffred from being told to stop doing that or just learn when i tell them what i think and i really got into some big problems because of it also family problems but this is not my fault and i hope that people watch this video to understand us
I LOVE CHALLENGING INTELLECTUALLY MY BOYFRIEND, I JUST LOVE THIS LOVELY INTP BOY, HE MAKES MY HEAD ALWAYS FULL OF IDEAS, I LOVE HIIIIMMM I LOVE TO HEAR WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT ANY COMPLEX SUBJECT BECAUSE HE'S JUST SO UNIQUE IN HIS RESPONSES!!!🖤
I have always wondered why some people get so tired and defeated when they have have a debate some ppl even dislike me, whereas I was just warming up and my feelings towards them never changed even when they say something i dont agree with. Lol. I now also understand why am more silent when people are having smalltalk, so dam boring lol😅
This is true but I’m actually excellent at small talk (but I can dread it) but I grew up from the time I was a kid waiting tables in my parents bar so I think has trained me on being good and easy at small talk
Christ... I told a girl I was talking to that I didn't believe in the personality types because there's so much nuance to personalities. She told me to take the test and after much push back, I relented. I was wrong.
INFJ-A or ENTP-T depending on mood here. Am going to learn how these personalities can maintain a healthy relationship so I can cope with myself even more.
OMG. That's so me. No one ever managed to break me. My ex-wife might have managed. Looking forward to running my repair routines. Learning about this topic clearly helps.
One of my cousins is a ENTP, he likes pushing my buttons, but I'm a INTJ so I like to challenge my own ideas, I think that we I don't see it as a problem and we are good friends
As for romantic partners, I'm curious to know what your opinion is on an ENTP who is dating or in a long-term relationship with somebody who is almost their complete opposite minus the T. 😅
I hate the fact that I am an Entp At first I was proud to be this manti but then the struggles and constant short black deep dives that come with being a member of Entp club is mentally exhausting and frustrating…
i always see that ENTPs are uncapable of finishing projects, and ENTPs are messy and not organized. aside from this i feel like i 100% relate, but how is this?
Fwiw and this is worth noting and I do blame the way we've ditched rhetoric and logic as actual subjects. We all gangsta with "I question authority" and stuff, but on face value that is also **very ** questionable, why should things be questioned, and why should **you** and I be qualified to do so. Epistemology matters
1. Yep. I challenge others to think not just to push other people’s buttons… unless trolling online. 2. Yep. It causes serious arguments. 3. Sure thing. I cannot count how many people say “where do you come up with this stuff?!” Not in the sense of conspiracy theory or something critical but rather to praise some original joke or story. 4. Just got accused of not caring about others tonight. 5. I obsess over rules and laws to push limits. Not a good trait when employed by others. 😂 6. I have limits as I have learned to avoid conflicts with people I do not respect or people I know I cannot change from their ways. 7. Adhd or entp? Probably one and the same. 8. This one I disagree with. I vet people who are worthy of debate. I do not feel uneasy unless it is just someone I do not like and that is not common.
As an female infj here to know about entp behaviour , i wanna know everything about them so I can understand why they are compatible with me 🧐 it's really gets intresting
@@PsychologyRefresh I'm trying to figure out why Ne doms are drawn to the Ni doms which are both introverted types. I've heard some say they like the mystery.
