I recently discovered your videos and they bring to perspective a lot of major things that I don’t think a lot of the world realizes like the fact that social media is becoming more and more explicit to get to you view it more for that little bit of dopamine. I appreciate your videos bro keep them coming. And hope you yourself are taking care of yourself. You are worthy.
Listen man, I lost my brother to death plus a great friend within 2 weeks of each other. Quit smoking nicotine, weed, my girl left me, got into a almost near death car wreck that wasn't my fault, moved to a new city with no family or friends all in one year. Through all that, I hated myself for a long time. You have to really dig deep sometimes to find your purpose. Its in there my dudes, I promise. It may not seem like it but your purpose is YOU. Make YOURSELF good enough in a world where men "aren't good enough". I have dealt with those feelings most of my life. You can and will get rid of those feelings if you truly want to. Its hard work but definitely feasible. Keep your head up fellas. Its not over.
Thank u 4 this bro only real men will understand the struggle of other men because we are all in the same boat it takes everyone to keep the boat from sinking 1 person can’t stop the boat from sinking 🫡🫡
Meanwhile the manosphere ninjas are making ton of videos PROJECTING, saying that it's modern women that are lonely and suffering. Maybe this problem of loneliness is a societal phase we just have to find new ways to adapt to. Maybe it's a phase that's gonna pass at some point. Does not mean we are losing our humanity. How about men start being more honest, not even emotional, but HONEST. HONESTY can go a long way. Too many frauds teaching toxic games in this sphere.
Thank you for explaining it. As a woman this video also teached me something about men and what can run in their heads. I have a boyfriend and this helped me alot with understanding him more and appreciate.
Chi, I’ve just come across your channel. Your poise, articulation and the way you present yourself is captivating. We share a lot of the same values. I love seeing what you’re doing mate. Don’t ever stop. Salutations from another YT brother!
Discovered your channel a couple of days ago. First video, instantly subscribed, also now to the time chamber! Funny note: I was kind off on bottom rock when i clicked the first video. Guess you are right, only thing that can happen now is going up! Let's go and build this amazing community! Jesse
You are a blessing to this world and your encouraging words give me strength to face several more days to become the best version of myself. May God continue to bless you 💪🏿
added listenin to a video of yours each morning as part of my routine getting ready for my days, you truly have very inspirational and truthful words, keep doing you brotha.
@@chiyinde im bein fr, your vibe is js so peaceful n the 15-20min videos that you make, perfect time for me after i shower n get dressed prepared n everythin, keep it up.
Confucius said, "We all have two lives, and the second one begins when we realize we only have one." Glad to have come across your channel and I like the content style. PMO took hold of me around age 11, and at age 28, I'm starting the journey to heal from its effects. This channel is exactly what I and I believe many others need to hear. We have to be the change we want to see in the world. Great work.
Thanks for making this video, I just want to say that I've been having a lot of problems with my family and that my parents have split and I can't see my mother anymore since shes with another guy in another country and doesn't visit me. It's been 3 years since I saw her, she used to be my life even though she was never around that much she taught me how to feel emotions and how to express them. Without her in the household or any mother figure I can't express my emotions to anyone and I don't have an idea of what to do. I haven't anyone to talk to and I haven't been feeling any progress in anything while my father expects so highly of me while he sees through my problems and only sees the end goal, while I cry myself to sleep for many days not knowing what to do or how to act since I'm only in high-school. I just want to thank you for making these sorts of videos, I'm questioning my mental state but I don't think I'm depressed I just feel lost in life currently and very Un-loved in my family since the family life is complicated and I don't really have much say in the family since I'm the youngest. I just have to keep trying and improving in myself and when that happens and I see progress I hope that it will get easier.
