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  • @RichCooperClips
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    • @Phone-cc7iw
      @Phone-cc7iw 7 місяців тому +2

      Rich what’s up with the female teachers messing around with young male students? Please make a video. Been happening a lot lately, Wish I was back in school.

    • @jim-se5xc
      @jim-se5xc 7 місяців тому

      The gals. They get you. I've cried like a little bitch.

  • @skullkid692
    @skullkid692 7 місяців тому +139

    If youve ever been told "he's just a friend." You know.

    • @americandissident9062
      @americandissident9062 7 місяців тому +24

      My wife and I have been married 13 years. When we started dating, I noticed that she still had her ex’s number in her phone and she texted him now and then.
      I told her that she needed to delete his number and never have contact with him again. She said “he’s just a friend now.” I told her “If he’s a friend, then I’m your newest ex-boyfriend. You pick. She deleted his number and block him on social media in less than an hour. I’ve made sure to hold that frame since then.

    • @nickdipaolofan5948
      @nickdipaolofan5948 6 місяців тому +10

      @@americandissident9062 smart move. Now just be sure to periodically check on that shit because a lot of women will just start contacting other men again, but just do it behind your back now.

    • @americandissident9062
      @americandissident9062 6 місяців тому +5

      @@nickdipaolofan5948 I check now and then. She displays zero signs of covering up anything. I know women are great at it but I was an interrogator for the US government so I do have at least SOME skills at detecting deception.

    • @nickdipaolofan5948
      @nickdipaolofan5948 6 місяців тому

      @@americandissident9062 nice!

    • @timorthelame1
      @timorthelame1 6 місяців тому +2

      Best case scenario, her friend is likely just some simp she's leading on or someone she's keeping in reserve as back up. Ultimately that's just another form of cheating though. If she has a cell phone or any type of social media, it's a real safe bet she's cheating in one form or another, or she just hasn't gotten around to it yet. If you want loyalty, get a dog otherwise you are chasing unicorns and waterfalls.

  • @marksandoval5361
    @marksandoval5361 7 місяців тому +360

    I've heard of women getting in a fight with her boyfriend and breaking up. Then, getting with another guy that night. And then, making up with her boyfriend the next day. That way she could say she wasn't cheating because they were technically broken up.

    • @itadakihokkaido4305
      @itadakihokkaido4305 7 місяців тому

      Disgusting behavior!!!

    • @jonathanLToronto
      @jonathanLToronto 7 місяців тому +36

      Nasty

    • @Seeeee816
      @Seeeee816 7 місяців тому +57

      Yup. Happens more than guys know.

    • @mrsherwood2599
      @mrsherwood2599 7 місяців тому +3

      Oh hell I've done that.

    • @improvisedsurvival5967
      @improvisedsurvival5967 7 місяців тому

      She’s not yours it’s just your turn. Hookup is way to go for men stop investing into these worthless women

  • @vazybelek
    @vazybelek 7 місяців тому +95

    In 1944-1945, not only in the Netherlands, but also in Belgium and France, as soon as the Allied Forces liberated a village, all women who went intimate with the occupiers were caught to be shaved in public, shamed and spitted on. However, males suspected to be collaborating with the enemy were rarely kept alive. Even on dark times when public anger is at the highest, women benefit of their privileges (kept alive, whatever the level of their betrayal).

    • @Pyrrhic537
      @Pyrrhic537 7 місяців тому +1

      What happened to them? Did they live normally after that or were they ostracised? I imagine alot immigrated.

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 7 місяців тому

      @@Pyrrhic537post ww2 germans had a reputation 👹 unlike ww1

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 7 місяців тому +1

      Female SS concentration camp guards got the short drop ok

    • @ap530ii
      @ap530ii 5 місяців тому +4

      Totally false. German soldiers were upheld to high standards and it was against rules to ra.pe. There was a severe penalty if they did so. The Russian soldiers were ra.ping the german women

  • @dalewikfors9194
    @dalewikfors9194 7 місяців тому +50

    Partner, you nailed it. Been there, done all that. Men, I'm 58, got all this info about 15 years ago. Been single since. Save your selves save you money and save your sanity. I sleep so well now. Carry on soldiers.

  • @lightfragmentsauracle
    @lightfragmentsauracle 2 місяці тому +6

    This is so sad. A similar thing happened to my husband's first marriage and it destroyed him financially and mentally. The part that nearly drove him over the edge was that he had a 9 month old son. I would love for him to tell his story on here. That experience forever changed him. He's a really soft guy inside his heart but the fact that he felt he couldn't ever trust a woman again destroyed that part of him. It took him years to trust me. That part was hard, I'm not going to lie. How do you gain trust? You remain loyal and you keep showing that person that you love that YOU are trust -WORTHY!

  • @ottomusprime5028
    @ottomusprime5028 7 місяців тому +109

    Knowing this sort of dark info makes it easier as a man to cheat/monkey branch. I lost my innocence in many ways surrounding women.

    • @Eric-kn4yn
      @Eric-kn4yn 7 місяців тому +16

      Guys cant monkey branch get real

    • @ErnestoAguila-mk5oi
      @ErnestoAguila-mk5oi 7 місяців тому +3

      I think he meant woman. And also know, that's why background matters

    • @teenindustry
      @teenindustry 7 місяців тому +7

      So wait you don’t like being treated this way so you now do the same thing? That makes no sense. Just date decent human beings and stop investing in the advice of a guy who is a walking divorced dad cliché with a hired car and a crypto currency grift

    • @FFTsteel
      @FFTsteel 7 місяців тому +5

      And have no regrets. Treat them how they treat you.

