Awkward around girls? Here's the cure.

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  • Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
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    If You Get Awkward Talking To Girls WATCH THIS
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    #selfimprovement #motivation #success

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  • @diehondplays8260
    @diehondplays8260 3 місяці тому +60

    I actually watched a video of a man talking for 17 minutes and didn't get bored once

  • @BaronCell
    @BaronCell 4 місяці тому +47

    Overcome the fear of rejection. Acknowledge the possibility of rejection. it's part of life. There is winning and losing. It's impossible to always win. Through losing and falling we become better. Try to have the winning mindset though. Pick yourself up and move on. Once you master this, not only you will be confident to talk to girls, but also be confident in all challenging aspects of life. Don't be afraid to fall. And if you are, let fear be a catalyst for improvement. Make it happen! Also stop watching porn if you are. Peace!

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +6

      Wise words!!

    • @pauljohnson6019
      @pauljohnson6019 4 місяці тому +1

      Bro, everything here is illusion, only God and the spirit are real, you think even a good relationship is going to last forever?

    • @BaronCell
      @BaronCell 4 місяці тому +4

      @pauljohnson6019 nothing lasts forever brother. As for God i never said otherwise. Also I never said to chase girls. Or wealth on that matter. Just your goals in life.

    • @pauljohnson6019
      @pauljohnson6019 4 місяці тому

      Very well said, I'm over 40 years virgin mode.@@BaronCell

  • @Blaze-jl4gn
    @Blaze-jl4gn 4 місяці тому +19

    Thanks for the tips. You are teaching introverts how to progress in life. Cause sometimes, being an introvert can be cool and sometimes it feels like a curse.

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +4

      So true

    • @bananagunner8093
      @bananagunner8093 Місяць тому +1

      Don’t worry I believe in you to be a less introverted person

    • @mohamedyasser5603
      @mohamedyasser5603 22 дні тому

      @@bananagunner8093 Being introverted is not a curse, its the lack of social skill that is and you can be introverted with social skills

  • @LovelySkydiving-gm1ku
    @LovelySkydiving-gm1ku 4 місяці тому +11

    You are what hamza wants to be

  • @AMEDEO22
    @AMEDEO22 4 місяці тому +6

    Today I no longer have this problem, because I have learned that the best solution is to be yourself in order to then find a girl who appreciates this but first of all to be at peace with yourself. We need to play down situations and treat them in a normal and spontaneous way, not make every conversation with a girl a press conference

  • @ethanrussell5463
    @ethanrussell5463 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much my bro, definitely gonna put this stuff into practice man, thanks for the wise guidance, keep it up dude. this guy needs to be on the front page of everyone's social media platforms, you need to be heard.

  • @skyhighliner2786
    @skyhighliner2786 3 місяці тому +1

    Found your channel two days ago and no bullshit, best content I watch 2024

  • @SuperThisishowwedo
    @SuperThisishowwedo 17 днів тому

    This is solid advice. Thanks man

  • @explicita2558
    @explicita2558 4 місяці тому +1

    This helps so much i appreciate you for existing bro

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +3

      Thank you brother

  • @changwechiluba2541
    @changwechiluba2541 4 місяці тому

    I really appreciate your content.

  • @zekko600
    @zekko600 4 місяці тому +1

    Good tips man keep it up wit the videos

  • @mateobiancotti1679
    @mateobiancotti1679 4 місяці тому +3

    man. this is exactly what ive been looking for.
    i have never strugled to make a conversation flow, my problem is how to start it because i always overthink to much but your video has helped me to visualise everything in a whole different way.
    thank you

  • @NzBodycam
    @NzBodycam 4 місяці тому

    These videos are the best bro, keep it up ❤❤

  • @_leooguidera
    @_leooguidera 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you brother for all the effort and time you've been putting into both your channel and especially your community, and I feel pretty proud being the top on the all time leaderboard, keep it up brother 🙏🏽

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +1

      I appreciate you brother 👊🏾

  • @cleff9998
    @cleff9998 4 місяці тому +1

    a1 content bro. appreciate the uploads

  • @lindasteven9889
    @lindasteven9889 4 місяці тому +1

    Bro thanks. You take your time and speak well too

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому

      Much appreciated brother

  • @user-zi6yb4hl1w
    @user-zi6yb4hl1w 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you man

  • @tednordstrom3311
    @tednordstrom3311 4 місяці тому +1

    KEep doing this type of content dude, it really helps 😄

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому

      Glad it helped 🙏🏾

  • @TheCurtisdavies
    @TheCurtisdavies Місяць тому

    thanks for this man, I need to put it into practise

  • @averydaniels8924
    @averydaniels8924 2 місяці тому +1

    I need to watch this every single day lol!

