NOT SELF THEME BITTERNESS (& HOW TO GET INTO ALIGNMENT!) FOR PROJECTORS
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- Опубліковано 6 лип 2024
- The Projector Not Self Theme of Bitterness Explained!! // This video will give you no-fluff info on the Projector Aura’s not self theme of bitterness including what is the not-self theme is, what the not-self theme of bitterness is and how bitterness manifests itself. Plus, I’ll give you my top 5 personal tips for overcoming this not-self theme of bitterness, and staying in alignment to your true authentic self (aside from just experimenting with your Strategy and Authority!).
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I am a 6/2 emotional projector. I need around 75% time alone. If I don’t honor this I get bitter. It took me a long time to accept this. I have some friends that don’t understand or feel rejected but I have learned to be ok with it. Learning to know what I need to function at my highest level has been a key to my success! Thankyou so much for sharing yourself..and your wonderful clear informative videos. I looking forward to watching more!
Yess heavy on the decluttering! I literally feel like my brain does not work when im overwhelmed with things to do, and especially when my physical space is messy.
Just wanna say I hope you keep making videos 🥰 Sometimes people kinda give up quickly, especially when they have a baby channel. But your videos have been super helpful to me so far. I'm recognizing you for your great work! ❤️
Awww thank you so so much for your kind words and encouragement!! That means a lot to me and I truly appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️
I agree!!! 💯 #projector
First time hearing about the Human Design. I did my chart and I got not self theme - Bitterness. I get a better understanding on how I feel about myself and manifesting. I will definitely use these tips Thank you 💗
⭐️ Declutter
⭐️ Inner work
⭐️ Higher self embodiment
⭐️ Physical self care
⭐️ Have FUN
LET IT BE EASY✨
I appreciate you 🙏 im getting real bitter atm with people stealing my work and not fucking recognising me for it even when ive voiced about it. Fucking pissing me off ... but I dont wanna stay pissed off and thats why im here...thank you! X
I’m a Scorpio rising and this resonates on many levels. I love seeing the similarities
I now understand why I am often angry. I am new to Human Design and learning to stop working like a workhorse, declutter, rest more, focus on inner work, and getting into alignment with my true self. Thank you so much for this video. 💜Do you mind talking more about Human Design Digestion?
I loved this, it was really helpful. I woke up a pretty bitter projector. Almost every area in my life I felt some resistance and biter ness, so realignment is much needed.
Took notes, and will apply.
Thank you🙏💖
So glad this was helpful lovely! ❤️🥰
Not feeling appreciated is also a big one in contributing to bitterness.
I really like how you explained all this, and the fact that you gave more strategies to get in alignment other than strategy and authority. Shows how you're really thinking out of the box and integrating what you learn, keep it up, I love it!!! ♥
There are so many things I can say about this video, however I will say that I really enjoyed this video. I declutter like a champ, I realize I was holding on to stuff in fear of scarcity, however I got rid of so much stuff because I realize there is no such thing as lack and I no longer want to create a world filled with lack. I feel so much better after. Thank you for this video
This is the third video I'm watching in a row, and most likely will watch another one right after this lol Just wanted to say keep up the good work! Great content, well spoken, calm/confident energy - keep speaking your truth girl because it's making an impact 😊💛
Hi Chantelle, thank you so so much!! I really appreciate this comment. It’s funny I’ve been going through a bit of imposter syndrome as of late, but having the support definitely helps me move forward so much. Thanks again ❤️
I'm sending a comment to echo the same message @sweetwasaaabi has said: Keep Going! From one projector to another, we recognize your great work. Your calming voice, and your knowledge. Keep going!
Awww thank you so much Leona, I really appreciate your kind words!! 🥺🥺❤️
to who ever is reading this keep on goin!
Im a projector- it helped to study carol tuttle's dress your truth
Interesting!! I’ll have to check that out 😊
I’m a generator but you just outlined my entire experience with my business for the past year which is my first year. I did a lot of things that didn’t feel right for me and made me incredibly frustrated, angry, resentful, and hopeless. Going within and focusing on myself and what feels right for me has completely transformed everything! I actually followed all these steps before finding HD and they have worked well for me too, even though I’m not a projector, I can see why though-it resulted in more satisfaction and the inner work to reconnect me with my sacral. It has allowed me more joy in my work since I work in a home studio. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!
