SARAH JAKES ROBERTS Exposes the Truth: The Power of Relationships & The Real Reason I'm Still Single
Вставка
- Опубліковано 9 тра 2024
- On this episode of The Table with Anthony ONeal, Sarah Jakes Roberts joins to discuss her latest book "Power Moves." Sarah dives deep into the concept of power moves, offering a fresh perspective that challenges common assumptions. During this candid conversation with AO, Sarah delves into the realities of building a successful marriage, sharing invaluable insights and advice. Don't miss this opportunity to gain wisdom on personal growth, relationships, and the true essence of making impactful moves in your life. Sarah's authenticity and expertise make this episode a must-watch!
📖 Buy Power Moves Today!: amzn.to/3wAHebK
Mentioned On Today's Show:
🤝 Chime: www.chime.com/ttao
📱Sarah Jakes Roberts: / sarahjakesroberts
Sarah Jakes Roberts UA-cam: @SarahJakesRoberts
📖 Book of the month: amzn.to/3wAHebK
Chime is a financial technology company, not a bank. Banking services and debit card provided by The Bancorp Bank, N.A. or Stride Bank, N.A.; Members FDIC. Early access to direct deposit funds depends on payer. SpotMe eligibility requirements and overdraft limits apply. See chime.com/spotme
Checkout My Network Partners:
🤝 Bethel Tech: www.anthonyoneal.com/bethel
🤝 Better Help: www.betterhelp.com/ao
🤝 Chime: www.chime.com/ttao
🤝 Course Careers: www.anthonyoneal.com/bootcampcc
🤝 Ethos Life Insurance: anthonyoneal.com/lifeinsurance
Tools Created With YOU In Mind:
💲Wealth Builder Tool: www.anthonyoneal.com/wealthbu...
💰 Wealth Calculator: www.anthonyoneal.com/wealth-c...
💸 Debt Calculator: www.anthonyoneal.com/debt-cal...
🏦 High Yield Savings Account: anthonyoneal.com/savings
💵 MooMoo Investment Account: www.anthonyoneal.com/moomoo
💲Financial Advisor: www.anthonyoneal.com/domain-m...
📗: The Ultimate Guide To Debt Payoff: www.anthonyoneal.com/free-too...
📒 Make Money Online: www.anthonyoneal.com/free-too...
📈 Get A Raise: www.anthonyoneal.com/getaraise
👩🏾❤️👨🏾 Singles Playbook Quiz: take.singlesplaybookquiz.com/
❓ Guide To Asking Hard Questions: get.thequestionsguide.com/o/
⛪️ My Devotionals on The Bible App: rb.gy/v0qf9i
🔎 Find a Church Near You: www.anthonyoneal.com/find-a-c...
The Neatness Network:
🎤Patrice Washington: @PatriceWashington
📗Joy River: @TheCouchwithJoyFriends
👩🏾🍳Victoria Lewis: @thevictorialewis
🏅Justin Owens: @Runtheplay
👨🏾💻Cyrus Harbin: @techisthenewblack
FREE Webinar:
💻 The Personal Brand Masterclass: anthonyoneal.com/masterclass
RECOMMENDED Reading
📔 Debt Free Degree: amzn.to/3jA8GfR
📓 Destroy Your Student Loan Debt: amzn.to/3uG5wNQ
📓 Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less: amzn.to/37iUUf1
📘 The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry: amzn.to/3uEiKdW
🎙 Listen to the show
iTunes: apple.co/2Wb2FhG
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/1DnGlzL...
🎵 Intro: "The Table - Evan Ford, itsevanford... / evan-ford "
GET IN TOUCH
🌍 My website - www.AnthonyONeal.com
🌍 Advertise With Me - partnership@anthonyoneal.com
Connect with Me!
Instagram: @anthonyoneal
Facebook: @anthonyoneal
Who I AM:
Hey, fam! I’m Anthony and I’m here to help you discover your authentic self and achieve spiritual, financial, and mental freedom. I know what it’s like to be in debt and homeless - I’ve been there. But with the grace of God, I was able to turn my life around and I’m now helping others to do the same.
Join me on my UA-cam channel and let’s start this journey together. I’ll share my experiences, tips, and tools to help you achieve success and become debt-free. Plus, you can follow me on Instagram @AnthonyONeal and visit anthonyoneal.com for more resources and help.