Hi Chi. Thank you for making this video. You mentioned a lot of things that us men are going through within the first 90 seconds, and I have to say it couldn't be any more accurate. While only 20, and hopefully a prosperous life ahead of me. I find it incredibly difficult to keep going. Even if it's just that little bit more. Because everyday, it's always that little bit more. I know right, I sound pathetic whining. But this is the only place I can say something, because my manhood is questioned by my parents. Yes, I feel safer leaving this comment for you to read than speaking with my parents. And it's been that way for a long time. I come from a family where my younger sibling is the golden child, and coddled. My parents refuse to believe that we are unequal, when I don't receive the support I need, for my condition low level autism spectrum diagnosis. I could go on and on. I want to describe to you what I'm feeling, but I don't know what I'm feeling. To be honest, I don't even know why I'm commenting. I need help, I go to doctors just for them to give me pills which turn me into a zombie. I really don't know anymore.
Chi! You’re almost at 10k! I’m so proud of you brother. 100k this year is inevitable if you keep up the consistency, and I know it. YOU will change lives. You’re a huge inspiration for me to keep improving as well.
Ahhh thanks bro. Honestly the support has been insane. 10k is just an arbitrary number, but hearing people say I’m changing their lives is what really keeps me going. I genuinely appreciate your support brother.
@@chiyinde I just watched a video earlier (after the comment I posted congratulating you) of you saying that you didn’t care about numbers and that you started doing this to practice your speaking. That being said, I totally understand your stance on 10k subscribers. I’m grateful that there are people like you to restore what man used to be.
Hey man I like your videos, the words, the music all of that, I request you to make a video of how to deal with lonelieness. I view myself being lonely as a curse and as a gift sometimes, but i cant really control it so id be highly honored if you could tell me and all of us how to deal with it, control it and use it for the better. 17 btw cant find my place in life, feels like im a spectator, a ghost, a sidecharacter in the stories of others.
Hello Chi, What a wonderful video that is so encouraging. This applies to everyone. But I’ve long had a burden for men in society and it breaks my heart what is happening to them. I want to write a book that will champion them. But I’m a woman and the Church says I can’t do that. But I believe the Lord is calling me to speak to my brothers. What are your thoughts on this? I’m curious. I genuinely want to know if a man would read a book written by a woman when it’s championing him as a man in today’s society? Thank you!❤ You are a gift and you’ve encouraged me!
All the things he named that some men do are great.maybe more men should get involved in these things to stay busy. Perhaps they would also be able to connect with each other and hang out. That would help with the loneliness. More men group should be formed too. I hope things get better for them, and that more men support each other and develop friendships. And perhaps even romantic relationships 😊.
Why should straight men think about romantic relationships with a men? Maybe this works for straight woman think about a relationship with a other girl but not for a men.
@@user-ti5or4ny1e you re right. I guess more men should continue to opt out of romantic relationships and just focus on themselves and building strong platonic friendships with other men! Men are logical and natural leaders, They will find a solution real soon. studies show that 50% of men say they don't even want a romantic committed relationship. So everything is already turning around for them!!
Bro you know you just live life even if isnt the most fair for you or other people or specifically women who keep degrading and shaming men for existing well almost nobody can do anything about it like a women can say men are trash and other women will agree and bring up their stories but you do know that this is accepted by society. And they are more focused on helping women's problems and empowering them but either way men only get noticed sometimes in life or by society, but either way many men are just used to women degrading its what women usually do throughout their life and some women right it though but it either way its just life you have to get over it then some of these women end up regretting it cause they have no man to help them or potentially save them in the future but either way its tough.
And if you're a girl who struggles, your phone gets instantly filled with dm's of support and such, sure life is hard as a man. Having to be cold hearted and emotionless to be seen as "strong" is insane and self-destructive. Sure bro, we ain't gonna cry in public and such, but having to act like everything is fine, when deep inside we're destroyed, and we're trying to build back up ourselves, it's bloody painful.
You’d be surprised at how untrue that is. The feminists are ruining it for women who aren’t cutthroat and cruel, too. I’ll admit we definitely have the privilege of not being called toxic around the clock, but we’re just as lonely.
@@alissakain9302 You must be a rare case, unless your pfp is fake you look fine, so you probably have more chances to get support either way, just a few "cute" posts on social media and boom, let the dm's flow.