    • @dagmastr12
      @dagmastr12 7 місяців тому +3

      My advice is learn Bulgarian or Russian language... Then you can literally go on vacation and meet women who are not fat and without tattoos.... Family ties are strong... Different than Americans. IMHO. The language was pretty simple

  • @rajsel8761
    @rajsel8761 7 місяців тому +81

    Even on a recent podcast thsi year, Rich did one where there was a UKRAINIAN psychologist who works with the Ukraine military men. He talked about how 70% of his Ukriane soliders he says, all had this one common element; (THIER WIVES LEFT THEM! THEY WANTED DIVORCE) 😢 For men they met in other European countries they fled to. Poland, Sweden, UK, France, Germany, USA etc ....
    ***EVEN on a Fresh & Fit podcast; there was a female in tight black dress; she revealed that she was frim Ukraine. Snd her husband was back in Ukraine jn the war! Than one of the guy who was in the.podcast, jumped out and called her out on it!
    He stated, "your in Maimi, partying, Dressed like a skank, on a podcast for singles about relationships; while your husband is getting his head blown off" 😮😮😮!
    HER HUSBAND!!!!!!.not biyfriend but HUSBAND! 🤯🤯🤯🤯
    She just smiled & laughed it off.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 7 місяців тому +10

      I remember that -- there were two other Ukrainian girls on there as well doing something similar, and it really bothered Myron to the point where he called them out and went on a rant against them, talking about what their men were sacrficing for women like that to be in America, partying, and living it up. He unloaded so many truth bombs that the girls got offended and left.

    • @Seeeee816
      @Seeeee816 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Billy-bc8pk which episode was this??

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 7 місяців тому

      @@Seeeee816 Can't remember, but you can try searching up "F&F frank castle ukranian girls" or something to that effect.

    • @CarlosGaviriaM
      @CarlosGaviriaM 7 місяців тому

      Following

    • @MomentswithDavid
      @MomentswithDavid 7 місяців тому +3

      Zherka is a real one

  • @oosik411
    @oosik411 7 місяців тому +41

    The blaming you for cheating while cheating is one I wish I learned earlier. I will teach my son about it though. Always watch the actions first.

    • @macc1370
      @macc1370 7 місяців тому +1

      “Projection”

  • @cwally1994
    @cwally1994 4 місяці тому +8

    Caught one ex texting her side piece, had him in her phone listed as her son. Another ex had a "gay" friend she worked with. It ended up being a coworker she was banging on work trips. Stay safe brothers. Be smart.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 6 місяців тому +9

    My then wife started accusing me and ramped it up as time went on. One time it was in front of friends ( the women knew and probably the guys knew ) and all I said was, " Who have you been f**king? " She shut up immediately. She wanted me to cheat so she wouldn't feel guilty.

  • @drip369
    @drip369 7 місяців тому +46

    If you start getting accused out of nowhere, that is a sign of an abusive partner. It is a simple tactic because if you accuse somebody of something they are far less likely to accuse you of anything in return because they are spending all of their time defending themselves. Sometimes this is referred to as sleight of hand

  • @wordsintowins
    @wordsintowins 7 місяців тому +94

    This exact scenario happened to me. I was living with my ex. She eventually starts doing things way out of character. Eventually she tells me she has a new “male friend”. I was mentally checked out and didn’t care. Eventually we break up and reveals to me that she’s “dating” that alleged “male friend”. Literally a few days after we ended it. Meanwhile during this entire thing, she accused me of flying to Texas to cheat on her.

    • @ianp6742
      @ianp6742 7 місяців тому +11

      This story repeats itself over and over and over

    • @ChrisPTY507
      @ChrisPTY507 7 місяців тому +17

      Typical case of projection. She was projecting her cheating on you.

    • @yellowquantum4240
      @yellowquantum4240 7 місяців тому

      It is like throwing a rubber ball it bounces back to bite us guys in the ass. Being with a woman should be like having a fine meal, eat,enjoy pay and leave the restaurant.

    • @mrsherwood2599
      @mrsherwood2599 7 місяців тому +4

      Dude I'm as red pill as the next guy but..."I was mentally checked out" is kind of a giveaway.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 7 місяців тому +2

      So what were you doing in Texas?

  • @tangobear3536
    @tangobear3536 7 місяців тому +43

    That is a perfect example of what psychologists call, "Projection." She accused him of the thing she was doing. In an unfortunate way, she did him a huge favor, revealing her psychosis prior to marriage. It would've popped up later.

    • @kingtrance307
      @kingtrance307 7 місяців тому +3

      Yeah that sounds like Adolf Trump the orange king of projection. What did Joseph Goebbels say? “Accuse the other side of that which you are guilty of!”

    • @buckjones4901
      @buckjones4901 6 місяців тому

      @@kingtrance307 Oh look we got an avid watcher of CNN and MSNBC here. Yes projection accusing your enemy of what you are doing is a Marxist tactic employed by the far Left all the time.

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 4 місяці тому

      @@kingtrance307are you on crack my guy? You got some stuff to talk about with a professional, coming here talking about politics out of nowhere. Ur stuck at a conversation with someone else as it seems. Move tf on u degen.

  • @Junoj101
    @Junoj101 7 місяців тому +30

    as for breakups women appear to move on even faster, because they emotionally checkout many months or years ahead. by the time the breakup is taking place for her is just the detail of dividing the assets.
    about 3 years ago my friends wife started to loose weight out of no reason. they have been together for 15 years and she was always overweight. I told my friend he better get in shape too because she is probably about to monkey branch. he did not take any of it seriously until she got into her best fit shape and asked for divorce. a month after the divorce I saw her with another dude like the 15 years with my friend never took place. my friend is just now starting to put himself together.

    • @olhcolhc4066
      @olhcolhc4066 7 місяців тому +3

      She probably will go back to her old truck form again, and karma will catch up

    • @-JJ--
      @-JJ-- 5 місяців тому +2

      Swear I heard about this never thought this true but damn. Since she moved with a guy just after a month means she was talking to other men while she was with your friend

    • @Junoj101
      @Junoj101 5 місяців тому +2

      @@-JJ-- That is correct. Women hide all their potential candidates under the "friend" title. And when she is back on the market and not able to secure a man of her dreams she WILL dip into her "friend" backup reserve stash.
      And the only time she will come back knowing on the door is when she is not able to secure a commitment from the market of men that she wants. Usually after getting a train ride and realizing that nothing better is out there.