@@violet18 as an ENTP I can say that, personally, I am usually not attracted to introverts in general nor do I find them interesting but I do like Ni doms because they are mysterious, I take getting to know them as a challenge. Plus I definitely like their ability to understand the way I think and, not only respect it, but also appreciate it, while other introverts might get annoyed. I wouldn't say that the way I am attracted to Ni doms is exclusively romantic tho, I have an INTJ boyfriend and an INFJ sister and the reasons I appreciate them are more or less the same: they are not afraid to challenge me, they set clear boundaries, if they are not in the mood for a debate they state it clearly instead of dismissing me, they have deep knowledge about specific subjects and they are glad to share it with me, they teach me control and order and are never disrespectful. So in my experience Ni doms just help Ne doms to grow as individuals, which is often exactly what we want, while also picking our interest by being so mysterious. Anyway this is actually an interesting topic, I will bring this up with other Ne doms, I am curious to hear what they have to say, thank you. (English is not my first language so I hope I expressed myself clearly)
Hahaha .. rants ... yes, indeedy! Before we watched 'Raising Dion' together my son, who had already seen the first season gave me a clear warning that Dion's mother was going to say something about someone being racist which I am going to disagree with, that he knows I will want to rant about it and then go and write several things on a blog or in comments under videos related to the same sort of thinking, then asked me "but, please, let's just watch it and get past it, at least the first time you see it. You can do all that stuff later." Smart young man, that boy of mine. He knows his mother well. "Unless they are twiting the truth for their personal gain...." SPOT ON! I used to tell people, "I never lie except for fun or profit." They thought. But, then I would finish p with "And, you Sir, look nothing like Moses." So, I was tiwsting the truth for my personal gain while asserting my love of honesty. Also, the Nazis really hated it when i would say that. I can't imagine why.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. I don’t know if I *like* to push people’s buttons…I just think it’s a necessary thing to do every once in awhile to truly get to know something. Why you gotta point fingers, man? 😂
small talk is ok few minutes but too much is just wasting time, some only do small talk during entire hour i've never understand how they do i get bored after 5min 🤣
Im an ENTP btw its not about knowledge though XD. Its strictly personal. Nothing makes us happier when pushing some one else’s button and proving a point wrong to them
Socially, I get bored with small talk. I am put off by politically correct conversations which shows me those people have given up their brains. I have to struggle to keep my mouth shut when people make stupid comments. LIke my female friends boasted that she can float while her husband can't. I wanted to tell her the truth, namely that she could float because she has more fat. Or, a stupid comment I just heard from a long-time friend "At my age I'm eating what I want to eat." I felt like saying, "Yes, and it shows." She looks 20 years older than her chronological age. Or, a feminist friend who is constantly belittling her husband in front of others and who said to me once, "Women are smarter than men, don't you agree. I was diplomatic then and said, "I think two heads are better than one." I could go on. I hate it when people are stupid because I feel I am wasting my time with them. I want friends but there are so few who think rationally. Most just mouth sound bites they have heard somewhere else. I have had great friendships with older people who tend to be smarter, than those my age and I can have a conversation with them.
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Bro, get checked for Adhd
EXACTLY
@@nihaalnadeem9427 never! This diagnosis will not change the pain in any way! Btw now I'm changing my job. Seems fine and there are more benefits than in the current one. But I keep being afraid if one thing - that it might be boring!
I became a copywriter in advertising. I love it! There's always multiple creative projects at once... and lots of brainstorming
this makes me feel so much better about myself. i’ve grown up as a kid that was considered annoying and problematic because of my chaotic behaviour but in reality i just needed to learn, but teachers only chose to label me and use punishment as a way to “educate”. spoiler: it did not work! people need the right environment to learn and grow
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Me too. This theory makes me feel proud of myself knowing that it’s just my personality that I always want to pursue an unknown possibilities
Exactly.
What was the right environment for you? For me it was really nice teachers, but I wouldn't respect them tbh.
This is the literal story of my life
We push people’s ideas, typically not the person.
Do you think you can notice other people's limits?
@@PsychologyRefresh haha, most of the time the ”hard way”. I often get surprised by how easily offended some people are. I can adjust if I know that somebody is very easily hurt, but I tend to avoid working with or socialize with ”closed minds”. As I said, I tend to push ideas, not the person but I know that many people can not separate the two.😊
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@@PsychologyRefresh Thanks
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As an entp I do t care what your opinion is, I only expect you to have one you can articulate is you’re going state yours.
I love it when someone holds their ground, even and especially if I disagree.
I just want people to be conscious
Do you argue with people often?
@dannytv You never know ;)
@@PsychologyRefresh I did for a long time, but I would frame it as an educational debate more than an argument most of the time.
I will not spar on a topic I’ve not explored. As an ENTP we tend to quickly understand the core of any issue or topic quickly, but we also will then pick apart the entire thing and see how many ways it can be put back together.
This is what makes us great debaters. We often genuinely can see where someone is coming from because we’ve fledged out that angle. The argumentative aspect comes into play when we are with a personality type that is more emotional vs. logic based.
