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  • @MikeOgana
    @MikeOgana 2 роки тому +306

    Marriage is one of those dynamics in life u can never prepare enough for. Instead you grow into it, same way water takes the shape of the bucket it fills

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha 2 роки тому +577

    How not to make mistakes in choosing a life partner.
    1. Choose Well
    2. Hear God
    3. Get Counsel
    ...✍✍

  • @oliveazah8595
    @oliveazah8595 2 роки тому +400

    I will get marriage to the right person in Jesus name 🙏

  • @omoh2413
    @omoh2413 2 роки тому +72

    Her joy is not only that she married well, it is that she has such beautiful relationship with God which guides her to all truth and enables her to be in the chop life gang. How wholesome. John 14:16 AMPC

  • @chukwuntafavour1637
    @chukwuntafavour1637 2 роки тому +223

    What hit me was when she said , "nice is not a fruit of the spirit" like that got me at a spot.
    Thank you ma🙏

    • @tearakasiyamhuru1614
      @tearakasiyamhuru1614 2 роки тому +2

      Welllllllll….. isn’t nice a synonym for kindness.

    • @kinglordehud
      @kinglordehud 2 роки тому

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    •  2 роки тому

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    •  2 роки тому

      @@kinglordehud True. ua-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/v-deo.html

    • @tanyinana7013
      @tanyinana7013 2 роки тому +1

      🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 2 роки тому +402

    "The only things that are hard are the things you don't know." That's a word 🙌🏽

  • @JK-nk9ut
    @JK-nk9ut 2 роки тому +152

    Ladies, let us also not forget that for the believers as well, you shall know them by their fruits. There are very many fake brethren posing as believers in the church.

    • @treasuresofmyheartbyjesusc6554
      @treasuresofmyheartbyjesusc6554 2 роки тому +1

      Sooo True

    • @henriettaifewulu7305
      @henriettaifewulu7305 2 роки тому +14

      So true. Those fake brethrens are worse than those acclaimed bad guys.

    • @nikkinikki702
      @nikkinikki702 2 роки тому +3

      If your real you will identify real my dear deep calleth unto deep

    • @doreenkboadu
      @doreenkboadu 2 роки тому +1

      That na there real koko....so many people pose as believers only to fall hands. Truth is believers make mistake ba God dey with u.

    • @biruruth5956
      @biruruth5956 2 роки тому

      I believe you 100% my lovely

  • @chimenekendoyimga1059
    @chimenekendoyimga1059 2 роки тому +183

    I'll get married to the right person in Jesus Name 🙏🏻😭

  • @joyk4408
    @joyk4408 2 роки тому +115

    'Nice is not even a fruit of the Spirit.' 😭

  • @barbiekuganjjan5775
    @barbiekuganjjan5775 Рік тому +10

    this lady speaks to singles with love and pain of a mother to her dotas am always blessed by her teachings🙏🙏🙏blessing pastor mildred

  • @nanafosu6742
    @nanafosu6742 2 роки тому +613

    Wish I had listened to this before marriage. Singles don’t take this for granted!!!….

  • @TheWoolfordFamilyLove
    @TheWoolfordFamilyLove 2 роки тому +146

    I am happily married and I thank God for that 🙏🏾

    • @blessedsoul949
      @blessedsoul949 2 роки тому +3

      Congratulations.I pray for the same for me too

    • @TheWoolfordFamilyLove
      @TheWoolfordFamilyLove 2 роки тому +2

      @@blessedsoul949 Amen 🙏🏾

    • @artikina
      @artikina 2 роки тому +5

      I cover your marriage with the blood of Jesus😄

    •  2 роки тому

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    •  2 роки тому

      @@artikina awesome 👍👍💓💯.ua-cam.com/video/RoQyZRWIenY/v-deo.html

  • @kenedii_favored_blessed
    @kenedii_favored_blessed 2 роки тому +35

    Wow, I don't know how this ended up in my recommended videos, but I am grateful, thank you Jesus. I am not yet married, but this weighs heavy on my mind.
    Women always say, "Be with a man who loves you, more than you love him". But the Holy Spirit said to me, " You must marry a man who loves me, more than you or himself". If a man does not see himself as accountable to God for how he treats you, and conducts his household, and does not see you as precious as you are in the sight of God, he will do helter skelter all over you.

