Found my dad, who is a marriage counselor and pastor, Bing watching yall the other day. He was so blessed by your videos, so here I am to see what he loved. And I get it, you're such a beautiful couple, with such beautiful experiences that each of us can learn hey. I'm officially a Makhs follower now, truly blessed by your content. May God continue to bless, enlarge and edify you two. 🤍
Nadia Matlala We honestly don’t know how we would have steered this ship without His guidance. Thank you so much for the continuous love and encouragement. ❤️🙏🏾
So my supervisor asked me one today if my husband and I get along after 20 plus years of marriage. My answer was I like the guy ... so we get along just fine... she looked at me with such a surprise and said what you meant by liking him ? aren’t in love with him ? I said yes love him .. but liking him get us through a lot of hurdles Yes it important to like your partner.
I agree with Phetola about the car thing. And then what?! I absolutely have this issue with my bf. He never wants to talk about it. I always say I want us to watch some married youtubers and learn about marriage cause we want that for ourselves and he always says ohhh you want to compare us to rich people. But yeah I see now where the issue is...you said it kahle when its not there its uncomfortable. Thank you for this. The arguing also i really am learning so much from watching your videos and I'm not even married yet. But I'm learning so much about this marriage thing and some
I live for such content as a 24 year old it contributes so such to my personal growth. Can't wait to see what God has in store for your channel. Love it :)
Guys, I really feel like I might be your number 1 fan! I'm enjoying EVERY second! The quality of the conversation, the production quality 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾. This is definitely it!
You guys are the very first couple I've ever heard stressing the importance of discussing the purpose of getting married, I really loved that, I never thought about the WHY part or considered it important, thank you🙌
Wow... hit all the right points and i love the admission that you are still figuring things out. Married 9yrs and after watching this we need to go sit and take stock of all 5 points.
Thank you Refilwe. Congratulations on your 9 years of marriage!!! It’s by God’s grace alone. I’m sure we can agree that there are many more points but I’m glad you and your partner resonated with these 5. Please keep journeying with us so we can grow together 🙏🏾
Thanks guys, love this. Been married for 8 years and still figuring it out, still learning and loving it. Never discussed finances, I felt uncomfortable with that but it’s very crucial. Sex sex hhee it does wonders, married couples do it yho, it heals all wounds. But I must agree with Mrs Makhs it’s not doable when one’s not in a good space! 😍😍
thanks soo much for this content kinda going through something with my girl...and the fight fair part resonates a lot with me on a deeper level. because i didn't realize my words during our disagreements were ruining everything we''ve built together over the past couple of years together.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you guys!!! This is reeeeally good. I will be getting married in a couple of months and I’m just absorbing all this! Thank you thank you thank you!!!
1. Define the purpose of your marriage 2. Plan finances 3. Have lots of intimacy 4. communicate....and how to communicate is more important And straight talk is not the answer 5. Fight.. get in the ring.. but fight fair
1. Knowing the purpose of your marriage might be helpful. My experience is that you are evolving, and the purpose of your marriage will evolve with your evolution as individuals and as a couple. Flexibility is key for me. 2. Sex. Talk about it. Talk about your experiences, beliefs, questions. It's not as easy as you say. Lots of things affect how much sex happens in a relationship. We need to be more open about these. 3. Fight. I wouldn't use that word. Agree on finances and communication.
This couple is so authentic and relatable that i now dont wanna watch any other youtube couple.i feel like everybody else is just so fake and supercial its a waste of my time!
