Your reasons for deciding not to date black men is the exact same reasons why they have no social status. They are delusional and fail to realize that all other races feel the same way and see the same character traits in most, not all black men. However, it is most that create the stereotype. Non-black women who feel superior because they are with black men will have a reality check when their black man sabotages them over time. Black men are exhausting, and life does not have to be that way. They have no social status, no access to resources, most don't believe in God, no vision, no courage, no discipline, no vision, nothing that a man needs to be successful in life. They don't participate in society.
@@afrotheory first of all no woman is superior.. so all of these non-black women first of all they don't even consider black women as women I mean you got the other half of the world like Israel that saying that their enemies is BW trash.. you want to talk about the 304s of the world all around the world see them naked showing their bodies that's all they're good for. Twerking on tables in restaurants fighting outside naked not to mention getting dehumanized online by W supremacist spitting on them calling them the n word would a dog collar on their neck eating puke out of a bowl.. you want to talk about embarrassing y'all got to be the most sic embarrassing betrayal traitors walking on this Earth roaches.. you speaking a lot about black men but therefore you on that cell phone a black man created those lights in your house that air conditioning that television that damn door knob that you turn elevators you get on.. look up black inventions I'll see you ain't got no problem using their inventions right trash! So you don't say nothing when I'm W folks deny the reparations because they are scared that black men without showing them they assassinated all of our leaders so they put them down and you still blame them go to hell
@@LeonaWorldwide that's funny so when those Neanderthal devils not only block The Fearless fund the so-called black women's rights not only did they block it they when a lawsuit against them right for racial discrimination LOL imagine that a black woman racist and all you do is cater to the trash of Supremacy like the animals y'all are I mean they don't stomped on the heads of infants and fed them to Gators set 2018 to 2004 has been over 8,000 police deletions did brutalized and deleted all of your grandmother's and our leaders y'all are found on trees y'all are the highest abducted in trafficking.. over 250 black women deleted by police officers put on one of their next and taser her pregnant stomach until she had a miscarriage before the 1700s brutalizing y'all till this day over 500 years and you got a nerve to talk about a black man just bleach yourself take your weave out y'all don't deserve to be the counterpart of The Men Who Built America I don't care about the 50 years of the problems we had talked about the 500 plus years of what we did do but you're not going to talk about that absolutely not SMH this is pathetic
@teec. trust me the feeling is mutual. We don't like yall either. Just stay away from us and yes we will continue to build our own media so yall can't continue to slander us. This comment is perfect for my patreon so us black men who are still on the fence can free themselves from such a low end group of irresp8nisble ladies who have done nothing but sabotage and destroy everything they touch.
But this Keisha forgot one thing ..Black Women create and carry and raise Black men. She is the one that teaches him and nurtures him to be who he is. Black women never take responsibility for their decision making. It’s her fault she feel for the Willie Lynch trap. At the end of the day the white man is not going to save you but look at you as another bed wench and that is facts
I find this video very strange because most black men I know are married to black women, including myself. Sometimes therapy is the answer but who knows...Some people will be single for life but that's ok. Own it!!!!
Your voice alone makes me want to say thank you for leaving all black men alone. You just saved that man a life full of headaches & ear inflection from listening to you talk
@@daphnejoseph584 I’m not black Nor white but all white men do is call black women masculine. lol how sad. All of u need to stop being self hating and stop worshipping white skin
@@therealkflo..ayoooo why I just said the same thing she think we checkin for her. News flash no man is checkin for a chick with a bad attitude lol. She will be single and miserable the rest of her life
Hello white man here ! we love black women! But I love my wife because she loves her race. I’ve never heard her talk down on a black man or say chose to date me because I’m white! I think it’s weak to openly shame black men. And I think therapy will help with these personal issues you and other people who think like you are battling with I love my wife and her family because they are who they are and won’t change just because I walked in the room. Dating outside of your race is not a status thing and I pray whoever you find family accepts you
She is basically coping (trying to pretend the choice here is hers...LOL...she lives in San Diego....that should tell you everything) and trying to cash in on the perpetual trend of Black Women getting clicks and views and building their brands off of dehumanizing Black Men and Boys.
@@singlefathers4114 Also...she knows what she is saying is abject nonsense. They are trying to cope with the fact that Black Men have a market value they never will never be in posession.
I'm an introvert, nerdy black woman. I wish I was confrontational. I try. I suck at it. Every black man I dated, the more kind you are as a woman the meaner they get. It's like they just want to punish us instead of love us
I met a black man like this. He was extremely mean and tried to act indifferent towards me. When I finally blocked his toxic ass, he started calling and texting from unknown numbers.
Maybe because im a secure 28 year old melanated man but I actually kinda agree with you. Emotions aside us Black men as a totality gotta step it up. Our standards in all regards must be risen.
@@ibrahimahmed1810 I don't understand why people feel like they have to make an announcement online as to who they prefer not to date. Wasn't that the original argument for Passport Bros? They don't have to "make an announcement", right?
They’re mad because they’re the guys you’re staying far away from. Personally I’ve never dated or been intimate with a BM because I was turned off before it even came to that point. Yup, not even a kiss. I’m desired by men who bring me flowers, take me to nice restaurants, are gentle and willing to put in work to win me over. I just feel a dangerous aura around most BM, from how they look at me like something they can devour, how they’re so comfortable grabbing my hand in public when they try to speak to me and I walk past, how entitled they are to my attention yet are the last guy to hold a door for a woman. I have never walked behind a WM and not had him hold the door for me if he noticed I was behind him, I’ve never had a WM run up to me while walking at night to try and get my number like BM do! As a well travelled woman I can assure you from Europe to Australia to Dubai, the men love BW and we have options, at least from my experience. 😊
It is quite a strange thing because growing up I found that the type of black men the women are attracted too and want are the ones who have a more toxic demenour. The guys who are more gentlemen like or act "white" so to speak are largely seen as squares and end up with non black women not by choice either. Even for me I date exclusively black women and I was cheated on for the "thuggish" guy this has happened a couple times and these women are college educated women it is strange. However I do not generalize black women and happily married to one but you cannot generalize a race because even across the world black people are different. Another weird trope is the obsession and grace given to white men and it is fine to go where you are loved but there is a obsession with white men and not other races lol so it seems like a strange self hatred fantasy. I personally have distaste in it because from my epersonal experience I have heard white men say they love black women because they can practice their wildest sexual desires.
@@AdrianAsiedu-j3b bm like you also don’t feel a need to elevate and level up their defeated and broken down community talk less of some flowers and dates
Black men in California don't date black women for the most part, except the ones in the hood but, who wants them when you have something going for yourself.
@@applesiderteaIt means her mom choose the wrong daddy or it means she listened to her moms story an didn’t get to know her daddy. Other words a woman molded her thoughts 💭
Not really. The overwhelming theme is the low quality of black men in terms of their ability to be good husbands. There are thousands of videos just like this posted to UA-cam-and the overwhelming majority are about the insufficiencies of black men. We have a huge problem in our community-our men. Everyone knows it-people from other ethnic groups know it, and it’s very sad and embarrassing. The response of this generation of black men has been: blame black women for our short-comings, be jealous of black Women’s success, and go overseas to find a non black woman. All immature, unproductive, and downright stupid responses. Our hope is for the next generation of black men to reject the stupidity and say: let me get my s* together, let me be proud of our sistas, and let me do everything in my power to love and protect one as my wife. This will take another 20-30 years, but our men will eventually wake up. 🙏🏾
No you aren’t Your 25 years old, 5 foot 3 and 324lbs You are nothing like women or the early 1900s that’s why you are watching dumb videos like this and actually agreeing with them
@@PikachuRaichu-es8mk yall are? As a fetish maybe but aint nobody trying to wife yall up outside of america & even the BM here in america are getting tired of yall.
A lot of traits mentioned in the video are found in all races of men. A lot of women have these traits too. Maybe it's just a people thing! We are all flawed in many ways and I hope we can all learn to understand each other and get along anyway! 🫶
😂… ur not all that attractive to be talking like that … it’s crazy tho cause u prolly jus don’t like black men… cause they don’t like u anymore .. ur an old auntie, that’s a red flag in itself… how come no1 wants u?!?! Any color.. where’s ur white man? Lol goodluck
She actually believes anyone is falling for this click-bait, divestor bullshit. She lives in San Diego. Black Men pretty much already made the decision for her.
You are exactly right in that alot of the negative feelings I feel towards black men actually started with my own father. I always think its the other black men I've encountered & experienced that hurt me, but the first BM I knew hurt me & broke my heart. He terrified me & I still have nightmares about him to this day as a grown adult woman. It is not healthy for me to date or even be around BM at this time. Not healthy spiritually or mentally. It is like a vicious cycle that I keep repeating over and over again. But not anymore. DIVEST!
As an educated, and highly compensated woman, just as your experience has been that many black men want an applause for their education, having their own place etc., many black women expect the same and mention all of that when asked what they bring to table. When truly, most men don’t care about that and that’s not what they are needing “at the table”.
@@Wgz945 🤔 I can see this comment clearly went over your head. My comment is directed at the woman who made the video, not a man I want to date. As someone with that background, I’m saying women should not lead with those qualifications when getting to know men, as it may be a nice to have but it’s not a priority.
