Breakout Session x Marriage, Mental Health, & the Marketplace at ILS 2023

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  • @bestgospelmix1852
    @bestgospelmix1852 Рік тому +1200

    I was paralyzed in bed last year and I heard Jesus say out loud to me - If you believe in me get up and walk I got up and not only walked but went for a walk outside. Praise God!!!!! GOD IS ALWAYS WORKING!!!!

  • @MJ_4lyfe
    @MJ_4lyfe Рік тому +584

    They need to collaborate together & make this a national tour. I’m single and enjoyed this conversation.

  • @Adasipriscilia
    @Adasipriscilia Рік тому +401

    Discipline is far cheaper than regret

  • @neohcouturemanyuchi6501
    @neohcouturemanyuchi6501 Рік тому +282

    Everyone on the panel was Great! But the HOST was born for this! She is very wise and acknowledged everything everyone said without making anyone feel awkward! She has a gift!

    • @WhatIveLearned5.9
      @WhatIveLearned5.9 Рік тому +4

      Agreed!!!

    • @renesleisurebosslady
      @renesleisurebosslady Рік тому +4

      Who is the host? I really loved it all and yes the host was great!!

    • @ashleijai5890
      @ashleijai5890 Рік тому +2

      Chile.....this is the first church that promotes wholesome not an ashamed problem to be single, singleness. REAL LIFE DISCUSSIONS

    • @meekwalker8723
      @meekwalker8723 Рік тому +1

      I agree she was awesome. I was looking for her name afterwards.

    • @shontasmith9362
      @shontasmith9362 Рік тому

      Amen 🙏

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 Рік тому +166

    "Space to be yourself. Space to grow. Space to be a mess." I like Sarah's response! I hope she keeps on keeping it Real.

    • @LBright4444
      @LBright4444 Рік тому +2

      Well
      I most certainly how to give and receive this
      Very important

  • @d5b394
    @d5b394 Рік тому +144

    We need more discussions like this for the married people in this world! #MuchNeeded

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 Рік тому

      YES!

    • @Momof3blessing
      @Momof3blessing Рік тому +4

      Singles too it's good for everyone honestly!!

    • @msaprilj
      @msaprilj Рік тому

      I agree wholeheartedly!

    • @willadeanflucker8062
      @willadeanflucker8062 Рік тому

      Yes we need this I agree but I barely can get my husband to have a real conversation lord I’m praying for this marriage 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sussanolaleye8499
    @sussanolaleye8499 Рік тому +114

    “The cost of discipline is far cheaper than regret” Whoa!🤭

  • @MissKofAZ
    @MissKofAZ Рік тому +94

    Im so glad I clicked on this video. It came across my feed multiple times (because I follow Sarah) and I ignored it because I’m not married. I was thinking I didn’t need to hear what married people are doing in their marriage. This video was GOOD. So glad I clicked on it

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 Рік тому

      Same!

    • @TradingEvolution3
      @TradingEvolution3 Рік тому +1

      So glad you did! I’m not married either but hey if that’s the goal, then get these gems early 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and these are some of the perfect people to start with.

  • @almathomas8325
    @almathomas8325 Рік тому +10

    UA-cam keeps recommending me spiritual relationship conversation videos. Thank you God for this.

  • @gloriadenhere7440
    @gloriadenhere7440 Рік тому +71

    'Me holding you accountable to our marriage is not the same thing as me attacking your dream, I am not trying stand in the way of your progress, I want to see you win'. Waal this is profound

  • @sylviotochi2576
    @sylviotochi2576 Рік тому +13

    Pastor Toure can't just let Sarah be on her own... To me it's unconscious him touching Sarah's chair but speaks volumes about his love ❤ attachment..... Wow!!! 🎉

  • @amention5
    @amention5 Рік тому +71

    You don’t have experience you have repetition! Pastor Keion always has a word!

  • @aeshia24
    @aeshia24 Рік тому +110

    OMG who decided to do this???? I absolutely LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE this!!!

  • @shaneesharogers208
    @shaneesharogers208 Рік тому +79

    This was so awesome. I love how God is using this generation of leaders to give advice and wisdom on everyday life things and ministry. We need real not fake church behavior. Be honest. The truth sets people free!!!

  • @kimberlyleday5001
    @kimberlyleday5001 Рік тому +41

    Shaunie you are a blessing. No matter how you say it, your realness is for real. Don’t worry about others saying anything possibly better than you! You are better!

