Excellent video. I have a tweak on “love is not enough”. I think love is enough because I believe that love is not just the emotional feelings. Love is actually a decision and more that a feeling. It’s sacrificial. It means that commitment is a central motive in love. This makes you put the interest of your spouse first. When you both do that your marriage works through the challenges
It's good that you 2 are understanding that " love " is not the key to marriage, but " knowledge " is the key to marriage. Men spells love as " Respect " and women spells love " Affection ". Keep striving to improve your relationship through knowledge... His clothing?
Happy Anniversary!!! I love the fact that you don’t only point out the positive things in marriage but also the challenges that comes with it and that makes you guys the most authentic husband and wife on this planet. Please keep it real as always. Your authenticity has positively influence me personally! Keep up the good work! Hope you guys visit New York. Will love to meet you guys !
@@fremekwame I am in interracial marriage too in NY and it’s a great learning experience for me to watch you guys as you go through life together and this world as interracial couples. All the best to you all !!! Looking forward to your next video!
For you guys to be 2 years in and know this information is priceless ❤️☀️🎉 I’m 24 years in my marriage & wished I knew this🍃 but God has been gracious ❤️🌻
Happy marriage anniversary. Yes building friendship in relationship is very important because friendship is one of the elements that completes love and also is the pivot that successfully marriage hinges on.
Hi y'all, What you need, Ileen and Kwame, is a financial planning approach to your affairs, and become your own informed financial managers so consider just this one tip if you've not done so as yet. Calculate your weekly spend on eat outs, beer, etc...things that you dont HAVE TO spend on...all non mandatory spending. Multiply that by 52 weeks in the year, Multiply that by 10 years , or 20 years, then add your previous years amounts (non mandatory spending). Take that total and compare it to thecost of your GOALS / IMPORTANT things you want to accomplish. Consider also if you make a little sacrifice, from now, what will the outcome be. Now, where will you rather allocate your resources to, the spending or the goals. At the very worst, if you choose to continue with the current spending, for sure you will know what you opportunity cost is going to be , or not.
Congratulations to you both... You still both still have a long way to go in your marriage.... Thanks for sharing your thoughts... :-) Thanks for your wife been more lively in the past and more present videos...
I want to believe it's the extra ear ring, haven't been here in a while but couldn't keep my eyes off them😂😂. Thanks a lot for this, you guys definitely rock❤️❤️🤗🥰
@@LydiaEsenam hmm. Definitely me in person. It'll take a lot to even reveal to the person that I am Headless. Unless we finish exchanging vows at the alter 😅
You guys are Awesome! And I really appreciate the honesty in both of you. Try to keep things in balance for yourselves and family. : ) And happy anniversary! : ) : ) I also enjoy seeing you both taking your trip to have that special time with each other.
Congratulations 🎊🍾🎈🎉. I totally agree with you hundred percent.have been married for 20 years.but trust me🤔love is not enough.there’s more to it then love. Thanks for sharing. Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
You guys are truly like a breath of fresh air! I stumbled recently onto your channel when I was searching for info on long distance relationships (as the one that I love lives in Uganda and I live in Australia). I was hooked after I saw your chemistry and authencitity. Happy anniversary! May be both flourish in your beautiful binding love and marriage. Never lose that honesty and vulnerability with each other, and also with US... discussing aspects of your personal lives. I for one, am feeling very blessed by all the info you are providing. 🙌🏾
I followed your videos . I am Ugandan. I always watch to the end . I think he added weight. I love the way you guys bring out the reality and like you don't try to cover up some hard things . But more so , she is good and in the very first videos , she commented more positives about Ghana . I have more to say ,, but I wish I could say it privately to the two of you . I have been in a Uganda/USA relationship .... And a little complicated . But there is hope and thee is a beauty and wisdom in interacial relationship.
What can your friends do for you? You have kwame and so be happy entertain each other every day and enjoy life reduce stress by yourself and create happiness for yourself by yourself
Eish my lovely sister now I could see that Ghana is into you. You said serious oooooo Hahaha like real Ghanaian talking but as if not from the Netherlands
Happy anniversary 🎉🎉🎉🎉 All the best in the years ahead 🙏♥️ 1:10..... Ileen has charged 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💔 16:59.... your partner is supposed to be your mirror,I agree 💯. Great couple ❤️
Kwame has a nose ring on, I saw in the last video but I didn't comment on it. In my head ,I was he has join the bad boys "gang" lol. Happy anniversary to the both of you and many more years to go.