@@mufmager I can honestly say nobody’s thought I was attractive enough to believe my pfp might be fake so thank you😅😊 I see what you’re saying though and I appreciate you bringing it up-yes, I can see how it’s frustrating for men to be in a position where they feel they wouldn’t be supported even if they put themselves out there and really tried. And maybe half the reason for that is that the type of women who aren’t spewing hatred towards men live more conservative lives and aren’t out very often. Just know that there definitely are women out there who aren’t cruel & mean spirited - it’s just that we’re all at home in sweatpants😅
@@alissakain9302 You're welcome. Wow I heard the last part you've mentioned somewhere and since then I didn't take it off my mind, very like minded. In fact, what if the actual girls we'd consider "perfect" are so hard to find, because most of them are at home or or just too busy with their lives? Now for us it's all about appearing stoic and operate as if things were right. Now I do not say it's ok to be crying all around showing your emotions, but neither to bottle them up because the outcome leads to anger issues or worse, but more of... with honesty, just more of not being seen as evil and blamed for everything, you already know where do i with that.
@@mufmager I’m happy to be able to validate what you’ve suspected is true. I often wonder the same about guys; maybe the quality ones are working and just going back home to make dinner and watch tv. In reality, I think maybe the good people just get so put off by the craziness (and lack of morality) in modern dating that they 1) Believe all men/women just want hookups and flings 2) Are put off by #1 so they just stay at home. Meanwhile the data is skewed because there truly are nice people out there, it’s just that they’re not posting on social media all day or in any of the places we’ve been taught to look for people like bars, clubs, etc (therefore the good ones seem like they don’t exist…they do, they’re just hidden at home). We truly have the most depraved people scaring the rest of us out of dating just because they insist on making their opinions/voices the loudest, huh? Sad! Wow, that really gave me food for thought! Thanks! I suppose I better learn to be more social sooner or later if I don’t want AI girlfriends becoming normalized, huh? Hahaha(:
Put God first, go to the gym, workout let that be your vent to get away from the world for a little while. Find what you love, and then get to work and do not compare yourself to others, and do not spend your days on social media and looking at other people lives, just do you and everything will improve and get better.
Let me help you understand why so many people don't care about men's loneliness. I volunteer with three groups. One is my local animal shelter, one is the Boys and Girls club (I go maybe 2x a month for a couple hours for homework help) and my garden club which helps fix up small garden spaces in nursing homes for the elderly. The animal shelter only gets male volunteers if they are court-ordered. The shelter realized that court-ordered volunteers didn't do a good job and so we stopped accepting them. Now we have zero men there and tons of women from high schoolers to college girls to middle aged to old. I have never once seen a man at the Boys and Girls club. A man who offered up even one hour once a week to play ball with the kids would have an instant fan club. But every time a man explains that he feels lonely and I suggest thesr types of things they never do it. They just want to complain. No one cares about you not because you don't love yourself. No one cares abput you because you don't care about anyone else.
its such a long and tedious process to volunteer though. if you could just show up, sign in in person, and do the work it would be so much better. but so many organizations require you to create an account among other things just to reach that point. some even require payment. its such a hassle.
@@RasheedahNizam Do you understand that men are different from women? Women are natural caregivers. Men are natural breadwinners. Men are supportive in a different way than women. Of course, you see more women at these boys and girls club events you go to. For a man to go to one of these things, you understand that that man probably has ulterior motives AKA looking for women. Men and women are not the same. Stop blaming men for everything. How bout get off your high horse and have some empathy for men, we have no support system.
The sad thing is that because there’s not a lot of support systems for a guy they get their anger out in the wrong ways and fall for channels and people who want to blame women for their confidence issues cause social media is pushing a gender war on us all the time and it really sucks. My advice to guys is to remember the things about yourself that you like and tell yourself those things everyday and don’t look at insecurity as something that is debilitating look at it as a part of your story cause life is obstacles, realize that the world is a better place with you in it and that there are people who understand what you’ve been through or going through and you need to see the potential in yourself cause I guarantee everyone reading this the potential is there. This channel is amazing keep pushing a positive message and keep being a strong role model for guys cause we don’t have a lot of those shout out to Chi
@@pashacold6056 Nope. I believe in spoiling your wife and treating her like a queen. This is not the same as allowing her to disrespect and walk all over you.