Subscribe now and join the AO fam! Let’s get to it!
Have A Questions You Would Like Asked On The Show:
Tweet me @anthonyoneal or email me at anthony@anthonyoneal.com. If your question is long, I might not read it, just being honest. 😁
Disclaimer: Some of these links are affiliate links, which means I may get a commission if you purchase. However, none of the fees of these resources have been increased to compensate me. In fact, many of these have given me special discounts that I get to extend to you! 😉
When men are vulnerable and emotionally intelligent enough to understand life is more than the material things they own, they become better people & this world is a better place. I liked the dialogue between the two bc it was a nonjudgmental, safe space. Thety both were genuine & authentic…Super informative conversation! I’m sending this to my man now 🥰
Women do not care if men are vulnerable and emotionally intelligent if he isn't attractive to a woman physically or financially .
Women put us in that position of making material things a priority. We will sit and cry and then come in to a woman that either do not support you or they trash us. Women pit us against other men as a source of competition. Hey if I can't get from you I will have another man in my pocket. I know because each marriage I've had ended with them sleeping with other men. However women don't want to take accountability that they are the influences that destroy or make men.
Men should not become women.
The good Sis said she had to abandoned the PLAN to jump into the VISION… bars 🔥 🙌🏾
You must have a plan in order to bring the vision to reality.....
“When you’re with someone who inspires you, you won’t want to compete with them. To compete with them would be to stop their momentum in the earth!” 🔥😮
This! 🙌🏽
Right ! So if they do compete what does that say 🤔
Wow this conversation was so good on everything God has done great things using Sarah Jake's Robers
I learned to not be afraid of giving your whole self because when you don't, it blocks you from trusting God and receiving His blessings in your life.
Great word. I needed it awesome 😊
Give your whole self to God only 😘SOME people will use you up and that's why you shouldn't give your whole self to people 😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
What really touched me was when Sarah spoke about how her husband asked her how can he serve her. Men don't really understand how that can reveal the vulnerability in a woman with how she can trust Him and love him in a way that he does not know when he honors and protects her.
i’ve learned that i don’t have to dim my light to make room for a man, but we can help each other shine brighter together rather than apart.
Elaborate, "" dim your light""
Sarah dropped a ton of gems!!!
Anthony, until you remove the "cloak of fear" of being taken advantage of by a woman, you will not find your purpose partner. Please get out of your own way!
Sarah said it best :
Trust God with the entire process!!
Trust him with the confirmation when he identifies the person for you.
Do not control what the person will be later and what the outcome will be.
Give your all and show up whole heartedly in the relationship.
Please take these gems to heart.
“I wasn’t afraid to get married to Him because he brought all of him to the relationship”. When she said that, I immediately could relate. I remember being scared of marriage till I met my husband. He effortlessly included me in his life and made it clear my please that I didn’t have to ask or wonder.
Ladies, when a man seriously wants you, you will know. You won’t wonder your place in his life💕.
And I’m thankful for the interviewer’s willingness to be vulnerable, that made the whole interview relatable and smooth…
You can’t compite with something that make u better
This episode is a public and whole therapy
Woooow, during the dating phase, and ya'll on the phone, if the man says "hold on my assistant is calling" then he merges the call, THAT is a sincere man of vulnerability! He welcomes you wholeheartedly into his world!NOW they have a blissful marriage of almost 10 years
One thing I loved about this episode is AO’s transparency about how he realized how his parents story has affected him and I also liked how Sarah talked about how Pastor Toure gave his whole self to her and not first waiting to see if she would do the same. Sooo many gems but these are my favorites. Can’t wait to read the book!
Even though I am turning 60 this year. Sarah has impacted my life. Thank you❤
I appreciate Sarah mentioning all the conversations that have already happened with women. She inspires me to continue embracing my strength in the powerful Name of our Lord. I've had the experience of ppl wanting to dim my light and diminish my value, to fit into their little box.
I'm done with that. Thank you, Sarah, for inspiring and encouraging women.
The one thing I got from this episode was confirmation on giving of my whole self in relationships that I value. I realized that I don't have many regrets when it ends because I had given my best at that moment. Even in the relationship I am in, I'm not scared to communicate my needs or set clear boundaries anymore because I am trusting God to move and reveal His Will for my life. This was a beautiful episode, well done guys!
