INFJ Was INSTANTLY Recognized Outside

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  • I met this INFJ in real life and was able to determine her personality type in LESS THAN a minute. Do you think INFJs have a special aura and intensity that makes them stand out around others?
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  • @kennethcadesharp
    @kennethcadesharp Рік тому +3751

    OR a strange man with a camera has stopped her/approached her while alone, she’s probably just saying yes to all his questions so she can leave.

  • @HappilyAnonymousGirl
    @HappilyAnonymousGirl Рік тому +453

    I feel like spotting an INFJ in real life is like finding a rare Pokémon

    • @cadenallen6776
      @cadenallen6776 9 місяців тому +42

      Cause we have to come out of hiding first

    • @Tara_.
      @Tara_. 7 місяців тому +9

      lol my grandmas an INFJ and i’m an INFP (or ENFP idk)

    • @toku30
      @toku30 6 місяців тому +4

      We're Team Instinct ⚡

    • @youngpoet44hunnies
      @youngpoet44hunnies 5 місяців тому +3

      Everyone is an infj

    • @baeldaikokuten_yj6792
      @baeldaikokuten_yj6792 5 місяців тому +2

      I’m an INFJ 😊

  • @risingeagle6332
    @risingeagle6332 7 місяців тому +67

    INFJ’s are extremely rare.
    At times I wish I was not one, since we have the ability to intuitively see through people’s “B/S” instantly.
    I hate when my “Sherlock Holmes” radar detector gets triggered by toxic people.

    • @victoriousjoy9338
      @victoriousjoy9338 2 місяці тому +5

      But we really need you in the world!! Us enfp's need someone to fall in love wih and be magical with. ❤❤❤

    • @pcpxbotendorastermace9948
      @pcpxbotendorastermace9948 Місяць тому

      ​@@victoriousjoy9338We need you too!!

    • @miagarden2089
      @miagarden2089 День тому

      As an ENFP who trusts way to easily I wish I had your bs detector 😅

  • @sirjerelle1854
    @sirjerelle1854 2 роки тому +2450

    In a park? Check. Outfit all over the place? Check. Eye contact? Check. By themselves? Check!
    Yep she's one of us 😂

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 Рік тому +88

      Not the outfit roasting 💀💀 (I don't think it looks that bad)

    • @kristinexxus3538
      @kristinexxus3538 Рік тому +102

      Outfit all over the place isn’t common of INFJ, as long as it looks presentable

    • @daryabilgic5600
      @daryabilgic5600 Рік тому +56

      I mean….. I’m currently in a park, by myself, wearing random shit I picked up of the floor this morning and I always maintain eye contact when I talk to people (unless I’m bored and want to be somewhere else).
      -ENTP 😎
      But to be fair one of my friends thought that I was an infj when we first met (she seemed really cool so I tried to be polite and not scare her off. Turned out she’s an entp too so we’re good now lmao)

    • @yamashitaaki6435
      @yamashitaaki6435 Рік тому +25

      No man. I could never walk out looking like that. I put effort into everything I do. Exhausting but gives good results.

    • @kristinexxus3538
      @kristinexxus3538 Рік тому +21

      @@yamashitaaki6435 fr, I’m also an infj and if I’m not feeling good and have greasy hair etc. i always shower and dress myself with jeans and a clean sweater/r-shirt, even if it’s just a short trip to the nearby shop

  • @_Paul_N
    @_Paul_N 7 місяців тому +218

    The eyes. She *NEVER* lost eye contact. When us INFJ’s lock eyes it’s permanent, and they’re piercing your soul 99.9% of the time 😂.

    • @Ventiicednightmare
      @Ventiicednightmare 6 місяців тому +20

      I’m honestly trying to work on this cause it makes casual interactions uncomfortable for people 😭😮‍💨

    • @dandrealindsey5144
      @dandrealindsey5144 6 місяців тому +11

      @@Ventiicednightmaresame, as a fellow infj, I overheard this kid say that I was weird because literally most of the time I’m just like😐

    • @baeldaikokuten_yj6792
      @baeldaikokuten_yj6792 5 місяців тому +2

      @@dandrealindsey5144well that kid is mean

    • @lazerbean
      @lazerbean 4 місяці тому +3

      Yep, that’s me. I have to remind myself to look away, when I’m feeling self concious about it during conversations with people that look away a lot 😅

    • @woody3476
      @woody3476 3 місяці тому +4

      Wait is this like a thing? I see other comments talking about the eye contact. I wasn't aware that this was a stereotype of the INFJ.

  • @MsClaudiaDuran
    @MsClaudiaDuran Рік тому +731

    She's got that INFJ stare DOWN!

    • @yungdeezzuz-topic7636
      @yungdeezzuz-topic7636 9 місяців тому +3

      Hi I was wondering if you know of any potential music manager whom can manage me as an aspiring artist/ record label owner

    • @mechatech9897
      @mechatech9897 8 місяців тому +13

      I thought I was the only one who had that. It has always made me feel awkward lol.

    • @Merchantmaster
      @Merchantmaster 7 місяців тому +9

      There is no stare down she is awkward

    • @cyck460
      @cyck460 5 місяців тому

      It’s called being introverted

    • @johntay3831
      @johntay3831 3 місяці тому

      It’s not so petty. She’s just scanning his vibes and intentions. Soul scanning is a better word

  • @shirothereaper
    @shirothereaper Рік тому +1189

    Hmm, I'm an INFJ, but the question about "vibes and feelings more than logic" is more debatable, I actually do make decisions based on the vibes but also the logic behind it so I would've thought more behind that question instead of instantly replying yes so it sounds pretty fake cause I'm personally a little indecisive at first but maybe she just went along with it or something and that's something I would do as well

    • @yamashitaaki6435
      @yamashitaaki6435 Рік тому +76

      Yes, I thought the same. When making a decision, it will be based on emotion because I'm sorting through every possible outcome of my decision and how it affects others and that part is logical thinking as well. So I say both but the reason behind the logical thinking is emotion, because God forbid my decision is wrong and hurts someone one day. Probably could've phrased that better but I will let it go this time.