    • @-JJ--
      @-JJ-- 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Junoj101 I think we should get our money up and self improve and not get "too comfortable". Women today aren't like our Moms and Grandma's . I'm in college I've been with a girl who I thought was single. She started acting different for no reason till I found out she had a man I saw her face timing him as I was walking by. She never deleted me tho she kept me as backup. They are savages I swear. It's better to get a girl from different Continent.

    • @Junoj101
      @Junoj101 5 місяців тому +2

      @@-JJ-- sure, different continent will give you a small improvement of a woman (culture, goals in life), but at the end they are programmed all the same (get the best man they can).
      the best thing a man can do is to focus on himself. a woman who thinks that HE is her best option will give up all her options, in your case - you where simply not her best option.

  • @zdendaderman5253
    @zdendaderman5253 7 місяців тому +34

    3 years, it took me to get over break up. The first one was the worst. But now I'm much better off. And things are looking good. I got rid of the mortgage, bought a house for cash, and changed the job so I don't work too many hours and probably will make money selling and buying houses. Love this channel. It's so realistic ❤

    • @Yzerdenu9432
      @Yzerdenu9432 7 місяців тому +3

      I'm with u bro. It's going on 3 years since I broke up with my ex and it's been hard af to get back into the spirit of wanting to be serious with someone. Idk it just don't hit the same no more once that certain 1 break u. But on the other hand after leaving her i went from $40k to $100k+ a year, mastered my craft, bought my 1st real estate property, traveling seeing new places, and can now focus 100% on me

    • @zdendaderman5253
      @zdendaderman5253 7 місяців тому

      @@Yzerdenu9432 ,good for you, my friend. 👍

  • @AZBADBOYz
    @AZBADBOYz 7 місяців тому +23

    This is called "projection" if anyone is wanting to know. Projection is a defense mechanism in which we unconsciously attribute our own thoughts, feelings, and motivations to others. This can be a way of protecting ourselves from uncomfortable or unacceptable aspects of ourselves.

  • @Stukkeman
    @Stukkeman 7 місяців тому +19

    A narcissists accusations are almost always admissions.

  • @Wub-is8dp
    @Wub-is8dp 7 місяців тому +22

    Recently started seeing somebody very often. Having her stay at my place, staying at her place out of town, and going on day trips. She started pushing me away and I began to question the entire thing. In the end I discovered she had a boyfriend. She was cheating on her boyfriend with me primarily but also with other men (at least two other men). I was in shambles and lost my mind trying to find closure through it all. Through the very end of our bond she had gaslit me in an attempt to cover her tracks. She tried to make me believe I was crazy and that it was all in my head, but I was able to locate her boyfriend, and he told me word for word " it doesn't justify her actions , but she's been going through a lot." While I am grateful for the confirmation I do feel bad for this guy for putting up with this woman's bullshit and deciding to stay with her

    • @YouDontKnowMebro69
      @YouDontKnowMebro69 7 місяців тому +7

      Her bf is a simp and she will always cheat on him bc she doesn’t respect him. You dodged a bullet brother, count your blessings

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep 6 місяців тому +4

      Omg, they always have a “story” to cover up their abusive behaviors. “Oh, I went through so much” while slapping the shit out of you

    • @Wub-is8dp
      @Wub-is8dp 6 місяців тому

      @@homiesenatep I couldn't have said it any better 👌

  • @dwocelot6913
    @dwocelot6913 7 місяців тому +25

    Top sign your woman is cheating on you? She's a woman

  • @rudeawakening3833
    @rudeawakening3833 6 місяців тому +6

    Thanks Rich .
    I’m 63 , was married 33 years , in 2011 I was 51 and lost 2 years of my life in counseling .
    Way better now , praise God .
    She is in a trailer house and in a meth lab neighborhood .
    I had her in brand new homes , new cars while I drove pieces of crap from the 1960’s and 1970’s with no A/C in the south . Some had no heat as well .
    She monkey- branched and financially cleaned me out .
    Thanks for including yourself and keeping it real .
    God Bless

  • @bumpercoach
    @bumpercoach 7 місяців тому +22

    Two ways?
    Having sex outside
    marriage AND not
    having sex inside
    marriage

  • @josephj6521
    @josephj6521 7 місяців тому +15

    I dated a girl and she’d always talk about this other dude we both knew. I wasn’t too concerned as I was wanting to end the relationship. When we broke up, after about 9 months, I see she’s dating that same dude.
    I laughed! Why? I knew they’d start dating after we broke up (who knows if she was whilst we were dating, don’t care). Anyway, it’s funny but it’s amazing how us men do know what’s going on. It’s about admitting it and accepting that some women are just trouble.
    Great video.

    • @garymartin1956
      @garymartin1956 6 місяців тому +3

      It took me awhile to smarten up, but I finally figured out women will destroy yr budget

    • @OldSchoolStrength
      @OldSchoolStrength 5 місяців тому +1

      very similar story to mine.. My ex would constantly talk about this guy at her new job who she apparently Hated.. I broke up with her because i couldn't stand her being around me and i even hated having Cex with her towards the end... 1 week after i got rid of her and she is dating this guy she hated so much from work... Made me laugh.. Her Nickname was Kimma the Rimmer.... Can you guess why 🤣😂

    • @dciccantelli
      @dciccantelli 4 місяці тому +3

      @oolStrength That's another red flag right ? If she talks about someone she supposedly "hates", it means she's transitioning away from you & letting him into her life. If she truly hated a dude & wanted nothing to do with him, he wouldn't even be on her radar.