@@chiyinde what's the point in putting her on a pedestal? Is it possible to be mere people who like each other, find it comfortable to be together, without Idealizing?
as a shy and introvert person, i tried making new friends online on different platforms like instagram and discord, i was literally telling random people directly that im lonely and i need someone to talk to, i mostly got no response and even the people that responded with yes.. i don’t really think that they 100% mean it or that they’re willing to continue with that “virutal friendship” so after trying with more then 100 people i can say that method doesn’t work.
Chi is fast becoming my new favourite UA-cam channel.
Facts
Means a lot brother
Same
True
You’re light in the darkness of sad men..
Keep shining brother.
Thank you brother ❤️
this guy will blow up I'm calling it now
Will revisit this comment in a year
I recently discovered your videos and they bring to perspective a lot of major things that I don’t think a lot of the world realizes like the fact that social media is becoming more and more explicit to get to you view it more for that little bit of dopamine. I appreciate your videos bro keep them coming. And hope you yourself are taking care of yourself. You are worthy.
Truly appreciate the support man
Listen man, I lost my brother to death plus a great friend within 2 weeks of each other. Quit smoking nicotine, weed, my girl left me, got into a almost near death car wreck that wasn't my fault, moved to a new city with no family or friends all in one year.
Through all that, I hated myself for a long time. You have to really dig deep sometimes to find your purpose. Its in there my dudes, I promise. It may not seem like it but your purpose is YOU. Make YOURSELF good enough in a world where men "aren't good enough". I have dealt with those feelings most of my life. You can and will get rid of those feelings if you truly want to. Its hard work but definitely feasible.
Keep your head up fellas. Its not over.
Proud of you bro. Keep your head up
You too my guy, much love and keep going.
People like you deserve more views, the way you give advice without trying to sell something is 1 of a kind
Thanks for sharing this man! I love your message🙏
Thank you so much man,this helped🙏
u helping me alot man seriously thank you so much man
Thank You!
I needed you today.
Brother Chi becoming my most favorite brother to speak actually truth. Thanks brother 🙏🙏🙏
Love the consistency brother. Amazing content as always. The Truth is a hard pill to swallow.
Well said brother. You're doing good work. Thank you.
You deserve more subs bro
Amazing video and great advices as always, God bless you❤
Great content. Hope you get lot of supporters ❤
This guy is so real and talks complete facts you can’t not listen and be engaged in the video . TOP !🤝🏾🤝🏾
Yo! your channel is growing fast, btw congrats on the 10k!
Thank u 4 this bro only real men will understand the struggle of other men because we are all in the same boat it takes everyone to keep the boat from sinking 1 person can’t stop the boat from sinking 🫡🫡
Meanwhile the manosphere ninjas are making ton of videos PROJECTING, saying that it's modern women that are lonely and suffering. Maybe this problem of loneliness is a societal phase we just have to find new ways to adapt to. Maybe it's a phase that's gonna pass at some point. Does not mean we are losing our humanity.
How about men start being more honest, not even emotional, but HONEST. HONESTY can go a long way. Too many frauds teaching toxic games in this sphere.
Thank you for explaining it. As a woman this video also teached me something about men and what can run in their heads. I have a boyfriend and this helped me alot with understanding him more and appreciate.
i been skipping classes about 3 week now cuz of shame and guilt im about to fail my college, I'm beyond cooked.
Chi, I’ve just come across your channel. Your poise, articulation and the way you present yourself is captivating. We share a lot of the same values. I love seeing what you’re doing mate. Don’t ever stop. Salutations from another YT brother!
You re great!
Discovered your channel a couple of days ago. First video, instantly subscribed, also now to the time chamber! Funny note: I was kind off on bottom rock when i clicked the first video. Guess you are right, only thing that can happen now is going up! Let's go and build this amazing community! Jesse
Welcome aboard brother
I appreciate how transparent you been with these topics bro,much love🖤
Love brother
gained a new subscirber bro keep it up
You are a blessing to this world and your encouraging words give me strength to face several more days to become the best version of myself. May God continue to bless you 💪🏿
Respect 👊🏾
added listenin to a video of yours each morning as part of my routine getting ready for my days, you truly have very inspirational and truthful words, keep doing you brotha.