    • @azzumar1905
      @azzumar1905 Рік тому +54

      It's both. Fe-Ti users make decisions based on logic and ethics( aka the morals and values of other people). Fi - Te users make decisions based on their morals or their personal values/feelings and rationality. Ethics (Fe) is when you make decisions that is based on facts. Is it "true" that you cannot treat human beings in an unfair way. Fe is basically applying facts to reach ethical goals because it's still linked with Ti. However a conclusion can still be false even though it's logical and because INFJ uses Ti in such a way that is purely logical , they can at times reach to a false conclusion because they might lack necessary information but if they have all the information they'll always get to the correct conclusion. Even high Ti users can come to false conclusion when they lack information.

    • @andromeda5966
      @andromeda5966 Рік тому +5

      That's what I thought!

    • @caddieohm7059
      @caddieohm7059 Рік тому +27

      As an infj I have a real hard time on decision making swinging back and forth from strong intuition to hard ratio. Most of the time this gets me paralyzed as fkc.

    • @lapris7380
      @lapris7380 Рік тому +21

      Same I also put logic into it before making a decision. Feeling are important but they aren’t always 100%. Logic usually is though so I’d be weird to have a stance without it. How else would you back it up.

  • @zombiebean6191
    @zombiebean6191 2 роки тому +668

    She passed the vibe check ✨😆

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  2 роки тому +33

      haha for sure, she had the intensity

  • @idealisticapybara
    @idealisticapybara Рік тому +50

    She is exactly the type of girl with whom I can talk comfortably.

  • @sugacookie2009
    @sugacookie2009 Рік тому +282

    I recognize her people pleasing and her holding back what she really wants to say because she doesn’t know how it’ll go over so she is just charming him effortlessly…she knows exactly what he wants and it’s her pleasure to help him…true infj quality hopes she learns to use her shadow more and show them who we really are…a powerful force of nature..Get your Elsa swag fellow infj…we need you💖💖💖

    • @darklight898
      @darklight898 Рік тому +4

      use shadow?

    • @laquadewilkinson1472
      @laquadewilkinson1472 Рік тому +4

      Not sure if you'll ever be able to see this message. Or if you'd be bother to comment.
      But it would be really cool if you explained.

    • @laquadewilkinson1472
      @laquadewilkinson1472 Рік тому

      Test

    • @sugacookie2009
      @sugacookie2009 Рік тому +20

      @@laquadewilkinson1472 your shadow doesn’t want to please..it’s the raw emotion you feel immediately but push down because it may not be appropriate or too psychic for others comfort. I say tell him “I know what you want to know…go on..ask me?” Because my shadow is very seductive and impatient
      The parts of us we know are innate but have quieted because we seek harmony in interactions and we love to see others happy. That’s a silly example lol. Trust me, your shadow can be as dark as night. Cold or very arrogant..Perhaps ambitious, sneaky, or calculating.
      Basically Elsa took those gloves off and said “try me” I am as sweet as pie but please “try me” “the cold never bothered me anyway” Her nature was too much for others…that’s an infj all day
      I had to do serious shadow work and see my full self not just the nice side. I realize my shadow is there to protect me and I must integrate and not suppress my nature. It was hard to accept the mean parts of my energy. Also, I try to be all of me-all the time. It’s hard at first, but now I can give you a cold shoulder when my boundaries are crossed without considering how it makes you feel at all. I don’t match energy, I show up as me and acknowledge what’s right for me and block what is not. I couldn’t do it if I hadn’t done shadow work and of course I’m still learning. UA-cam is amazing

    • @kiera6326
      @kiera6326 Рік тому +4

      Yeah, except every feeling type is exactly like this. She gives off ISFP more than anything else

  • @dreamingsince99
    @dreamingsince99 Рік тому +184

    Her outfit honestly says it all

    • @lana_354
      @lana_354 10 місяців тому +13

      I don't get it
      Am I the only infj that dresses up well? Lol

    • @dreamingsince99
      @dreamingsince99 10 місяців тому +19

      ​@@lana_354 @lana_min There's some out there who like the organization aspect of wearing things but I feel like most infjs will dress for comfort before fashion, unless they can finesse both. I think bc of the Se function at the end of our function stack giving us somewhat a sensitivity to touch and other senses. I feel like the staple things are crisp tshirts, sweats, hoodies, leggings, beanies, oversized clothes, like cozy stuff. But tbh I think she's dressed well in an introvert sort of way 😂 like the famous all-black vibe, big T-shirt, beanie, w black frame glasses just screams INxx 😂

    • @lana_354
      @lana_354 10 місяців тому +5

      @dreamingsince99
      Ohhh ok I get it
      Even I prefer comfort
      I do dress up well like I said, but in a comfortable enough way

    • @dreamingsince99
      @dreamingsince99 10 місяців тому +3

      @@lana_354 Yeah exactly

    • @leointheblues
      @leointheblues 9 місяців тому +2

      @@lana_354you aren’t alone . I’m too ❤ it depends on how we feel right day to day situation wise ..

  • @ahistoryperson9983
    @ahistoryperson9983 Місяць тому +9

    She’s already analyzed him before he showed up to ask her questions and while answering these questions she’s sized him up and knows all about him 😂 and is now making this guy nervous by her stare and knowing his insecurities. 🤣

  • @LyseBennet
    @LyseBennet Рік тому +36

    The stare, the way she's standing, the way she's responding, She's me I'm her, INFJ detected x)

  • @christianjocson5509
    @christianjocson5509 Рік тому +377

    She’s so beautiful.