SO example, any currency, $1000 X 52 weeks X 10 years = 520,000 / If 15 years, 780,000, / if 20 years, 1,040,000. The new question now becomes "how should you or will you reallocate/reorganize/make different spending and saving decisions going forward. Would you rather spend or save/reallocate resources, and...what % (percentage) of your income are you willing to set aside/allocate to reach/accomplish your goals?
Hi Kwame, I have noticed I watch most of your videos to the end but I see one or no ads all through yet it’s a long video have you tried to manually add the ads from the UA-cam studio? Sometimes when you’re set it so UA-cam chooses to auto place the ads it doesn’t do a good Job I think
Maybe you're on UA-cam premium 😄. I do manually place them. Maybe your Chrome has ad blockers. There's supposed to be at least 3 mid-roll ads in this video for example
@@fremekwame woow some times if you watch a video immediately it’s uploaded that happens but in this video I didn’t watch any ads I don’t know why yet I watched 2hrs after you uploaded and I am not in premium used to but not anymore and I am not blocked on ads at all
Not necessarily, The context of the boundary is important. Is it within reason? Does it contribute to the growth & mutual grounds of your relationship?
The concept of dating your spouse, is one I don't agree with...modern society has a heavy emphasis on self - distraction - entertainment- ect..Marriage is a life long commitment to duty and service and care of the 1 ie the marriage union..the 2 are no longer 2 but 1..in mindset, and purpose.. The joy and comfort in this understanding of this duty is joyous ..marriage work is joyous...We forsake all others to uphold this commitment to God and our union. Our fulfillment is in our living to uphold a Godly standard and spread that ideal through doing, more so than preaching...This understanding must be shared and agreed to before marriage..if you live to please God...if not...do what you do.
Kwame and Aileen, I long to see your romantic side. I see too much regimentation in your relationship,I may be wrong. I have not even seen you 2 holding each other. I'm 62 and want to see my grandkids.
Hello Kwame, we all love you guys, but we don't like your nose piercing, you are a strong educated cultural black Africa man. Please you don't need to pierced your body, you are a good looking young man with your beautiful wife. Married is a school that you can't have a degree for it.God Almighty is LOVE .
...But to do that planning and allocation exercise, first build a detailed spending pattern for two to three months (planned and actual expense and income). Also if still no established goals, make the time to ID and plan for individual and family goals. Remember the principle of economics is the Allocation Of Resources. And you are the first economic and financial advisors to your joint life(s), having regular honest (without shaming) meetings and feedback and decisions and implementations. There are many cash needs that will come to you over time (too many to mention now). The outcome of these demands on future money will be more easily overcome by the current money allocation you do today. SO with knowledge is power (said earlier by Cool_Cat007 Smoove) and this information will see you both increasingly efficient and profitable in your endeavours. This is only the begining of the journey. Blessings! Love all, do good, live well, Trust G-D.
Excellent video. I have a tweak on “love is not enough”. I think love is enough because I believe that love is not just the emotional feelings. Love is actually a decision and more that a feeling. It’s sacrificial. It means that commitment is a central motive in love. This makes you put the interest of your spouse first. When you both do that your marriage works through the challenges
It's good that you 2 are understanding that " love " is not the key to marriage, but " knowledge " is the key to marriage. Men spells love as " Respect " and women spells love " Affection ". Keep striving to improve your relationship through knowledge... His clothing?
Thanks for you comments about how men and woman spell love. I've seen the one about children: To a child, love is spelled as "Time".
@@cathodion Too true.
Good message.
I like the fact that he loves to listen to you talk, mostly laughing while at it...... Real life definition of a match made in heaven 😍
Kwameh your wife is so smart!! she is so understanding and talks vert respectful!!
This shows how she really love you,she spoke of how she felt marriage getting easy.
