"He is a sensitive guy who could be a lot easier on himself." SO true. I really hope he will realize what a valuable and important person he is one day. I have so much respect for David.
The fact that you love gay people, and are a fan of horror content, just saved me from going off the deep end and committing some horrible acts of violence. You don't realize how evil and hateful most female horror fans are.
I was "saving myself for marriage" when I was "bisexual" too. Years of growth clarified that "waiting" was just my subconscious way of avoiding doing intimate things with women because, at the end of the day, I just wanted men. But, boy did I ever try to convince myself otherwise!
A lot of lgbtq+ Mormons who “save themselves for marriage” actually engage in same sex relationships, they just haven’t yet accepted that doing that is “sinful” so they will either end the relationship and “repent” or leave the church. When I was still attending church at 22, I was in a relationship with another woman, I had been in the relationship for a little over a year when I finally made the choice of religion or girlfriend. I had been questioning the church ever since I was a teenager, 16 and I realized I was bisexual, that’s when I started doubting everything the church said because I felt that same sex attraction + relationships were not sinful, doubting one teaching from the church led me to doubting all. I chose girlfriend over church, and in all honesty, I am happier now than I ever was in the LDS church. I am now a Presbyterian (PCUSA Presbyterian church, not the other one) and it is wonderful being in a fully-affirming religion, now I get to believe in God and a plan AND I have my girlfriend. I did a lot of research on fully-affirming churches and the PCUSA rang differently, I do believe it is the church I’ve been searching for my whole life.
@@elliefuller3667 If someone has to choose between a religion and doing what fulfills their life and needs (as long as it doesn't harm themselves or others), then the religion is clearly the one in the wrong. Religion should be about enriching the life you live - not about changing your life for its expectation.
@@charlieinfinite9434 Absolutely, perfectly said. That’s why even when I still believed in the LDS church it seemed icky to me that people would say “there’s only one true church.” Even if that’s true, everyone has different personalities and dispositions. How will everyone fit into one religion? Isn’t that exactly why there are so many, because it fits different people better? I feel that the PCUSA is MY true church, not everyone’s, but mine only. I know it isn’t part of the doctrine, but I honestly believe it is possible that all religions could coexist as the truth in several different forms. It would be cruel for God to have an earth with so many faiths and have everyone choose the correct one, I believe that He might have made a truth with many facets like a diamond, with each facet being a unique religion. They are all slightly different but have similarities, and ultimately in the end all of these could lead you to a paradise of an afterlife, IF you live as a good person.
I hope David reads this that I am praying for him that God will lead Him in his choices in life. Praying that Proverbs 3:1-8 help guide you in what ever you do. You are a blessing to many thru your songs.🎶🙏🏽💝
The mormon church did not condem the gays what the church condem was the unrighteous act and David know about it..when he said he prayed, he knows that the answer.
I appreciate that he is being honest about this. I felt a lot of the same emotions. I wasn’t a Mormon but i remember thinking i couldn’t believe in God if i was gay and i do believe in god.
That’s great you believe I’m God :) but I’m genuinely curious, our calling as a Christian is to believe in God and follow Jesus and to do His will. The Bible states that it is a sin and there is many verses on it, if we are meant to better ourselves and turn away from our wicked ways, how does one say it’s okay to be LGBTQ and believe in God/be a Christian?
@@shell7142 My belief in God is a bit more spiritual based and less based on other’s interpretations. I do believe God loves and understands me, and I do believe I’m a good person.
@@NeverEclipsed81 that’s awesome it’s more spiritual based we all need that. But May I ask what you mean by others interpretations? God loves us all and understands that’s why His mercy is new everyday and gives us forgiveness when we ask.
I just want to add that I’m not perfect, I’m human. I don’t want you to think I’m pointing at the “splinter” in your eye when I have a “ log” in my own, if you know what verse I’m speaking on lol The reason why I said about the Mercy and forgiveness is because as humans as believers we all need Gods forgiveness to keep in a good relationship with God. I’m struggling with my own sins, sometimes I sin without even knowing it because my eyes haven’t been opened yet in that given time because… I’m human. I’ve been born into a sin cursed world. Do you read the Bible often? I’ve read majority of it ( I say majority because I’m pretty sure I wasn’t paying attention a few times, my mind wanders lol) and when I did I found out how much mercy and Grace and love God truly gives to us and we don’t even know it or see it until our eyes are opened by the Holy Spirit. I also didn’t realize how many sins are against God and that’s not how He wanted our lives to consists of. I don’t want you to think I’m attacking you in anyway, and I’m not the best with words to be honest but as a member of Gods family i want to help anybody that I can as Jesus wants us too. :)
I understand where you’re coming from, but I do feel that labels are important to many people. Many want to have specific labels for their sexuality like bisexual or gay, and a lot want to have specific labels for their gender like transgender or non-binary. Me for example, I feel a lot better labeling myself as bisexual because it gives a more solid sense to a pretty flexible part of the human identity. But then gender, I’m gender apathetic, I don’t pay mind to pronouns as much as others, I will go by any pronouns anyone calls me. So labels can be really big to some, but not as big to others, y’know?
That wouldn't be doing anybody any favors. Identities are an important part of any society. How else could anyone know what you're looking for in dating partners?