  • @antonettewambani805
    @antonettewambani805 2 роки тому +63

    I agree a praying person cannot suffer in marriage

    • @isabellglover5217
      @isabellglover5217 2 роки тому +6

      The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you
      Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke

    • @yvonnenyasha5629
      @yvonnenyasha5629 2 роки тому

      Amen

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 2 роки тому +141

    AT FIRST I MARRIED MYSELF I FOUND ME AND GOD SEND ME THE SECOND ME JUST SOMEONE WHO IS MY MIRROR WHEN I STAND INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I SEE HIM WHEN I LOOK INTO HIS EYES I SEE GOD HE IS JUST THE RIGHT PERSON WHO MATCHES MY PRAYERS AND ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U LORD AND THE BEST THING IS THAT I AM KIND AND HE IS KINDER ❤❤🙏🔥🔥

    • @GabrielDowuona007
      @GabrielDowuona007 2 роки тому

      How did you married yourself

    • @Grace-to6hn
      @Grace-to6hn 2 роки тому

      You are to be married to Jesus first

    • @blessedsoul949
      @blessedsoul949 2 роки тому +2

      Woow great testimony.I pray to find such a man too

    • @jenniferakufo9575
      @jenniferakufo9575 2 роки тому +2

      The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE

    •  2 роки тому

      Awesome 😎👍ua-cam.com/video/RoQyZRWIenY/v-deo.html

  • @troysaunders6691
    @troysaunders6691 2 роки тому +49

    My mom has been married for 70 years.
    She told me to pray " ABBA Father; please bless with the man / woman that "YOU" have for me: and make that person that You will have me to be for that person , in the name of Jesus!!!! Meaning allow GOD to bless you with that relationship ( equally yoked in Him) be blessed.

  • @rosegallus4048
    @rosegallus4048 2 роки тому +56

    Choosing well is where the problem lies.
    Lets be realistic, its difficult.

    • @C.Joan25
      @C.Joan25 2 роки тому +5

      Just hear God, let him choose for you.

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 2 роки тому +1

      very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 роки тому +1

      That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.

    • @Agri-prenueur
      @Agri-prenueur 2 роки тому +1

      Thats why we were given a helper the Holy Spirit to help us discern and give us wisdom

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 роки тому

      @@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us

  • @fragrancedeparadis1275
    @fragrancedeparadis1275 2 роки тому +177

    This video must go viral in the mighty name of Jesus.
    What a word!

    •  2 роки тому

      True. ua-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/v-deo.html

    • @virginiabenton6676
      @virginiabenton6676 2 роки тому

      Awesome education

  • @emmanamukanzye2798
    @emmanamukanzye2798 2 роки тому +8

    I will not marry wrong.
    I will not miss it in marriage.
    I will not be a goat but a sheep that hears God's voice in Jesus'mighty Name 🙏🏻

  • @danielsyesufu5605
    @danielsyesufu5605 2 роки тому +34

    I will get married happily to the right person soon if JESUS says so in JESUS Mighty name, AMEN!

    •  2 роки тому

      Awesome..good luck 🤞🙏💯♥️ua-cam.com/video/RoQyZRWIenY/v-deo.html

    • @koholjoy8168
      @koholjoy8168 2 роки тому

      Amen amen

  • @giftmuswema8111
    @giftmuswema8111 2 роки тому +51

    Christianity is not about changing behaviour, but the nature is changed.

  • @bettygugumoyo8512
    @bettygugumoyo8512 2 роки тому +56

    Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

  • @damarisjeremiah9584
    @damarisjeremiah9584 2 роки тому +136

    This is so true, when married to someone that doesn't have same qualities as yours it's like using basket to fetch water.

  • @naomiaddo5636
    @naomiaddo5636 2 роки тому +27

    I wish I hade a mother like you before going into marriage. My mother made me choose the wrong choice and I'm going through a whole lot. She herself is also disturb by the problems, but there is nothing she can do. I'm trying to come out of it but not that easy. My fellow singles please listen ok

    • @essys1991
      @essys1991 2 роки тому +3

      Listening! I’m now single after a 5 year relationship, engagement and planning a wedding for 2021.

    • @catherinesefa1154
      @catherinesefa1154 2 роки тому

      Hmm.. May God give you strength

  • @ezeokekeuju3246
    @ezeokekeuju3246 2 роки тому +31

    honestly am 20 yrs in marriage but am just understanding marriage now. Thanks mama

    • @accolyrobinson5913
      @accolyrobinson5913 2 роки тому +1

      Wow!