This is so crazy to me. Doesn’t even feel real
@@chiyinde im bein fr, your vibe is js so peaceful n the 15-20min videos that you make, perfect time for me after i shower n get dressed prepared n everythin, keep it up.
Confucius said, "We all have two lives, and the second one begins when we realize we only have one."
Glad to have come across your channel and I like the content style. PMO took hold of me around age 11, and at age 28, I'm starting the journey to heal from its effects. This channel is exactly what I and I believe many others need to hear. We have to be the change we want to see in the world. Great work.
Thank you bro, from the bottom of my heart. You are the first person on the internet to actually make an impact on me
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Thanks for making this video, I just want to say that I've been having a lot of problems with my family and that my parents have split and I can't see my mother anymore since shes with another guy in another country and doesn't visit me. It's been 3 years since I saw her, she used to be my life even though she was never around that much she taught me how to feel emotions and how to express them. Without her in the household or any mother figure I can't express my emotions to anyone and I don't have an idea of what to do. I haven't anyone to talk to and I haven't been feeling any progress in anything while my father expects so highly of me while he sees through my problems and only sees the end goal, while I cry myself to sleep for many days not knowing what to do or how to act since I'm only in high-school.
I just want to thank you for making these sorts of videos, I'm questioning my mental state but I don't think I'm depressed I just feel lost in life currently and very Un-loved in my family since the family life is complicated and I don't really have much say in the family since I'm the youngest. I just have to keep trying and improving in myself and when that happens and I see progress I hope that it will get easier.
i can relate a lot im sorta very alone myself despite how much i try to not make it seem
I appreciate you
you are amazing chi
So are you brother
Hi Chi. Thank you for making this video. You mentioned a lot of things that us men are going through within the first 90 seconds, and I have to say it couldn't be any more accurate. While only 20, and hopefully a prosperous life ahead of me. I find it incredibly difficult to keep going. Even if it's just that little bit more. Because everyday, it's always that little bit more. I know right, I sound pathetic whining. But this is the only place I can say something, because my manhood is questioned by my parents. Yes, I feel safer leaving this comment for you to read than speaking with my parents. And it's been that way for a long time. I come from a family where my younger sibling is the golden child, and coddled. My parents refuse to believe that we are unequal, when I don't receive the support I need, for my condition low level autism spectrum diagnosis. I could go on and on. I want to describe to you what I'm feeling, but I don't know what I'm feeling. To be honest, I don't even know why I'm commenting. I need help, I go to doctors just for them to give me pills which turn me into a zombie. I really don't know anymore.
Keep your head up dude. Join the community and DM me if you like.
Tank's man
Chi! You’re almost at 10k! I’m so proud of you brother. 100k this year is inevitable if you keep up the consistency, and I know it. YOU will change lives. You’re a huge inspiration for me to keep improving as well.
Ahhh thanks bro. Honestly the support has been insane. 10k is just an arbitrary number, but hearing people say I’m changing their lives is what really keeps me going.
I genuinely appreciate your support brother.
@@chiyinde I just watched a video earlier (after the comment I posted congratulating you) of you saying that you didn’t care about numbers and that you started doing this to practice your speaking. That being said, I totally understand your stance on 10k subscribers. I’m grateful that there are people like you to restore what man used to be.
Subbed, your gonna blow.
*You're
Hey man I like your videos, the words, the music all of that, I request you to make a video of how to deal with lonelieness.
I view myself being lonely as a curse and as a gift sometimes, but i cant really control it so id be highly honored if you could tell me and all of us how to deal with it, control it and use it for the better.
17 btw cant find my place in life, feels like im a spectator, a ghost, a sidecharacter in the stories of others.
You're a breath of fresh air compare to so many frauds and grifters in this sphere.