  • @vickiturner4416
    @vickiturner4416 Рік тому +50

    This Was Absolutely AMAZING!!! I’m Patiently Waiting For My 2nd Chance & When GOD Gives It To Me I’ll Never Be Divorced Again!!!! The Guests Were EVERYTHING & So Was The Host!!! Pastor Sarah & Lady Shaunie, Please Continue To AUTHENTICALLY Represent For The Ladies ❤️

  • @gracelong3975
    @gracelong3975 Рік тому +38

    Shaunie husband is anointed and has a beautiful voice 🙌🏾

  • @Yashika.williams02
    @Yashika.williams02 Рік тому +57

    Discipline is far cheaper than regret 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @michelemoore1689
    @michelemoore1689 Рік тому +87

    I love the transparency from both couples. It's real life stuff and not filter like the old school churchs. Back in the day everything was perfect and they didn't share the bad side of a bishop/pastor's life.. Thank God, for the Hendersons and the Roberts! Because life is serious but yet fun 😊

    • @S0imR0yaLty
      @S0imR0yaLty Рік тому +1

      That guilt spirit hits everytime. God help me to be better self full

  • @kamiadidi1229
    @kamiadidi1229 Рік тому +34

    Pastor Sarah and pastor Robert make me have hope and confidence in life

  • @AshleyNikolee
    @AshleyNikolee Рік тому +73

    I am 26 years old and awaiting to become a wife and let me tell you guys! THIS HERE BLESSED ME! There were a lot of gems that I took from both couples that I can use in my intimate relationship as well as relationships with others! And I didn’t know that Sarah was as funny as she is! I love being open and honest and this is what BOTH couples did!! Love all of this!!!

    • @Patricia-ev2rs
      @Patricia-ev2rs Рік тому +3

      Girl I'm 25 and I'm waiting too i will remember you in my prayers when praying for Mr right.

    • @AshleyNikolee
      @AshleyNikolee Рік тому +2

      @@Patricia-ev2rs That is so sweet! I will remember you as well! Thank you!

    • @Patricia-ev2rs
      @Patricia-ev2rs Рік тому +2

      @@AshleyNikolee Thank you Ashley

    • @Patricia-ev2rs
      @Patricia-ev2rs Рік тому

      @@AshleyNikolee Thank you Ashley

    • @tolublessing9541
      @tolublessing9541 Рік тому +2

      @@Patricia-ev2rs wow this how you put yourselves in prayer and you don't forget?

  • @AGodfundedprincess
    @AGodfundedprincess Рік тому +15

    I am single and I am believing God for a husband. I loved this. The authenticity these four have is supreme. And omg I laughed so hard .

  • @pkblutvbeautifullikeus8492
    @pkblutvbeautifullikeus8492 Рік тому +126

    PLEASE MAKE THIS A SERIES!!!!!

  • @susanmadiphapangphiri7943
    @susanmadiphapangphiri7943 6 місяців тому +1

    This was so beautiful to watch and had restored my belief in love again ❤❤❤ watching from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @ashleejones2166
    @ashleejones2166 11 місяців тому +3

    Adding that to my list. Desire someone who not only provides a safe space- but specifically space to be a mess, space to grow, and space to be my self. I love this!

  • @lashondabrawley1607
    @lashondabrawley1607 Рік тому +16

    I love Shaunie for our pastor. I notice she does give him balance. He carries and does so much. She is also hilarious. It's good to see her process in her role as our first Lady. ❤❤

  • @prophecyrevelations5653
    @prophecyrevelations5653 Рік тому +15

    I like wat Sarah said. I TOTALLY GET IT! I was a wild teen, quit school, did drugs, clubbin, drinking, ect ect. People set the bar pretty low for me too!😂 I was not givin any impressions to my parents wen I was age 14, that they would have said, "that kid is gonna become a President & CEO of a successful company & will employ & help others in the community. YET! By the Grace of God...2 decades later...that's exactly wat happened. ELEVATED & stayed there!🙏I'm goin into my 10th year running the company👍I could fall tomorrow...I'd still be chill cuz Id feel like STILL I did it!" HE⬆️DID IT!I Got there! Nothing changes it!

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 Рік тому +28

    Everyone on the panel was awesome . The host used wisdom and knowledge to make sure that everyone contributed and shared their wisdom in a unique way . 🎉😮

  • @godisgood2529
    @godisgood2529 Рік тому +42

    I didn’t want this to be over 😩

  • @specialk2011able
    @specialk2011able Рік тому +33

    I'm getting married 7.30.23 and I truly enjoyed every minute of this session. I would love to be in the building when they do this again. Bring this to South Carolina please

  • @CM-rr2uu
    @CM-rr2uu Рік тому +45

    Yasss she is definitely Bishop TD and Serita Jakes baby girl 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I love her realness ❤❤

  • @archiemohlabane9723
    @archiemohlabane9723 Рік тому +3

    Them ladies are definitely breaking the stereotypes, WELL DONE!!!!!