  • @oliverspiler9101
    @oliverspiler9101 Рік тому +137

    Internal monologue: " _He knows me too suspiciously well..._ "

  • @chaossage8852
    @chaossage8852 Рік тому +122

    DAMN this is the first I've seen a fellow INFJ in the flesh

    • @kintsugihabits403
      @kintsugihabits403 Рік тому +17

      We are so rare, I want to meet a fellow infj

    • @cherylp.3347
      @cherylp.3347 Рік тому +5

      First I’ve seen one outside! Lol

    • @JackoBanon1
      @JackoBanon1 Рік тому +14

      We like to stay at home and don't socialize with strangers.

    • @lana_354
      @lana_354 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@cherylp.3347
      Fr lmao
      My mom always tell me to go out
      But going out takes effort lol
      I like peace and quiet place like my bed

    • @kerstingravel8160
      @kerstingravel8160 10 місяців тому +3

      Maybe it’s just the case that you can’t recognize INFJ‘ around you 😉🥳

  • @smoothlyrough512
    @smoothlyrough512 Рік тому +10

    I like how infj are one of the rarest, yet EVERYONE in chat seems to magically be one as well......

    • @albatross_007
      @albatross_007 Рік тому +5

      Maybe because this video is about someone like them!!!

    • @violet18
      @violet18 Рік тому +3

      You're right. I see it all over the MBTI community. But we can tell they aren't INFJs by the things they say.

    • @ashleybanksss
      @ashleybanksss Рік тому +2

      It's because we took the test and are searching for it. DuH! lol

    • @Sienna.Jen2971
      @Sienna.Jen2971 4 місяці тому

      There are 827 comments under this video and not every person commenting is an INFJ. That's not a lot of people. INFJs being the rarest MBTI type still stands.

  • @atrayeechakraborty3403
    @atrayeechakraborty3403 Рік тому +82

    Infjs think before answering and get confused/ask questions. I could be wrong but I didn't get infj vibes from her.

    • @derealratos6332
      @derealratos6332 Рік тому +14

      I disagree. She was thinking when the right time was to tell the interviewer that she was an INFJ. She took the test, she recognized the questions, responded calmly and she's a cutiepie. What other cues you need?

    • @atrayeechakraborty3403
      @atrayeechakraborty3403 Рік тому +16

      well, infjs appear a bit cold/serious while talking to strangers. They have boundaries.
      A cutiepie? yes. An infj, Idk man.

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 Рік тому +7

      @@derealratos6332 Being an INFJ has nothing to do with being cute. In fact, the fact you think she is probably makes it more likely she is an INFP.

    • @shannon1242
      @shannon1242 Рік тому +1

      I could have answered all of those questions as fast except the vibe one as it would be a more nuanced answer. If you know people suck your soul dry, why would you need to contemplate an answer of yes to being introverted?

    • @sitia7179
      @sitia7179 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@derealratos6332did you know that infp can mistype as an infj and in fact they would think theyre infj in serious condition😂

  • @dreamingghost306
    @dreamingghost306 Рік тому +19

    « I will chasse this human being until I find her. »
    -entp

    • @phishcatt
      @phishcatt Рік тому +8

      Please don't go out stalking women and use MBTI as an excuse...

    • @dreamingghost306
      @dreamingghost306 Рік тому +9

      @@phishcatt you know what a joke is right ?

    • @idvIthaqua
      @idvIthaqua Рік тому +2

      *looks at this in INFJ*

    • @derealratos6332
      @derealratos6332 Рік тому

      ​@@dreamingghost306whoosh

  • @jossua7524
    @jossua7524 Рік тому +43

    I think she seem INFP to me. She know herself really well and don't have to think before answer personal question. That scream Fi to me

    • @ashleybanksss
      @ashleybanksss Рік тому +4

      They're not very complex questions. Also she seems to be a German lady, so there's also the cultural aspect. German woman tend to be direct, and quick witted naturally so that's what I picked up. I'm American quick witted and I answer like this. Complex qs are different, and yes I may think in that case. I am a true infj, and i believe she is too.

    • @jossua7524
      @jossua7524 Рік тому +6

      @@ashleybanksssYes thanks I forget the cultural aspect. I'm French (INFP) and both my parents are IxFJ. I noticed that they need to take some time to think before to answer that kind of personnal question while the rest of the time, and when the question is impersonal, they are pretty fast (more than me). That seemed strange to me but I noticed that this kind of behavior was quite common among Fe-types (in France btw)

    • @austinsy8056
      @austinsy8056 10 місяців тому +2

      What’s the difference between the way an infj and infp act? To me infjs are the most kindest mbti from what i’ve seen

    • @baeldaikokuten_yj6792
      @baeldaikokuten_yj6792 5 місяців тому +2

      @@austinsy8056then if you meet me, I can be accidentally rude when I try to give an opinion which I didn’t mean to hurt anyone. INFJ the J stands for judge mental. I don’t have bad intentions on anyone just a bit frank cause I’m a ambivert INFJ

    • @bhanukhanal1299
      @bhanukhanal1299 4 місяці тому +2

      Because she already took the test and is aware of MBTI 😂

  • @spongebob_batman
    @spongebob_batman Рік тому +43

    She's such an INFP

    • @floreentan8020
      @floreentan8020 2 місяці тому +1

      My INFP friends often look away when I stare at them in talks. So this girl is more accurate as an INFJ

  • @Zoe-ym6ir
    @Zoe-ym6ir Рік тому +57

    She is an infp. The difference between infj and infp is not goal-oriented vs adaptable, its Fi vs Fe. Judging from her body language, she uses Fi, not Fe - speaking as someone who has seen a lot of clear infps get mistyped from letter dichotomies.

    • @austinsy8056
      @austinsy8056 10 місяців тому +11

      Yeah but aren’t infjs typically very nice and polite? I’m an infj and I consider myself more polite than most people and I assume that’s part of being an infj

    • @psi_jsou_super9704
      @psi_jsou_super9704 7 місяців тому +9

      ⁠@@austinsy8056mbti doesn’t 100% determine how much polite you are, it’s a self development tool, I don’t think it’s possible to divide 8 billion people into 16 different stereotypes, our brain and behaviour is much more than that :), do you actually believe that Adolf Hitler (who was an INFJ) acted politely?