As a mother wound healing coach, I’m so grateful they revisited the last conversation and unpacked the root cause of those beliefs about women. I hope AO has more conversations with men about how mothers shape their perceptions & expectations of women, and how the mother wound impacts (and often stands in the way of) romantic relationships.
Just as wounded women often project their pain (daddy issues, mama trauma, etc.) onto the men they date, men do the same to us. Yet, it’s rarely discussed because we don’t offer enough space to address the mother wound.
It’s very real and until we heal our inner child, it will keep us stuck in limiting beliefs. While we can honor our mothers for who they are, we have to be honest about some of the damage they caused and how it’s affecting our every day ADULT lives. ❤️🙏🏾
I wish I could like your comment 1000 times. Definitely need to have momma trauma conversations more.
❤She gets straight to the point!
I love her Authenticity and Truth.
She is Spiritually inclined and Authentically Standing In Her Truth of who God is to Her✨🙏🙌
I learned that as a woman you don't have to dissolve your identity when you become of service to your partner
This was an eye opening statement for me because I can truly relate. God bless you and thanks.
I needed it😊
One thing ive learnt from today's show is that we're better together..Power Moves but more than that..together it multiplies!!
I love the fact that she acknowledged that we as women and society need to allow men to become vulnerable and comfortable .
I learned that you can’t compete with something that makes you better
The most important revelation that I got from the show is that God is trying to get the power to us but it's being clamped off by trauma, shame , and pride etc ... I would really love a copy of her book ..POWER MOVES ... I BELIEVE IT COULD REALLY HELP ME ON MY JOURNEY..
The most powerful thing I received from the interview is when Sarah said being willing to give all yourself to a relationship even if it does or doesn't work . Making that decision to overcome your fears. Also, you could be missing out on expanding your territory when you hold back. Praise God for giving her the ability to articulate it in a way everyone can receive it. Thanks for challenging many to confront their fears and convey what they could be missing if they don't.
I learned that I have to allow myself to be humble so that it removes the pressure of me performing perfectly as a wife, mom, professional, etc. Once I accept the absence of perfection, I would experience liberation.
being transparent, honest, & open as well as involved makes relationships better
This
Anthony,
You have let go and left God do the work in you. Trust in His mighty power!
Stay Blessed.
“How may I serve you?” Wow. Mutual respect. Complete collaboration and support. Zero competition. Praise God!!
I have learned from both of you. Sarah Jakes Roberts: "Power is about to be becoming in each of us regardless of........If we don't show up in our power, we are wasting our inheritance as the children of God."
Anthony ONeal: "Ladies Build, and do what God calls you to do."
I used to think a man should take care of me, that is his job as a male provider. Now, God's grace, and listening to Sarah Jakes Roberts changed my perspective.
Tasha Cobbs Leonard spoke about the spirit of rejection. Sometimes we claim it without even knowing. Rejecting ppl out of fear of rejection is one way it shows up.
I love when SarahJake said, “You can't compete with someone that can make you better”!!! how can I serve you? That is very very deep. It makes me look at myself how I choose to date and who I choose to date from now on.
This was A LOT of confirmation for me. I’m a successful, divorced, mother of 1. Choosing to invest in myself and my daughter, until she leaves for college, has been an unpopular decision. What resonated most with me was her statement to you, “You will be grateful when you finish this journey, that you didn’t get married from this place.” All the healing, learning, and discovery during this season, has created the firm foundation needed for building he and I will do in our season.
Excited to see you and yours in your future season too!
I resonate with you on not being your true self in friendships and being a private person. Those are two things I struggle with.
