Wedding Days: Best Moments, Biggest Regrets, and What We Wish We Knew Before Tying the Knot | Ep. 16

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  • Love is in the air this episode!! We share all the deets from our wedding days… and wedding nights 😳we talk about what we would have done differently if we had it to do over again.. so if you’re a bride to be, make sure to learn from our mistakes lol. We also give a little sneak peak of who to expect on the pod in the future so stay tuned for some exciting guests!! Please leave us a review wherever you listen to the podcast and thanks so much for listening! We love you guys!!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 396

  • @user-zo6sf1wr5f
    @user-zo6sf1wr5f Місяць тому +75

    The rude comments disgust me. These two ladies are sharing their friendship/ relationships with us through stories and giggles. The fact that people feel the need to comment on someone touching their hair chewing gum their clothes looking pregnant or the way they talk with each other is beyond. Just be kind!

    • @darlabingham6023
      @darlabingham6023 Місяць тому +3

      Who looks Pregnant 😅 ??

    • @IMOGEN482
      @IMOGEN482 Місяць тому +2

      Who cares about your opinion

    • @amymac41890
      @amymac41890 Місяць тому

      @@darlabingham6023nobody looks pregnant! Who said that? Weird, huh?

    • @darlabingham6023
      @darlabingham6023 Місяць тому +1

      Someone said it in a comment.

    • @darlabingham6023
      @darlabingham6023 Місяць тому +1

      That's why I said ,, Who looks Pregnant. I was kind of disagreeing with that person who had posted it.

  • @missy6399
    @missy6399 Місяць тому +120

    You girls should have the boys on so we can hear their wedding day story. I think it would be awesome to get both sides of that day.
    Love you girls ❤

  • @mansquatch2260
    @mansquatch2260 Місяць тому +38

    When I got married in 2009 my wife was so excited that she was squeezing my hand nearly to the point of breaking (not really, but it felt like that). When the minister started to ask her if she would take me as her husband, she jumped ahead and said, "I DO!!!".
    The best part of weddings can sometimes be the things that don't go as planned.

  • @laurenhinman8861
    @laurenhinman8861 Місяць тому +178

    Just curious why you girls tip toe around identifying your religion. You seem to be very intentional to not say Mormon or LDS as if we don’t all (or most) already know what religion you’re referring to. Is it bc you are no longer a part of the church? If so, that’s something I’d love to hear y’all talk about. But if you’re still a part of the church, why do you guard it? Obviously, you don’t owe any of us any private information you aren’t comfortable sharing. I totally respect that. Just thought in case you were open to sharing, I’d let you know I’d be interested in hearing your stories.😊

    • @robinberrett1530
      @robinberrett1530 Місяць тому +10

      yes I would like to know as well as I noticed no garmets on Lo.

    • @sydneyhadfield807
      @sydneyhadfield807 Місяць тому +20

      always referring to it as the church “we grew up in” suggests to me they’re no longer active

    • @LWaite999
      @LWaite999 Місяць тому +12

      It's their lives they get to choose what to share.

    • @laurenhinman8861
      @laurenhinman8861 Місяць тому +21

      @@LWaite999 Of course it is!!💯 And that’s exactly what I said. However, if they are open to sharing, I see no problem with letting them know that I’d be interested to hear their story. There’s no demand. And even if I had, they aren’t required to divulge anything they aren’t comfortable with, so it’d be a moot point. But since they are publicly sharing their lives, I see ZERO problem with politely, respectfully inquiring. If you read something else, that’s on you.

    • @cherylbleyl1924
      @cherylbleyl1924 Місяць тому +8

      @@robinberrett1530 neither one ever wears their garments. Look at how they dress - there is no way they can wear them

  • @camilapc5669
    @camilapc5669 Місяць тому +261

    I think it’s important that you guys make the distinction between Utah culture and “church culture.” Personally, I don’t thing there’s such thing as “church culture.” I’m originally from Chile (I’m also a Latter Day Saint) and the pressure of getting married at such young age does not exist over there. People get married at around 28-30 and, as far as I know, this is also something common in South America/Central America countries. Our leaders in the church recommend us to get to know our partners very well before getting married and are against rushing into it. I just consider this important to clarify as a way to prevent ignorant comments about “crazy Mormons” or “Mormonism.”

    • @kaylabruner1045
      @kaylabruner1045 Місяць тому +19

      This is very interesting! Thank you for sharing!!

    • @savannahstace101
      @savannahstace101 Місяць тому +33

      I’m from Utah and church culture is the same as Utah culture here because most of the state is Mormon and influenced by the church.

    • @ristopherobbins
      @ristopherobbins Місяць тому +28

      Church culture is Utah culture. Once you reprogram and deconstruct the Mormon religion you can see how much it influences just living here. It takes getting out of the cult to see how much it’s a part of everything here 😅 I too once thought there was a difference and it’s not meant to be derogatory. There’s just a lot of manipulation and shame that’s perpetuated through a lense of righteousness or “good morals”. Anyways.
      Who knew Emma smith was Joseph smiths 22nd wife sealed to him? Not me😅

    • @laurenskee2665
      @laurenskee2665 Місяць тому +13

      It's not ignorance if it's facts.