So can someone tells me where I’ve been for the past 3 months when this beautiful couple uploaded the video.🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Than you fuis for this . More grace 🥰❤️ #onmymyroadtoido 🥰
Glad to hear this and being a new person. I'm still in the period of learning and searching. I have really learnt a lot and I will stick right here. I have been blessed by those 5 points on someone needs to know before getting married💯🔥🔥🔥👌🏾
Thank you for such a beautiful conversation and wisdom. I would like to share that my hubby lost his job few weeks after we got married, hence it's extremely important to marry for love coz money is not guaranteed to be there. We had extra income nton nton but covid happened and that was also cut. Hence Love must be there otherwise we wouldn't have survived
😂 I like that... "ke tsamaya le wena" all these are so eye opening guys... especially that fighting fair... it's easy to just play it safe and avoid fights because many are times we are not kind to each other
These are really great lessons guys! I'm really glad I got to.hear this before I get married. May God bless your marriage and bless you with so much content! The highlights for me are , purpose of marriage, communication and intimacy.😜
all the way from 🇺🇲omg you touched me sooo much,thanks for telling all this like it is, i love you guys and i will alwys be your fun,god bless you, ntando kababa and wife😃😃
Yooooo guys😭😭just saw your videos and u wont believe I'm going through each one of them...you guys are transparent 🔥🔥I love that.. I'm super excited I am your new subscriber 💃💃💃love all the way from Swaziland ❤
Pheeewwww, this truth scares me. I end up saying, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, cause wow! Kwa marriage, is not a smooth sailing. Pheeewwww. Thank you guys for these talks, they are needed in my life I have always been scared of being in a relationship with a person who doesn't like me or I don't like. Cause liking a person adds flavor. Thanks guys. God bless you always ❤️
Please don’t feel scared. Marriage can be incredibly enriching. It’s not always smooth sailing, however if we have teachable spirits and a heart that is willing to submit to God, we got this! Well God has got this! 🙌🏾❤️
I love how raw and honest you guys are with each other and about your journey. Love love your channel, I'm really enjoying it and learning so much from you guys!
love you guys ,have been married for 12years going 13 in a few weeks. Am South African n my husband Nigerian born British. My list will be longer than yours believe me .I have Learned so much in the past years .Thank you
4th point is so profound to me because recently my husband was talking about going overseas for 18 months on a scholarship and how these don’t cater for the whole family coming with and I had to say “excuse me?”🤣🤣🤣 and he doesn’t see the issue. No can do.
Yazi guys I am such a fan of your content. Loved this, especially that we must get number 2 so that number 3 is easy to do. God bless, and I am looking forward to what you will talking about next time.
Guys help me out here. When you drop your native language please put the English on the screen, thanks. What's the native tongue by the way? Maybe I can start learning before moving to South Africa. Love the conversations. Blessings.
We will make sure that we work towards having subtitles at all times🙏🏾🙏🏾. We speak Sesotho and Sepitori. Sesotho is spoken primarily by the Basotho in Lesotho, where it is the national and official language; In South Africa, where it is one of the 11 official languages. (Sepitori is language “Pretoria Sotho”, it is the urban lingua franca of Pretoria and the Tshwane metropolitan area in South Africa. It is a combination of Tswana and influences from Tsotsitaal, Afrikaans and other Bantu languages of the region)
With number 4, I struggled with that approach, I come on very strong and my partner hates it and I don't know how to fix it, sometimes I'm not even aware🤷♀️🤷♀️
Phetho,wish you guys will have a conversation about the DIFFICULTY OF MARRYING A FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMAN/ MAN. Someone who is not used to consult and account,now all of a sudden must account
Such a good video and points to think about. Thank you so much for this video. Nana and I are separated for 6 months already...But our love never dies. I hope we will get married soon but there is always things to work on together. Have a great weekend!
Chocolate & Dutchy thank you for being receptive to our perspective. We wish you and your Nana all of the very best. Let us know whenever there are any developments. We’d love to hear your story 🙏🏾
I’m hear for the wisdom that you both have. The way you two are so comfortable with each other makes me comfortable watching you and learning from you. Also nibahle 🥵
Thank you so much for this because these topics are SO so important. I learn so much from you both! I really love how you guys are relatable and open, and you keep Christ at the centre🙏 May God bless your family, careers and ministries abundantly❤❤❤
Yohhh I love you guys. I have been binge watching and telling my friends to do the same. Where have you been all my life 😂😂😂. You really challenge me 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Found my dad, who is a marriage counselor and pastor, Bing watching yall the other day. He was so blessed by your videos, so here I am to see what he loved. And I get it, you're such a beautiful couple, with such beautiful experiences that each of us can learn hey. I'm officially a Makhs follower now, truly blessed by your content. May God continue to bless, enlarge and edify you two. 🤍
Godly marriages is what we should be aspiring for as marriage comes from God and should be rooted in God.
