Hi hun I am in uk and was watching your video after I read the instructions and the instructions say that you’re not supposed to comb your hair before oh you’re not supposed to plait your hair three weeks before will this matter or does it not matter and do you apply Vaseline to the hairline and the scalp or is it just for the hairline
Yes dear you are right, if you loose your hair immediately and Comb it, your hair will be too stressed and scalp very sensitive, applying relaxer to it will cause a severe burn on your scalp, that's the main reason, I had to comb and sleep 1 night to relax my scalp before application, truth be told nobody will carry loose and dirty hair around for 3 weeks before application 😅
If you want to dye your hair just use a semi permanent dye and you won’t get any damage. I get jet black hair by using the adore jet black hair dye. It’s a hair rinse and won’t damage your hair.
@@ladysharon4601 hi I did it yesterday but being Moroccan I have hair a little bit straighter then yours , I waited 15 minutes but I’m not that sure about the result , you think I should wait more the next time?
@@hakimmorabit8052 please follow the instructions on the booklet inside the pack, different hair texture with different timing, if your hair is very dirty after application and relaxer is not painful you can wait between 5-10 minutes longer, but you already applied it, you have to wait for about 3-4 months for next application ok.
I know I'm a little late commenting on your comment but all perms darken your hair I can speak from my own experience I used to be a Sandy Brown when I was a little girl all the way up until my teen years Once I relaxed my hair I'm now a black Brown and I have completely lost any strands of blonde/brown that I used to have
My dear that hot comb straightener is older than me 🤣🤣it belongs to my mother in-law, but you can can other products from online stores, like Amazon and others.
I don't think so, because this is not soap, you can read all it's ingredients labelled on the pack, I haven't seen dark and lovely relaxer kit with iye on it before.
Sorry for late response, this relaxer comes as a kit, everything is inside the pack, mix only the activator to relaxer, and use immediately, shampoo and conditioner are inside pack too. Any other question let me know ok.
@@ladysharon4601 thank u so much my mom hair was just like yours so this is my firsr time doing it dont want to make a mistake grease the edges correct
@@acer8405 there are lots of dark n lovely products to care for your hair, I use the corrective leave in, dark n lovely Aloe vera hair treat for my hair, you can Google it, read about the benefits for your hair before buying.🤗
@ladysharon4601 I watched the whole video. You blowed dried your hair before detangling. That's why it was hard for you to comb your hair while it's halfway dry. lol, it's because you didn't comb out the hair before drying. It wouldn't have taken as long to finish. But to each their own.
@@ladysharon4601 ok, I tried with one packet and left it on for only five minutes. My hair wasn't damaged and it was straighter. I want to get it a bit straighter. Do you think using the other packet and leaving it on for five to ten minutes will be ok?
I thought you were a professional when you said I was wrong 😂, please I love it this way and is perfect for me, you can stretch out your hair with a comb if you prefer, but my style of relaxing my hair won't cause any burn or breakage to the hair.
@@ladysharon4601 have you ever heard of hairlicious method? Also how comes you didn't do a deep conditioner or protein treatment after taking your hair out of the cornrows at first? Your hair must have been weak since it was tucked away so long
@@sashellwisdom6038 we need our hair to be really dirty to protect the scalp against any irritation from the relax some even pour baby powder into their hair to make it dirty that's if they recently had a wash, sorry I didn't recommend any protein treatment or deep conditioning before relaxer application that will cause a huge burn on the scalp.😏
That is not the proper way to apply relaxer to your hair. Your lucky you still have hair and that it hasn’t broken all off and that’s only because you have good thick hair. You are putting the relaxer on your already relaxed hair. Your also very rough with your hair. Anyone with thin hair please do not follow this video. We all learn in life by our own mistakes
There is no way to apply the relaxer to your hair yourself without it touching your already relaxed hair, and when you are not fast enough during massage process the scalp will be irritated and you will have severe burn, application and message time is clearly stated on the pack depending on your hair type and texture, mine is between 10- 15 minutes. Follow instructions on the pack for your hair type, I do what is best for me and my hair, NO BURN, NO PAIN, NO BREAKAGE And STRESS FREE 😍👍🏾
My dear do you think it's easy to do retouch by your self it's not easy for you what you're talking about it's when you're doing it to another person but by yourself heeeee
Thank you so much this way easier than using comb
Easier and won't break your hair.💕
Very nice video. Detailed and explained nicely. Thank you so much!