Happy Anniversary!!! I love the fact that you don’t only point out the positive things in marriage but also the challenges that comes with it and that makes you guys the most authentic husband and wife on this planet. Please keep it real as always. Your authenticity has positively influence me personally! Keep up the good work! Hope you guys visit New York. Will love to meet you guys !
Thank you!
@@fremekwame I am in interracial marriage too in NY and it’s a great learning experience for me to watch you guys as you go through life together and this world as interracial couples. All the best to you all !!! Looking forward to your next video!
The new lightening is dope. See how Kwame is brighting.
I can literally watch and listen to u guys hours upon hours without getting tired.
Happy anniversary Kwame and Ileen
love u guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
That's so Nice Nicolas! Thank you!
Warmest congratulations on your achievement.
For you guys to be 2 years in and know this information is priceless ❤️☀️🎉 I’m 24 years in my marriage & wished I knew this🍃 but God has been gracious ❤️🌻
Serious stuff oo. Let's go😄😄
🤣
Happy Anniversary to you both.
Nice and educative. I enjoyed this conversation
I love you two!! New subscriber here as of a few days ago and wow, the way you two work not only together but for each other to improve and grow❤️
I just love the way you articulate yourself…brilliant open conversation
Happy marriage anniversary. Yes building friendship in relationship is very important because friendship is one of the elements that completes love and also is the pivot that successfully marriage hinges on.
Blessings and peace be upon you both and upon your families... do good, love all, live well, trust G-D... HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
Hi y'all, What you need, Ileen and Kwame, is a financial planning approach to your affairs, and become your own informed financial managers so consider just this one tip if you've not done so as yet. Calculate your weekly spend on eat outs, beer, etc...things that you dont HAVE TO spend on...all non mandatory spending. Multiply that by 52 weeks in the year, Multiply that by 10 years , or 20 years, then add your previous years amounts (non mandatory spending). Take that total and compare it to thecost of your GOALS / IMPORTANT things you want to accomplish. Consider also if you make a little sacrifice, from now, what will the outcome be. Now, where will you rather allocate your resources to, the spending or the goals. At the very worst, if you choose to continue with the current spending, for sure you will know what you opportunity cost is going to be , or not.
Congratulations to you both... You still both still have a long way to go in your marriage.... Thanks for sharing your thoughts... :-) Thanks for your wife been more lively in the past and more present videos...
I love you couple, I'm going to refer to you the Power Couple, please enjoy yourselves ❤ 😍 💖 ❣ 💕 💘
I want to believe it's the extra ear ring, haven't been here in a while but couldn't keep my eyes off them😂😂.
Thanks a lot for this, you guys definitely rock❤️❤️🤗🥰
Happy Anniversary. I'm here to learn for when I'm ready 😁
Lies lol
@@fremekwame 🤣
Konkosa
This is me imagining when the headless guy will be ready. Like will she get to meet you in person or meet you headless 🙈🙈😃😃😂🤣🤣
@@LydiaEsenam hmm. Definitely me in person. It'll take a lot to even reveal to the person that I am Headless. Unless we finish exchanging vows at the alter 😅
This was a great watch.
Happy Anniversary ✌🏾
Thank you Shika!
Happy Anniversary to you,it’s great watching you guys discuss your relationship so far and I approve,lol,well done keep it lit.
You guys are Awesome! And I really appreciate the honesty in both of you. Try to keep things in balance for yourselves and family. : ) And happy anniversary! : ) : ) I also enjoy seeing you both taking your trip to have that special time with each other.
Congratulations to you and wife...I like her Ghanaian mannerisms. Much love to you two
Thank you!
Congratulations 🎊🍾🎈🎉. I totally agree with you hundred percent.have been married for 20 years.but trust me🤔love is not enough.there’s more to it then love. Thanks for sharing. Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
Greetings Angela! And thank you!
@@fremekwame always welcome bro.
You guys are truly like a breath of fresh air! I stumbled recently onto your channel when I was searching for info on long distance relationships (as the one that I love lives in Uganda and I live in Australia). I was hooked after I saw your chemistry and authencitity. Happy anniversary! May be both flourish in your beautiful binding love and marriage. Never lose that honesty and vulnerability with each other, and also with US... discussing aspects of your personal lives. I for one, am feeling very blessed by all the info you are providing. 🙌🏾
Thank you so much. This is so nice to hear ❤️
She is very comfortable in front of the camera now 😊
...And where are you guys today? I am missing you.
