7 Toxic Coworkers You Need to AVOID

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  • Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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    These toxic people at work will destroy your career if you don't know how to spot them, and how to deal with them. In this video, I'm exposing the 7 toxic coworkers, what drives them, and most importantly, what you can do about them.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 49

  • @kimjohnson8471
    @kimjohnson8471 6 днів тому +20

    Most importantly, make sure YOU'RE not the toxic coworker 😮

    • @JenniferBrick
      @JenniferBrick  6 днів тому +2

      1000% this. Janet and Felix in particular make this mistake (they have raging need to be victims).

  • @LadyPrincessDiana
    @LadyPrincessDiana 6 днів тому +8

    The scary thing is that often, Nicks are also Averys and Rachels are also Janets, and they all work together while the normal, sane, healthy people at the company keep their heads down and look away for fear of being dragged into drama or worse, being targeted themselves. It's the unity between toxic people and the silence of the others that often make the people who are targeted fall into despair. No one wants to stand up and take a stance, which is understandable because it's their livelihood that's at stake, but it also ensures that the cycle of toxicity never ends.

  • @chrismazz75
    @chrismazz75 8 днів тому +15

    I have a coworker who wants to be the invisible gatekeeper. Has eyes on the supervisor position, but will not take ownership of anything they say. Tries to control who talks to who and who has what information. Has angry outbursts when faced with their own words. Refuses to admit anyone else might have done something better than they did.

    • @mrsa1453
      @mrsa1453 7 днів тому +1

      @chrismazz75 You just referred to another narc at the workplace....good luck to you and stay safe!

  • @SnowLeopardForever
    @SnowLeopardForever 8 днів тому +14

    I am dealing with a “Rachel” at work, right now! I didn’t realize she was a “Rachel” until she went and told my managers about an event I had talked about to someone else that was completely innocent BUT she twisted it to sound like it was bad. She has since done other bad things like stealing my ideas and using them as her own.
    It’s now apparent she is jealous of me, of who I am as a person. Before I realized this, she had acted like a friend.

    • @JenniferBrick
      @JenniferBrick  8 днів тому

      I'm sorry you're going through this now. The feeling of betrayal is so deep.

  • @chanchanCan3891
    @chanchanCan3891 6 днів тому +2

    "Instead of disliking him, you just need to steal tactics from his playbook." Girl, yes, THAT is the correct mindset 👏 Subscribed!

  • @narutoroxanne22
    @narutoroxanne22 7 днів тому +13

    Umm, these aren't separate people. They're all traits in all toxic people.

  • @JenniferBrick
    @JenniferBrick  8 днів тому +5

    Which toxic coworker are you working with?
    Side note: Workplace toxicity is gender agnostic. While I assigned gender identities and pronouns to almost all of the toxic coworkers (except Avery), the achetypes are genderless; you can work with a male Rachel, a female Nick, etc.

    • @AlyssaTheePatriot
      @AlyssaTheePatriot 8 днів тому

      Plenty of Chads and Janets lol ... I just keep my head up and press forward.😊 And yes, an advocate Works. Highly recommended.

  • @davidellis5141
    @davidellis5141 8 днів тому +3

    Hi Jennifer ! Congratulations & good luck in resuming your marathon training. I'm now semi retired & work only four five hours a day shifts & avoid toxicity & am glad to be done with it ! Have a nice day 🙂.

    • @JenniferBrick
      @JenniferBrick  8 днів тому +1

      I hope you're enjoying semi-retirement!

  • @MISJPEREZ
    @MISJPEREZ 7 днів тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @JenniferBrick
      @JenniferBrick  7 днів тому +1

      Thank you for supporting my channel!

  • @marianapagan7067
    @marianapagan7067 7 днів тому +7

    To be honest, I used to use the "Janets" to get the information from toxic companies that they would attempt to hide from me. 😂😂😂 so I know Janets can be useful if you know how to use them.

  • @abbeyna01
    @abbeyna01 4 дні тому

    There was one type of toxic coworker you didn’t talk about- one who threatens others with violence. Some of them do last for a while and can even commit crimes at work if they get angry enough. At two of my previous jobs I’d heard of people getting murdered. One gentleman killed his wife on his lunch break. Another gentleman shot his manager. Another guy I heard of threatened his boss. He got fired and the company had to install a fence and badge system afterwards

  • @rturney6376
    @rturney6376 6 днів тому +1

    Narcissism in the workplace 😅

  • @lucyatehortua1332
    @lucyatehortua1332 7 днів тому +4

    What about the copycat? I had one woman who was not only constantly touching me in extremely inappropriate way but decided to change her entire wardrobe to copy whatever I choose to wear. Hairstyle and makeup included. She also asked me about what I read and what my hobbies are just to find her a few days later talking to me about the topic of my interest and also told me she joined a class to learn about my hobby!!! The story goes further than that. I confronted her in private and some things changed but others didn't. I ended up leaving the company. It was too much. There was no HR department and when confronted she just said, I don't recall doing that. The only way I was able to stop her was by presenting my resignation. It was awful. 😢