Hello Chi, What a wonderful video that is so encouraging. This applies to everyone. But I’ve long had a burden for men in society and it breaks my heart what is happening to them. I want to write a book that will champion them. But I’m a woman and the Church says I can’t do that. But I believe the Lord is calling me to speak to my brothers. What are your thoughts on this? I’m curious. I genuinely want to know if a man would read a book written by a woman when it’s championing him as a man in today’s society? Thank you!❤ You are a gift and you’ve encouraged me!
good video brother
Thank you bro
I’m jus going a financial crisis, pple keeps on letting me down, giving my money and trusting pple, this been happening for 3 years now 💔💵
I feel like you talking to me personally
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I wish I saw this video 2 days ago...
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Find God
Every woman Ive met never wanted to help man its insane. Woman just feel better just because of their physical body but it will fade.
Been here
Same
10k subcriber🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
All the things he named that some men do are great.maybe more men should get involved in these things to stay busy. Perhaps they would also be able to connect with each other and hang out. That would help with the loneliness. More men group should be formed too. I hope things get better for them, and that more men support each other and develop friendships. And perhaps even romantic relationships 😊.
Why should straight men think about romantic relationships with a men? Maybe this works for straight woman think about a relationship with a other girl but not for a men.
@@user-ti5or4ny1e you re right. I guess more men should continue to opt out of romantic relationships and just focus on themselves and building strong platonic friendships with other men! Men are logical and natural leaders, They will find a solution real soon. studies show that 50% of men say they don't even want a romantic committed relationship. So everything is already turning around for them!!
Bro you know you just live life even if isnt the most fair for you or other people or specifically women who keep degrading and shaming men for existing well almost nobody can do anything about it like a women can say men are trash and other women will agree and bring up their stories but you do know that this is accepted by society. And they are more focused on helping women's problems and empowering them but either way men only get noticed sometimes in life or by society, but either way many men are just used to women degrading its what women usually do throughout their life and some women right it though but it either way its just life you have to get over it then some of these women end up regretting it cause they have no man to help them or potentially save them in the future but either way its tough.
I was currently addicted to masturbation never new what am doing is killing me
When I realized I feel so
Bad and depressed
And if you're a girl who struggles, your phone gets instantly filled with dm's of support and such, sure life is hard as a man.
Having to be cold hearted and emotionless to be seen as "strong" is insane and self-destructive.
Sure bro, we ain't gonna cry in public and such, but having to act like everything is fine, when deep inside we're destroyed, and we're trying to build back up ourselves, it's bloody painful.
You’d be surprised at how untrue that is. The feminists are ruining it for women who aren’t cutthroat and cruel, too. I’ll admit we definitely have the privilege of not being called toxic around the clock, but we’re just as lonely.
@@alissakain9302 You must be a rare case, unless your pfp is fake you look fine, so you probably have more chances to get support either way, just a few "cute" posts on social media and boom, let the dm's flow.
@@mufmager I can honestly say nobody’s thought I was attractive enough to believe my pfp might be fake so thank you😅😊 I see what you’re saying though and I appreciate you bringing it up-yes, I can see how it’s frustrating for men to be in a position where they feel they wouldn’t be supported even if they put themselves out there and really tried. And maybe half the reason for that is that the type of women who aren’t spewing hatred towards men live more conservative lives and aren’t out very often. Just know that there definitely are women out there who aren’t cruel & mean spirited - it’s just that we’re all at home in sweatpants😅
@@alissakain9302 You're welcome. Wow I heard the last part you've mentioned somewhere and since then I didn't take it off my mind, very like minded. In fact, what if the actual girls we'd consider "perfect" are so hard to find, because most of them are at home or or just too busy with their lives?
Now for us it's all about appearing stoic and operate as if things were right. Now I do not say it's ok to be crying all around showing your emotions, but neither to bottle them up because the outcome leads to anger issues or worse, but more of... with honesty, just more of not being seen as evil and blamed for everything, you already know where do i with that.
@@mufmager I’m happy to be able to validate what you’ve suspected is true. I often wonder the same about guys; maybe the quality ones are working and just going back home to make dinner and watch tv. In reality, I think maybe the good people just get so put off by the craziness (and lack of morality) in modern dating that they 1) Believe all men/women just want hookups and flings 2) Are put off by #1 so they just stay at home. Meanwhile the data is skewed because there truly are nice people out there, it’s just that they’re not posting on social media all day or in any of the places we’ve been taught to look for people like bars, clubs, etc (therefore the good ones seem like they don’t exist…they do, they’re just hidden at home). We truly have the most depraved people scaring the rest of us out of dating just because they insist on making their opinions/voices the loudest, huh? Sad!