@@gman2015z And a lot of people don't want to be the biological sex they are, but they are anyway. Reality doesn't care about our wants. Facts are facts- and most people are not moody teenagers who want to pretend that they don't want labels, but then go and make up a million more stupid labels.
David is a special young man with a beautiful, sensitive soul. I have always admired him, and do now even more. God has raised him to a place of prominence to demonstrate to LGBTQIA kids that they are all children of God.
After this coming out interview, I find myself admiring you even more. Brave David, Be who you want to be. Love and be loved 😘 Sending virtual hugs from a Filipino fan since 2008 😎
I'm moved of David for what he did...he never left whats his beliefs/faith...and tells to the world for what/who he really was.. ...🙏👍👏💓 I'm an inactive member of the church but still I have faith in the church and always have faith....😊🙏❤️
What a difficult journey through self-acceptance and integrating one's religious beliefs. As someone who has had the privledge of working in Utah as a counselor with LDS men, I have seen far too many lifes destroyed by gay men who follow the expected life script of mission, temple marriage and children in very rapid succession. Ultimately, honesty can prevent so much suffering. Wishing David the very best.
As someone who his also a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints I applaud his for being honest and true to himself. I applaud him even more for balancing the two together and not going against what he knows to be true. He has amazing faith.
@@lindseyscates9173 there’s nothing wrong about feeling another way. It’s not anything we can help. He’s been pretty clear he hasn’t acted on it and is doing all he can to stay true to the gospel. Shame on those who abandon the ones who need support.
@@kevinchristensen8785 I totally agree with you!!!! I just did a video about this on my channel. You can honor Eternal marriage & still love & support each other! Jesus loved the prostitutes & murderers! How are we as Christians getting this wrong??? Judge not & love one another. It's that simple! David still believes & doesn't act on it. God bless him! ❤❤❤
I think most of us knew, and we also knew that it'd be a struggle because of his religious background. I'm so glad he feels comfortable being who he is and is not afraid to be out and open anymore.
David, I’ve been a fan of yours since seeing you on the Jenny Jones show. I think you should have won American Idol over the other David. I believe he got a lot of sympathy votes because of the loss of his brother, and maybe being older. You’re my Idol. I admire you, respect you for being you. I love you and your singing and your songs. I’m battling fear and depression. There are times I would rather be dead. If you can and will remember me in your prayers please. I need a miracle from God. Love is love. You love who you love.
I've waited since knowing him from AI for him to come out to be his true self and be free to love whoever he has a feeling for. So congratulations David.
Nobody has the right to force anyone into hurrying someone’s coming out journey. It is a very personal process and if anything I believe a few years back when he was bullied through social media… stemming from Perez Hilton blowing up some religious quotes David tweeted at a time when David had just returned from a religious LDS mission… you could tell David meant no harm towards anyone and P Hilton did intend harm when he stirred up trouble for David and so many people were trying to bully David into coming out and it was so painful to see as a fan of his…and now we know it must have been especially brutal for him at a time when he was at a very vulnerable stage having just returned from two years of worship and service towards others. He was just readjusting to a normal life again on top of dealing with stardom and not wanting to let his fans down! Can you imagine the delicate period with coming to terms with his sexual orientation on top of all that bullying and hate. He is such a nice person!…I’m sure it set him back and scared him along with feeling like he hurt people going through what he was going through. He apologized but the public was brutal especially the lgbtq+ community were actually bullying him on many levels! That should never happen! We all need to understand that everyone has a right to come out when they are ready and not when others think you should! He has a right to worship and belong to whatever religion he choses just like anyone. If anything he is bringing awareness to the LGBTQ+ community and their rights within the church. I hope he performs at the next Love Loud Fest with Imagine Dragons! ❤️🙏🏻🌈😍🔥💥🥰🌈😅
There will come a day certain when a person’s orientation simply doesn’t matter to anyone else - at least in terms of judging others. That day has been sped up immeasurably by folks like David who have the courage to step forward and be honest with themselves and others. Blessings on you and your house young man - God resonates in you to others through your remarkable instrument.
Man that’s just amazing, I looked up to him cause of the song he created, and I never once had the feelings he was in some way bisexual and part of the LGBTQ+ community, nonetheless I’m so proud of him for what he has done so far in his journey and was able to share the truth with everyone, I hope he doesn’t receive a whole bunch of criticism I’m sure his faith is still strong and hopes that others who may be part of the LGBTQ+ community may also share their truth even if they have faith in the church, I too am part of it I’m Bisexual and I’m Mormon, I have some people in my life who support and I’m very glad they do, tho others don’t support in my family it’s okay cause I know who I am as a daughter of Heavenly Father and will continue to choose who I can love and still have my faith in him and our savior 🙏🏽❤️
I'm not sure why anyone has to explain their sexuality to someone. I understand he's coming out probably to let others feel like it's ok for them to do it too. Why have we gotten to the point that someone's sexuality defines who they are, it shouldn't.
It doesn’t, Molly. See, coming out is important because hiding a part of who you are is difficult. Living in a world where people like us (the lgbtq+ community) are extremely outnumbered and we don’t often get to see others like us in media, it is tough. When you come out, regardless of whether it has a positive or negative feedback, you feel much more free because now you know how the person/people reacted and no longer need to sit and worry about it. For example, when I came out to my parents as bisexual when I was 17, they kicked me out of their house. I had suspected they would react poorly, and it really did cut deep to have such important people that are supposed to love you no matter what kick me out, but I had taken a massive weight off my shoulders by telling them. When I came out to my siblings, they all reacted well, which took even more weight off my shoulders. Then the same with my immediate circle of friends. And finally there was no more weight on my shoulders. Coming out takes a lot of vulnerability, but in the end you will likely be glad you did, no matter how the person reacts.