  • @whurlpurl-_-2175
    @whurlpurl-_-2175 4 місяці тому +2

    never fail to make great content, I really like the slowed pace and lowered tone. I feel like when you speak to your audience almost like they're your children, it's so much nicer to watch and I can fully take in the message you give out. Thank you for all the content. It really helps build me and lots of others for sure. you're amazing

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for the support man

  • @KIMEOH
    @KIMEOH 3 місяці тому +2

    I hate so much when a bunch of people around me, are SO OBSESSED about getting on a relationship with a girl, and they refuse to hang out with girls just as friends. I can get that maybe you are surrounded by amazing girls and thinking "I will get with her" but even I (as a non very social guy) am conscious about the fact that you will never be able to have relationships with every woman that you're going to meet in your life, that's ridiculous. Also with that mentality you are missing a lot of things and experiences that you could be enjoying with girls just as friends, without wanting to get to the "next level".

  • @Reign-gp6oe
    @Reign-gp6oe 4 місяці тому

    This a little too close to home Chi, needed this now more than ever, thanks bro.

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +1

      Respect brother

  • @thegamercave5160
    @thegamercave5160 4 місяці тому

    Thanks man

  • @mufmager
    @mufmager 4 місяці тому

    I used to walk past a girl I particularly found quite intriguing almost all weeks every month back when I used to go to class, I always pictures many scenarios where I'd try to make eye contact or talked endlessly with ChatGPT where I'd explain it about it and what should i do.
    Days went by, encounters with her diminished, and to this day I still remember and reminisce over those days, wishing that maybe it was a chance I had with her but never taken it.
    To this day I walk through the places we used to "encounter each other" hoping I'd happen to find her walking by again.

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +1

      This just shows that there is no downside to taking action.
      You avoid talking to her = guaranteed failure.
      You approach her = either win or fail + guaranteed lesson learnt.
      "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"

  • @RominiyiOmodona
    @RominiyiOmodona Місяць тому

    This guy posts good video's the music is amazing its calmng i came from the no fap vid keep up the good work i am currently maintaining my streak till forever

  • @MemeNationOf2024
    @MemeNationOf2024 4 місяці тому

    More videos like this please

  • @fuhyfelax8218
    @fuhyfelax8218 4 місяці тому +2

    This might be kind of a weird thing to comment for a video like this but when I was a lot younger like 11 or 12 I got falsely accused by a girl and it really messed me up bad it was hard not to blame myself for it in a lot of ways, so I always had a really hard time talking to girls but I’m working really hard to be more confident the best advice was what my brother said to me “most guys aren’t confident but you have to seem confident even if you aren’t” and now for me it’s just baby steps if you told 11 year old me that I’d even be able to talk to a girl he wouldn’t have believed you but you gotta understand that the world is a better place with you in it and you just have to be a positive presence around girls make them laugh and make them comfortable I still haven’t gotten a lot of girls but it’s getting easier as age goes on and as I continue to better myself. Put women on a pedestal cause women are amazing but put yourself on that same pedestal tell yourself the things you like about yourself everyday and portray those things to people around you not just will you get more girls you’ll get more friends as well it might not ever be easy for me to talk to girls but the more that I’m being myself around girls and not trying to put on a show the more I realize how much of an amazing person I am and people notice that and they will with any other guy

    • @chasecordae1116
      @chasecordae1116 4 місяці тому +1

      You are an amazing person keep it up!🙂

  • @NzBodycam
    @NzBodycam 4 місяці тому

    Hey bro what music do u use, its so calming ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @obinnaanthonyezike
    @obinnaanthonyezike 4 місяці тому +1

    Whats the of the book you mentioned and the Author

  • @vizvik1678
    @vizvik1678 4 місяці тому

    Man, what's the name of the music played in the background?.. It seems good for meditation seesions!

  • @yano3.
    @yano3. 4 місяці тому

    For me it's how I sound

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +3

      You sound fine. All in your head my friend.

  • @user-pm6ld1gq3f
    @user-pm6ld1gq3f 4 місяці тому

  • @PratikBankar27
    @PratikBankar27 4 місяці тому

    keep it up brother ❤

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому

      I will bro. Thank you

  • @Auresma-sz8xn
    @Auresma-sz8xn 4 місяці тому

    Is the book the alter ego effect?

  • @PeaceMindForever
    @PeaceMindForever 2 місяці тому

    they shit ahhahahahah

  • @nested9301
    @nested9301 4 місяці тому +1

    I suggest to focus on topica that are more helpful to men and don't focus on women on your videos thanks!

    • @chiyinde
      @chiyinde  4 місяці тому +8

      Many men struggle with attracting women. How is the advice not helpful for men?
      Also, this advice can be applied to any situation when fear is present. The context is approaching girls but the advice can be applied in general life.