  • @celestialbeingdrakes3378
    @celestialbeingdrakes3378 Рік тому +39

    I love Sarah’s personality

  • @winifredjpittman7551
    @winifredjpittman7551 Рік тому +9

    Wow, these are married couples which make you feel your missing something in not being married yet in a very healthy way.

  • @rymccu4837
    @rymccu4837 Рік тому +34

    I loved this… we need more honest people like them on the stage telling their truth

  • @barbararobinson6020
    @barbararobinson6020 Рік тому +23

    This session truly blessed me. Thank you Pastors Sarah and Toure’ Roberts and Pastor and First Lady Henderson for your honesty and transparency. We have gained a lot of tools and nuggets from this conversation and we will definitely be using them.

  • @walkingbyfaithwithfaith
    @walkingbyfaithwithfaith Рік тому +21

    I love their authenticity, humor, and practical responses!

  • @chiefapostlenikkijones771
    @chiefapostlenikkijones771 Рік тому +6

    Self care is necessary!!

  • @hlengiwembata7045
    @hlengiwembata7045 Рік тому +18

    I love Shaunie Henderson, she is everything honey ❤❤❤

  • @LifeOfAnOvercomer
    @LifeOfAnOvercomer Рік тому +12

    As a single young ,God fearing woman l enjoyed it .

  • @misswages317
    @misswages317 Рік тому +13

    I want someone that can love me like this. Thank God that they blessed.

  • @juber0411
    @juber0411 Рік тому +23

    Can we get a part 2? This was too good! Love both couples honesty and contribution to healthy marriage and real marriage knowledge ❤️

  • @MultiBnine
    @MultiBnine Рік тому +48

    This should have been longer interview 😊. So many gems

  • @herexchange_
    @herexchange_ Рік тому +9

    I’m not married and thoroughly enjoyed this panel. Lessons!

  • @JoAnnBurkley
    @JoAnnBurkley Рік тому +3

    I Truly Loved Sarah’s Space to Be Yourself, Space to be a Mess & Space to Grow, very important in a Marriage!!😊

  • @mhizrita1385
    @mhizrita1385 3 місяці тому +1

    This is so refreshing... I feel good❤😊. Forget it, God's kind of marriage is sweeeeeeeet

  • @lisareid4413
    @lisareid4413 Рік тому +22

    I loved every second of this. These 2 women are right for the assignment ❤😅

  • @HarrietNettles
    @HarrietNettles 2 місяці тому

    I Love This 🥰 This Need To Be A Reality Show 🙏❤

  • @antonetteclarke5055
    @antonetteclarke5055 Рік тому +41

    I just love Sarah❤. Thanks pastor Keion for being vulnerable❤

  • @MaryOnyango-yn4hb
    @MaryOnyango-yn4hb Рік тому +2

    Shaunie and Sarah just got REAL.❤❤❤❤

  • @celineopido7903
    @celineopido7903 Рік тому +9

    I will watch this over and over again. I’m attracted to real and authentic.

    • @KOFARMSKENYA
      @KOFARMSKENYA Рік тому +2

      This video is also becoming a reference video for me

  • @sandramoultrie2794
    @sandramoultrie2794 Рік тому +5

    From a woman of God that's seasoned (over 60), I truly enjoyed this. I've learned a lot.

  • @leandraspeaksfaith9858
    @leandraspeaksfaith9858 Рік тому +8

    We need more with these two couples.!!!!

  • @lookup912
    @lookup912 Рік тому +3

    This conversation alone and all its nuances ((could be made into individual classes/sessions/talks)) is absolutely an annual event in itself.

  • @saeintrests
    @saeintrests Рік тому +35

    This was such a part of Mental Health category-how we laughed with this panel on REAL issues!😂❤

  • @lolajennings5621
    @lolajennings5621 5 місяців тому +3

    I love Pastor Sarah and her personality 😅😂

  • @letrallindsey4753
    @letrallindsey4753 Рік тому +45

    We need a series ...Hey continue everything else ...Why not make it a series..Come on Shaunie..Get the series going....It can be called...Framing your marriage...Letsss Go...

    • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
      @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Рік тому

      Love this ❤

    • @ministerwykoff5631
      @ministerwykoff5631 Рік тому

      Loved both couples!! But Sarah you kept it so alive and funny love your personality!!! You’re my girl!! Love you!! Your facial expression had me laughing!!!