Love this!! Just goes to show we truly do have the answers within, even without using any tool or system. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
You explain human design so well! So grateful the universe led me to your channel. Excited to see more on this and experiment with HD 💛 and an inner child video would be amazing. X
Awww thank you so much for the kind words Sandy! ❤️ So nice to meet you, and so glad you were guided here! It's such a fun rabbit hole you're getting into hehe 🙊🙊
Hi Krystle, thank you for your presence and all the love you share in your videos ❤❤. I really enjoying my investigation along with finding answers on your channel. I’m a 4/1 clarity projector and until I found HD, I really thought I was going to lose it. Now I have a new Avenue to master and get lost in yay!
Inner child healing and shadow work.
Would love to see your explanation of channel 22-12 💜 your energy aligns and resonates with mine and that makes your message so much easier to receive!
Thank you so much for sharing! I just found out I'm a projector myself, and feeling burned out while building my online business makes SO much sense now. THANK YOU. Love your videos and energy
You are so so welcome!! 😘😘 HD is so gamechanging as a Projector biz owner ❤️
Love your channel!
Thankyou so much for this girly
This video is AWESOME
Thank you so much!!! 🙏🌻
thank you. this was very helpful
Thank you Krystle. Great tips!
Gosh I’m brand new! Didn’t know this existed until a few hours ago!
Hi Katrina!! Welcome! ❤ Oh you're in for a treat, HD will definitely bring you down a rabbit hole of really fun discovery hehe
As a peer projector, I have been led to tell you its time to take this business around The Human Design on the road!
Thank you for wisdom regarding the not self. I’m learning a lot.
Love this channel. I never jnew how to understand this chart. Thank you 😊
that resonates 💜 thank you Dear, your videos are really resonating 💜
This video was SO useful!! Thank you so much for offering so much value to the world! 🔥🌱👍🏽
Thank you! I’m so happy to have found your UA-cam channel. ❤
I absolutely love ur videos. Im a projector too and I'm learning a lot from you. So thankful to now know I need to wait for the invitation haha
I got SO excited when you brought up the pathway membership!! ❤️💕🌺 I’ve been a member for a couple of months now and it’s already been a magical experience!! Thank you so much for your deep-dives on human design, I know this knowledge will be a game-changer! 🙌💗
I love your videos so much, thank you for sharing your light 🥰🫶🏼✨
Thank you Krystle ... a really wonderful, informative video.
Thank you for sharing a little about your experience - I’ve been trying to push myself to get my business started and my creations out there and getting very little feedback, which is getting to me,even though I know that some of the energies that I’m feeling I have to engage w are NOT my kinda energies. Would love to hear more about how you tackle such a challenge 🧐
Thanks for sharing your own experiences and vulnerability, i felt touched and connected to you immediately! Authentic and transforming!
Your content is so helpful! Would love to see a video on diving into how projectors manifest :) ALSO curious about where you got that shirt!!
Hi Liv!! So glad this was helpful! ❤️ Love that idea, so definitely keep an eye out for that video 😉 And the shirt I actually bought at a sporting goods store (Decathlon) hehe
You are so great. I would love videos about shadows and inner child work.
thank you for this explanation. i can honestly see how it applies better in my head / thoughts now too. i actually had a big realization thanks to this ❤❤❤
Loveee your video! Your videos are very organised which makes everything so much easier to understand!And you have such a clear voice
Your example resonated with me so much
So glad that it resonated!! 🙌
Love you’re content! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much!! 😘
You are an Angel…Nice video :) thx
I immediately thought of these things on the top of a bookshelf that need to go!!! Thank you for giving me permission to just do it. I really appreciate your gentle nature of guidance. I could learn a lot from you.
Thanks so much Krytle. This has been eye opening. Everything u said hit the right spots. Thank you so nuch
So glad this has been helpful! 😊❤
*jaw dropped* this is soooo meeee right now. It's all making sense!!
LOL!! So glad this resonated! ❤️❤️
Thank you for being open about your personal experiences. We appreciate you! Could you possibly do some videos on what careers are best for each type?!
thank you so much for such a clear explanation of human design ..... love it !