You're welcome 🤗
Wooow I made it too thanks to Ur guidance feeling cutie
You're welcome and thanks for following my guidance, am glad you love it 💕
It worked for you and looks lovely 😍
Thank you 🤗
It's always a pleasure to watch your Videos. Great Job Dear
Thanks for watching my darling 🙏🏾😘💕💕
😍wooow from somalia 🇸🇴
Thank you ❤️
very helpful, thank you
You're welcome and thanks for watching 🙏🏾
I have a question will no lye work as well
Can the remainder be used for a second treatment later, or do I need to buy a new kit?
You buy a new kit.
@@ladysharon4601 Ok, thanks. I thought it said somewhere in the directions that it can be used another time, but I guess I misread it.
From India, kerala 👍🏽🤝🏾🤝🏾
Thanks for watching 🙏🏾
I just tried it. Im waiting for 20 mins before I wash it.will keep you guys after is done.Finger crossed 🤣
😀😀 we' re waiting patiently, good luck.
This is Nikki anderson I been married for nineteen years my mother does my hair
That's lovely Nikki 🤗
Hi hun I am in uk and was watching your video after I read the instructions and the instructions say that you’re not supposed to comb your hair before oh you’re not supposed to plait your hair three weeks before will this matter or does it not matter and do you apply Vaseline to the hairline and the scalp or is it just for the hairline
Yes dear you are right, if you loose your hair immediately and Comb it, your hair will be too stressed and scalp very sensitive, applying relaxer to it will cause a severe burn on your scalp, that's the main reason, I had to comb and sleep 1 night to relax my scalp before application, truth be told nobody will carry loose and dirty hair around for 3 weeks before application 😅
Is it okay to wach your hair with normal shampo after using dark and lovely
Definitely you can use your preferred shampoo and conditioner, is not necessary you must use the one that came in the package 🤗
@@ladysharon4601 thank you for the tip
It has to be a neutralizing shampoo
great job girl. ure amazing. congrats!
Thanks dear, I appreciate 👍🏾,💖💞
Good video, do you recommend dying your relaxed hair or will it damage it
Please don't, as it will cause more damage to it, natural hair accept colour and bleached hair don't. You will lose your hair if dye is apply to it.
If you want to dye your hair just use a semi permanent dye and you won’t get any damage. I get jet black hair by using the adore jet black hair dye. It’s a hair rinse and won’t damage your hair.
@@ladysharon4601 hi I did it yesterday but being Moroccan I have hair a little bit straighter then yours , I waited 15 minutes but I’m not that sure about the result , you think I should wait more the next time?
@@hakimmorabit8052 please follow the instructions on the booklet inside the pack, different hair texture with different timing, if your hair is very dirty after application and relaxer is not painful you can wait between 5-10 minutes longer, but you already applied it, you have to wait for about 3-4 months for next application ok.
@@ladysharon4601 thanks so much for the explanation
Dark lovely pemanant kote map jwen ni svp
Mw bezwenl achte kote map jwen ni svp
check online stores like Amazon
Thank you
You're welcome 💞
I need my hair to darken which of the dark and lovely will I use please
My dear there is no relaxer that can darken your hair just buy hair colour for your hair ok😘
I know I'm a little late commenting on your comment but all perms darken your hair I can speak from my own experience I used to be a Sandy Brown when I was a little girl all the way up until my teen years Once I relaxed my hair I'm now a black Brown and I have completely lost any strands of blonde/brown that I used to have
Hi, Please what product name is the hair straightener you're using?
My dear that hot comb straightener is older than me 🤣🤣it belongs to my mother in-law, but you can can other products from online stores, like Amazon and others.
I have a question. did the relaxer have lye in it?
I don't think so, because this is not soap, you can read all it's ingredients labelled on the pack, I haven't seen dark and lovely relaxer kit with iye on it before.