Nadia Matlala We honestly don’t know how we would have steered this ship without His guidance. Thank you so much for the continuous love and encouragement. ❤️🙏🏾
I was married, divorced. And there are a lot of things I wish I knew before I got married. But learning never stops. Thank you guys 😻😻
It's the first time I hear a Christian couple being this truthful about the issue of finance and sex.
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The quality of your production is everything. I like this. I love you guys
Queen Nandiey thank you so much for the love fam ❤️
So my supervisor asked me one today if my husband and I get along after 20 plus years of marriage. My answer was I like the guy ... so we get along just fine... she looked at me with such a surprise and said what you meant by liking him ? aren’t in love with him ? I said yes love him .. but liking him get us through a lot of hurdles Yes it important to like your partner.
I like you guys .. I like your sense of reality.
I agree with Phetola about the car thing. And then what?! I absolutely have this issue with my bf. He never wants to talk about it. I always say I want us to watch some married youtubers and learn about marriage cause we want that for ourselves and he always says ohhh you want to compare us to rich people. But yeah I see now where the issue is...you said it kahle when its not there its uncomfortable. Thank you for this. The arguing also i really am learning so much from watching your videos and I'm not even married yet. But I'm learning so much about this marriage thing and some
I live for such content as a 24 year old it contributes so such to my personal growth.
Can't wait to see what God has in store for your channel.
Love it :)
This is heartwarming and it reminds us why we started the channel. We hope to bring you much more by God’s grace ❤️
Guys, I really feel like I might be your number 1 fan! I'm enjoying EVERY second! The quality of the conversation, the production quality 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾. This is definitely it!
Veee!!! We appreciate you so much fam. Thank you for the affirmation. There’s a lot more where this comes from. Stay tuned 😁
You guys are the very first couple I've ever heard stressing the importance of discussing the purpose of getting married, I really loved that, I never thought about the WHY part or considered it important, thank you🙌
IT’S VERY IMPORTANT THAT THING!!! 🤣
Thank you for watching and for the encouragement. We’re glad there’s something you could take away... ❤️
Lerato ur wife s beautiful, Phetola u are beautiful cc.❤️❤️
Ur content 👌👌
You are so kind. Thank you so much 😊
I had the opportunity to meet both of them in person. They are lovely people, they're the deal and not talking nonsense.
Thank you MrJozi. We appreciate you 🙏🏾
This production is top notch!!!Plus the authenticity and honesty is brilliance🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the affirmation. Appreciate you so much ❤️
Wow... hit all the right points and i love the admission that you are still figuring things out.
Married 9yrs and after watching this we need to go sit and take stock of all 5 points.
Thank you Refilwe. Congratulations on your 9 years of marriage!!! It’s by God’s grace alone. I’m sure we can agree that there are many more points but I’m glad you and your partner resonated with these 5. Please keep journeying with us so we can grow together 🙏🏾
Finances is one of the things that caused my divorce. I agree with you guys
Pheto&Lerato, wow! I LOVE this, so refreshing, so encouraging, so AUTHENTIC, so beautiful♥️ love you both, what a blessing you are. ❤️🙏
Thanks guys, love this. Been married for 8 years and still figuring it out, still learning and loving it. Never discussed finances, I felt uncomfortable with that but it’s very crucial. Sex sex hhee it does wonders, married couples do it yho, it heals all wounds. But I must agree with Mrs Makhs it’s not doable when one’s not in a good space! 😍😍
We are all learning❤️❤️🤗🤗. There’s no point of arrival on this journey. Thank you so much for journeying with us🤗
@ sumeiya sex DOESNT heal all wounds i don't know where you get such flawed theories ???
Bathong Phetola o motle maan yeses haai noh I cant deal❤
I only discovered this couple today WOW ❤️❤️❤️❤️ guys where have you been, I love you so much
Same here, now I'm camped here ♥
thanks soo much for this content kinda going through something with my girl...and the fight fair part resonates a lot with me on a deeper level. because i didn't realize my words during our disagreements were ruining everything we''ve built together over the past couple of years together.