  • @robertkulb6640
    @robertkulb6640 7 місяців тому +2

    Lothar of the hill people! Lol Great SNL reference, Rich!

  • @lomotil3370
    @lomotil3370 7 місяців тому +45

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🚨 *Gaslighting in relationships is discussed, emphasizing the impact of false accusations and the need to question such situations.*
    01:50 🤔 *The story narrates a man's experience of being falsely accused of cheating by his girlfriend, who later cheated on him. The importance of evidence and staying vigilant is highlighted.*
    04:08 💔 *Betrayal is explored, focusing on a woman forming emotional bonds with another man while in a relationship and attempting to reconcile afterward.*
    05:02 🐍 *The concept of "War Brides" is introduced, drawing historical parallels to women adapting quickly to new relationships in times of conflict or change.*
    09:25 😢 *Men's struggle with breakups is discussed, emphasizing the unique emotional challenges men face and the societal differences in understanding their pain.*
    Made with HARPA AI

    • @OS-yg9fr
      @OS-yg9fr 7 місяців тому +1

      thanks. i love secks.

  • @timothygrisack486
    @timothygrisack486 7 місяців тому +1

    Well said! The suffering men go through has rarely been exposed from a clinical level !

  • @VisitaInteriora
    @VisitaInteriora 7 місяців тому +17

    Thanks Rich for the history lesson. That's exactely why women also in our cultrure were regarded as a ressource, hence property, hence little to no legal standing. This also explains why men as a large group need to be weakend permenantely, when you want to control the entire civilization and it's ressources, Men are the ones, that when they come together and organize, they can simply acquire and distribute among themselves, whatever the heck they want (Ressources).Women for sure can't. This is how armies developed, as for protection when other men from other tribes came along and claimed land and ressources for themselves.

  • @yassintanger7146
    @yassintanger7146 7 місяців тому +1

    Good episode full of knowledge thank you Rich cooper you are rich of giving us advices and inf.

  • @jasondesselles9168
    @jasondesselles9168 7 місяців тому +7

    Women get over it faster because they're constantly approached, especially if they're decent looking.

  • @luckyjayakody
    @luckyjayakody 7 місяців тому +25

    Quoting one of Rich's famous quotes, "She is not yours, it's just your turn". Men can live with so much peace of mind if we could fathom this absolute reality.

    • @nephastgweiz1022
      @nephastgweiz1022 7 місяців тому +6

      It's not Rich's quote though, it's been around in the red pill community waaaaaaay before Rich appeared on the internet

    • @ivanr4300
      @ivanr4300 7 місяців тому

      Really?
      I never heard it before

    • @ivanr4300
      @ivanr4300 7 місяців тому

      Really?
      I never heard it before

    • @ivanr4300
      @ivanr4300 7 місяців тому

      Really?
      I never heard it before

    • @ivanr4300
      @ivanr4300 7 місяців тому

      Really?
      I never heard it before

  • @XRP-Mill
    @XRP-Mill 7 місяців тому +1

    Facts brother!! i learned this hard way with that damn one itius😂 God bless you and what your doing

  • @samuelcoutts2648
    @samuelcoutts2648 7 місяців тому +20

    Plus it is soooooo easy for women to move on, because they have so many options waiting for them in all the dating apps

    • @RossBayCult
      @RossBayCult Місяць тому

      When they’re young and without kids. Once they hit 35 the wall is undefeated

  • @Gematria142
    @Gematria142 7 місяців тому +3

    Cheers for this video. My gut was always right. Glad I walked away four months ago. Life has got better since.

  • @TexasLonghornRanch
    @TexasLonghornRanch 7 місяців тому +7

    I’m glad you cleaned up the second addition book. I want my teenage boys to read this book and us discuss it, but the language in the first version was just too harsh. Bravo.

    • @josephj6521
      @josephj6521 7 місяців тому

      I’d love to get the first addition! Agree a cleaner version is a good idea.

  • @hustler-6922
    @hustler-6922 7 місяців тому +1

    Noooooo not the dancing bear 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jaisway
    @jaisway 7 місяців тому +8

    Im not getting married again because married women always hitting me up for their "needs"! All i need to know seeing it first hand.

  • @CaneFu
    @CaneFu Місяць тому +1

    Yeah, I'm going through a break-up right now after 23 year with the same woman...it is brutal. It seems like the world has come to a complete stop.

  • @goatsintrees7468
    @goatsintrees7468 7 місяців тому

    Really valuable experience and info. Thank you.

  • @joestewart3117
    @joestewart3117 5 місяців тому +1

    Spot on Rich!

  • @robinq9240
    @robinq9240 7 місяців тому +10

    There is no difference between cheating and betrayal. Both are characteristics of disloyalty that should not be tolerated by either sex. Minimizing such a huge character defect is not to be accepted. It's a lack of willpower, which is a lack of discipline. Your thoughts?

    • @Maynardd
      @Maynardd 7 місяців тому +2

      Thoughts? You’re absolutely right.

  • @michaelleventhal3974
    @michaelleventhal3974 7 місяців тому

    Enjoyed that clip

  • @yellowquantum4240
    @yellowquantum4240 7 місяців тому +13

    Great to know that I was not alone...The love of my of 15 yrs betrayed, cheated I was hit hard. It takes time to HEAL , takes time to he REAL. Takes a lot of time to SEE and move on!!
    Great video my brother!!!!

  • @ephraimwinslow
    @ephraimwinslow 7 місяців тому +26

    Y'know how women explain that they wanna have money/careers 'cuz they're scared their guy will arbitrarily discard them for something better?
    That's cuz they know THEY are mercenary enough to monkey branch whenever they think there might be a better offer in reach. So they assume guys must be the same way.
    "If I get a hard enough tingle, I'm going for it. QED? He must be the same way, so I need a fallback."
    (The idea of actually feeling an obligation to keep to a commitment is genuinely foreign to them. Which is why genuinely good guys get their hearts rent in two so often.)