David I pray that God will direct your life and help you to stay true to God as he made you. I love you in Christ Jesus and want to best for you, you are a very kind and tender hearted person David. I would love if I day I could talk with you face to face. God bless you my brother in Christ.
Praying for you, David. I've wrestled with similiar questions over many years. Have you ever heard of Courage International? Some thoughts: * Be careful about redefining marriage, etc... That's a Pandora's Box in the end. * Remember that Paul in 1Corinthians 7 definitely reassures unmarried people that they have an important part to play also. * KEEP PRAYING and trusting in God's goodness and providence. We are ALL fallen in this life, but He is so gracious... Don't be too hard on yourself, but DO seek His Will day by day, and don't just go along with the crowd, "progressive" or "conservative."
@@ziggy33399 I don't think this is about HIM being different, but more about his conservative background and the outrageous pressures that came with that and fame/public scrutiny.
I support you! I have been in a religious family in my past and I know what your going through I support you as I always have! Glad to be a fan of you, I am gay my self.
Im proud of him whether he is gay or not. He loves God and at the same time he wants to reconcile his feeling toward the same sex. There. is nothing wrong to be gay and Christian. Wrong is to judge person chooses gender. If you want to judge other people look at yourself first.
He's not telling the whole truth when he said he hasn't dated a man based on his body language. It was probably some situation where one of them didn't want to call it dating, but it essentially was dating. Supposedly it was a firefighter from Boston.
He did kind of stutter when he answered that question. Usually a sign of dishonesty. That being said I can understand the pressure on him to keep that to himself.
That is where he lost me, clearly being dishonest which makes everything else he said utter BS...sorry. The only thing a woman could do for him is introduce him to their brother.
Dear David. I am so proud of you. I am praying God gives you wisdom and courage to accept your divine calling. We need you as an example and encouragement to so many who are questioning and suffering. I send my love and support.
This guy is incredible. Being gay doesn’t mean you need to give up your faith or your personal goals and morals. The world says otherwise. David is following his North Star.
I'm not al all surprised by this because I've always had a feeling that he was gay since his idol years. Lol. David has always been in the back of my mind and with his religious beliefs and his strict father I've always wondered how difficult it must be for him not being able to live his truth. After all these years and I've waited to see if he would break free and come out and I'm glad he's finally found the courage to do so and live his truth. He came out as gay to his family but now he's not sure if he's gay but bi. This is clearly a sign of being in the denial stage and not being fully accepting of himself yet although I'm sure he's known all along of his truth but was scared to come out which is completely understandable. Or maybe because of his strict religious beliefs his family has a very hard time accepting his truth so he comes out as bi as a way to validate both. When you've been hiding your truth for a very long time it'll take a lot of effort and courage to fully accept yourself but with time you'll get there. I've always liked David and he seems like such a great guy, I wish him true happiness. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Yep. When I came out I was "bisexual" knowing full well I had 0 interest in a woman like that. It's like a stepping stone in the water to find out how other people respond. Shooo.. weeee.. it isn't easy, people can be so judgemental but I can't imagine how terrible it would feel to know you're mainly with someone just to try and make everyone else happy. It sucks society makes people feel they have to be like that.. but in the end the one that gets hurt the worst is the innocent person that never realized their partner wasn't truly in love with them or that it was a lie. I still think it's hilarious all the terrible things that go on daily and a lot of people still think gays are "the worst". Disturbing really. But I admire David, he stayed true to himself and they didn't take his love for God away. He's a very strong man for that.
not gonna lie he was my crush when i was in high school. however i kept that to myself because i was scared to come out as gay. i had to pretend to be straight growing up its a long story but now im out the closet and its the best damn feeling. to those still in the closet i will say its ok to still be in the closet. your time will come for you to come out and reveal who you really are. don't be in a hurry to come out.
He definitely looks different! Haven’t heard from him since his song crush and that was 2008!! 🥲😆 glad he’s doing well! Tho! ❤️FYI good for him for coming out! ❤️
First, I supported this guy through idol but I always thought there was a level of self hate that is vivid in him. It may be his family, or his religious believe but it was clear then and still now I struggle with what he actually said. Coming out as bisexual is a way to lessen the blow, I know cause I did it too. I just wish his self loving journey isn’t hard, because there’s so many people in the community bleeding on other people because of our internalized homophobia and I what we need is a more normalize ways of coming out or of supporting lgbtq folks.
Sometimes you fall in love with people regardless of their gender and/or sexuality. What’s so wrong with that? Everyone is on their own journey so acceptance is a good first step.
Good for you! You are NOT a mistake, you are NOT broken. Anyone who thinks or tells you different is WRONG! Stay strong and true to yourself and your soul. You are one of God’s children and loved.
David, you know? you are a good man, cutest, most talented, and everything you have are so good for me! So, I'm Happy for you, Really! Been more than 13 years be your fan and adore you, so no matter what sexual orientation you have, you're still be my fav one. Thanks for being honest to yourself and to us. LOVE YOU, Archie 😍😍😍😍😍
I love his music so much. I hope he finds happiness. I feel bad for him. The Mormon church is keeping him from being his true self😢He doesn't need to change and should act on his feelings. God loves him just the way he is.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not keeping him from being his true self. He already knows who he is. But he does still believe in the law of chastity - God's law.