@@ladysharon4601 ok
@@Otto8845 Lye relaxers are relaxers that you do not have to mix. She was using no-lye relaxers, therefore she had to mix it with an activator.
@@yaamo thanks for answering my question.
So what goes first the relaxer goes first ?
Sorry for late response, this relaxer comes as a kit, everything is inside the pack, mix only the activator to relaxer, and use immediately, shampoo and conditioner are inside pack too. Any other question let me know ok.
@@ladysharon4601 thank u so much my mom hair was just like yours so this is my firsr time doing it dont want to make a mistake grease the edges correct
@@ladysharon4601 no after care products on the market anymore for far dark and lovely
@@acer8405 there are lots of dark n lovely products to care for your hair, I use the corrective leave in, dark n lovely Aloe vera hair treat for my hair, you can Google it, read about the benefits for your hair before buying.🤗
@@ladysharon4601 well I live in Dallas and haven't been able to find any of the old purple bottles anywhere
12:44 - Sorry but what's is that hair machine?. :).
Is same as a blow-dryer but with a comb on it 🤗
Wawoo thanks
Thanks for watching dear 💕
Can I use castor oil instead of olive oil for the scalp?
Yes offcos you can.
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maroc
Detangle your hair first before blow drying.
Please watch video to the end
@ladysharon4601 I watched the whole video. You blowed dried your hair before detangling. That's why it was hard for you to comb your hair while it's halfway dry. lol, it's because you didn't comb out the hair before drying. It wouldn't have taken as long to finish. But to each their own.
ياك مكادسر اضرار لشعر حيت الاغلبية كيقولها بلي راه هاد طرطيبل كتحراق ليك شعلر اكايتساباب ليك فسرطان
Id be too nervous about burning all of my hair off.
It depends on your hair type, you can use regular relaxer kit and leave for 10 minutes, it won't burn the hair ok
@@ladysharon4601 ok, I tried with one packet and left it on for only five minutes. My hair wasn't damaged and it was straighter. I want to get it a bit straighter. Do you think using the other packet and leaving it on for five to ten minutes will be ok?
@@ladysharon4601 This stuff is so much better than the relaxer in the green box.
Wrong way to relax, massaging a relaxer is not recomended. It still looked dry and underprocessed. Please consult with a professional next time.
I thought you were a professional when you said I was wrong 😂, please I love it this way and is perfect for me, you can stretch out your hair with a comb if you prefer, but my style of relaxing my hair won't cause any burn or breakage to the hair.
@@ladysharon4601 have you ever heard of hairlicious method? Also how comes you didn't do a deep conditioner or protein treatment after taking your hair out of the cornrows at first? Your hair must have been weak since it was tucked away so long
@@sashellwisdom6038 we need our hair to be really dirty to protect the scalp against any irritation from the relax some even pour baby powder into their hair to make it dirty that's if they recently had a wash, sorry I didn't recommend any protein treatment or deep conditioning before relaxer application that will cause a huge burn on the scalp.😏
That is not the proper way to apply relaxer to your hair. Your lucky you still have hair and that it hasn’t broken all off and that’s only because you have good thick hair. You are putting the relaxer on your already relaxed hair. Your also very rough with your hair. Anyone with thin hair please do not follow this video. We all learn in life by our own mistakes
There is no way to apply the relaxer to your hair yourself without it touching your already relaxed hair, and when you are not fast enough during massage process the scalp will be irritated and you will have severe burn, application and message time is clearly stated on the pack depending on your hair type and texture, mine is between 10- 15 minutes. Follow instructions on the pack for your hair type, I do what is best for me and my hair, NO BURN, NO PAIN, NO BREAKAGE And STRESS FREE 😍👍🏾
I was also like "WHAT!?" 😱
I'd never relax my hair like that 🤞🏽
My dear do you think it's easy to do retouch by your self it's not easy for you what you're talking about it's when you're doing it to another person but by yourself heeeee
Im really sorry but is not that way too relaxe hair.
There are different ways to relax hair, this is the best way to limit massive breakage and is perfect for me 🤗 thanks for watching anyway.
Definitely didn’t look silky at the end
Thanks but I love it that way 😊