    • @brendawells8852
      @brendawells8852 2 роки тому +4

      You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.

    • @faithgitome9726
      @faithgitome9726 2 роки тому +3

      @@brendawells8852 my people perish for lack of knowledge....

    • @maureenoluwatobi
      @maureenoluwatobi 2 роки тому +3

      @@brendawells8852 I don't understand your comment, Ma'am.

    • @goabaonejudah4047
      @goabaonejudah4047 2 роки тому +1

      @@maureenoluwatobi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Annabee399
    @Annabee399 2 роки тому +28

    My opinion is the singles want to marry and the married single. I was engaged many times over, playing house. Now I conclude I'm good and need to get to know and appreciate myself. After accessing the past situations, I was codependent and afraid to be alone. However, I'm good, as a single independent, intelligent individual with Godly wisdom and purpose. And as a Christian, I'm not fornicating while single.

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 роки тому +1

      We say in my country, " Those in it want out and those not in one want to be in one".

    • @Annabee399
      @Annabee399 2 роки тому

      @@eileenwatt8283 True. However, I'm not in one and don't want to be in one.💯💝😁

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 роки тому +1

      @@Annabee399 me too. Dont want any husband.

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 роки тому +2

      @@Annabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture.
      God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles.
      Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want.
      I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 роки тому +1

      @@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you

  • @chikumbimwenda9729
    @chikumbimwenda9729 2 роки тому +162

    If you haven't picked anything from this message.. the best point to remember is that when choosing a husband, make sure he is in Christ, born again, spirit filled, no compromise on this part.. period !!! Other than this you will see pepper

  • @plubin123
    @plubin123 2 роки тому +46

    I will always say work on yourself before marriage. People get married and dont even know who they are, what they like, cant even speak for themself. Selfcare is important. How can I be married and love someone when I can't do that for myself.

    • @beautydefined1601
      @beautydefined1601 2 роки тому +2

      💯

    • @kellywilson3232
      @kellywilson3232 2 роки тому

      Some time the Christian them worse than the unbelievers

    • @kellywilson3232
      @kellywilson3232 2 роки тому

      Please some Christian in law is very wicked

    • @beautydefined1601
      @beautydefined1601 2 роки тому

      @@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 2 роки тому +12

    Madame Chairwoman and Madame Assistant of Chop Life gang lol 😆🤣😂😄. I agree!!! #WhoElseIsJoining?

  • @tulelan
    @tulelan 2 роки тому +255

    I can relate to the story of God not saying anything after praying. The pastor at church had even told me "my daughter do not let that (his name) plant his bad seed in you." I still went ahead with that person... Hmmmm.... The person now started showing me pepper. God saved me and set me free after fasting and praying. I am now where God had ordained me to be and I am much much happier and more productive. God sure always has better for us💃❤️🙏

    • @Nzunghe
      @Nzunghe 2 роки тому +3

      Glory to God ooh 🙌🏽

    • @kossynifemigold
      @kossynifemigold 2 роки тому +5

      Thank God you are happy and free.

    • @banjomodupe1023
      @banjomodupe1023 2 роки тому

      0

    • @annathembani7290
      @annathembani7290 2 роки тому +3

      me and you are just the same... thank God for you my sister am still single and taking care of the kids alone, oga is gone with another woman

    • @Nzunghe
      @Nzunghe 2 роки тому +1

      @@annathembani7290 oh Lord!
      May God continue to grant you ladies the grace 🙏🏽

  • @toniamitchell3486
    @toniamitchell3486 2 роки тому +20

    The main thing: LISTEN TO SOUND ADVICE. Most people in bad relationship/marriage is bc they didnt listen to their spirit, counsel or parents/friends/family.. or even this video. To have better is to do better 🥰🥰

  • @motivatedqueen7804
    @motivatedqueen7804 2 роки тому +13

    I wish everyone listens to this before getting married, unfortunately it is too late for me but if u got the chance,please listen!

    • @nikkigodwin9641
      @nikkigodwin9641 2 роки тому

      I wish l listened too..