Wow, that really gave me food for thought! Thanks! I suppose I better learn to be more social sooner or later if I don’t want AI girlfriends becoming normalized, huh? Hahaha(:
Put God first, go to the gym, workout let that be your vent to get away from the world for a little while. Find what you love, and then get to work and do not compare yourself to others, and do not spend your days on social media and looking at other people lives, just do you and everything will improve and get better.
Let me help you understand why so many people don't care about men's loneliness. I volunteer with three groups. One is my local animal shelter, one is the Boys and Girls club (I go maybe 2x a month for a couple hours for homework help) and my garden club which helps fix up small garden spaces in nursing homes for the elderly. The animal shelter only gets male volunteers if they are court-ordered. The shelter realized that court-ordered volunteers didn't do a good job and so we stopped accepting them. Now we have zero men there and tons of women from high schoolers to college girls to middle aged to old. I have never once seen a man at the Boys and Girls club. A man who offered up even one hour once a week to play ball with the kids would have an instant fan club. But every time a man explains that he feels lonely and I suggest thesr types of things they never do it. They just want to complain. No one cares about you not because you don't love yourself. No one cares abput you because you don't care about anyone else.
its such a long and tedious process to volunteer though. if you could just show up, sign in in person, and do the work it would be so much better. but so many organizations require you to create an account among other things just to reach that point. some even require payment. its such a hassle.
@@ihatehearts what group did you try that asked payment?
So it's still our fault. Got it. You see the problem with you women? You always generalize.
@@AG26498 thanks for reminding me of this comment. @dev0hh still didn't tell us where he tried to volunteer that asked for payment.
@@RasheedahNizam Do you understand that men are different from women? Women are natural caregivers. Men are natural breadwinners. Men are supportive in a different way than women. Of course, you see more women at these boys and girls club events you go to. For a man to go to one of these things, you understand that that man probably has ulterior motives AKA looking for women. Men and women are not the same. Stop blaming men for everything. How bout get off your high horse and have some empathy for men, we have no support system.
Why contributing to the world when we are underpayed? Especially physical men work.
The sad thing is that because there’s not a lot of support systems for a guy they get their anger out in the wrong ways and fall for channels and people who want to blame women for their confidence issues cause social media is pushing a gender war on us all the time and it really sucks. My advice to guys is to remember the things about yourself that you like and tell yourself those things everyday and don’t look at insecurity as something that is debilitating look at it as a part of your story cause life is obstacles, realize that the world is a better place with you in it and that there are people who understand what you’ve been through or going through and you need to see the potential in yourself cause I guarantee everyone reading this the potential is there. This channel is amazing keep pushing a positive message and keep being a strong role model for guys cause we don’t have a lot of those shout out to Chi
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Literally start simping for your wife 👏🏻👏🏻
100%. Simping is acceptable when you’re married.
@@chiyinde you terrified me 🙀 this is how men become inferior in relationships...😞😞
@@pashacold6056 Nope. I believe in spoiling your wife and treating her like a queen. This is not the same as allowing her to disrespect and walk all over you.
@@chiyinde what's the point in putting her on a pedestal? Is it possible to be mere people who like each other, find it comfortable to be together, without Idealizing?
@@chiyindeIf its reciprocated, then yeah
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Average looking guys are getting ignored while handsome are getting attention
And the handsome guys are not marrying. So everyone is sad. Thanks modern women!
@@user-or8in5rx2h true modern women are fucked up validation seekers
It’s Over! The only hope for me is traveling overseas to get some attention
@@Satanic-Dan why?
as a shy and introvert person, i tried making new friends online on different platforms like instagram and discord, i was literally telling random people directly that im lonely and i need someone to talk to, i mostly got no response and even the people that responded with yes.. i don’t really think that they 100% mean it or that they’re willing to continue with that “virutal friendship” so after trying with more then 100 people i can say that method doesn’t work.
What’s your instagram sir