My white wife cried in my arms last night. She said I've provided her wirh the house, the car, the children, and the life that women dream of. She said her female associates tell her how jealous they are. I added an addition to our 3,900 square feet house for her retired parents. I purchased a 2025 Mercedes for her last month for her birthday. My brother is chocolate like me and he has a white wife that he spoils. We both run a very lucrative trucking company that allows us to spoil them. They have four kids with a 5,000 square foot home. That thing looks like a castle. Our white wives will never have worry about money for the rest of their lives. We are an example of how much Black men can love and provide for their families. I am dark chocolate and off the market.
The best part about this is, if you pass away all your wealth goes right back to the white community 😂 nah….But I’m with a Latin man who picked me up with I had nothing and now I do everything for him and I just live at peace he doesn’t even want me working unless I want to. We make jokes about our ppl being with white ppl all the time, That’s just the kind of bond we have. I told him if he dies our kids will no longer speak Spanish and my parents would move in . He said that’s fine just make sure my parents don’t go in a nursing home. I said of course not they will forever live with me😢. On a serious note if you’re happy then that’s Good but technically you’re still on the plantation taking care of massa n them 😂
The way you are still under a black woman's comment section after all these years married to your wonderful wife shows you have something to prove and are feeling inadequate. Please stay off and don't bring that insecurity into anyone's else's life.
Ive only dated black guys and went through hell each guy was different from eachother in looks personality everything but it was so much stress right now I’m only attracted to white guys black men no matter how attractive they are they don’t sway me
It's crazy because no matter the black man, it was like they were all the same one. And men are men, so they all have common flaws. But Black ones are really different in the worst way.
Same here girl. I can recognize and admit when a black man looks good or is physically attractive but I feel absolutely ZERO attraction to them after everything I’ve dealt with from black men since childhood. Dating white men is so much more peaceful 👌
*_For the last 45 years, you worshiped and chased cheap poor WW and married a poor LV WW like the one you married and ran after WW single parent for decades 3.5 decades with poor results Patterson*. You actually hate BW bitter because BW took no interest in you. Exactly what she's talking about you never applied yourself to anything to better your life! now you're 70 years old alone with nothing just like she started. *Most BW weren't angry you just didn't want or accomplish anything so we lost respect for you!_*@@LeonaWorldwide
@@LeonaWorldwideI am not black or a woman but I think it is cultural phenomena. And I don't think it applies to all generations or to all guys. I think the biggest problem that afflicts the black community in the US is a culture of nihilistic carelessness. This mentality I have noticed is in stark contrast to the mentality of older generation African Americans. Old black southerners are some of the best people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing, truly God fearing people that live and breathe morality and righteousness. It is not wonder that they produced such great people as the civil rights leaders, many countless musicians, intellectuals, etc. But over the past several decades, there has been a growing culture of carelessness that I believe is driven by a victim mentality narrative often pushed by the media and the political left. Rather than portray people like Ben Carson or Thomas Sowell, they will showcase rappers covered in tattoos and obsessed with the superficial. Rather than push encouragement, they push a sense of being oppressed, and that sense produces a kind of hopeless, nihilistic, carelessness where one thinks "I am oppressed so I can't change my circumstances." The obsession with the superficial and the victim mindset is why I believe hookup culture became so prevalent in the black community and why cheating became more commonplace. Of course not each and every single black guy is like that, but it is a common trend. And it is for these reasons that so many black women seek men of other races or black men from other countries. It's kind of like how feminism affected white women. It produced an anti traditionalism amongst them that made them view anything traditional as oppressive. Modern feminisms hostility towards men and push to make men and women the same, is in large part why so many white men pursue women from other cultures. Some of those women are black American. They essentially find in each other what they were missing in their respective communities. This is why white man black woman marriages have a lower divorce rate than white man white woman, black man black woman, and black man white woman marriages. Like pieces of a puzzle that fit together.
These generalizations are IMMATURE, OLD AND TIRED. 🙄 No matter how many black men you have dated, you haven’t dated ALL. Let’s do better, stop with the black men vs. black women wars and move in a positive direction.
@@malarki5 She's clearly hurt. Show her some grace. Had she stated New Orleans, Baltimore, Philadelphia, Milwaukee, Detroit or Jackson Mississippi it would've raised an eyebrow
Ladies, you don't even need to watch the video because everything she's saying is already familiar-you could practically recite it word for word. Even if you grew up in a remote place like Greenland, barely knowing more than two other Black men besides your dad and maybe an uncle or grandfather, you’d still arrive at the same conclusions and justifications. It’s straightforward and undeniable. I'm so glad to see more Black women waking up and moving past the dissonance that has kept us down for centuries.
8:54 people cant be racist against their own people, but they can be hateful, cruel, disgusted, disrespectful, bigoted, discriminatory, prejudice, and mean against their own people.
@donthatemeforbeinghonest296 oh I mean it. Go to those other men and be happy. We will be ok without you forever. No need to come back. We wish you well.
@@vcreed79exactly they make video like this for attention 😂 I’m glad other brother are not fighting them telling BS like no queen we can be better 😂😂 let them leave 😂 matter of fact let’s help them pack
Its the extreme insecurities thing. The audacity to say such a thing while having a nest of some other womans hair on her head speaking in her best valley girl voice....You cant make this up!
lol she can rock her hair however she wants and her natural voice doesn’t show any insecurity whatsoever. You’re just an uneducated black man using stereotypes to make your point. PS I’m not white or black.
My husband is Latino, handsome , educated and hard working. Black men are the least employed men in the world and the few successful athletes and rappers all worship white or mixed women. As a dark skinned woman it’s best to date other races if you want a quality man.
Watching this because I used to only date Middle Eastern and North Indian men. I tried going to black and it landed me in my bed sleeping for hours from depression. I'm going back to other races.
If you don’t date black men anymore why not keep that to yourself, why do you want to make other people take the same route, if you really and truthful were honest about what you were talking about, you would not have a UA-cam channel talking about the same men you claim not to want. Actually you do want them, you are not true to yourself maybe unknowingly to that fact.
This isn't just a preference video this is also a hate video you see glimpses of bitterness and hatred she even discredits the black man who does have his own doing well but if she saw those qualities in another race of men she would acknowledge it her views are bias and somewhat ignorant unresolved Daddy issues as well lets be honest she wouldn't even give the civilized black guy an opportunity which is fine she can date who she please but don't pretend there isn't any hatred for black men we can see it no a black woman can't be racist towards her own but she can be prejudice towards her own she living proof however may she date freely outside our race were not really missing out with this level of hatred better off without her
@@LeonaWorldwidesounds like u have a deep self hatred for not only yourself but prolly your father, uncle n most black men have let u down.. which is a shame… every black man in my family is married and college educated… so obviously my perspective is way opposite of yours but isn’t that proof alone that the truth somewhere in the middle… color is color, just that … all those qualities u named are in every race of man
It’s not race it’s culture. “”My first girlfriend was black. Every other woman since then has been non American. Black American dating culture is eroding. All of the black women I did give a chance never made it far. China 🇨🇳 , Russia 🇷🇺 , Lebanon 🇱🇧 . South Africa 🇿🇦 , Turkey 🇹🇷, Netherlands 🇳🇱 (I was also saving myself for marriage when I was with all of those women) I do get hit on by black women from time to time but usually the ones that approach me have had the worst experiences with men and are completely taken back when they have met me. I’ve watched some girls burst out crying to know at their age they had never been asked out on dates and so on. This is all past me now , I’m with my one and only now. She’s Mexican. And the way her family treats me compared to dating while black with other black Americans is night and day. I get many of your sentiments, just commenting to say it semi mutual. I didn’t go out of my way to not date black women or anything. Simply put- most of the black women I met filtered themselves out before anything could truly form.
Most are immature. They'll be in their 50s and still act like teenagers. After the last thing one did to me I wouldn't touch one. I had one who ruined my reputation, and had everyone believing his lies, lost my job behind it. I rather be alone than trust or date them.
I had an older coworker BM who ruined my reputation on the job also. I didn’t realize that was his intent all along but would lie about it afterwards as he tried to play in my faces. Collectively they despise BW because they are in competition with them since they can’t measure up to competing with other races of men. They absolutely love dragging BWs name/image/reputation thru the mud for filth especially for all to see.
@@iloveoldschool888 sounds like you ran into a classic narcissist-the black ones are some of the worst. thankfully, mine self-destructed while attempting to destroy me.
Hello Leona, It seems like you really do or did want to be with a black man in a loving relationship at some point, but unfortunately, your previous relationships didn’t work out. I’m sorry you didn’t find a bm that wanted you or you wanted him. There’s a lot of negative projections in your vid. Every person irrespective of their race or gender has flaws within their character. Downgrading bm and uplifting other races isn’t a healthy approach. Hope you heal from previous experiences. You have a self-confessed bad attitude which no man (black, white or other) would want to deal with. Maybe you mask this bad attitude when you’re around other races of men - therefore they treat you better, creating the perception that they are better for you. BM & BW are beautiful together and individually, as well as in mixed couples. Respect all people and don’t lose respect for your own. All the best in your love life.
Ok, one thing we as black women need to consider. We are still producing these men. Not us individually but as a collective. Why are mothers so much nastier to their daughters than to their sons. I think this is the reason for black male entitlement. Let’s love and appreciate our daughters just the same.