Conversation with Anna brought me here and I love the content. Happy anniversary to you guys.
Thank you Fiifi!
Happy anniversary to you two🎊
Happy anniversary guys. I love watching you guys. Watching from London
Thank you so much!
I love the way she said "serious stuff oo" 😅😅😅
I think he has big muscles 💪. Lol happy anniversary God bless you guys.
Great video! That new thing, is it the extra piercing 😉?
Happy anniversary 🥳
I really admire your honesty!
Thank you so much!!
I followed your videos . I am Ugandan. I always watch to the end . I think he added weight.
I love the way you guys bring out the reality and like you don't try to cover up some hard things . But more so , she is good and in the very first videos , she commented more positives about Ghana .
I have more to say ,, but I wish I could say it privately to the two of you . I have been in a Uganda/USA relationship .... And a little complicated . But there is hope and thee is a beauty and wisdom in interacial relationship.
Happy Blessed Anniversary 🙏🏾❤️🩹👏🏾
Thank you Darlington
Happy Anniversary yall
Thank you Monique!
May God bless your union. Amen
What can your friends do for you?
You have kwame and so be happy entertain each other every day and enjoy life reduce stress by yourself and create happiness for yourself by yourself
Happy Anniversary 🤝💞, the nose piercing di3333 me I no no what I go talk saf me I just dey learn and enjoying myself here
Lol. Thanks Bro
You most welcome bro
Happy anniversary 🎉 bro
Thank you so much 😀
Always enjoy your videos. I am curious as to how you guys define love?
Also, Is the new look on Kwame a new piercing? (shot in the dark)
Thank you! (Kwame got a nose piercing).
Big Congratulations to you guys mehn....So happy for you. I love Ileen's Vim! Ose Serious stuff o
Hwɛ.
Happy anniversary!! 🎉
Thank you!
The ear rings I noticed,is that right?
Eish my lovely sister now I could see that Ghana is into you. You said serious oooooo
Hahaha like real Ghanaian talking but as if not from the Netherlands
🤣🤣 “there’s rice at home” 🤣🤣 great conversation bruh 👏🏽🥃
💯 Glad you enjoyed chale
@@fremekwame I really did… that’s some real conversation and I love that
Happy anniversary 😍 to you both you both look so happy and good stay happy I like when Ileen said serous stuff ooh 🤣🤣
She's the joker and the serious one. It's basically her world and I'm just in a supporting role
Happy anniversary 💕 Is the piercing new?!?
Nose, yes
We voted a channel name change 🥺
Eii. Issokay. It's coming
Happy anniversary 🎉🎉🎉🎉
All the best in the years ahead 🙏♥️
1:10..... Ileen has charged 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💔
16:59.... your partner is supposed to be your mirror,I agree 💯. Great couple ❤️
Thank you Sarah! Always great to have you here!
@@fremekwame pleasure is all mine 😇
Happy 2nd wedding anniversary
Thank you!
Kwame has a nose ring on, I saw in the last video but I didn't comment on it. In my head ,I was he has join the bad boys "gang" lol. Happy anniversary to the both of you and many more years to go.
Bad boys for life
SO example, any currency, $1000 X 52 weeks X 10 years = 520,000 / If 15 years, 780,000, / if 20 years, 1,040,000.
The new question now becomes "how should you or will you reallocate/reorganize/make different spending and saving decisions going forward. Would you rather spend or save/reallocate resources, and...what % (percentage) of your income are you willing to set aside/allocate to reach/accomplish your goals?
Only fans people coming through!!!!! Yaaazzz Kwame is in a bright colored shirt! heheheh
Lol. Wo nyɛ correct
@@fremekwame 🤣🤣abi you know dada
there is a jewel in his right ear..?