    • @user-yr6wg9tp6k
      @user-yr6wg9tp6k Місяць тому +21

      Listening to the podcast, to me the "pressure" comes from the expectation to not have sex until marriage. So it is more the couple themselves not wanting to wait several years to not have sex. Because like Sarah said, her parents were a little shocked she wanted to get married at 19. I'm Christian, not Mormon but the same belief of waiting until marriage exists which causes a lot of couples to get married sooner rather than later.

  • @user-jj7qt2vw6n
    @user-jj7qt2vw6n Місяць тому +140

    I would love to hear a podcast on your religion! I’m Christian but I love learning about different beliefs! Love you guys

    • @emmakick6352
      @emmakick6352 Місяць тому +8

      Same here!!!

    • @conchitacolez
      @conchitacolez Місяць тому +13

      Since they don't even say "Mormon" or "Latter Day Saints" or "LDS", I doubt they will actually wade into the "unique" theology of their faith. I also see this trend, of just saying church, with other influencers who are Mormon. I understand their church gives them guidelines and talking points and this is coming from church leadership.

    • @sweetsapphiresunseed
      @sweetsapphiresunseed Місяць тому +4

      I've heard their UA-cam videos on it its interesting. All I could find out about the book of Mormon is something about Jesus coming to America. I truly saw a bunch of different stories but that one was consistent.

    • @shionajoseph3248
      @shionajoseph3248 Місяць тому +5

      They said they won’t talk about politics or religion

    • @meganderry3985
      @meganderry3985 Місяць тому +1

      @@conchitacolezno one gives talking points- but there are some many stereo types and most of them are half truths. There’s so much hatred online for LDS members so can you blame them?

  • @kathyjohnson5097
    @kathyjohnson5097 Місяць тому +27

    The ONE thing I would have changed for my wedding was to let my husband buy the top hat. It was $200, and I said it was too expensive. He's been gone 20 years now, and I wish our wedding pics would have had him in a top hat. Our cake topper groom had a top hat, precious moments. I regret being "cheap" for just $200

  • @wanderandwonder5717
    @wanderandwonder5717 Місяць тому +35

    Sarah great job on the questions asking lo during her wedding story! You asked what we all wanted to know.

  • @simirasnannie
    @simirasnannie Місяць тому +12

    My hubby and I will celebrate 38 years of marriage this year. I get up every morning at 4 AM and make him a smoothie before he goes to work. He’d be bummed if I’d only done that for a week😂😂😂😂😂 Y’all are so cute! You two and Tanner and Derek. God Bless You and all your little Sweethearts!!

  • @cld2378
    @cld2378 Місяць тому +6

    Y'alls podcasts have made me go back and watch y'alls UA-cam videos to remember...my two faves are D&S going home for Christmas when Jack was new.... And T&L celebrating Ts birthday and i also loved D&S going puttputt with Ds parents and sisters while asking questions to Ds parents. And...love anything where L&S get the laugh attacks. You two are so blessed to have each other and yalls families. God bless

  • @pointblankperiod8310
    @pointblankperiod8310 Місяць тому +41

    Wow, i had tears in my eyes when I heard Lo say the Temple wouldn't allow her father in to see her get married?!?!? I dont know much about religions (especially theirs) but I know if a church ever told me my father was not allowed in because he didn't follow the religion or because he didn't go to church, Id tell them to kiss off and I would get married somewhere that accepts everyone....I'm truly sad for her and her father😢

    • @Sunflowers36
      @Sunflowers36 Місяць тому +18

      Exactly! Such a cult.😢

    • @deannazampa5286
      @deannazampa5286 Місяць тому +8

      My mom couldn’t see her grand daughter get married. Had to wait in another room So sad.

    • @A2Caz
      @A2Caz Місяць тому +10

      Hi! As a member myself, I appreciate the empathy you’re showing for the situation. In the LDS faith, temple weddings are considered sacred ceremonies where certain standards are upheld. This is because in our faith, temples are revered as the most sacred places, dedicated as houses of God where ordinances like sealings take place. To witness a live sealing, individuals must be endowed members, having made sacred covenants with God and received specific instruction. This requirement reflects the belief in the sanctity of the temple and the importance of spiritual preparation. It's not about exclusion but ensuring reverence for these ordinances. Ultimately, the goal is for all God's children to enter His temple, but certain standards are believed necessary for receiving the highest blessings, and we need to be taught and prepared for these before being ready to receive them, including sealing families together for eternity, aligning with our belief in eternal progression and joy. It’s not about excluding anyone but rather about maintaining the sanctity of the ceremony. Heavenly Father wants all His children there. Hope this helps understand it a bit more. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask! 🤍