I think the patriarchy has done a pretty nasty number on all of society. I attribute most of the gender imbalance and issues to that sick system lol. You are right though!
Wow we lost another one 😂😂😂😂 so sad what will Black Men do without a Black woman like yourself... I wish you the best Sista. Please don't come back if it goes bad.
@@LeonaWorldwide trust me you won't. We have nothing in common . You're perpetually stuck outside to be concubines or whatever it is you do. Hedonists is all yall are
@@LeonaWorldwideso how come u weren’t welcomed with open arms ur entire life… not 1 time did a BM love u enough to act good … n that’s on u cause u couldn’t stop looking at him like ur daddy or brother who don’t seem have much respect and integrity for smh
So this is what y’all women listen to while men are out here , working on themselves , talking about how they plan on making a family and stuff and this I what guys talk about. Really ?
as a single, black 6'4" 225 lb. 39-year-old principal electrical engineer who works out everyday, I agree with a lot of her criticisms in general... but don't get it twisted, some of us waaaay exceed your standards. Now the question is how can you attract us? If anything, all this video did was reinforce to those of us that are "on it" just how much we hold the cards. Thank you!
@@Ybc_Jayy10oo no personal accountability is showing. if that's being considered a problem, how about being a literal danger to society? you kill who you are in droves.
I’ve dated every type of man, Indian, whites, Hispanic, Japanese etc… they all proved to me that men will be men regardless of race.. I really think this post was unnecessary😂 as a black Latina, we have black men in the Hispanic communities, Africans, island men etc, you have a tough lesson to learn to stop generalizing because you know that we are also the topic of slander on a daily basis as black women
It’s not because they’re not attracted to black men. It’s because black men are the ones pimping. They have the most game. So yeah those 304s gotta stay in pocket. Even their pimps who are 99.9% black post no black men in their ads. Yall be reaching and don’t know what you’re talking about. Anything to spite the black man tho lol
@@Defi_Guy_ Darnell... You haven't been here for long. You're just passing through. Most of the women on my channel will exuberantly be single than deal with bummy anything. Please level up, so you don't have time to project silliness in womens' comments.
@@LeonaWorldwide Most of the women on your channel will exuberantly be single BECAUSE black women ARE & WILL ALWAYS BE the least desirable woman on this planet. Why don't you'll stop talking about dating and focus on MARRIAGE RATES? SMDH
😢😢😢😢 wow!!! People with this mindset is why we can't build up our community because of tearing our men down because of a few who don't got it together. Gone ahead and see it's NOT greener on the other side sis. Have at it! You'll always have a tug of war within the culture. Have fun! 😂
I'm a Puerto Rican man dating a beautiful, gorgeous, melanated Queen from the US Virgin Islands and we are both very deeply in love with each other. All about values and emotional intelligence which 99% of BM LACK.
Other races will appreciate a bw and will not see her as competition and also they arent selfish and broke unless they’re a loser like a bm. Plus any little thing can make them feel like less of man and things can turn wild and thats just a huge problem for me
Each woman should do what is best for her life vision and goals. As a bw, I prefer not to have race as a factor in my dating. I care about all the other things that people actually have control over.
I ask the people to forgive her for being so blind, ignorant and bias. Common sense exists before books were ever written and published. I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves,” Harriet Tubman
You go girl ❤❤ you deserve a man who doesn't talk down on you and sees your worth 🎉🎉 Like from a logical stand point woman go where they are appreciated 😊😊 You're pretty❤😊
sounds like an accountability issue. no man is without flaw and no group consists of clones. kudos for sharing your truth. hopefully many black women fair better in their dating journey. kudos to the black women who marry healthy black men and raise beautiful black children! 🧡
Why do we black people have to put each other down in front of the world? Black men hating on black wonen, black women hating on black men .. smh. With us, it's one toxicity after another... if this lady no longer wants to date black men, just go and date white men and keep it moving! I never understand these black men and women who have to make videos to announce their racial dating preferences. Just live your life...
As a Black man, the white women have always treated me with the respect I deserve, lowkey worshipped because, they are used to softer men. Black women be calling me " nigga " wayyy too casually, the second they get angry, to me thats an insult, I don't know what a " nigga " means to them, but one thing is for sure, its lesser than what I pride myself on being : A man. Why would anyone take the time out of their day to make a video bashing Black men?? If the last Black male you dated was 3 years ago, why are they still on your mind so deeply? Why are you still so bitter and unhappy? Who hurt you?
Gurrrlllaaaa I'm gladddd I found youuuu 👏🏽 because I'm divested unapologetically And its funny to me BBY you kno the race loyal fake entitled pro Blk Race loyal Blk ppl tries so hard to gaslight you and try to guilt trip you and bully you out of jealousy n envy because they don't won't no one to have there women but them but BBY I tell them I a be that ill be and ill be a proud bed wennch and i wear it with pride ❤good video im subbing Gurrrtlllll
@@LeonaWorldwide Young lady I demand you delete this video. The reason I'm asking you to do so is because you're attracting self-hating Black men. I believe their negative comments is subconsciously fueling your hate for us. I'm of the belief you love Black men. However, our underperformance combined with the hate we spew online has been a MAJOR turnoff! We've been a disappointment and have let you down to say the least
What a gentlemen. She is very pretty and hope she finds the happiness she’s looking for, I just don’t like people putting down an entire race based on some experiences. I’ve heard so many racist things about black women and each time I get protective of them because I know not all black women are the same. I do hope she finds happiness. It seems she’s been super hurt. You will find other women who will love you for you, so don’t give up on your search for the right one and be kind and respectful which per this comment it seems that you are if you are like this in all areas. Edit: what I mean by protective is that I get on the person saying those particular comments. I know black women don’t need saving. They are strong on their own.
Thank you sister(I'm a blk man). You are much more reasonable than the majority of them... black men are tired of being disrespected and belittled. I'm all for them finding happiness..., with men of other races. Leave us alone...
26 year old black male dentist here. Many of my black male colleagues are dentists, physicians, pharmacists, engineers. I don’t date black women because they they I only like white women, and think I wasn’t raised around black people. This is literally the first thing black women say to me. I did attend PWIs my whole life and played D1 football at a top 25 university. My gf is white and I love life.
@neutraliserjanine I preferred to date black women when I was younger, but everytime I tried, they stated I look like I wasn't raised around black people and that i look like I only date white women. And this was when I first met them. I speak properly and have a respectful career. Since this happened multiple times, I simply gave up on black women.🤷🏿♂️
@Dr.GD4 They were right. Your problem is that you think people can't read you just by looking at you and listening to your words. Not your voice. Your words. Most blkwomen are educated. This is in statistics. You're one of those people who falsely accuse those women of not liking "good" men who speak proper English or like "pookies" and "rays rays" when you are only referring to women who are of the hip hop genre as if blkwomen in academics and research (the biggest group of women nerds), corporate, journalism, politics and medical fields dont exist although everyone in the world know we exist.
Leona, I haven’t finished watching the video yet but so far (I’m at the part where you’re critiquing the femininity of Black men). you have not lied. And with that said, I think you should take this down. Not because it’s inaccurate, but bc it makes you look bad. I am in support of you as a Black woman, which is why I’m thinking about what’s best for you in the long term and your relationship options. This video (with your face on display) could hurt you in the future and I want better for you. You do deserve better options.
@LeonaWorldwide interesting... in my small squared circle, it's considered immoral and quite disrespectful for a woman to date for fun without being adequately compensated or guided. Be careful out there(charity)
@MrMeToo-fh7pe She likes being passed around and thinks saying I refuse to date her own kind is somehow gonna elevate her status in society 😄. These keishas are so deranged and deluded from reality they truly want to be Ms. Ann.
@LeonaWorldwide AKA none of the men liked you enough to really consider you for marriage. Stop the cap part because every one knows that if a man offered to marry you, you would jump so over it instead of slandering men on UA-cam. Cut it out because us wise ones see right through it. As-salaamu alaikum.
Eh I don't believe you I feel like ur just upset bcuz black men are tired of y'all n you think this vid will get u revenge. Black men have moved on and ur salty over it
Ppl often confuse an absent father with having a father wound I would love to see you voice how you manage and care for your mental health on a daily basis.
Ladies... What are your thoughts on this topic? I'm taking a pulse check. RIP to my comments if black men find this video. We've learned before that hit dogs gon holler!
I realized that Black women and black men are just culturally different. We have different things that we value and we don't share the same interests. Think about what black women like/love. We like marriage, children, education, and community. Black men statistically don't like any of that. Also, I'm a thin black woman and they seem to like larger women. This is just my observation. When you're fit they don't know what to do with that. We don't have anything in common with them except skin tone and speaking of skin tone, most of them prefer women with lighter skin tones. I don't dislike them, but Im not crazy about them either, I just think they might not be the best choice for a romantic partner. At best they can make decent friends, if you want to hang but not for a real relationship. Plus, I've seen the way they act around Latina women and trust and believe that's who they really want. I've seen them literally fall out over looking at the most basic looking Latina women I have ever seen in my life. That's how you know what women they prefer. I've had better experiences with light skin black men who are typically more educated but still I believe black men and black women are culturally different.