My personal growth with this comes from realizing that many personality types just don’t enjoy taking the time to think that much. The arrogance of ENTP’s is often what gets us in trouble.
I’ve had so many situations where I imposed my dominance of knowledge by way of brute assertion. My need to “win”, and winning I did, often embarrassed people. Like a lawyer we seek that singular moment where we can see the logic of our perspective sink in, or illogic of their angle become exposed to their own psyche.
I now no longer enjoy this unless ethics are involved. I now more gently approach people with alternative perspectives, and if they bite I then get a chance to display my understandings in a format that is non-combative.
I have started to also reserve relinquishing my personal stance on most topics and just simply enjoy “giving people something to think about” rather than imposing.
This has made me quite the counselor for many people, as well as the invited person of interest in many circles.
Getting off on dominating an argument we create is far less constructive than we convince ourselves.
An ENTP here in the Information Age should thrive if we but could learn to harness and capitalize on our genuine multitude of curiosities.
@@BBond88 Yeah idk about others, but most of the time people either really love me or despise me. As i am very "egoistic" by their standards and i like to be very sarcastic and make jokes about everything. A lot of the times people tend to think, that i am just jerk and want to roast me or make fun of me. Which they do often, but i do not take it seriously, so they then start to understand, that i am not in fact being mean. I am just getting bored so i am poking at people to get a reaction. I feel like ENTPs also tend to try to know everyone in their circle(whichever circle it is) sometimes i am labeled as very talkative and people think i am lazy, cuz of that, but that is not the case. I need to learn where other people comes from. I dont argue with people nowadays unless they are the type to argue and i know them well. As i do not want to hurt others with my cold rational thinking.
@@BBond88 Honestly, it sounds like you have grown up, my friend. Speaking as a fellow ENTP, there is a difference between arguing for the sake of arguing and arguing for a purpose. I also taught debate for yours, which is quite gratifying tbh. LOL✌️
I don’t know how it is with other ENTPs but I usually group my thoughts into arguments (pro/contra/neutral). If i feel bored and know a person is sensitive to a certain topic, i choose a side (mostly contrairy of theirs) and start an argument even if i don´t agree with the side i choose.
Being able to look at a topic from all sorts of subjectif perspectifs make a lot of fun and using this knowledge for or against other people is even more fun. Though i sadly tend to think lower of people who don’t defend their side or don’t choose a side in a argument because to me it is a lack of intelligence eventhough it’s just a different personality type.
I agree
I often find myself playing devils advocate for other ppl. I can’t see when someone likes it or doesn’t. Some ppl get put on their heels and look uncomfortable.
My favourite ppl are ones that smile when I throw a point that makes them question their logic.
We will go back and forth until we get to a conclusion that is usually hilariously callous…
There’s a lot of, “if we do x it will hurt y” and Than we’ll look at each other and say, “Ah… F**k em’”
Gotta break a few eggs to make an omelette
Me realizing this thread won’t get read by anyone because it’s all ENTP’s
…but how did I get here?
That’s the question 😅
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Yes a positive/ negative scale.
I'm almost always on the side of the underdog. I feel a strong sense of justice/injustice and use my rhetorical skills to level the playing field.
Why do I feel so predictable after watching videos about ENTPs lol
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OMG pushing peoples boundaries just to understand them better. I'm not odd, I'm just an ENTP. Thanks for this video!
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
entp do finish projects. they just have 10 others at the same time xD
A few years ago I worked a job that actually wasn't that bad.
But after a few months I felt my motivation lower. Felt tired, stressed, moody and sick of everything.
I talked with friends and they all said those were symptoms of a burn-out.
Which didn't make any sense because my job was really easy and I had a lof of freedom.
I talked to my doctor and she diagnosed me with the opposite. A boreout.
The lack of mental stimulation there actually made me sick.
I've worked in really stressful and fast-paced jobs before but those 6 months of being bored at work was worse than all of it
Thank you so much for sharing this!
I have been in the exact situation, I would beg my supervisor to give me more responsibility, because I would become bored of easy jobs. It frustrated me to no end when they didn't want to give me more responsibility, probably because I was and still am very young. When I didn't get more responsibility I got depressed and my effectiveness in the job decreased tremendously.