    • @I.pray.to.George.Carlin
      @I.pray.to.George.Carlin Місяць тому +13

      ​@@A2Cazthat's still wild that a mother or father of a bride couldn't attend. I'm catholic but not everyone has to be a practicing Catholic to attend a wedding. Such cult vibes the LDS

    • @A2Caz
      @A2Caz Місяць тому +3

      @@I.pray.to.George.Carlin I have lots of family members who are catholic and I understand your perspective. It's true that different religions have varying practices regarding wedding ceremonies. In our faith, temple weddings are deeply rooted in our beliefs about eternal families and the sanctity of the temple. While it may seem restrictive, it's important to understand that temples are considered sacred spaces, and certain standards are upheld to maintain the reverence of these ceremonies. It's not about excluding loved ones but about upholding the sacredness of the occasion. I would appreciate your openness to learn more about different beliefs, and respect towards other Christian churches especially as a Christian yourself. Lots of love.

  • @emilybrookharrison7562
    @emilybrookharrison7562 Місяць тому +71

    Show wedding pictures next time, first looks pictures as well 👍 that would have help us picture what your talking about and bring us in more

    • @Azkaaism
      @Azkaaism Місяць тому +6

      Exactly i was thinking of the same it would have been great if they shared pictures as well.

    • @taylourreed5560
      @taylourreed5560 Місяць тому +2

      If they’re Mormon then they’re not allowed to show pictures

    • @emilybrookharrison7562
      @emilybrookharrison7562 Місяць тому +5

      @@taylourreed5560 they have a podcast and UA-cam channel how can they not show pictures? UA-cam is pictures

    • @taylourreed5560
      @taylourreed5560 Місяць тому +3

      Look it up. Mormons are not allowed to show pictures of their wedding.

    • @paulasowards8549
      @paulasowards8549 18 днів тому

      @@taylourreed5560 the pictures that are taken are able to be shown! You can’t take pictures in the temple but outside the temple is VERY common! Most people do a first look too that are shareable and several keep pictures up in their homes. I don’t think first look was as common when they got married however :/

  • @deemarie5054
    @deemarie5054 Місяць тому +4

    I tell you, the two of you have my heart❤. I love all your stories and I want to thank you for all the wonderful smiles and laughter you bring me😊. I don’t comment hardly at all but I felt I needed to this time. Always stay true! Love watching your podcast and both your family videos! 😊❤

  • @jenfehr1
    @jenfehr1 Місяць тому +8

    Wooooo hooooo!! I’m excited to listen!! You two and your families bring my soul so much joy. 💗

  • @tamarakoehn6305
    @tamarakoehn6305 15 днів тому +1

    Oh my goodness! My husband and I went to an all inclusive resort in Puerto Vallarta! I think it was The Occidental. Such good memories! 2005. Since then it's been torn down and they built a new resort hotel. We swam with dolphins, went zip lining, rented a jet ski, went para sailing, lots of beach time. We also had waited until the honeymoon for any intimacy. Not even holding hands until after the wedding. We discovered everything in Puerto Vallarta. 😊 My most awesome after- the- first- time memory was looking out at a gorgeous sunset and seeing the pirate ship silhouetted against that gorgeous sunset, and hearing the boom of it's cannon. We had such a good view from our window! The most wonderful memories!

  • @faithclifford5893
    @faithclifford5893 20 днів тому

    Your honesty is so refreshing. You both have done very well. It's not always easy. Just take care of your family and yourselves.

  • @barbarap8580
    @barbarap8580 Місяць тому +9

    Sarah is talking on top of Lo so much. 😮

  • @anisazaha
    @anisazaha Місяць тому +2

    Loved this vid! I would love to see a podcast of you guys talking about marriage, advice, personal experiences etc…
    I know for a fact a lot of people go through marital problems and feel alone. I would totally love to see this type of video from you guys just kind of sharing advice and your perspective on marriage ❤

  • @iknowlinda
    @iknowlinda Місяць тому +20

    I highly recommend that you all question many of the strange and arbitrary rules of your religion. It seems a little odd to me that the rules can be changed when convenient for the church. When you step back and look at some of the rules, they don't make any sense in the first place. All I'm really saying is that it's a good idea to question everything, and then think for yourself.

  • @Louisescarr1972
    @Louisescarr1972 Місяць тому +9

    Love this pod. I've been married for 31 years this month i actually got married 3 weeks after my 21st birthday and 3 days before my best friends 21st birthday. was engaged for 2 years beforehand but he had a car so we didn't wait until we were married lol
    We had our wedding videoed but it's now so faded with being watched we had it made into a dvd we don't watch it anymore as there's so many special people on it that's sadly no longer with us and it gets too upsetting. Sending love from Northumberland UK

  • @jill7717
    @jill7717 Місяць тому +7

    A lot of young people from my country (in Europe) go to like an island of Spain, or island of greece or to a part of Italy and make sure that the flights are not to expensive. Rent a big house so everybody can stay over (and in Italy I had a massive mansion but on that ranch there was also a small “grandparents” house a little further on the ranch so the kids and grandparents could sleep their, so the noise did not wake them 😂 and then there was a “club” house/building at the ocean where we partied 3 days with everybody 24/7 and everybody could do everything they liked! And I’ve you go for 4/5 days don’t get married on the 1st or 2nd day! Do it on the 3th day! Day 1 everybody arrives and it is sweatpants day 😂😊 and a buffet from 4till 8, relax at the pool, everybody get to talk and meet each other, day 2 lunch all together at a big table at the ocean! At night a rehearsal diner 😉 day 3 wedding day! And day 4/5 relax day!!! Best experience ever!!! And in Europe you have so many of those kind of accommodations!