    • @Killersushiofficial
      @Killersushiofficial 7 місяців тому +2

      You are essentially talking about the behaviours of men!💀
      See…women followed the leaders…they learned from the best betrayers huh?!?💋

    • @ephraimwinslow
      @ephraimwinslow 7 місяців тому

      @@Killersushiofficial
      No one will take you seriously until you stop emoji spamming like an ADHD tween. Because people who talk like children have the mindset of children. The words (or in this case pixelated cartoons) you use telegraph your mental architecture whether you like it or not.
      For instance? That canned response you just gave?
      'That's men!!'
      Yeah, that's literally the same response that every 5 year old uses when scolded or made fun of.
      'NO U!'
      You are a child attempting to affect maturity. And it's painfully obvious. Stop boring me with your paint by numbers nonsense. Or don't. Either way, this is the last time I'm humoring you with a response. So savor my attention & energy while you've got it, 'cuz it's about to go away forever.
      (A pattern that will become *hauntingly* prevalent in your life the older you get. Not that you'll learn from it.)

  • @orion9k
    @orion9k 7 місяців тому +16

    I had 4 gf who cheated, the last one I caught early on because I smell cheaters so fast now and I honestly don't believe there are faithful girls out there unless she really into God and has mature character and takes on responsibilities. I also had lots of ONS offers when going downtown, most of them were moms with husbond and kids, it's disgusting. I rather die alone and use corn then have to deal with another cheater and I don't even think I can ever trust women again enough to invest my life into her.

    • @AndiGomez-yu2dx
      @AndiGomez-yu2dx 7 місяців тому

      could you please explain some of the signs to look out for if possible? I think this would really help some guys who have not had much experience with women.

    • @LRS11B
      @LRS11B 7 місяців тому +3

      Signs to look for:
      1:Guarding her cell phone as if it contained secrets.
      2: going outside to text.
      3: She becomes independent and doesn't want you to tag along while runs errands. You become comfortable with this, then she plans her coffee dates with her new Alpha.
      4: She suddenly goes AWOL. When she returns, she will treat her husband like garbage.
      5: She won't return to her normal self with you.
      6: She won't feel safe with you.
      7: She will go AWOL again and again and again. Then you get the conversation, with indirect verbage.
      She will say these clues - "We should talk", a while she's doing something; like folding laundry. This allows her to put her back to you, so she doesn't have to face you.
      She will then say, "I'm bored" and, "I'm unhappy", followed up with, "Marriage isn't what I expected." Then she'll go silent. This is how you'll know.
      This happened to me after 24 years of faithful marriage.

    • @LRS11B
      @LRS11B 7 місяців тому

      If she meets her Alpha, it will be her who initiates contact and escalates quickly with him. She will enter his orbit and his Frame immediately. She will reward that guy inside a two month time frame.

    • @Leonhart_93
      @Leonhart_93 6 місяців тому

      @@LRS11B All of these sound very obvious, if someone is ignoring those then they must be crazy. I bet there are more hidden signs even before it starts.

  • @MrJujitsu62
    @MrJujitsu62 7 місяців тому +13

    You are absolutely correct. A former partner accused me of screwing around and it was false . The first thing I thought was; “ you are cheating or thinking of doing that “. The relationship ended not long after that. There is no cure for stupid and the same goes for crazy. Fun for the door.

  • @stingingjwc
    @stingingjwc 7 місяців тому +1

    Rich, I do believe I heard you talking about working on a second book, when do you believe it may be available? I read the first one completely in 2 days.

  • @teddychalgren
    @teddychalgren 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the harsh truths, Rich. As always, great video.

  • @Mr.Singhhh
    @Mr.Singhhh 7 місяців тому +14

    My gf travels every other month with her friends and shared a fw stories how she met some dudes when she travelled solo. I have access to her insta aswell but something doesn't feel right about this relationship and even tho she tells me that she loves me and does everything I say but still I am not able to trust her. I have a strong feeling that she is going to get out of this relationship soon. I am so confused about what to do. Recently the worst mistake I made is I was too available and

    • @pankarlee5699
      @pankarlee5699 7 місяців тому +4

      Always trust your gut.

    • @johnn.marshall4566
      @johnn.marshall4566 7 місяців тому +5

      BREAK. UP. WITH. HER. 👍

    • @Mr.Singhhh
      @Mr.Singhhh 7 місяців тому

      Yesterday I dumped her. Yeah we had great connection but she was picking up fights for no reason and came home after midnight and then I told her about my boundaries she kinda refused to accept them and then I told her I am not gonna accept that behaviour, we had fun,but I am out of this relationship and I wish you the best. Today she called a few times but I know if I give her any chance now she gonna do the same shit again and again. SO I didn't answer@@johnn.marshall4566

    • @joecuster6926
      @joecuster6926 7 місяців тому +1

      Trust your gut!!!!!!! That intuition is correct. Please don’t ruin yourself by denying your intuition because you can kill it..

    • @RedEyeification
      @RedEyeification 7 місяців тому +1

      She's " travelling" too much..

  • @undertheblue2006
    @undertheblue2006 7 місяців тому +3

    Interesting commentary about war brides Rich. I think there’s a large amount of truth about this, but they can’t get over alphas. The concept of the alpha widow is real and examples are everywhere

  • @1notgilty
    @1notgilty 6 місяців тому +1

    Rich is 100 percent spot on. Been there. Done that. What I learned is to never give up your self-respect. It's awful and painful to lose your woman's love, but it's far, far worse to lose her respect. Don't do it.