So, now I am studying to become an optometrist, and I just pray that I won't be bored of it too quickly, but judging from talking to professors, being in lectures and other more experienced optometrist, I am certain that I have done the right choice, as every persons eyes are different and everyone has unique challenges and problems with vision.
This. I was at a call center job and that bored me out of my skull, and so I switched back to a more busy job in foods service while training to become a physical therapist. Part of why I want to do that is because every body is literally different and solving their issues and working with them hands-on is so exciting to me. Thanks for this insight.
I feel that a few years ago I did an internship in a bakingfactory the job itself wasn't that bad but to do the same movements all day long made me regret my choice within a day I somehow survived 2 weeks there and I'm not thinking of ever going back
Hahaha my Dr has "diagnosed" me with the same!
& then WORSE- when I was a coffee barrista, I had to get my eyes checked because I thought I was going near blind at work.... The optometrist told me it just sounds like my eyes are bored at work and can't stay focused 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤣🤣
People beating me in debates is the most hot thing they can possibly do
Thanks for sharing!
Right? It gives me days worth of thinking. Losing a debate is eye opening.
Oh my that's exactly how I have crushes
An argument does not have to be a personal thing, even when I'm personally attacked it's ultimately still someone's perspective, and they are entitled to it, it doesn't make it true or false.
Good point.
took the personality test and got ENTP, thought it was wrong because i wasnt very extroverted...i hate small talks, or conversing for no reason(like say, greeting someone i know) and i mostly imagine different scenarios or talk to my self.
Thanks for sharing!
I can easily relate to this. Entp`s are the most introverted extroverts(ambivert) so it all make sense.
I felt the same way.
You may be an INTP then. Myself, I definitely became much more extroverted over time. Still dont enjoy meaningless small talk, but have become much better at socializing and far less shy.
@Tiwana Moulton I took the test and at first got INFJ and INTP. Both felt very relatable to me, that got me thinking. I'm not checking every personality type and have to say that I can see myself in every personality type. My conclusion, these mbti types are as legit as your horoscope.
“You are not some weirdo”
“THE F**K I’m NOT” -ENTP 😅
Yes!
This explained a lot of things to me. I worked in a call center once. The once charming me became so impatient that even my TL was shocked. One year was too much for me. Now as a teacher, even teaching the same subject for 4 consecutive semesters bored me out of my mind. Let me just say that my notebook turned into a notebook for songwriting, coffee-making, poetry writing, and investment all in one year. I am glad that I was given at least an insight as to why I behave the way I do but, it can get really frustrating.
Thanks for sharing!
Honestly! I used to be a top performance at customer service job too but after several months, I was just not feeling it anymore.
ENTPs are the best! I am an INFJ male and my ex was an ENTP. However, she broke up and then ghosted me for her career. Initially I was angry and heartbroken, but I later realized that True love is not always being together, but rather doing anything for the happiness of the person you love, even if it means separating from them. I didn't want to get in the way of her dreams and so I let her go. I still love her very much and I pray to God that she has a great life ahead. After she left, I was just waiting to fall in love with another ENTP or maybe an ENFP. But I never met anyone. It's been 4 years now, but I am still waiting for my soulmate, I hope I meet her soon. God how I wish there were more ENTPs in the world. You guys are so damn amazing and yet less than 3%, women even fewer....tough luck finding a soulmate.
ENTP is the best gift or prize some one can have, we are the best optimizers and also paladins. if one of us ignored or ghosted you means they are disappointed or got hurt numerous times ( we will never notice you that we got hurt, we just trying to upgrade you so you can fix that ) and have nothing to do. i will more forward like always. but don`t worry INFJs and INFPs are the only people that can makes us interested in them. its just a matter of potential after that.
Yeah, i’m ENTP woman and my husband is INFJ - match made forever😊 I wish you luck
entp woman here, my ex was also an infj and I also broke up with him but Ive never been able to forgot our relationship. I admired his strong values and how he was so proactive about them.
@@brigittanagy3711 Thank you!