Hi Ada!! Thank you so much, so glad this was helpful! 😊😘
Thank you for this !
You are so welcome!! ❤️
Projector 5/1 with INTP personality type, born in fire snake year.
I'm following my dreams and passions every day. Learning to understand taking all my money. People needs help but not afford to pay.
Pax 🙏
Good for you for following your dreams and passions 👏👏 I was born in the earth snake year
Cool to see another Intp 😀. 3/5 profile emotional projector
Thank you I got my work cut out for me: decades of pretty serious mental health struggles (cptsd) has left me with a daily lifestyle that is the exact opposite of what would be the healthy choice in order to get closer of that goal from 'surviving'/existing, to thriving, living, managing myself my home my life instead of this exhausting string of maladaptive coping strategies that are oh so familiar after all this time it is almost like this false sense of security, because at least I know what I got, almost 'being good at chronic depression' as a sign of strength...?
The thing is I know it takes babysteps I just have no clue what steps to take first. I enthousiastically keep on devouring boatloads of theory but then find myself surrounded by books and am totally overwhelmed with all the advised points of action while I don't even have the most basic of basics down: a proper sleep-wake rhythm, a schedule for the day, a meal plan, it is just one Peter Pan / Pippi Longstocking existence which I try to keep a sense of humor about and cherish having the means and the freedom to do so but it is totally unfulfilling me on a soul level and in the meantime the clock keeps ticking away and my life is passing by while the only legacy I am building is still a figment of my imagination for I can't start building anything sustainable long term that could grow fruit (as a metaphor) as long as I am fighting this 'war on chaos' on a daily basis.
I'd love to hear from fellow projectors (I'm a 4/1 opportunist researcher is all I know at this moment) who have successfully found their way out of pretty life influencing issues with executive functioning, like timeblindness and other add and spectrum type stuff.
What makes me most bitter is not even a lack of support system or invitations but feeling my own potential but not getting to a point where I can finally start to put them to good use because I can't see the forest for the trees.
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Thank you so much for this and all your videos. I am fairly new to Human Design and thus learning, and unwinding the aspects that no longer serve. As a plant fragrance maker & distiller, I have studied alchemy and appreciate you mentioning the Kybalion and the main alchemical principal, so good! Yes, please share more about how you worked with the shadow and inner child.
Quality content! This adds the depth to Human Design I was missing in other content. Thank you so much!
Thank you Maxime! I’m so glad you enjoyed this ❤️
Thank you
Yes pls share your perspective on shadow and inner child work
Just watched a couple of your videos, so good! Thank you they are just what I needed right now, will definitely be watching more😃🙏
Yay!! So glad you enjoyed them! 🙌😊
Thank you❤
Thank you so much from one projector to another (6/2). I have been in a whirlwind of productivity the last few years with client work, 2 channels and 3 small kids and a 6/2 projector husband who os also a yt creator and am now completely burnt out.
Have needed to stop client work for the next 6 weeks so that I can get back into my body. My poor body got bigger and bigger with each new client...so i needed this strategy from you to confirm im on the right track, but also to unpack the 'why' of why this is important. And how to stop this from happening again. Right now I dont even want to go back to work because it feels like such a heaviness, and yet i need to pay our bills. (I can feel myself going into my story now!)
I am completely new to HD. I would love to learn about how to better 'become the invitation', or to release my creations without launching. Social media really feels false to me, but I'd love to understand a pathway to creating a better community without turning people off.
Have liked and subscribed and looking forward to your other gifts and offerings. Much love to you xxx
I see you have already created the video, I am looking for (and more besides). Looking forward to listening to your 6/2, projector mum and so many others. Can't thank you enough Krystal. I notice that you too have escaped to the Iberian peninsular with your family. We moved from England to Portugal in 2017. Best move ever for our family x
Such an amazing video! I love the way you communicate. So much structure and flow at the same time. Your own insights, the way you share your knowledge and personal life experiences are what make it so good!
I would love to hear your point of view on the gates. Have been reading so many books and feel that there's still something missing on how they really work and how much they influence our personalities and perception.