  • @ambernicole1734
    @ambernicole1734 Місяць тому +5

    Yall should definitely have 10 year Anniversary vows and ring exchange for all that you want there. So very happy for both of you as well as for your awesome families. Sending much love and many blessings your way from me n my fam in NC❤

  • @hstar2946
    @hstar2946 Місяць тому +3

    So great to hear these lovely stories ladies! I for one would have loved to see some of the pictures!! Such beautiful memories and I’m trying to picture your dresses in my mind but it’s so hard!! I’m sure you both were absolutely stunning brides!

  • @justted8554
    @justted8554 Місяць тому +1

    Y’all are getting better and better every episode!

  • @monicaalvarez5696
    @monicaalvarez5696 22 дні тому +1

    Your stories are so interesting and different from my own! I wonder what my life would’ve been like if I was expected to wait until marriage. I met my husband when I was 20, both in college, living at home. We dated on and off (mostly on) for 7 years before he finally proposed, and got married before I turned 29. Had my first baby the following year. By then, we were already well into our careers, had purchased our first home, went on amazing vacations while we were still young. And now our lives revolve around our home life, kids & animals. We did all the fun stuff before settling down. I really don’t think we would still be together (it’s been 24 years) if we hadn’t had that time of just the 2 of us to grow up and become the people we are now.

  • @sabrinafantini9974
    @sabrinafantini9974 Місяць тому +89

    Mormonism is WILDDDD

    • @stephlcase
      @stephlcase Місяць тому +17

      I wish they would talk more about it! It's crazy and interesting

    • @kylierussell0207
      @kylierussell0207 Місяць тому +23

      As an exmo hearing their stories about their weddings made me sad. 😞 very relatable. You gotta play by the rules, not necessarily what you want.

    • @Rst98763
      @Rst98763 Місяць тому +20

      They also rarely say the name lol it’s always “our religion,” like they don’t want to isolate their fan base by saying it. I wish they would do an episode of things they do/do not agree with about Mormonism. For example, I know Sarah supports LGBTQ people and I thought it was cool that she briefly made that distinction about herself so publicly when talking about her brother. Religious people are nuanced whether others like it or not and I think it’s ok for them to lean into that. There’s also a large history of racism and white supremacy in the Mormon church and I wish they would denounce that as well as some other things that are objectively problematic, because they have such a large platform. It makes me wonder what they do or do not believe and I think if you are keeping things intentionally ambiguous then you are more concerned about losing followers than following a religion. And what does that say about that religion?

    • @Juli-ge4yp
      @Juli-ge4yp Місяць тому +7

      ​@Rst98763 I'm not sure that they're being ambiguous about their religion. I just didn't think that was the direction they wanted this collaboration to go.

    • @Rst98763
      @Rst98763 Місяць тому +2

      Yeah I get that this wasn’t the time to get into it and it’s their choice regardless but I think this about a lot of their other content too

  • @notenoughrope
    @notenoughrope Місяць тому +14

    Worthy?!..The Mormon faith is wrong on so many levels!

    • @jenc3259
      @jenc3259 Місяць тому +3

      You misspelled cult. 😂

    • @notenoughrope
      @notenoughrope Місяць тому

      @@jenc3259 😂😂🤣

    • @paytonhaws
      @paytonhaws Місяць тому +2

      My UA-cam channel is all about my experiences as a Utah mom in the Mormon church & then leaving 🥰

    • @shmuberthadouken
      @shmuberthadouken День тому

      Yeah the temple is considered a sacred place and you have to a whole interview with your bishop to get you recommend that lasts like a couple years before you get it renewed again

  • @chillin.like.a.villain3357
    @chillin.like.a.villain3357 Місяць тому +2

    Love this podcast! Perfect mix, light hearted fun and trauma lol ❤

  • @sarahd.9865
    @sarahd.9865 Місяць тому +2

    I love hearing you guys talk❤

  • @GSCORH
    @GSCORH Місяць тому +2

    I was literally wheezing laughing while driving by myself listening to this!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @samanthalloyd85
    @samanthalloyd85 Місяць тому +3

    I got engaged 2 days before my 20th birthday back in 2005 , got a little girl, moved into our first proper home , fell pregnant , had my son in 2008, aged 23, got married 2009 aged 24 , coming up for 15 years in august

  • @maliasmith3927
    @maliasmith3927 Місяць тому +1

    Such a tender gift.💖💞 thanks for being a happy place.

