Dating Ukraine. Be more like a Ukrainian man?

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  • Опубліковано 24 вер 2024
  • This comes up quite a bit guys with who have done this for a little while. They start to understand what they have been conditioned to be in the west is wrong. Women in Ukraine, are not attracted to a weak man. We are conditioned to think this west behaviour is considerate. But believe me, it is not.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 24

  • @przemyslawszwed6499
    @przemyslawszwed6499 3 роки тому +2

    it is your best video in my opinion. I was alone few times in Kiev and every time is better and better.

  • @galowashere
    @galowashere 5 років тому +10

    Sorry, I respectfully disagree with how this is positioned. I have met plenty of Ukrainian and Russian men that are very weak, sloppy, rude (yes, for sure), dishonest, insecure, and self-sabotaging. They are all over the place there. The high quality, balanced women in Ukraine sense that right away, just like they would sense those same types of negative qualities in a foreigner. Instead... this talk could be more effectively positioned as, “Get clear on your value, and actively interact at a higher level of confidence in order to attract a quality partner.” Not... “be more like a Ukrainian man.” Just decide and act upon becoming the best possible version of you. Dig deep by asking yourself which positive qualities you possess, what mental offerings, what level of self-worth, what great characteristics that make up the man that you are - along with any financial stability (which isn’t the end all, be all if you aren’t wealthy, but Stryker is 100% correct in saying that stability is, understandably, quite important to just about everyone in this world). If you don’t know yet exactly what those meaningful things are about you off the top of your head, then you need to sit down and start making a list, if that’s what it takes. Get absolutely clear on this understanding about you, and don’t even think of approaching another woman anywhere until you are completely clear. Next, ask yourself WHY you like those things about yourself. This part is super important: Be crystal clear on the good qualities, but more importantly, understand exactly WHY you like those things about you. The “why” is key. Once you know, then go out and interact while having this knowledge firmly engrained in your heart and mind. Be confident about the great things you know about yourself, but NEVER communicate it from a position of arrogance or “better than you.” Just know it. Don’t say it. Be confident, but quietly humble about it. People, in general, (not just women) sense energy quite effectively. Sometimes they don’t even know exactly why they feel put off by someone. More often than not, the ones that get immediately rejected are the ones that give off an underlying energy of weakness, volatility, fear, depression, neediness, failure, lacking belief in themselves, confusion, ...the list goes on. But the opposite will start to happen when you become CRYSTAL CLEAR on your value points. The positive, value-based energy you will give off will almost magically work like a “hook” without the other even understanding why they want to continue conversation with you. That’s all you need to obtain enough time for you to be able to take an initial meeting to the next level. You need to stop thinking about “being like” anyone else. Find the best version inside of you. It’s already there. Once you’re clear on why you like those great qualities, abilities, and offerings about yourself, go out and find amazing connections. If someone doesn’t give you the time of day, then realize that it’s their loss. And in Ukraine its SUPER easy because for every gorgeous woman you find that may not be interested, there will be another 4 or 5 right around the corner to potentially meet should this one you approach not develop into anything meaningful.

    • @heartrocket
      @heartrocket  5 років тому +3

      But "Get clear on your value, and actively interact at a higher level of confidence in order to attract a quality partner." Would not be as clicky... :)

    • @galowashere
      @galowashere 5 років тому +2

      I'm With Cupid Totally understand. I was referring to the content, not the title... Luba’s response to the topic “Ukrainian men versus Western guys”.was a miss and leaves the wrong message, albeit well-intended. No man should ever chase the idea of being like someone else. Every man simply needs to become the best possible version of themselves, whatever those natural characteristics happen to be. That’s where a man will find his confidence. You’ll never feel confident if you’re trying to be like someone else. And the assumption that Ukrainian men are more confident is also quite wrong.

    • @rickmorgan1441
      @rickmorgan1441 5 років тому

      what if there is no ''best version '' inside of me? ''qualities,abilities,offerings'' what if theyre not there? what then?