    •  2 роки тому

      @@nikkigodwin9641 awesome 😎 ua-cam.com/video/vdHd3LRgsOU/v-deo.html

    •  2 роки тому

      Awesome ua-cam.com/video/vdHd3LRgsOU/v-deo.html

  • @nk6631
    @nk6631 2 роки тому +66

    Love from SA🇿🇦 your accent makes this message powerful and fun 😂❤️

  • @Desertdivaqtr
    @Desertdivaqtr 2 роки тому +24

    Sister, I am Muslim and enjoyed your lessons..as in Islam we women also want to marry a practicing Muslim man and choose well. Beautiful lecture sister.

    • @ebunehinmowo8610
      @ebunehinmowo8610 2 роки тому +5

      Hello Sister,
      I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!

    • @tiziay
      @tiziay 2 роки тому +12

      @@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+

    • @tiziay
      @tiziay 2 роки тому +1

      Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.

    • @jummyhalimah5799
      @jummyhalimah5799 2 роки тому +1

      Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love

    •  2 роки тому

      True. ua-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/v-deo.html

  • @jennn1404
    @jennn1404 2 роки тому +31

    Many of us lie to ourselves for long and ignore the signs that we are on the wrong path, because of those flimsy things...Thank God for grace, some of us still get lucky as God pulls us to where he wants us to be, so we can fulfill destiny...strong preaching🙏🏽🥰

  • @betty-annpilgrim7899
    @betty-annpilgrim7899 2 роки тому +30

    "Destinies are sealed at the altar"
    Be ye not unequally yoked with unbelievers..

  • @jessicaamaya7492
    @jessicaamaya7492 2 роки тому +652

    I didn’t marry a God fearing man, I am married less than a year and I am in agony. WALK IN OBEDIENCE SISTERS. Listen sisters, in the name of Christ, listen! I’m burdened by my marriage

    • @daphnehammond8054
      @daphnehammond8054 2 роки тому +67

      Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!

    • @maureenmango7829
      @maureenmango7829 2 роки тому +48

      I’m burdened with mine too beyond I have prayed but it’s too much

    • @ras3054
      @ras3054 2 роки тому +13

      @@daphnehammond8054 Yes she prayed and Prayers didn't work, it has never worked..

    • @daphnehammond8054
      @daphnehammond8054 2 роки тому +182

      @@ras3054 there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!

    • @daphnehammond8054
      @daphnehammond8054 2 роки тому +39

      @@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through

  • @stellakamau6994
    @stellakamau6994 2 роки тому +168

    I found out about you today. Much love from Kenya. Very powerful message.

    • @janetarus6602
      @janetarus6602 2 роки тому +2

      🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

    • @roselinekihamba549
      @roselinekihamba549 2 роки тому +2

      Team +254 representing

    • @QueenofLifeNuggets
      @QueenofLifeNuggets 2 роки тому +4

      Happy here from Kenya too.....This woman is blessed....

    • @rayray8137
      @rayray8137 2 роки тому +2

      Kenyans everywhere 😂😂😂

    • @pamelanafuna7082
      @pamelanafuna7082 2 роки тому +1

      Am a Kenyan too, found this today
      +254 representing

  • @shannonnyakuromba2986
    @shannonnyakuromba2986 2 роки тому +129

    Watching all the way from South Africa. Be blessed Pastor M. You're a sound teacher of the Word. 👏🏽

    •  2 роки тому

      Awesome. ua-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/v-deo.html

    • @mathewosayande4144
      @mathewosayande4144 2 роки тому

      I really enjoyed this message

    •  2 роки тому

      @@mathewosayande4144 true. ua-cam.com/video/MX8yfJt88Mo/v-deo.html

    • @danistawondananakwaku5988
      @danistawondananakwaku5988 2 роки тому

      hi

  • @tulelan
    @tulelan 2 роки тому +133

    "Marriage is the quality of the people in the marriage."
    "You may be great but if the person you are joining with is bad, that marriage will not work."
    "choose well" is the first secret to a great marriage.
    "If you marry wrong, na you go suffer."
    Mrs Kingsley-Okonkwo making ALL levels of sense and speaking wisdom. She surely is made for us. We Learn with each day spent with her.

    • @psritakhumalo2274
      @psritakhumalo2274 2 роки тому +3

      Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.

    • @paulinewambua85
      @paulinewambua85 2 роки тому

      Yes 💯♥️

  • @momandjas
    @momandjas 2 роки тому +7

    i thank God that i married well.

  • @ebssgang7923
    @ebssgang7923 2 роки тому +11

    Please pray for me woman of God . Am one of the singles waiting on God for a spouse.