    • @Bookdrogan
      @Bookdrogan 7 днів тому

      Damn sounds like “single white female” syndrome! (Referring to the movie) Sorry you had to go through that but glad you got out. I’d say maybe she was just desperate for your attention or friendship but I think this goes beyond that 😩

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 6 днів тому +1

    All of them! Focus on your work. Who cares about them? Let them do their work. You do yours. Coworkers are not your friends. They are literally your competitors towards promotions. Just have integrity in your work over time. That will best position you. These catty coworkers will shake out soon enough. Your goal is to be the wisest one standing so you gotta stay in the game. Live to fight another day. Or if thos many "toxic" people are surrounding you, please take a medical leave and get checked out. My dad always says: 3 fingers out, 1 giant one back in. My mom clarifies with "we recognize in other people what we don't like about ourselves."
    If you meet a meanie once per day, they might have been having a bad day. If you meet 2 meanies in a day they must really be bad, but if you meet 3 or more meanies or bullies the same day, we gotta take a look at what about us might ne inviting that bad behavior? Right? If you have 7 "toxic" people around you at work it seems like way past time to find a new job.

  • @ashleyterry2715
    @ashleyterry2715 3 дні тому

    This is literally everybody that I work with😮

  • @joshsmith2071
    @joshsmith2071 8 днів тому +4

    Chad gets ahead on the golf course not by working

  • @merrickmcgrath6824
    @merrickmcgrath6824 3 дні тому

    😂 My Chad is named Patrick. He has sexual harassed a few women at my job, and sexual assaulted another one. Two of the girls ended up quitting because our “Store Director” decided to ignore it. Recently, I tried to call attention on it, and was told I was just jealous and threatened by him. He is our Store Director’s favorite employee, and he barely does his job. I’m currently looking for another job now because my store director threatened me, and I didn’t like how she handled me calling attention to what “could” become a future problem because we got 3 new female cashiers. My Janet, is our Store Director 😂 She’s incredibly messy and unprofessional.

  • @robertbaker6950
    @robertbaker6950 4 дні тому

    What about dealing with that group that feels entitled to “get rid of coworkers” they don’t like. You know one might call them the child of the devil the type that like running out or causing coworkers they don’t like to have accidents causing them to lose their job or their life. And yes I’m being serious

  • @sbattle4787
    @sbattle4787 8 днів тому +2

    I hope you show us how to advoid them.

  • @iii___iii
    @iii___iii 8 днів тому

    One of my managers was an Avery too! Actually, he was a combination of all the toxic traits!

  • @AlyssaTheePatriot
    @AlyssaTheePatriot 8 днів тому +2

    Great stuff Jennifer! I enjoy yoyr channel. Here's the list for your viewers: 1. Rachel 2. Chad 3. Nick. 4. Janet 5. Pearl 6. Felix 7. Avery

    • @JenniferBrick
      @JenniferBrick  8 днів тому +1

      UA-cam is supposed to auto-add chapters... hopefully they help folks navigate the video, I know it's a long one.

    • @AlyssaTheePatriot
      @AlyssaTheePatriot 8 днів тому

      @@JenniferBrick it's all good. I helped break it down for your viewers I hope. We must push through another year of work ... Be safe and well.

  • @UnityGameDevMadeEz
    @UnityGameDevMadeEz 6 днів тому +2

    The most dangerous person, a covert narcissist

    • @rturney6376
      @rturney6376 6 днів тому +1

      🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @taurahelms3068
    @taurahelms3068 7 днів тому

    Janets give me a migraine. I'm dealing with a male version of Avery at work who constantly moves the goalpost to mess with me. It's sad to think that people can be that obsessed with you.

  • @purpleowl2075
    @purpleowl2075 6 днів тому

    The Guardian is full of people like this.

  • @sbattle4787
    @sbattle4787 8 днів тому +7

    This should be 1. narcissists 2. Borderline 3. Sociopath 4. and so forth and so on.

  • @fabulouslife4646
    @fabulouslife4646 7 днів тому

    Working with an Avery

  • @daniels4209
    @daniels4209 7 днів тому

    i dont think they understand the notion of working together to complete goals.

  • @CherryBerryFashion
    @CherryBerryFashion 7 днів тому

    But you cannot avoid your co-workers since they are your... co-workers 🙃 I have to partake in work duties almost my entire shift with the toxic co-worker. She’s Rachel by the way. Safe to say I’m quitting that job!

  • @wamengxiong0409
    @wamengxiong0409 5 днів тому

    Nicks are annoying.
    Currently working with one atm, going back to 2nd

  • @emeraldxtouch
    @emeraldxtouch 7 днів тому

    Oh Averys are the worst! I have worked for one in a Content Marketing agency and she is insufferable. Incompetent but has high standards from everyone. Constantly moves goalposts. Sets up incredibly high expectations and unmanageable workload so you look incompetent, instead, by not managing. The projection is projecting. Unfortunately, with this one, it's either you go or they go. And if the company is toxic, Averys get enabled.

  • @DayrusBPB
    @DayrusBPB 7 днів тому

    Post on social media? Companies will snoop on it and use it against u

  • @daniels4209
    @daniels4209 7 днів тому

    dislike will be given

  • @Themilkman95
    @Themilkman95 6 днів тому +3

    When I realise I’m the toxic coworker 🫣