My new found gorgeous couple. Respect & llove from this Island Gurl, Papua New Guinea ❤🇵🇬
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Thank you guys!!! This is reeeeally good. I will be getting married in a couple of months and I’m just absorbing all this!
Thank you thank you thank you!!!
1. Define the purpose of your marriage
2. Plan finances
3. Have lots of intimacy
4. communicate....and how to communicate is more important
And straight talk is not the answer
5. Fight.. get in the ring.. but fight fair
Phetola’s laugh is so quirky! Love it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We definitely need more talks like these for young Christian couples. Thank you guys so much for this conversation!
1. Knowing the purpose of your marriage might be helpful. My experience is that you are evolving, and the purpose of your marriage will evolve with your evolution as individuals and as a couple. Flexibility is key for me.
2. Sex. Talk about it. Talk about your experiences, beliefs, questions. It's not as easy as you say. Lots of things affect how much sex happens in a relationship. We need to be more open about these.
3. Fight. I wouldn't use that word.
Agree on finances and communication.
Another great installment, love the advice given and your chemistry on screen is wonderful ❤️👍🏽
So great!!! Thank you for the love Naomi! ❤️
She is so beautiful and natural! Stay natural 🙏
This couple is so authentic and relatable that i now dont wanna watch any other youtube couple.i feel like everybody else is just so fake and supercial its a waste of my time!
The chemistry between you is too beautiful ❤
Looking so beautiful Mme Makhs. You guys just look good. Can’t wait for this video 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
I’ll be camping here for a while. Thank you for sharing your hearts with us!❤️
So can someone tells me where I’ve been for the past 3 months when this beautiful couple uploaded the video.🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Than you fuis for this . More grace 🥰❤️
#onmymyroadtoido 🥰
I love this! Please do an installment on what to look for/consider when choosing a spouse.
Yes! This is a HOT TOPIC! We’d love to weigh in. Give us some time, we’ll get to it as soon as possible. ❤️
Phetole is BEAUTIFUL 🤩 Yoh !!
Thank you. For your wise words and wisdom ,,for when God brings my hubby into my life . Blessings.
I love that, it’s super important to still keep to our responsibilities even when we aren’t in agreement.
Glad to hear this and being a new person. I'm still in the period of learning and searching. I have really learnt a lot and I will stick right here. I have been blessed by those 5 points on someone needs to know before getting married💯🔥🔥🔥👌🏾
Thank you for such a beautiful conversation and wisdom. I would like to share that my hubby lost his job few weeks after we got married, hence it's extremely important to marry for love coz money is not guaranteed to be there. We had extra income nton nton but covid happened and that was also cut. Hence Love must be there otherwise we wouldn't have survived
The PURPOSE of anything in your life must be bigger than you - shuckksss that's deep.. Finance part is 👌👌💯
🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
I love this channel;I’m binge watching and I’m sold for this content❤️
We appreciate you so much❤️🤗
Money conversation for me is everything. I mali iyayiphula imizi I tell you all. Thank you for this it really is awakening.🙏🏿
wow because of the God you centered in your married , many more years thank you kwaaaa l even wrote notes wow thank you .
Aaah we are so humbled🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
Finances nkosiyami are so important for these kind of conversations we must have as Christians yes God will provide but wow
You guys look so great together 😭😭😭❤
Wow! This is VALUE added👌...Thanks for sharing🥰
It's possible to love each other but not like each other- absolutely true📌
Point 5 stood out for me! 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 because I always make sure I'm careful of what I say to my boyfriend when I'm upset at him
Love the honest and real conversation! 👏🏽
Nicole Naik thank you so much dear friend❤️
I love you guys...beautiful mani and the way you looking at each other😍❤ God is beautiful man....as I continue to pray for mine😂 🙈🙊 this is beautiful❤
This channel deserve 1000 subscribers...yooh i learn a lot from love is but a dream family ✌️✌️✌️
Thank you for the channel just found u guys,wow.. as a single lady i am learning a lot...