It's 6:20 PM EST at this time of commenting . Two weeks after the video was uploaded. ❤. I'm so happy 😊 and thrilled to have come upon this video of Mrs. Roberts. I'm so impressed with her and thank God. For the work he has done in her. I am a born again Christian. Who is facing serious challenges. Since my conversion. 😢My daughter dropped out of school at age 15. With pregnancy just before. She was slated to sit her external exams. I was so devastated and wondered what was going to happen. How were we going to cope. But God. During that time. I came across you testifying about. "What you did", as you put it at the time. I was so surprised. Being Bishop's daughter. But we have an enemy. Who seeks to kill steal and destroy us. My daughter doesn't want to know God 🙏. I told her about you and how God restored you. I asked her at the time. If she would like to share with others her experience. To help other young girls. Not to do the same thing. She wouldn't have any of it. I'm constantly in prayer and fasting. For salvation to come to my house. For God to heal the brokenness. She just won't listen to sound doctrine. She now has two children. Doing well in a Job but without the Lord 🙏. The other day 😊. I came across you on TBN. With the launch of your new book. I would like to gift my daughter it. As well as a bible. She's stiff necked. I'm so happy 😊 for how God has empowered you. Please continue to press on. You have inspired alot of people. I've not read your book yet but I'm definitely going to get a copy. I enjoyed this video. It was deep and very profound. God bless you 🙏 sister Roberts in all your endeavors. Please keep my family in your prayers. So that Power Moves in my house 😮. God bless you 🙏. P.S. I too am scared of intimacy. Getting hurt. I love who I am. As I wait on God 🙏. As I build. I love your reasoning.
The most powerful interview on this platform, ever. I do see your growth Mr. O'Neal.
Wow! Thank you so much for having her on, she's a great communicator!! The way she broke down how the power of God is often limited in our life really hit me. God bless her!
What I learned today from your chat on Sarah's book is that it's not too late to define some things in my marriage. Going on 20 years of marriage, and I feel things are still untapped in our journey. It's time to tap into that power and stop resisting.
I received this word for me😊
I loved how Sarah share the example of Toure's transparency and him merging the call with his assistant. Women want an need to feel safe in a relationship and thus was a great example of how men can facilitate that safety. 🥰
I learned to face my fears, and go for it! Don’t allow anyone to dim my light! Vulnerability is strength not a weakness!
What I loved and learned from todays episode is that it is up to me to make the decision to show up for me in this life time in order to POWER MOVE in every area that GOD has created and willed for ME. Thank you for Blessing me and the community . You both are POWER HOUSES and thank you for being obedient in sharing your gifts to the world. GOD's PEACE, LOVE, & PROSPERITY to you both. P.S. I would definitely love a copy of POWER MOVES .
I’ve never watched one of your episodes but this was amazing!!!! I learned that you are not afraid to own up to your mistakes and apologize for them. I learned about my Power and understanding how much of it I was giving away to others, my fears, and even toning myself down to prevent anyone’s feelings from being hurt! I watched this episode 4 times between yesterday and today. I’m sure there aren’t any more books left but I’m just grateful to be able to look back at this episode when times get rough! I also learned about what I bring to the table as a single woman in 2024🙌🏾
Amen on the messages for women. We have the training. Now it is the men. This doesn't mean to dump on them, but reevaluate the family structure. Love it.
I learned a power move is actually not having to be in power all the time. I have trust issues as well and this confirmed that I need to stop looking at people for trust but to continually trust in God because no matter what happens: they hurt me, they don’t hurt me, he always has me. Now THAT is power moving! Great show!
There is nothing like a vulnerable man.
Love you.
You are a great man:
I know it hurts but don’t keep bringing up what went on with your mother and stepfather.
Trust that you are going to build your relationship the way that see fit for the both of you. What if she came and said well my mom didn’t believe in having the man lead?
Y’all have to build your own experiences, your own tolerances, your own beliefs together.
We can’t control everything and how the other person is.
But you can let go
Love
Let her Love on you and keep it going.
He’s an awesome man if God and when you ask him to Guide you
Let him☝🏽
The thing I learned is that power is not about what you have, but the power that you have within yourself. I have a lot of things going on in my life, but the most heaviest is that my father is dying from an aggressive rare cancer and it has me all messed up. Thank you for this show because I am truly having to find the power within me.
Its encouraging to see you as a black male wanting to be married, and also putting in the work to become whole.
Thank you.
I enjoyed the vulnerability and Antony’s willingness to be open to to not just listen but hear things from a woman’s perspective 💜
Growth!
I’ve been saying for over 20 years that we need consistent platforms that empower men to evolve! There are many offerings for women-let’s establish and maintain them for our men! Love this!!