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby0306 2 роки тому +192

    It’s how pastor k looks at his beautiful wife! Especially at the time of her testimony 💕💕💕 he is sooo proud and in love! May God bless me with a husband that looks at me the same way and treats me with so much love! Thank you so much pastor Mildred and pastor Kingsley!!! My soul has been fed!!! I am free

    • @oluwapelumiadebisi5834
      @oluwapelumiadebisi5834 2 роки тому +5

      as in ehn. it is obvious that he is proud of her.

    • @ernestomekam4989
      @ernestomekam4989 2 роки тому +1

      Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?

    • @beautydefined1601
      @beautydefined1601 2 роки тому +3

      I was thinking the same thing!!! They are a match made in heaven and they make the kingdom of God glad

  • @nimawah1616
    @nimawah1616 2 роки тому +35

    Believers too face a lot of difficulties being different and thinking different but the core is they can easily be caution and they will listen because they fear God

    • @graceibelegbu189
      @graceibelegbu189 2 роки тому +2

      True.
      Because some people think marrying a believer is express.
      No, challenges are attached.
      Just that the God factor is there to stabilize things.

  • @michellecharles9863
    @michellecharles9863 2 роки тому +9

    As a married woman who did marry the man God sent don't think because God sent the person it will be so smooth and without troubles at anytime your partner can change even diverting from God. At any time they can stop loving you and abandon you please don't think because God is in it it will be without terrible things. Remember your partner has free will and God will not override their choices and free will he needs their participation. Don't make your partner and idol or your marriage.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 роки тому +270

    Preaching with conviction and confidence. There is nothing as attractive than seeing a person who has experienced God.
    May we all reach a level of hearing God's voice.

  • @lilytumisile3314
    @lilytumisile3314 2 роки тому +12

    Marry a person who the person holding his remote is God🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @uchenenyeuchenna3916
    @uchenenyeuchenna3916 2 роки тому +6

    Marriage is too heavy for one person to carry 😭...my heart goes out to young widows like me. The Lord is our Help 🙏

  • @kellylerry2068
    @kellylerry2068 2 роки тому +60

    Sounds like true..but in reality some non believers make wonderful partners. Many are traumatized for life because they fell for so called believers /pastors..(pretenders). When they are in church they seem to be perfect couples..back in the house lamentations suffering despair and trauma.Bottom line whoever yu chose pray God to guide yu.Dont rely on yur choice just becos yu have been told to chose a beliver😄

    • @blueprince5873
      @blueprince5873 2 роки тому +21

      That person may be a mere church goer or someone who 'shouts' the scriptures, a true Christian has a worthy character because it reflects the life of Christ. Going to services and reciting the bible, even bearing the title pastor does not make one a believer i.e a born again

    • @lanazh2443
      @lanazh2443 2 роки тому +7

      One cannot marry & yolk with non-believer. True that some non believers better than some Christians, but we all need to look at the fruits, plus each get in life what he/she deserved.

    • @Shaniquebeckfor
      @Shaniquebeckfor 2 роки тому

      Vision about the Beast and Tribulation
      ua-cam.com/video/JSqQxf1W87M/v-deo.html

    • @lanazh2443
      @lanazh2443 2 роки тому +4

      @@beautifullama9 Yes I agree, but much of it depending on how they lived their life prior & how they picked their spouse. If the person genuinely seeking Gods will or followed their own flesh desires.

    • @nicoleyula6286
      @nicoleyula6286 2 роки тому +3

      I agree with you @Kelly Lerry

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 2 роки тому +41

    This is the deepest message I've heard. Thank you thank you. Don't be equally yoked with a non-believers. That's my take

  • @latifaahmed4563
    @latifaahmed4563 2 роки тому +7

    I want to get married one day but I’ll take my time

  • @immaculataortner772
    @immaculataortner772 2 роки тому +58

    I really love your teaching, I am at the verge of marrying a nun believer, and this sermon is heading deep in my spirit

    • @xolisilemnguni1358
      @xolisilemnguni1358 2 роки тому +7

      Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament.
      Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.

    • @Manlyman120
      @Manlyman120 2 роки тому +25

      @@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start

    • @yvonnemakwala5141
      @yvonnemakwala5141 2 роки тому +1

      @@xolisilemnguni1358 that scripture refers to those MARRIED already

    •  2 роки тому

      @@Manlyman120 True. ua-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/v-deo.html

    • @hallejudy
      @hallejudy 2 роки тому +1

      My sister run for your life...You'll have years of tears. Look at Devon Franklin and Mega Good's marriage!