You know it's not easy. It is a process and steps of life At some moments you maybe feel like you wanna be like this or that and at some point you don't want to be like that. It's hard. This about what decision you gonna making for. Again it's not easy :)
God loves us, no matter if you feel a kind of sexual orientation. The most important thing is avoiding the sin when we don't be obedient to the chastity commadment. Keep pure in the middle of this declining world. I love you David for being brave!
I sometimes have feelings for women, but not in a relationship context. Usually just crushes. But I do still prefer guys. So yeah, I also do feel in a spectrum of bi. Probably a 2 on the Kinsey scale. Anyway, WE STILL LOVE YOU DAVID! WHAT MATTERS IS THAT YOU ARE TRULY A GOOD PERSON. ♥️
I get not casually having sex, but I don't quite get not having sex with someone you're thinking of marrying. imagine you find out the sex is terrible and you're not compatible... after you get married! but that's just for me. I respect people's choices either way. and I'd be willing to let David wait :)
I mean, Asexual people still have beautiful marriages, same with couples who are in sex less marriages. I guess what I don't understand is why people hinge on sexual compatibility when that has never been the foundation of a successful relationship or a marriage. Like sex doesn't override the important qualities needed to make a relationship work so it's just strange to me when people consider it a big criteria. I guess we're opposites in thought, lol.
"He is a sensitive guy who could be a lot easier on himself." SO true. I really hope he will realize what a valuable and important person he is one day. I have so much respect for David.
The fact that you love gay people, and are a fan of horror content, just saved me from going off the deep end and committing some horrible acts of violence.
You don't realize how evil and hateful most female horror fans are.
What a kind and beautiful soul David is. His honesty is refreshing.
Reconciling your faith with your sexuality is such a difficult journey. Proud of him for being true to himself. You are loved, David! ❤️
I was "saving myself for marriage" when I was "bisexual" too.
Years of growth clarified that "waiting" was just my subconscious way of avoiding doing intimate things with women because, at the end of the day, I just wanted men.
But, boy did I ever try to convince myself otherwise!
A lot of lgbtq+ Mormons who “save themselves for marriage” actually engage in same sex relationships, they just haven’t yet accepted that doing that is “sinful” so they will either end the relationship and “repent” or leave the church. When I was still attending church at 22, I was in a relationship with another woman, I had been in the relationship for a little over a year when I finally made the choice of religion or girlfriend. I had been questioning the church ever since I was a teenager, 16 and I realized I was bisexual, that’s when I started doubting everything the church said because I felt that same sex attraction + relationships were not sinful, doubting one teaching from the church led me to doubting all. I chose girlfriend over church, and in all honesty, I am happier now than I ever was in the LDS church. I am now a Presbyterian (PCUSA Presbyterian church, not the other one) and it is wonderful being in a fully-affirming religion, now I get to believe in God and a plan AND I have my girlfriend. I did a lot of research on fully-affirming churches and the PCUSA rang differently, I do believe it is the church I’ve been searching for my whole life.
@@elliefuller3667 If someone has to choose between a religion and doing what fulfills their life and needs (as long as it doesn't harm themselves or others), then the religion is clearly the one in the wrong. Religion should be about enriching the life you live - not about changing your life for its expectation.
@@charlieinfinite9434 Absolutely, perfectly said. That’s why even when I still believed in the LDS church it seemed icky to me that people would say “there’s only one true church.” Even if that’s true, everyone has different personalities and dispositions. How will everyone fit into one religion? Isn’t that exactly why there are so many, because it fits different people better? I feel that the PCUSA is MY true church, not everyone’s, but mine only. I know it isn’t part of the doctrine, but I honestly believe it is possible that all religions could coexist as the truth in several different forms. It would be cruel for God to have an earth with so many faiths and have everyone choose the correct one, I believe that He might have made a truth with many facets like a diamond, with each facet being a unique religion. They are all slightly different but have similarities, and ultimately in the end all of these could lead you to a paradise of an afterlife, IF you live as a good person.
@@elliefuller3667 👏 👏 🙌🏼
@Katrina Cacal Seeing as all religion is made up by humans anyway, it's time to start writing in all people of the rainbow.
I never thought this would happen because of his Mormonism! Hes brave for living his truth. Hes an angel.
Same thing
I hope David reads this that I am praying for him that God will lead Him in his choices in life.
Praying that Proverbs 3:1-8 help guide you in what ever you do. You are a blessing to many thru your songs.🎶🙏🏽💝
His faith doesn't mean he won't identify as lgbt. It will only enable him to have hope! 😊
The mormon church did not condem the gays what the church condem was the unrighteous act and David know about it..when he said he prayed, he knows that the answer.
I didn’t even think he would come out like that in some way, but either way I’m happy for him, I myself am bisexual and also Mormon
I appreciate that he is being honest about this. I felt a lot of the same emotions. I wasn’t a Mormon but i remember thinking i couldn’t believe in God if i was gay and i do believe in god.