@@eunitalunita I see, I saw your playlists and liked videos. And I was kind of shocked as my ex used to learn Spanish too! I don't know why you broke up or whether or not you are looking for love right now, but if you are okay with it then I would like to get to know you.☺ Do you happen to be from India by any chance?
i love annoying or bothering other people (in a half joking way) to find out their personalities, their boundaries, etc. it's amazing
These videos are amazing! I love the narrator, script, and edit style. You’re making me go down the MBTI rabbit hole again - ENTP
Thank you so much!
as an ENTP i dont really see myself as super argumentative. But, i do tend to look at things from a different pov even if i dont agree with it, which means i can get along with alot of different people; and might seem a bit odd because of my strange pov. i do hate small talk and possibly might act awkward because my head is somewhere else and much rather would talk about deeper things.
As an ENTP, I confirm that all of this is true. :))
Thanks!
@@PsychologyRefresh 😁✌️
As an ENTP, I refute that none of this is true.
It often takes hours for me to discuss some interesting topics with my intp husband. The longest we discussed for 12 hours skipping meals around how to set up a system to distribute chores. 🤪and we abandon that system the third day
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relationship goals haha
I even have it paired with ADHD. Awesome 😂
;)
On God…. I have severe ADHD…
Lol same
I think most of us may
Same😂
I use to think I was dysfunctional because I couldn’t really be friends with a person until we had argued at least once. Is arguing a love language? 😂 Mental-sparing is probably a better description for it. 😅 I fell in love with my husband because the first conversation we had was an argument. He stood his ground and when I proved him wrong he still liked me after. 😂 I know. I have high standards. 🤣
I am ENTP. I need INFJs to be my friends. An army of them
Great to hear!
why INFJ? Im new to these stuff... Is there a graph that shows us compatibilities with other types???
As an ENTP i find the whole concept of us being compatible with INFJs to be unfounded, we are better of with people similar to us, like other NTs
@@Strange9952 YOOOOOO damn finally someone that voices the same doubts ive had regarding the whole mbti compatibility thing (well maybe not the whole thing but at least in the entp context i find the information divergent from personal experience; the people i find myself being most attracted to/find intriguing or really resonate with are rarely infjs but rather intps/entps most prominently. to the point where i have developed this xNTP radar sorta thing that actually turns out to be accurate most of the time. you can just tell they percieve things in a similar way you do and thinks differently from what we consider normal people...they are so distinguishable (and so charismatic to me) fr. can someone else relate
infj 🙋🏻♀️
This really nailed it. It all makes sense now!!! 😅
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I grew up being the only child among my siblings who talked back to my parents and openly questioned their views. I was the most talkatike and most open about what I wanted. My siblings thought I was cocky and arrogant even selfish. They may still see me like this.
I am just different and unique, i think differently. And I am proud of that. Because people who are more open minded are always more intelligent.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
@@PsychologyRefresh 😅
This video needs to be removed, it includes my private informations
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😂😂😂😂🫂😭 I understand exactly what you mean. ♥️
Im an entp ( apparently).
Whenever I listen to a topic with two sides I only ever what to know which is right. not to me. And not to them. but what just IS right-
Idk does anyone else feel like this?
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"Appearantly"
I don't think you use it in the right way
I do the exact same thing when debating, because you know, I defend whats right. So when I'm debating against a closed minded person, it just gets so damn frustrating. Because you can't win, it's like debating with an idiot, they won't change their mind nor accept whats right rather than what benefits them or their beliefs, as well as so their ego doesn't get shattered.
As an entp, I physically had to resist the urge to fast forward this video, but I'm glad I didn't. (mostly)
Я поражён, на сколько точно вся информация обо мне совпадает, с типом личности ENTP на вашем канале. Мои аплодисменты 👏 это гениально.
;)
As an ENTP, I hate it when people agrees with me. Unless it's in an argument with another person. So if I am arguing with another person and someone from the audience agrees with me, only then will I accept someone agreeing with me.
Hello, ENTP here
Does anyone else that shares my personality type find themselves doing things differently just to experiment?
I know the video talks a lot about being in our heads and experimenting theoretically, but like actually doing a thing. Such as using a fork with the less dominant hand just to see if you can, or something. I know the example is a bit goofy but there are lots of other things that I do just to kind of experiment with. Flirting is something really fun to test out. See what does and doesn't work for example lol.