I loved how she broke down the relationship that Anthony may be running from. He’s a great successful guy, I believe he may have his guard up and that could be blocking his blessings to connect with a beautiful like minded woman. I’m rooting for AO, been following him since his Ramsey days😉.
This interview had me on a Emotional Rollercoaster ride. First time hearing Sarah. I had to hear it back to back. I'll probably listen to it again. I have learned is my power has been lost for sometime. Been struggling probably since Covid. The best thing during that time. Was I got married to my beautiful wife. Things were great, until I changed. Not quite knowing why. Maybe, for being single for 10 years after my first marriage. And not answering to anyone but to myself. Here I am knowing what I got in front of me. And I'm messing it up. I understand when you feel like you lose power, then everything else follows. Would love to feel what a Power Couple feels like fot the first time in my life. I've learned you can't be to comfortable in a relationship. Don't always think everything is OK. But most of the time it's not. Each one in the relationship has got each other's back. Not just one. Sorry if I went on a rant here. Just telling you how I felt after listening. To all the Mothers out there. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!! I lost my mother 3 months ago 3 days before my birthday. So this Sunday will be a very difficult day for me.😢 But I'll get through it. 👊😎
I am most powerful when I lean into ALL of who I am..ALL that God has called me to be.
I never had to question whether he was all in.
“It was nothing for him to bring me fully in to his whole world.”
“He was such an obvious man of integrity.”
Do you realize how necessary that is for building trust relationally?
(40 min in)
You don’t know your capacity until you allow God to fill you up with His power, now that’s power moving!! May God power move you like never before!
The level of authenticity and vulnerability in this episode is mind blowing. All the best on your healing journey AO.
I love how she stated about not completing with each other but more of building together and having someone to hold onto. Also, there are two strong people individually.but knowing when each other is needed. I was working and listening at the same
But will go back and listen again!
He gonna be married soon, she gave him so much to pray about. God used her to expose some truths. I love this!!!
Im so glad I watch this. Audio would've not done justice to this message. I'm going to get this book for me. To work on me
I received an answer to a burning question, a few actually 😅
1 - who I am today is a construct born of heartbreak and fear - self-preservation. How I show up today was never the vision...I must remain open to possibility
2 - I will recognize him in that his entire being will inspire my next level to surface and vice versa. He will understand my power and his own and he will create, with me, an environment in which we both can exchange and allow power to flow freely between us and our environment.
Power is not about arriving it’s about becoming. If we’re not showing up in our power then we are waisting our inheritance as the children of God. .. major bars
Great Show 🫡
I loved how you both discussed the importance of having the strong connection with your spouse to come together and support each others purpose!
Best podcast interview I've listened to in a while. So much truth, wisdom, knowledge.
Vulnerability breeds truth and love
One of the most powerful statement for me was the dynamic illustrations of the "Water Balloon " as God's power goes inside us, we expand to greatness "!!!
Love the entire message. One of my favorite!💞🙏
There were so many good nuggets from this interview. I had to a note pad, although she was talking to Anthony about his relationship. I could relate…When Sarah said “we have choices who will become”…..that was powerful for me; along with “having the belief that the cost of love, relationships and vulnerability is one willing to pay”..WOW!
I am ashamed to say that I was guarded when I saw Mrs. SJR due to non-sense. I decided to shut off the outside world and humble myself, and for that, I was blessed with sheer authenticity. She is powerful and thoughtful. Thank you.
❤ from Baltimore
He’s thinking about so many worldly things. These women don’t want this. I don’t even know what he offers outside of his business, because he talks about it so much. I said something similar on the last episode they did together.
I want him to focus on healing the poverty mindset and the fact that someone might take it away (even if God gave it to him).
I learned that I have the power to not allow past experiences of my family to define me. I have the power to make my own choices.
This is an incredible conversation. Am glad I got the opportunity to watch it. This is what true conversations look like. Thank you Anthony for allowing us this opportunity and you too have been vulnerable on this one. The therapist has been a great step in your life. Keep at it and yes stick around Toure and Sarah. First time by the way to watch you. All the way from Kampala, Uganda
Absolutely loved this interview!
Thank you for sharing this interview!
The one thing I discovered is the reason I'm still unmarried and the fact that I must seek therapy.I had no idea how severely AO was affected by his mother leaving his father. To the extent that he was unwilling to be completely open to pursuing love. And I'm happy that Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts got him to realize that's something he needs to change. This was such a good show.