  • @YouDontKnowMebro69
    @YouDontKnowMebro69 7 місяців тому +3

    My girl accused me of cheating for months at the end and after we broke up she was dating a new dude 4 days later. Yeah he had been around awhile

  • @sod172
    @sod172 7 місяців тому +4

    There is a German proverb: "Was ich denk' und tu', das trau' ich anderen zu." Roughly: "What I think or do, I believe others are capable of."
    In psychology this is called projection. Someone projects his or her negativ trait on a other person in order to be able to fight against it and spare the effort of taking a honest look at oneself which would make it necessary to fight against oneself.
    And yes women do this a lot. It's almost a precursor of what she is pondering about or even already practising like told in the story.
    You will find this behavior also in men like business partners, friends, team mates at sport ... You name it. We as heterosexuell men just don't have any romantic relationship experience with men. That's why we're so much inclined to see them in women only.

  • @alpat4266
    @alpat4266 6 місяців тому +1

    I've learned through bitter experience that one thing you can never expect is loyalty. It just doesn't exist.

  • @swright4000
    @swright4000 3 місяці тому

    Great take! Cheating and betrayal are two different things.

  • @cuts240
    @cuts240 2 місяці тому

    You are correct . Simliar circumstances have arisen in my life A multiple times

  • @elbmensch
    @elbmensch 7 місяців тому

    A good one! You are right. I could tell ya guys stories, oh man....

  • @gregoryhunter6002
    @gregoryhunter6002 Місяць тому

    Being married to a narcissist, I began the study of narcissism about 2.5 years ago. About 6 months ago, I was growing tired of the negativity involved in studying narcissism and with continued problems with the 12 year wife, I switched topics to studying modern women. It took me about a week and I realized the two studies are the same. Talk about super red-pilled. I can barely stand being around any modern women except for a few moments polite conversation. I wish I had learned about this in school. Our lives as men would be much more satisfying without any real relationship beyond sex.

  • @hawlikd
    @hawlikd 5 місяців тому +1

    I remember one of my ex girlfriends accusing me of cheating, which I was not. I simply told her it costs alot a money to date and I didn't want to spend the money to do so. Well, she had no comeback and the relationship so fell apart.

  • @kissgeg
    @kissgeg 6 місяців тому +3

    Great example is "The Last Samurai" movie where Taka got together with Nathan Algren who actually killed her husband, but in this case Nathan was just a captive who switched side to the rebels. When I saw this movie first, my first expression was "Wow, this Japanese woman so elegant and kind etc", but after my divorce with a Taiwanese woman I started questioning everything, saw everything clearly in another way. It was an eye-opener moment, let's say a typical red pill moment.

  • @roscoefields-li9cs
    @roscoefields-li9cs 7 місяців тому +5

    Damn good video Rich...your laying it down the way an average woman operates in todays relationships. These women have no moral boudaries what so ever. Every man needs to read your book " Unplugged Alpha," for myself i could relate to everthing in this book. The brutal facts are in every page. Chances are this woman that you think is sugar & spice & everything nice would lead you into a slaughter house & would not think twice about it if it would benefit her.

    • @Shigami-lb6oc
      @Shigami-lb6oc 7 місяців тому +1

      Today's??? Nahhh it's been like that since Eve....wonder how she sin??
      Talking to the only thing other than God and her Husband...think about it

  • @user-kx1lz8xz1m
    @user-kx1lz8xz1m 7 місяців тому

    Bruh rant towards the end is so funny but true

  • @anthonycarbonaro7890
    @anthonycarbonaro7890 6 місяців тому

    Totally agree!!

  • @johnatkinson8946
    @johnatkinson8946 3 місяці тому +1

    Really great video - important insights. This ability to re-bond with a new man is a survival instinct honed over millennia. Men should understand that for whatever business or profession they may be engaged in, women have but one business (path to lifestyle improvement), and that's MEN. However, understanding that "it's not personal, just business" is easier said than done because men fall harder, and recover slower. It happened to me in 2007-8. Took years for the grief and anger to ebb. The best antidotes to such poison are personal success and better women. Nowadays I'm happy with an amazing girlfriend, but still push a pin into the voodoo doll every now and then.

  • @c.q.mcwilliams282
    @c.q.mcwilliams282 6 місяців тому +1

    Always keep your frame. Always keep your self respect. Always keep your adventure. Every day. No distractions. Move on...

  • @manofthehour9938
    @manofthehour9938 7 місяців тому

    The Dutch war bride head shaving is depicted in a scene in HBO’s Band of Brothers.

  • @afonsogarcia9997
    @afonsogarcia9997 7 місяців тому +4

    Rich - understood on the cheating/betrayal dynamic you discussed in this clip. This is mostly a black & white issue, in my opinion. Can you tackle a relatively, in comparison, grey area? That is, when a woman gives off major arousal cues toward a 'Chad' despite her being in a 'committed relationship' with a BF/husband. Dilated eyes, pelvic squeeze, etc. It's not the same type of cheating and betrayal as you have been discussing. Nevertheless, how does one define and judge this instinctual, display of genuine desire behavior ? And what would be the equivalent for men ?

    • @twotonrhinottr2877
      @twotonrhinottr2877 6 місяців тому

      Pelvic squeezes? This sounds like new intel. Mind elaborating?

    • @afonsogarcia9997
      @afonsogarcia9997 6 місяців тому

      @@twotonrhinottr2877 arousal body language. challenging to describe. imagine taking your knees and squeezing them together/crossing them tightly thereby closing your pelvis area. Get it ?

  • @CAROLUSPRIMA
    @CAROLUSPRIMA 2 місяці тому

    I got one of those “just say the word and I won’t get married” calls. All I could think was “poor guy she’s marrying.”

  • @MORCOPOLO0817
    @MORCOPOLO0817 6 місяців тому +2

    The other thing a woman will do is cheat on you until while seeing another guy who hasn't commited to her yet. She doesn't want to burn her bridges until she knows that the new guy has commited to her.

  • @maxsoloman4548
    @maxsoloman4548 7 місяців тому

    Can I still get the first edition of your book Rich ?