  • @ezumezupeace9429
    @ezumezupeace9429 Рік тому +4

    I will marry right in Jesus name... Amen

  • @makingofakingdommd8723
    @makingofakingdommd8723 2 роки тому +7

    African American preparing to be a Naiji (yoruba) wife! Thank you for this!

  • @krixttysimon2705
    @krixttysimon2705 2 роки тому +41

    Amen, I will have a great marriage, in Christ

  • @ekowoonyekachi8350
    @ekowoonyekachi8350 2 роки тому +22

    People go into marriage thinking to GAIN. Be ready to give everything without expecting ANYTHING. If u get back that is fine. If you don't that is still fine. Give free. For God so loved his son... Nothing like choosing well. Everybody is good.

  • @mannalswell6728
    @mannalswell6728 2 роки тому +23

    She explained what marriage is all about In a way I've never heard. Thks for this pastor Mildred

  • @chinwesdiary9175
    @chinwesdiary9175 2 роки тому +87

    A praying person will not suffer in marriage. Those scriptures in Isaiah are eye opening. Thank you so much PM💕

    • @jennifersamlafo6364
      @jennifersamlafo6364 2 роки тому

      I see the good evening uuiiiipiygfffffffffnloiutiklllplllppp

    • @lenapin6521
      @lenapin6521 2 роки тому +1

      James 1 vs 3
      New International Version
      3 because you know that the testing of your faith(A) produces perseverance.(B)

    • @mbagwukingsleychibuike8617
      @mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 2 роки тому

      That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer
      There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing
      Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!

    • @naomiaddo5636
      @naomiaddo5636 2 роки тому

      My dear sister please it's not like that, most of this happens to Christian.

    • @kareizaamune429
      @kareizaamune429 2 роки тому

      @@mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 The right kind of prayer will change your character.

  • @feliciababalola7403
    @feliciababalola7403 2 роки тому +18

    If you get married to the "right person" you can work through the marriage. No marriage is perfect. However, if you are married to a broken person/ abusive person you can try everything it will not work no matter what you do. If it is two whole people and God is truly in both of you there is much hope. CHOOSE WELL OO. I knew something was wrong with my ex husband the red flags were there and I ignored it. Alot of red flags. Mistake I have to live with, but a lesson I learned and now I can help other women know the signs and save a life.

  • @mz.lanavarnerkanwei4765
    @mz.lanavarnerkanwei4765 2 роки тому +18

    This is a message for all women and I have experienced nothing but heartache bc I never choose correctly

    • @user-ur7km9fx2c
      @user-ur7km9fx2c 2 роки тому +1

      God will comfort you sis!

    • @thealdraforrester5086
      @thealdraforrester5086 2 роки тому +2

      I wish I could concil some girl, I marry and I think I sacrifice my destiny 😪. Just realizing after 10yrs. Ladies, listen marry someone in Christ.

  • @sheenagirouard4708
    @sheenagirouard4708 2 роки тому +36

    Choose well. WHO IS SINGLE? bruhh listen to this minister. It will save you from many hurt and pain. Even if you think it will work out somehow. It may take years if at all. A hardened heart can be that way for a loooooooonng time, so it's less difficult marrying someone who believes like you. 👍 flee from stubbornness, rebelliousness, lust, fornication! In Jesus mighty and precious name 🙏 ✨

  • @jennynenedaniels3965
    @jennynenedaniels3965 2 роки тому +48

    I stumbled on this video. Hearing her speak I know I have to listen to the very end. Am richly blessed listening to you ma. God bless you in Jesus name🙏 Nothing as beautiful as hearing from God before marriage or anything we want to venture into. Its gives a beautiful experience & brings life full of bliss. Ooh singles pls don’t take this for granted. When I wanted to marry, I knew I must not marry an unbeliever. I thank God today. He lead me to the right path. Glory to God🙏

  • @rebeccaemmanuel5402
    @rebeccaemmanuel5402 2 роки тому +6

    “ Nice is not even a fruit of the spirit” Preach it mama🔥

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 2 роки тому +19

    Thanks for free teachings. Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @linnetgithuku
    @linnetgithuku 2 роки тому +26

    Mama looking amazing as usual ..❤️... already 90k subscribers already congratulations

  • @kennedyabuga427
    @kennedyabuga427 2 роки тому +5

    Right person + Right choices = great marriage

  • @stellaayodeji2501
    @stellaayodeji2501 9 місяців тому

    Of a truth this woman is bible based believer to the core. She teaches the bible raw raw. She knows who she believes. More grace ijn.