@@9darshana your first paragraph made me laugh, but I know you're so serious lol. Your experience is so interesting. Idk how much they like big women vs that's who will deal with them. So many layers to pull back and explore. Thank you for sharing ❤️
@@LeonaWorldwide that’s because you’re the distributor and not the receiver of the message. Mean people always say that they’re not being mean when they are being mean. It’s just classic gaslighting.
I take it that our date is off this weekend then Leona 😂 But seriously some really generalised statements there which I'm surprised coming from an educated woman. Okay you don't like black men I can tell by the way you are talking you probably don't like black people full stop you don't come across as someone who has not socialised much with black people full stop am I right in saying this it's just an observation by some of your statements . I mean come on never seen a black man in a gym , black men from what I see even when they have nothing else look after themselves better than any race of man . take a black man in his 50's then take a white man in his 50's an tell me who doesn't look after themselves . It's all good now honey but you wait until he starts getting wrinkly and old and you still looking young lol I really do worry for the mixed up kids you are going to produce also mixed race children that hate their blackness you seem to despise us. Look at the end of the day sis that is your choice people need to do what makes them happy life is too short I say good luck to you with your white men and hope they will make you happy By the way I noticing that there is a uncanny resemblance with you to Arsenio Hall. Does anyone else see this ?
Good luck ma'am. Go to wherever makes you feel appreciated. I've been dating a woman outside of this race for 5 years and it's the best decision I've ever made. Kudos to you 💯
Your reasons for deciding not to date black men is the exact same reasons why they have no social status. They are delusional and fail to realize that all other races feel the same way and see the same character traits in most, not all black men. However, it is most that create the stereotype. Non-black women who feel superior because they are with black men will have a reality check when their black man sabotages them over time. Black men are exhausting, and life does not have to be that way. They have no social status, no access to resources, most don't believe in God, no vision, no courage, no discipline, no vision, nothing that a man needs to be successful in life. They don't participate in society.
New pinned comment! I will admit, they do have a face card; never said they were ugly. But that doesn't outshine the negative qualities lol.
@@afrotheory first of all no woman is superior.. so all of these non-black women first of all they don't even consider black women as women I mean you got the other half of the world like Israel that saying that their enemies is BW trash.. you want to talk about the 304s of the world all around the world see them naked showing their bodies that's all they're good for. Twerking on tables in restaurants fighting outside naked not to mention getting dehumanized online by W supremacist spitting on them calling them the n word would a dog collar on their neck eating puke out of a bowl.. you want to talk about embarrassing y'all got to be the most sic embarrassing betrayal traitors walking on this Earth roaches.. you speaking a lot about black men but therefore you on that cell phone a black man created those lights in your house that air conditioning that television that damn door knob that you turn elevators you get on.. look up black inventions I'll see you ain't got no problem using their inventions right trash! So you don't say nothing when I'm W folks deny the reparations because they are scared that black men without showing them they assassinated all of our leaders so they put them down and you still blame them go to hell
@@LeonaWorldwide that's funny so when those Neanderthal devils not only block The Fearless fund the so-called black women's rights not only did they block it they when a lawsuit against them right for racial discrimination LOL imagine that a black woman racist and all you do is cater to the trash of Supremacy like the animals y'all are I mean they don't stomped on the heads of infants and fed them to Gators set 2018 to 2004 has been over 8,000 police deletions did brutalized and deleted all of your grandmother's and our leaders y'all are found on trees y'all are the highest abducted in trafficking.. over 250 black women deleted by police officers put on one of their next and taser her pregnant stomach until she had a miscarriage before the 1700s brutalizing y'all till this day over 500 years and you got a nerve to talk about a black man just bleach yourself take your weave out y'all don't deserve to be the counterpart of The Men Who Built America I don't care about the 50 years of the problems we had talked about the 500 plus years of what we did do but you're not going to talk about that absolutely not SMH this is pathetic
@teec. trust me the feeling is mutual. We don't like yall either. Just stay away from us and yes we will continue to build our own media so yall can't continue to slander us. This comment is perfect for my patreon so us black men who are still on the fence can free themselves from such a low end group of irresp8nisble ladies who have done nothing but sabotage and destroy everything they touch.
But this Keisha forgot one thing ..Black Women create and carry and raise Black men. She is the one that teaches him and nurtures him to be who he is. Black women never take responsibility for their decision making. It’s her fault she feel for the Willie Lynch trap. At the end of the day the white man is not going to save you but look at you as another bed wench and that is facts
I find this video very strange because most black men I know are married to black women, including myself. Sometimes therapy is the answer but who knows...Some people will be single for life but that's ok. Own it!!!!
It's usual to even find a black man who values marriage or even married.
@@Starr4242 Come to Texas. You'll find plenty of black men married to black women. I'm married to a black woman and I'm a millionaire.
@@Starr4242Statistically most black folks aren’t married.
@@Tyana-g6xso? And I’m married to a black man but who tf cares about a piece of paper made by the govt??
@@Tyana-g6x Black men are fewer in the population but still have more than 600k more marriages than black females.
Sounds like a black woman that’s been pumped & dumped by every black man she “dated” 😂
Bitter crying Pookie
@@CultureUpdatez All you gathered from her remarks was ‘pumped and dumped’? You sound like a lost,13 year old class clown.
You mean they had sex? 😂 yeah that’s usually what happens when you date
Your voice alone makes me want to say thank you for leaving all black men alone. You just saved that man a life full of headaches & ear inflection from listening to you talk
@@5150Visions I think you meant infection--and ear infections aren’t caused by sounds 🤦🏾♀️
@ lol in this case it can definitely be caused by an ear INFECTION. Is that better? 😏
@@5150Visions 😂 😂
She’s relieved 🎉
@ 🤣😂🤣 so is the next one she going on a date with 🤣
The white men can have you.
And they look better than black men more masculine
What about white women compared to black women? 😂@@daphnejoseph584
@@daphnejoseph584 I’m not black
Nor white but all white men do is call black women masculine. lol how sad. All of u need to stop being self hating and stop worshipping white skin
@daphnejoseph584 You a liar and the truth is not in you .😁😁😁😁😂😂😂😂😂
@@daphnejoseph584they don’t even want yall 😂😂😂😂, wanna compare numbers?
This is hilarious. I live in San Diego and black man aren't checking for this arsenio Hall cosplayer.😅
You watch her?
Aresenio hall is nasty work 😂😂
Lmaoooooo Arsenio hall face is crazy
@@therealkflo..ayoooo why I just said the same thing she think we checkin for her. News flash no man is checkin for a chick with a bad attitude lol. She will be single and miserable the rest of her life
Don’t worry you dot. Quality anyway pookie 😂 she will date up and you will die alone
Lol good riddance Arsenio Hall you could have kept that to yourself we will not miss you
lol you a fool😂
They do both have that triangle head 😂. But seriously, what a miserable life hating your own. Good luck with massa.
Raises hand. I've experienced too much trauma from BM. I refuse to be miserable again.
I love your commitment to your betterment!
💯
And I have trauma from black women so we're even
@@jonathanpatterson4536lol they don’t care. They just gonna act like it’s one sided & blame everything on us while they are perfect.
@jonathanpatterson4536 ok than please go get a white women and be happy
Hello white man here ! we love black women! But I love my wife because she loves her race. I’ve never heard her talk down on a black man or say chose to date me because I’m white! I think it’s weak to openly shame black men. And I think therapy will help with these personal issues you and other people who think like you are battling with I love my wife and her family because they are who they are and won’t change just because I walked in the room. Dating outside of your race is not a status thing and I pray whoever you find family accepts you
She is basically coping (trying to pretend the choice here is hers...LOL...she lives in San Diego....that should tell you everything) and trying to cash in on the perpetual trend of Black Women getting clicks and views and building their brands off of dehumanizing Black Men and Boys.
Amen brotha
She won't respond to this comment because it goes against everything that she's talking about 😅
@@singlefathers4114 Also...she knows what she is saying is abject nonsense. They are trying to cope with the fact that Black Men have a market value they never will never be in posession.
I'm an introvert, nerdy black woman. I wish I was confrontational. I try. I suck at it. Every black man I dated, the more kind you are as a woman the meaner they get. It's like they just want to punish us instead of love us
Yes plus they're hard to date
My theory is they want to keep someone beneath them, just like they are beneath everyone else.
@@LeonaWorldwide Exactly and I don't support men above me
I met a black man like this. He was extremely mean and tried to act indifferent towards me. When I finally blocked his toxic ass, he started calling and texting from unknown numbers.
As a black man happily married to black women and vice versa maybe it’s the ones you’re attracting?
Maybe because im a secure 28 year old melanated man but I actually kinda agree with you. Emotions aside us Black men as a totality gotta step it up. Our standards in all regards must be risen.
I have not dated a BM since high school and my life has been better for it.
@@tinab8466 Glad for you finding out what works best ❤️
We don’t care 😂😂
@@ibrahimahmed1810 I don't understand why people feel like they have to make an announcement online as to who they prefer not to date. Wasn't that the original argument for Passport Bros? They don't have to "make an announcement", right?
@@ibrahimahmed1810 And we don't either. BW/WM married not a baby momma for 18 years and counting.