  • @cebuyond
    @cebuyond Місяць тому +5

    Love that tip Lo! My friend thanked me for getting a video of her walking down the aisle on my phone. She said days later after the wedding it was the first time she saw a vid of her walking down the aisle. Of course I did it discreetly.

  • @shellzzabat5950
    @shellzzabat5950 Місяць тому +6

    Totally do the vow renewal with a ring ceremony for friends and family that couldn't be at the Temple Marriage Ceremony.

  • @alexatucker611
    @alexatucker611 Місяць тому +1

    It will be so cool to hear both of your stories about going from wedding photographer and videographer to where you are now! What was it like, moving your lives online? I think it will be inspiring to hear how you made and handled the transition😁

  • @madisonbessonny1225
    @madisonbessonny1225 Місяць тому +4

    I love the podcast! It would be so great if you guys would share photos (either on social media or included in the videos) of the things you mention when talking about things like your wedding dresses, fun times in your life, etc!

    • @monicaalvarez5696
      @monicaalvarez5696 22 дні тому

      Yes! It would be so nice if they edit their videos with pictures.

  • @mickiejonesy1712
    @mickiejonesy1712 Місяць тому +1

    Love your wedding stories! Great podcast, always! 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

  • @Adri-oj3yt
    @Adri-oj3yt Місяць тому +19

    These two, Lo and Sarah, they are just freaking beautiful ❤.

  • @Sunflowers36
    @Sunflowers36 Місяць тому +22

    Who is not “worthy” to enter the temple??? I’m sorry, but I wouldn’t get married in a place where my dad was not welcome to walk me down the aisle.

  • @Loveydo4u
    @Loveydo4u Місяць тому +8

    Thanks for sharing your experiences but I wish you would have posted some pictures of your weddings at the end. ❤️

  • @hiitsrea
    @hiitsrea Місяць тому +27

    You guys should get a couple plants to be in between you both 😊 and maybe some photo frames of you with your families/together on the wall!

  • @marissasmith9231
    @marissasmith9231 Місяць тому +4

    I need an entire redo for my wedding! It was the middle of COVID, I broke my foot 6 days before, surgery 4 days before. I was so drugged up on pain killers that day… I just wanted to get it over and go home!

  • @Julia_8605
    @Julia_8605 Місяць тому +3

    That 🎶Ricola🎶 at the beginning tripped me out so hard, as it sounded so German😂👍❤

  • @alejandramesajaramillo8663
    @alejandramesajaramillo8663 Місяць тому +3

    I do enjoy watching your perspective of live. You guys live such a different life. I've lived in South America, Europe and Australia. And there is already such a contrast and difference in cultures and communities in those continents. However, I hadn't encounter people still living like society used to live 2-3 generations ago.
    You guys sound like you are living in an old fashion-modern patriarchy, following so many peer pressure rules, avoiding frowned upon (by your society) situations. It is interesting. Most of the places I've lived in couples live together and have physical relationships before getting married to see if they are the right fit for each other. They get to test ride the relationship and to explore and experience different versions of themselves before committing for life and enjoy kid-free life a bit longer to gain maturity to raise children. (Mainly in Europe and Australia).
    When I hear you guys talking, I hear a 20 something old version of my mum and how she saw the world in the 70's. It is fascinating!

  • @sngray11
    @sngray11 Місяць тому +1

    Replay crew! 🫶🏽 Thank you for sharing your wedding experiences with all of us. 💞

  • @kimmieconway8038
    @kimmieconway8038 Місяць тому +1

    I just got married this past Saturday, so hearing your experiences and now having my own experiences was perfect!

    • @liz4799
      @liz4799 Місяць тому

      Congratulations

  • @M_leiva06
    @M_leiva06 Місяць тому +6

    I would love to hear more about your religion and what you have adopted to carry on for your own children and what you don’t want to incorporate for your children ❤

    • @paytonhaws
      @paytonhaws Місяць тому

      My UA-cam channel is all about my experiences as an Utah mom in the Mormon church & then leaving. This video idea is actually on my list! I’ll film it soon now that I’ve seen a comment interested in this! I hope you check it out! 🥰

  • @cindiallain8542
    @cindiallain8542 Місяць тому

    I really enjoy your podcasts. It’s always and funny. Thank you.

  • @haruhianderson4019
    @haruhianderson4019 Місяць тому +24

    There’s a lot which is mentioned but not explained in this, that people outside of their culture don’t understand: why didn’t you walk down the aisle? What was the wedding ceremony like then? You went outside for your wedding night? What was your sister and mother setting up outside?