  • @jeswinnieanuns1214
    @jeswinnieanuns1214 2 роки тому +17

    I wish I saw this before entering things would have been different…..tears have been food ..I pray 🙏🏼 that one day I will be happy again

    • @maryslifestyletv
      @maryslifestyletv 2 роки тому +2

      Jes! You don’t have to beat yourself up🙏 you were meant to work through this to come out strong. Many pastors home are on fire and a lot are broken up. Jesus loves you and I love you too😍 it’s God that knows the end from the beginning.

    • @bestchristopher
      @bestchristopher 2 роки тому +1

      I pray for happiness for you.

    • @adeyemoadeola3086
      @adeyemoadeola3086 2 роки тому +1

      Sis,If only you can pray. Go on your knees and fight it out in the place of prayer. God is set to answer your prayers

    • @jeswinnieanuns1214
      @jeswinnieanuns1214 2 роки тому +1

      @@bestchristopher thank You sorry it took me a while to reply…honestly I haven’t been myself but I’m getting better God is showing me mercy

    • @jeswinnieanuns1214
      @jeswinnieanuns1214 2 роки тому

      @@maryslifestyletv what can I say honestly I appreciate you God bless

  • @ozukalumiracle4803
    @ozukalumiracle4803 2 роки тому +7

    I don't know how I got here but you just changed my life for good.
    Thank you Ma for this message.

  • @essys1991
    @essys1991 2 роки тому +13

    Ladies trust God in choosing a mate. I dated a man for over 5 years, got engaged and planned a wedding for October 2020, but because of the pandemic our wedding was postponed for June 2021. During the period of planning our wedding and not the marriage, we attended counseling that helped to uncover a lot of red flags that was swept under the rug. After feeling conflicted, stressed and confused, I decided not to move forward with the wedding. My sisters in Christ, trust the lord and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Believe what you see, don’t ignore your instincts and don’t make excuses for poor behavior. Marriage is not a race and I’m so grateful that I didn’t move forward into a commitment that I knew would cause me stress and unhappiness.

    • @amberpalmer3708
      @amberpalmer3708 2 роки тому

      Thank you for this word 🙏🏾 I’m a young woman who needed to hear that

  • @lucebright8389
    @lucebright8389 2 роки тому +3

    I will get married with the right person in Jesus name amen

  • @tunjibabalola1274
    @tunjibabalola1274 2 роки тому +8

    It’s a great thing that someone recognised the plurality of marriage. Only two can play the game

  • @betty-annpilgrim7899
    @betty-annpilgrim7899 2 роки тому +39

    Excellent counsel. Thank you for being honest and straightforward. Thanks for allowing yourself to be used by God!

  • @TradingNowSimplified
    @TradingNowSimplified 2 роки тому +5

    its 2. am and am watching and learning from Uganda . i am blessed.

  • @stellaonyang7609
    @stellaonyang7609 2 роки тому +20

    Testimony, pastor K and M through this counselling and coaching lam here tell Everyone listening to you that the power of prayers is true God will answer you either in a dream or scripture or a voice will talk deep within you so loud. Marriage is Gods work is only him who can repair and renew it. Continue praying even after he answer your prayer. Exodus 17 we saw the Israelites winning each time they pray and when they stop they loose carry-on with our mighty God.
    Patience pays and carry all your confusion to him he will help u to sort it well only if you are willing.

  • @tumerua
    @tumerua 2 роки тому +20

    Her husband's eyes glows anytime he looks at her. That's the fruit of the spirit ☺️

  • @valentinewaterera9420
    @valentinewaterera9420 2 роки тому +73

    Your teachings are life changing, I appreciate you mum.

  • @ucheozoguejiofor3456
    @ucheozoguejiofor3456 2 роки тому +11

    I tap into this sermon in faith to recieve my happy marriage, 2 boys abd 2 girls, Wealthy, fruitful, healthy and happy in Jesus name....AMEN!