Same
That’s great you believe I’m God :) but I’m genuinely curious, our calling as a Christian is to believe in God and follow Jesus and to do His will. The Bible states that it is a sin and there is many verses on it, if we are meant to better ourselves and turn away from our wicked ways, how does one say it’s okay to be LGBTQ and believe in God/be a Christian?
@@shell7142 My belief in God is a bit more spiritual based and less based on other’s interpretations. I do believe God loves and understands me, and I do believe I’m a good person.
@@NeverEclipsed81 that’s awesome it’s more spiritual based we all need that. But May I ask what you mean by others interpretations? God loves us all and understands that’s why His mercy is new everyday and gives us forgiveness when we ask.
I just want to add that I’m not perfect, I’m human. I don’t want you to think I’m pointing at the “splinter” in your eye when I have a “ log” in my own, if you know what verse I’m speaking on lol The reason why I said about the Mercy and forgiveness is because as humans as believers we all need Gods forgiveness to keep in a good relationship with God. I’m struggling with my own sins, sometimes I sin without even knowing it because my eyes haven’t been opened yet in that given time because… I’m human. I’ve been born into a sin cursed world. Do you read the Bible often? I’ve read majority of it ( I say majority because I’m pretty sure I wasn’t paying attention a few times, my mind wanders lol) and when I did I found out how much mercy and Grace and love God truly gives to us and we don’t even know it or see it until our eyes are opened by the Holy Spirit. I also didn’t realize how many sins are against God and that’s not how He wanted our lives to consists of. I don’t want you to think I’m attacking you in anyway, and I’m not the best with words to be honest but as a member of Gods family i want to help anybody that I can as Jesus wants us too. :)
David is my cousin and it's crazy i didn't know this until now!!! Love you cousin im proud of you!!!!
He’s such a sweet soul
I hope maybe one day we no longer have to have labels about sexuality.
I understand where you’re coming from, but I do feel that labels are important to many people. Many want to have specific labels for their sexuality like bisexual or gay, and a lot want to have specific labels for their gender like transgender or non-binary. Me for example, I feel a lot better labeling myself as bisexual because it gives a more solid sense to a pretty flexible part of the human identity. But then gender, I’m gender apathetic, I don’t pay mind to pronouns as much as others, I will go by any pronouns anyone calls me. So labels can be really big to some, but not as big to others, y’know?
That wouldn't be doing anybody any favors.
Identities are an important part of any society.
How else could anyone know what you're looking for in dating partners?
I just farted.
@@TheEarthRealm a lot ppl don't want labels tho. Aren't we all just human beings?
@@gman2015z And a lot of people don't want to be the biological sex they are, but they are anyway. Reality doesn't care about our wants. Facts are facts- and most people are not moody teenagers who want to pretend that they don't want labels, but then go and make up a million more stupid labels.
David is a special young man with a beautiful, sensitive soul. I have always admired him, and do now even more. God has raised him to a place of prominence to demonstrate to LGBTQIA kids that they are all children of God.
He's 30 years old
@@richardlange72 True, a young looking 30. But I imagine David still has a following among younger LDS people.
@@michaelearendil6843 How much I want that God to be real.🤧😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
But I know he is not.
@@aryarathne2479 Why do you say this? Blessings and love to you.
After this coming out interview, I find myself admiring you even more.
Brave David,
Be who you want to be.
Love and be loved 😘
Sending virtual hugs from a Filipino fan since 2008 😎
I'm moved of David for what he did...he never left whats his beliefs/faith...and tells to the world for what/who he really was.. ...🙏👍👏💓 I'm an inactive member of the church but still I have faith in the church and always have faith....😊🙏❤️
What a difficult journey through self-acceptance and integrating one's religious beliefs. As someone who has had the privledge of working in Utah as a counselor with LDS men, I have seen far too many lifes destroyed by gay men who follow the expected life script of mission, temple marriage and children in very rapid succession. Ultimately, honesty can prevent so much suffering. Wishing David the very best.
I'm so proud of you, David!!! God bless you!!!💙🙏💙🙏💙
As someone who his also a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints I applaud his for being honest and true to himself. I applaud him even more for balancing the two together and not going against what he knows to be true. He has amazing faith.
Ummm… you cannot serve two masters. Therefore, there’s no balance in this.
Shame on anyone who overlooks the word of God for their own comfort and sensual desires! Stop trying to make others stumble.
@@lindseyscates9173 there’s nothing wrong about feeling another way. It’s not anything we can help. He’s been pretty clear he hasn’t acted on it and is doing all he can to stay true to the gospel. Shame on those who abandon the ones who need support.
@@kevinchristensen8785 I totally agree with you!!!! I just did a video about this on my channel. You can honor Eternal marriage & still love & support each other! Jesus loved the prostitutes & murderers! How are we as Christians getting this wrong??? Judge not & love one another. It's that simple!
David still believes & doesn't act on it. God bless him! ❤❤❤
I wonder if he would be suffering as much as he is suffering if he wasn’t raised Mormon.
He's just going through all the steps. It's not a linear path. He'll find his way. We all have a different path to get to our destination.
Through no fault of his own (having Mormon parents and being raised Mormon) this journey is a lot more tough than it has to be.
I think most of us knew, and we also knew that it'd be a struggle because of his religious background. I'm so glad he feels comfortable being who he is and is not afraid to be out and open anymore.
I really respect that David came out I also came out a few months
Omg David you are one of the sweetest humans i've seen.