@@ibrahimahmed1810 you do care....your beast azzz is crying right now
They’re mad because they’re the guys you’re staying far away from. Personally I’ve never dated or been intimate with a BM because I was turned off before it even came to that point. Yup, not even a kiss. I’m desired by men who bring me flowers, take me to nice restaurants, are gentle and willing to put in work to win me over. I just feel a dangerous aura around most BM, from how they look at me like something they can devour, how they’re so comfortable grabbing my hand in public when they try to speak to me and I walk past, how entitled they are to my attention yet are the last guy to hold a door for a woman. I have never walked behind a WM and not had him hold the door for me if he noticed I was behind him, I’ve never had a WM run up to me while walking at night to try and get my number like BM do! As a well travelled woman I can assure you from Europe to Australia to Dubai, the men love BW and we have options, at least from my experience. 😊
"It was turn off at first sight" lmao! Thank you for sharing.
These men are sick at the thought of having to compete for the "least desirable" women.
@@Letsee555 we do and they have all what you said plus some social status that the bm don’t got
It is quite a strange thing because growing up I found that the type of black men the women are attracted too and want are the ones who have a more toxic demenour. The guys who are more gentlemen like or act "white" so to speak are largely seen as squares and end up with non black women not by choice either. Even for me I date exclusively black women and I was cheated on for the "thuggish" guy this has happened a couple times and these women are college educated women it is strange. However I do not generalize black women and happily married to one but you cannot generalize a race because even across the world black people are different. Another weird trope is the obsession and grace given to white men and it is fine to go where you are loved but there is a obsession with white men and not other races lol so it seems like a strange self hatred fantasy. I personally have distaste in it because from my epersonal experience I have heard white men say they love black women because they can practice their wildest sexual desires.
Maybe you’re not a nice person so you don’t deserve flowers and black men like myself don’t feel the need to take you out on exquisite restaurants
@@AdrianAsiedu-j3b bm like you also don’t feel a need to elevate and level up their defeated and broken down community talk less of some flowers and dates
Saying u don't date Black Men while living in San Diego is oxymoronic. San Diego BM don't date BW in general either
@@PuGa-yy7lj I mainly see black married couples. And yes, to your point, many intercolored couples where the man is the black one.
I agree with you. Black women are done for honestly. They are basically creatures of the night and for me Invisible at this point
Black men in California don't date black women for the most part, except the ones in the hood but, who wants them when you have something going for yourself.
RIIIIGHT, we choosing MAMI CHULA over KEISHANIQUA
@@NoName-gh5mqBut they don't want you either, other than for nothing but a green card.
Ok so this video is really about your father got it 👍🏿
@@mostwett even if the video was in part about her father, that doesn’t undercut her points. In fact, it strengthens her points.
@ no, it just means she dated men that were like her father. Which is normal for most people starting out
@@applesiderteaIt means her mom choose the wrong daddy or it means she listened to her moms story an didn’t get to know her daddy. Other words a woman molded her thoughts 💭
Not really. The overwhelming theme is the low quality of black men in terms of their ability to be good husbands. There are thousands of videos just like this posted to UA-cam-and the overwhelming majority are about the insufficiencies of black men. We have a huge problem in our community-our men. Everyone knows it-people from other ethnic groups know it, and it’s very sad and embarrassing. The response of this generation of black men has been: blame black women for our short-comings, be jealous of black
Women’s success, and go overseas to find a non black
woman. All immature, unproductive, and downright stupid responses.
Our hope is for the next generation of black men to reject the stupidity and say: let me get my s* together, let me be proud of our sistas, and let me do everything in my power to love and protect one as my wife. This will take another 20-30 years, but our men will eventually wake up. 🙏🏾
If her father is black you just proved her point about black men. No sense of accountablity.
We still doing this 1990s misandry trope.
*trope
@@LeonaWorldwidetruely a child
No you aren’t
Your 25 years old, 5 foot 3 and 324lbs
You are nothing like women or the early 1900s that’s why you are watching dumb videos like this and actually agreeing with them
You won't be missed. Too many real women out here.
The way bm are in the comments make me understand 100% why you won’t date them. I agree! Go where you are loved❤
No where?
@@blacknrd05 Darling, black women are loved globally. My word is a testament to that. Your bitterness won’t change that ❤️ stay blessed.
@@PikachuRaichu-es8mkby who ?????????
@@PikachuRaichu-es8mk yall are? As a fetish maybe but aint nobody trying to wife yall up outside of america & even the BM here in america are getting tired of yall.
By the man that god chose for her thats who @Kjai_
A lot of traits mentioned in the video are found in all races of men. A lot of women have these traits too. Maybe it's just a people thing! We are all flawed in many ways and I hope we can all learn to understand each other and get along anyway! 🫶
Smart woman
@ Thank you!
And that’s why she isn’t married
I seldom see black men in libraries, barnes and nobles or the gym. Period.
You'll always find them in the comments of a woman who doesn't want them, though :)
😂… ur not all that attractive to be talking like that … it’s crazy tho cause u prolly jus don’t like black men… cause they don’t like u anymore .. ur an old auntie, that’s a red flag in itself… how come no1 wants u?!?! Any color.. where’s ur white man? Lol goodluck
the gym? Lol. Went too far with the lie
Lol & the black men you see in those locations, most black women don’t want bc he isnt a jailbound vagabond. So what difference does it make.
@@LeonaWorldwidehurt bc he left u
You said you date other races but your still single 😮
She actually believes anyone is falling for this click-bait, divestor bullshit. She lives in San Diego. Black Men pretty much already made the decision for her.
The black men in the comment section are crazy rn😭😭😭
Why are they here ? No man is my preference staying single indefinitely
@ No idea. It’s just a black woman expressing her opinion.
It’s crazy how no other race has wifed you up either after 3 years
she got pumped n dumped by all of them too
You are exactly right in that alot of the negative feelings I feel towards black men actually started with my own father. I always think its the other black men I've encountered & experienced that hurt me, but the first BM I knew hurt me & broke my heart. He terrified me & I still have nightmares about him to this day as a grown adult woman. It is not healthy for me to date or even be around BM at this time. Not healthy spiritually or mentally. It is like a vicious cycle that I keep repeating over and over again.
But not anymore. DIVEST!
The feeling is mutual, BM feel the same way about BW
Get therapy wtf
As an educated, and highly compensated woman, just as your experience has been that many black men want an applause for their education, having their own place etc., many black women expect the same and mention all of that when asked what they bring to table. When truly, most men don’t care about that and that’s not what they are needing “at the table”.
You literally just led with your education 😂😂😂😂😂
@@Wgz945 🤔 I can see this comment clearly went over your head. My comment is directed at the woman who made the video, not a man I want to date. As someone with that background, I’m saying women should not lead with those qualifications when getting to know men, as it may be a nice to have but it’s not a priority.
You missed the whole point @@Wgz945
As a black man, I'm fine with this message. God Speed.
R.i.p the godfather Mr samuels.
He was right all along ,look at these comments 😂
He will be missed.
@@MichaelImonot
@@BreaLaurer *tons
She think she's pretty is wild
Right... many of them are delusional. Ask her to take the makeup off and let's see how confident she is.😂
as a bi woman she is pretty 😭😭😭
@@karen5916as a straight male no she isn’t
@@karen5916you think you being bi means anything 😭
She is very pretty
My white wife cried in my arms last night. She said I've provided her wirh the house, the car, the children, and the life that women dream of. She said her female associates tell her how jealous they are. I added an addition to our 3,900 square feet house for her retired parents. I purchased a 2025 Mercedes for her last month for her birthday. My brother is chocolate like me and he has a white wife that he spoils. We both run a very lucrative trucking company that allows us to spoil them. They have four kids with a 5,000 square foot home. That thing looks like a castle. Our white wives will never have worry about money for the rest of their lives. We are an example of how much Black men can love and provide for their families. I am dark chocolate and off the market.
Cool
The best part about this is, if you pass away all your wealth goes right back to the white community 😂 nah….But I’m with a Latin man who picked me up with I had nothing and now I do everything for him and I just live at peace he doesn’t even want me working unless I want to. We make jokes about our ppl being with white ppl all the time, That’s just the kind of bond we have. I told him if he dies our kids will no longer speak Spanish and my parents would move in . He said that’s fine just make sure my parents don’t go in a nursing home. I said of course not they will forever live with me😢. On a serious note if you’re happy then that’s Good but technically you’re still on the plantation taking care of massa n them 😂
The way you are still under a black woman's comment section after all these years married to your wonderful wife shows you have something to prove and are feeling inadequate. Please stay off and don't bring that insecurity into anyone's else's life.
@@jemiinou I like how he spent this entire paragraph bragging about how he’s building up the whyt community 🤣 still taking good care of massa
@@jemiinou
I'm trying to help other Black men.
Realistically speaking, you did pick the men that you chose to date/associate yourself with; you are what you attract.
No wig and peace that’s all men want
You mean you want to cheat & abuse in peace.
Your demographic loves chaos. Where there is none, you make sure you create it.
And you love fake hair too. The women on your hard drive and the women you marry when you get famous prove it.
No du rags and Jordan's that all we want
💀
@chessecake578 we'll take off the du rags when you guys take off the make up
Ive only dated black guys and went through hell each guy was different from eachother in looks personality everything but it was so much stress right now I’m only attracted to white guys black men no matter how attractive they are they don’t sway me
It's crazy because no matter the black man, it was like they were all the same one. And men are men, so they all have common flaws. But Black ones are really different in the worst way.
