Human Design Projector in Relationships | What They Need | Mini Lesson

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  • @stephenbarrett5357
    @stephenbarrett5357 3 роки тому +2

    thank you, trini! this was so helpful for me to understand my own limits and romantic needs. and thank you for the inclusive thumbnail. ❤️

  • @kairopher
    @kairopher 3 роки тому +17

    I appreciate the inclusive choice you made for the thumbnail on this video! :)

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  3 роки тому +1

      it's my pleasure

    • @amberscottcmt7400
      @amberscottcmt7400 2 роки тому +2

      I don't, because it makes me take pause. First, I don't know if this is content for LGBT, so I'm not sure it fits me and is worth my time. Second, I'm half braced for some far leftist cringe, because I don't know just how off the deep end woke this person is gonna be...
      And all this because they had to use an image of a gay couple. Not a gay couple and a straight couple side by side showing it was for everyone. Just a gay couple. Hence, everyone who's not gay doesn't know if it's relevant. And that's the majority of the population.
      That's why it comes off like cheap virtue signaling. What's the purpose? It distracts from clarity of knowing if the content is for you or not. So for what? Having others see you as inclusive and virtuous? So using gay people to better your own social standing? Meh 🙄

    • @kairopher
      @kairopher 2 роки тому +2

      @@amberscottcmt7400 I can't know the creator's reasons for the thumbnail they chose, whether it's conscious inclusivity, "virtue signaling" like you say, or what, but one way or the other as a gay person it can be refreshing to see something other than heterosexuality modeled as the standard, "normal" thing that all relationships are.
      Honestly it sounds like the core of your argument ends up being that all things should be straight and heteronormative by default, so that it doesn't confuse those who happen to fall into that privileged designation.
      There's a billion and one videos out there about relationships showing a straight couple without showing a gay couple as well. Why can't there be a few that show a gay couple as normal relationship subject matter without having to show a straight one as well?
      Gay people, and other minorities, already live in a world where other things are things are standardized as more normal than they are. The whole point of inclusivity is to balance this out so that there's more representation of all sorts.
      It won't be perfect, and not everything will show everyone in the perfect ratios, but there can be enough of a healthy mix that everyone can see themselves reflected by the world they live in.

    • @amberscottcmt7400
      @amberscottcmt7400 2 роки тому +1

      @@kairopher Right, well as a gay person it might seem refreshing to you and I can certainly understand that. ❤
      I'm coming from a marketing and communications perspective of what relates the the end user... No, I don't think all representations of relationship should be hetero... Nor should gay relationships be promoted as equally common to hetero-normative, when they're not.
      I was raised by a gay man, and raised a boy who has become a gay man...
      My point goes to the weakened foundation of the entire concept of "diversity and inclusion" in the far left narrative... Even my gay relatives see it...
      My son, referring to pride month called it "rainbow capitalism." He says they use LGBT people as an excuse to market for more profits.
      So I think it's great if you find identification with this image. That's wonderful... But more than 50% of those this was intended for aren't gay... So track with me for a sec in business...
      Would it ever make sense to use an image that the majority of half of your audience does not relate to?
      Nah... And that's my point. It doesn't fit. It's not that we can't have gay couples in images. We for sure should have some... But as the thumbnail for an audience that only a minority of relate to? ONLY a gay couple? Not both, which is what inclusion actually is?!!
      Only if you're really dumb and want to lose money in business... THAT'S what I mean by virtue signaling... "Hey everyone, look at me. I support gay people. Aren't I great?"
      As a gay person I'm surprised you aren't offended by this person's overt use of those with your sexual orientation, as means to elevate what a wonderful person they are in the eyes of others... Why doesn't it offend you that they USE you like that and think of you as stupid enough to not notice?

    • @kairopher
      @kairopher 2 роки тому +2

      @@amberscottcmt7400 Honestly I think you're projecting a lot onto the intentions of the creator. I don't think that this small UA-cam creator being potentially thoughtful about her choices is the same thing as a corporate chain putting rainbows on their logos for a month.
      ( Which, in and of itself, isn't a bad thing either. Sure, maybe it comes from consumer pressure and corporations trying to keep up with trends in the collective consciousness, but that's evolution in action, and I think it trends towards the collective good overall, same as companies becoming more environmentally sustainable as the demand for it increases. )
      Personally, I'm going to extend the benefit of the doubt that this small content creator, ( who is herself a person of color, ) has empathy and compassion and thoughtfulness on her mind in making her choices, and is not coming from a place of calculating manipulation and pandering.
      This video is also one in a series of four or five videos about relationships in Human Design, and in every other case she used a heteronormative couple, and included just one example of something else, so right there there's broader representation and inclusivity when you zoom out.
      It seems to me that the same argument about including heterosexual people in every image for the sake of keeping the majority in the picture could easily be extended to say that, sure, it's okay for advertisements to sometimes feature black people, but since they are not the majority ( in this particular country ) there should always be some white people shown too.
      I appreciate that you're coming from a nuanced position here, and honestly I'm not usually one to wade into all of this stuff, but I'm just trying to communicate what I see from my perspective.