😂 I like that... "ke tsamaya le wena"
all these are so eye opening guys...
especially that fighting fair... it's easy to just play it safe and avoid fights because many are times we are not kind to each other
I love your friendship you guys😂😂😂 just the flow nje and y'all are so funny❤️
These are really great lessons guys! I'm really glad I got to.hear this before I get married. May God bless your marriage and bless you with so much content! The highlights for me are , purpose of marriage, communication and intimacy.😜
Truly intriguing, thanks fam
all the way from 🇺🇲omg you touched me sooo much,thanks for telling all this like it is, i love you guys and i will alwys be your fun,god bless you, ntando kababa and wife😃😃
We appreciate the love fam. Thank you for taking the time to watch all the way from the other side 😁
Love it! Always remembering that you're a team and giving up your 'right' to be right helps A LOT! Thanks guys xoxo
Lerato's so pretty,her laugh cheers me..
Lerato is the guy🙈🤣! Thank you so much for the compliment🤗🤗.
😂
😂😂😂😂😂..the names confuse me as well
Yooooo guys😭😭just saw your videos and u wont believe I'm going through each one of them...you guys are transparent 🔥🔥I love that.. I'm super excited I am your new subscriber 💃💃💃love all the way from Swaziland ❤
Pheeewwww, this truth scares me. I end up saying, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, cause wow! Kwa marriage, is not a smooth sailing. Pheeewwww. Thank you guys for these talks, they are needed in my life
I have always been scared of being in a relationship with a person who doesn't like me or I don't like. Cause liking a person adds flavor.
Thanks guys. God bless you always ❤️
Please don’t feel scared. Marriage can be incredibly enriching. It’s not always smooth sailing, however if we have teachable spirits and a heart that is willing to submit to God, we got this! Well God has got this! 🙌🏾❤️
@@TheMakhs thank you for this reminder guys. 💕❤️
I love how raw and honest you guys are with each other and about your journey. Love love your channel, I'm really enjoying it and learning so much from you guys!
This really makes us smile. Thank you for joining us. I’m lease stay tuned for more ❤️
Purpose, purpose, purpose. May God continue to bless your union.
Felicia Ngoveni so so important!! Thank you so much❤️
love you guys ,have been married for 12years going 13 in a few weeks. Am South African n my husband Nigerian born British. My list will be longer than yours believe me .I have Learned so much in the past years .Thank you
Same, I am married to a Nigerian man
Please share your list 💔😂 I am newly wedd
I was told by a friend to come here. So I have to start from the beginning.
4th point is so profound to me because recently my husband was talking about going overseas for 18 months on a scholarship and how these don’t cater for the whole family coming with and I had to say “excuse me?”🤣🤣🤣 and he doesn’t see the issue. No can do.
Communication of your expectations is very key, only learnt 5 years into my marriage 💓
You guys are super amazing ♥️. One can literally see the love and respect you have for each other. It’s beautiful to watch 🌸
Aaah thank you so much for your beautiful words Kile❤️. We appreciate you so much🤗
Orekisa koloi then what?🤣🤣🤣 You're right Mrs Makhs that should have been a red flag 🤣
My husband and I wanted to do this video, I decided to watch other couples views and we fell in love with your channel 😍
P is me! Lenna ke thuntsha lerole...but I’m working on it...cos it really does damage..
Love you guys’ energy
Ok guys I officially love you both, Mr Makh your wife is soo beautiful and she has that don't mess with me face, love it!
Sis, I love your hair. Lord and that blouse. Love it.
Yazi guys I am such a fan of your content.
Loved this, especially that we must get number 2 so that number 3 is easy to do. God bless, and I am looking forward to what you will talking about next time.
Tumi Ernst thank you so much for your kind words! We are so glad that you enjoyed the episode and will be returning for more🤗🤗
I didn’t understand what that meant? I thought she was referring to going to the toilet😅😅. Can you please shed some light on this?
“Yogi sip kadi 15” 😂 sjoe... before i get married i’ll ask future hubby gore “baby can you buy yogi sip kadi 15 ntwana?”