    • @austinsy8056
      @austinsy8056 7 місяців тому +2

      @@psi_jsou_super9704 yeah true you have a good point, and yeah i was pretty suprised hitler is labled as an infj, so your mbti doesn’t always equate to how polite or kind a person is? And yeah i feel like personally 16 personality types is way to little I would’ve guessed at least 30 different personalities

    • @baeldaikokuten_yj6792
      @baeldaikokuten_yj6792 5 місяців тому +2

      @@psi_jsou_super9704um… but I relate like 95% to the personality type INFJ tho. I was looking for something I could relate to my entire life. Even if your personality type is like INFJ or INTP, you don’t have to be 100% of it. You can be like 40% or 70% of the personality type

    • @dearmore3862
      @dearmore3862 4 місяці тому

      I agree, bc she has an awkward smile. Infj smile genuinely

  • @guidedsoul7914
    @guidedsoul7914 Рік тому +14

    That nodding, very spot on🤣

  • @supersecksee1741
    @supersecksee1741 Рік тому +14

    I can't stop looking at her eyes

  • @sithlord503
    @sithlord503 Рік тому +13

    Looks like she gonna melt 🤣 As an INFJ training my while life to sociable, I feel you.

  • @ole.alistar
    @ole.alistar 2 роки тому +169

    I am infj and I dress like this when I go outside! But walk like supermodel imagine that no one see me! I think I am weird! 555

    • @YouilAushana
      @YouilAushana 2 роки тому +7

      Yes, love the sex pistols but I ain't wearing beanie in the summer

    • @hariatninovitasari6998
      @hariatninovitasari6998 Рік тому

      And I guess you are a Thai 😀

    • @TasneemAlEmam
      @TasneemAlEmam Рік тому +9

      Same here 😁 but we are supermodel 😅😎

    • @bunnyoncloud
      @bunnyoncloud Рік тому +9

      Hahahaha same .. i wear black and grey and walk like i own earth

    • @bumbu8557
      @bumbu8557 Рік тому +4

      sorry ignore my comment lol

  • @oncetimeupon
    @oncetimeupon Рік тому +283

    She looks lovely but more like an infp to me... infjs look much more serious and have a weird gravitational pull...

    • @keithla_ron7762
      @keithla_ron7762 Рік тому +28

      That’s 1 way we dress I thought it was just me but black is a staple color and the vibe she’s giving off is just right enough to reflect anyone if need be

    • @cheveuxjaunes2782
      @cheveuxjaunes2782 Рік тому +44

      is there really a particular way of dressing according to the type? I'm not so sure

    • @keithla_ron7762
      @keithla_ron7762 Рік тому +12

      @@cheveuxjaunes2782 wasn’t stating a particular way of dressing per say just stating an observation I made amongst myself and other infjs I’ve had the pleasure of meeting nevertheless we do all have our own style but I couldn’t help but notice we do share some colors that it seems we universally like

    • @xquisid
      @xquisid Рік тому +23

      Can you elaborate the "weird gravitational pull" part if I may ask?

    • @l-crisstina9906
      @l-crisstina9906 Рік тому +43

      Well it depends on who we're talking to, as an INFJ myself I would have acted exactly like her, she's being polite but she won't be serios or cold because she's actually into the interview, you can see how happy she is to be having that conversation because of the way she says "yes" and the way her body moves every time he gets something right, she knows everything he said but anyway she's happy he got everything right.

  • @TheRealestTiller
    @TheRealestTiller Рік тому +10

    She has beautiful vibes. God bless this woman 😊

  • @shinha999
    @shinha999 Рік тому +230

    Bruh typing her based on letters, that's not how it works lol

    • @Marilyn2401
      @Marilyn2401 Рік тому +2

      Why not?

    • @shinha999
      @shinha999 Рік тому +87

      @@Marilyn2401 haha are you for real? Do you really think mbti/typology is that simple? At least study a little bit about cognitive functions
      And stop using tests like "16personalities" for god's sake

    • @gabiimar5655
      @gabiimar5655 Рік тому +55

      Yeah cognitive functions is more of an accurate way to go

    • @gabiimar5655
      @gabiimar5655 Рік тому +41

      @@Marilyn2401 Well I’m very new to this but social introversion is different from cognitive introversion. Its very complicated but there are many different ways human process info and think about the world. These are call cognitive functions :)!
      There are 8 cognitive functions
      Ni - Introverted intuition
      Ne - extroverted intuition
      Si - Introverted sensing
      Se - extroverted sensing
      Fi - Introverted feeling
      Fe - extroverted feeling
      Ti - Introverted thinking
      Te - Extroverted thinking
      We use 4 of these functions in four ways
      Dominant
      Auxiliary
      Tertiary
      Inferior
      My friend is an ENFP (Ne-Fi-Te-Si). Shes an introvert but cognitive function wise, she’s an extrovert. Her dominant function is extroverted intuition which completely different than mine (INFJ. Ni-Fe-Ti-Se). Although we both are intuitive, we use our intuition differently. She sees many opportunities and I see opportunities but I only close down to one.
      I apologize if this is a lot and it doesn’t make sense :(.
      Don’t feel bad about letter typing. That’s how a lot of us start out! I started out that way too but I learned cognitive functions and to me, it’s kinda fun!

    • @shinha999
      @shinha999 Рік тому +13

      @@gabiimar5655 Cognitive functions is not all what you need to type yourself or others, but it's a good start to learn more

  • @MarkAble8
    @MarkAble8 Місяць тому +5

    What?... did the nerdy glasses give it away?

  • @sweetambary
    @sweetambary Рік тому +10

    When I'm this anxious I try to listen, and respond, even though my mind tries to escape and go blank.