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 Рік тому +9

    This was EVERYTHING! I laughed, I cried, I NEEDED this! ❤

  • @TLJones-bq7wk
    @TLJones-bq7wk Рік тому +20

    Every minute of this was a blessing

  • @Brittlocdin
    @Brittlocdin Рік тому +2

    The way I just turned around in this chair on my JOB hollering!! 😂😂😂😂 “it don’t be the deacons at our church it be the pastors at the other church’s” oop‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @crystalboyd7455
    @crystalboyd7455 Рік тому +13

    Praying for marriage reconciliation and protection

  • @KeshMenyon
    @KeshMenyon Рік тому +8

    Great conversations! Just love Pastor Keion and Shaunie Henderson & Pastor Toure' and Pastor Sarah Roberts. 🥰🤣👏🏽🙏🏽💕💕

  • @KayRownn
    @KayRownn Рік тому +4

    Keion Henderson has a gift to make the spiritual truth stick in your brain. " The house" concept is gold

  • @aneesahchandler9054
    @aneesahchandler9054 Рік тому +6

    My favorite couple in Christ...love SJR and Toure. This is a great combo. Love Shaunie's union. Pastor Keoin analogy was amazing

  • @cheleh.8085
    @cheleh.8085 Рік тому +33

    This was such an amazing interview peppered with so much humor. Absolutely loved it so much I was disappointed that it ended

  • @VictoriaMeeks-ip8lo
    @VictoriaMeeks-ip8lo Рік тому +2

    I love the FRAME!

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Рік тому +8

    I like that: we DONT want u to mimic them. We want you to take the principle. 💜

  • @TheIkardFabFive
    @TheIkardFabFive 4 місяці тому

    This was Amazing! Truly amazing to see you can be human and spirit laid by God at the same time!

  • @Ladysrb
    @Ladysrb Рік тому +26

    I would like to see PT and Sarah make a series of relationships like they did several years ago. I think people need to see Kingdom Marriage and how it is held together. We need to see newly weds on how God led them to the one, and seasoned couples on how they weathered the storms.

  • @sandrajohnson86
    @sandrajohnson86 Рік тому +8

    Marriage isn’t easy thanks for all of your transparency

  • @rabbittboler7951
    @rabbittboler7951 Рік тому +23

    This was so good and refreshing!! Love both of these couples for their realness!!!

  • @donnafletcher4246
    @donnafletcher4246 2 місяці тому

    I respect Sister Shaunie. I am a single mom of 5 as well be there for the children by my self. You've been there and now has a partner you earn our respect. You're the Proverbs 31 woman. You're an inspiration that punters will draw from. I know where you're coming from.

  • @salenachannel769
    @salenachannel769 Рік тому +17

    This was great, I'm 15 years in and every point is true and we're living it. My husband was God sent and so was I. I'm what he needed and he's everything I needed. The extra was God showing off🎉

  • @Ladyt0117
    @Ladyt0117 Рік тому +3

    I love love love the AUTHENTICITY of Sarah’s and Torre’s relationship 🙌🏾 love love love SJR!❤❤❤😂

  • @ABRun4GOD
    @ABRun4GOD Рік тому +14

    My husband and I truly truly enjoyed the ILS conference. My husband and I continue to learn and continue to grow even after 26 years of marriage, and these platforms are so important today.

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 Рік тому +1

      Amen! The conversation IS important and so necessary 🙏🏽❤️

  • @annhale7595
    @annhale7595 11 місяців тому +1

    This was the best panel of pastors speaking I have ever heard. I love it when pastors are real because we then realize there is hope for us! Good job all of you and Shaunie was able to hang!😂

  • @msaprilj
    @msaprilj Рік тому +28

    "We are too tired thinking about tomorrow that the idea of throwing it in a circle is UNREASONABLE!" This PART!! Say it again! We need space to recoup and refuel to keep things moving!

    • @marcusdavis4227
      @marcusdavis4227 Рік тому +1

      you are responsible for your need to disconnect

    • @msaprilj
      @msaprilj Рік тому +1

      @@marcusdavis4227 I agree! This was a good reminder to be more intentional about it.

    • @EDifyer881
      @EDifyer881 Рік тому +2

      you're right we have to think about the moment not tomorrow because tomorrow is not promised

  • @swanisisetiquette2596
    @swanisisetiquette2596 9 місяців тому

    Yessssssssssssssssssssssss Lord!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ngoc4312
    @ngoc4312 Рік тому +12

    I 'll never get tired of saying, " Thank You God " because He never gets tired of blessing me.Amen🙏🏽💝

  • @ashleyb994
    @ashleyb994 Рік тому +41

    This ended way too soon. I needed another hour. The best panel I've seen

  • @aleshapalmer186
    @aleshapalmer186 Рік тому +13

    Give us more of these chats. I love the realness both of these ladies bring to the table.