Thank you for this comment!
I love to use my non-dominant hand to do tasks, it’s so interesting to see how the brain and body tries to compensate while making new synapses. Or if there is a recipe I’ve made following the directions to the T the first time then seeing how close I can get without measuring or looking it up again and do it just from memory. I also tend to play devils advocate to observe how tightly someone holds on to an idea of something or how they view themselves. Like if someone seems to take themselves too seriously I’ll bring my inner child out to the max to poke the bear or if there doesn’t seem to be enough respect or serious tone I’ll bring out the stone face critic. It’s all a big experiment 🤗
Yes, it's central to the devil's advocate approach
Yes for sure.
Yes, but it's not necessarily just to experiment but because I generally believe there's ALWAYS room for improvement. Additionally, doing what everyone else does just doesn't sit well with me. Logically speaking, we're never going to improve as a species if everyone does what everyone does. One way or another, someone has to shake things up and I have no problem taking that role, even at the risk of making them worse (mistakes are the best teacher)
WHY THE HELL does the guy at 3:05 scene have his leg propped up on the desk, like a dog taking a pee? And WTF is he wearing?
But it doesn't end there. This video is overflowing with weird video clips.
0:20 Weird mushy face illustration
0:40 WTF is up with the horse mask?
0:46 AN ALIEN WITH PIZZA????
1:50 WHY is that chic yelling?
2:22 that guy looks like a serial killer.
2:57 what body-type is that?
3:59 why is that couple mad at ME?
4:16 A HEAD FULL OF BOBBINS AND BUTTONS? WHY????
4:27 What's up with the eyebrows on that... girl? Boy? Trans?
4:55 What the fuck is that dude smiling at? Creepy!!!!
6:12 I assume that girl is on LSD
7:50 WHY ARE THOSE PEOPLE STARING AT ME????
9:27 That chic with the pink hair is weird
I summary: I can only assume these video clips were edited together by aliens, who have never interacted with actual humans.
Funny comment 😂
lmao
Entp here and all is extremely accurate
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The emtp's are awkward one really got me, I hate small talk since I don't know what to say and am always thinking about something bigger that the person wouldn't understand
I have known for a long time I’m ENTP… over the years diplomacy has gotten better. I have also realized with a manager that understands my way… we cannot be beat. Period.
This video is so good it revealed the truth about the habits we do and beacause of this habits i really suffred from being told to stop doing that or just learn when i tell them what i think and i really got into some big problems because of it also family problems but this is not my fault and i hope that people watch this video to understand us
Thank you so much!
I LOVE CHALLENGING INTELLECTUALLY MY BOYFRIEND, I JUST LOVE THIS LOVELY INTP BOY, HE MAKES MY HEAD ALWAYS FULL OF IDEAS, I LOVE HIIIIMMM I LOVE TO HEAR WHAT HE THINKS ABOUT ANY COMPLEX SUBJECT BECAUSE HE'S JUST SO UNIQUE IN HIS RESPONSES!!!🖤
I have always wondered why some people get so tired and defeated when they have have a debate some ppl even dislike me, whereas I was just warming up and my feelings towards them never changed even when they say something i dont agree with. Lol.
I now also understand why am more silent when people are having smalltalk, so dam boring lol😅
This is true but I’m actually excellent at small talk (but I can dread it) but I grew up from the time I was a kid waiting tables in my parents bar so I think has trained me on being good and easy at small talk
your content is very well made!
Thank you so much!
Christ... I told a girl I was talking to that I didn't believe in the personality types because there's so much nuance to personalities. She told me to take the test and after much push back, I relented.
I was wrong.
I thought I was an IN?J all my life. But guess what - I just lacked passion. So now I got the test again and lo and behold, ENTP comes out.
Thanks for sharing!
Me too😂
INFJ-A or ENTP-T depending on mood here. Am going to learn how these personalities can maintain a healthy relationship so I can cope with myself even more.
OMG. That's so me. No one ever managed to break me. My ex-wife might have managed. Looking forward to running my repair routines. Learning about this topic clearly helps.