  • @Montoya1991
    @Montoya1991 7 місяців тому +3

    Now that I think of it. My ex would say she didn't like doggy style bc I supposedly did it to think of other women. We broke up late November last year. She bread crumbed me up until May this year to keep me at arms length. 3 weeks ago I found out she was married for idk how long. That blew my fkn mind, I never expected that. I DM her on Instagram asking if she actually got married and she blocked me immediately. Still hard to believe wtf was that about

  • @michaelbooth90
    @michaelbooth90 7 місяців тому

    I prefer the harsh cold truth. The pain makes you learn. There is a buddest saying " a lesson is only as painful as it needs to be" .

  • @DJPapzin
    @DJPapzin 7 місяців тому +1

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🚨 *Gaslighting and Accusations in Relationships*
    - Discussion about gaslighting in relationships and a cautionary story shared by a viewer.
    - Viewer recounts a relationship where he was falsely accused of cheating, leading to a breakup.
    - Emphasis on the importance of questioning accusations and the potential consequences of false allegations.
    04:21 🤔 *Understanding Women's Behavior Post-Breakup*
    - Explains the concept of War Brides throughout history and its relevance to post-breakup behavior.
    - Highlights women's ability to move on quickly after a breakup, drawing historical parallels.
    - Addresses the differences in how men and women experience and cope with breakups.
    09:12 🔄 *Women Moving On Faster After Betrayal*
    - Discusses the viewer's story of a woman quickly moving on to another man after a breakup.
    - Analyzes the woman's behavior of trying to reconcile after betraying the viewer.
    - Emphasizes the adaptability of women to move on and form new bonds, contrasting it with men's struggles.
    11:18 🤝 *Empathy and Understanding in Breakup Experiences*
    - Acknowledges the emotional pain and suffering both men and women go through in breakups.
    - Recognizes the societal conditioning that influences individuals' reactions to relationship challenges.
    - Encourages empathy and understanding for the different experiences men and women face during breakups.
    Made with HARPA AI

  • @apontutul
    @apontutul 7 місяців тому +3

    What's surprising is we men don't seem to learn and give in to the tantrums and drama of women terming it love. It's not. It's just being blind and naive

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh 7 місяців тому +3

    Her friend liked you but didn't confide in you about your gf cheating on you.
    She's as dangerous as the gf.

  • @michaeljonas7604
    @michaeljonas7604 6 місяців тому

    My ex was constantly accusing me of gaslighting, which i always just brushed because at the time i really didn't know what it Meant. After the fact i realized she was projectingon to me what she doing.She eventually Monkey Branched into another relationship,she has hoovered around a few times,but i really dont want anything to do with her.Getting rid of the resentment and anger is the hardest part

  • @johnn.marshall4566
    @johnn.marshall4566 7 місяців тому +2

    I think this is the first of Rich’s videos where I’ve heard him raise his voice out of frustration. These stories are wild 😩

    • @Jakobslander
      @Jakobslander 7 місяців тому +1

      @johnn.marshall4566 Because they are. The level of psychopathy, passive-aggressiveness and the lack of empathy of the modern Western World female is a societal issue. SOMEONE has to bring this up and tackle the problem head on, otherwise our societies are going to die. DOOMED. There is no benefit to letting women run amok and do as they please without any repercussion. In some circles it's even encouraged. We're going down a very dark hole, and worst of all, I see no one with the guts to discuss the issue in the public forum. Everyone out there is blue pilled to exhaustion or pussified beyond repair.

    • @Killersushiofficial
      @Killersushiofficial 7 місяців тому +1

      He’s a very hurt and angry man…hence, his content revolves around hating/shaming women.
      *women whom btw have followed in men’s footsteps and are behaving just like Men.
      Great work Men…y’all are awesome leaders!
      He has never once said that Men should treat women well, in order as to lead effectively and be respected.
      The vicious cycle of men feeling disrespected by women, will never stop/end, if he doesn’t 1st teach Men to step up and earn respect by being respectful to women 1st, instead of talking about and treating women disrespectfully.
      Gone are the days when Men can get away with abusing their power and demand respect from women, and then sulk, get rude/angry when men don’t get what they want from women…
      Most of his blind followers are being led down the loneliest of paths but they don’t want to admit it…neither does Rich.
      Don’t live in denial. Wakeup guys!

    • @Jakobslander
      @Jakobslander 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Killersushiofficial You've obviously NOT seen his content.

    • @chillywillieg13
      @chillywillieg13 7 місяців тому

      @@Killersushiofficial following men doesn’t mean, and never has meant: do what men do. Thats weak thinking.

    • @Killersushiofficial
      @Killersushiofficial 6 місяців тому

      @@Jakobslander I don’t mean angry as in rage anger.
      I mean…angry, as in hurt and disappointed in what has been done to him by other ppl (*women from his past) kinda angry.
      I empathise with his hurt/disappointment but his views/words/content sometimes skews followers’ perspectives too much towards hating women.
      …to the point that it is not helpful to create an unhealthy competition and bully/hateful mentality towards the other side. (*women) we need balance in the world.

  • @Random-rt5ec
    @Random-rt5ec 6 місяців тому +2

    When my 1st wife cheated I immediately moved out & divorced her but yeah it hurt real bad for 6 months. 15 years later when my 2nd wife cheated it hurt just as bad, the good thing is I have become Red Pilled & know understand the true nature of today's highly unfaithful/disloyal female. I

  • @go818win
    @go818win 7 місяців тому +1

    Precisely how unfortunately it was ... as it is a cruel scrutiny how armed conflicts of the history turned out women, the connections cannot disregard too that they were just 'comfort women of war'.

  • @annadaae26
    @annadaae26 4 місяці тому +1

    He should have told her fiance he called her asking him back. It would have been a huge favor to him.