Hi Kwame, I have noticed I watch most of your videos to the end but I see one or no ads all through yet it’s a long video have you tried to manually add the ads from the UA-cam studio? Sometimes when you’re set it so UA-cam chooses to auto place the ads it doesn’t do a good Job I think
Maybe you're on UA-cam premium 😄. I do manually place them. Maybe your Chrome has ad blockers. There's supposed to be at least 3 mid-roll ads in this video for example
@@fremekwame woow some times if you watch a video immediately it’s uploaded that happens but in this video I didn’t watch any ads I don’t know why yet I watched 2hrs after you uploaded and I am not in premium used to but not anymore and I am not blocked on ads at all
@@fremekwame actually he/she is right. No ads.
Congrats Kwame & Ileen … what’s the new thing though, I’m looking paaahn but I can’t see
Nose piercing
@@fremekwame oh wow … I have to go back and see it, hiding in plain sight I guess
@@MJLookout it’s extremely subtle, you have to look hard
Awesome....
The new thing about Osei Kwame is the nose piercing. I saw it it in the previous video.
And you didn't say anything 😄
Great couple ;)!
Happy Anniversary. Osei Kwame! rule number 1: Don't ignore the word wedding. Hi Ileen 😊
Yes Onukpa Nii. Medaase
Hahahah! Thank you Nii! When are we recording together?!
@@ileenwilke8884 We will be there before you know it.
First here !!!!
Miracles do happen 😄
What if you fail to fully understand your partner and fail to accept their boundaries? Does this mean he's not the one for me ?
Not necessarily, The context of the boundary is important. Is it within reason? Does it contribute to the growth & mutual grounds of your relationship?
@@GloomySkiez Thank you for your input. I will try to reflect it and ask myself those questions.
The concept of dating your spouse, is one I don't agree with...modern society has a heavy emphasis on self - distraction - entertainment- ect..Marriage is a life long commitment to duty and service and care of the 1 ie the marriage union..the 2 are no longer 2 but 1..in mindset, and purpose.. The joy and comfort in this understanding of this duty is joyous ..marriage work is joyous...We forsake all others to uphold this commitment to God and our union. Our fulfillment is in our living to uphold a Godly standard and spread that ideal through doing, more so than preaching...This understanding must be shared and agreed to before marriage..if you live to please God...if not...do what you do.
I know that “fart” part tear you 😂
walai
@@fremekwame 🤣
Nose ring?
❤️ Enjoy each other and be friends
❤️ Love is not enough
❤️ Continue to date each other.
Gems💎 ! Happy Anniversary Guys🎉
Happy Anniversary!
Cute couple ❤🇿🇦🇱🇸
🇬🇭
It will be absorbed better if she plants the seeds with a kiss or massage..lol
Adulting- acting responsibly, solving problems…so annoying… getting in the way of life and romance…
The seven year rule is a Western thing.
Kwame has a nose piercing lol
Riiiiight? How did you know?
@@fremekwame Coz I can clearly see it 🤭
@@lavetadhis7581 your vision isn't even THAT good
@@fremekwame 😂😂 Please, I saw what I saw.
Happy white wife
Kwame and Aileen, I long to see your romantic side. I see too much regimentation in your relationship,I may be wrong. I have not even seen you 2 holding each other. I'm 62 and want to see my grandkids.
Hello Kwame, we all love you guys, but we don't like your nose piercing, you are a strong educated cultural black Africa man. Please you don't need to pierced your body, you are a good looking young man with your beautiful wife. Married is a school that you can't have a degree for it.God Almighty is LOVE .
Hi Juliet, if “YOU” don’t like nose piercings, then don’t pierce yours. 😊
...But to do that planning and allocation exercise, first build a detailed spending pattern for two to three months (planned and actual expense and income). Also if still no established goals, make the time to ID and plan for individual and family goals. Remember the principle of economics is the Allocation Of Resources. And you are the first economic and financial advisors to your joint life(s), having regular honest (without shaming) meetings and feedback and decisions and implementations. There are many cash needs that will come to you over time (too many to mention now). The outcome of these demands on future money will be more easily overcome by the current money allocation you do today. SO with knowledge is power (said earlier by Cool_Cat007 Smoove) and this information will see you both increasingly efficient and profitable in your endeavours. This is only the begining of the journey.
Blessings!
Love all, do good, live well, Trust G-D.