I'm really looking forward to watching all your videos and taking notes!! Thank you fellow projector! ✨🙏🏼
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement Joana!! ❤️ Ohhh yes, I'd love to talk about the gates and break it down. You're right a lot of books scratch the surface (I guess for simplicity's sake), but that ended up leaving me with a lot of questions myself including the effect of dormant gates, your sun gate if it's dormant, effect of planetary transits, etc. So, I'd love to address this!
Some ideas for new videos!
- What the not self theme and self theme and strategy looks like for each Aura type (ie. in a relationship or dating out there, in a business, going out with friends/casual setting). I like how you used a specific example of what you did for yourself as a projector and it helped me understand a lot more.
- If this is something you're up for (takes a lot of time), short skits of each aura type (ie. What each aura looks like as a coworker). Here's an example of what someone did for Enneagram type:
ua-cam.com/video/AxZEY7IZkQ8/v-deo.html
Wow my entrepreneurial journey sounds so similar. Feels good to hear someone else understand.
Thank you for all you are doing on here! Really helps. I just realized I am not living my strategy and it helps to hear a fellow projector’s experience
You are so welcome!! So glad this was helpful!! ❤️
gratitude
I would love to learn how to heal from childhood abuse and what I can do to free from the constant struggle of keeping it in and how to let go
Thank you so much. I have been struggling for so long. I was burned out. Stopt working. And finally started talking proper care for myself. But I do love helping others transform and heal themselves. Now I am taking steps towards that, but in a fun way.
So happy you're embracing the rest + playfulness Jolene! And thank you for sharing your journey, you'll be a guiding light for others I'm sure 😊✨
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! Would love to see the shadow work and inner child work videos pleaseeee 🥰❤️
Ahh it was my pleasure! And noted will definitely keep that in mind for the next videos!
Keep using your judgment, and I appreciate your support!
I am very similar human design as you so I’m really enjoying your knowledge shares!
Thank you so much Erin! ❤️ I'm so glad this has been helpful! Is there anything else in particular that you've been wanting to learn more about?
Thank you for all great information and authentic vibe. I learn alot, just dived into human design and eager to learn. Also, listening to your voice I feel my nervous system goes into rest and digest 😌😊 super comfortable.
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You are so welcome Johanne! 🙏 That makes me so happy to hear, I'm glad the energy can be felt 😊
I would love to learn more about Shadow Work and Inner Child Work
I like hearing those universal laws "As above.." Would love to hear more about these things from you.
I’m honestly so new to Human Design, I’m not sure exactly what questions I have yet 🤣 I do adore your videos and they’re immensely helpful
Yayy!! Thank you so much, appreciate your kind words 🥺
thank you for making these videos, i feel blessed! and I'd like it if you make a video about no authority/mental projector✌
You are so welcome! Oh would love to do that, I'll definitely keep that in mind!
Enjoyed your Ell reference from Legally Blonde 🥳🌱💞🎶🤣
Thank you
Ever since my closest friend decided to do the exact business (even in theme and message) as me I've felt robbed and feel angry and bitter. Now repelling everyone! I guess it's because i want to be seen as a projector maybe. It's very frustrating as on the one hand i feel there's really nothing to be upset about and on the other i feel disrespected and like she is competing, but she's not consciously doing it. She's one of my closet friends and means a lot to me.
Oh wow that’s a tough one, I’m so sorry about that. 😢 Not sure if this helps, but there’s one thing she can’t replicate and that’s you and your energy! You are one of a kind and the people you are meant to serve will be guided to you. Remember that and don’t give up! 🙏❤️
Omg gurll, I can relate!! My MUM stole the idea and it made me so bitter and angry especially that for me it wasn’t even working out. But at the end she’s still my mum lol, there’s nothing that can change that’ and there’s no one can ever do it like me
I really like your videos ❤️
I wish I could afford a reading with you 😔 keep up the good work!
love your videos
Thank you Valeria! ❤️
Enjoying this video a lot. Yes, I love Shadow work and Innner Child work. Invite you to share more about that and technical ways. 😏
Hello Krystle, I just got to know of you a few days ago, and I am fascinated. Most especially, acknowledging thoughts of bitterness and jealousy shocked me. I thought I had done SO much healing around this, and yet it would seem not. I'm SO tired of spinning my wheels and feel I'm at a crossroad. I'm tired of chasing clients and think I might just give up and "retire."