Same here girl. I can recognize and admit when a black man looks good or is physically attractive but I feel absolutely ZERO attraction to them after everything I’ve dealt with from black men since childhood. Dating white men is so much more peaceful 👌
*_For the last 45 years, you worshiped and chased cheap poor WW and married a poor LV WW like the one you married and ran after WW single parent for decades 3.5 decades with poor results Patterson*. You actually hate BW bitter because BW took no interest in you. Exactly what she's talking about you never applied yourself to anything to better your life! now you're 70 years old alone with nothing just like she started. *Most BW weren't angry you just didn't want or accomplish anything so we lost respect for you!_*@@LeonaWorldwide
@@LeonaWorldwideI am not black or a woman but I think it is cultural phenomena. And I don't think it applies to all generations or to all guys. I think the biggest problem that afflicts the black community in the US is a culture of nihilistic carelessness. This mentality I have noticed is in stark contrast to the mentality of older generation African Americans. Old black southerners are some of the best people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing, truly God fearing people that live and breathe morality and righteousness. It is not wonder that they produced such great people as the civil rights leaders, many countless musicians, intellectuals, etc. But over the past several decades, there has been a growing culture of carelessness that I believe is driven by a victim mentality narrative often pushed by the media and the political left. Rather than portray people like Ben Carson or Thomas Sowell, they will showcase rappers covered in tattoos and obsessed with the superficial. Rather than push encouragement, they push a sense of being oppressed, and that sense produces a kind of hopeless, nihilistic, carelessness where one thinks "I am oppressed so I can't change my circumstances." The obsession with the superficial and the victim mindset is why I believe hookup culture became so prevalent in the black community and why cheating became more commonplace. Of course not each and every single black guy is like that, but it is a common trend. And it is for these reasons that so many black women seek men of other races or black men from other countries.
It's kind of like how feminism affected white women. It produced an anti traditionalism amongst them that made them view anything traditional as oppressive. Modern feminisms hostility towards men and push to make men and women the same, is in large part why so many white men pursue women from other cultures. Some of those women are black American. They essentially find in each other what they were missing in their respective communities. This is why white man black woman marriages have a lower divorce rate than white man white woman, black man black woman, and black man white woman marriages. Like pieces of a puzzle that fit together.
Yeah saint you're perfect with no flaws it's always the men 😂😂😂
We have heard this story a hundred times
As a black man who almost exclusively dates black women, thank god you don't want to date us. I love that for you❤.
These generalizations are IMMATURE, OLD AND TIRED. 🙄 No matter how many black men you have dated, you haven’t dated ALL. Let’s do better, stop with the black men vs. black women wars and move in a positive direction.
@@LadyK007 thank you for sharing ❤️
If you've watched interviews with sx workers, even the day they don't want to deal with black men. That tells you something.
Yea, its all cap. Why havent any of the foreign men made it official? Why does she never make it past the dating stage?
@@victoriahardin1560 Like destiny hamilton?
@@D13vest I'm not looking to get married. Ever.
Look at all of these bitter, Black man that’s mad and upset in these comments. Lol.😂😂😂 Keep making them mad sis, I stand with you.🤗
Thank you ❤️ There's soooooooooo many of them lmao!!
I can't blame the girls that keep quiet and silently support; it's crazy out here 😟
This woman lives in San Diego...where
Black men dont even date Black women
so what is she talking about?
@@LeonaWorldwide Great discussion to have though. Thanks.
@@malarki5 She's clearly hurt. Show her some grace. Had she stated New Orleans, Baltimore, Philadelphia, Milwaukee, Detroit or Jackson Mississippi it would've raised an eyebrow
I support her too. Sooo many bitter BM, too many to count
Ladies, you don't even need to watch the video because everything she's saying is already familiar-you could practically recite it word for word. Even if you grew up in a remote place like Greenland, barely knowing more than two other Black men besides your dad and maybe an uncle or grandfather, you’d still arrive at the same conclusions and justifications. It’s straightforward and undeniable. I'm so glad to see more Black women waking up and moving past the dissonance that has kept us down for centuries.
Pure eloquence ❤️
Facts I live in the suburbs same self hate with them ...I don't want anything to do with BM
@@akinazara so if a black man doesn't want to date you specifically, it's self hate? LMFAOOOOOO!! 💀
@cactu5jack The majority of BM who date out normally does it based on self hate - divorce rates and oow proves it
@@cactu5jack Move on BM and leave us alone
8:54 people cant be racist against their own people, but they can be hateful, cruel, disgusted, disrespectful, bigoted, discriminatory, prejudice, and mean against their own people.
@@pistolpete992 ah, that's the word I was looking for!
@@LeonaWorldwide u = cart titan from attack on titans
I wish you nothing but the best in your journey. Thankfully the brothers will be able to move forward
@@vcreed79 thank you ❤️
Gaslighting liar
@donthatemeforbeinghonest296 oh I mean it. Go to those other men and be happy. We will be ok without you forever. No need to come back. We wish you well.
@@vcreed79exactly they make video like this for attention 😂 I’m glad other brother are not fighting them telling BS like no queen we can be better 😂😂 let them leave 😂 matter of fact let’s help them pack
😂😂😂 bruh don't waste your time. Many of them are on the spect rum.
Its the extreme insecurities thing. The audacity to say such a thing while having a nest of some other womans hair on her head speaking in her best valley girl voice....You cant make this up!
It's my real hair and my real voice, so no, it's not made up, luv.
despicable. She is gorgeous. Black women have all kind of textured hair. Mine can be seasily straighted if I blow dry it.
@@Iamany.Batuan Just saw this, said the same about you lol!
don’t black men buy those hair patches or whatever it’s called? tory lanez have one…yall lose your hair and hairlines once you hit 30
lol she can rock her hair however she wants and her natural voice doesn’t show any insecurity whatsoever. You’re just an uneducated black man using stereotypes to make your point. PS I’m not white or black.
Ok…. You want a cookie for not dating black men?!?
Not for that reason, specifically. But a cookie would actually be nice.
@@LeonaWorldwide 😵💫🧐 o….k
@@LeonaWorldwideclown
@@LeonaWorldwide
I don't respect black women that don't prefer chocolate men
My husband is Latino, handsome , educated and hard working. Black men are the least employed men in the world and the few successful athletes and rappers all worship white or mixed women. As a dark skinned woman it’s best to date other races if you want a quality man.
right
I absolutely agree. Other groups of men understand their role as a man, except for Black men.
@@chocolateprincess8543 What kingdom are you the princess to chocolate.
@@witchplease9695 you don’t have access to OTHER MEN unless their own women doesn’t want them
If I do dare again it'll be with another non BM
This is a good thing, more bw should think this way. You are saving BM lives in my opinion.
Not to mention, saving us lots of money too.
I agree
Bro black men do so much better without these women. What was god thinking giving us these ladies as help mates? They are basically Invisible to me
I do my part for the community!
@@LeonaWorldwide you're apart of your own community.
Watching this because I used to only date Middle Eastern and North Indian men. I tried going to black and it landed me in my bed sleeping for hours from depression. I'm going back to other races.
I also only date engineers. I am engineer as well though
😮😮😮... I tried with them it lands no where. I'm not interested in dating anyone regardless of race
9k views only 300 likes from other hateful women. I know you want to be UA-cam famous but this not the way. Get counseling and move on from the hate
Just today i met a man from Trinidad who said he refuses to date bw
@@JamaicanToast thank goodness 🙌🏾
@@LeonaWorldwide exactly its a win for both sides 👌🙌
Imagine that, not being the interest of a dirty, diaspora dusty. Just think of all the mud pie dinners we're missing out on.😅😅😅😅😅
@@JamaicanToast Femicide rates for BW say that it's a SUBSTANTIALLY BIGGER win for BW 😅to NOT get chosen by a BM. 🎉🎉
@@JamaicanToast thank god that Becky be taking out the trash
If you don’t date black men anymore why not keep that to yourself, why do you want to make other people take the same route, if you really and truthful were honest about what you were talking about, you would not have a UA-cam channel talking about the same men you claim not to want. Actually you do want them, you are not true to yourself maybe unknowingly to that fact.
This isn't just a preference video this is also a hate video you see glimpses of bitterness and hatred she even discredits the black man who does have his own doing well but if she saw those qualities in another race of men she would acknowledge it her views are bias and somewhat ignorant unresolved Daddy issues as well lets be honest she wouldn't even give the civilized black guy an opportunity which is fine she can date who she please but don't pretend there isn't any hatred for black men we can see it no a black woman can't be racist towards her own but she can be prejudice towards her own she living proof however may she date freely outside our race were not really missing out with this level of hatred better off without her
This was a hate-filled video. There is no question about it.
@llmnr3xp0sed Definitely
She says she has dated 10, so multiply that by 20 . . .
Is this why, factually, black boys fail math at the highest rates? They just create variables.
@@rw2382 yea they are all chores with zero self control. No wonder they lead with stds
Does mean she slept with them all
@@LeonaWorldwidesounds like u have a deep self hatred for not only yourself but prolly your father, uncle n most black men have let u down.. which is a shame… every black man in my family is married and college educated… so obviously my perspective is way opposite of yours but isn’t that proof alone that the truth somewhere in the middle… color is color, just that … all those qualities u named are in every race of man
@LeonaWorldwide girl grow up you like 35 acting like your 15 get put and travel
It’s not race it’s culture.