  • @user-dj3mj7kx7k
    @user-dj3mj7kx7k 6 місяців тому +1

    She's not yours.........just your turn.😂

  • @jlogan2228
    @jlogan2228 Місяць тому

    Always comfirm her relationship status. I currently am having to watch my back bc someone i used to have fun with apparently forgot to mention she was married and now thr husband is pissed at ME for her lying and cheating

  • @cherriesnskulls
    @cherriesnskulls 7 місяців тому +3

    My girlfriend had a colleague in her work team that’s now become a boss in another team and recruited my girlfriend to his new team. The boss has a wife and a newborn baby. My girlfriend is a very warm, feminine and kind person and speaks fondly about her boss and tell me about things she thinks are funny that happen at work between them. I have mostly just semi-ignored her stories up until now and said “that sounds fun” or something like that.
    What I started to react to is that she mostly speak about her boss and not her other colleagues.
    What’s your thoughts on navigating this situation?

    • @yuris6125
      @yuris6125 7 місяців тому

      I would ask her straight away: "Don't you have other colleagues? Tell me something about other team members". And be vigilant from then on.

    • @salguodrolyat2594
      @salguodrolyat2594 7 місяців тому

      You are being cucked.🤦

    • @andrewdrew677
      @andrewdrew677 7 місяців тому

      Get your ducks in a row and move on 100%
      It’s dog eat dog out there and she’s swimming in the corporate world .

    • @joecuster6926
      @joecuster6926 7 місяців тому

      I’d be done or at least make a clear boundary and the consequences for crossing. If your intuition is pushing you to ask then likely you know the answer already.

    • @botany500kojak
      @botany500kojak 6 місяців тому

      Don't do anything rash. I would not bring it up, just respond to what she says, like you have been doing. How old is she?

  • @maximus3160
    @maximus3160 5 місяців тому

    This same thing was posted on Reddit about a month ago...

  • @taskforce169black6
    @taskforce169black6 7 місяців тому

    Facts.

  • @ficationsare6552
    @ficationsare6552 7 місяців тому

    When I heard the 3 fingers pointing back rule in 1st grade, I thought well those 3 fingers are actually pointing straight up and to the right.

  • @nimmichagger165
    @nimmichagger165 6 місяців тому +1

    A thief always thinks everyone is out to rob them..

  • @garymartin1956
    @garymartin1956 6 місяців тому +1

    Why own when you can reny?

  • @eddieobrien1411
    @eddieobrien1411 7 місяців тому

    When a partner accuses you of cheating and you didn’t cheat at all,can be projecting their own behaviour.Humans have a tendency to criticise others because essentially they see aspects of themselves,which they don’t like…this is all related to PROJECTION.

  • @DulceSeeker
    @DulceSeeker 2 місяці тому

    feature not a bug LOL

  • @IaintTheHerb
    @IaintTheHerb 7 місяців тому

    8:50 it was the French, but the Dutch may have also done that too.

  • @PermanentHigh
    @PermanentHigh 6 місяців тому +1

    Women move on faster from breakips becaue they initiate the vast majority of them, and they only initiate them when they have other options lined up beforehand. That's what it is. It's not so much of an adaptation thing. Because realistically some women do get devastated by breakups. But they get devastated when THEY get broken up with and they didn't have other options on the backburner. They get to feel the full brunt of emotions that come with the breakup

  • @CJBradley
    @CJBradley 6 місяців тому +1

    If there's anything I have learned after seventy years it's that most women can't be trusted. If your married or in a long term relationship they need to understand that you OWN them or they will wonder at some point. “Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.”

  • @skaltura
    @skaltura 16 днів тому

    i bought the 2nd edition, wishing i had the 1st edition. There's a reason we use harsh language, cuss etc. -- to get the point across

  • @DJDonkeytron
    @DJDonkeytron 7 місяців тому +2

    1. With their co-workers
    2. With your friends or brothers.

    • @Jakobslander
      @Jakobslander 7 місяців тому

      @DJDonkeytron ^^^^ THIS ^^^^

    • @willylumpnj
      @willylumpnj 7 місяців тому

      3. With their former boss

    • @Jakobslander
      @Jakobslander 7 місяців тому

      @@willylumpnj True. Even if he looks like sh%t and is older than the sand on the beach: If he's wining, dining and gifting your girl, he IS going to get in her pants.

  • @thomaslibbey5694
    @thomaslibbey5694 6 місяців тому

    My ex broke up with me in Jan. Got back together in April. Stayed together through November, and recently went on a date with someone who has less money and is younger than me. Less attractive. I felt she monkey branched down?

    • @Leonhart_93
      @Leonhart_93 6 місяців тому

      You say less attractive but are you sure he is not better looking? They will be seeking short term stuff with guys like that.

  • @cuts240
    @cuts240 2 місяці тому

    Dancing bear occurs

  • @adamelkoumy5141
    @adamelkoumy5141 7 місяців тому +3

    Hello Rich. What do you think of the shaming tactics that are used ?

    • @TexasLonghornRanch
      @TexasLonghornRanch 7 місяців тому

      Women use mental manipulation. Because most women can’t physically impose their will on a man.

    • @Killersushiofficial
      @Killersushiofficial 7 місяців тому

      Rich is in a meeting…call back in like never, lil’lamb!
      Or just buy his silly book…he seems really proud of it! Hahaha

  • @buckjones4901
    @buckjones4901 6 місяців тому

    I think of us most guys are innocent and honest in their feelings for a woman for the first relationship of their life, but I think most women are just looking for a guy to use for her benefit as long as possible or until something better comes along, she usually has another waiting in the wings if she is attractive.

  • @Arejen03
    @Arejen03 7 місяців тому

    this shit is real, we broke up after 2 years and she was msging me shes so hurt, shes crying etc then what happens, next month another dude

  • @camvworld5674
    @camvworld5674 5 місяців тому

    When a woman accuses you of cheating, she is the one cheating or getting ready to cheat!