    • @TheChesireKat
      @TheChesireKat Місяць тому +1

      marriage in the LDS temple is not like a traditional marriage ceremony. it's supposed to be kept private what happens inside the temple so they aren't really supposed to explain it.
      but the ceremony is different, you can look it up on UA-cam or google. there is no walking down an aisle. they also don't wear traditional wedding clothes for the temple ceremony. it's interesting, look it up.
      they had a reception after the wedding which was held outside. mom and sister set up the reception outdoors for them so they only had to show up. at the reception there is usually some finger foods, cake and a cake cutting with the bride and groom, then dancing and music with family and friends. it's a way to celebrate the marriage. not all receptions are outdoors. many are held at a church or in a rented venue.

    • @h3tur
      @h3tur Місяць тому +5

      i suggest you watch alyssa grenfell’s video on lds weddings if you’re interested on specifics :)

  • @sidneyscameraroll586
    @sidneyscameraroll586 Місяць тому +2

    My husband and I did a first dance, and also a last dance where it was just us two and all the guests had gone outside. Our last dance song was Tenerife Sea!!

  • @isingsingsing
    @isingsingsing Місяць тому +2

    I would love to hear a podcast on stories of how other people met their SO or spouse! That would be so cute!

    • @sngray11
      @sngray11 Місяць тому

      That would be awesome! 💗

  • @marcelarice3025
    @marcelarice3025 Місяць тому +1

    I love you two together. I don't care how Sara keeps talking over Loe.

  • @lisabennett2490
    @lisabennett2490 Місяць тому +9

    I could never have my Wedding without my Dad. I’d have changed the whole situation around. My Dad was everything to me. My Best Friend!

  • @NiiCanDo
    @NiiCanDo Місяць тому +3

    Lo! Maybe do a renewal of your vows… me typing this at 12:30 then hearing Sarah lmao I concur you both should!!!

  • @patriziainessi9279
    @patriziainessi9279 Місяць тому

    These wedding stories are awesome ! It is like being in a fairy tail! In Italy, young generations became so out of love with marriages

  • @user-sf4wq6mz5v
    @user-sf4wq6mz5v Місяць тому +21

    It is far more than just being worthy or unworthy in order to enter the temple.
    It is about wanting to make deep, sacred covenants - understanding why and then making those choices that will allow you to be inside.
    A lot of people are not ready for that step and that is ok too.

    • @ristopherobbins
      @ristopherobbins Місяць тому

      That’s what’s you’ve been told. But you’ve been groomed.
      Emma smith was the 22nd wife sealed to Joseph smith. And this is before d&c 132. Also you have to practice polygamy in heaven. 😅
      It is just about control and being “worthy” is a form of control. Jesus loves everyone.

    • @alibellep
      @alibellep Місяць тому +5

      Sarah literally boiled it down to worthiness and just left it at that. I wish they had explained temples better since it really is about the sacredness of the temple. I feel like them trying to not talk about their religion but still talking about it without explaining temples, modesty, the difference between Utah culture and actual church doctrine really gives a bad look to the church and honestly confirms a lot of peoples views of the church.

    • @user-sf4wq6mz5v
      @user-sf4wq6mz5v Місяць тому +4

      @@alibellep I think if they felt / understood it at that level they probably would have shared it but, I think most young people see it as simply a “judgment” and rules that must be kept / followed in order to get married in the temple.
      I do hope and 🙏🏻 that IF they ever choose to speak about the church that it will be fair and respectfully done.

    • @alibellep
      @alibellep Місяць тому

      @@user-sf4wq6mz5v yeah I totally agree!

  • @LWaite999
    @LWaite999 Місяць тому +1

    Congratulations ❤❤❤❤

  • @foreverrnicolee
    @foreverrnicolee Місяць тому +3

    Will you guys post some wedding photos on the Fairly Odd insta?? Would love to see! Also would love to hear the horror stories from weddings you worked!

  • @deVrieco
    @deVrieco 25 днів тому

    The virgin moment. Lmfao. And the way you guys laughed. ❤

  • @Iviematthews_
    @Iviematthews_ Місяць тому +7

    Not me going to Asos to look at their wedding dresses, haha! I'm married but I honestly wish I had done that, lol.

  • @hh987ish
    @hh987ish 26 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂 love hearing your stories!!!! Sooooo fun. Utah girl here.

  • @valeriefowler2594
    @valeriefowler2594 Місяць тому +4

    Still married 47 years it’s great 👍

  • @melissathomas7402
    @melissathomas7402 26 днів тому

    I'm dying when Lo said "I questioned if I was still a virgin!"😂😂

  • @Brittney923
    @Brittney923 Місяць тому +6

    I’ve never been here this early ❤

  • @jodil1209
    @jodil1209 Місяць тому +1

    Sarah, where did you find that pinkish blanket? It is so cute and looks cozy.

  • @ashleym1565
    @ashleym1565 Місяць тому

    1:29 I definitely have one floating around in my bag!

  • @laurenskee2665
    @laurenskee2665 Місяць тому +10

    Im sorry, i think its really odd that the church told you your friends and father couldnt come and you didnt question it.

    • @jenc3259
      @jenc3259 Місяць тому +4

      Screams CULT!!!