“”My first girlfriend was black. Every other woman since then has been non American. Black American dating culture is eroding. All of the black women I did give a chance never made it far.
China 🇨🇳 , Russia 🇷🇺 , Lebanon 🇱🇧 . South Africa 🇿🇦 , Turkey 🇹🇷, Netherlands 🇳🇱
(I was also saving myself for marriage when I was with all of those women)
I do get hit on by black women from time to time but usually the ones that approach me have had the worst experiences with men and are completely taken back when they have met me.
I’ve watched some girls burst out crying to know at their age they had never been asked out on dates and so on.
This is all past me now , I’m with my one and only now. She’s Mexican. And the way her family treats me compared to dating while black with other black Americans is night and day.
I get many of your sentiments, just commenting to say it semi mutual. I didn’t go out of my way to not date black women or anything. Simply put- most of the black women I met filtered themselves out before anything could truly form.
Most are immature. They'll be in their 50s and still act like teenagers. After the last thing one did to me I wouldn't touch one. I had one who ruined my reputation, and had everyone believing his lies, lost my job behind it. I rather be alone than trust or date them.
I had an older coworker BM who ruined my reputation on the job also. I didn’t realize that was his intent all along but would lie about it afterwards as he tried to play in my faces. Collectively they despise BW because they are in competition with them since they can’t measure up to competing with other races of men. They absolutely love dragging BWs name/image/reputation thru the mud for filth especially for all to see.
@@iloveoldschool888 sounds like you ran into a classic narcissist-the black ones are some of the worst. thankfully, mine self-destructed while attempting to destroy me.
we not on the internet twerking tho.
Self hate at its finest
Hello Leona,
It seems like you really do or did want to be with a black man in a loving relationship at some point, but unfortunately, your previous relationships didn’t work out. I’m sorry you didn’t find a bm that wanted you or you wanted him.
There’s a lot of negative projections in your vid. Every person irrespective of their race or gender has flaws within their character. Downgrading bm and uplifting other races isn’t a healthy approach. Hope you heal from previous experiences.
You have a self-confessed bad attitude which no man (black, white or other) would want to deal with. Maybe you mask this bad attitude when you’re around other races of men - therefore they treat you better, creating the perception that they are better for you.
BM & BW are beautiful together and individually, as well as in mixed couples.
Respect all people and don’t lose respect for your own.
All the best in your love life.
Ok, one thing we as black women need to consider. We are still producing these men. Not us individually but as a collective. Why are mothers so much nastier to their daughters than to their sons. I think this is the reason for black male entitlement. Let’s love and appreciate our daughters just the same.
I think the patriarchy has done a pretty nasty number on all of society. I attribute most of the gender imbalance and issues to that sick system lol. You are right though!
Yess. Older black women spoil the men in our community, which is why they get away with fucked up behavior.
Wow we lost another one 😂😂😂😂 so sad what will Black Men do without a Black woman like yourself... I wish you the best Sista. Please don't come back if it goes bad.
I'd be welcomed back with open arms lmao. Get real.
@@LeonaWorldwide trust me you won't. We have nothing in common . You're perpetually stuck outside to be concubines or whatever it is you do. Hedonists is all yall are
@@LeonaWorldwide😂😂😂BIH WHERE
@LeonaWorldwide youll be welcomed back as a cum dump
@@LeonaWorldwideso how come u weren’t welcomed with open arms ur entire life… not 1 time did a BM love u enough to act good … n that’s on u cause u couldn’t stop looking at him like ur daddy or brother who don’t seem have much respect and integrity for smh
So this is what y’all women listen to while men are out here , working on themselves , talking about how they plan on making a family and stuff and this I what guys talk about. Really ?
as a single, black 6'4" 225 lb. 39-year-old principal electrical engineer who works out everyday, I agree with a lot of her criticisms in general... but don't get it twisted, some of us waaaay exceed your standards. Now the question is how can you attract us? If anything, all this video did was reinforce to those of us that are "on it" just how much we hold the cards. Thank you!
Every bm i have encountered always treat me mean and dirty. I will never deal with bm again.
28 year old black male attorney here. I received the same treatment from black women. My current fiancé is white/mexican. Go where you desire.
then you are the problem😂😂😂 you attract who you are
@@Ybc_Jayy10oo no personal accountability is showing. if that's being considered a problem, how about being a literal danger to society? you kill who you are in droves.
@@atp4015 Did self-hate fuel your reasoning to partnering with a "White/Mexican"?
I don't mess with BM
I’ve dated every type of man, Indian, whites, Hispanic, Japanese etc… they all proved to me that men will be men regardless of race.. I really think this post was unnecessary😂 as a black Latina, we have black men in the Hispanic communities, Africans, island men etc, you have a tough lesson to learn to stop generalizing because you know that we are also the topic of slander on a daily basis as black women
If you've watched interviews with sx workers, even the day they don't want to deal with black men. That tells you something.
@@victoriahardin1560 damn 😕
As if WM treat them better. Black xes workers barely get paid and do the most disgusting things.
It’s not because they’re not attracted to black men. It’s because black men are the ones pimping. They have the most game. So yeah those 304s gotta stay in pocket. Even their pimps who are 99.9% black post no black men in their ads. Yall be reaching and don’t know what you’re talking about. Anything to spite the black man tho lol
It’s because black men are the pimps. Had nothing to due with them not being attracted to them
Because black men are the P’s that’s why
black men don't and won't date the grinch either so ...
😂😂
You're a mean one...😂😂😂😂
You all are not a prize so who cares.
@DionneJohnson-o3w clearly your weird ass that's why you felt the need to reply under my comment about it 🤡🤡🤡 🖕🏾🖕🏾🖕🏾
What?
This channel is going to blow up. These kieshas can't get enough of bummy brads 😂
@@Defi_Guy_ Darnell... You haven't been here for long. You're just passing through. Most of the women on my channel will exuberantly be single than deal with bummy anything. Please level up, so you don't have time to project silliness in womens' comments.
@@LeonaWorldwidenot Darnell 🤣
I mean that’s all blk women can get. Who else wants them besides Umar, even she said in this video all the Bm she dated are victimhood ones 😂
@@LeonaWorldwidelol yall pay for men cause don't nobody want to keep yall.
@@LeonaWorldwide Most of the women on your channel will exuberantly be single BECAUSE black women ARE & WILL ALWAYS BE the least desirable woman on this planet. Why don't you'll stop talking about dating and focus on MARRIAGE RATES? SMDH
Look at me I don't date black men; I have a job, and I am skinny. I have to tell the world. Please get a life!
*And beautiful, blessed and highly favored 😉
BM didn't just dodge a bullet with this one, they dodged a war zone.
What bullet? She looks like she has her own money
@@ladybird491some change 😂.. which she shod, she’s grown woman with no responsibilities
Your just jealous gtfoh
😢😢😢😢 wow!!! People with this mindset is why we can't build up our community because of tearing our men down because of a few who don't got it together. Gone ahead and see it's NOT greener on the other side sis. Have at it! You'll always have a tug of war within the culture. Have fun! 😂
This woman sounds like she will be alone outside of dating,
I am a black woman, and I love white men👱♂️👱♂️❤❤!! Forever and always ❤️ ❤
Same❤
I'm a Puerto Rican man dating a beautiful, gorgeous, melanated Queen from the US Virgin Islands and we are both very deeply in love with each other. All about values and emotional intelligence which 99% of BM LACK.
Thank you for saving her because BM will ruin BW
Cut it out. Ain't no black men trying to date you. Ain't nobody trying to date you. Black women get angrily triggered. When a black man has standards.
Other races will appreciate a bw and will not see her as competition and also they arent selfish and broke unless they’re a loser like a bm. Plus any little thing can make them feel like less of man and things can turn wild and thats just a huge problem for me
Pretty much!
Other races pick Black women last
and see them as semi-females and
as masculine lol
Ladies, please disregard this black man, @@malarki5, masquerading as a black woman.
Each woman should do what is best for her life vision and goals. As a bw, I prefer not to have race as a factor in my dating. I care about all the other things that people actually have control over.
Much respect , for not falling into this stereotypical point of view
🤣🤣🤣🤣The feelings are absolutely 100% mutual.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣#SYSBM
I ask the people to forgive her for being so blind, ignorant and bias. Common sense exists before books were ever written and published.
I could have freed a thousand more if only they knew they were slaves,”
Harriet Tubman
Aunty Ruckus 😂
girl grow up 😭
Good bc we don’t like hair hats, nagging , unappreciative block women
You go girl ❤❤ you deserve a man who doesn't talk down on you and sees your worth 🎉🎉
Like from a logical stand point woman go where they are appreciated 😊😊
You're pretty❤😊
Thank you! That's really the takeaway here. I appreciate you summing it up so simply lol.
Bye We Black Men are winning around the world with women 😂
Thank god.
You made the best decision. I wish nothing but continued success for you. You will always be successful.
sounds like an accountability issue. no man is without flaw and no group consists of clones. kudos for sharing your truth. hopefully many black women fair better in their dating journey. kudos to the black women who marry healthy black men and raise beautiful black children! 🧡
Why do we black people have to put each other down in front of the world?
Black men hating on black wonen, black women hating on black men .. smh. With us, it's one toxicity after another... if this lady no longer wants to date black men, just go and date white men and keep it moving!