Hi Cheron!! Firstly, I want to say I see you and I hear you. ❤️ Bitterness and jealousy are completely natural, and the majority of us are not totally immune to feeling this way even after working on it. It’s a lifelong journey after all isn’t it!
Secondly, if “chasing” is something you want to move away from, this is exactly what I help my clients with through my Business x Design intensives. To get your business totally aligned to you and your design, so that you don’t get burnt out, and also have an aligned client attraction strategy in place so that you don’t have to chase. If this is something you feel would help you, you can email me at krystle@krystlealfarero.com and I’d love to share more information ❤️
Wow just came across your video. Thank you!! I have been in my not self for some time now and intending to change :) and have been reading abit on HD lately. I am a self projected 3/5 profile with only G and Throat defined.
Cool!! I’m not sure if you’ve seen my other video on SPP but here it is ua-cam.com/video/nSlT7Bb_h3Y/v-deo.html
I would love to learn more about shadow work and inner work
I find decluttering really difficult. I can get rid of items or people Etc. but I mean we need an income. Getting rid of an a job that drains us sounds like the best decision, but who can promise that another invite will come!
Great point! Your financial security is very important! So the question then becomes, how can I prepare to declutter or leave this job (for example) in a way that feels safe for me? I get not everyone has the privilege to just get up and leave, so firstly deciding you deserve better and then having an exit strategy, is probably a better option than staying stuck. 😊
Thank you
You are so welcome!
Wonderful tone, great flow of video. Only thing I would like to ask is does your example have to be broad that can go with all types of people. And when speaking about a type of person it be more specific.
mental projectors !! plz and thank you
Thankyou 🙏💚🧘♂️
You are so welcome!!
When my friends ask me about HD I just send them here. Thanks for all you share and create?! 😅❤
Ideas? What strategy would working out look like for each type? I used to work out like a generator and then I switched to working out like a projector (less days / week and less intense) and started feeling so much better and getting better results. Not sore all the time!!
Projector in a healthy romance relationship please
Thank you so much for this suggestion!! Relationships are a hot topic ✨
thanks,🤙🏿🤙🏿❤️ I really liked the video. It would be good to see what a projector with
Splenic
2/4 hermit
opportunist 😊🤙🏿 is
That's me too...2/4 splenic projector. It's tricky sometimes!
Thank you so much for watching this video!! ❤️ What else would you like to learn about Human Design?!
Hello Krystle. I would like to learn about 6\2 if possible. Thanks.
@@danielnezis1041 Noted!! Will definitely do a series on the profiles, and specifically 6/2
@@danielnezis1041 And hi Daniel! Welcome to the community, glad to have you here.
Hi, I would love to know more about parenting. There is not so much to find... I am A projector mom, Married to A manifestor and having 2 generator boys.
@@judithhermarij9993 Ohh that's such a great suggestion Judith!! Thank you! What an interest mix you have there ❤️
I am a 1/3 splenic projector. I went into nursing on the urging of my family. What a horrible decision that was. I got out of that. Thank God I have a supportive husband and a comfortable living situation but I still have a tendency towards bitterness. Not wanting to take care of others and I often feel exhausted. I can't even focus on a career. How can I change this up for good? I am an artist but often feel like I don't have time to focus on the things that I desire to do with kids, dogs, husband, house and a mentally ill sister who has no one else. I find that I want to run away from here and tell no one where I am.
Doing business as a projector! I’m an illustrator working for myself, but I want to work on personal projects and not freelance often.
That’s awesome! You got this 💪💪👏
Absolutely brilliant. Your best video yet..
Thank you Brian!
Pleeeease elaborate on your entrepreneur strategy as a projector
I think you inspired my next video ☺️ but if I had to leave you something quick, my strategy is simplicity.
Do the least amount of work with the most impact and return, and you can start to get there by decluttering anything out of alignment (e.g. “shoulds”), and anything that doesn’t give you much ROI. (To be continued!)
The website you recommended for doing shadow work...doesn't seem to work. Did anyone else try? Is it just me?
BTW, thanks for all that you do! Your energy is delightful ❤