    • @shmuberthadouken
      @shmuberthadouken День тому

      Its because the temple is viewed as a scared place and idk why everyone thinks that people in this church dont question stuff like obviously we dont just do whatever they say with no questions

  • @christinawrobel4869
    @christinawrobel4869 Місяць тому +2

    What do brides wear for temple weddings?

  • @user-ns1st9rp4c
    @user-ns1st9rp4c 18 днів тому +1

    Does sarah even hav a mic for the podcast bcz apparently it js invisible for me only

  • @kristinaarp9144
    @kristinaarp9144 Місяць тому +1

    As someone who does not dance, a dance party sounds mortifying. 😂😂

  • @hayleeclayton6919
    @hayleeclayton6919 Місяць тому

    You guys should post your wedding videos so we can visually see everything you guys talked about!

  • @Beckymadden30
    @Beckymadden30 Місяць тому

    One thing that I’d change was the weather we live in Scotland and it’s rare to have sun, for a month before we got married it was roasting hot. The week of the wedding it was torrential rain. So our photos weren’t fully what we wanted

  • @lagoonlover10
    @lagoonlover10 Місяць тому +2

    My husband and I didn’t have a dance floor and didn’t want to do dances at all. 😂 we did a lot of unconventional things at our wedding XD

  • @paranormalinvestigation
    @paranormalinvestigation Місяць тому +2

    I was married in 1987 and I was so excited to marry my best friend..❤

  • @kimmystar88
    @kimmystar88 Місяць тому +2

    My husband and I have just celebrated our first year anniversary. We've been together for 11 years and engaged for 4 years.
    We planned our wedding in 4 weeks, due to my Dad's health. We only found out 3 days beforehand that it was definitely going ahead. We had to get permission from the Archbishop due to the church being out of our local area. My sister and I also had our children christened after our ceremony. It was a lovely, family day!

  • @shreyadave2411
    @shreyadave2411 5 днів тому

    Make up thing is so relatable 💯💯💯 I would also like natural makeup than too much for sure

  • @maliasmith3927
    @maliasmith3927 Місяць тому

    I love you guys! Watching for years. I’m glad your memebers of Jesus Christs church. I am too💕💞 such a special gift.

  • @jennyhill1287
    @jennyhill1287 Місяць тому +7

    Jesus Christ is The Way The Truth and The Life. God is so good, he delivered me from drugs and alcohol & after i was clean for 2 years. Im 37 and my whole life I was always told i couldnt have kids. My Jesus made that happen. I had a little girl in November of 2022. Im not judging anyones religion. But, following Jesus has been the best decision i have ever made. I worry about nothing anymore. God loves you so much. He will make sure his children are always taking care of. PRAISE JESUS 🙌🙏

    • @user-gc7pg2yk2d
      @user-gc7pg2yk2d Місяць тому +2

      Thank you for your testimony. I agree with you 100%, so happy you are blessed with your new life and baby🥰

  • @georgiegilmore1472
    @georgiegilmore1472 Місяць тому +1

    Lo, where are you trousers from?! they are gorgeous!

  • @thehadleyhouse33
    @thehadleyhouse33 Місяць тому +27

    I hope you understand how culty and crazy lds sounds when you say it out loud. Everyone is worthy.

    • @discopuma
      @discopuma Місяць тому +7

      you said this so nicely, I said it sounds like their church sucks.

    • @ambermiller3845
      @ambermiller3845 Місяць тому +6

      @@discopuma Yes!!! I don’t want to come on their post and be ugly…but the LDS is crazy….

    • @bestdaysahead921
      @bestdaysahead921 Місяць тому +7

      absolutely crazy.. the fact her dad couldn’t come in the temple .. how bizarre 🤯 that’s not right.

    • @lilleoelle
      @lilleoelle Місяць тому +8

      Yes, the temple and “not worthy” stuff made me sad, that is so not the heart of Jesus!

    • @Adanyamazz
      @Adanyamazz Місяць тому +9

      When Jesus died on the cross the temple curtains were TORN. Giving us all access to God through Jesus dying on the cross for us. His sacrifice justifies us. Not our works. Truly not the heart of Christ to exclude someone from coming into a temple. So sad.

  • @bleu8134
    @bleu8134 15 днів тому

    Would have liked to have seen both of you in your wedding dresses!!

  • @hfrisch007
    @hfrisch007 Місяць тому +2

    You need to have some bandaids and some kind of pain reliever of some kind and tissues, every where you go plus some life savers or suckers cough drops . It's a must. If you don't have them You'll need them.❤

  • @DeadKisses
    @DeadKisses 24 дні тому +1

    U literally described my purse..!!

  • @meaganbarberry1240
    @meaganbarberry1240 Місяць тому +4

    Do you think it’s important to explain that your clothing choices don’t represent what is expected in most wards? I think transparency is important, and wouldn’t want people to think this is the norm in LDS communities. 😊

  • @angelasanford8814
    @angelasanford8814 Місяць тому +1

    I really think you guys should do a vowel renewal together… Maybe in Hawaii ❤️ love the podcast and all your other content 😊

    • @gram5963
      @gram5963 Місяць тому +2

      And they could say “A, E, I, O, U!”