I never understand these black men and women who have to make videos to announce their racial dating preferences. Just live your life...
I’d be so embarrassed if I had to look back on me recording my hate for my race.
As a Black man, the white women have always treated me with the respect I deserve, lowkey worshipped because, they are used to softer men. Black women be calling me " nigga " wayyy too casually, the second they get angry, to me thats an insult, I don't know what a " nigga " means to them, but one thing is for sure, its lesser than what I pride myself on being : A man. Why would anyone take the time out of their day to make a video bashing Black men?? If the last Black male you dated was 3 years ago, why are they still on your mind so deeply? Why are you still so bitter and unhappy? Who hurt you?
this is such a feminine response. i never seen other demographics of men act this way towards women.
lol ‘worshipper’? You need to be humbled because only Jesus should be worshipped sir
This has to be a joke lol. I've been in the gym for 16 years and in every gym I've been to, black women are the rarest demographic.
She was definitely deflecting this is common knowledge bw are not in the gym like that
Gurrrlllaaaa I'm gladddd I found youuuu 👏🏽 because I'm divested unapologetically
And its funny to me BBY you kno the race loyal fake entitled pro Blk
Race loyal Blk ppl tries so hard to gaslight you and try to guilt trip you and bully you out of jealousy n envy because they don't won't no one to have there women but them but BBY I tell them I a be that ill be and ill be a proud bed wennch and i wear it with pride ❤good video im subbing Gurrrtlllll
Girl you're funny lol. But yeah, name calling and shaming aren't effective persuaders for me either, nor should they be to anyone else. Thank you!
@@LeonaWorldwide Young lady I demand you delete this video. The reason I'm asking you to do so is because you're attracting self-hating Black men. I believe their negative comments is subconsciously fueling your hate for us. I'm of the belief you love Black men. However, our underperformance combined with the hate we spew online has been a MAJOR turnoff! We've been a disappointment and have let you down to say the least
Look at you😂 no white man would want to marry you 😭
@@DrUmarJohnson1🤡🤡
Living alone since 22. That’s not a flex that’s an adult…
Exactly.
But you're literally saying as a flex lol
@@happyhogan40 how so…
@@theworkingmanpodcast I was trying to reply to her
Such a shame and I genuinely find you attractive but if that’s your decision good luck and stay safe
Trey... Who are you lol?
What a gentlemen. She is very pretty and hope she finds the happiness she’s looking for, I just don’t like people putting down an entire race based on some experiences. I’ve heard so many racist things about black women and each time I get protective of them because I know not all black women are the same. I do hope she finds happiness. It seems she’s been super hurt. You will find other women who will love you for you, so don’t give up on your search for the right one and be kind and respectful which per this comment it seems that you are if you are like this in all areas. Edit: what I mean by protective is that I get on the person saying those particular comments. I know black women don’t need saving. They are strong on their own.
Thank you sister(I'm a blk man). You are much more reasonable than the majority of them... black men are tired of being disrespected and belittled. I'm all for them finding happiness..., with men of other races. Leave us alone...
26 year old black male dentist here. Many of my black male colleagues are dentists, physicians, pharmacists, engineers. I don’t date black women because they they I only like white women, and think I wasn’t raised around black people. This is literally the first thing black women say to me. I did attend PWIs my whole life and played D1 football at a top 25 university. My gf is white and I love life.
🤣🤣🤣 So those women were right. Black women are usually right when they make an anaylisis.
@neutraliserjanine I preferred to date black women when I was younger, but everytime I tried, they stated I look like I wasn't raised around black people and that i look like I only date white women. And this was when I first met them. I speak properly and have a respectful career. Since this happened multiple times, I simply gave up on black women.🤷🏿♂️
@Dr.GD4 They were right. Your problem is that you think people can't read you just by looking at you and listening to your words. Not your voice. Your words. Most blkwomen are educated. This is in statistics. You're one of those people who falsely accuse those women of not liking "good" men who speak proper English or like "pookies" and "rays rays" when you are only referring to women who are of the hip hop genre as if blkwomen in academics and research (the biggest group of women nerds), corporate, journalism, politics and medical fields dont exist although everyone in the world know we exist.
@@Dr.GD4That's great. I know black women like you, who don't date black men. So everyone's happy. 🙏🏿
@@Coco-uk9tvI'm not a black woman.🤦🏿♂️😂
Leona, I haven’t finished watching the video yet but so far (I’m at the part where you’re critiquing the femininity of Black men). you have not lied. And with that said, I think you should take this down. Not because it’s inaccurate, but bc it makes you look bad. I am in support of you as a Black woman, which is why I’m thinking about what’s best for you in the long term and your relationship options. This video (with your face on display) could hurt you in the future and I want better for you. You do deserve better options.
We don't care
you're done
Sadly the collective is seeing it as competition and is jealous envious Hateful 😂and crg about if on panels lives etc etc 😂
If black men can do then you can too🤷🏽♀️ i don’t blame you one bit
They probably feel the same way about you too!
@@brianprice4820 Duh! Did you even bother watching the video? I addressed this in the intro.
We do
3yrs of dating "others," are you engaged yet?
@@MrMeToo-fh7pe No. I date for fun. Not marriage.
@LeonaWorldwide interesting... in my small squared circle, it's considered immoral and quite disrespectful for a woman to date for fun without being adequately compensated or guided.
Be careful out there(charity)
@MrMeToo-fh7pe She likes being passed around and thinks saying I refuse to date her own kind is somehow gonna elevate her status in society 😄. These keishas are so deranged and deluded from reality they truly want to be Ms. Ann.
@LeonaWorldwide AKA none of the men liked you enough to really consider you for marriage. Stop the cap part because every one knows that if a man offered to marry you, you would jump so over it instead of slandering men on UA-cam. Cut it out because us wise ones see right through it. As-salaamu alaikum.
@@LeonaWorldwide They don't want to marry you 😂. Women choose access to fun and men choose who they marry.
Eh I don't believe you
I feel like ur just upset bcuz black men are tired of y'all n you think this vid will get u revenge.
Black men have moved on and ur salty over it
Ppl often confuse an absent father with having a father wound I would love to see you voice how you manage and care for your mental health on a daily basis.
Black men.. Dont come here to comment just leave her alone like she wants to be left alone
We don’t care keisha 😂😂😂
@@ibrahimahmed1810 thank you for sharing ManMan.
@@LeonaWorldwideif it ain’t showing I ain’t going
You do cause your watching
@@LeonaWorldwide LMAO
Yes you do!
Ladies... What are your thoughts on this topic? I'm taking a pulse check.
RIP to my comments if black men find this video. We've learned before that hit dogs gon holler!
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Blk women like you are why I support the guy Sonya Moses case. Yall are bad people.
I don’t date you or acknowledge u
I realized that Black women and black men are just culturally different. We have different things that we value and we don't share the same interests. Think about what black women like/love. We like marriage, children, education, and community. Black men statistically don't like any of that.
Also, I'm a thin black woman and they seem to like larger women. This is just my observation. When you're fit they don't know what to do with that.
We don't have anything in common with them except skin tone and speaking of skin tone, most of them prefer women with lighter skin tones.
I don't dislike them, but Im not crazy about them either, I just think they might not be the best choice for a romantic partner. At best they can make decent friends, if you want to hang but not for a real relationship. Plus, I've seen the way they act around Latina women and trust and believe that's who they really want. I've seen them literally fall out over looking at the most basic looking Latina women I have ever seen in my life. That's how you know what women they prefer.
I've had better experiences with light skin black men who are typically more educated but still I believe black men and black women are culturally different.
@@9darshana your first paragraph made me laugh, but I know you're so serious lol.
Your experience is so interesting. Idk how much they like big women vs that's who will deal with them. So many layers to pull back and explore. Thank you for sharing ❤️
@@9darshanawe have nothing in common with black women. Yall are delusional and frankly disgusting now.
2:16 Status isnt everything. It isnt worth abandoning a culture and being mean on the way out.
@@pistolpete992 this video is quite light work. I wouldn't consider it mean.
@@LeonaWorldwide that’s because you’re the distributor and not the receiver of the message. Mean people always say that they’re not being mean when they are being mean. It’s just classic gaslighting.
I take it that our date is off this weekend then Leona 😂
But seriously some really generalised statements there which I'm surprised coming from an educated woman.
Okay you don't like black men I can tell by the way you are talking you probably don't like black people full stop you don't come across as someone who has not socialised much with black people full stop am I right in saying this it's just an observation by some of your statements .
I mean come on never seen a black man in a gym , black men from what I see even when they have nothing else look after themselves better than any race of man . take a black man in his 50's then take a white man in his 50's an tell me who doesn't look after themselves .
It's all good now honey but you wait until he starts getting wrinkly and old and you still looking young lol I really do worry for the mixed up kids you are going to produce also mixed race children that hate their blackness you seem to despise us.
Look at the end of the day sis that is your choice people need to do what makes them happy life is too short I say good luck to you with your white men and hope they will make you happy
By the way I noticing that there is a uncanny resemblance with you to Arsenio Hall.
Does anyone else see this ?
Good luck ma'am. Go to wherever makes you feel appreciated. I've been dating a woman outside of this race for 5 years and it's the best decision I've ever made. Kudos to you 💯