One of my cousins is a ENTP, he likes pushing my buttons, but I'm a INTJ so I like to challenge my own ideas, I think that we I don't see it as a problem and we are good friends
Now it all makes sense why my teachers hate me!! Im an entp and i love questioning them
Too bad none of this holds up in court
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Bro this is almost a personal attack istg 😭😭😭😭😭
As for romantic partners, I'm curious to know what your opinion is on an ENTP who is dating or in a long-term relationship with somebody who is almost their complete opposite minus the T. 😅
Thanks for sharing this!
ENTP/INTJ pairing is the golden 'opposites attract'
@@MycketTuff agree,or estp
@@MycketTuff l think lNFJ is also great❤️
I hate the fact that I am an Entp
At first I was proud to be this manti but then the struggles and constant short black deep dives that come with being a member of Entp club is mentally exhausting and frustrating…
Thanks for sharing!
Find an INTJ to talk to
why this is sooo accurate :)
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This is so me. Finally understood.
i always see that ENTPs are uncapable of finishing projects, and ENTPs are messy and not organized.
aside from this i feel like i 100% relate, but how is this?
Hit on every point.
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Fwiw and this is worth noting and I do blame the way we've ditched rhetoric and logic as actual subjects. We all gangsta with "I question authority" and stuff, but on face value that is also **very ** questionable, why should things be questioned, and why should **you** and I be qualified to do so. Epistemology matters
1. Yep. I challenge others to think not just to push other people’s buttons… unless trolling online.
2. Yep. It causes serious arguments.
3. Sure thing. I cannot count how many people say “where do you come up with this stuff?!” Not in the sense of conspiracy theory or something critical but rather to praise some original joke or story.
4. Just got accused of not caring about others tonight.
5. I obsess over rules and laws to push limits. Not a good trait when employed by others. 😂
6. I have limits as I have learned to avoid conflicts with people I do not respect or people I know I cannot change from their ways.
7. Adhd or entp? Probably one and the same.
8. This one I disagree with. I vet people who are worthy of debate. I do not feel uneasy unless it is just someone I do not like and that is not common.
Interesting comment!
한국인 entp 인데 한국에서 살아남기 힘든 유형인듯.. 궁금해서 왜 그렇게 생각하냐고 물어보면 싸우자고 받아들인다. 그냥 궁금할뿐이라고!!!
;)
In China my hometown，being thoughtful will cause more doubts and misunderstandings
How so?
9:12 i deeply felt that part.
So ENTP is basically eccentric
Could be. Are you an ENTP?
That's true, good for you.
Thank you!
3:01 what is this guy doing on the table WHY IS HIS LEG COMPLETY ON THE TABLE??? since when do you do that ????
This is a strange body position, right?
I was thinking the same lmao
@@socorrootubaraomemordeu hahahaha soulmates
As an female infj here to know about entp behaviour , i wanna know everything about them so I can understand why they are compatible with me 🧐 it's really gets intresting
Same here I have an infj best friend idk how we quick easily
Serious question for research purposes:
Why are Ne doms attracted to introverts in a romantic way?
-INFJ
What's your take on that?
@@PsychologyRefresh I'm trying to figure out why Ne doms are drawn to the Ni doms which are both introverted types. I've heard some say they like the mystery.
@@violet18 Very interesting topic, definitely worth digging deep into it!
@@violet18 as an ENTP I can say that, personally, I am usually not attracted to introverts in general nor do I find them interesting but I do like Ni doms because they are mysterious, I take getting to know them as a challenge. Plus I definitely like their ability to understand the way I think and, not only respect it, but also appreciate it, while other introverts might get annoyed. I wouldn't say that the way I am attracted to Ni doms is exclusively romantic tho, I have an INTJ boyfriend and an INFJ sister and the reasons I appreciate them are more or less the same: they are not afraid to challenge me, they set clear boundaries, if they are not in the mood for a debate they state it clearly instead of dismissing me, they have deep knowledge about specific subjects and they are glad to share it with me, they teach me control and order and are never disrespectful. So in my experience Ni doms just help Ne doms to grow as individuals, which is often exactly what we want, while also picking our interest by being so mysterious. Anyway this is actually an interesting topic, I will bring this up with other Ne doms, I am curious to hear what they have to say, thank you. (English is not my first language so I hope I expressed myself clearly)
@@violet18 That's a good point.l think the search for stimaulation is the reason.l am also attracted to Ni dom.