  • @Libertyenvy
    @Libertyenvy Рік тому +5

    Sometimes being an infj is a gift but also a curse not anyone can understand us

  • @hungvu-gv4sr
    @hungvu-gv4sr Рік тому +31

    Infp here, she makes me feel curious about herself ahihi

  • @josephwhitis6545
    @josephwhitis6545 Рік тому +7

    She's definitely one of us, the strong the powerful the instincts that know everything instantly yes please

    • @mikeo7803
      @mikeo7803 Рік тому

      No need to be pretentious here

  • @snowyowlz5992
    @snowyowlz5992 Рік тому +16

    Funny in my 60+ years I've never been recognized as an INFJ in the wild or urban settings. Just enigma, weird, puzzling, other such terms.

  • @boombarara
    @boombarara 6 місяців тому +4

    I studied in South Korea for 3 years, a country where the people are OBSESSED with MBTI. One of my friends, she was crazy about MBTI and super knowledgeable about it. She likes to guess people's MBTI on their first meeting and as soon as I met her she guessed mine. She was right, I am an INFJ. According to her, INFJs have their own aura which makes them recognizable even from afar... I didn't understand how and what aura she was talking about. But that's what she said 😂

  • @Pickles_McDickles
    @Pickles_McDickles Рік тому +18

    It’s weird because if I was in the same situation, I would be interested enough into what he was asking but not so much about sharing personal information. I would’ve said yes to the assumptions just so I don’t have to waste anymore time and then go on my way. But I will be thinking about that weird interaction for the next 2 days that’s a fact.

  • @river.
    @river. 10 місяців тому +3

    That head nod. She is precious.

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 Рік тому +10

    Now find a male INFJ

  • @f.j.9391
    @f.j.9391 Рік тому +15

    More than logic..? Our tertiary function is Ti… we are known as empaths but we can turn that off to think clearly. I think ENFJs deserve the empath title more. We’re are just more analytical & observing with the psychology of people’s feelings but we are prone to Ni Ti loops.. we even mistype as INTP.

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Рік тому +3

      Tell me about it. I don't think we deserve the empath title that much because shouldn't the inside be considered as well? We're very logical and don't make conclusions about people based on feelings.

  • @sevenray2818
    @sevenray2818 7 місяців тому +4

    What i know about A True INFJ , they will not say in the Comment Section, that they are INFJ, they will just keep to themselves, they just observed, read and watch the article , then moved on, they only say that they are infj if there is someone who ask them about their personality. INFJ loves art, writing, music and sketching, they love being alone and just stay their room, they have very few friends, and very good listener, but what inside their minds are crazy, they are very observant and can read people personality without knowing them personally, , loves nature, and peace places. They can survive without friends and their family, they always have an answer to any problems of other people and to themselves, and specially they know whats right and wrong and ended most of the time choosing the right decision, and brave to take full responsibility for their mistake they made from tbe pass,...
    All i can say, INFJ is A Crazy, Warrior, an Artist, a Psychologist, they are Good in Judging, Loves Peace, nature, and also Very Sensitive Inside,

  • @Fleurrrz
    @Fleurrrz Рік тому +70

    She looks like INFP, INFJ mostly have mysterious and deep/ serious aura (Ni)

    • @kiradomochi4961
      @kiradomochi4961 Рік тому +11

      Not when we trying to fit in esp at work

    • @Fleurrrz
      @Fleurrrz Рік тому

      @@kiradomochi4961 I never find any IN** behave as ES*P in public. Sorry. Must be mistype.

    • @nn_ms4058
      @nn_ms4058 Рік тому +3

      Coz we dont want to fit in 😁

    • @sad_af3306
      @sad_af3306 Рік тому +5

      I wouldn't even answer this dude and I'm INFJ.

    • @Echo-qd4wn
      @Echo-qd4wn Рік тому

      ​@@kiradomochi4961INXJ trying to fit in? I thought INFJs are Ni users not Si.

  • @mechatech9897
    @mechatech9897 8 місяців тому +2

    Her facial expression and body language gave away that she's an INFJ. I recognize it better because that's how I act too, as an INFJ.

  • @RevolutionInsignia
    @RevolutionInsignia 6 місяців тому +8

    She’s INFP a J ain’t finna answer no random survey without asking a million questions

  • @neotheoneness9363
    @neotheoneness9363 9 місяців тому +3

    She is the cutest,I’m simping so much for this INFJ.

  • @NoOne-wt6om
    @NoOne-wt6om Рік тому +8

    Even though INFPs have P letter, they are not much adaptable/easy going because they are dominant judgers (Fi dom). Also making decisions based on vibes is the most Fi dom thing I've ever heard. All the things you said can be INFP.

  • @janesmith8050
    @janesmith8050 20 днів тому +1

    The thing about us INFJ’s is that our “intuition” almost always turns out to be the most rational/logical anyway.

  • @preetham.deshetty
    @preetham.deshetty 11 місяців тому +2

    She has a very kind soul

  • @infj-tguy6275
    @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +18

    It's a good thing not all infjs are exactly the same, I'd go nuts if I wasn't actually an infj after the 2 years I spent learning everything I could about them after those tests
    But then again I kinda dont want to be an infj anymore if I really am one because I'm so tired of caring about it ya know?
    This stupid thing never made me feel so anxious inside before I knew about all this confusing crap, as much as I hate to admit it though all this crap has helped me understand myself better as an individual so I cant hate it too much because without this knowledge I wouldn't be the me I am now
    A blessing and a curse indeed

    • @ilikemydonutswithjaminthem5606
      @ilikemydonutswithjaminthem5606 Рік тому +4

      I relate to your overthinking so much 😄

    • @infj-tguy6275
      @infj-tguy6275 Рік тому +3

      @@ilikemydonutswithjaminthem5606 its mental insanity am I right? 😄😅

    • @David98004
      @David98004 Рік тому +3

      That's why INFJ personality type is considered a blessing and a curse because it's like being an Angel on earth which is good thing but it can make you feel like an alien amongst humans meaning you understand people but you don't understand yourself almost like we need a manual on how to be a human! It's a hard life, I love it but it's hard!