  • @susanasusana7390
    @susanasusana7390 2 місяці тому

    Qué posibilidades de estabilidad y buen funcionamiento tienen en una relación de pareja entre un proyector emocional y una proyectora mental? Gracias 🙏

  • @SnailWhales
    @SnailWhales 2 роки тому +6

    I wish I had had this info before marrying and having kids! I am now single but I used to tell my ex I needed my own room and it offended him to his core! He wanted to envelop my energy constantly(he’s a mani-generator) and I need a lot of alone time. Now I have an autistic kid that has lots of anxiety that wants to sleep by me. When will it ever end. 😂

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  Рік тому

      It’s all part of our learning process 😅😅 it ends at physical death 😀

    • @BeLoveUnconditional
      @BeLoveUnconditional Рік тому

      Use crystals to help clear the space

  • @strawberryme08
    @strawberryme08 3 роки тому +4

    I’m a generator and hubby is projector I’m trying to learn about both of us and relationship
    Dynamics. Do you have a video on the dynamics between manifestor and projector?

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  3 роки тому +5

      I don't yet but what a wonderful idea :) thank you for it , i will work on it

  • @susanasusana7390
    @susanasusana7390 2 місяці тому

    Les va bien dormir juntos un proyector emocional y una proyectora mental? Gracias 🙏

  • @IronBubbles
    @IronBubbles 2 роки тому +2

    what about a projector man projector woman relationship- who invites whom?

  • @SagRising19
    @SagRising19 2 роки тому

    Im a mental projector and partner is a manifest generator...he loves doing things for me and respect my alone time. I tend to take naps during the day. Definitely not consistent sexually

  • @eyecreatelines
    @eyecreatelines 3 роки тому +3

    love your content and instagram as well:)
    do you have any quick advice for projector couples ? thank you :)

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  3 роки тому +3

      thank you :) I think it's so cool to be in a relationship for someone of the same type. I would say, use space together as a haven to detach from outside energies. Sleep apart when you can. Also important to look at your solar plexus dynamic as well as your profile lines

  • @ileanareyes3973
    @ileanareyes3973 2 роки тому

    thank you for this I am a reflector and my husband is a projector. any advice on this duo ?

  • @susanasusana7390
    @susanasusana7390 2 місяці тому

    Está este video en español, por favor?

  • @evadebruijn
    @evadebruijn 2 роки тому

    🙏❣️✌️

  • @feeltheforce7922
    @feeltheforce7922 3 роки тому

    THANK YOU!!

  • @mariondesio
    @mariondesio 2 роки тому

    What about two Projectors sleeping together? My husband and I are both Projectors.

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  2 роки тому +1

      Hi♥️ it is still recommended that you sleep apart because you would have picked up other peoples’ energies throughout your day

  • @jengoodwyn2715
    @jengoodwyn2715 3 роки тому +2

    I need to sleep in my own aura and I'm a generator. I need to recharge as I'm tired at the end of the day. I have an active mind and open head and Ajna so it's important to clear out all the head gunk accumulated during the day.

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  3 роки тому

      as a generator, i totally agree with you -i'm loving sleeping on my own as well

  • @TheGlamstar28
    @TheGlamstar28 2 роки тому

    What does that mean sleeping in their own aura?

    • @samorman1356
      @samorman1356 2 роки тому +2

      Because Projectors have an open sacral center, they often absorb the sacral energy or defined energy of the people that they're in aura with. (People they're within 6 physical feet of). Projectors can often have a hard time sleeping next to energy types because they'll naturally absorb their partners life force and will have a hard time sleeping. It can be very empowering for a Projector to practice sleeping separately from their partner so they're able to release all the energy they collected over a day from guiding people in the world. This can be a controversial idea as most couples are expected to sleep together. I know a lot of projectors in relationships who have actually taken on sleeping alone and get much better sleep!

    • @LoveToday8
      @LoveToday8 2 роки тому +1

      @@samorman1356 I’m new to knowing I’m a projector. Years ago when I first started getting energy work, I I was told I often absorb the energy of others. In terms of romantic relationships, I started noticing I did not sleep well when my lovers would stay the night or I’d sleep over with them. I can prepare myself a bit more for the occasional planned sleepover but I really prefer to sleep by myself

  • @noeliaarrojoseara8921
    @noeliaarrojoseara8921 3 роки тому +1

    y en español ??

    • @trini.cubillos
      @trini.cubillos  3 роки тому +1

      intento hacer en los dos idiomas lo más que puedo :)

  • @Luvmeesh
    @Luvmeesh 2 роки тому

    Gratitude 💗🤍✨