So i am weird for wanting to learn and grow? I do not want to know people that thinks that way. Have fun in your minimal wage job lol
You are definitely not weird, but sometimes you could have some weird habits!
This video is so accurate tbh
Great to hear!
Originality with rationality😂describes me perfectly
Can relate a little bit too much 😭😭
Perfect
This is why I don't have many friends. Not too proud of it. Not too ashamed about it.
you are describing a young entp that hasnt developed his Fe or Si via maturity
As INFJ-T , ENTPs are interesting to mee actually😅
Hahaha .. rants ... yes, indeedy! Before we watched 'Raising Dion' together my son, who had already seen the first season gave me a clear warning that Dion's mother was going to say something about someone being racist which I am going to disagree with, that he knows I will want to rant about it and then go and write several things on a blog or in comments under videos related to the same sort of thinking, then asked me "but, please, let's just watch it and get past it, at least the first time you see it. You can do all that stuff later."
Smart young man, that boy of mine. He knows his mother well.
"Unless they are twiting the truth for their personal gain...." SPOT ON! I used to tell people, "I never lie except for fun or profit." They thought. But, then I would finish p with "And, you Sir, look nothing like Moses." So, I was tiwsting the truth for my personal gain while asserting my love of honesty. Also, the Nazis really hated it when i would say that. I can't imagine why.
Guys, look at the stock footage at the 3:00 mark. What the hell is the guy doing?! I'm genuinely baffled by the choices made.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. I don’t know if I *like* to push people’s buttons…I just think it’s a necessary thing to do every once in awhile to truly get to know something. Why you gotta point fingers, man? 😂
i don’t know why but i like everything that is ENTP😂 -INFJ
全部返信しててすげぇ、僕もentp です。
I get plenty done if I rotate between projects. Deadlines are still the bane of my existence. Also: eccentric*
watched the pushing buttons part as im throwing a tantrum 😃
Is one being annoyed that the intro said the same thing at least 4 different times?
Are you sure?
4 and 5 I'm feeling called out. Lol.
Another of our weird habits- many of us like brainrot memes.
I never finish projects
Why is that?
small talk is ok few minutes but too much is just wasting time, some only do small talk during entire hour i've never understand how they do i get bored after 5min 🤣
Ego: *restored
-ENTP
;)
How can it be so accurate?
Glad to hear that!
Jung was a genius
Im an ENTP btw its not about knowledge though XD. Its strictly personal. Nothing makes us happier when pushing some one else’s button and proving a point wrong to them
This ENTP is wondering why you left that small space in the top of the head outline at 4:11
;)
i dont want to push buttons, i just wish everyne listened to me
Omg!! This is so meeee!! I can’t have small conversations.. I always ask myself how people do to do that 😂
Guy's leg on top of desk @ 3:01
What about it?
I clicked on this video to argue the points its about to make
And what do you think after watchin it?
Uh, I'm absolutely a weirdo and lack the emotional weakness to care
Thanks for sharing!
Emm, so this is why I argue a lot w/my fiancé
I feel so understood
Great!
🙄 who decides someone is weird or not?
my boyfriend is entp and while I adore him and respect him so much he sometimes is just a PAIN in a ass
3:00 Why is that man on the table like that?
Socially, I get bored with small talk. I am put off by politically correct conversations which shows me those people have given up their brains. I have to struggle to keep my mouth shut when people make stupid comments. LIke my female friends boasted that she can float while her husband can't. I wanted to tell her the truth, namely that she could float because she has more fat. Or, a stupid comment I just heard from a long-time friend "At my age I'm eating what I want to eat." I felt like saying, "Yes, and it shows." She looks 20 years older than her chronological age. Or, a feminist friend who is constantly belittling her husband in front of others and who said to me once, "Women are smarter than men, don't you agree. I was diplomatic then and said, "I think two heads are better than one." I could go on. I hate it when people are stupid because I feel I am wasting my time with them. I want friends but there are so few who think rationally. Most just mouth sound bites they have heard somewhere else. I have had great friendships with older people who tend to be smarter, than those my age and I can have a conversation with them.