    • @terrisungbeh7133
      @terrisungbeh7133 2 роки тому

      Amen 🙏

    •  2 роки тому

      @@terrisungbeh7133 True. ua-cam.com/video/yGGTj93Z29I/v-deo.html

  • @ceciliatembo3790
    @ceciliatembo3790 2 роки тому +49

    Pastor Mildred, your story touches me. There is a certain way I connect to you when you teach❤. Getting council from you and Pastor Kingsley would be an honour🙏. I desire to listen from God and to live in accordance to His will for my life. May you continue to experience the great hand of God. Love💕 from Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @lydiafrancis8855
    @lydiafrancis8855 2 роки тому +2

    I was about to make a mistake... Not that i dont know but pretending like i know more than God..... But now ... I cannot dare

  • @solacecooper
    @solacecooper 2 роки тому +11

    God will bless this woman for me oo..

  • @rachaeltembo9371
    @rachaeltembo9371 2 роки тому +3

    I will get married to the right person in Jesus. I will marry my God given partner. Amen 🙏 I have faith this time I will find the right one 😭

  • @lesegomoshaga1498
    @lesegomoshaga1498 2 роки тому +1

    I love me some Mildred🙌 No sugar coating
    Who has the remote??? Wow!

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 2 роки тому +10

    Oyaaaaa 💃💃Pst Mildred always on point
    She mixes pidgin n English together n she still dey make sense

  • @joyutidofonetuk98
    @joyutidofonetuk98 2 роки тому +14

    I wish I started watching her videos long before now…..😢 but I trust in God I strongly believe that there’s nothing God cannot do😇

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 2 роки тому +7

    Marrying Well is Wealth

  • @fe1805
    @fe1805 2 роки тому +1

    We need more brothers in the vineyard of the Lord, so that the born-again sisters will find them because they are not many. Let the anointing of the Lord locate them in Jesus name.

  • @thrivingforward7481
    @thrivingforward7481 11 місяців тому +1

    I will get married to the right person in Jesus name❤Amen

  • @slimaticbaddal1987
    @slimaticbaddal1987 2 роки тому +5

    2 Corinthians 6:14 "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

  • @opeyemialukohiram2559
    @opeyemialukohiram2559 2 роки тому +78

    God ministered to me through this message. Thanks so much ma.

  • @IAMMAYBLISS
    @IAMMAYBLISS Рік тому +1

    Thank you Lord for Gifting me a God Fearing Man🙏🙌

  • @vickylamaro3741
    @vickylamaro3741 2 роки тому

    I grew up serving my God,, but wen I became disobedience,I got a man who pretend to love God but with time he was exposed and nw he left mi for another woman, and am just trying with my 2kids and I pray God still gives me aright man who will love mi with my children

  • @estherkluvia9625
    @estherkluvia9625 2 роки тому +21

    What she did in the end of her sermon touched me greatly. 🙏🏻 She made an alter call which is not common anymore in the church. Thank you my dear sister. 🙏🏻

    • @susanimende6865
      @susanimende6865 2 роки тому

      True she ensured that no bad eggs ho into relationship

  • @makwarimba
    @makwarimba 2 роки тому +16

    Nice is not a fruit of the spirit. Wow! Thank you so much Ma. Taking notes....

    • @evakotch502
      @evakotch502 2 роки тому +1

      It made me laugh so hard. She is telling the truth though 😂

  • @malubaflorencemagai5661
    @malubaflorencemagai5661 2 роки тому +9

    🙌the things that are hard are the things that you don't know!!

  • @blessingzidyarukwa
    @blessingzidyarukwa 2 роки тому +4

    Everywhere I go I kick infertility out of the city...I felt that line

  • @389wnttn74
    @389wnttn74 2 роки тому +11

    Can two walk together except they agree? This is a true saying, worthy of all acceptation! We become what we give our time to! The only addiction with a positive side effect…the daily reading and obedience of God’s word! Enough said!!!

  • @FShexa
    @FShexa 2 роки тому +6

    She literally preached in this video!

  • @marycrown6529
    @marycrown6529 2 роки тому +1

    I don't expect less from you Ma...
    What Daddy Okonkwo can do, Mummy Okonkwo can do better
    God bless you Ma.
    More anointing...

  • @zamam5049
    @zamam5049 2 роки тому

    This woman is attacking the devil in marriages! You’re protecting our lineage, and preserving legacies!! Ahhhh!!! Woman of God, you’re a blessing. I’m so glad I came across this page- love from South Africa:JHB.