  • @your9814
    @your9814 Рік тому +17

    I think INFJ A and T are entirely different types.

    • @abcjelly
      @abcjelly Рік тому

      im A weirdo

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Рік тому +6

      She's A if she really is an INFJ. T's are a whole different vibe honestly, I know how I come off to others.

    • @sitia7179
      @sitia7179 10 місяців тому

      ​@@uchihaitachi01117me too

    • @TrekSycho
      @TrekSycho 9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you to bring that, people taking her as a INFP is a disappointment

  • @Demi.1133
    @Demi.1133 Рік тому +77

    She could be an INFP

    • @raveque911
      @raveque911 Рік тому +4

      But she took the test

    • @christianjocson5509
      @christianjocson5509 Рік тому +27

      She got the stereotypical meek and mellow look which INFPs have.

    • @violet18
      @violet18 Рік тому +1

      @@christianjocson5509 What's your opinion on the look of an INFJ?

    • @violet18
      @violet18 Рік тому +9

      @@woodynotes Are you an ENFP? I find that a lot of ENFPs write things in parenthesis when they write comments on UA-cam. What you said about the INFJs was very beautiful. Any INFJ who reads this will leave with a smile because we are usually told that there is something wrong with us for having a quiet demeanor. 🐰 I'm sending you this cute bunny :)

    • @Cadavra
      @Cadavra Рік тому +5

      @@violet18 lol I’m an enfp and I always tend to use parenthesis never even notficed til you pointed it out

  • @bluecrossfire2375
    @bluecrossfire2375 Рік тому +5

    I love her style :D

  • @PTSDDIARYPARTIIdotcom
    @PTSDDIARYPARTIIdotcom Рік тому +6

    infjs… i love being part of this special group ❤

  • @zohebpasha96
    @zohebpasha96 10 місяців тому +5

    Being an INFJ feels like you are a walking contradiction sometimes

  • @seanbell1842
    @seanbell1842 8 місяців тому +2

    She got that death stare bro

  • @curious_puspin_cat
    @curious_puspin_cat 5 місяців тому +2

    I can feel I can vibe with her since were both INFJ 😂

  • @mohammedahmed4586
    @mohammedahmed4586 5 місяців тому +3

    I think she's an INFP

  • @Smitty4350
    @Smitty4350 Рік тому +12

    INFJ AND a sex pistols shirt.. 🔥🔥

  • @sanchos9084
    @sanchos9084 5 місяців тому +2

    This is not an infj. We don’t make decisions based on feelings.

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  5 місяців тому

      INFJs exist on a spectrum, with some stronger in intuition, and some stronger in feeling. INFJs with a strong Ti slant often are quick to dismiss INFJs with a strong Fe slant simply because they've developed differently.

    • @sanchos9084
      @sanchos9084 5 місяців тому +3

      @@ErikThor Extraverted Feeling is about feeling the feeling of others its not about being in touch with our own feelings. Fe is ethics. INFJ attuned to Fe might make decisions based on other people’s feeling but for themselves they still make decision based on logic/insight.

    • @sanchos9084
      @sanchos9084 5 місяців тому

      @@ErikThorNo INFJ would say i make decisions solely based on feelings.

  • @maikenmilter4381
    @maikenmilter4381 Рік тому +91

    Her vibe gives me intp/isfp, though :D

    • @thesearcher9416
      @thesearcher9416 Рік тому +23

      Exactly. I am an INFJ, we never dress like that and we never talk or behave like that.

    • @celticcook3950
      @celticcook3950 Рік тому +12

      INTP? What?

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 Рік тому +52

      I think it’s really strange when people say “this type could never wear this!” Lmao it’s hilarious….

    • @TasneemAlEmam
      @TasneemAlEmam Рік тому +10

      @@loisrabies8713 exactly 😅

    • @hanaelabrim6267
      @hanaelabrim6267 Рік тому +3

      I dont know about others but i tend to wear jeans alot with sneakers and tshirt i like a good jacket too sneakers never leave my feet

  • @dantoinettem6825
    @dantoinettem6825 Рік тому +173

    She definitely gives INFP vibes... INFJs tend to be chameleons

    • @jamesrodriguez7000
      @jamesrodriguez7000 Рік тому +5

      D’Antoinette M can you elaborate on what you mean by that

    • @ashleybanksss
      @ashleybanksss Рік тому +27

      Chameleons you basically just explained how she can be infj. We come off one way, when ppl talk to us but at home, we are totally introverts. Doesn't mean we're Chameleons although, thatsl can be seen that way to some yes. Ppl assume I'm a extrovert lol this girl is definitely an introvert. I can tell as an infj. Also she's German, so she's very quick witted naturally, and with her responses you can see that, very sharp and quick. She likes the subject, and she's like what else you got

    • @jamjam0409
      @jamjam0409 Рік тому +7

      Seems Fi dom to me as well

    • @stefanleithner6922
      @stefanleithner6922 Рік тому +15

      This woman is INFP. Fi = expresses what she likes (look at her shirt), Fe would not be so outwardly „unique“

    • @termitesc.aardwolf3644
      @termitesc.aardwolf3644 Рік тому +4

      @@stefanleithner6922 I'm an INTP (Ti dom) yet I wear colorful shirts with cartoon animals on them. Then again, I'm autistic and have special interests.

  • @carllarl9587
    @carllarl9587 Рік тому +18

    I think we are all jumping to conclusions too fast. We can’t say definitely that they are infj through an interview lasting a few seconds. We forget external factors like as another comment said, “She might’ve said yes so she could leave” or she might just be in a rush, etc.
    Idk why I wrote this but just try not to jump to conclusions

    • @SelenaSea
      @SelenaSea 6 місяців тому +1

      She said at the end that she took the test and is INFJ. 😉

  • @keithkelso9872
    @keithkelso9872 Рік тому +2

    People think they’re one way but are often diff than they believe

    • @uchihaitachi01117
      @uchihaitachi01117 Рік тому

      That is correct. There are many studies on this bias too.