David, I’ve been a fan of yours since seeing you on the Jenny Jones show. I think you should have won American Idol over the other David. I believe he got a lot of sympathy votes because of the loss of his brother, and maybe being older. You’re my Idol. I admire you, respect you for being you. I love you and your singing and your songs. I’m battling fear and depression. There are times I would rather be dead. If you can and will remember me in your prayers please. I need a miracle from God. Love is love. You love who you love.
I've waited since knowing him from AI for him to come out to be his true self and be free to love whoever he has a feeling for. So congratulations David.
Nobody has the right to force anyone into hurrying someone’s coming out journey. It is a very personal process and if anything I believe a few years back when he was bullied through social media… stemming from Perez Hilton blowing up some religious quotes David tweeted at a time when David had just returned from a religious LDS mission… you could tell David meant no harm towards anyone and P Hilton did intend harm when he stirred up trouble for David and so many people were trying to bully David into coming out and it was so painful to see as a fan of his…and now we know it must have been especially brutal for him at a time when he was at a very vulnerable stage having just returned from two years of worship and service towards others. He was just readjusting to a normal life again on top of dealing with stardom and not wanting to let his fans down! Can you imagine the delicate period with coming to terms with his sexual orientation on top of all that bullying and hate. He is such a nice person!…I’m sure it set him back and scared him along with feeling like he hurt people going through what he was going through. He apologized but the public was brutal especially the lgbtq+ community were actually bullying him on many levels! That should never happen! We all need to understand that everyone has a right to come out when they are ready and not when others think you should! He has a right to worship and belong to whatever religion he choses just like anyone. If anything he is bringing awareness to the LGBTQ+ community and their rights within the church. I hope he performs at the next Love Loud Fest with Imagine Dragons! ❤️🙏🏻🌈😍🔥💥🥰🌈😅
I 💯💯💯💯💯 can relate! I loved this guy from the moment I saw his audition and even more now!
There will come a day certain when a person’s orientation simply doesn’t matter to anyone else - at least in terms of judging others. That day has been sped up immeasurably by folks like David who have the courage to step forward and be honest with themselves and others. Blessings on you and your house young man - God resonates in you to others through your remarkable instrument.
I.love him
The silver lining, he is saving lives
Nothing wrong with being gay. When I was younger I pretended I was bisexual. If you are really bi, that's ok too. Be who you are.
Remember the best thing about being bisexual was that you were able to get a date (or two) each and every night of the week (month, year, etc.). LOL!
a girl is for a boy ONLY...
@@maimharihya2468 Shut up!
Being bi sexual doubles your chances on a Saturday night
@@scottpangburn7340 hahaaha
I hope all the best for him. I know how hard this is based on my own experience. God bless you David
I too have struggled with my faith and sexuality. I thank David for sharing his story.
Man that’s just amazing, I looked up to him cause of the song he created, and I never once had the feelings he was in some way bisexual and part of the LGBTQ+ community, nonetheless I’m so proud of him for what he has done so far in his journey and was able to share the truth with everyone, I hope he doesn’t receive a whole bunch of criticism I’m sure his faith is still strong and hopes that others who may be part of the LGBTQ+ community may also share their truth even if they have faith in the church, I too am part of it I’m Bisexual and I’m Mormon, I have some people in my life who support and I’m very glad they do, tho others don’t support in my family it’s okay cause I know who I am as a daughter of Heavenly Father and will continue to choose who I can love and still have my faith in him and our savior 🙏🏽❤️
I been crushing on David since his AI days lol. So happy he is free. ❤️
Chile me too
I always had a feeling he was one of us 🥰 such an angel baby I loved him in high school l!
He is saving himself for marriage, aww. I need a guy like that :)
I hate to be an idiot but when he said he was saving himself for marriage, what did he mean by that? Was be waiting for a man or woman?
I'm not sure why anyone has to explain their sexuality to someone. I understand he's coming out probably to let others feel like it's ok for them to do it too. Why have we gotten to the point that someone's sexuality defines who they are, it shouldn't.
It doesn’t, Molly. See, coming out is important because hiding a part of who you are is difficult. Living in a world where people like us (the lgbtq+ community) are extremely outnumbered and we don’t often get to see others like us in media, it is tough. When you come out, regardless of whether it has a positive or negative feedback, you feel much more free because now you know how the person/people reacted and no longer need to sit and worry about it. For example, when I came out to my parents as bisexual when I was 17, they kicked me out of their house. I had suspected they would react poorly, and it really did cut deep to have such important people that are supposed to love you no matter what kick me out, but I had taken a massive weight off my shoulders by telling them. When I came out to my siblings, they all reacted well, which took even more weight off my shoulders. Then the same with my immediate circle of friends. And finally there was no more weight on my shoulders. Coming out takes a lot of vulnerability, but in the end you will likely be glad you did, no matter how the person reacts.
As a gay woman, I don't know that this reporter went about this in the right way.
David I pray that God will direct your life and help you to stay true to God as he made you. I love you in Christ Jesus and want to best for you, you are a very kind and tender hearted person David. I would love if I day I could talk with you face to face. God bless you my brother in Christ.
Praying for you, David. I've wrestled with similiar questions over many years. Have you ever heard of Courage International?
Some thoughts:
* Be careful about redefining marriage, etc... That's a Pandora's Box in the end.
* Remember that Paul in 1Corinthians 7 definitely reassures unmarried people
that they have an important part to play also.