Nothing for him to bring me into his world….a man with integrity❤
I had to watch this 3 times to catch all the gems. This was a much needed, comprehensive, thoughtful, fulfilling discussion that gave me verbiage for my current space of life. Thank you for this! Buying the book today!
This was🔥 I hope it's not too late for the book. Being that my partner and I are seriously talking about taking the next steps, the most powerful thing I learned is that we as women should have capacity for him to evolve as well, which doesn't take away any of our power AND gives him a safe space.💕
I loved this show & the eye opening resolve it brought to me & your audience. I got the whole picture from Sarah’s view & straight forward voice & Anthony opening up and being vulnerable. As an older viewer ( I follow AO & Sarah) I’m sending this show to my four adult children. Thank you 🙏🏽 thank you.🙏🏽 😊❤love this channel.
This podcast has been everything. WOG is teaching!! She is helping me too. I am definitely going to read the book. One thing I took away was to allow God's power to move in me and not try to do things within my own power.
I have been waiting on Anthony to have to revelation and this conversation! His heart yearns for love, I pray on your journey to EXPERIENCE IT! God can hold your heart as you open it up to love.
Great interview! Love the transparency and vulnerability! 🙏🏾
🔥unclamp🔥
When Power Movesssss in us it changes our size and capacity....chileeeeeeee🔥
First time watching! Awesome! Will definitely listen again!
All of Sarah’s interviews offer a new revelation Amen 🙏🏾
I learned that we have to heal what’s inside of us that could hinder us from the right relationships, business growth or opportunities. We have to trust God and watch his power move
This conversation was GOOD‼️ I love the concept of not needing to compete with our partner. Let's inspire one another instead of trying to out do or dominate one another. ‼️🔥🔥
It’s such a relief when the Lord confirms the calling to be a strong woman of faith pursuing legacy with or without a man. There was a feeling of hesitancy and being stagnant in my life, but after listening to this interview, I am excited! I am moved to pursue with full force the plans that have been in my heart! This was so good!
Absolutely great interview. Loved the authenticity of both Sara and Anthony ❤
This was SO powerful!! Thank you!!
This was so good!
This was so so good! I was blessed today!❤️
One thing I loved about today’s show, is your authentic apology and your transparency of your individual growth to see that an apology was even needed AND the analog of the balloon.
👏🏽👏🏽Thank you Sarah Jake Roberts
God Bless you Anthony and all that you do! Thank you so much for this opportunity SO MUCH WISDOM. Can relate to so much being said.
P.S. I think we are related O’Neal
AWESOME CONVERSATION SO MANY GEMS 💎 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Sarah is speaking, and I'm listening! Thank you!! 👏🏽 ❤
I learned to appreciate my journey and to appreciate his and how we've met at this point in the journey to be strengthening and vulnerable, and they're both great and needed. This interview is going on my playlist! It has so many nuggets of wisdom and AO, I appreciate your transparency. This was real talk 😃
Every time Sarah comes through its an experience.
Just ordered her book after listening to this. Thanks AO for this interview!
Great conversation 👏🏽👏🏾👏🏿 I've learned from this is to be open and bring your full self!
Today was my first time ever seen and heard of your show. I just want to say that I admire your ability to identify the root of road blocks in your life. I pray that God continues to heal you from the inside out. Everyone deserves to feel loved and secure. My past decisions didn't hinder me. It molded me for the woman that I needed to be when God sends my husband. Your past has done the same for you. Be blessed ❤.
I learned power moves within me at the extent of my Authenticity…It’s like this conversation put a name to a lot of the freedom I’m experiencing on my mission with the Lord. Thank you!
The Power of the Holy Spirit!!!!
Loved this episode!!!!!
I loved hearing about the mutual inspiration between Sarah and Tourè. I also loved how she gave advice/feedback in the most loving, graceful way! And I would loooove a copy of her book! ❤🙂🙏🏽
My book will be here tomorrow! I’m soooo excited. I learned too much to list in a comment. But I loved how she was a big sister to u. She didn’t sugar coat but she wasn’t invasive either. I also loved that u weren’t scared of the work. U might end up being on the panel at Men Evolved! 😊