  • @abesapien9930
    @abesapien9930 3 місяці тому +1

    She is so fidgety and has an artsy vibe, that she strikes me more as an ISFP if it weren't for that last question. INFJ's are usually so stiff.

  • @flamingomingo9810
    @flamingomingo9810 9 місяців тому +2

    Honestly she gives me isfp vibes more than anything

  • @mysteriouscliche
    @mysteriouscliche Рік тому +4

    And in true INFJ fashion, she probably looks younger than she is.

  • @hotchocolate4life.
    @hotchocolate4life. 23 дні тому +1

    she's so beautiful ~

  • @risingeagle6332
    @risingeagle6332 7 місяців тому +2

    No way!!!!! 😢
    Clothing, appearance and how one dresses does not make a person an “INFJ”.
    It’s personality type that is innate, not
    made or created.

  • @PaXeGo
    @PaXeGo Місяць тому +4

    INFJ Hyper ^.^

  • @kingmarcusrich
    @kingmarcusrich 2 роки тому +15

    She’s a freaking QT 🥧

  • @Rnhzrhrk
    @Rnhzrhrk 10 місяців тому +1

    That is me being approached by a stranger... that instant feeling of wanting to walk away but not wanting to offend the other person who's being nice😅 so I'd stay for awhile but dying inside with regrets.

  • @TheGwennyGreen
    @TheGwennyGreen Рік тому +2

    She‘s amazing ✨🤍 I love her

  • @enigma4526
    @enigma4526 Рік тому +4

    Guys, this is a good video to show how Not to MBTI type someone :)

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  Рік тому +1

      oh but the pizza question works every time 🤪

  • @TragicallyINFJ
    @TragicallyINFJ Рік тому +4

    That’s an IxxP…body is so controlled, and that outfit..

  • @lorna525
    @lorna525 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm like 99% sure this was staged, but even still she never broke eye contact or made a single facial expression and I feel like that is VERY on brand for us lol

  • @smyliejo
    @smyliejo Рік тому +1

    I like saying I lead with my head and bring my heart along, but sometimes the heart can and will overtake the head.

  • @TwerkingJelly
    @TwerkingJelly Рік тому +9

    I think she's more like an isfp or infp

    • @mimpiindah59
      @mimpiindah59 Рік тому +2

      Yes​ i​ think​ same​ u​

  • @danielapolo7346
    @danielapolo7346 Рік тому +6

    ENFP HERE!!

  • @LoganGraceHope
    @LoganGraceHope 10 місяців тому +1

    She's observing his body language and tone the entire time and making dozens of calculations.

  • @LeynaRyallsThisnthat
    @LeynaRyallsThisnthat 3 місяці тому +1

    This approach has been discredited because people have took the test a second time and got a different answer lol

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  3 місяці тому

      That was the 1950s version. It had about a 50 percent consistency rate after six months. MBTI STEP 4 has a much higher consistency rate and has even been shown to strongly correlate with life outcomes. Personality psychology is hard to measure and thanks to the big five we have learnt many ways to understand people better, but the mbti is still a strong alternative with its ease of use and accessability.

  • @colddu
    @colddu Рік тому +9

    I CAN'T HANDLE SO MUCH CRINGE, I'M GOING TO EXPLODE
    Wtf are that questions, how do you know how much she knows herself, are you more abstract? Sound like a oral p16 test

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  Рік тому +4

      The questions are for fun, the descriptions are kept simple so they are easy to understand for the listener, and I don't know how well she knows her own type, but I found it funny that I was able to predict what result she had gotten on the test. In a normal setting I take much longer time and ask much more in-depth questions. I've been studying this for more than a decade so I'm more than familiar with the cognitive functions and the different systems and models available. :)

    • @colddu
      @colddu Рік тому +3

      ​@@ErikThor sorry, my actutude was horrible, i can understand what are you saying
      It is something that I have against the 16p test and the consequences it brought when people type themself

    • @phishcatt
      @phishcatt Рік тому +1

      Yeah it's utter, total cringe.

  • @TasneemAlEmam
    @TasneemAlEmam 2 роки тому +54

    Me as an infj would say that Her outfit was the first infj sign, I dress like that 😁

    • @sandramoreno6043
      @sandramoreno6043 Рік тому

      Are you saying that an INFJ cannot be glamorous and sophisticated?? 🤔

    • @TasneemAlEmam
      @TasneemAlEmam Рік тому +5

      @@sandramoreno6043 why you think she's not!!!
      She is pretty and have a nice outfit ! And I like her 😊

    • @sandramoreno6043
      @sandramoreno6043 Рік тому +3

      You misunderstood my comment; here we go, as always! What else is new with me?? What I meant was if you think that an INFJ cannot dress differently! I am an INFJ, but, I don't dress that way. That's all! Good day to you.

    • @TasneemAlEmam
      @TasneemAlEmam Рік тому +2

      @@sandramoreno6043 of you are misunderstood always as you said,
      Then you need to express yourself in a better way,
      Ex, no need for this aggressive tone like your last comment ☺️
      You also have a good day, you need it. 🙂

    • @sandramoreno6043
      @sandramoreno6043 Рік тому +2

      @@TasneemAlEmam this is the first time I hear saying "good day to you" is being aggressive!