Guys help me out here. When you drop your native language please put the English on the screen, thanks. What's the native tongue by the way? Maybe I can start learning before moving to South Africa. Love the conversations. Blessings.
We will make sure that we work towards having subtitles at all times🙏🏾🙏🏾. We speak Sesotho and Sepitori.
Sesotho is spoken primarily by the Basotho in Lesotho, where it is the national and official language; In South Africa, where it is one of the 11 official languages.
(Sepitori is language “Pretoria Sotho”, it is the urban lingua franca of Pretoria and the Tshwane metropolitan area in South Africa. It is a combination of Tswana and influences from Tsotsitaal, Afrikaans and other Bantu languages of the region)
@@TheMakhs Thank you, appreciate you guys! No pressure.
Much food for thought here and fuel to spark some future conversations. You both are great together. 👍🏻
With number 4, I struggled with that approach, I come on very strong and my partner hates it and I don't know how to fix it, sometimes I'm not even aware🤷♀️🤷♀️
I feel like these are all super important points.
Phetho,wish you guys will have a conversation about the DIFFICULTY OF MARRYING A FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT WOMAN/ MAN.
Someone who is not used to consult and account,now all of a sudden must account
New sub here.....very rich content. Awesome!!! Lotsa love from Kenya. 🇰🇪
I'm in love with your content.
Thank you so much 🙏🏾❤️
Such a good video and points to think about. Thank you so much for this video. Nana and I are separated for 6 months already...But our love never dies. I hope we will get married soon but there is always things to work on together. Have a great weekend!
Chocolate & Dutchy thank you for being receptive to our perspective. We wish you and your Nana all of the very best. Let us know whenever there are any developments. We’d love to hear your story 🙏🏾
@@TheMakhs Thank you for taking the time to respond. We are always open for a conversation 🤗
Okay the hair moriri Pheto, please give me the plug
Beginning to look you guys
I’m hear for the wisdom that you both have. The way you two are so comfortable with each other makes me comfortable watching you and learning from you.
Also nibahle 🥵
At some point in your lives, you two should get into marriage counseling. You're so relatable 😍
"Ga gole dry, go dry" spot on! I'm finished 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 I love you guys so much.
Um a new subscriber and um hooked, love the topics and what you share,amazing stuff!
❤ from Botswana 🇧🇼
Bots in the house!!! Thank you so much for choosing to journey with us❤️❤️
I absolutely love this channel 😍👌🏽 I've been binge watching 😂🍿. God bless you richly for being a blessing✨🙏🏽 ✝️
Yaaaay for binge watching!! Thank you🙏🏾❤️
yeses why am i only knowing about this amazing couple now....my God ...you guys yoooooooooh.. im going crazy
Nthabiseng Senyolo that’s really kind 🤣. Thank you for joining us on this amazing new journey. Please stick around ❤️
Thank you so much for this because these topics are SO so important. I learn so much from you both! I really love how you guys are relatable and open, and you keep Christ at the centre🙏 May God bless your family, careers and ministries abundantly❤❤❤
Beautiful Couple!
Love to see the Love and Respect you have for one another
Love It!!
Another one that I love! I’m low key glad I found you guys a bit late 🙈 I can binge all your great content 💃🏽
Wow. Thank you so much guys for sharing some wisdom from your journey with us and giving tips. Really appreciated
I’m so here for this content! You guys are hilarious! Laughed throughout which is a big plus!
Wendy Sokhela Amazing!!🤣🤣 thank you so for watching❤️
You guys are amazing!! You are really "PLUGGING" me ..
YOU ARE WELCOME!!! 🤣 thank you for the love... 🙏🏾
Love love the content, this is what I signed up for. Love the honesty of this conversation ❤️❤️❤️
So much love, and we’re grateful for it. Thank you for joining us and for the amazing feedback 🙏🏾
BEAUTIFUL. BEAUTIFUL. BEAUTIFUL.
LOVE. LOVE. LOVE. ❤️
Yohhh I love you guys. I have been binge watching and telling my friends to do the same. Where have you been all my life 😂😂😂. You really challenge me 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This has been very beneficial. Amazing.
Thank you. 🙏🏾