    • @kylas4969
      @kylas4969 29 днів тому +2

      Omg I’m dying it this reply ⬆️ 🤣😂🤣. A vowel renewal 😂😂😂😂

    • @gram5963
      @gram5963 29 днів тому

      @@kylas4969 do you think that the renewal would be some random in the back yelling out “AND SOMETIMES ‘Y’!”? 🤔

  • @lutvankerckhoven7148
    @lutvankerckhoven7148 Місяць тому +11

    I really used to enjoy your clips separately but you keep talking over each other and that continues giggling..just a hint maybe its just me ?

    • @user-lk1wv1ts6p
      @user-lk1wv1ts6p Місяць тому +4

      Yeah too much talking over each other for sure

    • @lisae3663
      @lisae3663 Місяць тому

      It was really bad at beginning of this podcast, I had to pause & come back later to finish.

    • @TheChesireKat
      @TheChesireKat Місяць тому +1

      yes!!! too much giggling and talking over each other!!

  • @user-xg8hq1fc1c
    @user-xg8hq1fc1c 6 днів тому

    It would be awesome if you guys could post pics of stuff you are talking about as a reference...like the wedding makeup, dresses, etc

  • @janicaribeiro6350
    @janicaribeiro6350 Місяць тому +8

    I don’t mean to be disrespectful, but how cruel that you have to be deemed worthy to enter a temple , and that your worth is associated with people being a virgin/ or a believer .

    • @jenc3259
      @jenc3259 Місяць тому +4

      Cult think. It's gross.

    • @utuberhoda
      @utuberhoda Місяць тому +3

      It’s not disrespectful to point out that something is inherently stupid.

  • @chelcysmobilehomeliving
    @chelcysmobilehomeliving Місяць тому +2

    Wow! Lo, your mom does look like Bette Midler! That's so wild

  • @pamelasekula5424
    @pamelasekula5424 10 днів тому

    A whole "ARRAY!"

  • @NeuroTherapeutics
    @NeuroTherapeutics Місяць тому +2

    The person doing my makeup, painted my fingernails, I didn't normally paint my nails, it just didn't feel like myself, last minute I was rushing ...to take it off

  • @charloletti
    @charloletti Місяць тому +5

    Would love to hear more about Mormon/Utah culture, some things you guys and other family vloggers do are wild to me because I'm not from Utah but would be interesting for us outside the culture to understand it

    • @paytonhaws
      @paytonhaws Місяць тому +1

      My UA-cam channel is all about my experiences as a Utah mom in the Mormon church & then leaving 🥰

    • @charloletti
      @charloletti Місяць тому

      ​@@paytonhaws I will definitely check your channel out. I have so much respect for you for leaving. I'm fascinated by the connection between child exploitation online and the Utah Mormon community. I was wondering if children's rights are viewed differently in that community?

    • @shmuberthadouken
      @shmuberthadouken День тому

      @@charlolettiwhat do you mean about childrens rights in the religion? Im not trying to be rude or anything i just dont understand your question

  • @makedabrown215
    @makedabrown215 15 днів тому

    😂😂you know…you’d think Lo is the adventurous 1 but Sarah we see you 😂

  • @kellyrose4228
    @kellyrose4228 Місяць тому +1

    Lo! Where’s the denim shirt from?!

  • @cuteprincess441
    @cuteprincess441 Місяць тому +9

    Imagine not having your own parents at your wedding?! What a wild cult.

  • @briebrockk
    @briebrockk Місяць тому

    You're supposed to meet with your makeup artist a month before the wedding and get your glam done so you can sign off on it before the big day. I'm surprised she didn't do that for you Sar

  • @elenas5946
    @elenas5946 Місяць тому +4

    As a 21 year old... Getting married at 19 sounds crazy, even worse while not having money saved up! I've been with my bf for almost 5 years and there's no way we'll get married in the next few years! But it was interesting to hear your perspective on getting married so young :)

  • @ToriRohlfing
    @ToriRohlfing Місяць тому +1

    My sister got married at 17, two months before her 18th birthday!

  • @wendydouglas4073
    @wendydouglas4073 Місяць тому +2

    "Ring ceremony" vs being married in Temple. What does that mean? What are the differences

    • @jenc3259
      @jenc3259 Місяць тому

      Ring ceremony is for the people who the church does not recognize as worthy of temple entrance. I'd never participate in a church like that. Screams Scientology. They excommunicate too in mormonism. TK SMOOTHIES lol

  • @helenedanielsen3948
    @helenedanielsen3948 Місяць тому

    I love your pod!! It is so funny to watch and listen. I am from Norway, and do not know your whole story, maybe you can talk some about your religion? What religion are you/were you a part of when you got married? Are you still inn it?