    • @galowashere
      @galowashere 4 роки тому

      rick morgan If you’re lacking in a sense of personal identify, my recommendation is that you spend a couple of years finding that within you before you even think of finding a partner. Otherwise, you will subconsciously end up searching for someone to “complete” you, which will always surely end poorly.

  • @mrwayofwarrior7853
    @mrwayofwarrior7853 4 роки тому +4

    the correct answer is: be like an ukrainian man with lots of money

  • @martinlyons7463
    @martinlyons7463 4 роки тому

    Thanks so much for these talks, I have watched nearly all of them, some several times. I really appreciate you two for all your ideas about making a good life for a Ukrainian woman. We are at the Visa stage for a visit to New Zealand, I have a lawyer doing this, otherwise it is nearly impossible, after several attempts. We are both very positive it will happen, just patience is required. We are not a young couple.
    I recommend your help to anyone who asks about my journey, for me, I didn’t find you soon enough, but have learnt and now found the right one. Also I love going back to Ukraine it is a wonderful place with wonderful people. I have been lucky enough to work all over the world.
    Thank you, I am still learning and you two young people have taught me a lot. I wish you nothing but good things.
    Martin.

  • @RK-fg6rx
    @RK-fg6rx 5 років тому +2

    Great job Stryker and Luba
    You did a great job, explaining the differences, Luba is a class act and honest, no bs a great lady. This the only channel not trying to extract money from you. I had the opportunity to spend some time hanging with Stryker in Odessa and have met Luba. No BS marketing. This is great advice when it comes to Ukraine culture. Nice is fine guys, but be a man and don't hand it all to the women. Watch Strykers other videos for the scammer watch and stories.....

  • @SummitAggregates
    @SummitAggregates 5 років тому +6

    Stryker and Luba...wow...what a team --- someone needs to put together an independent new marriage and dating organization with these two heading it up...Stryker is a good guy...Luba is probably a good woman --- BUT...The two together, wow...They're incredible together --- a new dynamic-duo in town!!

    • @heartrocket
      @heartrocket  5 років тому

      Thanks Bro!! Really appreciate the comment!

    • @rickmorgan1441
      @rickmorgan1441 5 років тому

      hahaha ''Luba is probably a good woman''..probably....maybe that was a Freudian slip))

  • @intanhenriyanti1197
    @intanhenriyanti1197 4 роки тому

    I was had relationship with Ukraine man before, but it's look like strength and hard, it's really easy for him to get angry, and everytime when we are fight ,he always said we are brokeup, it's crazy , because he don't know how to fix relationship, and we we are fight , he always block me, so it's look like childish

  • @Chopperdog
    @Chopperdog 2 роки тому

    I've been told a differently story about Ukrainian men from Ukrainian women.

  • @Zedaxisweb
    @Zedaxisweb 4 роки тому +1

    Hmmm... good one mate!

  • @gabrielrubio6706
    @gabrielrubio6706 5 років тому

    Okay Stracke and Luba and sorry if I kill your names but thank you for the infinity information that you too give me I don’t have spect to go and get 10 or something like that values respect loyalty and thinks like that is what I’m liking for and the question is what is the cost to go there and be assisted by you too just like a answer pleas and thank you

  • @captainsisko7629
    @captainsisko7629 5 років тому

    Who was that behind the tree 6:34

    • @heartrocket
      @heartrocket  5 років тому +3

      The next-door neighbour, looking for her lost cat.

  • @felipephillipstroncoso1075
    @felipephillipstroncoso1075 4 роки тому +1

    God job, blablabla, but There is a problem the Ukranian guys like to drink ;)

  • @Research-eo3bi
    @Research-eo3bi 5 років тому +1

    Where's Luba's ring?!

  • @captainsisko7629
    @captainsisko7629 5 років тому

    First