* KEEP PRAYING and trusting in God's goodness and providence.
We are ALL fallen in this life, but He is so gracious...
Don't be too hard on yourself, but DO seek His Will day by day, and don't
just go along with the crowd, "progressive" or "conservative."
I've always had the biggest crush on him
Sounds like he still has a lot to journey through yet. He still seems confused and conflicted
He prolly has
That's what cult brainwashing does to you unfortunately
We all have our own journey. This is his. We all get to be different. And isn’t that wonderful? ❤️
He’s bi. He Mormon. Not compatible.
@@ziggy33399 I don't think this is about HIM being different, but more about his conservative background and the outrageous pressures that came with that and fame/public scrutiny.
Same, David! Same! I am still waiting for someone to come. I dont mind if it is too long, if it is worth the wait.
God Made You David. God is perfect. God does not make mistakes. You are exactly how God intended you to be.
Done.
I support you! I have been in a religious family in my past and I know what your going through I support you as I always have! Glad to be a fan of you, I am gay my self.
It's ok David for being who you are. You should not feel guilty about who you are. I have been through what you're experiencing now.
David just follow yur heart n God will do the rest ! He loves u no matter who u r ! ❤️
Hello how are you doing
Im proud of him whether he is gay or not. He loves God and at the same time he wants to reconcile his feeling toward the same sex. There. is nothing wrong to be gay and Christian. Wrong is to judge person chooses gender. If you want to judge other people look at yourself first.
Yeesh, The Mormon Church really did a number on him.
I am religious but honestly when I hear Mormon everything and anything comes to light
@Owl_Lover I don’t think he would be suffering with his sexuality as much as he is suffering if he has secular parents.
What a guy and what a smile and what a voice love it David!
He is such a light
He's not telling the whole truth when he said he hasn't dated a man based on his body language. It was probably some situation where one of them didn't want to call it dating, but it essentially was dating. Supposedly it was a firefighter from Boston.
He did kind of stutter when he answered that question. Usually a sign of dishonesty. That being said I can understand the pressure on him to keep that to himself.
@@oakpkdude Yeah. He's old enough now though, but the family and older friends must not be that accepting.
@@jbjjbb Not to mention the Mormon church which is a big part of his life.
That is where he lost me, clearly being dishonest which makes everything else he said utter BS...sorry. The only thing a woman could do for him is introduce him to their brother.
@@anthonyyusef5897 Lol he probably did meet some men that way!
Dear David.
I am so proud of you.
I am praying God gives you wisdom and courage to accept your divine calling.
We need you as an example and encouragement to so many who are questioning and suffering.
I send my love and support.
Omg hes still so cute :) love his kind soul
This guy is incredible. Being gay doesn’t mean you need to give up your faith or your personal goals and morals. The world says otherwise. David is following his North Star.
the mormon church says otherwise lol
@@Rarediel actually it doesn’t. I’m gay and I’m Mormon as well.
@@BAR787 it does
I think anything goes in the mormon church
@@BAR787 can same sex couple marry in the Mormon church?
i love you, Daviiiiiiiiid!
He's always been cute to me, but I thought he was always out. I'm glad he's living in his truth now.
Shut up
@@Jwdude123 I'm sure you think he's cute too, John. 🥰
He is still thinking about the marriage. I hope you find what's better for you.
I'm not al all surprised by this because I've always had a feeling that he was gay since his idol years. Lol. David has always been in the back of my mind and with his religious beliefs and his strict father I've always wondered how difficult it must be for him not being able to live his truth. After all these years and I've waited to see if he would break free and come out and I'm glad he's finally found the courage to do so and live his truth. He came out as gay to his family but now he's not sure if he's gay but bi. This is clearly a sign of being in the denial stage and not being fully accepting of himself yet although I'm sure he's known all along of his truth but was scared to come out which is completely understandable. Or maybe because of his strict religious beliefs his family has a very hard time accepting his truth so he comes out as bi as a way to validate both. When you've been hiding your truth for a very long time it'll take a lot of effort and courage to fully accept yourself but with time you'll get there. I've always liked David and he seems like such a great guy, I wish him true happiness. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Yep. When I came out I was "bisexual" knowing full well I had 0 interest in a woman like that. It's like a stepping stone in the water to find out how other people respond. Shooo.. weeee.. it isn't easy, people can be so judgemental but I can't imagine how terrible it would feel to know you're mainly with someone just to try and make everyone else happy. It sucks society makes people feel they have to be like that.. but in the end the one that gets hurt the worst is the innocent person that never realized their partner wasn't truly in love with them or that it was a lie. I still think it's hilarious all the terrible things that go on daily and a lot of people still think gays are "the worst". Disturbing really. But I admire David, he stayed true to himself and they didn't take his love for God away. He's a very strong man for that.
not gonna lie he was my crush when i was in high school. however i kept that to myself because i was scared to come out as gay. i had to pretend to be straight growing up its a long story but now im out the closet and its the best damn feeling. to those still in the closet i will say its ok to still be in the closet. your time will come for you to come out and reveal who you really are. don't be in a hurry to come out.
Such a sweet guy. As your heart guides you live and enjoy your life!
You are an amazing human, David.