  • @MitchQT123
    @MitchQT123 8 місяців тому +1

    Idk I wouldn’t be at a park and I would genuinely walk right past you

  • @taeunsonlee5036
    @taeunsonlee5036 Рік тому +1

    She just kept telling
    "Yes exactly"

  • @niveditapandey6083
    @niveditapandey6083 Рік тому +3

    Did she just simply keep saying yes ti everything? 😂

  • @eurekadiaz3771
    @eurekadiaz3771 Рік тому +19

    I dont think INFJ is that rare, it's just lots of INFJ never actually took the MBTI test

    • @dreama.
      @dreama. Рік тому +3

      Honestly same
      As an infj, I've never considered my personality type rare. I thought that most people could pick up on what other people's personalities are like. If anything, I sometimes feel as if my personality type is boring, even. Perhaps it's simply because I'm used to it.

    • @somber087
      @somber087 Рік тому

      They are indeed rare, thats why theyre the most misunderstood. The reason why you see alot of INFJs on the internet is thats their way of feeling accepted and understood. Same to more introverted types. The extroverts are most likely spending their time outside than taking these tests. Plus 1% of the world is still 78 million people

    • @rafsankabir6975
      @rafsankabir6975 Рік тому +2

      @@dreama. lemme tell you when i go deeper with any fic/non fic charector i usally think they are infj but when i search their mbti i ended up seeing differnt mbti and after reading your comment now i am 100% sure that we are actually rare pokemon lol

    • @kreatywnynick4406
      @kreatywnynick4406 Рік тому +1

      Cognitive NiFe infjs are rare, but the 16-personality-test infjs aren't

    • @austinsy8056
      @austinsy8056 10 місяців тому

      They have to be rare tho. Out of my whole life went I went to school I don’t think I’ve met anyone who was an infj and I’m an infj myself so i’d know if someone reminded me of myself, so therefore it has to be pretty rare.

  • @yellowswallowtail33
    @yellowswallowtail33 Рік тому +1

    ERIK is always on point! My favorite channel to go to as an infp for a boost. He gets us and loves us....we love him!
    And I could read her immediately...Sex Pistols, hair, glasses and how she is carrying herself (her hands)

  • @ChessCo.1
    @ChessCo.1 Рік тому

    That is really impressive. You should do more like this!

  • @daneden5186
    @daneden5186 Рік тому +28

    I'm an INFJ and I dress exactly like her😂

    • @TasneemAlEmam
      @TasneemAlEmam Рік тому +2

      Me too 😅🤣

    • @justincase696
      @justincase696 Рік тому +1

      That is good to hear!!! I was starting to think floral print patterns might be in my future lol and honestly I wasn't feeling it. This is way more my style of girl.

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 Рік тому +1

      No didn’t you see the other posts? Infj’s would never wear anything like that! Lmao

    • @fsfbart
      @fsfbart Рік тому +2

      Aha so if I want to find my perfect match I should look out for these outfits:)

    • @ellem8990
      @ellem8990 Рік тому +4

      @@loisrabies8713 Basing type on outfits is stupid. There are also many comments saying that they personally are infjs and dress like that. I'm an infj and although I don't dress exactly like her, I'm still closer to her style than looking "sophisticated" (as some claimed infjs would dress). Many of the comments saying she's not an infj because of the clothes aren't even infjs.

  • @PowerRedBullTypology
    @PowerRedBullTypology 2 роки тому +16

    I would not be surprised if she is actually an INFP. They often have these upturned noses. Also, the clothes seem moe Fi than Fe. Also, her movements seems quite random.
    Which test did she do?

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  Рік тому +9

      I can't guarantee any of these typings-- they're placeholders, meant as starting points, and more time is needed to really evaluate their types, but an upturned nose is not enough data to type someone as an infp

    • @blewgween8081
      @blewgween8081 Рік тому +15

      How does an upturned nose indicate you're an infp 😂

    • @ashleybanksss
      @ashleybanksss Рік тому

      🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @pastelmoonich
      @pastelmoonich 19 днів тому

      ​@@blewgween8081 IKR!??
      LOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂🤣🤣🤣
      im not mocking by the way!! Just expressed my honest reaction, it really made me have a laugh, looooool

  • @DenkyManner
    @DenkyManner Рік тому +1

    of course an infj has done the test already. 😄

  • @robbe1534
    @robbe1534 8 днів тому

    In the end, he found out that she was an INFJ while she saw his past, present, and future.

  • @kreatywnynick4406
    @kreatywnynick4406 Рік тому +3

    Did cognitive functions suddenly disappeared or what?

  • @josedl1397
    @josedl1397 Рік тому +15

    The fucking letter dichotomies

    • @ErikThor
      @ErikThor  Рік тому +4

      Ill do functions in future videos, wanted to start simple!

    • @pastelmoonich
      @pastelmoonich 19 днів тому

      @Jose,
      You can't talk nicely you know....

  • @matiasmuttoni9044
    @matiasmuttoni9044 Рік тому

    YES, THE VIBES AND AESTHETIC DECISIONS 😭😭😭
    I can’t frigging help it bro… I would LISTEN to nostalgic music, if that means I get to be happy. It’s hard because these “vibes” don’t always stick around.. so if you lose it, you could quite literally fall into a depressive state.

  • @sugarplumfairy6568
    @sugarplumfairy6568 Рік тому

    I have this friend who is an INFJ and he dressed exactly like this, the beanie, the glasses, it's so spot on. She reminds me of him

  • @z9elka
    @z9elka 2 роки тому +7

    Cool!

  • @luisfelipecorrea4219
    @luisfelipecorrea4219 Рік тому +12

    My ENTP spider sense is going nuts, INFJ confirmed

  • @danielsan2152
    @danielsan2152 9 місяців тому

    she is so calm and cool

  • @user-zj1ct8th9t
    @user-zj1ct8th9t Рік тому +2

    The fact that she keeps nodding and staring at you while you're talking, trying to make u feel she's attentive and she let u talk first (not interrupting u) before revealing that she already knew she's an INFJ (even saying it in a polite way) is a very INFJ thing to do LOL!

    • @ansjeliek
      @ansjeliek Рік тому +1

      that’s interesting cause I’m also an INFJ and during conversations the thing I do most is nodding😅