  • @blsd0439
    @blsd0439 3 місяці тому

    I have watched this 3 time now and each time I hear something that hits different. This was AWESOME

  • @chayboss123456789
    @chayboss123456789 Рік тому +31

    Man they need a whole tv show this was so amazing and powerful it left me wanting me they gotta do it again ❤

    • @t.c87
      @t.c87 Рік тому +1

      She is not a pastor, do you see any of those in the Bible that are women? Nope.

    • @chayboss123456789
      @chayboss123456789 Рік тому

      @@t.c87 the thing is y’all read to much into religion let these people live they not asking y’all to follow them if you don’t believe in what they saying just because you serve god don’t mean you gotta change who you are.

    • @t.c87
      @t.c87 Рік тому

      @chayboss123456789 if you say you follow the word and preach the truth! Then you gotta do it ,The biblically in order way. Not your own way. We don't get to do that. You gotta take that up with the one who created, not with a messager of truth according to the word if they believe and follow. It's not my word it's His! Period. Getting caught up in your feelings and emotions, and glaamorizing human beings is not a good thing. Be careful

    • @chayboss123456789
      @chayboss123456789 Рік тому

      @@t.c87 the problem with the word is who told you it was truth you going by what someone put on you not what was your own decision but what I’m not gone do is go back in forth because I don’t live by what this world says the word is I said what I said they need a tv show and people like you need to mind your business don’t like it don’t watch it plan and simple peace love and light to you

    • @t.c87
      @t.c87 Рік тому +1

      @chayboss123456789 no one asked you to reply in the first place. I see your fruit. This world and its error only proves the absolute truth. 💯 Your not making sense. Enough said!

  • @Redrose-dc6oy
    @Redrose-dc6oy Рік тому +1

    Mr JD Jakes has really molded these two (Sara/keion) and you can really tell 🙏🏽👍🏽👏🏽

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch Рік тому +12

    Sarah praying about “ratchet TV” while the facilitator of ratchet tv is 2ft away. Lol Lord 🫠

  • @rachelleberard7501
    @rachelleberard7501 Рік тому +14

    I Love this session. They were funny and honest 😅 AUTHENTIC!!! Sometimes we Christians are afraid to speak the truth. Thanks you guys. I wish more of this kind session ❤

  • @Gr8tfulbarb
    @Gr8tfulbarb Рік тому +15

    This was top tier, have to watch it over with my husband.

  • @daisynakandi
    @daisynakandi 3 місяці тому

    Every so often i rewatch this video not just because of the gems dropped but to just LAUGHHHHHHHHHHHH

  • @lovedlove1451
    @lovedlove1451 Рік тому +48

    I laughed so hard and played it back twice

  • @anniehall1919
    @anniehall1919 10 місяців тому +1

    Shane is authentic, and I like what she shared.

  • @Rainrussell0755
    @Rainrussell0755 Рік тому +15

    This should be a great segment every Friday, this is awesome. God show up and show out. This is greatness at its best. Past Sarah and Pastor Tour'e and Pastor Keion. And Lady Shaunie. Keep showing God because you don't have to show anyone else.

  • @leekeyonlee3699
    @leekeyonlee3699 Місяць тому

    I love this talking about marriage and the challenges ❤❤

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Рік тому +6

    Pastor Keion and Pastor Sarah are a trip! Really Like, brother and sister energy!! 💜 It!

  • @blsd0439
    @blsd0439 7 місяців тому +1

    This was AWESOM!! Thank you all for your honesty, humor and transparency.

  • @MelissaMelly1010
    @MelissaMelly1010 Рік тому +3

    This is something I feel awesome to be connected to. I love when the church is a place that feels safe. If we are safe and honest the church is safe and honest.

  • @phetsilesilolo64
    @phetsilesilolo64 25 днів тому

    From South Africa i love this❤❤❤

  • @jameelasealey1856
    @jameelasealey1856 Рік тому +7

    I would love to see Paster Priscilla Shirer and her husband, Mr. Jerry Shirer on the next one of these talk shows.

  • @KinduKinte
    @KinduKinte Рік тому

    The bomb interview 👏🏾🔥🫶🏾

  • @somayinaayerite7643
    @somayinaayerite7643 Рік тому +3

    Sarah and Toure are always pratical and very relatable. God bless you guys for what you do for the kingdom of God.

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss Рік тому +1

    Come on, y'all!!! Yes!! Dropping gems 💎💎