He definitely looks different! Haven’t heard from him since his song crush and that was 2008!! 🥲😆 glad he’s doing well! Tho! ❤️FYI good for him for coming out! ❤️
Gurlll we been knew! Congratulations tho Archie! So happy for you ❤️❤️❤️
First, I supported this guy through idol but I always thought there was a level of self hate that is vivid in him. It may be his family, or his religious believe but it was clear then and still now I struggle with what he actually said. Coming out as bisexual is a way to lessen the blow, I know cause I did it too. I just wish his self loving journey isn’t hard, because there’s so many people in the community bleeding on other people because of our internalized homophobia and I what we need is a more normalize ways of coming out or of supporting lgbtq folks.
I knew it! There’s no way one could look at him and not see that he likes guys
Of course If you’re Judgemental
I knew it when i was 15 i was like ‘he’s so in the closet’ damn my gaydar is so acuratr
And here I just thought it was wishful thinking on my part...
I thought he was always out
😲
Glad he is comfortable now though
To his parents,in 2014 .
Love him. Always have.
Sometimes you fall in love with people regardless of their gender and/or sexuality. What’s so wrong with that? Everyone is on their own journey so acceptance is a good first step.
That's cause God loves us all equally. God does not discriminate
Good for you! You are NOT a mistake, you are NOT broken. Anyone who thinks or tells you different is WRONG! Stay strong and true to yourself and your soul. You are one of God’s children and loved.
Yeah that’s nice. Good luck with that.
David, you know? you are a good man, cutest, most talented, and everything you have are so good for me! So, I'm Happy for you, Really! Been more than 13 years be your fan and adore you, so no matter what sexual orientation you have, you're still be my fav one. Thanks for being honest to yourself and to us. LOVE YOU, Archie 😍😍😍😍😍
Dating and "saving yourself" are two different things. Live your truth. Must be a relief to not have to hide.
I love you Daviiiddddd ♥️
I knew he was bi and I am happy he’s out and living his truth good for you ❤️❤️❤️
What about camila cabello do u think she’s gay?
We been knew.
Yep
Yes. And I don't know about you, but I also know he's gay, but still struggling to label himself as such.
@@GreySox He came out as gay at first, but his family probably pushed him half-way back into the closet.
David We Love You. ❤️
I believe in you! You're right, fight it!
Im so proud of him for being himself and A very handsome man and with a beautiful voice !
Always been a fan of his voice
He's my 3rd favorite singer and I always knew for years now . Love that dude. Also I have..I haven't LMAO david ur so innocent
He still a wonderful person
Wow I love this!
I love his music so much. I hope he finds happiness. I feel bad for him. The Mormon church is keeping him from being his true self😢He doesn't need to change and should act on his feelings. God loves him just the way he is.
Religion keeps many LGBT people from being themselves which is really sad.
God reveals to all their true identity. Through repentance and being born again, you will discover who you truly are in Jesus Christ, amen.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is not keeping him from being his true self. He already knows who he is. But he does still believe in the law of chastity - God's law.
David believes in the law of chastity, no one is keeping anyone away from anything. Understand what David is saying, don't judge the Church.
@@thokocaitrinmzunga7032 🙄
Well, I am not surprised. I knew it since he started singing.
1:36 you haven't ! Hahaha the face
He’s literally a hero to people like me.
Well done David human rights is the greatest life struggles
Oh David, what a year long fighting after.
You know it's not easy. It is a process and steps of life
At some moments you maybe feel like you wanna be like this or that and at some point you don't want to be like that.
It's hard. This about what decision you gonna making for. Again it's not easy :)
This guy is the kind of person I wanna be
David ,God loves you,your fans love you,your family loves you,I love you as as a fan,be true to yourself.hugs
Girl I knew since he made his first music video!!
Hes a beautiful soul!.
God loves us, no matter if you feel a kind of sexual orientation. The most important thing is avoiding the sin when we don't be obedient to the chastity commadment. Keep pure in the middle of this declining world. I love you David for being brave!
He will be in pain for a very long time. This poor Young Man, has been traumatized severely. Keep Strong young man🤍🤍🤍
I sometimes have feelings for women, but not in a relationship context. Usually just crushes. But I do still prefer guys. So yeah, I also do feel in a spectrum of bi. Probably a 2 on the Kinsey scale. Anyway, WE STILL LOVE YOU DAVID! WHAT MATTERS IS THAT YOU ARE TRULY A GOOD PERSON. ♥️
He’s such a sweet soul and he should have won Idol.
Reminds me of British diver Tom Daley, the one who knitted a sweater through the recent Tokyo 2020ne Olympics.
YAAAAAAAY i was always wondering, cause I have A HUGE crush on him
i love this guy
Sad, hope he can get the help he needs.
We been known. And I just finished watching a documentary on him being a missionary…. It was quite obvious in that documentary.
I like how regardless if he falls in love with a man or a woman he’s saving his virginity until he’s married… I respect that.
I get not casually having sex, but I don't quite get not having sex with someone you're thinking of marrying. imagine you find out the sex is terrible and you're not compatible... after you get married! but that's just for me. I respect people's choices either way. and I'd be willing to let David wait :)
I mean, Asexual people still have beautiful marriages, same with couples who are in sex less marriages. I guess what I don't understand is why people hinge on sexual compatibility when that has never been the foundation of a successful relationship or a marriage. Like sex doesn't override the important qualities needed to make a relationship work so it's just strange to me when people consider it a big criteria. I guess we're opposites in thought, lol.